在这片古老的土地上，流传着三句千古名言，它们如同璀璨的星辰，照亮了无数心灵。越是有才华的人，越喜欢品味这三句话，它们的话语之间，蕴藏着无尽的韵味与智慧。

On this ancient land, there are three timeless maxims that have been passed down through the ages, like brilliant stars that illuminate countless hearts. The more talented a person is, the more they enjoy savoring these three sayings, as the words within them hold endless charm and wisdom.

1. 人们在交流的时间里，很容易因为对方的某一特征而影响到自己对对方其他方面的判断，从而导致认知出现偏差。

1. During the time of communication, it is easy for people to be influenced by a certain characteristic of the other person, leading to biased judgments of other aspects and resulting in cognitive distortion.

2. 人类大脑中存在“奖赏回路”，也被称之为边缘系统多巴胺奖赏回路，美貌可以给人以愉悦的感受。所以，在条件相同的情况下，男人们更愿意选择那些长相好看的女人成为自己的另一半。

2. The human brain has a "reward circuit," also known as the limbic system dopamine reward circuit, which can bring people pleasure. Therefore, under the same conditions, men are more inclined to choose women with attractive appearances as their life partners.

3. 与此同时，他们也会选择与优秀的异性结为伴侣，从而使这种优秀的基因能够一直被延续下去。

3. At the same time, they will also choose to pair up with优秀的 individuals of the opposite sex, so that this excellent gene can continue to be passed down.

4. 对于聪明的女人来说，坚持读书是个人的修养之所在，要想拥有气质，就必须要提高自己的才华，把自己的缺点给更改掉。都说“书中自有黄金屋，书中自有颜如玉”，大概就是这么个真理，只有书读得多了，才能拓展自己的视野，体会到不一样的精彩和世界。当你在生活中认真观察过这类女人，你会发现、她们的生活不仅有趣，还能通过看书来学习提升自己的技能，一直在学习和成长的路上努力。

4. For intelligent women, perseverance in reading is a personal cultivation, and in order to possess elegance, it is necessary to improve one's talent and change one's shortcomings. It is said that "within books lies a golden house, within books lies a jade-like beauty," which is probably a truth. Only by reading more can one broaden one's horizons and experience different kinds of wonders and the world. When you carefully observe such women in life, you will find that their lives are not only interesting but also that they can learn and improve their skills through reading, always striving on the path of learning and growth.

5. 真正美丽的女性，她们的聪明能够由内而外地体现。

5. A truly beautiful woman, her intelligence can be reflected both internally and externally.

6. 为什么一些渣男可以让女人死心塌地？多数例子中，都不排除对方理解了女人的痛苦。

6. Why can some playboys win the unwavering devotion of women? In most cases, it's not excluded that the other party understands the woman's pain.

7. 一个正确的选择，往往让人赢在起跑线。多少防范于未然，都是选择在起作用。

7. A correct choice often gives one a head start. How much prevention is in place, it is all the power of the choice at work.

8. 在生活中的人际相处，如友情和爱情，一切要以轻松为主。

8. In interpersonal relationships in life, such as friendships and love, everything should be based on ease and comfort.

9. 我理解，任何关系都需要磨合。但选择不适合的人，磨合更多，矛盾也就更多。

9. I understand that any relationship requires adjustment. However, choosing someone who is not suitable will result in more adjustments and more conflicts as well.

10. 人生就是一个不断遇到问题，解决问题的过程。

10. Life is a continuous process of encountering problems and solving them.

11. 大道至简。情绪这东西，跟打游戏一样，熟能生巧。操练多了，能耐就上来了。

11. The essence of the great way is simplicity. Emotions are like playing video games; with practice, one becomes skilled. The more one practices, the greater one's ability becomes.

12. 爱情还没吃饭大。恋爱可以不谈，但你不吃饭试试？

12. Love isn't as important as eating. You can choose not to fall in love, but can you go without eating?

13. 姨妈没办法，让我去。我一进卧室，两耳光一抽。她不一样怕吗？乖乖起床，吃饭，上班。

13. Auntie couldn't help it, so she let me go. As soon as I entered the bedroom, I was slapped twice in the face. Wasn't she scared? Get up乖乖, have breakfast, and go to work.

