在瞬息万变的社交世界中，情绪智慧如同导航灯塔，引领我们在紧急、压抑、平淡的事务中游刃有余。

In the rapidly changing social world, emotional intelligence acts like a lighthouse, guiding us to navigate through emergencies, stresses, and mundane affairs with ease.

1. 期望似火，失望如烟，人生如七处点火，八处冒烟。

1. Expectation is like a blazing fire, disappointment like smoke, and life is like lighting a fire in seven places and smoking in eight.

2. 世上没有后悔药。已经发生的事情，早已沉淀在过往的岁月中，无法改变。如果对无能为力的既定事实纠结不放，除了折腾自己，没有其他的好处。

2. There is no medicine for regret in this world. What has already happened has long settled in the past, and cannot be changed. If you continue to cling to the inevitable facts that you cannot change, it will only bring you self-torture, and no other benefits.

3. 33尽我所能，爱你所有，万般皆你，往后余生。

3. With all my ability, I will love all of you, everything is about you, and all the rest of my life.

4. 就像遇上一条疯狗，你若是跟它计较，不管输赢，都是自己吃亏。你总不能向别人得瑟：你赢了疯狗，把它咬死了吧。

4. It's like encountering a crazy dog; if you argue with it, no matter who wins, it's still a loss for you. You can't boast to others that you won against the crazy dog and bit it to death.

5. 积极寻求支持：在面对失利时，积极寻求家人、朋友和专业人士的支持是非常重要的。他们可以提供情感上的支持、鼓励和实际的建议，帮助你重新振作起来并找到下一步的方向。

5. Actively Seek Support: It is very important to actively seek support from family, friends, and professionals when facing setbacks. They can provide emotional support, encouragement, and practical advice to help you pick yourself up and find the direction for the next step.

6. 35愿你心中有爱，钱包有钱，脚下有路。感情顺利，婚姻美满。会遇见一个人，给你彻头彻尾的理解和无条件的支持，在你累的时候拉着你一齐走，永远不放手。

6. May you have love in your heart, money in your wallet, and a clear path beneath your feet. May your love life go smoothly and your marriage be blissful. May you meet someone who understands you completely and offers unconditional support, pulling you along when you're tired, never letting go.

7. 我握着成熟的利剑，杀死了幼稚的自我和笨拙的回忆。

7. I held the matured sword and killed the naive self and clumsy memories.

8. 寂寞的人永远不会说自我寂寞，仅有无聊的人才会没事找事。

8. Lonely people will never admit to being lonely; only bored people will create trouble for themselves.

9. 时间是治愈创伤的良药，但需要淡然的心态做引子。有成长，就有创伤，或多或少。有些伤，只有在静静的流年里慢慢淡化。淡化，先是心的淡然，然后才是时间的淡漠。常把伤口展示给别人看，永远不会痊愈。心淡然了，一切变得不那么重，便再也不会受伤。把心放平，在宁静的空气中，你能感受到生命的美好。

9. Time is the best medicine for healing wounds, but a calm mindset is needed as a prelude. There is growth, and there are wounds, to some extent. Some injuries can only fade slowly in the flowing years. The fading starts with the calmness of the heart, followed by the indifference of time. If you constantly show your wounds to others, they will never heal. When the heart is calm, everything becomes less burdensome, and you will no longer get hurt. Put your heart at ease, in the serene air, and you can feel the beauty of life.

10. 早安心语：有时候沉默，就是最好的诉说。不要把幸福的标准定得太高，生命中的任何一件小事只要你细心品味过，可以说都与幸福有关。因为无论怎样，幸福都只是一种感觉而已。

10. Morning inspirational quote: Sometimes, silence is the best form of expression. Don't set the standard for happiness too high; any little thing in life, as long as you have savored it carefully, can be said to be related to happiness. Because in any case, happiness is just a feeling.

11. 我们认识十年了，你几乎陪伴了我人生的一半，谢谢你一直都在，尽管我曾经像个混蛋一样伤害过你，我很庆幸你一直都在，不离不弃，在我难受的日子里陪着我，谢谢你做的一切。余生我陪你走，做你最真挚的朋友！

11. We have known each other for ten years, you have almost accompanied half of my life. Thank you for always being there, even though I have hurt you like a real asshole in the past, I am so glad that you have always been there, never leaving me, accompanying me through difficult times, thank you for everything you have done. The rest of my life, I will walk with you, and be your most sincere friend!

