面对他人负债，如何应对？这是一个复杂而微妙的问题，关乎信任与责任。在探讨这一话题之前，让我们先从人心与世态出发，一同揭开这一篇章的序幕。

How to cope with others' debts? This is a complex and subtle issue, involving trust and responsibility. Before delving into this topic, let us first start from the hearts and the world, and together open the curtain on this chapter.

1. 生活是一个大筛子，我们要筛到那一些消耗自己的人，筛掉和自己不同拍，不同频，三观不合的人，筛掉人品不好，好吃懒做，不靠谱的人，最后留下可以滋养自己的人，能和自己同频共振的人，让自己感到舒服的人。

1. Life is a big sieve, and we need to sift out those who consume us, those who are out of sync with us in terms of rhythm and frequency, those whose worldviews do not align with ours, those with poor character, those who are lazy and gluttonous, and those who are unreliable. In the end, we are left with people who can nourish us, those who resonate with us, and those who make us feel comfortable.

2. 种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆，相信善良总会得到回馈。就像你种下一片庄稼，当然会长出杂草，也会有少部分不好的庄稼，到最后你一定可以获得丰收，因为大部分庄稼是能正常结果的。

2. As the saying goes, "Plant melons and you'll get melons; plant beans and you'll get beans." Believe that kindness will always be rewarded. Just like when you plant a field of crops, of course, there will be weeds, and there may also be a small number of crops that don't turn out well. In the end, you will definitely reap a harvest, because the majority of the crops will bear fruit normally.

3. 别人辜负你的好意，不是你的问题，是他不会珍惜对自己好的人，也不会感知生活中美好的东西。就好像是一头猪，你对他嘘寒问暖，他对你不屑一顾。所以你不要难过，善良从来不是坏事，即便得不到正向的回应，你也净化了自己的心灵，提升了自己的格局和境界。

3. If someone betrays your kindness, it's not your fault; it's because he doesn't know how to cherish those who are good to him and doesn't perceive the beautiful things in life. It's like a pig, no matter how much you care for it, it will look down on you. So don't be sad, kindness is never a bad thing. Even if you don't get a positive response, you have purified your soul and elevated your level and realm.

4. 辜负就辜负了呗，ta不懂得珍惜，难道你还要为此去死？不存在的，活着的人该好好活着，过去的事情就过去了，明天太阳照样升起，说不定比今天更美丽。努力把自己塑造的更完美，无懈可击，等那时候，再回想当年，现在的你只不过过眼云烟，你的真诚应该给会珍惜它的人。如果没遇见，便也不要将就，该来的总会来，不该来的有时也会来，虽然说不要委屈自己，但是如果真正遇见一个你喜欢的并且会珍惜你的ta委屈自己去追逐也是无伤大雅的吧？人活一世不然洒脱一些，豁达一些，这样的话你会活的更开心，更快乐。至于那个辜负你真诚的人是谁？谁在乎？关你什么事情？只不过是一个不值得的人，又凭什么让你感到惆怅？

4. If you've been betrayed, then so be it. They didn't know how to cherish, so why should you die for it? That's not the case. Those who are alive should live well. The past is over, and the sun will rise tomorrow, perhaps even more beautifully than today. Strive to perfect yourself, to be flawless. When that time comes, looking back, you'll realize that the present is just a fleeting cloud. Your sincerity should be given to someone who will cherish it. If you haven't met them, then don't settle. What's destined to come will eventually come, and what's not meant to come sometimes does too. Although it's said not to humiliate yourself, but if you truly meet someone you like and who will cherish you, isn't it okay to make some sacrifices to pursue them? After all, life is but once, so why not be carefree and open-minded? This way, you'll live a happier and more joyful life. As for the person who betrayed your sincerity, who cares? It's none of your business. They're just someone unworthy, and why should they make you feel melancholic?

5. 短短几年之内，仅仅这一名发小，就从岳云鹏身上拿掉几十万。岳云鹏催他还钱，他却恶言相向，说岳云鹏见利忘义，残酷冷血，不配结交。

5. In just a few years, this childhood friend alone took away several hundred thousand yuan from Yue Yunpeng. When Yue Yunpeng demanded that he repay the money, he responded with foul language, accusing Yue Yunpeng of being greedy for profit and forgetting righteousness, cruel and cold-blooded, and not worthy of being friends with.

6. 人生短暂，我们要选择值得的人相处，互相搭台，守心自暖。

6. Life is short, so we should choose to be with people who are worth it, support each other, and keep our hearts warm.

7. 因为那段日子是我一个人一点一点走过来的，不是他陪伴，没有他道歉，没有他忏悔，什么都没有。他决定了辜负我，那么剩下的我一个人承担。那段日日流泪的日子，苦苦哀求的日子，想破脑袋也想不明白他为什么这么做的日子，都是我一个人，一个人，撑过来的。

7. Because those days were days that I walked through alone, bit by bit, without his company, without his apologies, without his repentance, without anything. He decided to disappoint me, so the remaining burden fell on me alone. Those days of shedding tears, days of begging苦苦, days of scratching my head trying to understand why he would do such a thing, were all carried by me, all by myself.

8. 一个人辜负了你，是上天在告诉你，他已经不适合继续留在你的圈子里，只有彻底离开他，你才能生活得更加精彩和美好。

8. If someone has disappointed you, it is as if the heavens are telling you that they are no longer fit to remain in your circle. Only by completely cutting ties with them can you live a more vibrant and beautiful life.

