在广袤的宇宙中，无数星辰闪烁着永恒的光芒。这里，有一群人，他们言语稀少，事不关己。他们，是宇宙中的独行侠，用沉默诠释着生命的真谛。

In the vast universe, countless stars shine with eternal light. Here, there is a group of people who speak little and are indifferent to things that do not concern them. They are lone rangers in the universe, interpreting the essence of life through silence.

1. 做一个乐于忘忧的人：人到世间上来，不是为苦恼而来的，所以不能天天板着面孔，伤心、烦恼、失意，这样的人生没有乐趣可言。金代禅师说「不是为生气而种兰花」，所以我们应该为自己的人生创造一个乐观、积极、进取、欢笑、喜悦的个性。懂得快快乐乐的在人间做人，远离忧愁、悲伤、苦恼，这样的人生才有义意，才有价值。

1. Be someone who is willing to forget worries: People come into the world not to seek distress, so one cannot always be stern-faced, sorrowful, troubled, or disappointed. Such a life is devoid of joy. The Jin Dynasty monk once said, "One does not plant orchids to be angry." Therefore, we should create for our lives an optimistic, positive, proactive, cheerful, and joyful personality. To understand and enjoy life with joy and without worries, sadness, or distress is to lead a meaningful and valuable life.

2. 古人说：言多必失，多言无益。你说话太多，错误和纰漏就越多，就会在不经意之间得罪于人，给自己埋下祸患。同时，还容易暴露自己，你把什么都说出来，你就没有任何神秘性可言，让别人把你看得透透的。

2. The ancients said: "The more one speaks, the more one is likely to make mistakes; excessive talk is of no benefit." The more you talk, the more errors and omissions there will be, and you might inadvertently offend others, planting troubles for yourself. At the same time, it is easy to expose yourself; if you say everything, you have no mystery left, and others can see right through you.

3. 真正厉害的人，往往是淡泊名利的。很多人都会被功名利禄所诱惑。觉得自己有了名气，有了地位，有了钱，就能比别人活得更加高级一些。甚至有的人，在地位显赫的时候，就耀武扬威，到处欺压别人。

3. Truly formidable individuals often have a indifferent attitude towards fame and wealth. Many people are tempted by the allure of power, fame, and wealth. They feel that with fame, status, and money, they can live a life that is more elevated than others. Even some people, when they are in a position of prominence, become boastful and oppressive, bullying others wherever they go.

4. 有时候遇到无法理解的问题，将双方的位置互相调换，便能迎刃而解。多一分理解，则少一分误会；多一分宽容，则少一分争吵。

4. Sometimes, when faced with problems that are hard to understand, simply switching the positions of both parties can resolve them easily. The more understanding there is, the fewer misunderstandings there will be; the more tolerance there is, the fewer arguments there will be.

5. 谦虚谨慎[qiān xū jǐn shèn]

5. Modesty and caution

6. 一个人是否成功，不需要刻意表现出来，也不一定要别人认可。默默无闻走路，宁静致远；默默无闻赚钱，盆满钵满；默默无闻求学，智慧超群。真正饱满的谷子，是低头的；真正成熟的人，是谦卑的。

6. Whether a person is successful does not necessarily require deliberate display or others' recognition. To walk quietly without seeking attention leads to a tranquil journey; to earn money quietly brings abundance; to pursue knowledge quietly brings wisdom beyond the ordinary. The truly full grain bow its head; the truly mature person is humble.

