在纷繁复杂的成人世界里，自律成为了一种稀缺的品格。我们被束缚在生活的低调节奏中，忍受着各种压力，却往往忽略了自我价值的提升。在这个充满挑战的时代，如何摆脱束缚，拥抱自由，成为我们每个人必须面对的课题。

In the complicated world of adults, self-discipline has become a scarce virtue. We are bound by the low rhythm of life, enduring all sorts of pressures, yet often neglect the enhancement of our own value. In this era filled with challenges, how to break free from constraints and embrace freedom has become a topic that each of us must face.

1. 默默的关怀与祝福别人，那是一种无形的布施。

1. Offering silent care and blessings to others is a form of invisible almsgiving.

2. 你不要一直不满人家，你应该一直检讨自己才对。不满人家，是苦了你自己。二

2. You shouldn't always be dissatisfied with others; you should constantly reflect on yourself instead. Being dissatisfied with others only brings you suffering. Second, ...

3. 慈悲是你最好的武器。一一０、只要面对现实，你才能超越现实。一一

3. Compassion is your best weapon. - 110, Only by facing reality can you transcend reality. -

4. 当你劝告别人时，若不顾及别人的自尊心，那么再好的言语都没有用的。

4. When you advise others, if you do not take into account their self-esteem, then no matter how good the words are, they are useless.

5. “牢骚太盛防肠断，风物长宜放眼量。”

5. "Too much complaining may break one's intestines, and one should have a broad perspective on the scenery and things."

6. 懂得低调，是一种修养，更是一种智慧。如果你炫耀自己的优越，显得高人一头，只会招致别人的不屑、怨恨、嫉妒、觊觎。

6. Understanding modesty is a form of cultivation, and more importantly, a kind of wisdom. If you炫耀 your superiority and seem to be superior to others, it will only attract others' disdain, resentment, jealousy, and covetousness.

7. 你硬要把单纯的事情看得很严重，那样子你会很痛苦。八

7. You insist on taking simple matters very seriously, and that will make you very unhappy. 8

8. 万众瞩目的焦点，往往也是别人窥伺的靶子。

8. The focal point of everyone's attention is often also the target that others spy upon.

9. 然而，他却因为插手皇帝的家事，落得全家被杀的下场。

9. However, he ended up with his entire family killed due to his interference in the emperor's domestic affairs.

10. 当你知道迷惑时，并不可怜， 当你不知道迷惑时，才是最可怜的。二

10. It is not pitiful when you know confusion, but it is the most pitiful when you do not know confusion. Two

11. 心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人，永远听不见别人的心声。三

11. A person whose heart is filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others. Three.

12. 一位作家说，人的痛苦主要来自两方面，一是自己的边界被侵犯，一是去侵犯别人的边界。

12. A writer said that human suffering mainly comes from two aspects: one is the invasion of one's own boundaries, and the other is the invasion of others' boundaries.

13. 最后，皇帝对付不了武则天，就把责任推到上官仪身上。

13. In the end, unable to deal with Wu Zetian, the emperor shifted the blame onto the shoulders of Shangguan Yi.

14. 一切恶法，本是虚妄的，你不要太自卑你自己。一切善法，也是虚妄的，你也不要太狂妄你自己。

14. All evil laws are inherently false and empty, so do not be too self-deprecating. All good laws are also false and empty, so do not be too proud of yourself either.

15. 世界上没有一个永远不被毁谤的人，也没有一个永远被赞叹的人。当你话多的时候，别人要批评你，当你话少的时候，别人要批评你，当你沈默的时候，别人还是要批评你。在这个世界上，没有一个不被批评的。

15. There is no one in the world who is never slandered, nor anyone who is always praised. When you talk too much, others will criticize you; when you talk too little, others will criticize you; and when you are silent, they will still criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not subject to criticism.

16. 你永远要宽恕众生，不论他有多坏，甚至他伤害过你，你一定要放下，才能得到真正的快乐。

16. You must always forgive all sentient beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you. You must let go in order to truly find happiness.

17. 后来，丈夫意外去世，女人十分悲伤。她感到一个人的生活步履维艰，力不从心。

17. Later, her husband unexpectedly passed away, and the woman was deeply saddened. She felt that it was difficult to live alone, and she felt overwhelmed.

18. 要了解一个人，只需要看他的出发点与目的地是否相同，就可以知道他是否真心的。七

18. To understand a person, one only needs to see if the starting point and destination are the same to know if he is sincere. Seven

19. 活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。五

19. Living for a day is a blessing, and it should be cherished. When I cry because I don't have shoes to wear, I realize that there are people who don't even have feet. Five

20. 创造机会的人是勇者。等待机会的人是愚者。四

20. The one who creates opportunities is a hero. The one who waits for opportunities is a fool. Four.

21. 眼睛不要老是睁得那么大，我且问你，百年以后，那一样是你的。五

21. Do not keep your eyes so wide open all the time. I ask you, a hundred years from now, what will be yours? Five.

22. 能换位思考，对弱者有同情心。慈善是一种很好的帮助弱者的方式，其实生活里我们都是息息相关的，同样是人，要对别人的不幸有切身的感受，学会换位思考，心怀慈悲。

22. Being able to put oneself in others' shoes and have compassion for the weak. Charity is a great way to help the weak, and in fact, we are all interconnected in life. Since we are all human, we should have a heartfelt sense of others' misfortunes, learn to put ourselves in their shoes, and have a compassionate heart.