12. 别那么多怀才不遇的抱怨，那说明你的能力还撑不起野心!多少好苗子都败在了眼高手低。别老羡慕人家有我行我素的资格，咱得先像傻子一样苦干，才能像疯子一样任性!

12. Stop complaining about being unrecognized for your talents; that just shows your abilities aren't enough to support your ambitions! How many promising individuals have failed because of their lofty ambitions and lack of practical skills. Don't always envy others for having the资格 to do things their own way; we first need to work as diligently as a fool, before we can act as任性 as a madman!

13. 所有的怒放，都要以枯萎收场，别为了逃避不堪的结局，放弃了眩目的芬芳；曾经的牵手，都要以分离告终，别为了拒绝往后的孤寂与疼痛，辜负了当下执着的美好时光。只要路是对的，就不要害怕它的短暂还是遥远；只要付出是值得的，就无须在乎它的青春或者沧桑。就算再苦、再累、再痛，都要选择忍耐与坚强。

13. All flourishing must end in withering, do not放弃 the dazzling fragrance for the sake of escaping an intolerable outcome; all hand-holding must come to an end with separation, do not betray the present steadfast moments for the fear of future loneliness and pain. As long as the path is right, do not fear its brevity or distance; as long as the effort is worthwhile, there is no need to care about its youth or weariness. Even if it is as bitter, as tiring, or as painful, choose endurance and strength.

14. 有的女孩很善良，她们喜欢一些小动物，比如路虎，宝马，捷豹，当然了，还有天猫。

14. Some girls are very kind-hearted, and they like some small animals, such as Land Rover, BMW, Jaguar, of course, and there's also Tmall.

15. 32如果能够我期望遇到你时，慢一点，晚一点都没关系，我只期望，有幸遇见你，慢慢喜欢你，往后是余生，余生皆是你。

15. 32 If it's possible, I don't mind if I meet you a little slower or later. I just hope, by the grace of fortune, to have the chance to meet you, slowly fall in love with you, and the rest of our lives are together, the rest of our lives are all about you.

16. 永远不要怪别人不帮你，也别怪他人不关心你，在你的人生路上，真正能帮你的永远仅有你自我，你如果一向不成长，有些人是等不了你的。

16. Never blame others for not helping you, nor for not caring about you. On your path in life, the only one who can truly help you is yourself. If you do not grow and develop, there will be some people who cannot wait for you.

17. 那还是在本宫小的时候，有一次数学教师讲估量这一节，同桌正好在睡觉，教师讲：“有一个估量……”同桌突然一下呼的抬起头来说：“她有一些任性，她还有一些嚣张……”

17. When I was still young in the palace, there was once when the math teacher was teaching about estimation. My classmate happened to be sleeping at the time. The teacher said, "There is an estimation..." Suddenly, my classmate shot up and said, "She is a bit任性 (rash) and somewhat 嚣张 (arrogant)...".

18. 以为用铅笔写满关于星星的语言就会忘记思念原来永远写不满的是心中的爱的空白你依旧是我触及不到的那颗星

18. I thought that by writing about stars with a pencil, I would forget the longing. The truth is, what's always left unsaid is the void of love in the heart. You still remain that star that I can't touch.

19. 我早上起床刷牙后吃饭看电视，中午吃完饭后继续看，晚饭吃后就睡觉了。

19. In the morning, after brushing my teeth, I eat and watch TV. After lunch, I continue watching TV, and after dinner, I go to sleep.

20. 有些人之所以不断成长，就绝对是有一种坚持下去的力量。好读书，肯下功夫，不仅读，还做笔记。人要成长，必有原因，背后的努力与积累一定数倍于普通人。所以，关键还在于自己。

20. The reason why some people continuously grow and develop is undoubtedly due to a persistent driving force. They love to read, are willing to put in the effort, and not only read but also take notes. People must have reasons for their growth, and the efforts and accumulations behind it are definitely several times greater than those of ordinary people. Therefore, the key still lies within oneself.

21. 一见钟情许多人，两情相悦一些人，白头到老与一人。

21. Many people fall in love at first sight, some are mutually pleased, and one person may live to old age together.

22. 我的心是一座城，那城里一直住着一个我可望不可及的人。终其一生，得之我幸，不得我命。浮云万里横渡，尘世的路，我用一纸芳华诉说流年的沉重

22. My heart is a city, where a person, whom I can neither reach nor attain, has always resided. Throughout my life, if I gain him, it is my fortune; if I do not, it is my destiny. Like floating clouds crossing a vast expanse, the path in the secular world, I express the heavy weight of the years with a sheet of fragrant youth.

