1. 心态决定命运 读后感

1. Attitude Determines Destiny - Reading Reflection

2. 人生就是一场关于体验的旅行，生命的价值在于尽情体验快乐美好的东西。心态决定生活质量，心态决定命运沉浮，有一个好心态，就有一个好命运。

2. Life is a journey about experiencing, and the value of life lies in fully experiencing the joyful and beautiful things. Attitude determines the quality of life, and attitude determines the rise and fall of destiny. With a good attitude, one will have a good destiny.

3. 人生有顺境也有逆境，不可能处处是逆境;人生有巅峰也有谷底，不可能处处是谷底。因为顺境或巅峰而趾高气扬，因为逆境或低谷而垂头丧气，都是浅薄的人生。面对挫折，如果只是一味地抱怨、生气，那么你注定永远是个弱者。

3. Life has both prosperous and adverse periods, and it is impossible for adversities to be everywhere; life has peaks and valleys, and it is impossible for valleys to be everywhere. Boasting because of prosperity or peaks, and feeling despondent because of adversity or valleys, are all shallow aspects of life. When facing setbacks, if you only complain and get angry, then you are doomed to be a weakling forever.

4. 第二，而那些模拟考试排在他们后边的人，正式考试时却成为状元。这种现象屡见不鲜，为什么？他们的实力，他们的成绩水平，基本上在一个梯队里，大体差不多。而正式考试时谁能成为佼佼者，谁能成为状元，就在于考时谁心态好，谁发挥好。世上没有绝望的处境，只有对处境绝望的人。一个成功的人与一个失败的人之间的差别就是：成功的人始终用最积极的心态，最乐观的精神支配和控制自己的人生，而失败的人则恰恰相反。战国时的管仲曾说：“树木之胜霜雪者，不听于天；士能自治者，不从圣人。”韩非则曰：“志之难也不在胜人而在自胜也。”他们说的就是要我们知难而进做命运的驾驭者。播下一种心态，收获一个思想；播下一个思想，收获一种行为；播下一种行为，收获一种习惯；播下一种习惯，收获一种性格；播下一种性格，收获一种命运。多少事实证明，一个好的命运背后必然有一个积极、健康的心态。一个人的一生就好像一艘航船，在时间的海洋中航行。当我们的船儿就要打造完毕，沐浴着金色的阳光下海远行；当我们船上的第一片风帆即将升起，迎着凛冽海风猎猎作响；当我们人生的船儿第一次载着父母、新人、朋友们的美好希望感到沉重时，你是否明白，人生的意义就在于去战胜一个又一个困难，驶过一片又一片险滩，最终到达胜利的彼岸。马克思说过：“为了不在空虚的苟且偷生中生活碌碌无为，来吧，让我们一起走向坎坷不平地的遥远征程。”决定你人生征程成败最重要的一个因素就是你的因素。的确，心态才是你真正的主人，只有你的心态才能决定谁是坐骑，谁是骑师。积极的心态使你充满力量，去获得财富、成功、幸福和健康，攀登到人生的顶峰；而消极的心态却把一切让你的生活有意义的东西剥夺得一干二净，在人生的整个航程中处于“晕船”的状态，对将来总感到失望。其实人和人之间的差别体现在思维方式上，最重要的一点是以积极的还是消极的心态面对人生。在失败者中，十有八九其实是自己放弃了成功的希望，而不是被别人打败的。他们的人生被过去的种种失败和疑虑所引导和支配，预期得到的是最糟糕的东西，而且确实会得到。可成功者正相反，他们充满乐观的精神和积极的处事方式可以让他们战胜一切困难。在雷克洛看来，生活处处有磨难，关键在于自己的心理是否承受得起。失败是暂时走了弯路，而并非走进了死胡同。正因为这样看待失败，所以他能够战胜自我，超越自我，走向人生的辉煌，成为大器晚成的“汉堡王”。因此，在一定的社会环境条件下和一定的个人能力基础上，心态与命运的关系还是心态决定着命运。心态，决定着你的命运：若是你去驾驭命运，你就会成功；若是让命运来驾驭你，你就只能永远失败。

