1. 火星学校七年级涂必林教学过程

2. 根据众多青少年犯罪的案例，专家们分析：符合以下十种情况越多的青少年越有可能出现暴力犯罪行为。

1. Mars School 7th Grade Teacher Bu Lin's Teaching Process 2. Based on the analysis of numerous cases of juvenile delinquency, experts have concluded that the more a juvenile matches the following ten conditions, the more likely they are to engage in violent criminal behavior.

3. 九，学会了解人性，洞悉人心，提高自己的智商和情商，不让自己成为被欺负的对象。

3. Learn to understand human nature, discern people's hearts, improve your IQ and EQ, and don't let yourself become a target for bullying.

4. 观看校园暴力视频，学生可以更直观的感受校园暴力的恶劣性质，进而讨论校园欺凌的危害，提出问题“校园欺凌有哪些危害”

4. By watching videos of campus violence, students can have a more direct understanding of the severity of campus violence, and then discuss the dangers of bullying, raising the question "What are the dangers of campus bullying?"

5. 行为暴力主要指包括打架斗殴、敲诈勒索、抢劫财物等一系列对人身及精神达到某种严重程度的侵害行为。

5. Behavioral violence mainly refers to a series of acts of aggression that reach a certain serious degree, including fighting, extortion, robbery, and other offenses against the physical and mental well-being of individuals.

6. 本来就是，人都是趋利避害的动物，没有人愿意靠近那些很消极、负面与阴暗的人，又都希望能靠近那些，可以带给自己活力的人，感受到生命的沸腾和节拍。

6. As it should be, humans are animals that seek benefits and avoid harm. No one wants to be near those who are very negative, pessimistic, and gloomy, and everyone hopes to be close to those who can bring vitality to themselves, experiencing the surging and rhythm of life.

7. 五，远离烂人，小人，垃圾人，不要跟戾气重的人，阴险的人纠缠。

7. Five, stay away from bad people, mean people, and trash people. Do not纠缠 with people who have heavy resentment and cunning.

8. 根据众多青少年犯罪的案例，专家们分析：符合以下十种情况越多的青少年越有可能出现暴力犯罪行为。

8. Based on numerous cases of juvenile delinquency, experts have analyzed that the more a juvenile meets the following ten conditions, the more likely they are to engage in violent criminal behavior.

9. 具有好斗心理，非常强烈的好胜心，虚荣心极强

9. Possesses a combative mindset, with a very strong desire to win and an extreme sense of pride.

10. 修养。一个有修养的男人，总能在无形当中散发出他的人格魅力，当然了，修养也是一种内在的修炼，需要长时间的积累、沉淀和反思，才可能具备的气质。

10. Cultivation. A man of cultivation always exudes his personality charm subtly. Of course, cultivation is also an internal practice that requires long-term accumulation, precipitation, and reflection to possibly possess such a temperament.

11. 魅力好男人是诚实厚道、正直磊落而有责任心的，所以堪托付终生。有幸嫁给这样一个好男人，一定是你三生修来的福份，所以一定要懂得珍惜。

11. A charming good man is honest, sincere, upright, open, and responsible, thus worthy of entrusting with one's life. To be fortunate enough to marry such a good man is definitely a blessing you have cultivated over three lifetimes, so you must learn to cherish it.

12. 分析校园欺凌产生的原因 校园欺凌的产生原因比较复杂，受多方面的影响。有家庭原因，有社会因素，也与教育工作者和学校管理有关。调查中发现，仅从施暴者自身来看，主要原因有以下几个方面：

12. Analysis of the Causes of Bullying in Schools The causes of bullying in schools are relatively complex and are influenced by various factors. They include family reasons, social factors, and are also related to educators and school administration. The investigation found that, looking solely at the perpetrators, the main reasons include the following aspects:

13. 有没有创造力，与年龄无关，它从来都不会随着年龄的增长而逐渐消逝。

13. Creativity has nothing to do with age; it never fades away gradually with the passage of time.

14. 坦诚，有自信的男人，敢于直面人生，相信自己的力量，再难再苦，也能克服。一个男人不管对老对少对上级还是下属，都应该讲诚信。自信与诚信，男人不可或缺。自信是成熟的标志，在逆境中，在突如其来的打击面前最审视一个男人是否坚强。坚强有时不一定能解决问题，但给解决问题提供了最大的可能。软弱人人都会有，可在危机没有过去之前千万别示弱，“最后的胜利往往就存在于再坚持一下的努力之中”。只有度过危机之后的男人才有权利把头埋在女人的怀里寻求安慰。此刻的女人也一定会母性大发，爱往往就在这一刻升华了。

14. Frank and confident men dare to face life head-on, believe in their own strength, and can overcome any difficulties or hardships. A man should be honest with everyone, whether they are young or old, superiors or subordinates. Confidence and honesty are indispensable for a man. Confidence is a sign of maturity, and in adversity, in the face of sudden setbacks, it is the most telling of a man's strength. Strength may not always solve problems, but it provides the greatest possibility for solving them. Weakness is something everyone has, but under no circumstances should you show weakness before the crisis is over. "The final victory often lies in the effort of one more moment of perseverance." Only men who have weathered the crisis have the right to seek comfort in a woman's arms. At this moment, the woman will certainly show great maternal affection, and love is often elevated at this moment.

