拥抱生命中的不完美：允许遗憾，释放自我

Embrace the imperfections in life: allow regrets, free yourself.

1. 我们终其一生所寻找的不过是一个家，一个可以放心的地方！

1. What we seek throughout our lives is nothing more than a home, a place where we can feel at ease!

2. 痛苦对每个人而言，只是一个过客，一种磨练，一番考验。

2. Suffering is but a transient visitor, a form of tempering, and a test for everyone.

3. 相信一秒之间的对视，便已经成为成为永恒，因为余生只爱你一个，如果真的真的有来生，我仍然希望遇见着你，请让我好好再爱一遍。

3. Believe that a glance between us in a second has already become eternal, because for the rest of my life, I will love you alone. If there really is a next life, I still hope to meet you again, and let me love you well one more time.

4. 对年轻人来说，朋友是提醒他们不犯错误的谋士；对老年人来说，朋友是补充他们衰竭的体力、照顾他们生活困难的助手；对成年人来说，朋友是辅佐他们完成宏伟事业的臂膀。

4. For the young, friends are advisors who remind them not to make mistakes; for the elderly, friends are assistants who补充 their fading strength and help them with their difficulties in living; for adults, friends are the arms that support them in accomplishing their grand undertakings.

5. 因为怀才不遇，只能借酒浇愁。酒醉了，酣然入梦，在梦境中，自己金戈铁马，沙场点兵，实现了理想，但梦醒之后，仍然是两鬓斑白，一事无成的自己。

5. Because of the lack of opportunity to showcase his talents, he can only drown his sorrows in wine. Drunk, he peacefully falls asleep, and in his dreams, he rides on golden horses, leading troops in battlefields, realizing his ideals. But upon waking from the dream, he is still the same man with white hair on his temples, having achieved nothing.

6. 路是自己走的，深浅不一的脚印也是自己踩下去的。如果前方的路永远都是蜿蜒崎岖，坎坷不平的，那么我也会笑着独自走下去。再累再痛再苦再艰难，我也会面带微笑，轻松自如的独自走完余生。

6. The road is one that I walk myself, with footsteps of varying depths that I have stepped upon. If the path ahead is forever winding and rugged, with obstacles at every turn, then I will also walk it alone with a smile. No matter how tired, painful, bitter, or difficult it may be, I will still carry a smile, walking through the rest of my life with ease and self-assurance.

7. 接受这个世界对你的伤害，然后，微笑着面对所有。

7. Accept the harm this world inflicts upon you, and then face everything with a smile.

8. 人只能来世上一回。余生好好珍惜身边陪伴的那个人吧。毕竟没有下辈子。

8. People can only come to this world once. Treasure the person by your side for the rest of your life. After all, there is no next life.

9. 其实人的出场顺序真的很重要，陪你喝醉的人注定没法送你回家，陪你度过年少的人不可能陪你度过余生。

9. In fact, the order of people's appearance is really important; the person who drinks with you is destined to be unable to take you home, and the person who spends your youth with you cannot accompany you through the rest of your life.

10. 不怪你没有陪我走到最后，也不怪缘分遣散了我们的感情，以后照顾好自己，不再打扰你了。你没挽留，我没回头，余生各自安好；也没有谁不好，真的只是时间不凑巧。

10. I don't blame you for not walking with me to the end, nor do I blame fate for dissipating our affection. From now on, take care of yourself, and don't disturb you anymore. You didn't try to persuade me to stay, and I didn't turn back; the rest of our lives will be peaceful. No one is at fault; it's truly just that the timing wasn't right.

11. 晚点遇见你，余生都是你，最美的你嫁给了最好的爱情。

11. Meeting you late, the rest of my life is you, and the most beautiful you have married the best love.

12. 苏轼和辛弃疾都被称为豪放词的代表人物，苏轼从语言到内心都很豪放，辛弃疾语言非常豪放，内心却抑郁愁闷。

12. Su Shi and Xin Qiji are both regarded as representatives of the豪放 (loose and unrestrained) style of poetry. Su Shi is unrestrained both in language and in spirit, while Xin Qiji is very unrestrained in language but melancholic and melancholy in spirit.

13. 也有人看淡红尘，信奉缘分。只是太注重缘分而忽略了主观的努力，往往容易错过与幸福的邂逅，一次次的擦肩而过让你像泄了气的皮球，空留无奈与淡淡的惆怅。

13. Some people are indifferent to the hustle and bustle of the world and believe in fate. However, being overly fixated on fate often leads to neglecting one's own efforts, which frequently results in missing out on encounters with happiness. One missed opportunity after another makes you feel like a deflated ball, left with only helplessness and a faint melancholy.