23. “天行健，君子以自强不息。”

23. "The heavens are firm and unyielding; a gentleman should cultivate self-improvement without ceasing."

24. 愿我们的人生，积极乐观，谦卑含容，举止有度，以最好的涵养和状态，赶赴理想的星辰大海。

24. May our lives be positive and optimistic, humble and包容, with measured conduct, and in the best cultivation and condition, we may venture towards the ideal stars and the boundless seas.

25. 一个女人和丈夫经营着一家餐馆。

25. A woman and her husband are running a restaurant.

26. 洞悉世事和人性的规律，拥有为人处世的智慧，才能稳如磐石，游刃有余。

26. To understand the laws of the world and human nature, and to possess the wisdom of dealing with people, one can be as stable as a rock and as skillful as a master in their actions.

27. 与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。

27. It is more accurate to say that it is your own lack of cultivation that causes you to suffer, rather than others making you painful.

28. 在人生的旅程中，您的恋爱或结婚对象很有可能是先经由亲友介绍或相亲而认识，因为您对于爱情比较不太有经验，也不善于包装自己、营销自己，有时更怯于表达自己的感情，碰到喜欢的人也多半停留在欣赏的阶段，不仅不容易给对方一点暗示，更不会表白或倒追，因此不仅错失许多机会，更在心中产生既期待又怕受伤害的感觉，反而更不容易擦出爱的火花。您若是对象还没有出现，不要心急，在您身边确定有人正喜欢着您，只要您真心诚意给对方一点暗示，幸福就在您身边。

28. In the journey of life, it is likely that your romantic partner or spouse will be introduced to you by friends or relatives, or you will meet through blind dates, because you are not very experienced in love and not good at presenting or promoting yourself. Sometimes, you are also shy to express your feelings. When you like someone, you often just stop at the stage of admiration. You are not good at giving hints to the other person, let alone confessing or pursuing them. Therefore, not only do you miss many opportunities, but you also develop a feeling of both anticipation and fear of being hurt in your heart, which makes it even harder for the spark of love to ignite. If your partner has not appeared yet, do not be anxious. There is someone who likes you around you. As long as you give the other person a sincere hint, happiness is right beside you.

29. 你目前所拥有的都将随着你的死亡而成为他人的，那为何不现在就布施给真正需要的人呢？九

29. All that you currently possess will become the property of others upon your death. Why not give it away now to those who truly need it? Nine.

30. 在你贫穷的时候，那你就用身体去布施，譬如说扫地、洒水、搬东西等，这也是一种布施。六

30. When you are poor, you can offer alms with your body, for example, sweeping, sprinkling water, carrying things, etc., which is also a form of alms-giving. Six

31. 逆境是成长必经的过程，能勇于接受逆境的人，生命就会日渐的茁壮。七

31. Adversity is an inevitable process of growth, and those who dare to accept adversity will find their lives growing stronger day by day. Seven

32. 根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯不文明词语咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？四

32. There's no need to look back and see who cursed you. If an uncivil word bites you, would you also lie down and bite back at it? Four.

33. 同样的瓶子，你为什么要装毒药呢？同样的心理，你为什么要充满着烦恼呢？五

33. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? Why do you fill your mind with烦恼 (worry or trouble) if you have the same mindset? Five

34. ◎简易爱情分析，您是属于比较娇贵的太太。您的爱情不是属于浓情密意的那一型，他比较没主见，而您比较有智慧，在未来的感情路上，您们会遇到许多沟通上的问题，需要您们以智慧与包容来一一克服。◎

34. ◎Simple love analysis shows that you are a more delicate and pampered wife. Your love is not of the intense, passionate type; he is more indecisive, while you are more wise. On the road of future relationships, you will encounter many communication issues that need to be overcome one by one with wisdom and tolerance. ◎

35. ◎简易财运事业分析，您不容易守财，也不容易储蓄，每次累积到一定的财富就会发生一些事情让您花钱。◎

35. ◎Simple fortune and career analysis: You find it difficult to keep wealth and also hard to save money. Whenever you accumulate a certain amount of wealth, something will happen to make you spend it. ◎

36. 与其你去排斥它已成的事实，你不如去接受它，这个叫做认命。七

36. Instead of rejecting the fact that has already happened, you might as well accept it; this is called resigned. Seven.

37. 世间的人要对法律负责任。修行的人要对因果负责任。六

37. People in the world are responsible to the law. Practitioners of cultivation are responsible for their causes and effects. Six...