15. 六，不要表现得太热情，不要主动去帮助别人。

15. Do not be overly enthusiastic and do not offer help to others proactively.

16. 十，提升自己的能力和水平，让别人看到你的成绩和过人之处，在你面前自惭形秽，不敢找茬。

16. Ten, improve your own abilities and level, let others see your achievements and excellence, making them feel ashamed in your presence and dare not pick a quarrel.

17. 而不是面对弱小时，不自觉地多了一些优越感，欺凌和强势，最简单来说，哪怕有财富差距，哪怕有地位差距，或者有身体残疾差距，但他依然能尊重对方是一个生命，懂得众生平等。

17. Instead of feeling a sense of superiority, inadvertently becoming bullying and domineering when faced with weakness, to put it simply, even with a wealth gap, even with a status gap, or even with a physical disability gap, he still respects the other person as a life, and understands that all sentient beings are equal.

18. 一石激起千层浪。这几位女孩遭受到暴徒虐打的视频曝光后，激起了网友们极大的愤慨，人们谴责暴徒的凶残，更希望公安机关严惩凶手。11日下午，据警方通报，河北唐山烧烤店打人案件的最后一名外省籍涉案人员在江苏也已被抓获。至此，该案九名涉案人员已全部归案，案件正在进一步侦办中。目前，受伤女子伤情稳定，我和身边的小伙伴们期待此案件得到及时公正处理。

18. One stone raises a thousand waves. After the video of these girls being brutally beaten by rioters was exposed, it aroused great indignation among netizens. People condemned the ferocity of the rioters and more hope that the public security organs would severely punish the killers. In the afternoon of November 11, according to the police report, the last suspect from another province involved in the beating case at the barbecue shop in Tangshan, Hebei, has also been captured in Jiangsu. So far, all nine suspects involved in the case have been apprehended, and the case is under further investigation. Currently, the injured woman's condition is stable, and my friends and I around me are looking forward to the case being handled promptly and fairly.

19. 如何预防校园欺凌 校园欺凌常见情形：

19. How to prevent campus bullying Common situations of campus bullying:

20. 一是淡然处之。二是自我反省。三是无畏回应。四是肯定自己。五是调整心理。六是法律维权。

20. First, remain calm and composed. Second, engage in self-reflection. Third, respond fearlessly. Fourth, affirm yourself. Fifth, adjust your mindset. Sixth, seek legal rights protection.

21. ①与同学友好相处。有的同学遇到矛盾时，不愿意吃亏，认为忍让就是没了面子失了尊严，最终只能使得矛盾不断升级，不断激化。我们应该宽宏豁达，不应为一丁点儿小事僵持不下，斤斤计较，甚至拳脚相加，做出降低人格的事情。

21. ①Maintain friendly relationships with classmates. Some students, when faced with conflicts, are unwilling to endure any injustice and believe that yielding is a loss of face and dignity. Ultimately, this only leads to the continuous escalation and intensification of conflicts. We should be magnanimous and open-minded, not to be stubborn over trivial matters, to not be overly concerned with small details, and even resort to physical violence, which can degrade one's character.

22. 1让学生认识校园欺凌产生的原因，认清校园欺凌带来的负面影响。

22. 1 Let students understand the causes of bullying in schools and recognize the negative impacts brought about by school bullying.

23. 校园暴力包括行为暴力、语言暴力和心理暴力。行为暴力在校园暴力现象中最为普遍。

23. Campus violence includes physical violence, verbal violence, and psychological violence. Physical violence is the most common form of campus violence.

24. 6月21日，湖南怀化一女生在校园遭8名学姐群殴致耳膜穿孔。6月26日，河南信阳数百中学生赤膊群殴。

24. On June 21st, a female student in Huaihua, Hunan Province was beaten by eight senior sisters on campus, resulting in a perforated eardrum. On June 26th, hundreds of middle school students in Xinyang, Henan Province engaged in a group brawl without any clothing.

25. ②避免自己成为施暴者的目标。我们平时不要随身携带太多的钱和手机等贵重物品，不要公开显露自己的财物。学校僻静的角落、厕所或楼道拐角都是校园暴力的多发地带，我们在这些地方活动时尤其要注意，最好结伴而行。

25. ②Avoid becoming a target for violence. We should not carry too much money and valuable items like mobile phones with us on a daily basis, and we should not publicly show off our possessions. The quiet corners of the school, restrooms, or corners of corridors are hotspots for school violence. When we are active in these areas, we should be especially vigilant, and it is best to go in groups.

26. 最好的魅力，不是用来吸引别人的，而是用来自我欣赏，成全自己的，当你总希望能吸引到别人的时候，就不可能再做好自己了。

26. The best charm is not for attracting others, but for self-appreciation and fulfilling oneself. When you always hope to attract others, you can no longer do yourself well.

27. 要搞好人际关系，强化自我保护意识。这也是防范校园欺凌的一条途径。一个有广泛、良好人际关系的学生，就不容易成为勒索、敲诈和殴打的对象。

27. In order to maintain good interpersonal relationships and strengthen self-protection awareness, this is also a way to prevent campus bullying. A student with a wide and good interpersonal network is less likely to become a target of extortion, blackmail, and assault.