14. 放下对别人的期待，凡事靠自己，或者主要靠自己。深耕蓄力，默默努力，当你攒够了足够的能量，就可以横空出世，绽放自己。别人也会为你欢呼，向你示好。

14. Let go of expectations for others, and rely on yourself for everything, or primarily rely on yourself. Deeply cultivate and accumulate energy, work silently and tirelessly. When you have gathered enough energy, you can emerge in grandeur and showcase your true self. Others will also cheer for you and show their good will towards you.

15. 其实，爱自己也不是让了让别人来爱自己，而是希望你能够把生命里存活的日子好好发光，不要浪费了在人间的每一天，人间的风花雪月依旧美丽，同样也因有你而变得更加美好。

15. In fact, loving oneself is not about letting others love you; it is about hoping that you can make your days count in life, not to waste a single day on earth. The flowers, the moon, and the snow of the world are still beautiful, and they become even more wonderful because of you.

16. 换言之，我们想要进入一个人的边界，从而吸引到TA，去共鸣对方的痛苦会比一起吃喝玩乐，更能拉近距离。这也算把控人性的一种。

16. In other words, we want to enter someone's boundaries in order to attract them, and resonating with their pain will be more effective in bridging the gap than simply enjoying meals, drinks, and entertainment together. This can also be seen as a way to manipulate human nature.

17. 这个时候再回头看看，和别人相对比的差距还是挺大的，毕竟没有什么东西不会改变，这个竞争强烈的社会里，要是只停留在原地，不愿踏步前行，那么也是很容易被淘汰的。聪明的女人通常更懂得分析自己的“危机感”，为了消除这个东西，聪明的女人就会主动学习，从而变得更加优秀。

17. Looking back now, the gap compared to others is still quite significant. After all, nothing remains unchanged. In this highly competitive society, if one stays in place and is unwilling to move forward, it's quite easy to be eliminated. Smart women usually have a better understanding of their "sense of crisis," and in order to eliminate this, smart women will take the initiative to learn, thus becoming even more outstanding.

18. 我经常看到月薪几千，两口子加起来还没一万的夫妻，在生三胎了。

18. I often see couples with a combined monthly salary of less than ten thousand yuan, where both partners together don't even earn ten thousand, yet they are already having their third child.

19. 可如今，化妆和整容的盛行，让许多姿色平平却十分有能力的人，找到了使自己变美的办法。

19. However, now with the popularity of makeup and plastic surgery, many people who are not particularly attractive but are highly capable have found ways to make themselves more beautiful.

20. 心理学家通过研究，得出结论、长得好越好看的人越聪明，尤其适用于女性。

20. Psychologists, through research, have concluded that those who look better tend to be smarter, especially for women.

21. 语言是有能量的。你给自己正能量的暗示，你就会拥有正向，积极的磁场，就会得到宇宙无形的助力。

21. Language has energy. By giving yourself positive energy suggestions, you will possess a positive and proactive aura, and will receive the invisible assistance of the universe.

22. 所以，同是优质基因的男女，结合后产下的后代，其智商、外貌等方面也会优于其他的普通孩子。并且在日后的成长发展过程中，更具有潜力，也会收获较高的社会地位。

22. Therefore, offspring born from the combination of male and female with superior genes will also be superior in terms of intelligence, appearance, and other aspects compared to other ordinary children. Moreover, in their future growth and development process, they will have greater potential and may also achieve higher social status.

23. 简单的说就是，若一个人拥有一个十分惹人关注的特征，那么这个特征就会在其他人心中留下深刻的印象，并且会片面的将这个特征当做这个人的整体特征，就如同光散落在空中，晕开了一般。

23. In simple terms, if a person possesses an extremely eye-catching trait, this trait will leave a deep impression on others, and they will subjectively take this trait as the person's overall characteristic, just like light scattered in the air, creating a halo effect.

