在浩瀚的智慧星空中，中华民族的智慧之光独树一帜。它以“适度善养，自我超越，保持低调”为座右铭，历经千年，仍熠熠生辉。本文将带领您走进这片智慧的海洋，一窥其中奥秘。

In the vast expanse of the celestial ocean of wisdom, the light of Chinese wisdom shines uniquely. Guided by the motto of "moderate cultivation, self-transcendence, and maintaining modesty," it has shone brightly for thousands of years. This article will take you on a journey into this ocean of wisdom, to uncover its mysteries.

1. 26我们要走的路很长，过程很艰辛，于是我们学会了圆滑，学会了逃避，很多人在仓皇奔跑之中，把梦想弄丢了，只捡到了平凡、平淡、平庸。梦想是不能丢的，你决心走哪条路，想成为哪种人，坚守的时间越长，你才能走得越远。

1. 26 The road we have to walk is long, and the process is arduous. Therefore, we have learned to be smooth, to evade, and many people, in their panic to run, have lost their dreams, picking up only the ordinary, mundane, and mediocrity. Dreams cannot be lost. The longer you decide to stick to a path and aspire to become a certain kind of person, the farther you can go.

2. 自己，才是自己最大的靠山。

2. Yourself is the strongest support for yourself.

3. 轻狂自负是心智低下结出的青涩果实，而锋芒不露，是过人智慧垂下的饱满麦穗。

3. Arrogance and conceit are the unripe fruits of low intelligence, while not showing off one's sharpness is the full sheaf of wheat hanging from the overabundance of wisdom.

4. 有没有人爱，我们都要努力做一个可爱的人。不埋怨谁，不嘲笑谁，也不羡慕谁，阳光灿烂下，风雨中奔跑，做自己的梦，走自己的路。

4. Whether or not someone loves us, we should strive to be an adorable person. We don't complain about anyone, mock anyone, or envy anyone. Under the shining sun and running in the wind and rain, we pursue our own dreams and walk our own path.

5. 真正聪明的人都懂得，低调做人，是一种谋略，更是一种做人的智慧。

5. Truly intelligent people understand that being modest in demeanor is not only a strategy but also a form of wisdom in dealing with people.

6. 时间是一笔贷款，即使是一个诚实的还贷者也无法还清。

6. Time is a loan that even an honest borrower can never repay.

7. 你要记得那些大雨中为你撑伞的人，黑暗中默默抱紧你的人，逗你笑的人，陪你彻夜聊天的人，坐车来看望你的人，在医院陪你的人，陪你哭过的人，总是以你为重的人。是这些人组成你生命中一点一滴的温暖，是这些温暖使你成为善良的人。

7. Remember those who held an umbrella over you in the heavy rain, who silently held you close in the darkness, who made you laugh, who chatted with you all night, who visited you by car, who stayed with you in the hospital, who cried with you, and who always put you first. It is these people who make up the warmth in every little bit of your life, and it is this warmth that makes you kind-hearted.

8. 9没有人能免得了孤独，与其逃避它不如去面对它。孤独并不是一件那么糟糕的事，与嘈杂相比，孤独显得是那么的安静，那么的自得。一个人的世界，才是真正属于自己的世界。生活需要游戏，但不能游戏人生;生活需要歌舞，但不需醉生梦死;生活需要艺术，但不能投机取巧。

8.9 No one can escape loneliness; it is better to face it rather than avoid it. Loneliness is not such a bad thing; compared to noise, it seems so quiet, so content. A person's world is truly their own world. Life needs games, but not to play life away; life needs music and dance, but not to be lost in a dreamlike state; life needs art, but not to be cunning in its pursuit.

9. 在一个高档小区门口，有一个长期乞讨的乞丐。商人每次出门遇到，都会给他十元钱。后来商人生意失败，经济捉襟见肘，就改为每次给他五元。乞丐脸色越来越难看，有一天终于忍不住，质问商人为何克扣他五元钱。

9. In front of an upscale residential complex, there was a beggar who had been panhandling there for a long time. The businessman would give him ten yuan every time he encountered him. Later, when the businessman's business failed and he was in financial straits, he started giving him only five yuan each time. The beggar's expression grew increasingly unpleasant, and one day he couldn't hold back any longer, confronting the businessman and questioning why he was cutting his money by five yuan.