28. 受到侵害时勇敢地拿起法律武器保护自身的合法利益。

28. When rights are violated, courageously take up the legal weapon to protect one's legitimate interests.

29. 4月17日，北京105中学一女生遭轮番扇耳光。

29. On April 17th, a female student at Beijing No. 105 High School was subjected to a series of slaps to the face.

30. 几位暴徒对女生们一番暴打之后，此时白衣女生已经受伤倒地，而这些暴徒又将受害女生拖到饭店外暴打，有位女性顾客险些被错认一同挨打，而最后被打的这位女生身上，已经有多处开放性伤口，被打得头破血流，其惨状令我和身边的小伙伴们愤慨不已。

30. After a group of rioters had beaten the girls, the white-clad girl had been injured and fell to the ground. These rioters then dragged the victim outside the restaurant and beat her again. A female customer was nearly mistaken for one of them and beaten as well. The girl who was beaten last had multiple open wounds, with a bleeding head, and her惨状 (horrible condition) was so shocking that it made me and my friends around me extremely angry.

31. 目的：通过学习《中小学生守则》的内容，使同学们明礼守法，更好地认识什么是校园暴力，校园暴力的危害性，如何预防和抵制校园暴力，能与校园暴力做合理有效的斗争，正确处理生活中的各种矛盾冲突，防微杜渐。

31. Objective: By studying the contents of the "Regulations for Primary and Middle School Students," the students will understand proper etiquette and laws, better recognize what campus violence is, its harmfulness, how to prevent and resist campus violence, and be able to engage in reasonable and effective struggles against campus violence. They will also learn to properly handle various contradictions and conflicts in life and prevent minor issues from escalating.

32. 2通过恰当的引导和暗示教会学生察觉自己的攻击意识，并合理控制与调整不合理的观念

32. 2 Through appropriate guidance and hints, teach students to become aware of their aggressive tendencies and to reasonably control and adjust unreasonable ideas.

33. 多媒体出示2015年上半年校园暴力事件，并让学生结合生活实际，想一想，产生校园暴力的原因有哪些。学生会根据平时的生活实际，

33. Display multimedia materials on campus violence incidents in the first half of 2015, and ask students to think about the reasons behind campus violence by combining it with real-life situations. Students will base their thoughts on their daily experiences.

34. 从施暴者的角度想：想后果;勿冲动;换位思考。

34. From the perspective of the abuser: Consider the consequences; do not act impulsively; think from the other person's perspective.

35. 反思：学生再一次认识到校园暴力的伤害性，让学生明白暴力解决不了问题，只会造成恶果，于人于己都没有好处，同学之间应该互相包容理解，发生矛盾时及时找老师解决，让学生懂得从自身做起，拒绝暴力。保护的手段，提高自我保护的能力。教育学生尽量不看有暴力画面的影视剧，不读有暴力情节的书刊，不玩有暴力色彩的游戏，不做有暴力倾向的人，让我们拒绝暴力，做个健康阳光的学生

35. Reflection: The students once again recognized the harmfulness of campus violence, making them understand that violence cannot solve problems, but only bring about negative consequences. It is not beneficial to either oneself or others. Students should embrace and understand each other, and seek help from teachers in a timely manner when conflicts arise. Let the students learn to start from themselves and refuse violence. Protection means to enhance self-protection abilities. Educate students to avoid watching TV shows and movies with violent content, not to read books and magazines with violent plots, not to play games with a violent tone, and not to be a person with violent tendencies. Let us refuse violence and be healthy and sunny students.

36. 反校园欺凌，建平安校园”主题班会；活动目标：；1让学生认识校园欺凌产生的原因，认清校园欺凌带；2通过恰当的引导和暗示教会学生察觉自己的攻击意；3当面对他人的攻击时能够尝试用温和和理智的态度；了解校园欺凌的实质和危害，掌握正确应对校园欺凌的；

36. "Anti-Bullying, Build a Safe Campus" Theme Class Meeting; Activity Objectives: 1. Enable students to recognize the causes of campus bullying and understand its consequences; 2. Through proper guidance and hints, teach students to detect their own aggressive intentions; 3. When facing others' attacks, they can try to respond with a gentle and rational attitude; Understand the essence and harm of campus bullying, and master the correct methods to deal with campus bullying.

37. 第二十五种：富有涵养——这是对修养而言的。

37. The Twenty-Fifth: Cultured and Mannerly — This refers to the refinement of one's character and修养.

38. 3当面对他人的攻击时能够尝试用温和和理智的态度处理矛盾，有效化解危机。掌握应对校园欺凌的正确方法，从而提高防欺凌能力，进而学会保护自己。 活动重点：

38. 3 When facing others' attacks, try to handle conflicts with a gentle and rational attitude, effectively resolving crises. Master the correct methods to deal with campus bullying, thereby improving the ability to prevent bullying, and then learn to protect oneself. Key points of the activity:

39. 在人身和财产双重危险时，应以人身安全为重，舍财保命，以免受到更激烈的伤害。

39. When there is a dual danger to both personal safety and property, one should prioritize personal safety, sacrificing property to save one's life, in order to avoid more severe harm.