23. 只是，该来的总会来，一味的逃避只是更加诠释懦弱。谁能了解我心底那抹带伤的忧郁，没有颜色。

23. However, what is destined to happen will eventually come, and mere avoidance only serves to further demonstrate weakness. Who can understand the bruised melancholy deep within me, which is devoid of color?

24. 周星驰主演的电影《大话西游》中，紫霞以为自己遭到至尊宝的背叛，怒从心头起，拔剑就刺向对方。千钧一发之际，至尊宝没有慌乱，更没有躲闪，他在冷静中找到了破解的智慧。

24. In Stephen Chow's film "A Chinese Odyssey," when Zixia thought she had been betrayed by Chu Tang, she was filled with anger and drew her sword to stab him. In the critical moment, Chu Tang did not panic, nor did he dodge; instead, he found the wisdom to solve the problem with a calm mind.

25. 可笑へ你为了你那可怜的虚荣心，伤了我的心。

25. It's laughable how you've hurt my heart for your可怜的虚荣心.

26. 你能够坚持喜欢的一切，并且严于律己。可是你别因为自我追美剧就说看韩剧的没品味，自我听艾薇儿就说凤凰传奇老土，自我吃法国大餐就说红烧肉油腻，自我喜欢文艺就说时尚风骚。这个世界上有几十亿人，每个人都是独一无二的存在，你没资格对别人指手画脚。况且不是谁都稀罕和你一模一样。

26. You can stick to liking everything you like and be strict with yourself. But don't say that those who watch Korean dramas have no taste just because you enjoy American TV shows, don't say Fenghuang Legend is outdated just because you listen to Avril Lavigne, don't say braised pork is greasy just because you enjoy French cuisine, and don't say fashionable and sensual just because you like arts and culture. There are several billion people in the world, and each one is a unique existence. You don't have the right to point fingers at others. Moreover, not everyone appreciates being exactly the same as you.

27. 22往后余生，我心依旧，唯愿，一生一世一份念，念你到老，想你到老。

27. From now on, until the end of my days, my heart remains the same. I only wish, to have a single thought, a single memory, for you, throughout my life and into old age, to miss you and think of you until the end.

28. 缘分是本书，翻得不经意会错过，读得太认真会流泪。

28. Fate is a book; if you turn the pages carelessly, you might miss it; if you read it too seriously, you might shed tears.

29. 所谓永远，只是代表昨天。所谓爱情，只是代表当时。有一些人活在记忆里，刻骨铭心；有一些人活在身边，却很遥远。凝眸时相思成愁，回首时相对成怨。

29. What we call eternity merely represents yesterday. What we call love merely represents the moment. Some people live in memory, etching deep in their hearts; while others live beside us yet seem very distant. When gazing, longing turns into sorrow; when looking back, facing each other becomes a grudge.

30. 当人的情绪处于低潮时，对任何事情都提不起兴趣，要学会转移注意力。有些事情既然已经成为事实，就尝试着去接受，去面对。一个人不可能改变世界，世界也不会因你而改变，所能做的，就是适应世界，不钻牛角尖，不要和别人攀比。你的生活，应该有你自己的精彩。

30. When a person's mood is low, they lose interest in everything and learn to shift their attention. Since some things have already become facts, try to accept and confront them. One cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. What you can do is to adapt to the world, not to be stubborn, and not to compare yourself with others. Your life should have its own brilliance.

31. 无聊，无聊草也无聊，花也无聊雀也无聊，蝶也无聊冬也无聊，春也无聊。

31. Boredom, boredom, the grass is boring, the flowers are boring, the birds are boring, the butterflies are boring, winter is boring, spring is boring.

32. 曾经以为，伤心是会流很多眼泪的，原来，真正的伤心，是流不出一滴眼泪。什么事情都会过去，我们是这样活过来的。——张小娴

32. Once I thought that sadness meant shedding many tears, but I found out that true sadness is unable to produce a single tear. Everything will pass, and that's how we live our lives. — Zhang Xiaoxian

33. 世上没有一件工作不辛苦，没有一处人事不复杂。你排斥现在的不愉快，光阴也不会过得慢点。所以不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。要学会低调，越努力越幸运。当人有了足够的内涵和物质做后盾，人生会变得底气十足！

33. There is no work in the world that is not hard, and no place where people are not complex. Rejecting the unpleasantness now will not make time pass more slowly. So, do not lose your temper randomly, as no one owes you anything. Learn to be modest, the harder you work, the luckier you become. When a person has enough substance and material backing, life will become full of confidence!