7. 正视自己，善待“弱者”。认识自己、正视自己不容易，要善待“弱者”更不容易。我们都是凡夫俗子，不可能是完人，不可能没有错误，当我们发现自己错误的时候，不要过分的忧心忡忡，要及时诚恳主动道歉，让对方感觉你的诚心。当别人有了过错的时候，我们要善待对方，不要满脸的阶级斗争、得理不让人，什么都要讨个公道，什么都争高低和强弱，要从别人的角度考虑问题，不要把自己的思维方式强加于人。

7. Face yourself and treat the "weak" kindly. It's not easy to know and face oneself, and it's even harder to treat the "weak" kindly. We are all ordinary people, and it's impossible to be perfect or free of mistakes. When we discover our own mistakes, we should not worry excessively. Instead, we should apologize sincerely and proactively, allowing the other person to feel our sincerity. When others make mistakes, we should treat them kindly, not showing a face full of class struggle, not giving in when we are right, and not demanding justice for everything or arguing about who is right and who is wrong. We should consider issues from the other person's perspective and not impose our own way of thinking on others.

8. 处事洒脱 疑神疑鬼 患得患失 异想天开 多愁善感

8. Easygoing in dealing with things, suspicious, worried about gains and losses, having wild and unrealistic ideas, melancholic and sensitive.

9. 真正厉害的人，他们有过这样的成长旅程，真真切切明白每天的基本功有多么重要。这种基本功就是持续的精进自己，持续地把手头事情做好。

9. The truly formidable individuals have undergone such a journey of growth, and they truly understand how crucial daily fundamentals are. These fundamentals are the continuous improvement of oneself and the continuous dedication to doing the tasks at hand well.

10. 陶醉于自我优越感，通过他人的吹捧来满足自己的人，路往往越走越窄，最后陷入僵局。

10. Those who are drunk with a sense of self-superiority and seek satisfaction through flattery from others often find their path narrowing, eventually leading to a deadlock.

11. 真正有涵养的人，都懂得尊重他人，将双方放在平等的位置，既不自轻自贱，也不自吹自擂。相互尊重，是一种豁达从容的人生姿态。

11. A truly cultivated person knows how to respect others, placing both parties on an equal footing, neither belittling themselves nor boasting. Mutual respect is a dignified and composed attitude towards life.

12. 厉害的人，他们拥有更高的格局。如果我们只是站在自己的角度来看待这个世界，我们就像那个坐在井里面的青蛙一样，认为世界就是这样大。

12. The amazing people possess a higher level of perspective. If we only view the world from our own perspective, we are like the frog sitting in the well, thinking that the world is just that big.

13. 就连像巴菲特这么厉害的人，他投资出名也是到了二三十年后，他的投资才出现丰硕的成果。

13. Even someone as accomplished as Buffett, it was not until twenty or thirty years into his investment career that his investments began to yield substantial results.

14. 所以也终于明白性格耿直也并非就完全是好事（性格耿直本身不是坏事，关键是要讲点“直”的艺术，即：因人、因事、因时而异。)

14. So finally, I've come to understand that being straightforward is not always entirely good (Being straightforward in itself is not a bad thing; the key is to have some art in being "straightforward," that is, to adapt to people, situations, and time.)

15. 真正厉害的人，往往很沉默。我们都希望“鹤立鸡群”，能够在人群中脱颖而出。可是，“木秀于林，风必摧之”，当一个人太出类拔萃了，就成为了被摧毁的对象。

15. Truly formidable individuals are often very reserved. We all hope to stand out among the crowd like a crane among chickens. However, "when a tree stands too tall in the forest, the wind must break it," and when a person is too exceptional, they become the target for destruction.

16. 真正厉害的人，先蛰伏，再破茧化蝶。我见过冬天光秃秃的树木，他们看起来很凄凉，一片叶子都没有。但是走近一点看，发现树枝上有芽苞，很不起眼，也是灰暗的。

16. The truly formidable people first hide and then transform into butterflies. I have seen trees barren in winter, looking desolate with not a single leaf. But upon getting closer, I found buds on the branches, unobtrusive and also dim.

17. 见过世面的人，理解人心人性，见识过人心叵测和世态炎凉，他们懂得一个为人处世的道理：见人少说话，见事少掺和。

17. People who have seen the world understand the hearts and nature of humans. They have witnessed the unpredictability of people's hearts and the coldness of the world. They know a principle of dealing with people: talk less when meeting people, and get involved less when dealing with things.