40. 喝尿吃粪。 2015年6月10日上午，16岁的永泰县东洋中学初三学生小黄，在结束中考语文科目考试后，难以忍着剧烈腹痛继续参加中考，这才向父母道出了一个藏掖4年多的秘密：自小学五年级起，他就经常被其他同学无故殴打。8日晚，小黄再次遭同班同学夏某、林某和张某围殴，忍痛2天后被送医，却被发现脾脏出血严重，于11日晚，经手术切除了脾脏。 2015年6月21日，江西永新县发生一起多人围殴女生事件，受到网友广泛关注。据了解此次涉事女生有9人，其中小学生有2人，中学生4人，3人已辍学。她们年龄都在12至16岁之间，其中涉案人员刘某被刑拘。

40. Drinking urine and eating feces. On the morning of June 10, 2015, Xiao Huang, a 16-year-old third-year junior student at Dongyang Middle School in Yongtai County, was unable to bear the intense abdominal pain and continue with the Chinese language exam of the college entrance examination. It was then that he revealed a secret he had been hiding for over 4 years to his parents: since fifth grade of elementary school, he had frequently been beaten by other students without any reason. On the night of June 8, Xiao Huang was again attacked by classmates Xia, Lin, and Zhang. After enduring the pain for two days, he was sent to the hospital, where it was found that he had severe spleen hemorrhage. On the night of June 11, his spleen was removed through surgery. On June 21, 2015, a multiple-person beating incident involving a female student occurred in Yongxin County, Jiangxi Province, and attracted widespread attention from netizens. According to reports, there were 9 female students involved in this incident, including 2 elementary school students, 4 middle school students, and 3 who had dropped out of school. Their ages ranged from 12 to 16, and Liu, one of the accused, was detained on criminal charges.

41. 了解校园欺凌的实质和危害，掌握正确应对校园欺凌的方法和策略。

41. Understand the essence and危害 of bullying in schools, and master the correct methods and strategies for dealing with school bullying.

42. 虽然女性的社会地位一再飙升，多年的传统认识在女人心里是有烙印的，不管她的外表多另类超前，不管她怎么标榜自己的女权思想，她的灵魂深处，是渴望男人爱抚的。毕竟是小女人！这里的胸襟不仅指包容女人，更要能包容社会。所谓“容下难容之人，容下难容之事。”有度量的男人才能有所作为，才不至于陷入无畏的纷争。一个有魅力的男人应该有包容的心。包容自己的家人，包容自己的朋友，包容自己的爱人。亲情，友情，爱情是男人必须珍惜的！家人是呵护自己的城堡！朋友是激励自己的烈酒！爱人是为你停泊的港湾！一个男人，一定要做到包容他们，呵护他们，不让他们失望。

42. Although women's social status has soared repeatedly, the traditional perceptions that have been ingrained in women's hearts over the years, no matter how unconventional or forward-looking her appearance may be, no matter how she champions her feminist ideas, deep down, she longs for a man's caress. After all, she is still a small woman! Here, the concept of tolerance refers not only to embracing women but also to the ability to embrace society. As the saying goes, "To tolerate the intolerable, and to bear the unbearable." It is men of principle who can achieve something, and it is only by avoiding senseless disputes. A man with charm should have a heart full of tolerance. He should tolerate his family, his friends, and his loved ones. Kinship, friendship, and love are the things that men must cherish! Family is the castle that nurtures you! Friends are the fiery liquor that inspires you! Your lover is the harbor where you anchor! A man must strive to embrace them, nurture them, and not let them down.

43. 最想讲的能力，是独立思考的能力，辨别是非的能力，以及有面对生活中所有意外、苦难和变故的正确态度的能力。

43. The ability I would most like to talk about is the ability to think independently, the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and the ability to maintain the correct attitude towards all the unexpected, hardships, and changes in life.

44. ②不参与校园暴力。树立正确的是非观念，坚决不充当校园暴力行为中的帮凶。

44. ② Do not participate in campus violence. Uphold the correct sense of right and wrong and resolutely do not act as an accomplice in campus violence.

45. 能力。对于能力，有很多种理解，有本事去解决生活中的一切突发变故，是能力的一种，但不是我最想讲的能力。

45. Ability. There are many interpretations of ability. The ability to handle all unexpected changes in life is one form of ability, but it is not the kind of ability I most want to talk about.

46. 第三，要有方法和策略意识。在力量悬殊的情况下，切记不能蛮干。

46. Thirdly, be aware of methods and strategies. In situations where there is a significant imbalance in strength, one must remember not to act impulsively.

47. 魅力男人不是榆木疙瘩，更不是愚腐的卫道士，他虽然不会一天围着石榴裙转，但他懂得偶尔制造浪漫的氛围让心上人开心。这是相爱的两性间一种“情调”，只有有品位的人才能营造出来，也只有有品位的人才能感觉得到。

47. A charming man is not a wooden block, nor is he a pedantic moralist. Although he may not spend every day orbiting around a woman's skirt, he knows how to occasionally create a romantic atmosphere to make his beloved happy. This is a "taste" between loving couples, which can only be created by people with taste and can only be felt by people with taste.

48. 某中学一女生食堂打饭时，和另一名女生发生口角，没想到，竟遭到多名女生毒打，其中一位打人后，还做出胜利的手势。根据以上案例，你认为应该采取哪些正确方法维护自身的合法权益

48. In a middle school, a female student had a verbal dispute with another female student while queuing for meals in the canteen. Unexpectedly, she was beaten by several female students, one of whom even made a victory gesture after hitting her. Based on this case, what correct methods do you think should be taken to safeguard one's legitimate rights and interests?

49. 授课时间：2016年9月5日授课年级：三年级授课教师：罗晓梅活动主题：

50. 我将本次活动确定为“拒绝校园欺凌，构建和谐校园”。

49. Teaching Time: September 5, 2016; Grade: Third Grade; Teacher: Luo Xiaomei; Activity Theme: 50. I have determined the theme of this activity as "Refuse Campus Bullying, Build a Harmonious Campus."

