1. 我们终此一生，就是要摆脱他人的期待，找到真正的自己。——《无声告白》

1. Throughout our lives, our goal is to break free from others' expectations and find the true ourselves. ——From "The Unspoken Declaration"

2. 旁边大爷摇了摇头，说：“现在年轻人啊，没一个有教养的。”

2. The old man beside him shook his head and said, "Nowadays, none of the young people have any manners."

3. ●临事让人一步，自有余地；临财放宽一分，自有余味。做人不能只有一双美丽的眼睛，更要有一个智慧的眼光！

3. ● When facing difficulties, give others a step ahead, and you will have more room for yourself; when encountering wealth, be generous by a little, and you will taste more of it. In life, one should not only have beautiful eyes but also a wise perspective!

4. 所以，你见到的不一定是事实，你知道的并不一定是真相。

4. Therefore, what you see may not be the truth, and what you know may not be the real truth.

5. 古语说：“仁者不责，善者不评。”

5. As an old saying goes: "The benevolent do not blame, and the virtuous do not criticize."

6. 8费劲巴拉的关系都是错的关系，真正对的人，相处起来so easy。

6. Relationships that are too hard are all wrong relationships. The truly right person is so easy to get along with.

7. 经营好自己，做一个有担当的亲人，靠谱的朋友，优质的爱人。

7. Manage yourself well, be a responsible family member, a reliable friend, and a quality partner.

8. 但不是在此刻 此刻的路 艰深而又漫长 我们须得走好它。

8. But not at this moment. The path at this moment is deep and long, and we must tread it well.

9. 《道德经》说：“知者不言，言者不知。”一个心智成熟的人，不会用语言来刷存在感，更不会通过说道别人，来论证自己的力量。

9. The Tao Te Ching says, "The wise do not speak, and those who speak are not wise." A mature person would not use language to boost their own sense of existence, nor would they argue their own strength by pointing fingers at others.

10. ●动之以情，待之以礼，立身以德，施众以义。为人以诚，律己以严，处事以恒，助人以爱。做人须懂得：心易服于德，而难服于力！

10. ● Move people with emotion, treat them with courtesy, establish oneself with virtue, and distribute to the masses with righteousness. Be sincere in dealing with others, be strict with oneself, deal with matters with consistency, and help others with love. One must understand that the heart is easily swayed by virtue but difficult to be swayed by force!

11. 观点不同，互相尊重。层次不同，争辩无益。

11. Different opinions should be respected. When at different levels, arguing is futile.

12. ●人失足，可能马上恢复站立；人失信，永远难以挽回。信誉比财产更重要，一个人财产再多，也永远洗刷不了失约而造成的良心污点！

12. ● When a person stumbles, they may quickly recover and stand up again; but when a person breaks their trust, it is almost impossible to regain it. Reputation is more important than wealth. No matter how much wealth a person has, it can never wash away the moral stain caused by a broken promise!

13. ●做事要精明，做人要厚道。心胸宽广，化恩怨干戈为真情玉帛就是厚道；心存善良，人负我我不负人就是厚道；心向美好，少栽刺多栽花就是厚道！

13. ●Be shrewd in doing things and honest in dealing with people. Having a broad mind, turning grievances and conflicts into true friendship and benevolence is being honest; having a kind heart, when others fail me, I don't fail them is being honest; aspiring towards beauty, planting fewer thorns and more flowers is being honest!

14. 和谐不是一百个人发出同一种声音，而是当一百个人发出一百种不同的声音时，他们同时尊重彼此。

14. Harmony is not about one hundred people making the same sound; it is about one hundred people making one hundred different sounds while respecting each other at the same time.

15. 大伙听了，都为刚才不分青红皂白的指责、评论，而愧悔不已。他们纷纷站起致敬，并惶恐道歉。

15. Upon hearing this, everyone felt deep remorse for the previous unrestricted accusations and comments. They all stood up to pay respects and anxiously apologized.

