1. 一个人能说会道，甜言蜜语，让人有乍见之欢。但只有人品靠得住，做人诚恳，做事靠谱，才能让一段关系行稳致远。

1. A person who can talk fluently and use sweet words can create an initial pleasant impression. However, only when a person has a trustworthy character, is sincere in their conduct, and reliable in their actions, can a relationship be stable and last long.

2. 西汉皇帝亲近有才能的大臣，远离人品低劣的小人，所以，西汉国力强大。东汉皇帝亲近人品低劣的小人，远离有才能的大臣，所以国破家亡，让人叹息。

2. The emperors of the Western Han Dynasty were close to capable ministers and distant from morally inferior individuals, thus leading to the strength of the Western Han Dynasty. In contrast, the emperors of the Eastern Han Dynasty were close to morally inferior individuals and distant from capable ministers, which resulted in the fall of the state and the demise of the family, evoking sighs of regret.

3. 生活是美好还是痛苦，决定权就在我们自己的手中。要不断修炼自己，情绪低配，认知高配，修养顶配，才能不断走向强大，匹配我们想要的美好生活。

3. Whether life is beautiful or painful, the decision lies in our own hands. We must continuously cultivate ourselves, maintain low emotional levels, high cognitive levels, and the highest level of修养, in order to continuously grow stronger and be worthy of the beautiful life we desire.

4. 后来他得知李自成的大将刘宗敏，调戏自己的小老婆陈圆圆，顿时火冒三丈，气急败坏，把民族大义忘得干干净净，率领关宁铁骑投降了满清，成了十足的大汉奸。

4. Later, he learned that Liu Zongmin, a general under Li Zicheng, had molested his concubine Chen Yuanyuan, and he was so enraged and furious that he forgot all about the national interests. He led the Guanning Iron Cavalry to surrender to the Manchu, becoming a complete traitor to the Han people.

5. 易经说，德不配位，必有灾殃。

5. The I Ching says, "If virtue does not match one's position, disaster will surely follow."

6. 他启动了王庙村扶贫计划，创办格律诗音响公司，当公司出现危机的时候，所有的投资人和参与者都战战兢兢，急于退股。殊不知，这是丁元英的一步棋，一切风险都在计划之内。

6. He initiated the Wang Miaocun Poverty Alleviation Program and founded the Ge Shi Yun Xiang audio company. When the company faced a crisis, all investors and participants were on edge, eager to withdraw their shares. Little did they know, this was a move by Ding Yuanying, with all risks accounted for within the plan.

7. 钱钟书说，那些花了好久才想明白的事，总是会被偶尔的情绪失控全部推翻。学会低配自己的情绪，处变不惊，淡定从容，才能成为自己生活的主人。

7. Qian Zhongshu said, those things that take a long time to figure out are always overturned by occasional emotional outbursts. One must learn to keep one's emotions in check, remain calm and composed in the face of change, and only then can one truly become the master of one's own life.

8. 人最大的监狱就是自己的思维意识，同样最大的财富也是自己的思维意识。你有什么样的认知，就会遇到什么样的世界，取得什么样的成功。

8. The greatest prison for a person is their own mindset, and similarly, the greatest wealth is also their own mindset. The kind of perception you have will lead you to encounter the kind of world and achieve the kind of success.

9. 一个可以控制自己情绪的人，并拿下一座城池的将军，更加伟大。

9. A general who can control his own emotions and conquer a city is even more great.

10. 王志文：“你永远赚不到超出你认知范围之外的钱，除非靠运气。但是靠运气赚到的钱，最后往往又会靠实力亏掉。穷人要逆袭，得扒掉等靠要的弱者生存思想观念。扒掉把自己太当回事的思想观念。扒掉无知的头脑。扒掉平庸的思维。扒掉无德的品行。”

10. Wang Zhiwen: "You can never make money beyond your cognitive range, unless it's through luck. But money earned through luck is often lost through strength in the end. The poor need to turn the tables, shedding the survival ideology of the weak who rely on others. Shed the mindset of taking oneself too seriously. Shed the ignorant mind. Shed the average thinking. Shed the lack of moral character."

