在纷繁复杂的生活中，智慧如同灯塔，指引我们穿越迷雾，避开繁杂琐事，适时止损。让我们一同探索如何掌握生活智慧，迈向更美好的未来。

In the complex and intricate tapestry of life, wisdom is like a lighthouse, guiding us through the fog, steering clear of the trivialities, and knowing when to cut our losses. Let's explore together how to master the art of living wisely and move towards a brighter future.

1. 尘世间最遥远的距离不是我站在你面前，却不知道我爱你，而是明明知道彼此相爱，却不能在一起。

1. The most distant distance in the world is not standing in front of you and not knowing I love you, but knowing that we both love each other yet being unable to be together.

2. 在不知不觉中，我突然有一种这样的感觉，不是不爱，是不能爱。

2. Without realizing it, I suddenly had a feeling like this: not that I don't love, but that I can't love.

3. 大壮大学时期就很颓废，原本高考的时候大壮的成绩还算是不错，但是自打上了大学后就开始放纵自己了，同寝室的室友每天都是蹦迪，聚会，导致大壮也深受影响，每天都沉浸在各种人际交往和吃喝玩乐之中。

3. During his university years, Da Zhuang was already decadent. Originally, his performance in the college entrance examination was quite good, but since he entered university, he started to indulge in himself. His roommates in the dormitory were partying and going to discos every day, which greatly influenced Da Zhuang, leading him to immerse himself in various social interactions and pleasures of eating, drinking, and playing.

4. 男人总是对自己女人以外的女人动心、动心、再动心。女人她却总是对自己心爱的男人原谅、原谅、再原谅。

4. Men always fall for women other than their own, heart after heart. But women always forgive their beloved men, forgive after forgive.

5. ☆、为你，我愿以命付之。可你从来没怜悯过我对你的爱。我才发现深爱的那个人是多么的卑微，用尽一切去讨你欢心。

5. ☆ For you, I would give my life. But you have never pitied my love for you. I only realized how humble the one I deeply love is, going to any length to please you.

6. 爱上了一个不该爱的人，爱了就爱了，可是我们不可以这么这么自私，要把爱埋在心里，就被当作他杀或者被杀，心要被杀死才不会这么的痛。

6. I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have, and once I fell, I fell. But we cannot be so selfish, we need to keep the love buried in our hearts. If it's buried, it's considered murder or being murdered, and our hearts will be crushed to prevent such pain.

7. ☆、做不了爱人，居然就要做仇人，还不如从来没有认识过，好痛心

7. ☆ Why must one who can't be a lover suddenly become an enemy? It's better not to have ever known each other at all, it's so painful.

8. 免强在一起不会有幸福，强扭的瓜不甜，爱上一个不该爱的人，他从来就没有在乎过你，而你处处想着他，这样的生活太累了，从此就放下吧！不要在为他流半滴眼泪，

8. It's impossible to be happy together by force, and a forced melon is not sweet. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, someone who has never cared about you, while you are always thinking of him, such a life is too exhausting. From now on, let it go! Don't shed even a single tear for him anymore.

9. 世上有一条唯一的路，除你之外无人能走。它通往何方？不要问，走便是了。

9. There is only one unique path in the world, and no one but you can walk it. Where does it lead? Do not ask, just walk.

10. 把过去的事情交给风，不必念念不忘，让它啃噬心灵，消耗福气。

10. Entrust the past to the wind; do not dwell on it, let it gnaw at the soul and consume your fortune.

11. 直到今天我才发现我曾经是多么的眼瞎，爱上了一个不该爱的人，用心去经营的一段感情，居然是一场骗局。她在背后不停地诋毁着我，我可能在别人眼里我就是个傻子，而傻子却还在为她的错误不停地遮掩，表面单纯的背后，隐藏了无数的阴暗面，自己眼瞎找的人，自己受

11. It wasn't until today that I realized how blind I used to be, loving someone I shouldn't have, nurturing a relationship with all my heart, only to find out it was all a scam. She kept spreading rumors about me behind my back. In others' eyes, I might be a fool, but a fool still tries to cover up her mistakes. Behind her seemingly innocent facade, there are countless dark sides hidden. I was blindfolded in finding the person, and I suffered on my own.

