心已入，忘却难，见与不见，念若潮。

The heart has entered, forgetting is hard; seen or unseen, thoughts flow like tides.

1. 只要你确信自己正确就去做。做了有人说不好，不做还是有人说不好，不要逃避批判。

1. Just go ahead as long as you are confident in your own correctness. Whether someone says it's bad after you've done it, or they say it's bad if you don't do it, don't evade criticism.

2. 爱，其实很简单。只要彼此真心坦诚相待，不要老提别人的坏，要常记住对方的好。这样才能将爱，完整无缺地保鲜在初恋的年代。爱，其实也很难。漫长的爱情旅程，总会有许多碰碰撞撞。尤其在这个眉飞色舞的年代，喜新厌旧是男人的特长。想保存一份完美的爱也难!关键看我们自己怎么去用心经营。早安~

2. Love, in fact, is quite simple. As long as both parties treat each other with sincerity and honesty, don't always bring up others' faults, and often remember each other's good qualities, love can be preserved in its completeness throughout the era of first love. Love, in fact, is also very difficult. The long journey of love will always have many collisions. Especially in this age of flirtatiousness, the tendency to prefer new things over old is a man's speciality. It's hard to preserve a perfect love! The key lies in how we ourselves put effort into nurturing it. Good morning~

3. 可联系上又能怎么着？我们彼此都有家庭，我很清楚的知道要有道德，有责任，不能对不起另一半，每天被折磨的心绪不宁，想忘又忘不了，最后做了个决定，长痛不如短痛，就把他留在2024吧，这样内耗下去，太影响我了！

3. What can be done even if they can be contacted? We both have families, and I clearly know that we should be moral and responsible, not to let down the other half. Every day, I'm tortured by restlessness, wanting to forget but unable to do so. In the end, I made a decision: it's better to suffer the pain for a short time than to endure the long-term suffering. So, I left him in 2024. Letting things drag on like this is too damaging to me!

4. 泪水是我想你的滋味，我寄出的心无力挽回，如果回忆是唯一的回信，我不会忘记我曾经美丽。

4. Tears are the taste of missing you, the heart I send out has no power to retrieve it, and if memories are the only reply, I won't forget how beautiful I once was.

5. 爱过了不后悔，爱走了不强求。缘来真心以对，缘去坦然面对。 最好的感情，就是找一个能够聊得来的伴。各种的话题，永远说不完；重复的语言，也不觉得厌倦。陪伴，是两情相悦的一种习惯；懂得，是两心互通的一种眷恋。

5. There's no regret in loving, no insistence on holding on to love. When fate brings love, embrace it wholeheartedly; when fate takes it away, face it calmly. The best kind of love is finding a companion with whom you can converse. There's always more to discuss on various topics; the repetition of language never feels tiresome. Accompanying each other is a habit of mutual affection; understanding is a form of longing where hearts communicate.

6. 你离去，我的天空少了一片色彩；你离去，我的世界多了一种思念。

6. Your departure left a colorless patch in my sky; your departure added a kind of longing to my world.

7. 8不会喝酒不抽烟不泡吧不蹦迪不乱跑，声甜人美爆可爱，从来没有借过网钱，更没有蚂蚁花呗让你还，内外兼修双商在线会存钱省钱不会乱花钱，专一痴情善良大方，最后，我一直在原地等你，想在你心里最优秀。

7.8 doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't smoke, doesn't hang out at bars or clubs, doesn't run amok, has a sweet voice, is beautiful, and extremely adorable. She has never borrowed money online and has never had to pay off an Ant Fortune credit line. She is well-rounded, both in appearance and character, with high intelligence and social skills, knows how to save and spend wisely, is loyal, passionate, kind, and generous. Lastly, I have been waiting for you in one place, hoping to be the best in your heart.