24. 如果总想着依靠别人，得到的只会是失望和怨恨。人渡不如自渡，求人不如求己。依靠自己的力量，减少对别人的期待，才能得到自己想要的美好。

获得英文翻译如下： 24. If one always thinks of relying on others, the only thing one will get is disappointment and resentment. It's better to help oneself than to depend on others, and it's better to look within than to seek help from others. Relying on one's own strength and reducing expectations of others is the key to achieving the beautiful things one desires.

25. 也许你很懂如何经营关系，坏的关系在你手上也能开花。

25. Perhaps you are very skilled at managing relationships; even bad ones can flourish under your hand.

26. “没事，干就完了！”

26. "No problem, just do it!"

27. 若你能理解对方的痛苦，必然能顺藤摸瓜到TA的渴望。

27. If you can understand the pain of the other person, you will inevitably be able to trace it back to their desires.

28. 这个结果引起了学术界的轰动，专家们纷纷开始讨论和研究。

28. This result caused a stir in the academic community, with experts beginning to discuss and research it.

29. 同时，说正能量的话，表达积极的处事态度，给别人一种踏实和靠谱的感觉，更容易取得别人支持。

29. At the same time, saying positive words and expressing a positive attitude towards life, giving others a sense of reliability and trustworthiness, makes it easier to gain others' support.

30. 一切人际关系的痛苦，都是因为自己有所期待。你期待亲人照顾你，期待朋友帮助你，期待领导关照你，期待同事认可你。而事实上，你在别人心中，根本就没有你想象得重要。你的关切，别人未必上心。

30. The pain in all interpersonal relationships stems from having expectations. You expect your relatives to take care of you, expect your friends to help you, expect your leaders to show concern for you, and expect your colleagues to recognize you. In reality, you are not as important in others' hearts as you imagine. Your concerns may not be taken seriously by others.

31. 有的人，遇到事情，首先不是去想怎么解决事情，而是抱怨，纠结，谩骂，懊恼。带着消极情绪做事情，事情只会越做越糟。

31. Some people, when faced with problems, don't first think about how to solve them, but instead complain, worry, curse, and regret. Engaging in tasks with negative emotions will only make the situation worse.

32. 该理论指出，衡量一个人的基因是否优质的标准之一就是颜值。

32. The theory points out that one of the standards for measuring whether a person's genes are of high quality is their appearance.

33. 我想表达的是，爱情不至死，你若要找死，就是你自甘低贱。

33. What I want to express is that love is not fatal; if you choose to die, it is because you have submitted to your own lowliness.

34. 而痛苦包括但不限于一个人曾经的失败、目前的寂寞、对未来的期许尚未得偿所愿。

34. Suffering includes but is not limited to one's past failures, current loneliness, and unfulfilled expectations for the future.

35. 我无数次提过女性要活得丰富，一些纸上谈兵的观点，只会让你与丰富背道而驰。

35. I have mentioned countless times that women should live a rich life. Merely talking about it on paper will only lead you further away from richness.

36. 通常来说，能够在事业上有所建树的男人，其智商、情商、心理素质以及身体状况都比较良好，这些优势往往也可以通过遗传的方式传递给下一代。

36. Generally speaking, men who have achieved success in their careers tend to have a good IQ, EQ, psychological quality, and physical condition. These advantages are often also passed on to the next generation through heredity.

37. 这些建议只适合家庭较为和谐的人，那些明显过不下去的，该止损还是要止损啊。

37. These suggestions are only suitable for those with relatively harmonious families; for those who are obviously not getting along, it is still necessary to cut losses.

38. 解决问题的能力越强，你的成就就会越高。遇到问题，不能畏葸不前，犹豫退缩，而是要有勇气去面对，去行动，去做好。

38. The stronger your problem-solving ability, the greater your achievements will be. When faced with problems, you should not shrink back or hesitate, but rather have the courage to confront them, to take action, and to do well.

39. 在当今社会之中，越来越多的人重视起“颜值”。在人际交往之中，那些容貌娇俏的女人也能更快的收获他人的好感。所以，她们能够在社会之中占据优势。

39. In today's society, an increasing number of people attach importance to "face value." In social interactions, women with charming appearances can quickly win others' favor. Therefore, they can gain an advantage in society.