10. 无论你现在做的决定有多么正确，无论你过去有多少愚蠢的往事多年以后，你想起今天的这些决定和过去的那些往事，都会有羞愧和后悔，而无关对错。但是：人生何处不糟糕，哪段回忆不无聊。

10. No matter how right the decisions you make now are, or how many foolish past experiences you have, years later, when you recall these decisions and those past events, you will feel shame and regret, regardless of whether they were right or wrong. However: where in life is not bad, and what memory is not boring?

11. 12我等你，因为我不想逃避我的心;我等你，因为我舍不得放下你;我等你，因为有我们的回忆;我等你，因为我相信你没有骗我;我等你，等到你身边有了个她。

11. 12 I wait for you because I don't want to avoid my own heart; I wait for you because I can't bear to let you go; I wait for you because of our memories; I wait for you because I believe you haven't deceived me; I wait for you until there is someone else beside you.

12. 生活最大的苦恼，不是拥有的太少，而是想要的太多。人的欲望是永无止境的，欲望太盛，就会造成种种痛苦和不幸;欲望越小，人生就越幸福。所以，要追求人生的幸福，就要保持一颗平常心，淡泊明志，于利不趋，于色不近，于失不馁，于得不骄，达亦不足贵，穷亦不足悲，永远不做欲望的奴隶。

12. The greatest sorrow of life is not having too little, but wanting too much. Human desires are limitless, and when desires are too strong, they can lead to various kinds of suffering and misfortune; the smaller the desires, the happier life is. Therefore, to pursue happiness in life, one must maintain a tranquil heart, be indifferent to desires, not chase after gains, not indulge in desires, not be defeated by losses, not be proud of gains, not consider wealth as a treasure, and not grieve over poverty. One should never become a slave to one's desires.

13. 23人生就像是新闻联播，不是换台就可以逃避的。我们必须接受失望，人的一生，总是难免有浮沉。不会永远如旭日东升，也不会永远痛苦潦倒。淡看人间事，潇洒天地间。再幸福的人生也有缺憾，再凄凉的人生都有幸福。

13. Life is like the evening news, you can't just change the channel to escape it. We must accept disappointment, for in one's life, ups and downs are inevitable. It will not always rise like the sun in the east, nor will it always be in pain and destitution. Take a relaxed view of human affairs, and be carefree in the world. Even the happiest life has its shortcomings, and even the most desolate life has its moments of happiness.

14. 有智慧的人都明白，高调做事，是他们能力的一种展示，也是处事的一种态度。

14. All wise people understand that doing things in a high-profile manner is a display of their abilities and also a way of dealing with affairs.

15. 学习就像一场拔河比赛，只要用坚持，就能获得胜利。

和 15. Learning is like a tug-of-war competition, as long as you persist, you can achieve victory.

16. 28无论什么时候也不能舍弃爱，逃避去爱，那是你人生的真谛啊。我不丑陋，我永远都不丑陋。我现在正在向我期待的生活慢慢靠近，虽然还是有寂寞，空无，很居多冗杂的情绪和思维的干扰，但我不丑陋，我有信仰的生活和生命形式，每一步的前进都是迈着花径的，都是在绿色的护航之下。

16. No matter when, you cannot forsake love, nor evade the act of loving, for that is the essence of your life. I am not ugly, I will never be ugly. I am gradually moving towards the life I anticipate, though there is still loneliness, emptiness, a lot of redundant emotions and disturbances from thoughts. But I am not ugly; I have a life and a form of existence filled with faith, and every step forward is taking a path adorned with flowers, under the guidance of greenery.

17. 弗洛伊德说：“任何关系，我们都要敢于用愤怒守住自己的边界，人没有愤怒，就像一个国家没有武装。”

17. Freud said, "In any relationship, we must dare to use anger to maintain our boundaries; a person without anger is like a country without arms."

