在茫茫人海中，爱，如同一束光，穿越尘世纷扰，照亮自我之途。超脱名利，感悟生死，释放喜怒哀乐，这爱，便是我。

In the vast sea of humanity, love is like a ray of light, piercing through the tumult of the world, illuminating the path of self. Rising above the pursuit of fame and fortune, perceiving life and death, and releasing joy, anger, sadness, and happiness, this love is me.

1. 李白有诗：“世间行乐亦如此，古来万事东流水。别君去兮何时还？且放白鹿青崖间。须行即骑访名山。安能摧眉折腰事权贵，使我不得开心颜！”

1. Li Bai has a poem: "In the world, the pursuit of pleasure is like this, all things from ancient times flow eastward like running water. When will I return after leaving you? Let's just set the white deer free on the green cliff. If it is time to journey, I will ride and visit famous mountains. How can I bow and kowtow to the powerful, thus losing the joy on my face!"

2. 每个人都在生活实践中书写自我的人生。无论是工人、农民、还是干部、领导尽管职业不一样、岗位不一样，但所从事的事业都是在实现自我的人生价值。人生价值不能以你是否是伟人、平民来衡量，环卫工人清扫马路，他给咱们的城市带来了优美洁净的环境，人民公务员在工作中尽心竭力，同样在实现自我的人生价值，平凡中体现出伟大，人生之书就会光彩照人。

2. Everyone writes their own life story through their practical life experiences. Whether they are workers, farmers, officials, or leaders, despite their different professions and positions, the undertakings they are engaged in are all about realizing the value of their own lives. The value of life cannot be measured by whether one is a great person or an ordinary citizen. The sanitation workers who sweep the streets bring a beautiful and clean environment to our city; the civil servants who work diligently are also achieving the value of their lives, showing greatness in the ordinary, and the book of life will shine brightly.

3. 有走不尽的路，就有看不尽的花；有看不尽的花，就有凋不尽的叶；春风得意马蹄疾，一日看尽长安花。有多少人，能像诗人那般，一日看尽长安花；风雨走过真情在，人生踏歌潇洒处；又有多少人，能拥有这份潇洒的豁达；人啊，总是在现实的苦难中，希望找到美丽的风景，来聊以慰藉现实的苦痛。

3. There are endless roads, and there are endless flowers to see; there are endless flowers to see, and there are endless leaves that wither; in the springtime, horses gallop swiftly as one enjoys the beauty of the flowers of Chang'an in a single day. How many people can, like the poet, enjoy the flowers of Chang'an in a single day? The true feelings remain after storms and rain, life is lived freely with songs on one's feet; and how many people can possess this kind of carefree magnanimity? Humans, always in the midst of the hardships of reality, hope to find beautiful landscapes to comfort the pain of the present.

4. 不要说，你后悔决定了什么，牵起一个人的手放开了，那就要用彼此宽容来承担吧！

4. Don't say that you regret making a decision, once you've held someone's hand and let go, it's with mutual tolerance that you should bear the responsibility!

5. 幸福的事，有千万种。不幸的事，却永远只有一个，那就是：该珍惜的，没有好好珍惜；错过了的，才懂得后悔。

5. There are countless happy things. But there is only one unhappy thing that lasts forever: not cherishing what should be cherished; regretting only after it is missed.

6. 付出真心，才会得到真心，却可能伤的彻底；保持距离，才能保护自己，却注定永远寂寞。

6. Only by giving your whole heart will you receive sincerity in return, but it may also lead to complete heartbreak; by maintaining distance, you can protect yourself, but it is destined to lead to eternal loneliness.

7. 人活着就应该及时行乐，怎么快乐怎么过，万事万物都随着时间的流水而消逝，与其为了名利耿耿于怀，不如在青翠的山崖间放养一些白鹿，出行的时候就骑着造访名山大川。为什么要摧眉折腰巴结那些权贵呢，让自己活的委屈而憋闷！

7. Life is meant to be enjoyed as it comes, doing what brings happiness however one sees fit. All things come and go with the flowing of time. Rather than be burdened by ambitions for fame and fortune, why not raise some white deer amidst the verdant cliffs? When traveling, ride them to visit famous mountains and rivers. Why kowtow and curry favor with the elite, allowing oneself to live in a state of委屈 and oppression!

8. 命运给了机遇，时间给了过程，人生的每次经历如果只是历练，走不到终点永远不知道结局是怎样的，想知道结局就必须坚持着走下去，向命运投降，不过是顺从命运的脚步，人在磨练中成熟，看清楚世界，也有算有所得。

8. Fate gives opportunities, time gives the process. If each experience in life is only a test, without reaching the end, one will never know how the outcome is. To know the outcome, one must persevere and continue on, and to surrender to fate is merely to follow its steps. People mature through trials, become clear-sighted about the world, and also gain something in the process.