12. 溏心风暴，最近没有看，因为以爱她做小三了。作为一个精神洁癖的处女座，真心觉得这个人设崩了。她是一个从小到大的乖乖女，为父业矜矜业业，生活规规矩矩，却飞蛾扑火不顾一切的爱上不该爱的人，终万劫不复。另一个女人，一心照顾孩子，支持丈夫，却不知他沉迷不伦之恋难以自拔。当真相袭来，她如何自处，如何谅解。

12. Egg-yolk Storm, I haven't watched it recently because she has become a mistress out of love. As a Virgo with a strong sense of mental purity, I really think this character has fallen apart. She was a well-behaved girl from childhood to adulthood, diligently working for her father's business and living a proper life. However, she loved someone she shouldn't have loved with all her heart, and ultimately, she met with disaster. The other woman, who was solely dedicated to taking care of the children and supporting her husband, was unaware that he was deeply immersed in an affair and couldn't pull himself out. When the truth came to light, how could she deal with it and how could she forgive?

13. 请找一个值得你爱的人去爱，让那些爱慕虚荣的，见异思迁的，虚有其表的，够不上了解你思想感情和人格的人，去找他志同道合的伴侣去吧。你总有一天会暗自庆幸，你幸亏没有得到他。

13. Find someone worth loving, and let those who are vain, fickle, superficial, and unable to comprehend your thoughts, feelings, and character seek companions who share their interests. You will one day secretly be relieved that you were fortunate enough not to have him.

14. 翻旧账的人，习惯于把过去的伤害反复咀嚼，没完没了。既伤害了彼此，又后患无穷。就像一条不断扩宽的鸿沟，让彼此的关系越来越远。

14. Those who dwell on the past are accustomed to repeatedly masticate the hurt from the past, never ending. They not only harm each other but also leave endless consequences. It's like an ever-widening chasm that pushes the relationship between them further and further apart.

15. 遇见这种自以为是的人千万不要纠缠，你永远无法改正他的三观，因为在他的眼里，只有自己。

15. Never纠缠这种自以为是的人, you will never be able to correct his three views (worldview, values, and outlook) because in his eyes, it's all about himself.

16. 你说你爱上了不该爱的人。无所谓谁先爱上谁，无所谓谁让谁流泪。

16. You say you fell in love with the person you shouldn't have. It doesn't matter who loves who first, or who lets who cry.

17. 怎么办，我最近爱上了一个不该爱的人，我也不知道怎么回事，现在满脑子都是ta，我感觉我在欺骗ta，但是我付出的感情是真的，我没有向ta要过任何东西！我真的好想ta抱抱我，吻我！一想到如果真正的摊派，我将会失去ta！我真的不能接受！

17. What should I do? Lately, I have fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have loved, and I don't know why either. Now my mind is full of them, and I feel like I'm cheating them, but the feelings I have given are genuine, and I have never asked them for anything! I really want them to hug me and kiss me! Just thinking about the possibility of losing them if things really go bad, I can't accept it!

18. 欢迎觉得自己爱上一个不该爱的人的朋友们找我尬聊。

18. Welcome friends who feel they are in love with someone they shouldn't be with to find me for an awkward chat.

19. 不要和“垃圾”的人交往，只会让你的人生从此走向低谷。

19. Do not associate with "rubbish" people, as it will only lead your life downhill from there.

20. 所有感情的烦恼，都因为当事人爱得不够。你若爱他，不会遭遇第三者，不会分居两地，也不会认为爱上不该爱的人。诸多踌躇，均因爱他不够，爱自己更多。

20. All the troubles of emotions stem from the fact that the party involved loves insufficiently. If you love him, you wouldn't encounter a third party, wouldn't be separated by distance, and wouldn't fall in love with someone you shouldn't have loved. Many hesitations are all due to not loving him enough and loving oneself more.

21. 俗话说：心态决定状态，状态决定成败。

21. As the saying goes: attitude determines state, and state determines success or failure.

22. 一年后，表弟又说自己母亲身体不好，要去医院全方位体检，费用不够，博主又借了1万元。

22. One year later, the cousin claimed that his mother was not feeling well and needed a comprehensive medical check-up at the hospital, and the cost was insufficient, so the blogger lent him another 10,000 yuan.