4. Secondly, those who were placed behind in the simulated exams actually became the top scholars in the formal exams. This phenomenon is not uncommon, but why? Their strength and their level of achievement are basically in the same level, roughly similar. Who can excel and become the top scholar in the formal exam depends on whose mindset is better and whose performance is stronger. There is no desperate situation in the world, only people who are desperate about their situation. The difference between a successful person and a failure is that a successful person always uses the most positive mindset and the most optimistic spirit to dominate and control their own life, while a failure does the opposite. Guan Zhong of the Warring States period once said, "The trees that withstand frost and snow do not rely on the sky; the scholars who can govern themselves do not rely on the sages." Han Fei said, "The difficulty of a person's ambition does not lie in overcoming others but in overcoming oneself." What they are saying is that we should know the difficulties and move forward, becoming the master of our own destiny. Sow a mindset, reap an idea; sow an idea, reap a behavior; sow a behavior, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny. How many facts have proven that a good destiny is necessarily backed by a positive and healthy mindset. A person's life is like a ship sailing in the ocean of time. When our ship is about to be completed, we set sail under the golden sun; when the first sail on our ship is about to rise, it flutters in the piercing sea breeze; when our life's ship is heavy with the beautiful hopes of our parents, the newlyweds, and friends, do you understand that the meaning of life lies in overcoming one difficulty after another, navigating through one dangerous shoal after another, and finally reaching the shore of victory. Marx once said, "To avoid living a purposeless life in triviality, come, let us embark on the distant journey of an uneven path." The most important factor that determines the success or failure of your life journey is your own factor. Indeed, mindset is your true master, and only your mindset can determine who is the mount and who is the rider. A positive mindset fills you with strength to obtain wealth, success, happiness, and health, to climb to the peak of life; while a negative mindset strips everything that gives meaning to your life, leaving you in a state of seasickness throughout your life journey, always feeling disappointed about the future. In fact, the difference between people lies in their way of thinking, and the most important point is to face life with a positive or negative mindset. Among the failures, more than 90% actually give up the hope of success themselves, rather than being defeated by others. Their lives are guided and controlled by various past failures and doubts, expecting the worst, and indeed getting it. On the contrary, successful people are filled with optimism and a positive approach to life, which enables them to overcome all difficulties. In the eyes of Rector, life is full of hardships, the key lies in whether one's psychology can bear it. Failure is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Because of this attitude towards failure, he can overcome himself, exceed himself, and achieve brilliance in life, becoming a late-blooming "Burger King." Therefore, under certain social environmental conditions and on the basis of certain personal abilities, the relationship between mindset and destiny is still that mindset determines destiny. Mindset determines your destiny: if you ride the destiny, you will succeed; if destiny rides you, you can only fail forever.

5. 只有一个人在相信自己时，才会有胜利的希望，再加上汗水和努力，我相信我们都会变得足够优秀;只要相信自己，人生不可能会有阻拦，只要你自己认可自己，就绝对会胜利!

5. Only when one believes in oneself can there be hope for victory, and with sweat and effort, I believe we will all become sufficiently outstanding; as long as you believe in yourself, life cannot have any hindrance, and as long as you acknowledge yourself, victory is absolutely guaranteed!

6. 记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

6. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

7. 在现实生活中，终日烦恼的人，实际上并不是遭遇了太多的不幸，而是根源于烦恼者的内心世界。因此，当烦恼降临的时候，我们既不要怨天尤人，也不要自暴自弃，要学会给心灵松绑，从心理上调适自己，避免烦恼变成心病。

7. In real life, people who are constantly troubled are not actually facing too much misfortune, but rather the root of their troubles lies in their inner world. Therefore, when trouble befalls us, we should neither blame the heavens nor despair of ourselves, but learn to untie the bonds of our souls, adjust ourselves mentally, and prevent troubles from turning into mental illnesses.