16. 没有边界的心软，只会让对方得寸进尺；毫无原则的仁慈，只会让对方为所欲为。——《教父》

16. Leniency without boundaries will only encourage others to take advantage; benevolence without principles will only allow others to do as they please. — The Godfather

17. 静而不争，心平气和，朝着自己的目标从容前行。

17. Be still and do not strive, maintain inner peace, and calmly proceed towards your goals.

18. 5生活再糟糕也无妨的，因为这并不妨碍你变得更好。

18. No matter how bad life is, it's fine because it doesn't prevent you from becoming better.

19. 村上春树说：“这个世界上根本没有正确的选择，我们只不过是要努力奋斗，使当初的选择变得正确。

19. Haruki Murakami says, "There is no such thing as a correct choice in this world; we merely strive hard to make the choices we made initially turn out right."

20. ●做人要五有：有强健的身体；有正当的职业；有精湛的技能；有丰富的知识；有公道爱人的热心！

20. ●To be a person, one should have five qualities: a strong and healthy body; a legitimate profession; exquisite skills; abundant knowledge; and a warm-hearted passion for justice and loving others!

21. 11人们面临的很多的状况中，都是才华配不上自己的梦想，能力配不上野心，所以要么就加倍努力，要么就把期待放得低一些。

21. In many situations that people face, talent does not match their dreams, and abilities do not match their ambitions, so either they need to work twice as hard or they should lower their expectations.

22. 有时候你不得不做一些你不喜欢的事，有时候你得咬牙忍下来，把事情做完。生活就是这样。

22. Sometimes you have to do things you don't like, and sometimes you have to bite the bullet and get through it until the task is done. That's just the way life is.

23. ●有了同情心，才能利人；有了谅解心，才能容人；有了宽容心，才能爱人；有了忍耐心，才能做人！

23. ● With compassion, one can benefit others; with understanding, one can tolerate others; with tolerance, one can love others; with patience, one can be a person!

24. 02 我始终相信读过的所有书都不会白读，它总会在未来日子的某个场合，帮助我表现得更出色。 ——董卿

24. 02 I always believe that all the books I have read will not be in vain. They will always help me perform better in some occasion in the future. ——Dong Qing

25. 20你可以不用走得那么快甚至飞奔，但你记得，永远不要随便回头，因为生活总需要超前进的，而不是活在过往中。

25. You don't have to walk so fast or even run, but remember, never turn back carelessly, because life always needs to move forward, not live in the past.

26. 未知全貌，不予置评。 ——《魔道祖师》

26. Without knowing the whole picture, one should not make a judgment. —— "The Magic Tutor"

27. ●鸟有树则栖，树倒则飞；鱼有水则活，水涸则亡；花有春则开，春去则谢；人有信则立，信丧则败。诚信是做人之本!

27. ● Birds rest in trees, and fly away when the trees fall; fish live in water, and die when the water dries up; flowers bloom in spring, and wither when spring is gone; people stand firm with integrity, and fail when integrity is lost. Integrity is the foundation of being a person!

28. ●人无礼则不生，事无礼则不成，国无礼则不宁。做人要懂礼仪，懂得尊重人，懂得鄙人者人恒鄙之，敬人者人恒敬之！

28. ● Without manners, people cannot thrive; without manners, things cannot be accomplished; without manners, a country cannot be at peace. As a person, one should understand etiquette, respect others, and know that those who disdain others will always be disdained, while those who respect others will always be respected!

29. 庄子说：“夏虫不可语冰，井蛙不可语海。”跟一个和自己不在同一层次的人讲道理，争高下，本身就是不成熟的表现。

29. Chuang Tzu said, "You cannot talk about ice to a summer insect, nor can you talk about the sea to a frog in a well." Arguing and competing with someone who is not on the same level as you is itself a manifestation of immaturity.

30. 另一位大妈听不下去了，大声冲着姑娘道：“瞧你这打扮，跟鸡似的，应该没父母管教吧。”

30. The other middle-aged woman couldn't stand it any longer and shouted at the girl, "Look at how you're dressed, like a chicken. You must not have parents to teach you."

31. 知人不评人，知事不议事，既是尊重他人，也是善待自己。

31. Understanding people without judging them, knowing things without discussing them, is both respecting others and treating oneself kindly.

