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在喧嚣的世界中,三个关键词如同三把钥匙,轻轻扣响了一个人的心扉,映照出他深邃的承受之力。
In the noisy world, three key words act like three keys, gently knocking on a person's heart, reflecting his profound capacity for endurance.
1. 诸葛亮感叹:“受任于败军之际,奉命于危难之间。”
1. Zhuge Liang sighed, "I was appointed during the time of the defeated army and was given orders amidst perilous difficulties."
2. 拉开人与人之间差距的,从来不是出身。在生活中,你看到有些出身贫穷的人,也拥有极高的层次。
2. The gap between people is never determined by their origin. In life, you may see some people from poor backgrounds who also achieve a very high level.
3. 真正决定我们人生层次的,不是能力,而是愿景
3. What truly determines the level of our lives is not ability, but vision.
4. 在与人交往相处时,从不强调个人特殊的一面,也不有意表现自己的优越感。
4. In interactions with others, never emphasizes one's personal uniqueness nor intentionally shows off one's sense of superiority.
5. 不管风吹浪打,胜似闲庭信步。真正厉害的人,处变不惊,临危不乱,经难不退,而是会冷静下来寻找对策,静下心来破解局面。
5. No matter the wind and waves, it is even better than strolling leisurely in a courtyard. The truly formidable individuals remain composed in the face of change, calm under pressure, and steadfast in adversity. Instead of retreating, they calm down to seek solutions and concentrate to break through the situation.
6. 绝大多数人都是停留在前面五个层次,第六个层次往往需要人生很多阅历与足够的修炼才会慢慢拥有这个境界。
6. The vast majority of people remain at the first five levels. The sixth level often requires a lot of life experience and sufficient cultivation to gradually attain this level.
7. 我们要想提升自我层次,我们就需要不断提升自己的层次。如果我们总是停留在环境层,爱抱怨,我们的人生就不会有多大的改变。
7. In order to elevate our own level, we need to continuously improve ourselves. If we always stay at the level of our environment and complain, our lives will not undergo significant changes.
8. 生活当中季度经常会有出现,这是在正常不过的一种现象,即使是在自己亲戚朋友之间,也是会经常游走的,毕竟在没有伤害到他人的情况下,不需要理会,如果伤害到自己和别人才是应该重视的事情。
8. In everyday life, quarters often appear, which is a phenomenon that is quite normal. Even among relatives and friends, there will be frequent comings and goings. After all, as long as it does not harm others, there is no need to pay attention. Only when it harms oneself or others should it be taken seriously.
9. 而是简单归因认为自己做得不好,往往是因为自己不够努力。所以他们希冀通过足够的努力去改变自己的人生和命运,虽然会有些起效,但是无法改变自我人生命运。
9. Instead, they simply attribute their poor performance to not putting in enough effort. Therefore, they hope to change their lives and destiny through sufficient effort, although some results may be achieved, they cannot change the destiny of their own life.
10. 真正决定一个人的层次,往往是看不到的东西,它影响我们的行为方式,以及自己如何做选择。
10. What truly determines a person's level is often what is unseen, which influences our ways of behaving and how we make choices.
11. 在南极洲,不是光滑的冰面,就是尖锐的冰凌。而身体笨重的企鹅,既没有可以攀爬的前臂,也没有可以飞翔的翅膀,它们是怎么从水中上岸的呢?
11. In Antarctica, it's either smooth ice or sharp ice spikes. How do the heavy-bodied penguins, with neither limbs to climb nor wings to fly, manage to get onto land from the water?
12. 原来,他们游到岸边的时候,就拼命往下沉,沉到很深的地方,凭着海水强大的浮力和压力,一跃而起,冲上岸来。
12. Originally, when they swam to the shore, they sank rapidly downwards, descending to a great depth. Relying on the powerful buoyancy and pressure of the seawater, they leaped upwards and rushed onto the shore.
13. 既然嫉妒一个人,那么在当事人的面前表现的就是一副忐忑不安的模样,比如说不敢直视的你的目光,不喜欢和你说同样的话语,甚至是有相当激动的情绪和态度,从这些细节当中都能够体现出来,一心二楚。
13. Since one is envious of someone, it is reflected in a restless demeanor in front of the person in question, for example, through a gaze that dare not meet your eyes, a reluctance to speak in the same words as you, or even with a rather excited mood and attitude. All these details reveal it clearly.