8. 这本书讲了许许多多生动的 励志 故事 。每个故事都会告诉我们如何调整和改变自己的心态，让我明白了许多做人的道理，从而使自己不自卑，让自己能走上成功的道路。

8. This book tells many vivid and inspirational stories. Each story teaches us how to adjust and change our mindset, which has enlightened me on many principles of living, helping me to overcome self-doubt and embark on the path to success.

9. 在工作面前，心态决定一切。没有不重要的工作，只有不重视工作的人。不同的心态，成就不同的人生，有什么样的心态就会产生什么样的行为，从而决定不同的结果。心态就是性格加态度。性格是一个人独特稳定的个性表现特征，它表现一个人对现实的心理认识和相应的习惯化的行为方式。态度是一个人对客观事物的心理反应。所以只有良好的心态才能有出色工作业绩。

9. In the face of work, attitude determines everything. There is no unimportant work, only people who do not value work. Different attitudes lead to different lives; the mindset you have will produce corresponding behaviors, which in turn determine different outcomes. Attitude is a combination of character and attitude. Character is the unique and stable personality trait of a person, reflecting their psychological understanding of reality and their habitual behavioral patterns. Attitude is a person's psychological response to objective things. Therefore, only with a good attitude can one achieve outstanding work performance.

10. 有这样一个故事，一颗小树问大树怎样长得如此高大大树说，它吃的是美好的东西，有时也会吃点杂物，而有些树长得枯瘦是因为它吃了很多黑暗的东西。是啊，为什么同样是树，怎么就会走上如此不同的命运呢是因为心态。

10. There is a story about a small tree asking a tall tree how it grew so tall. The tall tree said, "I eat good things, and sometimes I also eat some trash." Some trees become thin and withered because they have eaten too many dark things. Indeed, why would the same trees have such different fates? It's because of their mindset.

11. 一段特别通透的话：“我们生命中最大的本钱不是金钱，不是权力，甚至不是知识，也不是能力，而是心态。因为一个良好的心态，比一百种智慧更有力量。

11. A particularly insightful statement: "The greatest asset in our lives is not money, not power, not even knowledge or ability, but our mindset. Because a positive mindset is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom."

12. 在漫漫的人生路上谁没碰到些挫折，我们应该像大树一样保持乐观的心态，拥有远大的理想和锲而不舍的坚持。

12. On the long journey of life, who hasn't encountered some setbacks? We should maintain an optimistic attitude like a great tree, have grand ideals, and persist with unwavering determination.

13. 快乐是一种积极的处事态度，成大事者要以宽容、接纳、豁达，愉悦的心态去看待周边的世界。拥有乐观心态的人往往将人生感受与人的生存状态去别开来，认为人生是一种体验，是一种心理感受，即使人的境遇由于外来的因素而有所改变，人们无法通过自身的努力去改变自己的生存状态，人也可以通过自己的精神力量去调节自己的心理感受，尽量地将其调适到最佳的状态。

13. Happiness is a positive attitude towards life. Those who achieve great things should view the world around them with a宽容, accepting, open-minded, and joyful mindset. People with an optimistic outlook often differentiate their feelings about life from their state of existence, considering life as an experience and a psychological feeling. Even if a person's circumstances change due to external factors and they are unable to change their state of existence through their own efforts, they can still regulate their psychological feelings through their spiritual strength and try to adjust them to the best possible state.

14. 命不好的人，不是上天对他多么苛刻，而是他的欲望太多，情绪不稳，心性不定。一个人的心态好了，不会精神内耗，不去计较太多，不要追名逐利，就不会有什么烦恼和痛苦，命当然就可以变好。

14. People who have bad luck are not because heaven is so harsh on them, but because they have too many desires, unstable emotions, and uncertain character. When a person has a positive mindset, they won't waste their mental energy, they won't count too much, and they won't chase fame and fortune. In this way, they won't have any烦恼 or pain, and their destiny can naturally improve.