38. 愚痴的人，一直想要别人了解他。有智慧的人，却努力的了解自己。一０

38. Foolish people always want others to understand them. But wise people strive to understand themselves. 10

39. 恋爱不是慈善事业，不能随便施舍的。感情是没有公式，没有原则，没有道理可循的。可是人们至死都还在执著与追求。 四

39. Love is not a charitable cause that can be freely given. Emotions have no formulas, no principles, and no logic to follow. Yet, people remain obsessed with pursuing it until the end. Four.

40. 性别: 女 生辰: 1989年10月12日 吉时

40. Gender: Female, Date of Birth: October 12, 1989, Lucky Time

41. 根据命理分析，您天生肾水系统比较差，所以容易感觉疲倦，冬天常常手脚冰冷，体力似乎不如人，因此无法从事需要大量劳力的工作。在年轻的时候不会有太大的问题，但随着年纪越来越大，肾水系统需要更多的照顾，不然很容易有血压、心脏、妇科的问题，甚至容易导致失眠、忧郁、脑神经衰弱、肾功能异常、听力异常、膀胱炎、尿道炎、月事不顺、或其它心血管功能疾病等问题。因此您不能过度劳累，要维持正常作息，早睡早起，多接触阳光，多走出户外，少吃油炸食物，才可以保护先天比较弱的肾水系统。此外，由于体质偏向燥热，您会想要喝冰的饮料，但是千万不能喝，此外也要避免房事太频繁，以免伤了元气。

41. According to the analysis of fate and destiny, you are naturally deficient in the kidney water system, so you tend to feel tired easily, and your hands and feet often feel cold in winter, and your physical strength seems to be less than others, thus you are unable to engage in labor-intensive work. In your youth, there won't be too many problems, but as you get older, more care is needed for the kidney water system, otherwise, it's easy to have issues like high blood pressure, heart problems, gynecological disorders, and even more serious issues such as insomnia, depression, neurasthenia, abnormal kidney function, hearing problems, cystitis, urethritis, irregular menstrual cycles, or other cardiovascular diseases. Therefore, you should not overwork yourself, maintain a regular schedule, go to bed early and rise early, spend more time in the sunlight, go out more often, and eat less fried food to protect your inherently weak kidney water system. Moreover, since your physique is inclined towards dryness and heat, you may be inclined to drink cold beverages, but you should never do so. Also, you should avoid excessive sexual activity to prevent the depletion of your vital energy.

42. 来是偶然的，走是必然的。所以你必须，随缘不变，不变随缘。一０

42. Arrival is accidental, departure is inevitable. Therefore, you must, remain unaltered with changing circumstances, and be unaltered with the flow of circumstances. 010

43. 不要太肯定自己的看法，这样子比较少后悔。、当你对自己诚实的时候，世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。六

43. Don't be too sure of your own opinions; this way, you will regret less. When you are honest to yourself, no one in the world can deceive you. Six.

44. 正官 食神 正官

44. Just Official (正官) - Food God (食神) - Just Official (正官)

45. 得志不得瑟，成功不傲娇，优越不炫耀。

45. Achieve success without arrogance, success without pettiness, and superiority without showing off.

46. 时 日 月 年

46. Date: Day Month Year

47. 水低不语，人稳不炫。警惕人性的幽暗，过好自己的日子。

47. Water is silent when it is low, and people do not boast when they are stable. Beware of the dark corners of human nature, and live your own life well.

48. 正财 七杀 正财

48. Right Wealth, Right Kill, Right Wealth

49. 每当店里有客人来，她都要走过去，倾诉自己的不幸遭遇。说到动情处，甚至潸然泪下，十分凄楚。

49. Whenever there were guests in the shop, she would go over and pour out her own misfortunes. As she spoke, she would sometimes burst into tears, looking very pitiful.

50. 闲事不插手，不侵犯别人的生活，不招致别人的怨恨。

50. Do not meddle in others' affairs, do not intrude on other people's lives, and do not incur others' resentment.

51. 立身处世，战胜自己的弱点和毛病，不断更新和精进自己，是一个人自强的表现。

51. Overcoming one's own weaknesses and vices, constantly updating and refining oneself, is an expression of a person's self-improvement and strength.

52. 当你未学佛的时候，你看什么都不顺。当你学佛以后，你要看什么都很顺。三

52. When you were not studying Buddhism, you found everything to be disagreeable. After you started studying Buddhism, you find everything to be agreeable. Three.

53. 为了赞美而去修行，有如被践踏的香花美草。九

53. To practice for the sake of praise is like beautiful flowers and grass that are trampled upon. Nine.

54. 能够把自己压得低低的，那才是真正的尊贵。九

54. It is truly noble to be able to humble oneself. Nine.

55. 起初客人都尽力安慰她，开导她。可时间一长，客人都不愿再光顾她的餐馆。连曾经交情不错的熟客，都不见踪影。

55. At first, the guests all tried to comfort her and counsel her. But as time went on, the guests were no longer willing to visit her restaurant. Even the familiar customers who had good relationships with her could not be found.