14. 生活就如同一道口味很重的菜，起初有滋有味，但越是深入越不堪回味。

14. Life is like a dish with a strong flavor, initially delicious, but the more one delves into it, the less it is enjoyable to reminisce about.

15. 我们的生命总有过度的时候，过度的时期常有孤独相伴。害怕孤独的人，总是逃避这一时期，认为所有的苦难都经历了，人生真的是很悲剧。有的人看待人生，不把主观的思想放在主要位置，他们相信一切皆有宿命。既是你的苦难，命运自有他的安排。这世界里的一切，只要是存在了的，总有存在的理由。

15. Our lives always have periods of excess, and these periods are often accompanied by loneliness. Those who fear loneliness always try to avoid this period, believing that they have experienced all the hardships and that life is truly tragic. Some people view life without placing their subjective thoughts in the forefront; they believe in destiny. Even if it is your suffering, fate has its own arrangement. Everything in this world, as long as it exists, has its own reason for being.

16. 多少年少的狂妄疏放被时间磨平棱角，也让我们更坦然的面对这个世界。别回头，别纠缠，别念旧。致余生的我！

16. How many years of youthful arrogance and carefree attitude have been worn down by time, allowing us to face this world with greater openness. Don't look back, don't be entangled, and don't dwell on the past. To the me of the rest of my life!

17. 余生很贵，一定要过有趣的生活，和志同道合的人在一起。

17. Life is precious, one must live an interesting life and be with like-minded people.

18. 而我前面还笑嘻嘻的跟父母讲，我很好，工作很好，住的也好，吃的也好，同事对我也很好。挂了电话，才发现自己已经在落泪，其实这没什么，只是对现状的一种宣泄吧，这首歌是当时我最喜欢的一首歌。

18. I had just been smiling and telling my parents that I was doing well, both with my job and my living situation, and the food was good, and my colleagues treated me well. But after hanging up the phone, I realized I was already in tears. Actually, there's nothing much to it; it's just an outlet for my current situation, I guess. This song was my favorite at the time.

19. 找一个我爱的也爱我的人，然后一起慢慢变老，直到生命的终结。

19. Find someone who loves me and whom I love, and then grow old together slowly until the end of life.

20. 火锅可以一个人吃，上街可以一个人逛，**可以一个人看。但我还是想有人能让我穿一次婚纱，陪我走完余生。

20. Hotpot can be eaten alone, streets can be逛 alone, and one can watch alone. But I still wish for someone to let me wear a wedding dress once, and to accompany me through the rest of my life.

21. 生命的路，每走一段，前面就会少一段。我们都走在路上，我们都需要勇气。如果现在的路刚好遇上暴风雨，那么，请像海燕一样无惧的飞过去吧，因为那是一种气度。

21. The path of life, with every step taken, a segment ahead diminishes. We are all walking on this road, and we all need courage. If the path you're on encounters a storm, then, fly through it fearlessly like a seagull, for that is a measure of magnanimity.

22. 父母在，人生尚有来处；父母去，人生只剩归期。往后余生，愿你能善待自己的父母，不要让陪伴，成为遗憾。

22. While parents are alive, life still has a place to go; once they are gone, life is left with only a time to return. For the rest of your life, I wish you could treat your parents kindly, and don't let companionship become a regret.

23. 人要自足常乐，宽容大度，什么事情都不能想繁杂，心灵的负荷重了，就会怨天忧人。要定期的对记忆进行一次删除，把不愉快的人和事从记忆中摈弃。

23. People should be content and happy, tolerant and magnanimous, not to overthink anything. When the burden of the mind becomes heavy, it will lead to complaints against the heavens and worries about others. It is necessary to regularly delete memories and discard unpleasant people and things from memory.

24. 一无所有就是拼的理由。怀揣梦想，我依靠自己，往后余生越来越精彩。

24. Having nothing is the reason to strive. With dreams in mind, I rely on myself, and the rest of my life will be more and more exciting.

25. 终会遇见一个人，宠溺你，让你做回孩子。往后余生请多多指教。

25. You will eventually meet someone who will dote on you, allowing you to be a child again. Please teach me well in the rest of my life.

26. 就像刘若英唱的那样，有时候一首歌能唱哭自己，也会有一天当你老去，突然想起了一首歌，再去听它，又会老泪纵横，那种感觉，只有在那个年龄才会体会，有快乐有悲伤，有幸福的泪水，也有悲伤的泪水！人就怕突然在一个年龄，突然就听懂了这么一首歌……

26. As Liu Ruoying sang, sometimes a song can make oneself cry, and one day when you grow old, you suddenly remember a song, and when you listen to it again, you will shed tears of age, that feeling, can only be understood at that age, with happiness and sadness, with tears of joy, and also with tears of sorrow! People are afraid that suddenly at a certain age, they suddenly understand such a song...