15. 第二个人抬头笑了笑说：“我们在盖一栋漂亮的高楼”。

15. The second person looked up and smiled, saying, "We are building a beautiful skyscraper."

16. 俗话说得好：“退一步海阔天空，让几分心平气和。”这就是说人与人之间需要宽容。宽容是一种美德，它能使一个人得到尊重。宽容是一种良药，它能挽救一个人的灵魂。宽容就像一盏明灯，能在黑暗中放射着万丈光芒，照亮每一个心灵。

16. As the saying goes, "Step back, and the sea is vast; let go a bit, and the heart becomes peaceful." This means that there is a need for tolerance between people. Tolerance is a virtue that can earn a person respect. Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a beacon that shines with ten thousand rays of light in the darkness, illuminating every heart.

17. 人生的道路上有很多挫折，等着我们落网。但是，当厄运来临时，我们如果能够坚持住，用美好平和的心态去淡然面对，谁就可以战胜一切。对，生活总会不和我们的节奏去进行，它总会反着来，让你迷失方向，甚至让你彻底失去信心。可是如果你可以在灾难来临时平整自己的心态，就会处至泰然，就会觉得安全。例如在四川大地震中，就有很多的例子。他们在地下被埋了那么多天，尽然生存下来，都是以乐观的精神活下去的，像“可乐男孩”等等。

17. There are many setbacks on the path of life, waiting to ensnare us. However, when misfortune strikes, if we can hold on and face it with a beautiful and peaceful mindset, then anyone can conquer everything. Yes, life will always not go along with our rhythm, it will always go against it, leading us to lose our way, and even completely lose confidence. But if you can calm your mindset in the face of disaster, you will remain composed, and you will feel safe. For example, there were many such examples during the Sichuan earthquake. They were buried underground for so many days and still managed to survive, all of them living with an optimistic spirit, like the "Coke Boy" and others.

18. 一本书上记载着一个这样的故事：一名英国的记者乘船去英国，途中突然遇到暴风雨，船上的人都惊慌失措，东奔西窜。只有一个老太太却跪在甲板上祈祷，神情非常安详。飓风巨浪过后，记者好奇地老太太：“您为什么当时一点也不害怕呢”老太太笑着说：“我有两个女儿，大女儿去了天堂，小女儿住在英国，刚才风浪大作的时候，我就向上帝祷告，如果接我去天堂，我就去看大女儿，如果留在船上，我就去看小女儿。不管去哪儿，我都可以和心爱的女儿在一起，我怎么会害怕”多么通俗的话语，多么质朴的语言，却深深地震撼了我的心。老太太在面对死亡时刻，她不是惊慌失措，恐惧万分，而是那么坦然，把自己的心态调适的那么安然和平常。

18. A book records a story like this: A British journalist was traveling by ship to Britain, and during the journey, he suddenly encountered a fierce storm. Everyone on the ship was in a panic, running around in all directions. However, there was an old lady who knelt on the deck and prayed with a very serene expression. After the hurricane and towering waves subsided, the journalist curiously asked the old lady, "Why weren't you afraid at all during that time?" The old lady smiled and said, "I have two daughters; my elder daughter is in heaven, and my younger daughter lives in Britain. When the storm was at its worst, I prayed to God, if He were to take me to heaven, I would go to see my elder daughter; if I were to stay on the ship, I would go to see my younger daughter. Wherever I go, I can be with my beloved daughter, so why would I be afraid?" How simple and straightforward her words were, and how unadorned her language was, yet they deeply moved my heart. In the face of death, the old lady was not in a panic or filled with fear, but was so calm, adjusting her mindset to be so serene and ordinary.