18. 和蔼可亲[hé ǎi kě qīn]

18. Amiable and approachable

19. 1描述一个人的性格有哪些词语

20. 多重性格 乐天达观 成熟稳重 幼稚调皮 温柔体贴 活泼可爱 普普通通 内向害羞 外向开朗 心地善良 聪明伶俐 善解人意 风趣幽默 思想开放 积极进取 小心谨慎 郁郁寡欢 正义正直 悲观失意 好吃懒做 处事洒脱 疑神疑鬼 患得患失 异想天开 多愁善感 淡泊名利 见利忘义 瞻前顾后 循规蹈矩 热心助人 快言快语 少言寡语 爱管闲事 追求 豪放不羁 狡猾多变 贪小便宜 见异思迁 情绪多变 水性扬花 重色轻友 胆小怕事 积极负责 勇敢正义 聪明好学 实事求是 务实实际 老实巴交 圆滑老练 脾气暴躁 慢条斯理 诚实坦白 婆婆妈妈 able 有才干的，能干的 active 主动的，活跃的 adaptable 适应性强的 adroit 灵巧的，机敏的 aggressive 有进取心的 alert 机灵的 ambitious 有雄心壮志的 amiable 和蔼可亲的 amicable 友好的 ytical 善于分析的 apprehensive 有理解力的 argumentative 好争辩的 aspiring 有志气的，有抱负的 attractive 有魅力的 audacious 大胆的，有冒险精神的 bad-tempered 脾气暴燥的 bigmouth 多嘴多舌的 bland 冷漠的 bossy 专横跋扈的 brave 勇敢的 brilliant 有才气的 capable 有能力的，有才能的 careful 办事仔细的 caring 有同情心的 candid 正直的 clever 机灵的，聪明的 charitable 宽厚的 cheerful 开朗的 childish 幼稚的 ical 滑稽的 petent 能胜任的 conceited 自以为是的 confident 有信心的 conscientious 认真的，自觉的 considerate 体贴的 constructive 建设性的 contemplative 好沉思的 cooperative 有合作精神的 courageous 勇敢的，有胆量的 creative 富创造力的 cultured 有教养的 dashing 有拼搏精神的 dedicated 有奉献精神的 demanding 苛刻的 determined 坚决的 devoted 有献身精神的 dependable 可靠的 diplomatic 老练的，有策略的 depressing 沉闷的 disciplined 守纪律的 discreet （在行动，说话等方面）谨慎的 dishonest 不诚实的 disanized 无组织的 dutiful 尽职的 dynamic 精悍的 earnest 认真的 easy-going 随和的 efficient 有效率的 energetic 精力充沛的 enthusiastic 充满热情的 expressive 善于表达 faithful 守信的，忠诚的 forceful （性格）坚强的 fetful 健忘的 frank 直率的，真诚的 friendly 友好的 frugal 俭朴的 funny 有趣的，古怪的 generous 宽宏大量的 genteel 有教养的 gentle 有礼貌的 greedy贪婪的 gullible 容易受骗上当的 happy 开心的 hard-working 勤劳的 have an inquiring mind 爱动脑筋的 hearty 精神饱满的 helpful 助人的，有益的 helpless 无助的，没用的 honest 诚实的 hospitable 殷勤的 humble 恭顺的 humorous 幽默的 impartial 公正的 inconsiderate 不顾及别人的，轻率的 independent 有主见的 industrious 勤奋的 ingenious 有独创性的 initiative 首创精神 intellective 有智力的 intelligent 理解力强的 inventive 有发明才能的，有创造力的 just 正直的 kind 仁慈的，和蔼的 kind-hearted 好心的 knowledgeable 有见识的 lazy 懒惰的，懒散的 learned 精通某门学问的 liberal 心胸宽大的 logical 条理分明的 loyal 忠心耿耿的 mean 吝啬的 methodical 有方法的 modest 谦虚的 moody 情绪化的 motivated 目的明确的 narrow-minded 心胸狭窄的 nasty 下流的，令人厌恶的 nice 和蔼的，挑剔的，正派的 noisy 聒噪的 obedient 听话孝顺的 objective 客观的 open-minded 虚心的 optimistic 乐观的 orderly 守纪律的 original 有独创性的 outgoing 外向友好的 painstaking 辛勤的，刻苦的 passionate 充满热情的 persevering 不屈不挠的 pessimistic 悲观的 polite 有礼貌的 popular 受欢迎的 practical 实际的 precise 一丝不苟的 punctual 严守时刻的 purposeful 意志坚强的 pushy 有进取心的 qualified 合格的 rational 有理性的 realistic 实事求是的 reasonable 讲道理的 reliable 可信赖的 responsible 负责的 romantic 浪漫的，空想的 self-conscious 自觉的 selfish 自私的 selfless 无私的 sensible 明白事理的 sensitive 敏感的 sincere 真诚的 skeptical 多疑的 art 精明的 sociable 好交际的 spirited 生气勃勃的 sporting 光明正大的 steady 塌实的 straightforward 老实的 strict 严格的 stubborn 顽固的固执的 supportive 助人的 systematic 有系统的 strong-willed 意志坚强的 sympathetic确有同情心的 sweet-tempered 性情温和的 talented 有才能的 temperate 稳健的 thoughtful 体贴人的 timid 但小的，羞怯的 tireless 孜孜不倦的 tolerant 容忍的 trustful 容易相信人的 trusorthy 值得信任的 understanding 理解人的 ungrateful 不领情的 unselfish 无私的 upright 正直的 virtuous 善良的，贞洁的 warm-hearted 热心肠的 well-educated 受过良好教育的。