8. 回首性已半生，仕何如已，已矣羞拈起。幸有橘九九日大，且复外公围戏。

8. Looking back, half of my life has passed, what is there to do in officialdom? It's all over, and I'm too ashamed to pick it up again.幸亏还有橘九九日的大，还可以再玩外公的围戏。

9. 人心只一拳，别把它想得太大。盛下了是非，就盛不下正事。很多人每天忙忙碌碌，一事无成，那就是对细枝末节的琐碎关注得太多。米可果腹，沙可盖屋，但二者掺到一起，价值全无。做人纯粹点，做事才能痛快点。

9. The heart is only the size of a fist, don't overestimate it. If it's filled with right and wrong, it can't accommodate important matters. Many people are busy every day, achieving nothing, which is because they pay too much attention to trivial details. Rice can fill the stomach, and sand can be used to cover a house, but mixed together, they have no value. Be pure in your character, and you can act more resolutely in your affairs.

10. 凄凉别后两应同，最是不胜清怨月明中。——纳兰性德《虞美人》

10. After the melancholic farewell, we should be the same; the most unbearable is the clear resentment under the bright moonlight. — Nalan Xingde, "Yu Mei Ren"

11. 都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，既然如此，还是等到再老一些才进去比较划算。

11. It's often said that marriage is the grave of love. In that case, it might be more worthwhile to wait until we're older to enter it.

12. 爱是人类最美的语言，爱是一首最动感的音乐，爱的国度虽然很美，但爱陪伴女人最多的是眼泪。失去爱的女人，是可怜、是自卑、还是为了成全另一种完美散落一地的红颜，就这样消失在泪雨间,寂寞如今也成了一种美!莫道红尘几度哀怨，世事难全、恍如云烟;看淡秋月、剪断尘缘;心静如水、梦若清莲。早安~

12. Love is the most beautiful language, love is the most dynamic music. The land of love is beautiful, but the tears that accompany women the most are love's. A woman who loses love is pitiful, is self-abased, or perhaps is sacrificing for another kind of perfection, scattered like a fallen rose, thus disappearing amidst the rain of tears. Solitude has now become a kind of beauty! Do not say that the dust of the world has several times of sorrow, that the world is not perfect, as if it were a cloud of smoke; look at the autumn moon, cut off the dust of the world; the heart is as still as water, the dream as pure as a lotus. Good morning!

13. 好难好难，想为你着想一切，可是我的内心疼痛却越来越多，而我知道如果再增加此痛，我内心会麻木而失去我们的感情，也许我再也不想撑下去而逃避爱你

13. It's so hard, thinking of everything for you, but the pain in my heart is increasing more and more. And I know that if I add more pain, my heart will become numb and lose our feelings. Perhaps I will no longer want to hold on and escape from loving you.

14. 你改变不了已经发生的，所以不要浪费时间想那么多了。前进，放手，忘了它，就这么回事。

14. You can't change what has already happened, so don't waste time thinking about it too much. Move on, let go, forget about it, that's all there is to it.

15. 26人生有路可回，因为我一直在原地等你，也可以回到最初，因为我愿为你变成你希望的样子。

15. There is a path back in life because I have been waiting for you right here all along, and I can also return to the beginning because I am willing to become the person you wish me to be.

16. 城是城非，年来年去，万八万能见，半痴半了，更痴几计孙计。

16. Whether it is a city or not, year after year, one can see all sorts of things; half-mad and half-enlightened, even more so with schemes for grandsons and granddaughters.

17. 9其实每次老妈和我聊天问起你有没有男朋友的时候，我知道那不是在怀疑你，而是也忘不了你！傻瓜，玩累了记住还有我！我一直在等你，记住我一直在原地等你！

17. 9 Actually, every time my mom and I chat and asks if you have a boyfriend, I know that's not a suspicion of you, but also can't forget you! Dummy, remember that there's still me when you get tired of playing! I've been waiting for you all this time, remember that I've been waiting for you right here!

18. 两情若是久长时，又岂在朝朝暮暮。——秦观《鹊桥仙》

18. If love is meant to last forever, why should it only matter in the morning and evening? — Qin Guan, "The Magic of the Magpie Bridge"

19. 生活，总会有无尽的麻烦，请不要无奈，因为梦还在，路还在，阳光还在，家人还在，朋友还在，你还在。

19. Life is always full of endless troubles, please don't feel despair because the dreams are still there, the path is still there, the sunshine is still there, the family is still there, friends are still there, and you are still there.