19. 我们要用正确的态度去对待生活。比如说口渴难忍的你，回到家看到冰箱里只有半杯水，你会怎么说是抱怨只有半杯水，还是有半杯水已经觉得足够了，总比没有水强。其实大部分人是第一种选择，这就是两种人，两种不同的看法。心态怎样左右我们的人生，就怎样决定我们的命运。

19. We should approach life with the correct attitude. For example, if you are extremely thirsty and you come home to see that there's only half a glass of water in the refrigerator, would you complain about there being only half a glass, or be grateful for having half a glass, which is better than having none. In fact, most people would choose the former, which illustrates two different people and two different perspectives. How our mindset shapes our lives determines how our fate is shaped.

20. 成功是一种心智的状态。想成功的人们，把自己想象成一个成功者吧!

20. Success is a mental state. Those who wish to succeed, imagine themselves as a successful person!

21. 前些日子细细品读了《心态决定命运》一书，这是一本参透人生哲理，把握心态脉络的智慧之书，本书通过鲜活的事例具体地分析了心态的特征以及影响，作者从三个方面细细讲述了心态跟命运的密切关系，告诉世人，只有良好的心态才能获得幸福的生活。

21. Recently, I carefully read the book "Mindset Determines Fate." This is a wise book that delves into the philosophy of life and grasps the essence of mindset. The book analyzes the characteristics and influences of mindset through vivid examples. The author meticulously discusses the close relationship between mindset and fate from three aspects, telling the world that only a good mindset can lead to a happy life.

22. 每一个成功者都有一个开始。勇于开始，才能找到成功。

22. Every successful person has a starting point. Dare to start, and you can find success.

23. 柳宗元无法接受命运的落差，他总是郁郁寡欢，泪流不止，想想黯淡的前途，感叹糟糕的处境，怨恨小人的排挤，常常借酒浇愁，不能自已。最后，在40多岁的时候抑郁而死。

23. Liu Zongyuan could not accept the落差 in fate. He was always melancholic, with tears flowing ceaselessly. Reflecting on the dim future, he sighed over the糟糕 situation, resented the exclusion by the cunning, and often drowned his sorrows in wine, unable to control himself. Finally, in his 40s, he died of depression.

24. 柳宗元和刘禹锡都是中唐时期的大才子，大政治家。他们一起加入王叔文的改革集团，是大唐王朝的骨干人物。后来改革失败，柳宗元和刘禹锡一起被贬官外地，跌入低谷，前途惨淡。

24. Liu Zongyuan and Liu Yuxi were both great talents and prominent politicians during the mid-Tang Dynasty. They joined Wang Shuwen's reform group together, and they were key figures in the Tang Dynasty. Later, when the reform failed, Liu Zongyuan and Liu Yuxi were both demoted and exiled to distant places, falling into a low point and facing bleak prospects.

25. 少一点预设的期待，那份对人的关怀会更自在。

25. With fewer preconceived expectations, the care for others becomes more natural and comfortable.

26. 所有的胜利，与征服自己的胜利比起来，都是微不足道。所有的失败，与失去自己的失败比起来，更是微不足道。

26. All victories, when compared to the victory over oneself, are insignificant. All failures, when compared to the loss of oneself, are even more negligible.

27. 在成功面前，心态决定一切。“走得慢的人，只要他不丧失目标，也比毫无目的地徘徊的人走得快”。因此，生活有时并不公正，然而，希望的大门对每个人总是永远敞开的。当一个人把生命和精力集中到一点上时，就可能做出令自己吃惊的事业。那么成功的基础必然就是良好的心态。

27. In the face of success, attitude determines everything. "A slow walker may pass the man who is in a hurry, if he does not lose sight of his goal." Therefore, life may sometimes be unfair, yet, the door of hope is always open for everyone. When a person focuses their life and energy on a single point, they may achieve a career that surprises themselves. Thus, the foundation of success must necessarily be a good attitude.