19. 1 Words to describe a person's character: 20. Multiple personalities, Optimistic, Mature and steady, Childish and playful, Gentle and considerate, Lively and cute, Ordinary, Introverted and shy, Extroverted and开朗, Kind-hearted, Clever and quick-witted, Understanding, Witty and humorous, Open-minded, Progressive, Careful, Sad and gloomy, Just and upright, Pessimistic and frustrated, Lazy and slothful, Unconcerned, Free-spirited, Suspicious, Worried, Impractical, Melancholic, Disinterested in fame and wealth, Unprincipled, Worrying, Conventional, Helpful, Quick-tongued, Quiet, Meddlesome, Free-spirited, Misanthropic, Clever and versatile, Shy, Fearful, Responsible, Brave and just, Clever and eager to learn, Pragmatic, Realistic, Honest, Roundabout, Smooth-tongued, Bad-tempered, Sluggish, Frank, Honest, Overly cautious, Able, Capable, Active, Adaptable, Adroit, Aggressive, Alert, Ambitious, Amiable, Amicable, Analytical, Apprehensive, Argumentative, Aspiring, Attractive, Audacious, Bad-tempered, Bossy, Brave, Brilliant, Capable, Careful, Caring, Candid, Clever, Charitable, Cheerful, Childish, Charming, Competent, Conceited, Confident, Conscientious, Considerate, Constructive, Contemplative, Cooperative, Courageous, Creative, Cultured, Dashing, Dedicated, Demanding, Determined, Devoted, Dependable, Diplomatic, Depressing, Disciplined, Discreet, Dishonest, Disorganized, Dutiful, Dynamic, Earnest, Easy-going, Efficient, Energetic, Enthusiastic, Expressive, Faithful, Forceful, Forgetful, Frank, Friendly, Frugal, Funny, Generous, Gentle, Gullible, Happy, Hardworking, Inquiring, Hearty, Helpful, Hopeless, Honest, Hospitable, Humble, Humorous, Impartial, Inconsiderate, Independent, Industrious, Ingenious, Initiative, Intellective, Intelligent, Inventive, Just, Kind, Kind-hearted, Knowledgeable, Lazy, Learned, Liberal, Logical, Loyal, Mean, Methodical, Modest, Moody, Motivated, Narrow-minded, Nasty, Nice, Noisy, Obedient, Objective, Open-minded, Optimistic, Orderly, Original, Outgoing, Patient, Persuasive, Passionate, Persistent, Pessimistic, Polite, Popular, Practical, Precise, Punctual, Purposeful, Pushy, Qualified, Rational, Realistic, Reasonable, Reliable, Responsible, Romantic, Self-conscious, Selfish, Selfless, Sensible, Sensitive, Sincere, Skeptical, Skillful, Sociable, Spirited, Sporting, Steadfast, Straightforward, Strict, Stubborn, Supportive, Systematic, Strong-willed, Sympathetic, Sweet-tempered, Talented, Temperate, Thoughtful, Timid, Tireless, Tolerant, Trustful, Trustworthy, Understanding, Ungrateful, Unselfish, Upright, Virtuous, Warm-hearted, Well-educated.