51. 学生准备：让学生宣读背诵《守则》，事先熟知《守则》内容，并思考校园暴力的表现及怎样正确处理校园暴力事件，在活动之前让学生先思考，活动过程中学生能更轻松的接受和理解活动内容。

51. Student Preparation: Allow students to recite the memorized "Code of Conduct," familiarize themselves with the content of the "Code of Conduct" in advance, and think about the manifestations of campus violence and how to properly handle campus violence incidents. Let students think about these topics before the activity, so that during the activity, students can more easily accept and understand the content of the activity.

52. 二，沉默是金，慎言慎行。说得越多，错误越多，越容易别人抓住把柄，或者出言不慎，得罪于人。

52. Secondly, silence is golden; speak and act cautiously. The more one talks, the more mistakes one makes, and the easier it is for others to seize on a handle, or to speak carelessly and offend someone.

53. 2月28日，云南富宁县一中学女生宿舍内遭围殴凌辱拍照上传空间。4月9日，山东邹城初二女生宿舍内被殴打被逼下跪。

53. On February 28th, a female student in a high school in Funing County, Yunnan Province was beaten and molested in her dormitory, with the incident photographed and uploaded to a space. On April 9th, a second-year female student in a middle school in Zoucheng City, Shandong Province was beaten and forced to kneel.

54. ③养成善于观察的好习惯。多留意身边发生的事，很多暴力事件的信息可以从校园同学间的交流中得到。为了保障我们自身的人身安全，避免施暴人对我们打击报复，我们可以通过电子邮件的形式匿名报告。预防暴力重于应对暴力，而这一切需要我们共同参与。

54. ③ Cultivate the good habit of being observant. Pay more attention to what happens around you, as much information about violent incidents can be obtained from the communication among classmates in school. In order to ensure our own personal safety and avoid retaliation from the perpetrators, we can report anonymously through email. Preventing violence is more important than responding to violence, and this requires our collective participation.

55. 坦诚是为人之本。坦诚的男人好恶分明，爱曾分明，我爱在何处，厌在何方，瑕不掩瑜是什么，美中不足为哪桩。痛痛快快有棱有角的男人很快就会赢得女人的信赖，含含糊糊拖泥带水的男人令女人心烦，而藏头露尾，故做玄虚玩深沉的男人最让女人不放心，渐渐也就丧失了耐性。一个坦诚的男人应该有爱心。爱心是每个人都应该有的，男人也好，女人也好，对世界的关怀，对弱者的帮助，都是一份真诚的爱心！一个男人应该懂得流下感动的泪水，这泪水并不是代表你懦弱，而是证明你拥有一颗坦诚、仁慈的心。

55. Frankness is the foundation of being a person. Frank men have clear good and bad judgments, love and hate are distinct. Where I love, where I dislike, what is a blemish not covering the jade, and what is the deficiency in beauty. Men who are straightforward and have distinct personalities quickly win women's trust, while men who are ambiguous and murky make women impatient. Men who hide and reveal, act mysterious, and play deep are the most unreliable to women, and gradually lose patience. A frank man should have a sense of love. Love is something everyone should have, whether it's men or women, caring for the world, helping the weak, are all manifestations of sincere love! A man should know how to shed tears of emotion. These tears do not represent your weakness, but prove that you have a heart that is honest and kind-hearted.

56. 一些同学在遭遇校园暴力、生命安全受到威胁时却全然不知，以为校园暴力仅仅是不礼貌行为;另一些同学在目睹校园暴力时也无动于衷，以为只是同学间的“嬉闹”。要抵制校园暴力，首先要具备对校园暴力的识别能力。

56. Some students are completely unaware that they are facing campus violence and that their lives are threatened, believing that campus violence is merely impolite behavior; while others remain indifferent when witnessing campus violence, thinking it is just a playful quarrel among classmates. To resist campus violence, one must first possess the ability to identify it.

57. 面对不法分子的侵害首先要迅速而准确地作出判断，然后机智勇敢灵活地与其斗争;

57. When faced with the aggression of lawbreakers, it is first necessary to make a quick and accurate judgment, and then fight with them intelligently, bravely, and flexibly.

58. 要及时报告。我们也要认识到勒索、敲诈经常是同欺凌紧密联系的，我们提倡在“不怕”的前提下与之抗争，但不意味着逞一时之勇，反而造成不必要的伤害。因此，在遇到勒索、敲诈后要及时向学校、家长报告。第一次遇到拦

58. Report in a timely manner. We also need to recognize that blackmail and extortion are often closely linked to bullying. We advocate fighting against them on the premise of "not being afraid," but this does not mean showing off temporarily, which may instead cause unnecessary harm. Therefore, after encountering blackmail or extortion, it is important to report it to the school and parents promptly. The first time you encounter a blockade...