40. 在我们的生活中，我们经常会发现这样的一个问题、聪明的人越来越聪明，笨的人越来越无动于衷。其实不然，笨的人对自己现在的状态感到满意，缺乏了一种创新的自我驱动力，不愿意去改变。而·聪明的人不过是在分析自己原有缺点的基础上，把别人好的地方和长处学习，通过学习把自己变得更好。

40. In our lives, we often encounter a problem like this: the clever become more and more clever, while the dull become more and more indifferent. In fact, it's not the case. The dull are satisfied with their current state and lack a sense of innovative self-motivation, unwilling to change. As for the clever, they merely learn from others' good qualities and strengths on the basis of analyzing their own shortcomings, and through learning, they make themselves better.

41. 在现代社会中，有许多形容长相好看的人的词汇，其中，也包括“胸大无脑”等低俗词语。在世人的刻板印象里，认为那些俏丽多姿、玉树临风的人，通常不是很聪明，也不懂得人情世故，缺乏社交能力。

41. In modern society, there are many words used to describe people with good looks, among which some are vulgar terms like "big-breasted but dumb." In people's stereotype, those who are charming and handsome are often thought to not be very intelligent, nor to understand the nuances of social interactions, and lack social skills.

42. 越来越多人开始关注容貌和外在形象，所以那些能力者们也会比普通人更关注自己的形象，比如那些频繁整容的明星。

42. More and more people are starting to pay attention to their appearance and physical image, so those individuals with abilities will also be more concerned about their own image than ordinary people, such as celebrities who frequently undergo plastic surgery.

43. 你渴望一个温暖的家，那沿途所错过及错选的人和情感，依旧是让你烦躁的经历。

43. You yearn for a warm home, and the people and emotions you missed along the way or chose incorrectly still remain experiences that irritate you.

44. “如果一个女人突然变聪明了,说明她背后的人,有一定的经济高度,人生阅历,手把手教她人情世故”

44. "If a woman suddenly becomes intelligent, it indicates that the people behind her have a certain level of economic status, life experience, and are teaching her the ways of the world through personal guidance."

45. 在这种情况下，“社会同型繁衍（social positive assortative mating）”理论就应运而生。

45. In this case, the theory of "social positive assortative mating" has emerged accordingly.

46. 不论男女，若有幸与对方成为一家人，彼此也没原则性错误，那请珍视及深爱你的妻子或丈夫。

46. Regardless of gender, if you are fortunate enough to become a family with the other person and neither of you has any fundamental mistakes, please cherish and deeply love your wife or husband.

47. 《孟子·告子上》中说道、“爱美之心，人皆有之。”

47. As stated in "Mencius - Gaozi," "The desire for beauty is universal in all people."

48. 每个人都是利己的。你期待越多，失望也就越多。失望越多，怨恨也会越多。

48. Everyone is selfish. The more you expect, the more disappointed you will be. The more disappointed you are, the more resentment there will be.

49. 世人常说、“当上帝关上一扇门的同时，也会为你打开一扇窗。”

49. People often say, "When God closes a door, He also opens a window for you."

50. 想要做主自己人生的女性很多，但关键时刻，她们总是去算命，把决定权交给了收费或低或高的八字先生。

50. Many women want to take charge of their own lives, but at critical moments, they always turn to fortune-tellers, entrusting the decision-making power to paid or low-cost or high-cost BaZi (Chinese astrology) consultants.

51. 对于自己能力范围之内的事情，不管是自己遇到的，还是别人交代的，都不要推卸和敷衍，而要说，好的，我能做到。

51. For matters within one's own scope of ability, whether encountered personally or assigned by others, one should not shirk or feign ignorance, but rather say, "Alright, I can do it."

52. 人与人之间的浅层交往，是喜欢吃同样的食物，有共同的偶像，能一起逛街购物八卦玩耍。

52. Superficial interactions between people involve enjoying the same food, having common idols, and being able to go shopping, gossip, and play together.