14. 第四个层次,信念价值观:当我们到了第四个层次的时候,往往能够让我们看到更高的世界。你会发现,这个层次的人已经开始会去思考自己内在的信念是什么。
14. The Fourth Level, Belief Values: When we reach the fourth level, it often allows us to see a higher world. You will find that people at this level have already started to think about what their inner beliefs are.
15. NLP六个层次很好告诉我们人生往往有六个层次追求。许多人的一生都在不断爬涉与提升自我的层次。
15. The six levels of NLP beautifully illustrate that life often involves a pursuit of six levels. Many people spend their entire lives climbing and improving their levels of self.
16. 不管遇到什么事,一定要平心静气,镇定自若,从容面对,如果方寸大乱,心浮气躁,或者有其他消极情绪产生,只会让事情变得更糟。
16. No matter what happens, it is important to remain calm and composed, face it with composure, and not let panic or restlessness take hold. If you let your mind go wild and become overly agitated, or develop other negative emotions, it will only make matters worse.
17. 古人说:逆水行舟使劲撑,一篙松劲退千寻。
17. As ancient people said: Rowing against the current requires full effort, but even a moment of relaxation can cause a boat to recede a thousand miles.
18. 但是当我们愿意把自己从环境层升级为能力层,通过提升能力,找到与发现更多的机会,往往就能让我们从过去的阴霾角度变得更为阳光与透明。
18. However, when we are willing to upgrade ourselves from the environmental layer to the capability layer, by enhancing our abilities and finding more opportunities, it often allows us to become more positive and transparent, shedding the shadows of the past.
19. 好的愿景往往来自我们内在生活的深度体验,更来自我们对理想生活的不断追求与跨越,我们在这其中影响生活,另一方面,我们也在构筑自己理想世界,这两者是相辅相成的。
19. Good visions often come from the depth of our inner life experiences, and even more from our continuous pursuit and transcendence of the ideal life. In this process, we influence our lives, while on the other hand, we are also constructing our own ideal world. These two aspects complement each other.
20. 孟敏说:路面这么坚硬,瓦罐必碎无疑。既然如此,回头看有什么意义呢!我还有比看瓦罐更重要的事情呢!
20. Meng Min said: "The road is so hard, the pot is bound to break. If that's the case, what is the point of looking back! There are more important things for me to attend to than watching the pot break!"
21. 愿景能够激活我们全身的能量,更能帮助我们找到最高使命是什么。如果我们想要让自己站得高,看得远,我们就要不断寻找自己内在愿景是什么。
21. Vision can activate the energy of our entire body and can even help us find out what our highest mission is. If we want to stand tall and see far, we must continuously seek to understand what our inner vision is.
22. 比如说通过一些话语来贬低你,当你做出成绩的时候,总是会在别人面前说,不就是这样吗?我也能够做到小菜一碟。你的成功你的辛劳,在他人的眼里看来其实什么都不是,甚至是一文不值,因为你的成果会打破别人的自信。
22. For example, by using certain words to belittle you, they always say in front of others when you achieve something, "Is that it? I can do that too easily." Your success and hard work are actually worth nothing in the eyes of others, even less than nothing, because your achievements will shatter the confidence of others.
23. 一个嫉妒你的人往往是人前一套背后一套的,因为这样的人不会在你面前表现出来,还会和你有很热情的联络,但是总是会在背后出现议论你的情况,当别人说你的坏话的时候不会帮你说好话,反而会火上加油。
23. A person who is jealous of you often acts one way in public and another behind your back, because such a person won't show their jealousy in front of you, and they will still keep in close contact with you. However, they will always appear behind your back to talk about you. When others speak ill of you, they won't say anything good on your behalf, but rather fan the flames.
24. 永远往前看,放下往事,轻装前行,我们才能活得轻盈自在。
24. Always look forward, let go of the past, and travel light; only then can we live carefree and at ease.
25. 他们会通过自我的践行不断思考如何做对的事情,他们认为人生更重要的是选择,选择对了,就会带来人生翻天覆地的变化。
25. They constantly ponder how to do the right thing through their own practice, and they believe that life is more important about choices; the right choice can bring about earth-shaking changes in one's life.