28. 正确的态度是一个人成功所必备的一种品质成功的人大多经历过一段瓶颈期,所谓瓶颈期就是一段看似无所作为,实际上却是准备就绪,等待时机的非常关键的过程瓶颈期最要命的地方就是它不知何时是头其实许多人都经历过这种时期,可只有那些成功的人在这种时期中总保持着勤奋向上的态度,酝酿着自己的实力,也酝酿着未来而相反有些人在这段时期中,习惯了安逸的生活,追求与进取的精神被逐渐磨去,过去所掌握的技巧与学识也慢慢退化待一直寻觅的机会从天而降时,他已无力去迎接他,把握他了

28. The correct attitude is a quality necessary for one's success. Successful people often go through a bottleneck period, which is a seemingly fruitless yet actually crucial phase of being fully prepared and waiting for the right opportunity. The most fatal aspect of the bottleneck period is that it is uncertain when it will end. In fact, many people have experienced this period, but only those who succeed maintain a diligent and upward attitude during this time, nurturing their strength and also preparing for their future. Conversely, some people become accustomed to a comfortable life during this period, and their spirit of pursuit and advancement is gradually eroded. The skills and knowledge they once mastered also slowly degrade. When the long-awaited opportunity finally arrives, they are no longer capable of embracing it or seizing it.

29. 心态好的人，能够放下，能够释怀，能够看淡，能够知足常乐，随遇而安，听天由命，即便命运给他一把最烂的牌，他也心甘情愿打下去，即使遭遇了人生的最低谷，依然可以在能力范围之内过好自己的小日子，捕捉一些小确幸，尽情感受生活的美好和惬意。

29. A person with a good attitude can let go, can let it go, can take things lightly, can be content with what they have, be at ease with whatever comes their way, and leave things to fate. Even if fate gives them the worst hand possible, they are willing to play it with a cheerful heart. Even in the lowest point of their lives, they can still live well within their means, catch some small joys, and fully enjoy the beauty and comfort of life.

30. 心态决定命运它告诉人们应以积极的心态应对人生的一切险阻，改变人生的现状，创造崭新的生活。

30. Attitude determines destiny. It tells people to face all the difficulties in life with a positive attitude, change the current state of life, and create a brand new life.

31. 在这开学初期，每个同学的心态都还未摆正，大都沉浸在暑假里开心的玩闹中，因此，我们要谨慎对待，应该摆正它，把心思都放在学习上，这样，才能为升学考试奠定一个良好的基础。

31. At the beginning of this semester, each student's mindset has not been properly adjusted yet; most of them are still immersed in the joyful play of the summer vacation. Therefore, we should handle it with caution, properly align it, and focus all our thoughts on studying. Only in this way can we lay a solid foundation for the entrance examination.

32. 这个故事告诉我们一个很深的道理：有什么样的心态往往导致什么样的结果;一个人的固定心态，往往决定着这个人的命运和前途。

32. This story teaches us a profound truth: the kind of mindset often leads to the kind of results; a person's fixed mindset often determines this person's fate and future.

33. 从心理学的角度来讲，心态是一个人的心理活动和状态的总和，是人们对社会生活的反映和体验。心态对一个人的思想、情感、需要和欲望有着决定性的影响，它制约着一个人对待工作、对待生活、对待事业的态度。心态是把“双刃剑”：积极的心态往往能够成就人生事业，相反消极的心态则往往影响事业的成功。

33. From a psychological perspective, mindset is the sum of a person's mental activities and states, reflecting and experiencing social life. Mindset has a decisive influence on a person's thoughts, emotions, needs, and desires, and it constrains one's attitudes towards work, life, and career. Mindset is a "double-edged sword": a positive mindset often leads to the success of one's life and career, whereas a negative mindset often hinders the success of one's endeavors.

34. 一个健康的心态，比一百种智慧都有力量;一个人有什么心态，就有什么样的人生;一切的成就，一切的财富，都始于积极的心态。

34. A healthy mindset is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom; a person's mindset determines their life; all achievements and all wealth originate from a positive mindset.