20. 很多时候，不经意知道一些事后，表面装得无所谓，用微笑去掩饰，其实心里比什么都疼。

20. Many times, after accidentally knowing some things, we pretend to be indifferent on the surface, using smiles to cover it up, but in fact, our hearts are hurting more than anything else.

21. 和谐琴瑟结同心， 连理树、难分两处。 柔肠百结， 佳期已许， 银汉何时可渡？ 但得比翼竞飞时， 便羡煞，鸳鸯无数！ 《蝶恋花》 晏几道（宋） 梦入江南烟水路， 行尽江南不与离人遇。

21. Harmonious zither strings tie together in unity, the intertwined trees cannot be separated into two places. The tender intestines are tightly knotted, the good time has been promised, when can the Milky Way be crossed? Just when the wings are flapping together, I envy countless mandarins and swans! 《Butterfly Love Flower》 by Yan Jidao (Song Dynasty) Dreaming into the Jiangnan misty water road, having walked through all of Jiangnan, I still don't meet the person I am leaving.

22. 多一分快怡，少一分忧伤;多一分真实，少一分虚伪;多一分悠闲，少一分忙乱。这四多四少很重要，有了它们就活得心情舒畅。完全可以自主地安排好生活，善待自己，这样便会内心富饶。

22. An extra bit of joy brings a little less sorrow; an extra dose of authenticity, a little less of deceit; an extra slice of leisure, a little less of hustle and bustle. These four more and four less are very important; with them, one lives with a light heart. It is perfectly possible to arrange one's life independently, to be kind to oneself, and thus become internally abundant.

23. 白居易 浪淘沙词 借问江潮与海水 何似君情与妾心 相恨不如潮有信 相思始觉海非深我的补充 2010-11-

23. Bai Juyi, "Langtaosha Poem" - Ask the river tide and the sea, how are they like your feelings and mine? Our resentment is not as reliable as the tide, and our longing makes us realize that the sea is not as deep as we thought. (My supplement) 2010-11-

24. 30你会不会有一天回头，然后发现我并没有走远，发现我一直在原地等你。

24. 30 Will you ever turn back one day and find that I haven't gone far, that I have been waiting for you right here all along?

25. 人生自是有情痴，此恨不关风与月。——《玉楼春》

25. Life itself is filled with emotional foolishness, this regret has nothing to do with the wind and the moon. — From "Yu Lou Chun"

26. 4真正放下一个人，听伤心的歌会哭，拿起手机，也不知道做什么，饿到胃痛了，才想起没吃，曾经自己的选择，现在也还是自己的选择，幸福也好，劳累也好，都是自己选的，没有人会在原地等你，说，丽萍，你如果知道错了，就回来，我一直在等着你。

26. 4 Truly letting go of someone, listening to sad songs and crying, picking up the phone and not knowing what to do, feeling so hungry that your stomach aches, only then do you remember that you haven't eaten. The choices you made in the past are still your choices now, whether it's happiness or exhaustion, they are all choices you made. No one will wait for you in place, saying, "Liping, if you realize you're wrong, come back, I have been waiting for you."

27. 女人最幸福的时刻，就是嫁对了老公，他纵容着你的习惯，爱着你的一切;女人最幸福的时刻，就是朋友的真心相对，快乐开导，真诚帮助，在你最无助时，伸出温暖的手;女人最幸福的时刻，就是无论长多么大，在父母那里，依然是孩子，陶醉在父母为你准备的一切，安心地享受着他的唠唠叨叨!早安~

27. The happiest moment for a woman is when she has married the right husband, who indulges in your habits and loves every aspect of you; the happiest moment for a woman is when her friends are genuinely sincere, cheerful and supportive, reaching out with a warm hand when you are most helpless; the happiest moment for a woman is when, regardless of how old she is, she remains a child to her parents, immersed in everything her parents have prepared for her, comfortably enjoying their nagging! Good morning!

28. 生活本不是一马平川，一点挫折烦什么，顺其自然吧，何苦跟自己置气，学会控制自己的情绪，谁都不欠你，所以你没有道理跟别人随便发脾气，耍性子，从今天起请为了自己骄傲的活着吧!