23. 说实话极光之恋播到现在我一直都对何静文讨厌不起来，反而是更心疼她，其实她本质并不坏只是爱上了一个不该爱的人。而何静文又很固执，就觉得我得不到的别人也别想得到，你越是这样你爱的那个人就越是讨厌你，然后你对他的爱变成了你对他喜欢的那个人的恨，想把你在你爱的那个人哪里受到的委屈翻倍的用在了你喜欢的那个人喜欢的人身上。

23. To be honest, as the "Aurora's Love" series has progressed, I have never been able to dislike He Jingwen. On the contrary, I feel more sympathetic towards her. In fact, she is not fundamentally bad; she just fell in love with someone she shouldn't have. He Jingwen is also very stubborn; she thinks that if I can't have it, then no one else should be able to. The more you do this, the more讨厌 you become to the person you love. Then, your love for them turns into hatred for the person they like. You want to take the injustice you suffered in your love and double it in the person you like.

24. 不计较，不纠缠，不放纵，以端正的心态过生活，用优美的心境度岁月，才能远离内耗，遇见生命的美好。

24. Be indifferent, not entangled, and not indulgent. Live with a proper mindset and spend years with a beautiful heart, only then can you stay away from internal consumption and encounter the beauty of life.

25. 时间久了，大家都开始讨厌他，张东还不以为然，觉得大家就是眼气自己。

25. Over time, everyone began to dislike him, but Zhang Dong still didn't think so, feeling that everyone was just envious of him.

26. 生活里有一种人，他们不顾及别人的感受，总是把自己的利益摆在最前面，自私自利。

26. There is a type of person in life who disregards others' feelings and always puts their own interests first, being selfish and self-centered.

27. 接下来的几年，表弟一直没提还钱的事。后来又以在老家建房子为名跟她借钱，这时她直接拒绝，并决心不再跟表弟有经济往来。

27. In the following years, the cousin never mentioned the matter of repayment. Later, he asked for a loan in the name of building a house in his hometown, at which point she directly refused and resolved to no longer have any financial dealings with her cousin.

28. ☆、也许就是爱和被爱的区别吧，爱的人总想给对方所有自己的所有，用最诚的心去爱她，被爱的人可能感觉他给的是理所当然，久了可能会觉得这是里所应当给的吧。爱的人总会付出好多用心很多，慢慢的总得不到回应，慢慢的一颗火热的心也就凉了吧

28. ☆ Perhaps it's the difference between loving and being loved. Those who love always want to give their all to the other person, loving with the utmost sincerity. The loved ones may feel that what they receive is something they should expect, and after a while, they might even feel it's what they should be given. Those who love always give a lot, with much care, but slowly, they may not receive any response. Slowly, a fiery heart may cool down.

29. 真正体会了不是因为寂寞才想你，而是因为想你才寂寞，爱上一个了不该爱的人，明明知道我们不可能，却还是会被他吸引，喜欢他的诗，喜欢他的字，喜欢他的歌，喜欢他的幽默风趣，喜欢他打篮球帅帅的样子

29. I truly understand that it's not because of loneliness that I miss you, but because of missing you that I feel lonely. I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have loved, knowing that we have no chance, yet I am still drawn to him. I like his poems, his calligraphy, his songs, his humor and wit, and his handsome basketball playing style.

30. 爱上一个不该爱的人的确有错，但爱本身没有错，爱的本意没有错啊！

30. It is indeed wrong to fall in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, but love itself is not wrong, and the true intention of love is not wrong, either!

31. 这一场末路繁华，不倾国倾城，却倾我所有，只为爱上你。

不倾国不倾城，却倾我所有，只为爱你。

32. 有些人爱着爱着就淡了，有些人看着看着就透了。

32. Some people fall out of love with time, while others see through things with time.

33. 在你发现你爱上你不该爱的人的时候，那么，放手吧，因为你为她所做的一切可能都是白费。

33. When you find that you have fallen in love with someone you shouldn't, then, let go, because everything you have done for her may all be in vain.

34. 爱之于我，不是肌肤之亲，不是一蔬一饭，它是一种不死的欲望，是颓败生活中的英雄梦想。

34. To me, love is not the closeness of skin, not the daily meals, but an undying desire, a heroic dream in a life of decline.

35. 生活可以漂泊，可以孤独，但灵魂必须有所归依。

35. Life can be wandering, can be lonely, but the soul must have a place to belong.

36. 爱一个人讲缘分，于是云淡风轻间不知不觉的爱上了不该爱的人。除了克制，别无他法。

36. Loving someone is about destiny, so in the ease and lightness of the clouds and the breeze, one can't help but fall in love with someone they shouldn't love. There is no other way but to control oneself.