59. 第一，不能“怕”字当头。在遇到勒索、敲诈和殴打时不害怕，要敢于抗争。因为这些拦截的不良少年大多和受害者同龄，他们所实行的第一次拦截往往都是一种试探。如果此时在心理上就被对方所压倒，任其欺压，那么这样的第一次妥协其实就纵容、鼓励了拦截者，就会带来了更不良的后果。因而，有效防范校园欺凌的第一要诀就是“不怕”。但是要注意避免激发对方欺凌升级，导致眼前吃亏。

59. First of all, one should not let the word 'fear' come to the forefront. When encountering blackmail, extortion, and beating, one should not be afraid and should dare to resist. This is because most of the delinquent teenagers who commit such拦截 are of the same age as the victims, and their first拦截 is often a form of probing. If one is mentally overwhelmed by the other party at this moment and allows oneself to be bullied, then such a first compromise actually tolerates and encourages the interceptors, which will lead to even worse consequences. Therefore, the first and most important key to effectively preventing campus bullying is to "not be afraid." However, one should be careful to avoid provoking the other party to escalate their bullying, which may result in immediate losses.

60. 围绕“什么是欺凌为什么要反欺凌”与学生进行了面对面的分享：所谓欺凌，简单来说就是以大欺小，以强凌弱，以多欺少。欺凌不但对“受伤者”造成伤害外，而且对“欺凌者”和“旁观者”同样造成伤害。“欺凌者”由于长期欺负别人，内心得到极大满足，以自我中心，对同学缺少同情心，而“旁观者”会因为帮不到受害者而感到内疚、不安，甚至惶恐。“校园欺凌”对受害者的伤害也不可小视，受欺凌的学生通常在身体上和心灵上受到双重创伤，并且容易留下阴影长期难以平复。同时“校园欺凌”也会影响到学校的整体纪律和风气。所以，学校要严厉制止和预防欺凌事件的发生。

60. A face-to-face sharing was conducted with students on the topic of "What is bullying and why we should combat it": So-called bullying, simply put, is to bully the weak with the strong, to intimidate the few with the many. Bullying not only causes harm to the "victims" but also injures the "bullies" and the "bystanders" alike. "Bullies" gain immense satisfaction from long-term bullying, being self-centered, and lacking sympathy for their classmates. The "bystanders" may feel guilty, uneasy, or even terrified because they are unable to help the victims. The harm caused by "school bullying" to the victims should not be underestimated; the bullied students often suffer from both physical and psychological injuries, and it is easy for them to bear long-lasting scars that are hard to heal. At the same time, "school bullying" can also affect the overall discipline and atmosphere of the school. Therefore, schools should strictly prevent and stop the occurrence of bullying incidents.

61. 八，远离你不喜欢的人，不要走进不属于你的圈子。

61. Number eight: Keep away from people you don't like, and don't enter circles that don't belong to you.

62. 教师准备：给学生发放《中小学生守则》，人手一份，制作多媒体课件、并搜集典型的校园暴力事例等。

62. Teacher Preparation: Distribute the "Code of Conduct for Primary and Middle School Students" to each student, ensuring one copy per student. Prepare multimedia presentations and collect typical examples of campus violence.

63. 温柔。待人友善，在他的男性阳刚魅力中，又藏着这世间的最温柔，不管是对陌生人，还是对亲人，都在无形当中积攒着他的魅力。

63. Gentle. Kind-hearted towards others, in his masculine charm, there lies the gentlest warmth in this world. Whether it's towards strangers or relatives, his charm accumulates subtly without being overt.

64. 案例：新沂市小学生与同学打架。该学生家庭离异，父亲崇尚棍棒教育。老师认为该学生“既残忍又暴躁易怒”，经常和同学打架，无缘无故地把桌子、凳子踢翻。同学反映他对什么都没有爱心。回家路上看到小猫、小狗都想去踢几下。一次同学们看见一只小鸟，有个女生怜悯的说“这小鸟真可怜”。他看了看，突然从地上一把抓起小鸟，同学们看到是他，喊道“你快放下，小鸟受伤了”。他听了，不理睬，然后在一群女生的尖叫声中把小鸟狠狠地向地上摔去，摔完后不顾众人的指责，从地上捡起将死的小鸟，两根手指提起来在眼前晃晃，又丢在了地上，然后推开同学，带着笑容满意的离开了。

64. Case: A primary school student from Xinyi City fights with classmates. The student comes from a divorced family, and his father believes in the rod-and-rug education method. The teacher thinks the student is "both cruel and irritable", often fighting with classmates and randomly kicking over tables and chairs. Classmates say he has no love for anything. On his way home, he wants to kick cats and dogs he sees. Once, when classmates saw a small bird, one girl pitifully said, "This little bird is really可怜." He looked at it and suddenly grabbed the bird from the ground. When classmates recognized him, they shouted, "Let it go, the bird is hurt." Upon hearing this, he ignored them and, amidst the screams of a group of girls,狠狠地摔了小鸟在地上. After the fall, regardless of everyone's reproach, he picked up the dying bird, held it up with two fingers in front of his eyes, and then dropped it back on the ground. Then, he pushed the classmates aside, smiled, and left contentedly.

65. 魅力好男人有时不光得有大丈夫的可靠，还有“优质情人”的样貌，或高大威猛、英俊潇洒，或玉树临风、风流倜傥，至少形象“过得去”，而不是形容猥琐、矮小丑陋。

65. A charming good man doesn't only need to have the reliability of a real man, but also the looks of a "quality lover," either tall, strong, handsome, or elegant, gallant, at least with an image that is "decent," rather than describing as unattractive, short, and ugly.

