在纷扰的尘世中，我们渴望探寻一种独立的生活方式。远离喧嚣的社交圈，拥抱无尽的等待，用无怨无悔的信念，书写属于自己的篇章。

Amidst the bustling world, we yearn to seek an independent way of life. Away from the hustle and bustle of social circles, embracing endless waiting, with unwavering belief and no regret, we write our own chapter.

1. “人活着，怨恨别人，等于折磨自己，嫉妒别人，等于烦恼自己，宽容别人，等于善待自己，成全别人，等于成全自己。

1. "To live with resentment towards others is to torture oneself, to envy others is to trouble oneself, to be宽容 to others is to treat oneself kindly, and to help others succeed is to help oneself succeed."

2. 人生实苦悲喜自渡。不要指望别人可以共情你，更不要指望有人提拔和关心你，你能够依靠的只有自己。

2. Life is indeed bitter and joy and sorrow are self-soothed. Don't expect others to empathize with you, and definitely don't expect someone to promote or care for you. The only person you can rely on is yourself.

3. 我们为什么要合群？和谁的群？与谁合群？在乌鸦的世界里，天鹅的存在就是有罪。与其和一些虚情假意的人吃吃喝喝，不如拒绝这些消耗自己的圈子，与二三好友，泡一壶清茶，聊天南海北，看花开花落。如果连二三好友都找不到，那就在一个人的生活里，独善其身。

3. Why do we seek to be part of a group? With which group? And with whom do we want to be in a group? In the world of crows, the existence of swans is considered a sin. It's better to refuse to indulge in the company of insincere individuals, and instead, reject these circles that drain us. Spend time with a few close friends, brew a pot of green tea, chat about the four seasons, and observe the blooming and wilting of flowers. If even a few close friends cannot be found, then live alone, focusing on self-improvement in one's solitary life.

4. 《百年孤独》：“人生的本质，就是一个人活着，不要对别人心存太多期待。我们总是想要找到能为自己分担痛苦和悲伤的人，可大多数时候，我们那些惊天动地的伤痛，在别人眼里，不过是随手拂过的尘埃。”

4. "One Hundred Years of Solitude": "The essence of life is to live as an individual, not holding too many expectations for others. We always seek someone to share our pain and sorrow, but most of the time, our heart-wrenching suffering is just a speck of dust that others can easily sweep away."

5. 很喜欢一段话：

5. I really like a certain phrase:

6. 人生是一场关于体验的旅行，我们是来体验快乐的，不是来感受痛苦的，怨恨只会让我们痛苦和煎熬，既然内心可以调节，为什么不能放下怨恨呢？

6. Life is a journey about experiencing, and we come here to experience joy, not suffering. Hatred and resentment only bring us pain and torment. Since we can regulate our inner selves, why can't we let go of our resentment?

7. 不要指望任何人，学会自己摆渡自己。

7. Don't expect anyone, learn to cross the river by yourself.

8. 人生即修行，修行即修心。一切问题，都是内心不够强大的问题。学会做一个内心强大的人，不合群，不指望，不怨恨，以欢喜心过生活，以乐观心看世界。

8. Life is a path of cultivation, and cultivation is the cultivation of the mind. All problems are issues of insufficient inner strength. Learn to be a person with a strong inner self, not conforming to the crowd, not depending on others, and not harboring resentment. Live life with a joyful heart and view the world with an optimistic outlook.

9. 人性的一个真相就是，锦上添花的人比比皆是，雪中送炭的人寥寥无几。因为锦上添花，可以沾你的光，从你身上获得利益和荣誉。而雪中送炭需要支付足够的成本和风险，是对自己的一种消耗。尤其是身在低谷的时候，你对别人没有利用价值，别人就不会向你伸出援助之手。

9. A truth of human nature is that there are many people who add luster to others' successes, but few who offer help in times of need. Adding luster to others' achievements can benefit from their light, gaining profit and honor from them. However, offering help in times of need requires sufficient costs and risks, which is a form of self-consumption. Especially when one is at a low point, if one has no value to others, others will not extend a helping hand.

10. 怨恨是盘踞在内心深处的一条毒蛇，它会不断的啃食你，让你身心备受折磨，痛苦不安。放下怨恨，不是放过别人，而是放过自己。

10. Hatred is a venomous snake that dwells deep within the heart, constantly gnawing at you, torturing both your body and mind, causing you pain and unease. Letting go of hatred is not about forgiving others, but about forgiving yourself.

11. 人活一世，渡人，亦是渡己，你的每分善意，都是日积月累的福气，但行好事，莫问前程，你将福报不断，好运常伴。”

11. In this life, helping others is also helping oneself. Every bit of kindness you show accumulates into blessings over time. Just do good deeds without worrying about your future, and you will have endless blessings and constant good luck accompanying you.

12. 有人说：“如果你能熬到一个人喝茶，一个人散步，一个人旅行，一个人看书，没有邀约，没有聚会，没有一些所谓的社交。早睡早起，善待自己，无欲无求，云淡风轻。不在乎别人评价，只要随心而活，知足常乐，顺其自然。那么恭喜你，你己达到人生的最高境界。”

12. Some say, "If you can endure drinking tea alone, taking a walk alone, traveling alone, reading books alone, without invitations, without gatherings, and without any so-called social activities. Go to bed early and wake up early, treat yourself well, have no desires or demands, and live a carefree life. Not caring about others' opinions, just live according to your heart, be content with what you have, and let things go as they may. Then,恭喜你，you have reached the highest level of life."

13. 做自己喜欢的事，见自己喜欢的人，看自己喜欢的风景，不去麻烦任何人，也不想被任何人打扰，不想通过人脉去追名逐利，更不会为了讨好别人而委屈自己。世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

13. Do what you like, see the people you like, admire the scenery you like. Don't trouble anyone, nor do you want to be disturbed by anyone. You don't want to pursue fame and wealth through your connections, nor would you compromise yourself to please others. The world is your own, and has nothing to do with others.

14. 余生最好的活法，就是给人生做减法，放下不必要的纠缠，舍弃求而不得的名利，不合群，不指望，不怨恨，以自己喜欢的方式度过一生。

14. The best way to live the rest of one's life is to subtract from it, let go of unnecessary entanglements, give up the pursuit of fame and fortune that one cannot obtain, not fit in with the crowd, not expect, and not harbor resentment, but instead, live out one's life in the way that suits one's preferences.

15. 到了一定的年纪，厌倦了人世间的繁华与复杂，只想清清静静生活，从从容容过日子，心有山海，静而不争。

15. At a certain age, tired of the繁华 and complexity of the world, I only want to live a tranquil and peaceful life, living a leisurely day-to-day existence. With a heart as vast as the mountains and seas, I remain calm and uncontentious.