9. 人生，生来多少的恶习、过失，都不重要，只要自己肯忏悔，能够大死一番，总会得救。例如，讲话粗俗，假如你自我检讨，可能就会改变语言；你的行为恶劣，经过自我克制，就能脱胎换骨。所以一个人在一生里面，在一天当中，在一时之间，都要不断地大死一番，变化气质，能够如此，何患不能有所成就呢？

9. In life, it does not matter how many bad habits and faults one is born with, as long as one is willing to repent and can undergo a great transformation, one will always be saved. For example, if you are vulgar in speech and you self-reflect, you may change your language; if your behavior is恶劣, through self-restraint, you can change your nature and character. Therefore, a person should undergo a great transformation constantly in their lifetime, in a single day, and in every moment. If one can do so, why worry about not being able to achieve something?

10. 暧昧的话你很能讲，拒绝别人的话你从来不说。我什么都没有忘，但有些事只适合收藏，不能说，也不能想，却又放不下。

10. You're very good at saying ambiguous things, but you never refuse others. I haven't forgotten anything, but some things are only meant to be kept in storage, neither to be spoken nor to be thought about, yet they are hard to let go.

11. 所有爱情都会有折磨，伤害往往总在不经意间发生，逃避永远解决不了隔阂。

11. All love involves suffering; injuries often happen unintentionally, and avoiding the problem can never solve the estrangement.

12. 近日读明代学者苏浚《鸡鸣偶记》：道义相砥，过失相规，畏友也；缓急可共，死生可托，密友也；甘言如饴，游戏征逐，昵友也；和则相攘，患则相倾，贼友也。苏浚认为要多结交患难相处的密友和直言相谏的畏友，少结交互相吹捧的昵友和人心两面的贼友。是的，人的生命中或多或少都有几个兄弟姐妹，密友为佳，畏友更可贵。现代的社会生活中，名利、权势、金钱、情感处处与人为伴，谁都难免燃烧欲望的火焰和难得的糊涂，因而如果这时有几个头脑清醒、心地正直的畏友给你一番直言相谏，就显得太重要了。

12. Recently, I read the "Jiming Occasional Notes" by the Ming Dynasty scholar Su Jun: Friends who mutually challenge each other in righteousness and correct each other's faults are loyal friends; friends who can be relied upon in times of distress or joy, and can entrust their lives to, are intimate friends; friends who speak sweet words as if offering honey, engaging in games and chasing each other, are close friends; friends who support each other in harmony and betray each other in times of trouble are traitorous friends. Su Jun believes that one should make more friends who are intimate and can share hardship, and fewer friends who flatter each other and have two faces. Indeed, in one's life, there are always a few brothers and sisters, and intimate friends are the best, with loyal friends being even more valuable. In modern social life, fame, fortune, power, money, and emotions are everywhere, and no one can avoid the flames of desire and the rare moments of confusion. Therefore, if at this time, there are a few clear-minded and upright loyal friends who offer you straightforward advice, it becomes extremely important.

13. 我们无法躲避每一个平淡的日子，也无法回避平淡日子里流水帐一样的忙碌。每个人都有自己的活法，只要能够发现自我，并且在身体与心灵中保持自我，并最终超越自我，即使无人喝彩也会有所收获。活出平凡真实的自己。人生在世，笑是一种潇洒，哭也是一种潇洒，只要发自肺腑，定会酣畅淋漓。

13. We cannot avoid every mundane day, nor can we evade the monotonous busyness that fills such days. Everyone has their own way of living, as long as one can discover oneself, maintain oneself physically and mentally, and ultimately transcend oneself, one will have something to gain even if there is no applause. Live out a plain and true self. In life, laughter is a kind of elegance, and so is crying, as long as it comes from the heart, it will be satisfying and overwhelming.

14. 经过此一大死一番以后，从此对邻居、友人总是尽力帮忙，并且爱护家人，所以大家再也不叫他鬼平兵卫，而以佛平兵卫称之。

14. After this great death, he always tried to help his neighbors and friends, and cherished his family, so from then on, people no longer called him Kiyohime Heibei, but instead referred to him as Fuhime Heibei.