32. “永远不要轻易地论断他人，因为我们的认识能力是有限的。”心理学有个著名的“晕轮效应”：

32. "Never easily judge others, for our ability to understand is limited." Psychology has a famous "halo effect":

33. 赢了不光彩，输了添烦恼，相持不下费精神。不如用争辩的时间做点有意义的事，开开心心过好自己的生活。

33. Winning is not dignified, losing brings烦恼, and stalemate exhausts one's spirit. It's better to spend the time arguing on doing something meaningful and live happily with your own life.

34. 售票员不但没回答，还责难他：“你手上不是有地图吗？不懂自己找路就不要出门。”

34. The ticket seller not only didn't answer, but also blamed him: "Don't you have a map in your hand? If you can't find your own way, don't go out."

35. 最后，这位小伙子被送去公安局录口供，售票员也被单位记过处分。

35. Finally, the young man was sent to the Public Security Bureau for a recorded statement, and the ticket seller was also disciplined by their unit.

36. 19有些时候，生活的确是不公平的，但我们却没有资格抱怨它，并以此为颓废绝望的理由，这对以后的自己，没办法交代。

36. Sometimes, life is indeed unfair, but we don't have the right to complain about it and use it as an excuse for decadence and despair. We won't be able to account for it to ourselves in the future.

37. ●容人、助人是人际相处之良津；知恩、报恩是人格追求之美德；宽厚、诚信是做人处事之根本。

37. ● Showing tolerance and helping others is the essence of harmonious interpersonal relationships; recognizing and repaying kindness is a noble virtue of personality pursuit; being generous and honest is the foundation for dealing with people and affairs.

38. ●不因穷困或富有而改变态度，不因升迁或失落而改变品格，不因礼遇或违逆而改变尊敬，不因安然或险遇而改变心情，不因成功或挫败而改变信念,

38. ● Do not change one's attitude due to poverty or wealth, do not alter one's character because of promotion or loss, do not change one's respect because of courteous treatment or defiance, do not change one's mood because of ease or danger, and do not alter one's beliefs because of success or failure.

39. 永远要保持一颗独立思考的大脑，才不会让自己在这个信息高度碎片化的时代里迷失自己，让各种自媒体牵着鼻子走，成为待宰的羔羊、被割的韭菜。

39. Always maintain a brain capable of independent thinking, so as not to lose oneself in this era of highly fragmented information, be led by various self-media, and become a sheep to be slaughtered or a grass to be harvested.

40. 王小波： 人的一切痛苦，本质上都是对自己无能的愤怒。

40. Wang Xiaobo: All the pain of a person is essentially anger at their own inability.

41. ●接受别人批评有雅量，才能做人做事；改正自己错误有勇气，才能立功立业。自用则浅薄，自谦则丰富！

41. ● Possessing the virtue of accepting others' criticism is essential for both personal and professional conduct; having the courage to correct one's own mistakes is necessary for achieving success and establishing a career. Selfishness leads to shallowness, while modesty brings richness!

42. 人生最重要的修行，莫过于管住嘴，守住心。管控好自己的边界，不侵犯别人的生活，也不消耗自己。

42. The most important practice in life is to control one's mouth and guard one's heart. Manage one's own boundaries well, do not intrude on others' lives, and do not exhaust oneself.

43. 你觉得别人越炫耀什么，别人就越缺少什么？实际上，你认为别人所炫耀的，只不过是你所缺少的。

43. Do you think that the more someone brags about something, the more they lack it? In reality, you believe that what others boast about is actually what you lack.

44. 一个充满智慧的人，自有一种沉稳、笃静的力量。知道守口即是守心，不轻易责难和评价他人，更不会因口舌之快而伤人害己。他们安静地观察世界，笃定地经营自己。

44. A person brimming with wisdom naturally exudes a calm and steadfast power. They understand that guarding their tongue is akin to guarding their heart, refraining from easily blaming and judging others, and certainly not harming others or themselves out of the fleeting satisfaction of being sharp-tongued. They quietly observe the world and steadfastly manage themselves.

45. ●失意不丧志，得意不忘形；挫折不气馁，失败不灰心；勇敢不鲁莽，自强不自欺；批评不中伤，赞美不奉承；自信不骄傲，矫枉不过正!