35. 有理想在的地方，地狱就是天堂。有希望在的地方，痛苦也成欢乐。

35. Where there is an ideal, hell is heaven. Where there is hope, pain also becomes joy.

36. 世界只是内心的显现，你的内心是什么样子，你遇见的世界就是什么样子。

36. The world is merely a manifestation of the inner self; the world you encounter is a reflection of what is within you.

37. 态度往往直接决定了一件事的后果大学里的一堂数学课上,教授在临下课时将一道数学题抄在了黑板上这是一道他多年解不出的难题他告诉学生,做不出就不要勉强恰巧有一个学生迟到了,没听见他的话只以为黑板上的题目是作业,就抄了下来出乎大家的意料,这位成绩并不是很优异的学生第二天竟是全班唯一做出这道题的学生是态度创造出了这位学生和其他同学的差异,这件事值得我们每个人深思

37. Attitude often directly determines the consequences of a matter. In a university math class, as the professor was about to finish the class, he copied a math problem onto the blackboard. This was a difficult problem that he had not been able to solve for many years. He told the students not to force themselves if they couldn't solve it. Coincidentally, a student was late and didn't hear his words; he simply thought the problem on the blackboard was homework and copied it down. To everyone's surprise, this student, who was not particularly outstanding in his grades, was the only one in the class to solve the problem the next day. It was the attitude that created the difference between this student and the others, and this is something that each of us should deeply reflect upon.

38. 我读了《心态决定命运》这本书后从思想上受到很大的启发。我认为只有调整好心态才能有更好的状态来制约自己去更好的努力工作，面对不同的情况，要用好的心态去对待才能得到好的结果，反之，只能失败。那些成功者，也都是用好的心态去对待成功与失败，才能在人生的海洋中到达理想的彼岸。

38. After reading the book "Attitude Determines Fate," I was greatly inspired ideologically. I believe that only by adjusting one's attitude can one achieve a better state to constrain oneself to work harder. In the face of different situations, one must adopt a positive attitude to obtain good results; otherwise, only failure awaits. Those who are successful also use a positive attitude to treat success and failure, which allows them to reach the ideal destination in the ocean of life.

39. 如果拥有一个好的心态，我们就会在绝望中摆脱烦恼;在压力下改变心态;在痛苦中抓住快乐，在失败中找到希望。世界上最重要的一件事就是心态是否健康，因为生活中的成功机遇不是时时都会出现在你的身边。相反，困难和挫折常伴随着你左右出现。这就是说，在困难和挫折面前，最可怕的是心态。如此可见，拥有一个好的心态，这是多么重要。

39. If we have a good attitude, we can摆脱烦恼 in despair; change our mindset under pressure; find joy in pain, and hope in failure. The most important thing in the world is whether one's mindset is healthy, because opportunities for success in life do not always appear around you. On the contrary, difficulties and setbacks often accompany you. This means that in the face of difficulties and setbacks, the most可怕 thing is one's mindset. As such, having a good mindset is of great importance.

40. 决定命运的并不是天上掉下来的一个大大的机会，而是每一分钟里你做的一个微小的选择。 所有的差别就只在那一分钟里。

40. It is not a big opportunity that falls from the sky that determines one's fate, but rather the small choices you make every minute. All the differences lie within that one minute.

41. 一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。

41. A person who can view things from others' perspectives and understand the inner workings of others' minds will never have to worry about their future prospects.

42. 一个人只有亲眼看到自己伤疤的时候才知道什么是痛，什么是对与错。

42. One only knows what pain is and what is right or wrong when they see their own scars with their own eyes.

43. 十年过去后，第一个人仍在工地砌墙;第二个人早就成了一名工程师;第三个人已经成了一名负责建筑工程的领导。

43. Ten years later, the first person is still bricklaying on the construction site; the second person has long become an engineer; the third person has already become a leader responsible for civil engineering projects.