53. 真正厉害的人，遇事稳得住，有办法，不内耗。不管是生活，工作中发生的事情，还是别人交付的任务，他不会有坏情绪，而是以积极的态度去面对。他会说，没事，干就完了。

53. A truly formidable person remains calm and composed in the face of challenges, has the ability to handle situations, and avoids internal conflict. Whether it's something that happens in life or at work, or tasks entrusted to them by others, they do not harbor negative emotions but face them with a positive attitude. They would say, "No problem, just get it done."

54. 所以，这位女性在他人心中的整体印象都是偏向积极的，即使存在一些缺陷，也能够被她美丽的外表所掩盖。

54. Therefore, this woman has an overall positive impression in others' minds, even though there are some flaws, they can be covered by her beautiful appearance.

55. 人生海海，生活不易。别人愿意帮你，是惊喜。别人不愿帮你，是常态。

55. Life is vast and complex, and it's not easy. When others are willing to help you, it's a surprise. When others are unwilling to help, that's the norm.

56. 爱，追其根本是一种情绪。拆分开来，它就是由喜欢、愤怒、伤心、委屈、嫉妒、怨恨等情绪汇合而成。

56. Love, at its core, is an emotion. Dissected, it is composed of emotions such as liking, anger, sadness, resentment, jealousy, and malice, etc., merging together.

57. 真正厉害的人，会用正能量的语言暗示自己，同时向宇宙发射自己积极的磁场和能量，得到宇宙积极的回应和好运。

57. Truly formidable individuals will use positive language to暗示 themselves, while simultaneously emitting their own positive magnetic field and energy to the universe, receiving the universe's positive response and good fortune in return.

58. 与此相反，要是愚笨的女人，在她身上的一些谈吐行为就能看出，毕竟聪明的女人很容易在外表上就能看出那种气质和自信，是别人比不了的。

58. On the contrary, if a woman is foolish, it can be seen in her speech and behavior. After all, an intelligent woman is easy to see that kind of temperament and confidence from her appearance, which is uncomparable to others.

59. 因为爱容易让人不理智，从而做出不利于自己的决定或选择。

59. Because love can easily make people irrational, leading them to make decisions or choices that are not beneficial to themselves.

60. 家，需要用心、用情、用理、用利去维系。夫妻俩的劲儿，得往一处使。

60. Home requires effort, affection, reason, and benefit to maintain. The couple must work together with one united effort.

61. 平心而论，男性的生存压力也非常大。女性要收起一些矫情了，请不要用满足你情绪价值的理由，去压榨对方过多的精力和时间。

61. Frankly speaking, men also face great survival pressure. Women should tone down some of their melodramatic behavior. Please don't use reasons that cater to your emotional value to exhaust the other person's energy and time excessively.

62. 这样的姑娘，在歪瓜裂枣里滚一圈，都能迷失自己的心。而有魅力的女人，在美男圈里来回穿梭，依旧全身而退。

62. Such a girl, rolling around in a crowd of misshapen fruits, could easily lose her heart. But a woman with charm, navigating through a sea of handsome men, always manages to come out unscathed.

63. 在社会之中，永远遵守着“优胜劣汰，适者生存”的法则。

63. In society, the law of "survival of the fittest, the elimination of the unfit" is always adhered to.

64. 同样的道理，当人们看见一个非常美丽的女性，就会将大多数注意力放在对方的颜值上，而很难再去关注她的智商、性格和心理素质等等。

64. Similarly, when people see a very beautiful woman, most of their attention is usually focused on the other person's appearance, and it is difficult to pay attention to her intelligence, personality, psychological quality, and so on.

65. 想要解决失控的本质方法，是学会控制情绪，从而间接控制七情六欲。

65. The fundamental method to solve the essence of losing control is to learn to control emotions, thereby indirectly controlling the seven emotions and six desires.

66. “好的，我一定做到！”

66. "Alright, I will definitely do it!"

67. 你是一个积极向上，健康乐观的人，宇宙就会把好运和福报给你。

67. You are an optimistic and positive person, and the universe will bestow good fortune and blessings upon you.