18. 19逃避不一定躲得过，面对不一定最难受;孤单不一定不快乐，得到不一定能长久;失去不一定不再有，转身不一定最软弱;别急着说别无选择，以为世上只有对与错;许多事情的答案都不是只有一个，所以我们永远有路可以走!

18. 19. Not running away is not always a guarantee of avoiding it, and facing it is not always the most painful; loneliness is not necessarily not happy, and gaining something is not always long-lasting; losing something is not necessarily a permanent absence, and turning back is not necessarily the weakest; don't rush to say there are no other choices, as if the world is only about right and wrong; the answers to many things are not always one-sided, so we always have a path to walk!

19. 放下,不是放弃,不是放弃追求理想,而是让人以豁达的心态去面对生活,当出现烦恼的时候,记得清空自己的思想,事情要有转机,拥有好的心态很重要。旧的不去，新的不来。缘，是因果，因果是圆。别得意，得意是恶，终得恶果;别失落，失落是伤，伤者难圆。淡然于心，一切随缘，顺其自然即是圆满。

19. To let go is not to give up, not to give up the pursuit of ideals, but to encourage a generous attitude towards life. When troubles arise, remember to empty your thoughts, for there is a turning point in things, and maintaining a good mindset is very important. The old must go before the new can come. Destiny is the cause and effect, and cause and effect form a cycle. Do not be too pleased, for overconfidence is evil, and it will lead to evil consequences; do not be too despondent, for despondency is hurt, and it is difficult to find a solution. Stay calm in your heart, let everything come with destiny, and going with the flow is the true fulfillment.

20. 1生命的过程，我们都不是一个旁观者，可以逃避，可以悠闲。而是，应该以一个主宰者的姿态，在生命的旅程上打造属于自己的风景。很多时候，人们对于生活，有着过多的纠结。纠结于情感，纠结于琐事。

21. 2有些事不堪回首，但请不要逃避。有人尖刻的嘲讽你，你马上尖酸的回敬他。有人毫无理由的看不起你，你马上轻蔑的鄙视他。有人在你面前大肆炫耀，你马上加倍证明你更厉害。有人对你冷漠，你马上对他冷淡疏远。看，你讨厌的那些人，轻易就把你变成你自己最讨厌的那种样子。这才是敌人对你最大的伤害。

20. 1 In the process of life, none of us is a mere spectator, someone who can escape or indulge in leisure. Instead, we should assume the posture of a ruler and craft our own scenery in the journey of life. Often, people are overly entangled with life, caught up in emotions and trivial matters. 21. 2 There are some things that are not worth recalling, but please do not evade them. If someone sarcastically mocks you, you immediately respond with sarcasm. If someone looks down on you without reason, you quickly disdainfully belittle them. If someone boasts excessively in your presence, you immediately double down to prove that you are more skilled. If someone is cold to you, you immediately become distant and indifferent to them. Look, those people you dislike can easily turn you into the kind of person you detest the most. This is the greatest harm the enemy can inflict on you.

22. 请保持善良，但不要滥用善良，因为你的善良，很贵。

22. Keep kind, but do not abuse kindness, for your kindness is very precious.

23. 这段情很美，这段伤好痛，也许离开是最好的选择！在真爱路上，很多睿智的人都在做着同一件傻事，是痴、是傻，真的说也说不清楚！

23. This love is beautiful, this hurt is so painful, maybe leaving is the best choice! On the path of true love, many wise people are doing the same foolish thing. Whether it's foolishness or stupidity, it's really hard to put into words!

24. 我说，无论何地、何种生活、都是你妆点了别人的梦。在梦里，你是否也会驾叶偏舟，游荡在自己的心海？浪迹了天涯、悠扬了钟声，可叹年年岁岁花相似、岁岁年年人不同。

24. I said, wherever you are and whatever life you lead, you are the one who adorns others' dreams. In dreams, do you also set sail in a small boat, drifting in the sea of your own heart? Having roamed to the ends of the earth and echoed the chimes, it is truly regrettable that year after year, flowers are the same, but people are not.

25. 其实有时候，走过的路，不回头看是不知道自我前一步走对了还是走错了，有时候不怀念是不知道珍惜的。

25. Actually, sometimes, without looking back at the path we've taken, we're not aware if the next step we took was right or wrong. Sometimes, without yearning for the past, we don't realize how precious it is.