66. 4月17日，广东汕头多名青少年围殴一名身着校服男生。

66. On April 17th, several teenagers in Shantou, Guangdong province, beat up a male student wearing a school uniform.

67. 校园欺凌在很多人的心里都留下很深的烙印。这种不良影响，不仅仅体现在受害者，也使施暴者的心灵成长和社会前途中增添了大量的阻力。 对于施暴者而言：给他人带来伤害，要承担治疗甚至赔偿费用，要受到学校老师严肃批评教育，甚至无法继续完成学业。他们的行为很难获得社会(主要是学校和家庭)的认可，那些常在中小学打架，特别是加入到暴力帮派的学生，很多最终都走上犯罪

67. Bullying has left a deep impression in the hearts of many people. This adverse impact is not only evident in the victims but also adds a substantial amount of resistance to the psychological growth and social prospects of the bullies. For the bullies themselves: causing harm to others means incurring treatment and even compensation costs, facing serious criticism and education from school teachers, and even being unable to continue their studies. Their actions are hard to gain recognition from society (mainly from schools and families), and many students who frequently fight in primary and secondary schools, especially those who join violent gangs, eventually end up on a criminal path.

68. 传媒渲染(网络、电视、**、广播、报刊等)，社会暴力文化的影响。

68. The influence of the media portrayal (networks, television, **, radio, newspapers, etc.) on the culture of social violence.

69. 部分学生对校园暴力这一词语还很陌生，或理解不准，所以利用多媒体展示校园欺凌的定义，首先让学生明确何为校园欺凌。

69. Some students are still unfamiliar with or have an inaccurate understanding of the term "campus bullying," so it is necessary to use multimedia to display the definition of campus bullying, so that students can first clearly understand what campus bullying is.

70. 自己或发现他人遭遇紧急情况时，一定要在第一时间向家长、老师或警察求助，采取最有效的救助措施。

70. When you or someone else encounters an emergency situation, it is essential to seek help from parents, teachers, or the police as soon as possible and take the most effective rescue measures.

71. 幽默是一种高雅的品质，它是睿智与阅历的体现，是人际交往的润滑剂。幽默可以化尴尬为诙谐，为生活添情趣。男人善用它，还可以表达对女人的体贴与关爱。比如当女人遇到麻烦时，如果正面去讨论它可能会加重女人的痛苦感，而用幽默的情绪感染对方，引导她们换个角度去思考，等于替她们指出一条明路，还没有说教之感。当然，幽默感不是人人都有。有则好，没有可以培养，培养不出来千万别强求，否则适得其反。幽默有时是无奈的自嘲，但女人们相信，大凡敢于自嘲的男人都很自信，很有胸襟。总之，有幽默感的男人多有女人缘。浅薄的男人虽然活得简单开心，吃喝玩乐应会尽会，还可能会讲惹女人发笑的民间笑话，他可能会吸引一些女人的目光，但不会持久，除非他用金钱贿赂，否则，很难有长久的魅力。有深度的男人不同，他会很风趣，但很少讲别人讲滥了的笑话，风趣的言谈只能是他自己的口才，要能逗女人开心。幽默，应该是一个人素质的一部分，欠缺的话，就是缺陷了。他的幽默使人愿意亲近，他的深度使人永远看不透，所以就永远使女人保持了探究的欲望。同时一个有深度的男人，会是干练豁达的，他的话语和行动会时时给人以启示，永远是女人心理的偶像。

71. Humor is an elegant quality, reflecting wisdom and experience, and serving as a lubricant for interpersonal communication. Humor can turn awkwardness into humor, adding charm to life. Men who are skilled at using it can also express their care and affection for women. For example, when a woman encounters trouble, if it is discussed directly, it may exacerbate her sense of pain. However, using humor to influence the other person, guiding them to think from a different perspective, is like pointing them to a clear path without the feeling of being lectured. Of course, not everyone has a sense of humor. It's good to have it, but if you don't, you can cultivate it; if you can't, don't force it, or it may backfire. Humor can sometimes be a resigned self-deprecation, but women believe that men who dare to make fun of themselves are usually very confident and have a broadmindedness. In summary, men with a sense of humor often have good relationships with women. Men who are superficial may live a simple and happy life, enjoying eating, drinking, and entertainment, and they might tell jokes that make women laugh, attracting some women's attention, but it won't last unless they use money to bribe, and it's hard to have lasting charm otherwise. Men with depth are different; they are witty but rarely tell worn-out jokes; their wit is only their own eloquence, and they need to be able to make women happy. Humor should be part of a person's character; a lack of it is a defect. His humor makes people want to be close to him, and his depth makes him inscrutable, thus keeping women's curiosity alive. At the same time, a man with depth is competent and magnanimous; his words and actions will always inspire people, and he will always be the idol of women's psychology.

72. 三，坚决捍卫自己的底线。底线一旦被触犯，绝对不要隐忍，要敢于挑明，义正辞严，不要让别人拿捏你。

72. Three, resolutely defend your bottom line. Once your bottom line is crossed, never hold back; be brave enough to clarify it, be firm and just, and do not let others manipulate you.

73. 创造力。一个人身上所带有的激情、积极、阳光和创造力，真的带有特别强烈的感染力。

73. Creativity. The passion, positivity, brightness, and creativity that a person possesses truly have a particularly strong infectious power.