29. 两个人在一起久了，就象左手和右手，即使不再相爱也会选择相守，因为放弃这么多年的时光需要很大的勇气。也许生命中会出现你爱的人，但那终归是过客，你还是会牵着你的左手或者右手一直走下去。执子之手，与子谐老。当初是誓言，后来是责任，再后来是习惯。

28. Life is not always smooth sailing, what's the big deal about a bit of挫折? Just go with the flow, why should you be so hard on yourself? Learn to control your emotions. No one owes you anything, so you have no right to lose your temper with others or act capriciously. From today on, please live proudly for yourself! 29. When two people have been together for a long time, they are like left and right hands; even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to stay together because giving up so many years of time requires great courage. Perhaps there will be someone you love in your life, but they will ultimately be just a passerby, and you will still hold your left or right hand and continue walking together. Holding hands, growing old together. Initially, it was a vow, then it became a responsibility, and later, it became a habit.

30. 24我一直在这里等你的消息永远不说放弃，跨越时间一起飞行，跨越时间我在原地。

30. 24 I have always been here waiting for your news, never giving up. Flying across time together, while I remain in place.

31. 此情可待成追忆，只是当时已惘然。——李商隐《锦瑟》

31. This feeling can only be cherished as a memory, but at the time, I was already lost in thought. — Li Shangyin, "Jin She" (The Brocade Lute)

32. 知足者身贫而心富，贪得者身富而心贫。不是常说知足常乐吗乐什么，就是乐我们的心富，虽没有多少财产，收入也没有在职的高，但我们心无牵挂。人是有思想的，思想富有才是真正的富有。

32. The contented are poor in body but rich in spirit, while the greedy are rich in body but poor in spirit. Isn't it often said that being content is the source of joy? The joy it refers to is the richness of our spirit. Even though we may not have much property or a high income compared to those in office, our hearts are free from any burdens. Humans are beings of thought, and true wealth lies in the richness of our thoughts.

33. 曾经的时光似流水一般渐行渐远，心中的情愫却是依然，花开花落、岁月流转，风可带走残云、云可以遮蔽明月，只是，有些事再也回不去，那流年里失去的青春，逝去的爱情，再也不会回来了。

33. The past moments have flowed away like water, becoming increasingly distant, but the sentiments in the heart remain the same. With the blooming and falling of flowers, the passage of time, the wind can carry away the remnants of clouds, and clouds can obscure the bright moon. Yet, some things can never return. The youth lost in those years, the love that has passed, will never come back.

34. 人生的道路不会一帆风顺，事业的征途也充满崎岖艰险，只有奋斗，只有拼搏，才会达到成功的彼岸。

34. The path of life will not be smooth sailing, and the journey of one's career is also fraught with twists and turns and difficulties. Only through struggle and perseverance can one reach the shore of success.

35. 别那么多怀才不遇的抱怨，那说明你的能力还撑不起野心!多少好苗子都败在了眼高手低。别老羡慕人家有我行我素的资格，咱得先像傻子一样苦干，才能像疯子一样任性!

35. Stop complaining about not being recognized for your talents; that just means your abilities aren't enough to support your ambitions! How many promising individuals have failed because of their lofty ambitions and low efforts. Don't always envy others for having the资格 to do things their own way; we first need to work as diligently as a fool before we can act as recklessly as a madman!

36. 千秋万古。为留待骚人，狂歌痛饮，来访雁邱处。

36. For eternity and evermore. To leave it for the poets, to sing wildly and drink deeply, to visit the place where the wild geese gather.

37. 10回过头还能找到我，不是我一直在原地等你，而是我跟在你身后走了很久了，如果你不再回头，我们就会这样错过了，不是我没有勇气，也不是你不懂珍惜。只是我以为我和你走的是一个方向，你以为我永远都在原地。原来的你我都不在这里了。

37. Ten times back, you can still find me, but it's not because I've been waiting for you in place all this time; rather, I've been walking behind you for a long time. If you don't turn back again, we'll miss each other like this. It's not that I lack courage, nor that you don't know how to cherish. It's just that I thought we were walking in the same direction, while you thought I would always be right here. The original us are no longer here.