26. 人在旅途，有许多事情，身不由己；有许多遇见，念念不忘。梦在天边，梦在眼前，寻梦，瀚海扬帆；追风，品一种悠然。

26. While on a journey, there are many things that one cannot control; there are many encounters that one will never forget. Dreams are at the horizon, dreams are right before our eyes, pursuing dreams, setting sail on the vast sea; chasing the wind, savoring a sense of ease.

27. 人累了，就休息;心累了，就淡定;箭弦张弛有度，才能保证最佳的状态;找个适合自己的方式，梳理心情。看温暖心灵的美文、静静聆听自然的声音、与朋友聊聊天、找个无人打扰的空间大声叫喊把郁闷抒发出来,让美好的事物浸润滋养你的内心。

27. When you're tired, take a rest; when your heart is weary, remain calm; the bowstring must be tensioned and relaxed with moderation to ensure the best state; find a way that suits you to sort out your emotions. Read heartwarming articles, listen quietly to the sounds of nature, chat with friends, find a space undisturbed by others and shout out to vent your frustrations, allowing beautiful things to浸润 and nurture your inner being.

28. 感谢与你相遇，感谢这段特殊的感情经历，哪怕是流着眼泪，也感觉是一件幸福的事！

28. Thank you for our encounter, and thank you for this special emotional journey. Even though I was shedding tears, it felt like a happy thing!

29. 今夜，将一枚思念轻轻的放于时光窗前，瞬间，思念的味道轻轻弥漫，那一刻，满树繁花见证了彼此的心暖。从此，岁月铭记了一场盛世花开的倾心眷恋。

29. Tonight, gently place a thought before the window of time. Instantly, the taste of longing gently permeates the air, and in that moment, the full bloom of flowers witnesses the warmth of each other's hearts. From then on, the years will remember a heartfelt love for a magnificent blooming of flowers.

30. 执着是一种负担,甚至是一种苦楚,计较的太多就成了一种羁绊,迷失的太久便成了一种痛苦。放下是一种胸怀,是一种成熟,是对自我内心的一种自信和把握。一切是圆，一切随缘。天圆，地圆，万物循环往复，万事因果相连。一切皆非莫名，起点即是终点，终点是新的起点。没有当初的起点，何来今日的终点。

30. Perseverance is a burden, even a kind of bitterness; when one worries too much, it becomes an obstacle, and when one is lost for too long, it becomes a pain. Letting go is a virtue, a sign of maturity, and a confidence and grasp of one's inner self. Everything is round, and everything is subject to chance. The sky is round, the earth is round, and all things are in a cycle, with causes and effects interconnected. Nothing is without reason; the starting point is the endpoint, and the endpoint is the new starting point. Without the starting point in the past, how could there be the endpoint today?

31. 清华大学“树洞”匿名文章曾经火爆网络。一名清华贫困生，每天的生活费只有十元。餐食是馒头、稀饭、菜汤，很长时间不吃一次肉。为了节省钱，拒绝一切娱乐活动，衣服和日用品也是凑合着用。

31. The anonymous articles on Tsinghua University's "Tree Hole" were once popular on the internet. A poor student at Tsinghua University had only ten yuan for daily expenses. His meals consisted of steamed buns, congee, and vegetable soup, and he didn't eat meat for a long time. To save money, he refused to participate in any leisure activities, and made do with his clothes and daily necessities.

32. 当你的善良受到挑衅，你要霸气怼回去。不要当心得罪人，因为别人戳破你的底线的时候，有何曾在乎过会得罪你。你把别人当朋友，别人又何尝顾及你的处境和感受。

32. When your kindness is challenged, stand up for yourself with an aura of confidence. Don't worry about offending others, because when they push the boundaries, have they ever cared about offending you? If you treat someone as a friend, then why should they take into account your situation and feelings?