37. 博主和表弟从小一起长大，感情深厚。后来，博主到上海一家外企任职，经济宽裕。而表弟没有考上大学，一直在农村以打工谋生。虽然差距很大，但博主很重视感情，常常主动联络他。

37. The blogger and his cousin grew up together from a young age and share a deep affection. Later, the blogger took a job at a foreign enterprise in Shanghai and became financially comfortable. Meanwhile, his cousin didn't pass the college entrance examination and has been earning a living by working in the countryside. Despite the significant differences in their situations, the blogger values their relationship highly and often initiates contact with him.

38. 飞蛾扑火的爱情，往往只有灰飞烟灭的结果爱上一个不该爱的人。

38. The love that is like a moth flying into a flame usually ends in nothing but ashes and smoke; loving someone you shouldn't love.

39. 在最纯净美好的岁月，你却只留给我回忆的伤。

39. In the purest and most beautiful years, you only left me with the pain of memories.

40. 一家人在一起生活，就像锅碗瓢盆搁在篮筐里，难免磕磕碰碰。当时有委屈、怨恨、不满，都是人之常情。但是我们不能把这些账一笔一笔记在心里，让沸腾的怨气吞噬该有的幸福。

40. Living together as a family is like putting pots, pans, and ladles into a basket; it's inevitable to have some bumps and collisions. At that time, feeling of injustice, resentment, and dissatisfaction are all natural emotions. However, we cannot keep a record of these grievances in our hearts, allowing the boiling resentment to engulf the happiness we should have.

41. 爱上不该爱的人，到真正累了的那一刻，会放手。

41. Falling in love with the wrong person, one will let go at the moment when they truly feel exhausted.

42. 爱上了一个不该爱的人，被一段恋爱耽误太久，你的顽固，我的笃定，注定没有缘分。不难过，是假的谢谢你来过，但是你走了愿我们都不再回头。

42. Falling in love with the wrong person, allowing a relationship to occupy too much of your time, your stubbornness, and my certainty,注定 we have no destiny. Not to feel sad is a lie, thank you for coming, but once you're gone, may we both not look back.

43. 大三开学，别的同学考了很多的证，拿了很多的奖学金，只有大壮和室友傻傻的浪费了三年，后来大壮及时止损，不再和室友鬼混了。

43. When the third year of college started, other students had taken many exams and won many scholarships, but only Da Zhuang and his roommate foolishly wasted three years. Later, Da Zhuang took timely measures to cut his losses and stopped hanging out with his roommate.

44. 太多的爱，淹没了所有的恨，原来重情多感，会活得很凄楚，吸食了别人的悲伤，我在静默中缓缓地流泪。

44. Too much love, it has drowned all the hate, originally, being overly emotional can lead to a very sorrowful life. Consuming others' sadness, I am slowly shedding tears in silence.

45. 爱上一个不该爱的人，就像用手握住一只刺猬一样，痛，但又放不下，怕它掉下去之后会怎样，所以一直紧握着它，而它被你捏得很痛，你却自私地以为这就是爱。直到有一天，当你知道你的爱只会给它带来伤害，而它也不需要你的爱的时候，你就会明白，原来还有一种爱，叫做放手。

45. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is like holding a hedgehog in your hands. It's painful, yet you can't let go, afraid of what might happen if it falls. So you keep a tight grip on it, while it's being pinched by you, and you selfishly believe that this is love. Until one day, when you realize that your love only brings harm to it, and it doesn't need your love at all, you will understand that there is another kind of love, which is letting go.

46. 明知道事情最后的结果，可是就是不愿意去相信，也不愿意去接受，还一直活在自己的憧憬、幻想中，身边的朋友和自己都在不停的劝自己、告诫自己，可是自己还是陷得越来越深，这所有的一切都只能怪自己爱上了一个不该爱的人

46. Even though I know the final outcome of things, I just can't bring myself to believe or accept it. I continue to live in my own dreams and illusions. My friends and I keep trying to劝 and warn myself, but I seem to be getting more deeply involved. All of this can only be blamed on the fact that I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have loved.

47. 最好的心态，不困于心，不乱于情，不畏将来，不念过往。

47. The best mindset is not constrained by thoughts, not confused by emotions, not afraid of the future, and not preoccupied with the past.

48. ☆、从你离开的那刻起注定结束，，光芒四射更不会接受一个曾经伤害我的人

48. ☆ From the moment you left, it was destined to end. The radiance will never accept someone who once hurt me.