45. ● Not to lose heart in disappointment, not to forget oneself in success; not to be discouraged by setbacks, not to lose hope in failure; to be brave but not reckless, to be self-reliant but not deceive oneself; to criticize without malice, to praise without flattery; to be confident but not proud, to correct but not overcorrect!

46. ●不妄动，动必有道；不滥言，言必有理；不苟求，求必有义；不虚行，行必有正。做人要：知理、知事、知人、知情！

46. ● Do not act impulsively; every action must have a reason. Do not speak carelessly; every word must have a rationale. Do not seek arbitrarily; every pursuit must have a moral basis. Do not act in vain; every act must be righteous. In life, one should: understand reason, understand events, understand people, and understand emotions!

47. ●做人应自强自立，不因他人言行而动摇初衷；做人应自主自尊，不因遇到困难而灰心丧气。面对挫折要有自信，面对失败要有傲骨！ ●坐姿如钟，必须稳重；站立如松，必须正直；容貌如镜，必须明净；行止如法，必和礼仪；视听如教，必能受益；思想如流，必然清澄。

47. ● One should strive for self-reliance and self-improvement, not be swayed from one's original intentions by others' words and actions; one should be self-assured and self-respecting, not be discouraged by difficulties. One must have confidence in the face of setbacks and stubbornness in the face of failure! ● Sit like a clock, must be steady; stand like a pine, must be upright; look like a mirror, must be clear and clean; act in accordance with the rules, must adhere to etiquette; listen and watch as if they were being educated, must benefit; think as if in a flowing stream, must be clear and pure.

48. 不要把善良看成愚蠢，不要把谦虚看成懦弱！●大事不糊涂，小事不渗漏，得拿起时则拿起，得放下时且放下。做人要懂得拿得起是一种胆略，放得下则是一种智慧！ ●做人切记三不要：一不要拿自己的错误来惩罚自己 ；二不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己；三不要拿自己的错误来惩罚别人！ ●比赛，有胜有负；地位，有上有下；际遇，有好有坏；人生，有得有失。做人要尽力而为，处事要随遇而安！ ●做人要内外一如，处事要知行合一；说话要言行一致，行为要表里如一；做人要前后一致，做事要老少无欺。 ●做事宁可慢些，不要太急而错误；做人宁可笨些，不要太巧而败事。做事可失败，做人不能失败；过去可失败，未来不能失败！

48. Do not regard kindness as foolishness, and do not consider modesty as cowardice!●In big matters, be clear-headed; in small matters, be careful not to leak; when it's time to take, take; when it's time to let go, let go. To be a person, knowing when to take is a courage, and knowing when to let go is wisdom! ●Be mindful of three things when being a person: one, do not punish yourself with your own mistakes; two, do not punish yourself with others' mistakes; three, do not punish others with your own mistakes! ●In competitions, there are winners and losers; in positions, there are those who rise and those who fall; in fortunes, there are good and bad; in life, there are gains and losses. To be a person, do your best; to deal with matters, be content with what comes your way! ●To be a person, be consistent in words and actions; to deal with matters, be a unity of knowledge and action; to speak, be consistent with your words and actions; to behave, be consistent with your inner and outer selves; to be a person, be consistent in your conduct; to do things, be honest with the young and old. ●It is better to do things more slowly than to be hasty and make mistakes; it is better to be simple in being a person than to be too cunning and fail. You can fail in doing things, but you cannot fail in being a person; you can fail in the past, but you cannot fail in the future!

49. 日子是过出来的，不是用来争辩的。

49. Days are lived, not argued over.

50. ●做事提得起、放得下，可扩大自己的事业；做人看得远、行得正，可提升自己的人格。做人要有情有义，全心全意；做事要有头有尾，善始善终。

50. ● Being able to take up and let go of tasks can expand one's career; having a far-sighted perspective and acting properly can elevate one's character. In life, one should be compassionate and righteous, wholehearted and dedicated; in work, one should have a clear beginning and end, and finish what one starts.

51. ⑨做人不可以太低下，因为父亲曾把你举过头顶，母亲许的愿是希望你天天开心，所以再难过也要记得笑。

51. ⑨One should not be too lowly, for your father once held you above his head, and your mother's wish is for you to be happy every day, so even when you are sad, remember to smile.