74. 另外也要看他在公共场合的言谈举止，毕竟修养包括了一个人的素养、素质和内涵。

74. Also, one should observe his behavior and speech in public, as修养 encompasses a person's cultivation, quality, and内涵.

75. 第十七种：健康阳光——这是对身体和心理而言的：

75. The seventeenth type: Healthy and sunny - this refers to both physical and mental well-being:

76. 师、同学或校外人员，蓄意滥用语言、躯体力量、网络、器械等，针对师生的生理、心理、名誉、权利、财产等实施的达到某种程度的侵害行为，都算作校园暴力。其主要表现是身体强壮的学生欺负弱小的学生，令其在心灵及肉体上感到痛苦。校园欺凌通常都是重复发生，而不是单一的偶发事件。有时是一人欺负一人;有时集体欺负一人。通常欺负者不觉得自己不对，而且受害者怕事，默默承受而不敢反抗和告发欺凌者。因此，恶性循环导致受害者的身心深受煎熬。

76. Any intentional abuse of language, physical strength, the internet, equipment, etc., directed at teachers and students, targeting their physical and psychological well-being, reputation, rights, and property, to a certain degree, is considered campus violence. Its main manifestation is that physically strong students bully weaker students, causing them pain both in spirit and body. Campus bullying is usually repetitive rather than a single isolated incident. Sometimes it involves one student bullying another; at other times, a group bullies one student. Typically, the bullies do not feel wronged, and the victims are afraid of causing trouble, silently enduring the bullying without daring to resist or report the bullies. Therefore, this恶性循环 causes the victims to suffer physically and mentally.

77. 4月19日，湖北红安00后为争女朋友斗殴，操板砖砸人手段凶残。4月30日，福建南安一初一男生被同校学生及社会青年追打，捅伤。5月12日，福建晋江学生校外打架一死两伤。

77. On April 19th, a 00s post-2000s generation boy from Hong'an, Hubei, fought for his girlfriend and used a brick to violently attack others. On April 30th, a first-year junior high school boy from Nan'an, Fujian, was chased and beaten by students from the same school and young people from the community, resulting in an injury. On May 12th, a fight outside the school of students in Jinjiang, Fujian, resulted in one death and two injuries.

78. 第十六种：正直坦荡——这是魅力男基本品格;

78. The sixteenth type: Upfront and honest — this is a basic character trait of a charming man.

79. 学会反思自我，去修养自己的品德，可以让你获得更多的人生满足感，所以最好的顺其自然，不是什么事情都不做，听天由命，而是努力做好一件事，享受过程的顺其自然的心态，因为你已经拥有了最珍贵的。

79. Learning to reflect on oneself and cultivate one's character can bring you more life satisfaction. Therefore, the best way to go with the flow is not to do nothing and rely on fate, but to strive to do one thing well and enjoy the naturalness of the process. This is because you already possess the most precious thing.

80. 心态与行为多少都要因为你内心的那种强烈愿望，而受到限制。

80. Both mindset and behavior are somewhat restricted due to that strong desire within you.

81. 作为女性，我在生活中如独自乘车、独自租房生活等方面，也有“不安全”的切身感受。

81. As a woman, I also have a personal feeling of "insecurity" in aspects of my life, such as traveling alone by car and living alone in a rented apartment.

82. 第一，要有依法的意识。违法行为是不受法律保护的。第二，要有强烈的自我保护意识。

82. Firstly, one must have a sense of lawfulness. Illegal activities are not protected by law. Secondly, one must have a strong sense of self-protection.

83. 从受害者的角度想：不理睬;找老师;懂自救。

83. From the perspective of the victim: Ignore it; seek help from a teacher; learn self-rescue.

84. 做自己，也是气场的一种，永远不活在别人的眼睛里，有我自己的个性和态度，不张狂又显得十分有力，哪怕囊中羞涩，也能笑着大方讲出来，而不是在故意掩饰中露出马脚，更让人笑话。

84. Being oneself is also a kind of aura. Never live for others' eyes. I have my own personality and attitude, neither boastful nor weak. Even if I am short of money, I can laugh and speak generously without hiding, rather than exposing flaws while trying to掩饰, which would only make others laugh at me even more.

85. 截后的表现是十分重要的。无论对方的目的是否得逞，如果一味害怕而忍气吞声，或是不想宣扬，相反的会在无形中助长了对方的'气焰，使得对方以为你软弱可欺，往往会导致新的勒索、敲诈和殴打事件的发生。

85. The performance after the incident is extremely important. Regardless of whether the other party's goal is achieved, if one keeps fearing and enduring in silence, or doesn't want to publicize it, on the contrary, it will inadvertently fuel the other party's 'arrogance,' making the other party believe that you are weak and vulnerable, which often leads to the occurrence of new incidents of blackmail, extortion, and assault.

86. 走近校园欺凌；校园本是静美之所，然而这片静土也染上了血腥；校园欺凌的最可怕之处在于其施暴者是孩子。

86. Approaching campus bullying; the campus is supposed to be a tranquil and beautiful place, yet this quiet land has also been stained with blood. The most terrifying aspect of campus bullying is that the perpetrators are children.

87. 与人相处时，他也是宽容的、善良的，遇事懂得换位思考。

87. When interacting with others, he is also tolerant, kind, and knows how to think from the other person's perspective when faced with situations.

88. 第五，要有强烈的报告意识和证据意识。及时上报并注意搜集证据，以便在需要的时候出示。

88. Fifth, there should be a strong sense of report and evidence awareness. Report in a timely manner and pay attention to collecting evidence so that it can be presented when needed.