49. 及时止损，避免无止境的消耗，是一种成熟的智慧。

49. It is a mature wisdom to cut losses in time and avoid endless consumption.

50. ☆、我犯的最大的错，就是对你认真了，从这一刻，我要彻底的放弃你了！

50. ☆, The biggest mistake I've made is taking you seriously. From this moment on, I will completely give up on you!

51. 一到陷入某种不利的状态，就要及时抽身而出，停止继续，把损失减到最低。

51. As soon as you find yourself in a disadvantageous situation, it is important to withdraw promptly, stop proceeding, and minimize the losses.

52. 爱上一个不该爱的人，恨了一个与我没交往的人。晚安

52. Falling in love with someone I shouldn't have, and hating someone I never had any contact with. Goodnight.

53. 生命的相遇，让我错误的爱上了不该爱的人！短暂的欢愉，带来了长久的痛苦，爱一个人可以在几秒钟，忘一个人需要一辈子！每天都会在心里念着你的名字！或许你从未爱过我！只要你过的好就好！眼泪已经流干心一直痛下去！

53. The encounter of life led me to mistakenly fall in love with the wrong person! The brief joy brought long-lasting pain. To love someone can take a few seconds, but to forget someone may take a lifetime! Every day, I keep your name in my heart! Maybe you never loved me! As long as you are doing well, that's all that matters! The tears have dried up, but the pain in my heart continues!

54. 放弃一个人比爱一个人还要难，而要想彻底的忘掉他就会更难！

54. It is harder to give up on someone than to love them, and it is even harder to completely forget about them!

55. 人之所以会受伤就是因为，遇到不该爱的人，爱上不该爱的人。

55. The reason why people get hurt is because they meet the wrong person to love and fall in love with the wrong person.

56. 暧昧，便是说不清道不明。褒义说是朦胧爱，贬义说是苟且混。

56. Ambiguity means that it is unclear and not easy to explain. Praise it as a hazy love, or criticize it as a compromise.

57. 曾经的幸福，现在回忆起来却让我疼的不知所措。

57. The happiness of the past, when remembered now, causes me such pain that I am at a loss for words.

58. 如果总盯着别人的缺点不放，就像只看见纸上的一个黑点，可对大范围的洁白区域视而不见，古人说的“一叶障目，不见泰山”，就是这个意思。

58. If one always focuses on others' shortcomings without letting go, it's like seeing only a black spot on a piece of paper while ignoring the vast white area around it. The ancient saying "a leaf blocking the eye, not seeing the Tai Mountain" means exactly this.

59. 斑拉所有的悲剧和错都在于她爱上了她根本不该爱的人，就是小笼包，她不该爱这个人。

59. The tragedy and fault of Panla all lie in her love for the person she never should have loved, that is, the little dumpling. She shouldn't have loved this person.

60. 当他们走到绿洲，A不小心失足落水，不会游泳的他惊慌失措，被B救了起来。A用刻刀在石头上写下：“今天被朋友救了一命。”

60. When they reached the oasis, A accidentally tripped and fell into the water. Not knowing how to swim, A was panic-stricken and was saved by B. A carved on the stone, "Today, I was saved by a friend."

61. 爱一个男人，可以爱他的英俊，爱他的聪明，爱他的才华，但是，请不要只爱这些。他的英俊、他的聪明、他的才华、他的钱、他的事业，都是属于他的，只有他对你的好，才是他对你的情意。是这份情意让你在他的人生中有了一席之地；是他对你的好，使你变得独一无二，也使他变得独一无二。

61. You can love a man for his handsome appearance, his intelligence, his talent, but please don't love only these. His handsome appearance, his intelligence, his talent, his money, and his career all belong to him. Only his kindness towards you is his affection for you. It is this affection that gives you a place in his life; it is his kindness towards you that makes you unique, and also makes him unique.

62. 爱上一个不该爱的人已经是一个错误，却还妄想跟你将错就错。一再的迁就、忍让、纠缠，却只换来变本加厉。没有人能透过外表看到人心，跟你在一起的时候，我从没想过你竟如此残忍。明明深谙人性凉薄，却还傻傻去相信且以深情共白首这样的傻话。不是所有的爱情都能走到最后，不是所有的人都值得挽留。这世上永远没有永远，地久天长也不过是骗傻子上勾的手段。人心都是会变的，不离不弃只是责任与依赖共生的产物。爱情终究会褪色，一开始就没打算从一而终的人，永远都不可能留在身边。想走的人留不住，留下的人赶不走。从今往后，别再为了谁的离开痛不欲生。那些你曾以为的天崩地裂，多年之后，也将成为过眼云烟。

62. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't have loved is already a mistake, yet you still have the delusion of mending a wrong with another wrong. Endless compromises, tolerance, and entanglements, yet only to invite more severe consequences. No one can see a person's heart through their appearance. When I was with you, I never thought you could be so cruel. Even though you know the fickleness of human nature, you still foolishly believe in and pursue such silly phrases as "starting a lifelong love journey together." Not all love can reach its end, and not everyone is worth holding on to. There is no such thing as forever in this world; the eternal love and long-lasting relationships are just tricks to fool the naive. People's hearts change, and the commitment to stay together is a product of shared responsibility and dependence. Love will eventually fade, and those who never intended to be monogamous from the start will never stay by your side. Those who want to leave cannot be stopped, and those who stay cannot be chased away. From now on, don't let anyone's departure make you suffer so deeply. Those moments you once thought were earth-shattering will, after many years, just become a fleeting cloud.

63. ☆、我可以爱你爱到很认真，也能心狠到认真的放弃你！

63. ☆, I can love you with all my heart, and I can also be ruthless and seriously let you go!

64. 编后语：亲爱的自己，从现在开始要学会忘记，忘记一个不该爱的人，放下一些不该想的事，没有什么值得你踌躇，没有什么值得你在意，答应自己，好好照顾自己，一个人的未来，也可以绚烂多彩。

64. Postscript: Dear self, from now on, learn to forget. Forget about loving someone you shouldn't, let go of some thoughts you shouldn't have. There's nothing worth hesitating over, nothing worth paying attention to. Promise yourself to take good care of yourself. A person's future can also be colorful and vibrant.

65. 余生，用最好的心态，成全我们想要的生活。

65. In the remaining years, live with the best attitude to fulfill the life we desire.

66. “充满负能量的人一定要远离，不然你会受到影响。”——佚名

66. "People who are full of negative energy should be kept away from, otherwise you will be affected." - Anonymous

67. 有时候觉得死亡很美丽，爱上了不该爱的人，我只是没有推开他，告诉他，离婚了我会和你一起，什么都没做，只是朋友一样的聊天，我承认，有暧昧。是我的错，他为了爱我主动承认精神出轨，后来暴露了我，如今我成了他得软肋，用我威胁。我被他得爱感动，更加深爱，可是为什么，不可以有结局。是我的报应吗，世界上最爱我的亲人，得了不治之症，可不可以把这一切，都报到我身上，我好想死。好想死。我知道我也许考的上研究生，我知道放弃会未来更好，不用在一棵树上吊死。他也会一无所有，可是我不在乎啊，钱算什么。我一辈子都在用真心对人，经历过背叛，我只求一个人可以真心待我，遇到了一个可以放弃一切爱我的人，我只是很想要啊，而且我真的爱了。我好难过，好难过。每天看着爱我的人身体每况日下，每天承受着痛苦，我好像快要撑不住了。

67. Sometimes, I feel that death is beautiful. I fell in love with the wrong person; I just didn't push him away, didn't tell him that if I got a divorce, I would be with him. I did nothing but chat with him as a friend, I admit, there was some flirtation. It was my fault; he confessed his emotional infidelity to me out of love, and later exposed it, and now I have become his weakness, used to threaten me. I was moved by his love and loved him even more deeply, but why can't there be an ending? Is it my retribution? The world's most beloved relative of mine has a terminal illness. Can't I bear all this on myself? I want to die, I want to die. I know I might be able to get into graduate school, and I know that giving up would make my future better, not to hang myself on one tree. He would also have nothing, but I don't care about money. All my life, I have treated people with sincerity, experienced betrayal, and I only wish for someone to treat me sincerely. I have met someone who is willing to give up everything for me, and I just want that so much, and I really love him. I am so sad, so sad. Every day, watching the person who loves me grow weaker, bearing pain every day, I feel like I can't hold on much longer.