33. 善良，是一个人最高级的修养。心怀善良的人，霁月光风，大爱温暖。与这样的人相处，如沐春风，如嗅香兰，让人快乐。

33. Kindness is the highest level of修养 in a person. Those who possess kindness are as serene as clear skies and bright sunshine, with great love that warms the heart. To be in the company of such people is like basking in the spring breeze, or inhaling the fragrance of sweet orchids, bringing joy to the soul.

34. 不要向任何人诉苦，因为20％的人不关心，剩下的80％听了会很高兴。摆正心态，温柔自相随，人生就是哭给自己听，笑给别人看！

34. Do not complain to anyone, because 20% of people do not care, and the remaining 80% will be happy to listen. Maintain a positive attitude, and gentleness will follow. Life is about crying for oneself and laughing for others!

35. 当感谢这份缘的时候，其实泪水已经伴随着这段情产生，泪水洗刷不掉对一个人的思念之情，这个最美丽的相遇让我们好困惑，无奈的时候，只好珍藏心里，选择优雅转身，也许这是最好的选择！

35. When we are grateful for this缘分, in fact, tears have already accompanied this relationship. The tears cannot wash away the longing for a person. This most beautiful encounter leaves us confused and helpless. At such times, we can only cherish it in our hearts and choose an elegant turn-around. Perhaps this is the best choice!

36. 20面对你，我没有逃避的余力，你的爱，让我无法逃离。痴情的相守，沧海同度，时光深处的记忆一尘不染。一转眼，青春如梦，岁月一去不曾回头。你依然是那月华如水，烟柳依依的妖娆，还在谁的梦里，悠悠浅唱似水流年的离歌

36. Facing you, I have no strength left to evade, your love has bound me so that I cannot escape. The faithful companionship, enduring the vast sea of time, the memories deep within the passage of time remain untouched. In a blink of an eye, youth is like a dream, and the years have passed without looking back. You still remain that enchanting figure, like the moonlit water and willow branches swaying gently, lingering in whose dreams, softly singing the song of the flowing years and parting.

37. 人生于世，冷暖自知，苦乐自渡，只有你，才能把自己摆渡到期盼的彼岸。

37. In this world, one knows the warmth and coldness by oneself, and bears the hardships and joys by oneself. Only you can cross over to the desired shore by yourself.

38. 三国时杨修处处卖弄自己的聪明，遭到曹操嫉恨，最终被杀害。他至死也不知道，自己只是小聪明，因为大智慧往往是不动声色的。

38. During the Three Kingdoms period, Yang Xiu constantly showed off his cleverness, which aroused the jealousy of Cao Cao, and he was eventually killed. Until his death, he didn't realize that he possessed only small cleverness, because great wisdom often manifests itself without making a sound.

39. 5每个人都会成长，这是一条必经的路，也是一条逃避不了的路。不愿成长的人，只能被现实拉扯着跌跌撞撞向前，即使遍体鳞伤、血肉模糊。没人在乎你是否痛了，他们有他们的路要走，他们很忙;也没人能够替你承受，这些都得是自己承担，无可奈何，无可避免。《成长是一条单行道》

39.5 Everyone will grow up, it is an inevitable path, and a path that cannot be avoided. Those who do not want to grow up can only be pulled forward by reality, tripping and stumbling, even if they are bruised and their flesh is torn. No one cares whether you are in pain, they have their own paths to follow, they are busy; and no one can take your burden, all of this must be borne by yourself, helplessly and unavoidably. "Growth is a one-way street."

40. 孔子说：君子藏器于身，待时而动。

40. Confucius said: "A gentleman stores his talents within himself and waits for the right moment to act."

41. 明代著名学者吕坤在《呻吟语》里说：“分明认得自家事，只管担当，直前做去。”一个人既要有明辨是非的能力，同时也要有坚定自己信念的勇气，勇往直前。

41. The famous Ming Dynasty scholar Lü Kun said in his book "Chen Yin Yu": "Once you clearly recognize your own affairs, just bear them and go forward resolutely." A person should not only have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, but also the courage to firmly hold their beliefs and move forward boldly.