9. 余华说：“如果你很真诚的对待一个人，他却辜负了你，那么你就是他这辈子遇到的天花板。他之所以辜负你，那是因为他对美好事物感知不强，这种美好的机缘，老天不会再给他第二次。所以，不要觉得难过，继续好好向前走吧，人若欠你，天必还你，你尽管善良，福报都在来的路上。”

9. Yu Hua said: "If you treat someone sincerely and they betray you in return, then you are the ceiling they will meet in their lifetime. They betrayed you because they have a weak perception of beautiful things, and this beautiful opportunity, the heavens will not give them a second chance. So, don't feel sad, keep moving forward with determination. If people owe you, the heavens will repay you. Be as kind as you can, and the blessings are on their way."

10. 被别人辜负之后，一定要及时止损。不要再继续来往，我们的生活不缺这样一个人。

10. After being disappointed by others, it is essential to cut your losses in a timely manner. Don't continue to maintain contact; our lives don't need such a person.

11. 被辜负并不是失败，而是人生中的一次历练和成长。学会从中汲取教训，让自己变得更加坚强和成熟。保持内心的清澈和善良，因为它们是你前行的动力和支撑。

11. Being disappointed is not a failure, but rather an experience and growth in life. Learn to draw lessons from it, and let yourself become stronger and more mature. Maintain the clarity and kindness within you, as they are the driving force and support for your journey.

12. 每经历一件事，都或多或少带给你一些成长，等到很多年以后再回想起来，也会感谢当初自己的那份坚持。有些人出现在你的生命中，就是为了在你最艰难的时候，带给你一些温暖，让你知道自己是值得被爱的。

12. Every experience brings you some growth, to varying degrees. Many years later, when you look back, you will also be grateful for your own persistence back then. Some people appear in your life, just to bring you some warmth during your most difficult times, and let you know that you are worthy of love.

13. 别人辜负你，不必动怒，不必哀叹，最理性而正确的对待方式，是这么做。

13. If someone betrays you, do not be angry or despair. The most rational and correct way to deal with it is to do this.

14. 所以，我不会原谅他。这辈子都不会。随着时光流逝，我不再纠结这些问题，不再纠缠着伤心往事，就算想起或者论起也不会像以前那么难过，但是说起我会不会原谅他，我的答案就是：不会原谅。他那么做，我永远不会原谅。

14. Therefore, I will not forgive him. I will never forgive him in this lifetime. As time passes, I no longer dwell on these issues, no longer get entangled in the sad past, and even if I think about it or discuss it, I won't be as heartbroken as before. However, when it comes to whether I will forgive him, my answer is: I will not forgive. He did what he did, and I will never forgive him.

15. 岳云鹏爆红之后，曾经的发小因为生活潦倒而和他借钱，岳云鹏毫不犹豫借出大几万，结果对方非但没有按时还钱，还隔三差五向他继续借钱。岳云鹏怀念曾经的哥们感情，又怕家乡父老骂他吝啬，每次都答应他，但内心都极不情愿。

15. After Yue Yunpeng's sudden rise to fame, his childhood friend, who was in a poor financial situation, borrowed money from him. Yue Yunpeng lent him several tens of thousands of yuan without hesitation. However, the friend not only failed to repay the money on time but also kept borrowing money from him from time to time. Yue Yunpeng cherished the memories of their friendship from the past, but was also afraid of being criticized by his hometown people for being stingy. Each time, he agreed to lend him the money, but deep down, he was extremely unwilling.

16. 因为那段时光是最痛苦的。他辜负了我对他和我自己所有的期待、幻想，计划的未来。在他选择辜负我那一刻，这些计划好的，期待已久的，全部打翻。凭什么他一个人的决定要伤害到我？所以，我选择不原谅。

16. Because that time was the most painful. He disappointed all my expectations and illusions of him, and the planned future. In that moment when he chose to disappoint me, all those planned and eagerly awaited things were overturned. Why should his decision alone hurt me? So, I choose not to forgive.

17. 生活中总有这么一种现象：热脸贴冷屁股，好心当做驴肝肺，你对别人掏心掏肺，别人却是狼心狗肺，你对别人付出很多，别人还会反咬你一口。

17. There is always this phenomenon in life: a warm face against a cold buttock, good intentions treated as donkey liver and lung. You pour your heart out to others, but they are as ruthless as wolves and as ungrateful as dogs. You give a lot to others, and they may even bite you back.

18. 善良没有错，但毫无原则的善良，会让别人得寸进尺。没有边界的软弱，会让别人嚣张跋扈。一个人辜负自己，说明他根本就配不上我们的善良，就要学会及时止损，不要被无休无止的消耗。

18. Kindness is not wrong, but excessive kindness without principles can allow others to take advantage and push their limits. Softness without boundaries can make others act brazenly. If someone betrays themselves, it means they are not worthy of our kindness. One should learn to stop the loss in time and not be endlessly consumed.

19. 你的善良可能被辜负，但那毕竟是少数人。不要难过，不要否定自己的善良和付出。

19. Your kindness may be taken for granted, but that is still a minority. Don't be sad, and don't deny your kindness and the effort you put in.