68. 爱上一个不该爱的人，用尽了全身的力气，你带着渴望将他（她）留下，他（她）却绝情的离你而去，很多时候，都是造化弄人，我们都不想去相信命运，但当命运的安排摆在面前我们却又无能为力，拼命地挣扎，想改变这束缚，却不曾想只会让自己变的更绝望，更痛苦。她爱上了一个不该爱的人，对方和她一样有家室，明知道不应该，可他们还是被彼此相互吸引了，她挣扎过，痛苦过，她不知道往前一步是深渊还是新生，更让她觉得彷徨的是，她不知道婚外情里到底有没有真爱，值不值得她为之付出。

68. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, you exhaust all your energy, trying to hold on to them with a desire, only to find them leaving you unemotionally. Often, it's fate playing tricks on us. We don't want to believe in destiny, but when it's right in front of us, we feel powerless. We struggle, trying to change this束缚, but we never realize that we are only making ourselves more desperate and more painful. She fell in love with someone she shouldn't have loved, someone who, like her, has a family. She knew it was wrong, yet they were still drawn to each other. She struggled and suffered, unsure whether taking that step forward would lead to a abyss or a new beginning. What confused her even more was that she didn't know if there was true love in an affair, and whether it was worth the sacrifice she was willing to make.

69. 后来，麦家成为著名作家，有了自己的孩子，既经历过生活的风霜，也体会到养儿的艰辛，他打算放下过往，和父亲和解。然而，这时候的父亲得了老年痴呆，已经认不出他这个儿子了。

69. Later, Mai Jia became a famous writer and had his own children. He had experienced the hardships of life and also the toil of raising a child, and he intended to let go of the past and reconcile with his father. However, at this time, his father had developed Alzheimer's disease and could no longer recognize him as his son.

70. 满脑子都是你不爱我的证据，事实俱在，你说我想多？呵呵，不在乎的一方总是会说对方想多我们本应该是时刻感受到被爱，充满幸福感的阶段啊！为什么谈个恋爱总是想打退堂鼓？因为觉得自己爱上了一个不该爱的人太累了

70. My mind is filled with evidence that you don't love me, and the facts are all there. Do you think I'm overthinking it? Haha, the person who doesn't care always says that the other person is overthinking. We should be at a stage where we feel loved and full of happiness at all times! Why do we always want to back out when we're in a relationship? Because it's too tiring to think that I've fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have.

71. “诚信是做人的基本，没有诚信的人不可交。”——佚名

71. "Integrity is the foundation of being a person; one without integrity is not worth associating with." — Unknown

72. 等待是我这辈子最烦的事！可又偏偏不得不去等！只因为爱上了一个不该爱的人！要等他工作繁忙过后，家庭聚餐过后，朋友聚会过后，生意逢场作戏过后，还有各种琐碎的事情过后就因为爱你，我把所有时间都空出来，朋友找我推开！亲人聚会避免，要来家里做客的阻拦！只是怕你找我时，找不到我！

72. Waiting is the most annoying thing in my whole life! Yet, I can't help but wait! It's all because I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have loved. I have to wait for him to finish work, after family dinners, after friend gatherings, after business entertainment, and after all the trivial matters. Because of my love for you, I have cleared out all my time, pushing away friends who reach out to me, avoiding family gatherings, and拦住那些想来家里做客的人! All just in case you need to find me and can't!

73. 走错了路，停下来，就是进步。识错了人，离开他，就能清静。

73. If you take a wrong path, stop and it's progress. If you recognize the wrong person, leave them and you can achieve tranquility.

74. 我不是天选之人我不过是最普通的一个一个实现不了自己梦想的爱上不该爱的人的小人物。

74. I am not the chosen one; I am just an ordinary person, a small individual who cannot realize their dreams and has fallen in love with the wrong person.

75. 爱上一个不该爱的人，喜欢上一个不可能在一起的人，感谢三年的陪伴，同时，我也恨你最后的背叛。这是这三年积攒下来的车票和发票，都说回忆珍贵，但是我根本不想要这三年的回忆。

75. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't, liking someone who can't be together, thank you for the three years of companionship, and at the same time, I also hate your final betrayal. These are the train tickets and invoices accumulated over the past three years. Everyone says that memories are precious, but I really don't want to keep the memories of these three years.

76. 朋友不解，问他为何把仇恨写在沙漠里，却把被救的事写在石头上。他说，仇恨终将被风吹散，不留痕迹。而恩情必须刻在石头上，不忘感恩。

76. The friend was puzzled and asked him why he wrote his hatred on the desert, but wrote his rescue on the stone. He said, hatred will eventually be scattered by the wind, leaving no trace. But gratitude must be carved on the stone, to never forget.