26. 有一个“破甑不顾”的成语。
26. There is a Chinese idiom called "not to care about a broken jar."
27. 在他人遇到某种不幸时,尽量给予同情和支持。
27. Do your best to offer sympathy and support when others are facing some misfortune.
28. 莫说人情冷,将心来比心。通常来说一个嫉妒你的人,是少不了这三大表现的,隐藏不住。所以不管是嫉妒的人,或者还是被嫉妒的人,若想人不知,除非己莫为。要善于学会站在对方的角度去想问题,才能够让自己想得更加全面。
28. Don't say that human feelings are cold, compare your heart to others'. Generally speaking, a person who is envious of you will inevitably show these three behaviors, which cannot be concealed. So whether you are the envious one or the one being envied, if you want to keep it unknown to others, unless you don't do it yourself. It is necessary to learn to think from the perspective of others in order to think more comprehensively.
29. 提高一个人的气度,即是提高一个人的素质修养。在与别人沟通的时候,气度往往在最短的时间内能让别人对你敬佩或者藐视。
29. Improving one's breadth of character is equivalent to enhancing one's quality and修养. When communicating with others, one's breadth of character often allows others to admire or look down upon you within the shortest possible time.
30. 第一层次,环境层次:处于环境层次的人,会更多地把问题聚焦在外部原因上。比如认为自己没有混得很好,是因为自己出身不好,或者认为外面的人没有看到自己的才华。
30. First level, environmental level: People at the environmental level tend to focus more on external causes when dealing with problems. For example, they may believe that they are not doing well because of their poor background, or they may think that others have not recognized their talents.
31. 即使遇到某种困难也不食言。自己谈出来的话,要竭尽全力去完成,身体力行是最好的诺言。
31. Do not break a promise even in the face of some difficulties. Words spoken by oneself should be fulfilled with all one's effort, and actions speak louder than words.
32. 选准自己的目标,脚踏实地,实事求是,深耕自己,当你足够优秀,自然会有惊艳众人的一天。
32. Choose your goals wisely, work diligently and be down-to-earth, pursue your own path with deep concentration. When you are sufficiently excellent, there will naturally be a day when you dazzle everyone.
33. 讲的是东汉时一个叫孟敏的年轻人,一天他背着一个瓦罐去赶集。当时人来人往,非常拥挤,一个莽撞的小伙子和他迎面相撞,瓦罐也应声落地。
33. The story is about a young man named Meng Min during the Eastern Han Dynasty. One day, he was carrying a clay pot while going to the market. It was very crowded with people coming and going, and a clumsy young man bumped into him face-on, causing the pot to fall to the ground.
34. 愿景层的人往往会思考就是我该如何改变这个世界,我如何让这个世界变得更好。比如马克思想要改变世界,比如特雷萨修女,想要用爱让世界变得更为和平,事实上,在这个世界上只有极少数的人可以达到愿景层。
34. People at the Vision level often think about how I can change this world, how I can make this world better. For example, like Mark who wants to change the world, or like Sister Teresa who wants to make the world more peaceful through love. In fact, only a very few people in the world can reach the Vision level.
35. 虽然一个嫉妒你的人在内心深处会承认不如你技术上或者是生活上都比不上你,但是绝对不敢在你面前表现出来的,会通过各种形式进行贬低你的价值,比如说在背后说你的坏话,别人说你坏话的时候不会帮你说好话,通过这种方式来找到这种自己的心理平衡。
35. Although a jealous person may admit in their innermost thoughts that they are not as technically skilled or as successful as you in life, they would never dare to show it in front of you. Instead, they would贬低你的价值 through various means, such as spreading negative rumors about you behind your back, not defending you when others speak ill of you, and in this way, find a psychological balance for themselves.
36. 这六个境界告诉我们,真正决定我们能走多远的,并不是能力,而是最高层次,愿景。
36. These six levels tell us that it is not the ability that truly determines how far we can go, but rather the highest level, the vision.
37. 我们对自己的身份思考往往会让我们最终成为什么样的人。一个人的思维层次到了身份层,往往会看到人与人之间本质的差异,更会知道,人与人不同,更多来自自我的塑造。
37. Reflecting on our identity often determines who we ultimately become. When a person's level of thinking reaches the identity level, they tend to see the essential differences between individuals, and they will also know that the differences between people come more from self-shaping.