34. 14一万个美丽的未来，抵不上一个温暖的此刻，每一个真实的此刻，都是我们以往幻想的未来，愿你爱上此刻，梦见未来！

34. Ten thousand beautiful futures are not worth a warm present moment. Every real moment is the future we have imagined in the past. May you fall in love with the moment and dream of the future!

35. 无聊，可是一种境界。一种可耻的境界。我最爱的境界。

35. Boredom, yet it is a state. A despicable state. The state I love the most.

36. 深入思考原因：回顾高考失利的原因有助于你更好地了解自己的弱点和不足之处。是否存在学习方法不当、压力管理不良、缺乏自信或目标不明确等问题？通过认真思考，你可以从中汲取经验教训，并为未来的努力制定更好的计划。

36. Deep Reflection on the Causes: Reviewing the reasons for your failure in the college entrance examination helps you better understand your weaknesses and shortcomings. Are there issues such as improper study methods, poor stress management, lack of confidence, or unclear goals? By thinking carefully, you can draw lessons from this experience and develop better plans for your future efforts.

37. 不是所有人都喜欢你真实的样貌，偶尔虚伪一下还是很有必要的，毕竟在当今这个社会，我们混得都不容易。

37. Not everyone likes the real you, and it's still necessary to be a bit deceitful occasionally. After all, in today's society, it's not easy for any of us to survive.

38. 无聊，是人生的一种正常现象，无可厚非，不必大惊小怪。

38. Boredom is a normal phenomenon in life, and there is nothing wrong with it. It is not something to be overly surprised or startled by.

39. 没有你的每一天，生活过得都不充实，只是感到无聊。

39. Every day without you, life feels unfulfilling, just feeling bored.

40. 最先道歉的人最勇敢；最先原谅的人最坚强；最先释怀的人最幸福。

40. The person who apologizes first is the bravest; the person who forgives first is the strongest; the person who lets go first is the happiest.

41. 有一种爱叫做放手，为爱放弃天长地久，嘴角一抹轻轻浅浅的的笑容依旧，回眸中身影却淡淡寂寥，眼角却有泪黯然滑落。骨骼里的忧伤，一池氤氲的碧水也在寂寞中沾染了无语的忧伤和永远的遗憾。

41. There is a love called letting go, to give up eternity for love, yet a faint, subtle smile remains on the lips. In the glance back, the figure seems faintly desolate, and tears slip down the corner of the eyes. The melancholy in the bones, a pool of misty green water also absorbs the silent sadness and eternal regret in loneliness.

42. 有一种祝福是，余生你要过得好，这样才不枉我陪你走的那段路。

42. There is a blessing that you will live well for the rest of your life, so that it won't be in vain for me to have walked that path with you.

43. 11愿往后余生，心中有暖，眼中有笑，和最懂你的人在一齐，被岁月温柔相待，幸福一生，欢乐到老。

43. 11 May the rest of your life be filled with warmth in your heart and smiles in your eyes, being with the one who understands you the most, treated gently by the passage of time, enjoying happiness for a lifetime, and joy into old age.

44. 29往后余生，不管岁月是薄情，还是厚意，留一份闲情给忙碌的生活，找一份欢乐给一路的自我，看淡财富，释怀得失，爱亲人爱自我，好好的活着。

44. From the age of 29 onwards, regardless of whether the years are unkind or full of goodwill, leave a bit of leisure for the busy life, find some joy for the self along the way, be indifferent to wealth, let go of gains and losses, love both relatives and oneself, and live well.

45. 让你从别墅区来到了平民窟，委屈你了，余生我陪你走。

45. Let me apologize for bringing you from the villa area to the slums. From now on, I will accompany you through the rest of your life.

46. 总是觉得没有时间去静心读一本好书，去看一部好**，去运动，去放空旅行，去写一篇文章，去学一门技术，后来才发现，我没的其实不是时间，而是做那件事时那颗安静的不浮躁的心。

46. Always felt that there was never enough time to sit down and read a good book, to watch a good movie, to exercise, to go on a blank vacation, to write an article, or to learn a new skill. It wasn't until later that I realized that what I actually lacked wasn't time, but the quiet, unbothered heart needed to do those things.