42. 怀一份敬重去生活，生活从来不是得与失之间的内心漂泊，不是自我固执对人生的傲慢和成见，一个人的人生，也就是一个生命和这个社会的故事，存在于时空当中的一段光影，不必固执的认为这个社会配不上谁，生活需要善待，而不是对自我固执的掩藏，生活需要与社会友好相待，与他人甘苦与共。

42. Live with a sense of respect, for life is never a wandering between gain and loss within one's heart. It is not the self-righteousness and prejudice of one's stubbornness towards life. A person's life is also a story of a life and this society, existing as a segment of light and shadow in time and space. It is not necessary to stubbornly believe that this society does not deserve anyone. Life needs to be treated with kindness, not hidden by one's stubbornness, and life needs to be friendly with society, sharing the joys and sorrows with others.

43. 有修养的人，会把自己的才华、能力、优势隐藏起来，等待时机出现，再去展露和运用。

43. A person of breeding hides their talents, abilities, and advantages, waiting for the right opportunity to arise before showing them off and using them.

44. 心再累，也不要纵容自己的脾气；心再痛，也要许给自己一份清宁。人生，只是一条一划而过的线。我们得到的，以及错过的，都是一个个点，欣喜也罢，遗憾也好，其实都在远去或即将远去。

44. No matter how tired your heart is, do not indulge in your temper; no matter how painful it is, grant yourself a moment of tranquility. Life is just a line that passes by. The things we get and the things we miss are all points, whether they bring joy or regret, in fact, they are all receding or about to recede.

45. 不管风吹浪打，潮起潮落，只要自强不息，终能将自己摆渡上岸，遇见鸟语花香，花团锦簇。

45. Regardless of the winds and waves, the rise and fall of the tides, as long as one persists in self-improvement, one will eventually be able to cross the river and land, where one can encounter the songs of birds and the fragrance of flowers, surrounded by a colorful array of blossoms.

46. 朋友相处是一种相互认可，相互仰慕，相互欣赏、相互感知的过程。在风风雨雨的人生路上彼此相遇、相知、相扶、相契、相伴、相佐、相助、相思、相辉，请珍爱你身边不多的朋友!

46. The相处 with friends is a process of mutual recognition, admiration, appreciation, perception, where in the ups and downs of life we meet, get to know, support, unite, accompany, assist, help, think of, and shine together. Please cherish the few friends around you!

47. 努力惜缘吧，昔日的陪伴，今天的携手，原来生生世世，只是一厢情愿；适应孤独吧，熙攘的人群，只是短暂的绚丽，陪你全程观景的，只能是自己。

47. Strive to cherish the ties, for the companionship of the past, the hand in hand of today, turns out to be just one-sided wishes from countless lifetimes; adapt to solitude, for the bustling crowds are only a fleeting brilliance, and the only one who can accompany you throughout the scenic journey is yourself.

48. 命，是失败者的借口;运，是成功者的谦词。失败者说，命不好，心里却后悔，当初没尽力;成功者说，是命好，心里却清楚，付出的代价。少一分物欲，就多一分净心;少一分占有，就多一分功德。怀有一颗平常心，平淡地看待世间的万事万物，豁达地面对人生的得失，放开欲望之手，让幸福轻松到来。

48. Fate is the excuse of the defeated; destiny is the modesty of the successful. Defeated ones say they have bad fate, but secretly regret not having given their best; successful ones say it's due to fate, but they are well aware of the cost paid. Less desire for material things, more purity of heart; less possessiveness, more merit. With a tranquil heart, calmly looking at all things in the world, facing the gains and losses of life with an open mind, releasing the hand of desire, allowing happiness to come easily.

49. 知识是从刻苦劳动中得来的，任何成就都是刻苦劳动的结果。

49. Knowledge comes from hard work, and any achievement is the result of hard work.

50. 让生命的那一叶扁舟，在年华中穿行，在时光的长河里，航行在天水风云之间，让有限的生命焕发无限的光芒，用一份彻悟的真谛，聆听年华轻吟的欢歌物语，一场岁月的洗礼，饱受风霜，历经严寒酷暑，让生命之花，永不凋谢。

50. Let the tiny boat of life sail through the years, navigating in the long river of time, amidst the fluctuations of sky, water, clouds, and winds. May the limited life shine with unlimited brilliance, using the profound truth of enlightenment, to listen to the light-hearted songs and tales of the passing years, a baptism of time, enduring the rigors of frost and wind, facing both the scorching summer and the severe winter, so that the flower of life may never wither.