21. 一个人越厉害，越会看到更多厉害的人，和厉害的人聚集在一起，也就不会意识到自己有多厉害了，这就是他们谦虚的原因。

21. The more formidable a person is, the more formidable individuals they will encounter, and when surrounded by formidable people, they may not realize how formidable they themselves are. This is the reason for their modesty.

22. 活泼可爱 普普通通 内向害羞 外向开朗 心地善良

22. lively and cute, ordinary, introverted and shy, extroverted and cheerful, kind-hearted

23. 重色轻友 胆小怕事 积极负责 勇敢正义 聪明好学

23. Prioritize love over friendship, timid and afraid of trouble, proactive and responsible, brave and just, intelligent and eager to learn.

24. 厉害的人会用发展的眼光看待自己，懂得持续精进自己。厉害的人之所以会谦虚，也是因为他们懂得人这一辈子最重要是把自己手头的事情做好，他们不会骄傲，也是因为懂得人的这一生，是一个持续成长与精进自己的过程。

24. People who are capable look at themselves with an eye for development and understand the importance of continuous self-improvement. The reason why capable people are humble is because they know that the most important thing in a person's lifetime is to do well with the tasks at hand. They do not become proud because they understand that a person's life is a continuous process of growth and self-improvement.

25. 列夫·托尔斯泰说：“人生的价值，并不是用时间，而是用深度去衡量的。”所谓深度，指的是一个人的思想、涵养以及努力的程度。一个有深度的人，一定是历经了万千磨难，最后站到一定的高度后，能平静的看待过去和未来。

25. Leo Tolstoy said, "The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth." What is meant by depth refers to a person's thoughts,修养, and the extent of their efforts. A person of depth must have gone through countless hardships, reached a certain height after all that, and be able to calmly view the past and the future.

26. 其实,人与人之间的相处和交往,不管是以任何的形式出现,朋友也好,同事也罢,究其原则把握住一个就可以了:以诚相待,亲疏随缘只要你不曾故意伤感别人,一如既往的尊重别人的人格和生活习惯,并给予充分的理解和宽容,那么别人就会给予你相同的方式

26. In fact, the way people interact and get along with each other, regardless of the form it takes, whether it be friendship or colleague, the principle to grasp is one: treat others with sincerity, and let familiarity come naturally. As long as you have not deliberately hurt others, continue to respect others' personalities and habits, and offer full understanding and tolerance, then others will reciprocate with the same manner.

27. 真正的强大从来不是锋芒毕露，咄咄逼人，而是有实力的同时，内心还保留着充分的尊重与无言的谦逊。

27. True strength never manifests itself as a show of sharpness or aggressive behavior; instead, it is about having strength while also maintaining a full measure of respect and silent modesty within.

28. 勤奋学习：十载寒窗、凿壁借光、囊萤映雪、手不释卷、（

28. Diligent study: Ten years of cold window, borrowing light from the wall, reflecting snow with fireflies, hands never letting go of books, (

29. 四是“处事断然”。不像我们有的时候左右为难，拖拖拉拉，犹豫不决，决而不断，断而不行，这就不对，该下决心就要下决心。

29. The fourth is "decisive in handling matters." Unlike us, sometimes we are torn between choices, dragging our feet, hesitating, making decisions but not following through, or making decisions but not acting on them. This is not right; when it's time to make a decision, one should make a decision.