38. 不知道该说什么……

38. Don't know what to say...

39. 有人说，分手后没有新男朋友，感觉就像是在给前任守寡!这个要有多深的痛才能领悟得到啊!

39. Some say that not having a new boyfriend after a breakup feels like being a widow for the ex! How deep of a pain is that to comprehend!

40. 6如果你也放不下，回来吧，我一直在原地等你，我会对你一生一世，我也许以后给不到你很好很好的生活，但我能把你宠成小公主，不会让任何人伤害你。

40.6 If you can't let go either, come back. I have been waiting for you right here the whole time. I will be with you for all my life. I may not be able to provide you with a very good life in the future, but I can spoil you like a little princess and make sure no one ever hurts you.

41. 天南地北双飞客，老翅几回寒暑。 欢乐趣，离别苦。

41. A pair of flying guests from the ends of the earth, their old wings have endured several cold and hot seasons. Joy and fun, and the bitterness of parting.

42. 有的人，只剩下了一个名字，却怎么也舍不得删去；有的情，只留下了一段回忆，却无论如何也不能忘记。不敢打开回忆，只怕往事滚滚如潮；不敢重提旧情，放不下的牵挂，只有自己的心知道。只能，远远的看着，静静的守着，深深的祝福着。也许，这就是缘分最好的结局，彼此爱过疼过，怨过伤过，一切又回到了陌生，却再也抹不去来过的痕迹。

42. There are some people, who only have a name left, yet they can't bear to delete it; some feelings, which only leave a memory, yet they can't forget them no matter what. I dare not open the memory, fearing the past surges like a wave; I dare not bring up the old feelings, the weight I can't let go of, only my heart knows. I can only watch from afar, guard silently, and bless deeply. Perhaps, this is the best ending of fate, having loved and suffered, complained and been hurt, everything returns to the unfamiliar, yet the traces of having come can never be erased.

43. 朝着太阳生长，做一个温暖的人，不卑不亢，清澈生活。

43. Grow towards the sun, be a warm-hearted person, modest but not servile, live a clear life.

44. 时间，渐渐带走了年少轻狂，也慢慢沉淀了冷暖自知。

44. Time gradually takes away the youthful recklessness and slowly settles the warmth and coldness known to oneself.

45. 重叠泪痕缄锦字，人生只有情难死。——文廷式《蝶恋

45. Overlapping tears on sealed silk characters, in life, love is the only thing that cannot die. — Wen Tingxi, "Butterfly Love"

46. 昔日戏言身后意，今朝都到眼前来。 衣裳已施行看尽，针线犹存未忍开。

46. Once in jest I spoke of what would come after, now all comes to pass before my eyes. The clothes I wore have been worn out and seen through, yet the needle and thread still linger, unopened, in my hands.

47. 其实，人一直在为能静下来而努力，因为静下来了人，才是幸福的人。

47. In fact, people have been striving to settle down because it is only when one can settle down that one can be truly happy.

48. 花自飘零水自流，一种相思，两处闲愁。——《一剪梅》

48. Flowers fall freely and water flows on its own, a kind of longing, sorrow in two places. —— "Yi Jian Mei"

49. 人们常常想用发现别人的缺点来表现自己，但他们用这种方式表明的只是他们的无能。

49. People often try to show off by pointing out others' shortcomings, but what they actually demonstrate through this method is their own incompetence.

50. 你害怕发生的事情，其实根本不用担心，因为它一定会如期而至，也一定会如期离去。

50. The things you fear will happen are actually nothing to worry about, for they will definitely arrive on time and leave on time as well.

51. 不是别人使你烦恼，而是你拿别人的言行来烦恼自己。常以为别人在注意你，或希望别人注意你的人，会生活的比较烦恼。

51. It's not that others are bothering you, but rather you are using their words and actions to bother yourself. Those who often think that others are paying attention to them, or those who hope others will pay attention to them, tend to live with more烦恼.