38. 然而,孟敏不管不顾,一直往前走。旁边的人叫住他说:小伙子,你的瓦罐摔碎了,你怎么不回头看一眼呢?
38. However, Meng Min paid no heed and kept walking forward. The person next to him called out to him: "Young man, your pot has fallen and shattered. Why don't you take a look back?"
39. 人世间没有白走的路,每一步都算数。脚踏实地,默默努力,时间会把你雕刻成你想要的样子。
39. There is no wasted step in the human world, every step counts. Take root in reality, work diligently in silence, and time will sculpt you into the person you desire to be.
40. 诸葛亮一身系刘备集团的安危,他胸有成竹,气定神闲,周旋于吴国的君臣将领之间。舌战群儒,智激周瑜,说服孙权决心抗曹。
40. Zhuge Liang's fate was intertwined with the safety and peril of Liu Bei's group. Confident and composed, he maneuvered among the kings and generals of the state of Wu. In a verbal battle with a group of scholars, he used his intelligence to stir Zhou Yu and convince Sun Quan to make the decision to resist Cao Cao.
41. 世界上没有一蹴而就的成功,没有一步到位的精彩,任何光鲜亮丽的背后,都是苦行僧一样的自律。
41. There is no instant success in the world, no instant brilliance, and behind any shining success lies the self-discipline of a monk.
42. 愿景来自我们内在的格局和视野,而这些离不开我们自身的见识和对这个世界的沉淀与认知。
42. Vision comes from our inner perspective and vision, which cannot be separated from our own insights and the sedimentation and cognition of this world.
43. 这个六个层次是相互影响与相互塑造我们的,如果我们想要解决自己的人生困惑,我们一定要先明确自己先处于哪个层次,然后从更高一个系统去升级自己的思维系统,我们就能突出重围。
43. These six levels mutually influence and shape us. If we want to resolve the confusion in our lives, we must first clarify which level we are currently at, and then upgrade our thinking system from a higher-level system. In this way, we can break through the difficulties.
44. 俗话说天妒英才,这个道理相信很多人都明白,就比如说三国的时候,诸葛亮的才华就被周瑜嫉妒,从而产生了很多故事,而这些都是因为妒忌一个人做出的一些事情。
44. As the saying goes, heaven envies the talents of geniuses, and this truth is believed to be understood by many people. For example, during the Three Kingdoms period, Zhou Yu was envious of Zhuge Liang's talents, which led to many stories. All these things were a result of what was done due to jealousy of an individual.
45. 世事犹如书籍,一页页翻过去。我们要往前看,少翻历史旧账。
45. Life is like a book, turning the pages one by one. We should look forward and not dwell too much on the old accounts of history.
46. 如果说嫉妒一个人是自卑的心理,那么说明这个人心里是很不踏实的,因为自己自卑,所以更加容易嫉妒别人,而且在外人面前妒忌心里就会显得更加明显。
46. If being envious of someone is a manifestation of inferiority, then it indicates that this person is very unstable in their mind. Because of their own inferiority, they are more prone to envy others, and the envious feelings become even more obvious in front of strangers.
47. 遇到人生低谷的时候,也是如此,如果我们习惯抱怨,我们就无法看到新的可能性,而从提升自己层次角度入手,我们就能清晰制定自我成长版图。
47. This is also true when we are at the lowest point in our lives. If we are accustomed to complaining, we cannot see new possibilities. However, by starting from the perspective of improving ourselves, we can clearly chart out our path of self-growth.
48. 第六个层次,愿景层:具备愿景层次的人,往往就是知天命。一个人知道自己的使命是什么,内心就会涌现无穷的动力。
48. The Sixth Level: Vision Level: People who possess the vision level are often said to know their destiny. When a person knows what their mission is, they will be filled with endless motivation from within.
49. 很多人之所以无法拥有愿景,往往来自我们读的书太少了,亦或自己的见识和视野太窄了。
49. Many people are unable to have a vision because it often stems from the fact that we read too few books, or that our own insights and horizons are too narrow.
50. 一个从未接受人生与理想熏陶,无法拥有高远的境界;一个从来没有被人尊重过的人,也无法明白文明的重要性。
50. One who has never been educated in the ways of life and ideals cannot possess a lofty spirit; and one who has never been respected by others cannot comprehend the importance of civilization.