15. 幸福那么缺货，请别肆意挥霍。不要等伤害了父母，才明白年少的后悔，不要等伤害了那个最重要的人，才知道懂得时的不珍惜。不要任性的做出不理智的那些行为，亲手将幸福毁得面目全非。有些决定，只需要一分钟，可是，却会用一辈子，去后悔那一分钟。幸福不是每天都有，错过了就要等很久。

15. Happiness is so scarce, please don't squander it recklessly. Don't wait until you hurt your parents to realize the regrets of youth, and don't wait until you hurt the most important person to know the value of not cherishing the moment. Don't be任性 and act irrationally, destroying happiness into unrecognizable ruins. Some decisions only take a minute, but they can haunt you with regret for a lifetime. Happiness is not always present every day, and once missed, it takes a long time to wait for.

16. 有些人无法珍惜纵有心智万千也是有心无力，不如早早别过。

16. Some people are unable to cherish what they have, even with a myriad of thoughts in their mind, for they lack the power to do so. It's better to part ways early on.

17. 若真爱我 我可以是任何一种女子 若爱我不够 我才需要做一个全能的女子

17. If you truly love me, I can be any kind of woman. If you don't love me enough, then I need to be a superwoman.

18. 已错过的永远美丽而执着，因为我们也用力爱过。已拥有的幸福真挚而永恒，因为我们也用心守护。

18. The beautiful and persistent memories of what was missed, because we have loved with all our might. The happiness we have now is genuine and eternal, because we have guarded it with all our heart.

19. 总有一天，你会对着过去的伤痛微笑。你会感谢离开你的那个人，他配不上你的爱、你的好、你的痴心。他终究不是命定的那个人，幸好他不是。

19. Someday, you will smile at the pain of the past. You will be grateful for the person who left you, who did not deserve your love, your kindness, your devotion. He was never the one destined for you, and thankfully, he was not.

20. 阿育王不经过大死一番，如何能从黑阿育变成白阿育呢？一个人没有放下屠刀，如何能立地成佛呢？所以佛陀在（（本生谭》里，诸如割肉喂鹰，舍身饲虎等牺牲自我、成就众生的精神、行谊，都是说明大死一番以后才能成佛。

20. How could Emperor Ashoka transform from Black Ashoka to White Ashoka without undergoing a great death? How can a person become a Buddha on the spot without putting down his sword? Therefore, in the "Jataka Tales," the spirit and conduct of self-sacrifice, such as cutting off flesh to feed the vultures or giving up one's body to feed the tigers, all illustrate that one must undergo a great death before becoming a Buddha.

21. 勇敢面对一份情感都无法得到解决，或许，放生彼此才是唯一的出路。

21. Faced with a situation where even emotions cannot be resolved, perhaps, letting each other go is the only way out.

22. 青春就像三步曲：不经一番寒彻骨，怎得梅花扑鼻香。学业最后苦读修果；有花堪折直须折，莫待无花空折枝。全力以赴着事业、感情时，各种欲念想一揽无余，想拥有全世界的花卉；众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首那人却在灯火阑栅处，最后最后了然心胸且有度地懂得了拥有和放下。原来愉悦就在消灭杂念负累的欲望后的灯火阑栅处的自然、简单，原来生活早已无心插柳柳已成荫的硕果累累，青春终究是宽容的，博大的，有情无悔的，奏响妙美的始终。

22. Youth is like a trilogy: without going through the extreme cold, how can one appreciate the fragrance of the plum blossoms? After rigorous study in one's studies, one reaps the fruit of hard work; when flowers are worth plucking, pluck them directly, do not wait until there are no flowers and break an empty branch. When devoting oneself wholeheartedly to one's career and emotions, one desires to have all desires at once, wanting to possess all the flowers in the world; searching for someone among the many, suddenly looking back, that person is right at the lantern-lit corner. Finally, one comprehends with clarity and moderation the concept of having and letting go. Originally, joy lies in the simplicity and nature at the lantern-lit corner after eradicating the desires and burdens of杂念. Originally, life has long been fruitful without expecting, and the abundant fruits of youth are ultimately generous, vast, and full of love and no regrets. It resounds with the music of beauty.

23. 人生的付出与回报，不一定是成正比的。爱出者爱返，福往者福来，失去，也是一种得到。我们不必过多地计较得失，一时一地的输赢也并不重要。让你失败了，或许不是上帝抛弃了你，而是有更好的安排。只要自己问心无悔地努力了，至于结果，已经不再重要。

23. The effort and return in life are not necessarily proportional. Love given is returned in love, and good fortune given brings good fortune in return. Losing something can also be a form of gaining. We do not need to overly concern ourselves with gains and losses; the wins and losses in a particular moment or place are not important. If you fail, it may not be because God has abandoned you, but rather there may be a better arrangement. As long as you have put in your best effort without regret, the outcome is no longer important.