30. 实事求是 务实实际 老实巴交 圆滑老练 脾气暴躁

30. Be straightforward, down-to-earth, honest and straightforward, smooth and experienced, and hot-tempered.

31. 人这一生，成功了没什么好炫耀的，只不过是又站到了新的起点。失败了也没什么值得沮丧的，只不过多了一段痛苦的记忆，爬起来拍拍身上的灰尘，生活还得继续下去。

31. In this life, there is nothing to boast about success, it's just that you have reached a new starting point. There is nothing to be despondent about failure either, it's just that you have gained another painful memory. Dust yourself off and get back up, for life must go on.

32. 如何做人与学会做事这是做人做事必看之道，事关你的成功和前途命运，不可不看也！

32. How to be a person and how to do things is a must-read path for being and doing, concerning your success and future destiny, which cannot be overlooked!

33. 我见过石缝间的野草，干枯的，蜡黄的，毫不起眼的。但是在我搬开石头的那一刻，发现野草的根是弯弯曲曲的，从石缝伸向薄薄的泥土，扎根在大地里。经历了多少磨难，一棵草才穿过石缝，遇见阳光？

33. I have seen wild grasses growing between the cracks of stones, withered, waxy yellow, and not at all eye-catching. But when I moved the stone away, I discovered that the roots of the wild grasses were winding and twisted, reaching out towards the thin soil from the cracks, and taking root in the earth. How many hardships must a single blade of grass endure before it can push through the cracks and meet the sunlight?

34. 李敖说：“所谓长大，就是你知道那是什么事；所谓成熟，就是你知道后故意说不知道。真正的成熟，不是年纪很大了，而是心智成熟了，经历多了，苦难和幸福也多了，但是都放下了，看淡了。

34. Li Ao said: "So-called growing up is knowing what that is about; so-called maturity is knowing it but deliberately saying you don't know. True maturity is not about being very old, but about mental maturity, having more experiences, more hardships and happiness, but being able to let go and take things lightly.

35. 他是一个工作能力突出,但为人处事一般的人他身上有一些别人不具备的优点,比如;热情,自信,认真和执着但是,有些时候,往往是这些优点变成了他的缺点比如说自信,他的自信常常让人接受不了,我们这么多年的朋友有时候都有点不适应,更别说是一个新环境,新同事了呢他常常认为自己是最棒的,最优秀的,以至于这样让很多人接受不了,让人觉得他难以接触同时又容不得别人给他提点意见,因为他觉得所有事情他都可以解决的很好

35. He is an outstanding worker but an average person in terms of interpersonal relationships. He possesses some virtues that others do not have, such as enthusiasm, confidence, seriousness, and persistence. However, sometimes, it is these virtues that become his flaws. For instance, his confidence is often unbearable. After all these years as friends, we sometimes find it hard to adapt, let alone in a new environment with new colleagues. He often thinks he is the best and the most excellent, which makes many people unable to accept him. It makes others feel that he is hard to approach and does not tolerate others giving him advice, as he believes he can handle everything perfectly on his own.

36. 其实很多人学会了做人 并非是他人所教 一般都是吃一暂,长一智 以你来说,不爱说表面话 或许有一天在个问题上你落了后 你肯定会想办法去改善 再或者你身边的人用此类方法占了先 你又善于观察 能看出点门道来 那么,也是一种你的经验积累 虽然有的时候你不是心甘情愿 但是大的环境会逼得人们去做事与愿违的事情 可是,做出来的事情偏偏与之向背 我们会发现有些人比较少言寡语 尤其在征求意见的时候 只能说是因为意见相悖 不愿意说出来得罪人而已 不是,他很可能非常想说 但是为了计后果,或者说了无用 干脆就无语了 这种人,会被一些人说成是会做人 关键时候不得罪人 你看,说与不说都能被人评判成是否会做人可见, 会不会做人不是你做出来的,而是别人说出来的 我无法说你是否该说表面话 但是心里完全可以这样想; 在话没说出来之前,我主宰在话说出来以后，爱谁谁．