47. 忘了从什么时候，开始喜欢一个人躺在床上对着手机按键；忘了从什么时候，我们开始用手机更新心情；忘了从什么时候，转发微博也变成了一种习惯。原来手机可以填补心里的那份空虚，寂寞的人，总离不开手机。手机里藏着你多少秘密呢？——刘震云《手机》

47. I can't remember when I started liking to lie in bed and press the buttons of my phone; I can't remember when we started updating our mood with our phones; I can't remember when forwarding Weibo posts also became a habit. It turns out that the phone can fill that void in one's heart, and lonely people can't be separated from their phones. How many secrets does your phone hold? ——Liu Zhenyun, "The Phone"

48. 俄没有地方藏，俄只能仰着头不让泪水划下，!

48. Russia has nowhere to hide, Russia can only lift her head to prevent tears from streaming down!

49. 有时，在发生这些事时，我们选择沉默或者挺身而出，可能会影响那个人的一生。

49. Sometimes, when these things happen, our choice to remain silent or to stand up may affect that person's entire life.

50. 爱是一场催眠，醒来之后你被谁吸了灵。这就是为什么爱过之后，总觉得不仅失去他，也失去了一部分自己。被爱的人总是掌灵者，去爱的人反而失魂。在每段真心付出的感情中，总有一个人献祭了灵魂，收获了残忍。

50. Love is a kind of hypnosis; upon waking, you find yourself possessed by someone else's spirit. That's why after falling in love, one always feels that not only has he lost the other person, but also a part of himself. The beloved is always the possessor of the spirit, while the lover is the one who loses his soul. In every sincere emotional investment, there is always someone who sacrifices their soul and reaps cruelty.

51. 堕落是因为天堂无聊，地狱痛苦，所以沦落人间。

51. Degeneration is because heaven is boring, hell is painful, so it descends to the human world.

52. 只要路是对的，就不害怕遥远。只要认准是值得的，就不在乎沧桑变化。

52. As long as the path is right, there is no fear of distance. As long as it is deemed worthwhile, there is no concern for the vicissitudes of change.

53. 一生只想爱你一人，十年之约，不离不弃。余生的路还长。

53. I only want to love you for one lifetime, a ten-year promise, never leaving nor forsaking you. The road ahead of the rest of my life is still long.

54. 躺在床上玩手机，一想到放假了好久了还没有碰过书，我就啪的抽了自我一耳光，TM的玩个手机还分心。

54. Lying in bed playing with my phone, I thought to myself, "It's been so long since I've taken a vacation and I haven't touched a book yet," and I slapped myself in the face. DAMN, even playing with a phone distracts me.

55. 只想找一个在我失意时能够承受我的眼泪，在我欢乐时能够让我咬一口的肩膀。

55. Just want to find a shoulder that can bear my tears when I am disappointed and let me bite into when I am joyful.

56. 现在无法触碰的难过，终将可以当作笑话去讲。时间不能改变你的故事内容，却可以改变你的叙述方式。

56. Sadness that cannot be touched now will eventually be something you can laugh about. Time cannot change the content of your story, but it can change the way you narrate it.

57. 《道德经》说：“静生定，定生慧。”急事乍临，火烧眉毛，但与其手足无措，不得要领，不如暂且冷静，弄清问题，理出头绪，寻找对策。不能因为急而乱了方寸，慌了心神，以致找不到解决问题的突破口。

57. The Tao Te Ching says, "Stillness gives rise to tranquility, and tranquility gives rise to wisdom." When an emergency suddenly arrives, like a fire on the eyebrows, it is better to be calm and composed, to understand the problem, to sort out the details, and to seek solutions, rather than to be at a loss and unable to grasp the key points. One should not be so hurried that they lose their composure and panic, leading to a lack of breakthroughs in solving the problem.

58. 每一天过的跟复制似的没有惊喜没有意外9、有没有一个人，你想见，却又见不到；有没有一个人，你想爱，却又不敢爱；有没有一个人，你想忘，却又不舍忘。

58. Every day feels like a copy, without any surprises or unexpected events. Is there someone you want to see but can't; is there someone you want to love but dare not; is there someone you want to forget but can't bear to let go.

59. 不要急着让生活给予你所有的答案，有时候，你要拿出耐心等等。生活的美好，总在你不经意的时候，盛装莅临。

59. Don't hurry to get all the answers life has to offer; sometimes, you need to be patient and wait. The beauty of life always arrives in a grand manner at times when you least expect it.