11. 生活中，我们难免会遭遇挫折和不公，以及别人的冒犯和轻蔑，如果情绪战胜理智，我们就会做出错误的选择，甚至遗恨千古。

11. In life, we are bound to encounter setbacks and injustice, as well as offenses and derision from others. If emotions overcome reason, we may make wrong choices and even leave regrets that last through the ages.

12. 人品是一个人最硬的底牌，修养顶配，与人为善，才能得到别人真正的尊敬和支持。

12. Character is a person's hardest bottom card, with the highest level of cultivation, being kind to others, one can gain others' genuine respect and support.

13. 明朝末年的吴三桂，驻守宁远重镇，是崇祯皇帝委以重任的中流砥柱。明朝被李自成的农民起义军推翻，关外的满清铁骑蠢蠢欲动，吴三桂率领的关宁铁骑，成为当时一支非常重要的力量。吴三桂也做出了符合民族大义的选择，坚决不与满清合作。

13. Wu Sangui, during the late Ming Dynasty, was stationed at the strategically important city of Ningyuan and was a key pillar entrusted with great responsibilities by Emperor Chongzhen. The Ming Dynasty was overthrown by the peasant uprising army led by Li Zicheng, and the Manchu forces beyond the Great Wall were restless. The Guan Ning Iron Cavalry led by Wu Sangui became a very important force at the time. Wu Sangui also made a choice in line with the national interest, firmly refusing to cooperate with the Manchu.

14. 小说《遥远的救世主》里的主人公丁元英，就是一个高认知的人。他对社会运行的规律和潜规则了如指掌，对人心人性有非常透彻的洞见，总是可以窥见事物的本质。

14. The protagonist Ding Yuanying in the novel "The Distant Saviour" is a person of high cognition. He is thoroughly familiar with the laws and hidden rules of social operation, has a very profound insight into human hearts and nature, and is always able to discern the essence of things.

15. 一个人最好的活法，就是情绪低配，认知高配，修养顶配。

15. The best way to live is to have low emotional settings, high cognitive settings, and top-notch修养.

16. 高配认知，看透事物的本质，比其他人看的更远，我们才能取得卓越的成绩。

16. With high cognitive capabilities, understanding the essence of things more profoundly than others, we can achieve outstanding accomplishments.

17. 你有什么样的素质和水平，才能匹配什么样的生活层次。如果自己非常差劲，而成就或者生活质量很高，就会适得其反，给自己埋下隐患。

17. What kind of qualities and level you possess will determine the level of life you can match. If you are very bad and yet achieve high accomplishments or a high quality of life, it can have the opposite effect, planting hidden dangers for yourself.

18. 开始让人舒服的一定是语言，后来让人舒服的一定是人品。

18. Initially, what makes people feel comfortable is language, but later on, it is definitely one's character.

19. 和人品低劣的人相处，就像在身边埋下了一颗不定时炸弹，不知道什么时候会引爆，让自己身败名裂。

19. Dealing with people of poor character is like having a time bomb planted nearby; you never know when it will explode and bring about your own downfall and reputational destruction.

20. 诸葛亮在《出师表》中劝谏后主刘禅：亲贤臣，远小人，此先汉所以兴隆也。亲小人，远贤臣，此后汉所以倾颓也。

20. Zhuge Liang advised Emperor Liu Shang in his "Manifesto of the Campaign" (Chushi Biao): "To be close to virtuous ministers and distant from the unscrupulous, this is why the Western Han flourished. To be close to the unscrupulous and distant from virtuous ministers, this is why the Eastern Han declined."

21. 后来，丁元英战胜最大的音响品牌，成为商界的一枝独秀。而其他退股的那些人都悔青了肠子。

21. Later, Ding Yuanying defeated the biggest audio brand and became a solitary genius in the business world. Meanwhile, those who had withdrawn their shares regretted it deeply.

22. 只有先让自己强大起来，心中期待的美好才会接踵而至。

22. Only by first making yourself strong can the beautiful expectations in your heart come one after another.