24. 谁都渴望完美，但不如意却十之八九。人生就像半杯水，很难有完满的时候。一辈子，真短，别为一些无关事伤感，幸福不是看你拥有多少，而是看你在乎多少，不属于自己的不去强求，握在手里的好好珍惜。在快乐的心境中做自己喜欢的事，用阳光般的笑容走好每一段路。

24. Everyone desires perfection, but most of the time things don't go as expected. Life is like a half-filled glass of water, it's hard to be full. A lifetime is really short, don't be sad over trivial matters. Happiness is not about how much you possess, but about how much you care. Don't strive for things that don't belong to you, and cherish what you hold in your hands. Do what you like in a joyful state of mind, and walk every step of the way with a sunshine-like smile.

25. 男人不坏，女人也不坏，坏的只是你们曾经相爱的态度与心情。

25. Men are not bad, nor are women, but what is bad is only the attitude and mood you once had towards each other in love.

26. 人生太短了，别把自己搞太累，搞不定的事情别死磕，做得到的别拖着。多做喜欢的事，多跟喜欢的人说说话。好好吃饭，好好睡觉，好好活着。

26. Life is too short, don't overwork yourself. Don't stubbornly persist in things you can't handle, and don't drag your feet with things you can do. Do more of the things you like, and talk more with the people you like. Eat well, sleep well, and live well.

27. 学会在人群中保持一定程度上的孤独，不要有什么想法就立马告诉别人。另外，对别人所说的话千万不要太过当真。不能对别人有太多的期待，无论在道德上抑或在思想上。

27. Learn to maintain a degree of solitude among the crowd, and don't rush to share every thought with others. Moreover, never take what others say too seriously. Don't have too many expectations of others, whether in terms of morality or in terms of thought.

28. 不要盘算太多，要顺其自然，人生，选择了复杂，就是选择痛苦；选择了简单，就是选择快乐。失去的风景，走散的人群，等不来的渴望，全都停靠在缘分的尽头。何必太执着，该来的自然来，要走的留不住，放开执念，随缘是最好的生活。

28. Do not overthink things; let nature take its course. Life is about choosing between complexity and simplicity. Choosing complexity is choosing pain; choosing simplicity is choosing happiness. Lost landscapes, scattered crowds, unfulfilled desires, all come to rest at the end of fate's rope. Why be overly fixated? What is meant to come will come naturally, and what is meant to go cannot be held back. Letting go of attachment and following one's fate is the best way to live.

29. 人生道路，会碰到风雨和霜雪，会尝到艰辛和困难。风雨能够磨练性情，霜雪会让人变得从容；艰辛能够磨练意志，困难会让人更加坚强。不要生活在别人的影子里，不要工作在别人的眼色中；不要把命运交给幻想，不要把快乐随便遗忘。记得开心哦！

29. On the path of life, one will encounter storms and snow, hardships and difficulties. Storms can temper one's character, while snow can make one composed; hardships can toughen one's will, and difficulties can make one stronger. Do not live in the shadow of others, do not work under others' gaze; do not entrust your destiny to illusion, do not casually forget happiness. Remember to be happy!

30. 生命里某些当时充满怨怼的曲折，在后来好像都成了一种能量和养分，因为若非这些曲折，好像就不会在人生的岔路上遇见别人可能求之亦不得见的人与事；而这些人、那些事在经过时间的筛滤之后，几乎都只剩下笑与泪与感动和温暖，曾经的怨与恨与屈辱和不满仿佛都已云消雾散。

30. Certain twists and turns in life that were filled with resentment at the time seem to have become a source of energy and nourishment. For if it were not for these twists and turns, it might not have been possible to encounter people and things that others might have sought but could not find on the crossroads of life. After being filtered through the sieve of time, these people and things have almost all left behind laughter, tears,感动, and warmth. The resentment, hatred, humiliation, and dissatisfaction of the past seem to have vanished like mist.

31. 性命是一道算术题，人的生命但是三万个日子，活一天就会减少一天。功名和财富都是身外物。人生的加法，给咱们加入智慧的光芒、品格的力量，加入财富的积累、亲情的温馨，使人生更加丰盈。人生的减法，为咱们减去奢侈的欲望和环境的纷扰。

31. Life is an arithmetic problem; a human life consists of only thirty thousand days, and each day lived reduces by one. Fame and wealth are external matters. The addition in life adds the brilliance of wisdom, the strength of character, the accumulation of wealth, and the warmth of family affection, making life richer and more fulfilling. The subtraction in life removes the luxurious desires and the disturbances of the environment.