52. 在世间，本就是各人下雪，各人有各人的隐晦与皎洁。

52. In the world, each person has their own falling snow, each with their own hidden and bright aspects.

53. 没有思想深度的人，才会喧哗张扬地到处刷存在感；富有内在修养的人，都懂得沉默自由力量。

53. It is only those without depth of thought who make a loud and showy display of their presence everywhere; those with inner cultivation all know the power of silence.

54. 6对于任何人和事，见好就收，千万别过于贪婪，否则累的吃亏的，都是你自己。

54. 6 For any person or matter, know when to stop and don't be overly greedy. Otherwise, the ones who suffer and lose out are always yourself.

55. ●帅气不轻浮，平常不霸气，善辩不纠缠，能言不多事，谨慎不畏缩，勇敢不粗鲁，细致不小器，精明不计较，重情不自扰，失恋不失志!

55. ● Handsome but not flippant, calm but not domineering, eloquent but not stubborn, articulate but not meddlesome, cautious but not timid, brave but not rude, meticulous but not petty, shrewd but not contentious, loyal without causing trouble, heartbroken but not defeated!

56. ●做人不图虚名，讥讽随之消失；做人多干实事，荣誉不期而至。做人要自由、自主、自立，做人不要自我、自大、自负！

56. ● Do not seek empty fame in life, and satire will disappear with it; engage in more practical actions, and honor will come unexpectedly. Live with freedom, autonomy, and independence; do not be self-centered, conceited, or overconfident!

57. 唯有懂得自省，对人宽容体谅，人生之路才会越走越顺。

57. Only by understanding self-reflection and showing tolerance and understanding towards others, can one's path in life become smoother and smoother.

58. 带着固有印象去看待周围的人和事，难免出现以点概面、不太客观的评价和判断，自然会犯下片面性错误。

58. Viewing people and things around with inherent impressions is bound to result in evaluations and judgments that are not very objective, generalizing from a single point to the whole, and naturally, it will commit the error of one-sidedness.

59. ●在贫困中，要有忠心志气；在危难中，要有信心勇气；在富贵中，要有舍财义气；在做人中，要有浩然正气。

59. ●In poverty, have loyal and resolute spirit; in danger, have confidence and courage; in wealth and honor, have generosity and righteousness; in being a person, have a noble and upright demeanor.

60. 久病床前无孝子，久贫家中无贤妻，人穷闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲，不信你看杯中酒，杯杯先敬有钱人，求人如吞三尺剑，靠人如攀九重天。自古茶倒七分满，留下三分是人情。茶倒七分满，才不会水溢烫手。为人处世也是如此，饭要七分饱，话留三分好。半人半我半自在，半醒半醉半神仙。半亲半爱半苦乐，半俗半禅半随缘。人生一半在于我，另外一半听自然。做人不要做绝，说话不要说尽。有酒有肉多兄弟，患难何曾见一人。人情似纸张张薄，世事如棋局局新。门前拴上高头马，不是亲来也是亲。门前放根讨饭棍，亲戚故友不上门。世人结交需黄金，黄金不多交不深，三穷三富过到老、十年兴败多少人、谁人背后无人说、谁人背后不说人！

60. There are no filial sons by the bedside of a long-sick patient, no virtuous wives in a long-poor household. In a bustling market, when people are poor, no one asks about them; but the rich in the depths of the mountains have distant relatives. Disbelieve me? Look at the wine in the cup; each cup is first offered to the rich. Seeking help is like swallowing a three-foot sword, and depending on others is like climbing the nine heavens. Since ancient times, tea should be poured to seven-tenths full, leaving three-tenths for people's feelings. Only when tea is poured to seven-tenths full will it not overflow and burn the hands. In life and in society, one should eat to seven-tenths full and keep three-tenths of one's words for good. Half of me, half of you, half free; half awake, half drunk, half a god. Half family, half love, half joy and sorrow; half secular, half meditative, half going with the flow. Half of life is in my hands, and the other half is left to nature. Do not be too extreme in one's actions, and do not speak too much. With wine and meat, there are many brothers; in times of trouble, no one is seen. People's feelings are as thin as paper, and the world is like a chess game, each move new. Tie a high-stepping horse in front of the door, and it will be like family even if it is not. Put a beggar's stick in front of the door, and even relatives and friends will not come. People make friends with gold, and without enough gold, friendships are not deep. Three times poor, three times rich, and one lives to old age; ten years of prosperity and decline, how many people have seen; who has not been talked about behind another's back, and who has not talked about others behind their back!