60. 你以后结婚了，对象不是我，我就安静的做一个隔壁老王。

60. If you get married in the future and your partner isn't me, I'll quietly be the neighbor Mr. Wang.

61. 眼眶里的泪，思念里的影，到最终，谁也不会成为谁一生彼此的拥有。

61. The tears in the eye sockets, the shadows in the longing, in the end, no one will become the lifelong possession of the other.

62. 我用时间秤自我的重量，然后数落自我的肤浅与狂妄。

62. I weigh myself using a time scale, then I berate myself for my shallowness and arrogance.

63. 水静则渣滓沉，人静则智慧生。不要被“急”所裹挟，要急中取静，不慌不忙，从容不迫，才能找到破解难题的金钥匙。

The translation of the text to English is: 63. When water is still, sediments settle; when a person is calm, wisdom arises. Do not be swept away by "haste." Learn to find calm amidst urgency, not in a hurry, composed and unpressured, so that you can find the golden key to solving difficult problems.

64. 真正的无聊，则是对最不堪忍受的事情也能够处于完全的麻木状态。

64. True boredom is the ability to be completely numb to the most unbearable things.

65. 人生最大的烦恼，不是选择，而是不知道自己想得到什么，不知道到了生命的终点，自己想有些什么人在身边。——张小娴

65. The greatest烦恼 in life is not the choice, but not knowing what one wants to achieve, and not knowing what kind of people one wants around oneself at the end of life. - Zhang Xiaoxian

66. 恭喜你，又老了一岁，生日快乐！我家老王，以我寸点微光，护你万丈光芒，我不喜欢这世界，我只喜欢你，愿你被世界温柔以待，余生我陪你走，921，就爱你。

66. Congratulations on another year older, happy birthday! My old Wang, with my tiny bit of light, protecting your brilliance of a thousand feet. I don't like this world, I only like you, and I wish you to be treated gently by the world. The rest of my life, I'll accompany you, 921, I love you.

67. 每个人总有不愿意公开的秘密，千万不要苦苦相逼。

67. Everyone has secrets they are unwilling to disclose publicly; please do not insist so persistently.

68. 人最大的困难是认识自我，最容易的也是认识自我。很多时候，我们认不清自我，只因为我们把自我放在了一个错误的位置，给了自我一个错觉。所以，不怕前路坎坷，只怕从一开始就走错了方向。

68. The greatest difficulty for humans is to know themselves, and it is also the easiest. Many times, we fail to understand ourselves because we have placed ourselves in the wrong position, giving ourselves a misconception. Therefore, what we should fear is not the rugged path ahead, but rather that we have taken the wrong direction from the very beginning.

69. 我所做的一切，我努力改变自己，都是为了你。

69. Everything I do, and the efforts I make to change myself, are all for you.

70. 放假的时候发烧都会坚持上网，上课的时候打个喷嚏都会觉得是癌症晚期。

70. When on vacation, a fever will persist in staying online, and during class, even a single sneeze will feel like it's the late stage of cancer.

71. 努力是会上瘾的，异常是尝到甜头之后。不努力也是会上瘾的，异常是在床上玩手机的时候。

71. Effort can be addictive, especially after tasting the sweetness. Not working hard can also be addictive, particularly when you're playing with your phone in bed.

72. 47如果生活必须要取悦一个人，我们最应当取悦的是自我，随着心的方向走，看到别人的光芒，也知道自我的耀眼。不负青春，不负自我。

72. 47 If life must please someone, we should please ourselves the most, follow the direction of our hearts, see the brilliance of others, and also recognize our own brilliance. Do not squander youth, do not betray oneself.

73. 不小心碰到烂人烂事，最好的方法就是，远远避开。即便沾上了，也不要纠缠，及时止损，走为上策。

73. The best way to deal with unpleasant people and things by accident is to keep a distance. Even if you get involved, don't linger, cut your losses promptly, and running away is the best course of action.

74. 陶渊明曾为了生计，外出做官。八十多天后，他后悔了。觉得不应该让“心为形役”，阻塞了自己内心的声音。转念一想，后悔有何用，不如当下遵从内心的选择，辞官归隐，放浪于诗酒江湖。

74. Tao Yuanming once went out to serve as an official for a living. After more than 80 days, he regretted it. He felt that he should not have let "the heart be enslaved by the body," which blocked the voice within his inner self. Thinking it over, what good is regret? It's better to follow the choice of the heart at this moment, resign from office, and indulge in poetry and wine in the world of江湖.