32. 人生有善良的一面，也有黑暗的一面，你永远无法想象自己究竟可以有多黑暗，即使是最善良的人，一旦失去了理智，蛰伏在心里的那个魔鬼就会幡然觉醒，那个时候结局会比现实更黑暗。

32. Life has a kind side and a dark side, and you can never imagine just how dark you can be. Even the kindest person, once they lose their reason, the devil hiding in their heart will suddenly awaken, and at that time, the outcome will be even darker than reality.

33. 伤害让一个人成长，时间让一个人坚强，终了的爱情让两个人一夜之间都学会看透。

33. Injuries allow a person to grow, time makes a person strong, and the end of love teaches both people to see through everything overnight.

34. 失恋的火山在你生活中爆发了，你在精神上要放松放松再放松，其实失恋也没什么大不了的，不能再在一起，当然要分开，应该为自己的决定感到骄傲。

34. The volcano of heartbreak has erupted in your life, and you need to relax, and relax, and relax mentally. In fact, a breakup is nothing serious. If you can't be together anymore, of course you have to part ways, and you should be proud of your decision.

35. 没人是完整的。所谓幸福，就是认清自己的限度并安分守己。

35. No one is perfect. So-called happiness is recognizing one's limitations and living within them.

36. 《钢铁是怎样炼成的》中的保尔说：人最宝贵的是性命，性命对人来说只有一次。因此，人的生命应当这样度过：当一个人回首往事时，不正因虚度年华而悔恨，也不正因碌碌无为而羞耻。每个人都期望拥有辉煌的人生，但不应刻意去追求人生的辉煌！

36. Paul from "How the Steel Was Tempered" says: The most precious thing for a person is their life, and a person's life is only once. Therefore, one should spend their life in this way: When a person looks back on their past, they should not regret wasting their years or feel ashamed of their mediocrity. Everyone aspires to have a brilliant life, but one should not deliberately pursue the brilliance of life!

37. 当面对两个选择时，抛硬币总能奏效，并不是因为它总能给出对的答案，而是在你把它抛向空中的那一刹那，你突然知道你希望它是什么。

37. When faced with two choices, flipping a coin always works, not because it always gives the right answer, but because in that moment when you throw it into the air, you suddenly know what you hope it will be.

38. 看见山时，你在山之外，看见河流时，你在河之外，如果你能观照你的痛，你便开始自痛中解脱。如果夜太凉，你可以焚香，煮茶，或者思念。总有一种暖，挂满你我回忆的老墙，不要去倚靠，会有时光剥落。

38. When you see a mountain, you are outside it; when you see a river, you are outside it. If you can contemplate your pain, you begin to free yourself from it. If the night is too cool, you can burn incense, brew tea, or think of someone. There is always a warmth that hangs on the old wall filled with our memories. Don't lean against it, for time will peel away.

39. 11生活就像马拉松，获胜的关键不在于瞬间的爆发，而在于途中的坚持，你纵有千百个理由放弃，也要给自己找一个坚持下去的理由，很多时候，成功就是多坚持一分钟，这一分钟不放弃，下一分钟就会有希望。

39.11 Life is like a marathon; the key to winning does not lie in a sudden burst of energy, but in perseverance along the way. Even if you have a thousand reasons to quit, you should find one reason to keep going. Often, success is just one more minute of persistence; if you don't give up in that minute, the next minute will bring hope.

40. 有些话，说不出，则予以轻描。有些事，挥不去，便赋以淡写。无论这个世界对你怎样，都请你一如既往的努力；人生是一场一个人的旅程，无人可替代。总有人离开，总有人到来。生活真的很简单，别总是强迫自己。人生如圆，终点亦是起点。

40. Some words are unspoken and are thus lightly described. Some things are unforgettable, and we attribute them with a light touch. Regardless of how this world treats you, please continue to strive as you always have; life is a journey for one person, and no one can replace you. People always leave, and people always come. Life is really simple; don't always force yourself. Life is like a circle, and the end is also the beginning.

41. 把握今天。今天是现在时，正在进行之中。把握今天，就是干什么、怎么干、怎么干好？解决好三个方面的问题。要通过调研评估可行性，进行决策，克服盲目性。要通过实施过程，选择好时机、人选与保证措施。大事是这样，小事也是这样；要办其它事，也是这个思维过程。核心是增强科学性，避免盲目性。

41. Seize the day. Today is the present tense, ongoing. To seize the day means to decide what to do, how to do it, and how to do it well? Solve the problems of the three aspects. It is necessary to assess the feasibility through investigation and evaluation, make decisions, and overcome盲目ness. Through the implementation process, choose the right timing, personnel, and guarantee measures. This principle applies to big events as well as small ones; the same thought process is used for handling other matters. The core is to enhance scientificity and avoid blindness.