61. ●对自我要有约束力，对他人要有亲和力，对处世要有宽容力，对求知要有精进力，对困境要有忍耐力，对成功要有推动力！

61. ● One must have self-discipline, be approachable to others, have tolerance in dealing with people, perseverance in seeking knowledge, endurance in the face of difficulties, and drive in the pursuit of success!

62. 05 很多人的失落，是违背自己年少时的立志。自认为成熟，自认为练达，自认为精明。从前多幼稚，总算看透了，想穿了。于是我们就此变成自己年少时最憎恨的人。 ——木心

62. 05 Many people's disappointment is a betrayal of their youthful aspirations. They believe themselves to be mature, accomplished, and astute. They used to be so naive, but now they've seen through it all, understood it thoroughly. And so, we become the very people we disliked the most in our youth. ——Mu Xin

63. 知理不争辩，是不与人较劲的豁达，胸怀大度的格局。

63. Knowing the truth without arguing is the magnanimity of not competing with others, and having a broadminded perspective.

64. 余生往后，管控好自己的言行，不断精进自己的修养，做一个智慧通透的人。

64. From now on in my remaining life, control my own words and actions, continuously refine my character, and be a wise and perceptive person.

65. 其实所有纠结做选择的人心里早就有了答案，咨询只是想得到心里内心所倾向的选择。 最终的所谓命运，还是自己一步步走出来的 。——东野圭吾 《解忧杂货店》

65. In fact, everyone who is纠结 about making a choice has already had an answer in their hearts. Seeking advice is just a way to confirm the choice that they are leaning towards internally. Ultimately, the so-called fate is still something that one walks out step by step. ——Higashino Keigo, "The Housekeeping of Distressed Souls"

66. ●做事，无法要求完美，但至少要能完成，才算尽到自己责任；做人，无法要求万能，但至少做到可能，才能堪受人生担当。

66. ● In doing things, one cannot expect perfection, but at least they should be completed to fulfill one's responsibilities; in being a person, one cannot expect to be all-powerful, but at least one should achieve what is possible to bear the responsibilities of life.

67. ●自尊、自知、自制是做人最高境界。尊重自己、尊重别人、保持尊严，对自己的行为负责是做人的基本素养！

67. ●Self-respect, self-knowledge, and self-control are the highest境界 of being human. Respecting oneself, respecting others, maintaining dignity, and taking responsibility for one's actions are the basic qualities of being a person!

68. 你的投资理念非常简单，为什么大家不直接复制你的做法呢？

68. Your investment philosophy is very simple, why don't everyone just copy what you do?

69. ⑧有趣的人大概就是:“他的信息密度和知识层面都远高于你，但他愿意俯下身听你讲那些没营养的废话，并乐此不彼。”

69. ⑧An interesting person might be described as: "Their information density and level of knowledge are far beyond yours, yet they are willing to bend down and listen to you talk about those meaningless trivialities, and they actually enjoy doing so."

70. ●为人要有品德，做事要有品质，生活要有品味，立业要有品位。不自轻自贱、不自暴自弃、不夜郎自大、不狂妄无礼。

70. ● One should have virtue in one's character, quality in one's actions, taste in one's life, and taste in one's career. Do not belittle oneself, do not despair, do not be overly proud, and do not be presumptuous and impolite.

71. 砍柴人说：“我能够命人打造一把金斧头，坎尽所有的木柴。”

71. The woodcutter said, "I can command someone to make a golden axe that can chop through all the wood."

72. 虽然我是心理咨询师，但是这次我可能要请大家喝点毒鸡汤了：

72. Although I am a psychologist, this time I might have to serve you some "toxic chicken soup":

73. ●大海的浪花靠风吹起，生活的浪花靠人鼓起。做人应积极进取，挑战人生，使人格完美，使真情永恒！

73. ●The waves of the sea are raised by the wind, and the waves of life are stirred by people. As human beings, we should be proactive and ambitious, challenge life, perfect our character, and make true feelings eternal!