36. In fact, many people learn to be human, not by others' teaching. Generally, it's a case of "eat a temporary lesson, grow a bit wiser." Speaking of you, not liking to say superficial things, perhaps one day on an issue you fall behind, you will definitely think of ways to improve. Or, if the people around you gain an advantage using such methods, and you are good at observing and can see some tricks, then, it is also a kind of experience accumulation for you. Although sometimes you are not willing, the big environment will force people to do things against their will. However, the things done are precisely opposite to this. We find that some people are relatively reserved, especially when seeking opinions. It can only be said that it is because of differing opinions and they don't want to offend people. No, they may very much want to say something, but to avoid consequences or because they think it's useless, they just remain silent. Such people are said by some to be good at being human, not offending others at critical times. You see, whether to speak or not can be judged as whether one knows how to be human. It seems that whether one knows how to be human is not something you do, but what others say. I cannot say whether you should say what is on the surface, but in your heart, you can completely think like this: before the words are spoken, I am in control; after the words are spoken, it's up to whoever.

37. 真正厉害的人，都是不动声色的努力奋斗，比起说话，夸夸其谈的吹嘘自己，说大话，说空话，他们更喜欢踏踏实实地做事，所以，变成了最好的自己，过上了自己想要的生活。

37. The truly formidable people are those who strive tirelessly with no fanfare, preferring to act rather than engage in boastful self-praise, talking big or empty talk. They prefer to do things down-to-earth, which is why they have become the best versions of themselves and lived the lives they wanted.

38. 我们知道，人性中最本质的的需求就是渴望得到赏识，人都是为了得到别人的赏识而活不会是为了挑剔而活吧，我相信，百分之百的人从内心都是愿意和赏识自己的人一起工作、一起生活，而不愿意和整天挑鼻子挑眼，对这不满意那不顺眼的人一起。人，或多或少都有这样或那样的不足，因此，要做到宽容，就要学会用“电脑窗口”功能，看他人优点时最好使用“最大化”，看缺点时和不关要紧的事最好使用“最小化”。

38. We know that the most essential human need is the desire to be recognized. People live to be recognized by others, not to be nitpicking, I believe. A hundred percent of people, deep down, are willing to work and live with those who recognize them, rather than with those who are always finding fault and dissatisfied with everything. Every person, to some extent, has shortcomings or weaknesses. Therefore, to be宽容, one must learn to use the "computer window" function – when recognizing others' strengths, it's best to use "maximize," and when looking at their shortcomings or trivial matters, it's better to use "minimize."

39. 哪怕对待不如自己的人，也能保持尊重，平等对待。通过贬低别人来抬高自己，常常流于浅薄，盯着他人的短处讥讽嘲笑，自以为高人一等，实则鼠目寸光。

39. Even when dealing with people who are less than oneself, one can maintain respect and treat them equally. Trying to elevate oneself by belittling others is often trivial and shallow; focusing on others' shortcomings to mock and jeer at them, thinking oneself to be superior, is actually a sign of narrow-mindedness.

40. 沉默是金，多看多听多想，少说话，是人生一场重要的修行。

40. Silence is golden. To observe, listen, and think more, and to speak less, is an important practice in life.

41. 比较高级的词汇：温文尔雅、品貌端庄、仪态不凡、大家闺范、衣冠楚楚、器宇轩昂、佳人才子、谦谦君子、文质彬彬、昂藏七尺等。

41. Advanced vocabulary: courteous and refined, dignified and elegant, extraordinary demeanor, a lady of distinction, dressed to the nines, dignified and imposing, a beautiful and talented person, a modest gentleman, scholarly and refined, towering and imposing, etc.