27. 人生得耐得住寂寞，兴致勃勃地学习，也得忍受得住孤独。“书山有路勤为径，学海无涯苦作舟。”勤奋与苦学，都将会令你的人生褶褶生辉。“天才出于勤奋”，“天才是百分之一的灵感，加上百分之九十九的汗水。”都说明勤奋与苦学的巨大作用，对人生难以比拟的影响。人生深入地进行创造，甚至创新，开辟人生的丰收景象。

27. Life requires the endurance of solitude, to learn with enthusiasm, and to bear the loneliness. "There is a path to the mountain of books, which is the hard work of diligence, and the sea of knowledge has no end, where toil serves as the boat." Diligence and hard study will brighten your life with folds of brilliance. "Genius is born from diligence," and "genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration." Both statements illustrate the tremendous role of diligence and hard work, with an impact on life that is hard to compare. To delve deeply into creation, even innovation, and to open up a bountiful landscape in life.

28. 不知道学生时代什么记忆深刻，就是好怀念，现在我在工作了回不去了。

28. I'm not sure what memories from my school days are deeply etched in my mind, but I do miss them so much. Now that I'm working, I can't go back.

29. 生命不在于长度，而在于宽度。意指生命重在质量。我们可以看到，老年的人生是可悲的，幼年少年的人生则是糊里糊涂的，这是人力无法改变的，所以人要提高生命质量，关键还在于青中年。过好二十岁到五十岁这三十年就可以了，即使五六十岁就死了，也可以瞑目了。

29. Life does not lie in its length, but in its breadth. This means that the essence of life lies in its quality. We can see that the life of the elderly is pitiful, and the life of the young and the adolescents is confused, which is something that human effort cannot change. Therefore, the key to improving the quality of life lies in the middle-aged and young adults. Just doing well in the thirty years from the age of 20 to 50 is enough. Even if one passes away at the age of 50 or 60, one can die with a peaceful mind.

30. 谁都可以放弃我们，唯独我们不该放弃自己，所谓笑容，就是笑着去包容。

30. Anyone can abandon us, but we should never abandon ourselves. What is called a smile is to embrace while laughing.

31. 买些搭配发型不同的头饰，小的东西也可以让你饶有情趣。

31. Buy some hair accessories with different hairstyles to match, even small items can add a touch of interest.

32. 我只是想我爱的人能陪在我身边，就这么简单，没有意义的生活。

32. I just want the people I love to be by my side, that's all, a life without meaning.

33. 苏轼被贬官，朝廷不再重用他，他就听从命运的安排，在荒凉遥远的贬谪之地，开开心心过小日子。

33. Su Shi was demoted and no longer highly regarded by the court. He then accepted the arrangement of fate, living happily in the desolate and distant place of his exile.

34. 如果说执着是一种精神。那么放弃则是一种勇气和境界。

34. If attachment is a kind of spirit, then letting go is a kind of courage and a realm.

35. 我只能把所有深藏于心灵底部的愧疚，融化为大颗大颗的泪滴。然后，以肆意宣泄的方式，黯然地在曾经熟悉的土地上，默默地流失。

35. I can only melt all the deep-seated guilt hidden in the depths of my heart into large, teardrop-like droplets. Then, in a way of unrestrained outpouring, I silently lose myself on the once familiar land, in a melancholic manner.

36. 智慧是一种能力，一种穿透现象直抵本质的能力。

36. Wisdom is a capability, a capacity to penetrate through phenomena to the essence.

37. 青春有限，勿留遗憾。时间久了，才发现很多该做的事都没做；时间久了，才发现很多该说的话都没说；时间久了，才发现很多该爱的人都没爱；时间久了，才发现很多该忘的情都没忘；时间久了，才发现已经忘记了原来的自己是怎么样的。

37. Youth is fleeting, do not leave regrets. After some time, one realizes that many things that should have been done haven't been; after some time, one realizes that many things that should have been said haven't been; after some time, one realizes that many people who should have been loved haven't been; after some time, one realizes that many feelings that should have been forgotten haven't been; after some time, one realizes that one has already forgotten what the original self was like.