74. 我不确定和你有没有未来，哪怕我再喜欢你，我也不想花你的钱，我自己也可以赚钱的呀

74. I'm not sure if there's a future between us, even if I like you very much, I don't want to spend your money, I can make my own money too.

75. ●做人缺乏厚道，就有鸿门宴，就有莫须有。做人缺乏厚道，就缺少信任，缺少融洽，缺少和睦相处。土地不厚，承不了山川海岳；人心不厚，得不到道义情谊。

75. ● If a person lacks integrity, there will be the Hongmen Banquet and the unjust accusations. If a person lacks integrity, they lack trust, harmony, and peaceful coexistence. The land is not thick enough to bear mountains, rivers, seas, and oceans; the heart is not thick enough to gain moral friendship.

76. 楼下一个男人病的要死，那间壁的一家唱着留声机；对面是弄孩子。楼上有两人狂笑；还有打牌声。河中的船上有女人哭着她死去的母亲。

76. A man downstairs is deathly ill, and the family next door is playing a gramophone; across the alley, they are playing with children. Upstairs, two people are laughing wildly; there's also the sound of playing cards. On a boat in the river, a woman is crying over her deceased mother.

77. ●做人要靠“二礼”治天下，“三法”定江山。所谓“二礼”是：彬彬有礼、讲话讲理；所谓“三法”是：想法、看法、做法。

77. A person should govern the world with "two rituals" and establish the country with "three laws." The so-called "two rituals" are: being courteous and speaking with reason; the "three laws" are: thinking, viewpoint, and action.

78. ⑩你讨厌父亲的平庸，却不知道他也曾是个怀揣梦想的少年；你嫌弃母亲的唠叨，却不记得她也曾是个对镜贴花的姑娘。

78. ⑩ You dislike your father's mediocrity, yet you don't know that he was once a young man with dreams in his heart; you dislike your mother's nagging, but you forget that she was once a girl who adorned herself with flowers in front of the mirror.

79. ●得意失意，切莫在意；顺境逆境，切莫止境。善待自己，幸福无比；善待别人，快乐无比；善待生命，健康无比。

79. ● Whether in success or failure, do not take it to heart; whether in prosperity or adversity, do not stop striving. Treat yourself kindly, and happiness is boundless; treat others kindly, and joy is boundless; treat life kindly, and health is boundless.

80. 任何事物都不值得你牺牲 健康 来追求。 ——叔本华

80. Nothing is worth sacrificing your health for. — Schopenhauer

81. 点亮在看，往后余生，愿你我都能身修内在、神闲气静，不问花开几许，只问浅笑安然。

81. Turn on the like, for the rest of our lives, may we both cultivate our inner selves and maintain a calm and composed demeanor, not inquiring about how many flowers bloom, but only about a serene smile.

82. ●对待父母要用心孝敬，对待师长要用心尊敬，对待自己要用心自律，对待他人要用心关爱。做事要脚踏实地，做人要诚实守信！

82. ● Show filial piety with heart towards your parents, respect your teachers with heart, practice self-discipline with heart towards yourself, and show care with heart towards others. Be down-to-earth in your actions and honest and trustworthy in your character!

83. 15一个连自己都不懂得欣赏的人，人生不会有什么乐趣的，从现在开始，多爱自己一点吧。

83. A person who doesn't even appreciate themselves won't find much joy in life. From now on, love yourself a little more.

84. 巴菲特： 因为没有人愿意慢慢变富。

84. Buffett: Because no one wants to get rich slowly.

85. 13谁都不可能天天都过好日子，生活中因为有一些不顺心的日子，才显得好日子闪闪发光。

85. 13 No one can have a good day every single day. It is the days with some misfortunes in life that make the good days shine even brighter.

86. 如果我们随意抓住看到的某个现象，就妄言置评，可能就众口铄金，造成无法弥补的伤害。

86. If we arbitrarily seize upon a phenomenon we see and make rash comments about it, we may end up casting aspersions that could cause irreparable harm.