52. 人到情多情转薄，而今真个不多情。——纳兰性德《摊破浣溪沙》

52. As people grow older, their affection diminishes; now I truly have little emotion left. —— Nalan Xingde, "Tang Po Huanyi Sha"

53. 见与不见，思念一直在；爱与不爱，心一直在。

53. Whether seen or unseen, the yearning remains; whether loved or not, the heart stays the same.

54. 指上的光阴，静默不语，心上的阳光，与爱同在;流年，安之若素;记忆，温暖而绵长。若人生是一场旅行，那么无论繁华与落寂，都是过眼烟云，留下的是看风景的心情。有一种失落，不能说，只能靠感受;有一种悲凉，不能说，只能靠敛藏;有一种喜欢，只能靠欺骗来隐瞒;有一种心痛，叫做爱不能语。

54. The time on the fingers is silent, while the sunshine in the heart is with love; the passing years are as serene as ever; memories are warm and enduring. If life is a journey, then whether it is prosperity or desolation, it is all ephemeral, leaving behind only the mood of appreciating the scenery. There is a kind of loss that cannot be expressed, only felt; there is a kind of melancholy that cannot be expressed, only concealed; there is a kind of liking that can only be hidden through deception; there is a kind of heartache called 'love that cannot be expressed.'

55. 雨若停了，溪水怎么流？你若走了，爱情怎么求？水若没了，鱼儿怎么游？情若没了，我能怎么走？

55. If the rain stops, how does the stream flow? If you leave, how can I seek love? If the water is gone, how can the fish swim? If love is gone, how can I go on?

56. 我曾无数次的告诫自己，把这个人留在2024，不要再让他打扰我的生活，不让他再影响我的心情，这一年，因为他，我曾无数次的失眠，曾无数次夜里泪水打湿了枕巾，无数次难熬的晚上，脑子里都是他的影子，他已经严重的影响了我的生活，我终于下定决心把他彻底留在2024，

56. I have countless times warned myself to leave this person in 2024, not to let him disturb my life anymore, not to let him affect my mood any longer. This year, because of him, I have countless times suffered from insomnia, countless times my tears wet the pillowcase at night, countless difficult nights where his shadow haunted my mind. He has seriously impacted my life, and finally, I have made up my mind to leave him completely behind in 2024.

57. 就中更有痴儿女。 君应有语。

57. Among them are the most foolish of young lovers. You should have something to say about that.

58. 21之前还在原地傻傻的等你，以为你会回来找我。可是，看到你和她在一起，才知道我一直在浪费时间而已。

58. Before 21, I was foolishly waiting in place, thinking you would come back to me. But, seeing you with her, I realized that I had been wasting my time all along.

59. 忘不掉又怎么样？我还是可以不在乎，还是可以活得没心没肺，还是可以不用看不用听不用想不去触及你的一切。

59. What if I can't forget? I can still choose not to care, I can still live with a carefree attitude, I can still not see, not hear, not think, and not touch anything about you.

60. 他是我的初恋，后来由于种种原因，我们分手了，从那以后，为了忘记他，我们从来没有联系过，虽然在一个村，虽然在一条街上，我们心照不宣的，从来没有找过彼此，也没有相互的联系方式，更没有遇到过，可能是双方都躲避着彼此，我也尽量不去他家的方向，即使非得去那个方向，我也会绕过他家！

60. He was my first love, and later due to various reasons, we parted ways. Ever since then, to forget him, we have never been in touch, though we are in the same village and even on the same street. We have never sought each other out or had any means of contact with one another; nor have we ever run into each other. It could be that both of us were avoiding each other, and I have also tried my best to not go in the direction of his house. Even when I have to go in that direction, I would take a detour around his place!

61. 我知道这需要一个过程，需要慢慢忘记，可就在今年过年的时候，我们却又不期而遇了！

61. I know that it requires a process and needs to be forgotten slowly, but just this year when we were celebrating the New Year, we unexpectedly ran into each other again!

62. 13我期望有那么一天你会来找我！我从来就没有走我一直在原地等你！

62. 13 I hope that one day you will come to find me! I have never left; I have been waiting for you right here all along!