38. 要知道，生命短暂，而在遇见你之后，我的余生都用来爱你了。

38. You see, life is short, and after meeting you, the rest of my life has been spent loving you.

39. 仍掉扰心的烦恼，忘记失败的沮丧，封藏痛苦的记忆。坚定地把许多的过去踩在脚下，留在身后选择了瞬间的清醒，就等于选择了瞬间的成长。

39. Cast off the烦恼 that troubles the heart, forget the desolation of failure, and seal away the memories of pain. Firmly trample underfoot many of the past, leaving them behind. Choosing a moment of clarity is equivalent to choosing a moment of growth.

40. 也许你一生中走错了不少路，看错不少人承受了许多的背叛，落魄得狼狈不堪但都无所谓，只要还活着就总有希望，余生很长，何必慌张。

40. Perhaps you have taken many wrong paths in life, misjudged many people, and suffered many betrayals. You have been reduced to a pitiful state, but it doesn't matter; as long as you're still alive, there is always hope. Life is long, why worry unnecessarily?

41. 生活是一杯沁人心脾的茶，让人唇齿留香回味悠长。

41. Life is a cup of refreshing tea that leaves a lingering fragrance on the lips and a lasting taste in the mouth.

42. 不要忘记你离开学校时的梦想，虽然经过一段时间的工作让你有时很疲惫，很迷茫，甚至也很悲观，但不要忘了当年散伙饭上，你喝下最后一杯酒，给自己的承诺。

42. Don't forget the dreams you had when you left school, even though a period of work has sometimes left you exhausted, confused, and even pessimistic. But don't forget the promise you made to yourself as you sipped the last glass of wine at the farewell dinner.

43. 有时候感觉累了，证明我们是真的付出了，真的是会有收获。

43. Sometimes we feel tired, which proves that we are truly putting in effort, and that there will indeed be a harvest.

44. 罗翔老师告诉我们：“你要允许你爱的人不爱你，你要允许你的工作为难你，你要允许身后有人算计你，如果你不允许，那就是在跟自己较劲，较完劲之后的那份力不从心和无能为力，才是常态，很多人很多事，冥冥之中自有安排。”

44. Teacher Luo Xiang told us, "You should allow the person you love not to love you, you should allow your job to be difficult for you, and you should allow someone behind you to plot against you. If you do not allow these things, it's like fighting with yourself. The feeling of being out of strength and being unable to do anything after the struggle is the norm. Many things happen, and there is a mysterious arrangement in them."

45. 其实，爱是一种用心投入的狭隘的情感，它美好，但也独立、排他。当你爱一个人的时候，难免想完完整整地拥有他，包括他的思想、他的情感以及他的整个人。

45. In fact, love is a narrow emotion that requires wholehearted dedication; it is beautiful, yet also independent and exclusive. When you love someone, it is inevitable that you want to possess them completely, including their thoughts, emotions, and their whole being.

46. 在等待的日子里刻苦读书，谦卑做人养得深根，今后才能枝叶茂盛。

46. During the days of waiting, diligently study and be humble in demeanor; cultivate deep roots, and then you will be able to flourish with lush branches in the future.

47. 生命中总有那么一段时光，充满不安，可是除了勇敢面对，我们别无选择。

47. There is always a period in life that is filled with unease, but we have no other choice but to face it bravely.

48. 画不圆的人生，自然界中所有圆，都是以无我为圆心，以利他为半径，这半径的长度尽善尽美。人生并非画不圆，只是我们找错了圆心，更用错了半径。

48. The life that cannot be depicted as a perfect circle, all the circles in nature are centered around the concept of selflessness and have altruism as their radius, which is perfect in length. Life is not inherently imperfectly circular; it's just that we have chosen the wrong center and used the wrong radius.

49. 寻找一份简简单单的爱，过那种平平淡淡的生活。

49. Seek a simple love and live a plain and uneventful life.

50. 我们都是平凡人，我们都走在路上，我们都一样承受着种种的不如意，承受着命运安排的不顺心，承受着工作的挫折，承受着亲人的不理解。我们，其实都是这般的可怜，这般的失落，这般的痛苦。

50. We are all ordinary people, all walking on the road, all enduring various kinds of misfortunes, the dissatisfaction arranged by fate, the setbacks in work, and the lack of understanding from our relatives. In fact, we are all so pitiful, so desolate, and so painful.

51. 趁阳光正好，趁微风不燥，见想见的人，做想做的事，就是对人生最大的不辜负，余生很贵，经不起浪费。让自己活得贵一些，才不负人世一场。

51. Making the most of the perfect sunlight and the gentle breeze, seeing the people you want to see and doing the things you want to do, is the greatest fulfillment of life. Life is precious, and it cannot afford to be wasted. Let yourself live a more valuable life, so as not to squander this one journey through the world.