51. 其不断的去妒忌别人,倒不如不断的去优秀自己调整自己的心态,比如说,看到别人比自己优秀的时候,不妨也尝试着像他人一样做,或许你有不一样的成果,甚至比别人更加优秀。一个嫉妒你的人,这三个细节会表现明显,骗不了人。
51. It's better to continuously strive to excel and adjust your mindset rather than to constantly envy others. For instance, when you see someone who is superior to you, why not try to emulate them? You might achieve different results, or even become more outstanding than them. A jealous person will show these three details clearly, which cannot be deceived.
52. 不论何时何地,对妇女、儿童及上了年纪的老人,总是表示出关心并给予最大的照顾和方便。
52. At all times and places, women, children, and the elderly are always shown concern and provided with the greatest care and convenience.
53. 气度也是一个人心理素质的表现形式,它是决定一个人成败的重要因素。
53. Magnanimity is also a manifestation of a person's psychological quality, and it is an important factor that determines a person's success or failure.
54. 企鹅的故事告诉我们:沉得下去,积蓄力量,才会有爆发和惊艳的时刻。
54. The story of the penguin teaches us: Only by being able to dive deep and accumulate strength can there be moments of explosion and surprise.
55. 注意从不随便打断别人的谈话,总是先听完对方的发言,然后再去反驳或者补充对方的看法和意见
55. Pay attention not to interrupt others' conversations at will, always listen to the other person's speech first, and then proceed to refute or supplement their views and opinions.
56. 今日话题:你认为决定人生层次的,是出身还是愿景?欢迎探讨与交流。
56. Today's Topic: Do you think it is出身 (origin) or 愿景 (vision) that determines the level of one's life? Welcome to discuss and exchange ideas.
57. 第五个层次,身份层:身份层次是自我觉醒,在这个层次,我们会去思考自己是谁,自己要去哪里,自己该如何去。
57. The Fifth Level, Identity Level: The identity level is self-awareness. At this level, we ponder questions such as who we are, where we are going, and how we should go about it.
58. 愿景类似我们成长的灯塔,我们一定要尽早去找到自己的内在愿景,这是我们的终极使命。
58. The vision is akin to the lighthouse through which we grew up. It is imperative for us to find our inner vision as early as possible, for it is our ultimate mission.
59. 在NLP思维训练体系中告诉我们,决定人与人层次是我们自身的思维层次。上述图就代表了六个思维层次的区别。我们可以根据描述,对应下,自己在哪个层次。
59. In the NLP thinking training system, it tells us that the level of people is determined by our own thinking level. The above diagram represents the differences between the six thinking levels. We can match the descriptions to see in which level we are ourselves.
60. 扛得住,你就赢了。
60. If you can bear it, you've won.
61. 扛得住事,挺得起腰,我们才能不惧风雨,趟过荆棘,找到属于自己的美好。
61. Only by bearing the burden of responsibilities and standing firm on our own two feet can we face the storms and thorns, and find the beauty that belongs to us.
62. 多年以前看到那个记者和放羊娃的采访,记者询问放羊娃的一生,从来没有见过世界的放羊娃讲述自己的人生愿望就是放羊,娶妻生子,不断循环反复。
62. Many years ago, I saw an interview with a journalist and a shepherd boy. The journalist asked the shepherd boy about his life, and the shepherd boy, who had never seen the world, described his life aspirations as simply to keep sheep, marry and have children, and then repeat this cycle indefinitely.
63. 只有往前看,不断拥抱崭新的生活,追求更为精彩的未来,才能把那些伤心往事扔在身后,不纠结,不苦闷,不悲观。
63. Only by looking forward, constantly embracing the brand new life, and pursuing a more exciting future, can one leave behind the sad past, without lingering, without bitterness, and without pessimism.
64. 我们要想让自己的人生层次更高,走得更远,拥有更为充足的后劲,我们就需要从这几个层次入手,不断提升自我的格局,你才能找到属于自己的一席之地,拥抱更大的世界
64. In order to elevate the level of our lives, to go further, and to possess greater momentum, we need to start from these levels, continuously improve our own perspective, so that you can find a place of your own, and embrace a larger world.