77. 爱上不该再爱的人，等了不该再等的心，卑微至万倍尘埃。有些人已经无法在等到，付出的爱也无法再收回。冬夜漫漫，爱不了的，等不起的，收不回的，时光在流逝，岁月已苍老。忘了吧，放下吧。生活总是让我们遍体鳞伤，但到后来，那些受伤的地方一定会变成我们最强壮的地方。

77. Falling in love with someone who should no longer be loved, waiting for a heart that should no longer wait, is卑微 to the dust of ten thousand times. Some people have already reached a point where they can no longer wait, and the love they have given cannot be收回 anymore. The long winter nights, the love that cannot be cherished, the waiting that cannot be endured, the love that cannot be retrieved, as time passes, the years have grown old. Forget it, let it go. Life always leaves us bruised and bleeding, but in the end, those wounded places will surely become the strongest parts of us.

78. 有些爱，注定一世缄默，有些人，注定终会错过。

78. Some love is destined to remain silent for a lifetime, and some people are destined to miss each other.

79. 与人交往的过程里，不得不多长个心眼，不是因为心机，只是为了保护好自己。多接触一些有正能量的人，才会让你的人生也充满阳光。

79. In the process of interacting with others, one has to be more cautious, not because of cunningness, but just to protect oneself. More contact with positive people will fill your life with sunshine as well.

80. ☆、爱不是一个人的事，你在爱（她他）得不到（她他）的真心也是单相思，心也就凉了。

80. ☆ Love is not a matter of one person; even if you can't get the sincere love from (her/him), it's still a one-sided love, and your heart will feel cold.

81. ☆、记然有爱，我一生一世不放弃你，永远的爱你自己

81. ☆, I will never give up on you, loving you forever and always.

82. 又爱上了一个不该爱的人，明知自身条件大不如从前，还奢望能和他有进一步发展，可是他爱上了8年前爱上我的那个人，而且，他非常爱他，我想我是疯了，还把他带出来和我朋友们一起喝酒，还加了我朋友的微信，我真的疯了，我是啷个想的哟，麻痹的感情不容易，我不想打扰他们。

82. I've fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have, knowing that my own conditions are much worse than before, yet I still have the audacity to hope for further development with him. But he has fallen in love with the person he fell in love with eight years ago, and he loves him very much. I must be crazy, thinking I can bring him out to drink with my friends and even add my friend on WeChat. I'm really crazy, what kind of thoughts am I having? Relationships are not easy, and I don't want to disturb them.

83. 来自擀面杖朋友的贴心问候，冬日佛系取暖神器，满足了我从脚指甲暖到天灵盖的奢侈要求，比小太阳更亲密，比小太阳更省电。因为一个会发热的木箱子，爱上一个不该爱的人。

83. A heartfelt greeting from a rolling pin friend, the Zen heating wonder of winter, which satisfies my luxurious requirement from toe nails to the top of my head, closer than a small sun, and more energy-saving. Because of a heated wooden box, I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have.

84. ☆、我也累啊，可是伤害总是自己啊，还一身埋怨，压力好大好大啊,,,,,,谁理解呢？

84. ☆ I'm tired too, but the injuries always come from myself, and I'm full of complaints. The pressure is so immense, so immense,,,,, who understands?

85. 你要知道，当你温柔起来，当你开始珍爱，当你用心疼一个人。那种温暖，有多强大，有多难忘。

85. You must know that when you become gentle, when you start to cherish, and when you care for someone with all your heart, that warmth is how powerful and how unforgettable it is.

86. 交朋友要交心，前提是对方值得你交往，背信弃义的人容易落井下石，无论是在工作还是生活里，他们都不会诚信办事，所以，为了避免不必要的伤害，还是离远点吧。

86. Make friends with those who are worth your friendship, for those who break their promises and abandon their principles are prone to stab you in the back. Whether in work or in life, they will not handle matters with integrity. Therefore, to avoid unnecessary harm, it's best to keep your distance.

87. 爱贪小便宜的人，总是会因为利益不择手段的去伤害别人，所以，朋友在他们的眼里根本不算什么。

87. People who love to take small advantages will always resort to means without scruples to harm others for their own interests, so friends are not considered much in their eyes.

88. 引导语：爱情有的时候也是一个无法企及的梦想，他在你的世界里光芒万丈，而你只能在最遥远的地方默默远望，何必让那种徘徊在说与不说间的纠结困顿着自己？忘掉一个不该爱的人，你的幸福，应该由你自己给予。

88. Lead-in: Sometimes, love can also be an unattainable dream. It shines brightly in your world, while you can only silently gaze from the farthest distance. Why let the纠结 between speaking and not speaking consume you? Forget about the person you shouldn't love; your happiness should be given by yourself.