75. 爱一个人，就是要他沐浴爱的幸福；爱一个人，就是要他远离孤独的烦忧；爱一个人，就是要他告别失意的困扰；爱一个人，就是要他不再经受心灵的折磨；爱一个人，无论他在何方都要为他默默的祈祷；爱一个人，无论自己身在何处都为他牵肠挂肚；爱一个人，情愿让自己受苦受累也要为他铺平道路……

75. To love someone is to let them bathe in the happiness of love; to love someone is to help them distance themselves from the worries of loneliness; to love someone is to help them say goodbye to the troubles of disappointment; to love someone is to ensure they no longer endure the torment of the soul; to love someone, regardless of where they are, is to silently pray for them; to love someone, no matter where you are yourself, is to be deeply concerned for them; to love someone, you are willing to endure hardship and toil to pave the way for them...

76. 一个人走不开，不过因为他不想走开；一个人失约，乃因他不想赴约，一切借口均属废话，都是用以掩饰不愿牺牲。

76. A person cannot leave, not because they do not want to leave; a person breaks a date, because they do not want to keep it; all excuses are mere nonsense, all used to cover up unwillingness to make sacrifices.

77. 有没有单身的**姐，我可以叫你起床，陪你聊天，陪你打游戏，每天给你说早安晚安，如果你遇到你的那个他，就互删，如果我们有了感情，就让我陪你走完余生。

77. Are there any single sisters? I can wake you up, chat with you, play games with you, say good morning and good night to you every day. If you meet the one for you, we can delete each other, and if we develop feelings, let me accompany you through the rest of your life.

78. 我的东西是我的，我给你，你能够拿着；我不给，你不该怨我，更不能抢。对你好，应当珍惜，而不是觉得理所当然，太多人不明白这个道理。

78. My things are mine. If I give them to you, you can take them; if I don't, you shouldn't blame me, and certainly not take them by force. Being treated well should be cherished, not taken for granted. Too many people don't understand this principle.

79. 忧伤是一张矫情的脸，面目可憎。既然选择活着，就必定有所承担。那些无所谓的情绪，怎么有资格出席生命的狂欢？

79. Sadness is a pretentious face, ugly in its appearance. Since choosing to live, one must necessarily take on certain responsibilities. How can those indifferent emotions qualify to attend the revelry of life?

80. 特别的爱给特别的你，生日快乐我的亲！生日快乐！往后余生我陪你走。

80. Special love to you, my dear! Happy birthday! I'll accompany you through the rest of your life.

81. 被误解时微微一笑，是一种素养；受委屈的时候坦然一笑，是一种大度；吃亏的时候开心的一笑，是一种豁达；身处窘境时候自嘲的一笑，是一种智慧；无奈时候达观的一笑，是一种境界；危难时候泰然一笑，是一种大气；被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑，这是一种自信；失恋的时候能轻轻的一笑，这是一种洒脱。

81. A smile in the face of misunderstanding is a sign of breeding; a composed smile when wronged shows magnanimity; a cheerful smile when at a loss is a sign of generosity; a self-deprecating smile in a predicament is a display of wisdom; an optimistic smile in times of helplessness is a level of insight; a composed smile in the face of danger is a testament to magnanimity; a calm smile when being belittled is a manifestation of confidence; a light-hearted smile after a breakup is a sign of ease.

82. 56愿你一生努力，一生被爱，想要的都拥有，得不到的都释怀。

82. 56 May you strive hard all your life, be loved all your life, have everything you want, and let go of what you can't get.

83. 57余生只喜欢喜欢我的人，丢掉所有不值得的人，活在有意义的人生中。

83.57 The rest of my life will only like those who like me, discard all those who are not worthy, and live a meaningful life.

84. 无聊的人就是要做无聊的事，这才对得起无聊。

84. Bored people are meant to do boring things; that's the way to make sense of boredom.

85. 一个“哦”字，打断了后面多少要说的话，隐藏着心里多少的落寞。

85. The word "Oh" interrupted so much that was to be said next, hiding so much loneliness in the heart.

86. 人生的大部份时间里，承诺的同义词是束缚，奈何我们向往束缚。

86. For most of our lives, the synonym for commitment is bondage, yet we yearn for bondage.