51. 哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强;怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢;烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受;累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立。就这样我找到了自己，原来我很优秀，更可贵的是，世界上，只有一个我!渐渐地，我成熟了，因为没有更大的不如意，所以现在偶尔的不如意也是幸福的。

51. When I cried, no one comforted me, so I learned to be strong; when I was afraid, no one accompanied me, so I learned to be brave; when I was troubled, no one inquired, so I learned to endure; when I was tired, no one to rely on, so I learned to be self-reliant. That's how I found myself, and I realized that I was excellent. More valuable is that, in the world, there is only one me! Gradually, I matured, because there were no greater misfortunes, so now, the occasional setbacks are also a form of happiness.

52. 青年是学习智慧的时期，中年是付诸实践的时期。

52. Youth is the period of learning wisdom, while middle age is the time for putting wisdom into practice.

53. 做好当下，是人生最好的选择。人生是一个车站，进来了，出去了;昨天，是一道风景，看见了，模糊了;时间是一个过客，记住了，遗忘了;生活是一个漏斗，得到了，失去了;情谊是一桌宴席，热了，冷了;迷惘是一种态度，放纵了，收敛了;生命是一种坦然，也哭了，也笑了。

53. Making the best of the present is the best choice in life. Life is a station, where people come in and go out; yesterday is a landscape, seen clearly and then blurred; time is a passerby, remembered and then forgotten; life is a funnel, where we gain and lose; friendship is a feast, warm and then cold; confusion is an attitude, indulged and then reined in; life is a kind of composure, and it also cries and smiles.

54. 生活不乏精彩，只是有时候我们的眼睛盯着乌云不放。

54. Life is full of wonders, but sometimes our eyes are fixated on the dark clouds.

55. 29所有的怒放，都要以枯萎收场，别为了逃避不堪的结局，放弃了眩目的芬芳;曾经的牵手，都要以分离告终，别为了拒绝往后的孤寂与疼痛，辜负了当下执着的美好时光。只要路是对的，就不要害怕它的短暂还是遥远;只要付出是值得的，就无须在乎它的青春或者沧桑。就算再苦、再累、再痛，都要选择忍耐与坚强。

55. All blossoms must end with withering, do not abandon the dazzling fragrance to escape an unpleasant outcome; all handholds must conclude with separation, do not betray the present moment of steadfast beauty by rejecting the solitude and pain that lie ahead. As long as the path is right, do not fear its brevity or its distance; as long as the effort is worthwhile, there is no need to worry about its youth or its weariness. Even if it is bitter, tiring, or painful, one must choose endurance and strength.

56. 分手以后，就做回自己：爱情是两个人的事，错过了大家都有责任。一个人总要有个新的开始，别让过去把你栓在悲哀的殿堂。别说你最爱的是谁，人生还很长，谁也无法预知明天。

56. After breaking up, go back to being yourself: Love is a matter of two people, and both are responsible for the missed opportunity. One always needs a new beginning, and don't let the past chain you to the hall of sorrow. Don't say who you love the most, life is still long, and no one can predict tomorrow.

57. 11放弃其实也是一种美，它并不代表逃避，因为这只是一种选择，是另一种美丽。生命给了我们无尽的悲欢，也给了我们选择的权力。于是，安然一份放弃，固守一份超脱，不管红尘世俗生活如何变迁，不管选择的结果是错是对，我们虽逃避但也勇敢，虽伤感却也美丽。因为，生活本无常，前路更精彩!

57.11 Giving up is actually a form of beauty as well; it does not represent evasion because it is simply a choice, another kind of beauty. Life has given us endless joys and sorrows, and it has also given us the power to choose. Therefore, we can calmly accept the choice to give up, and firmly hold onto the transcendence. No matter how the secular world and life change, no matter whether the outcome of our choice is right or wrong, we may be avoiding but we are also brave, and while we may feel sorrowful, we are also beautiful. Because life is ever-changing, and the road ahead is even more exciting!