1. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最曼妙的风景，是内心的淡定从容。我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

1. We once so eagerly desired the vicissitudes of fate, only to find later that the most enchanting scenery in life is the calm and composed state of the mind. We once so eagerly awaited others' approval, only to find later that the world is one's own, having nothing to do with others.

2. 一个人真正的成熟，是在独处之中成全自己。不用在喧嚣的人群中寻找存在感，不想在别人的眼光和评价里寻找价值感。过好自己的日子，做喜欢的事情，守心自暖，与世无争，悠然独处，自得其乐。

2. A person's true maturity lies in becoming complete in solitude. They do not seek a sense of existence amidst the clamor of crowds, nor do they want to find a sense of value in others' eyes and evaluations. They live their own life well, do what they like, keep their heart warm, do not compete with the world, enjoy solitude, and find joy in it by themselves.

3. 李银河说：“如果一个人此生的目的，就是追求那些用各种各样的世俗标准来衡量的成就，譬如名望、金钱、地位，那他就永远不能停歇，永远没有时间。

3. Li Xinhai said, "If the purpose of a person's life is to pursue achievements measured by all kinds of worldly standards, such as fame, wealth, and status, then they can never rest and will never have any time."

4. 不要拿自己的人生与他人作比较，不管你觉得别人的人生比你好还是比你坏，最终都只能过自己的生活。如果不安于自己所拥有的，那么内心就永远没有快乐。”

4. Do not compare your life with others, whether you feel that others' lives are better or worse than yours, in the end, you can only live your own life. If you are not satisfied with what you have, then there will never be happiness in your heart.

5. 别人家财万贯，和你无关，别人穷困潦倒，也和你无关。不对比你优越的人羡慕嫉妒恨，也不对不如你的人轻视嘲讽冷落，你只用经营好自己的生活，想方设法让自己快乐，锻炼好身体，打理好心情，控制好情绪，认真的过着，洒脱的活着，浅浅的爱着，美美的笑着。

5. It doesn't matter if others are wealthy; it has nothing to do with you. It also doesn't matter if others are in dire straits; it has nothing to do with you either. Don't envy or resent those who are better off than you, and don't look down upon or mock those who are less fortunate than you. You only need to manage your own life, do your best to be happy, keep your body fit, take care of your mood, control your emotions, live seriously, live freely, love lightly, and laugh beautifully.

6. 不攀比，才能知足常乐，幸福一生。

6. By not comparing, one can always be content and happy, leading to a fulfilling life.

7. 生命一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。

7. Life is a solitary river, and one's self is the ferryman of one's life.

8. 人类的悲欢并不相通。你锥心刺骨的伤痛，在别人眼里，只是随手拂过的尘埃。你喜极而泣的成就，在别人看来，不过是别有用心的炫耀。你落难了，指望别人帮助你，可别人都会冷漠的离开，甚至还有人落井下石。你成功了，渴望与别人分享喜悦，他却因为嫉妒而疏远你。

8. The joys and sorrows of humans are not interconnected. The piercing pain that stabs at your heart is, in others' eyes, just a speck of dust to be casually brushed away. The achievements that bring you to tears of joy are, in the eyes of others, nothing but deliberate show-offs. When you're in trouble, you hope others will help you, but they all turn cold and leave, and some even throw stones at you from the ground. When you succeed, you long to share your joy with others, but he distances himself from you out of jealousy.

9. 有一段很治愈的话：“永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远不要怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦，难受，都得自己承受。没有人会在意你受了多少委屈，没人能够真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。”

9. There is a very healing saying: "Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. In life, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear our own pain and discomfort. No one will care how much injustice you have suffered, and no one can truly understand you. If the stone has not fallen on his feet, he will never understand how painful it is."

10. 不期待，就不会有伤害。凡事靠自己，咬紧要关往前走，总有自己的一片天地。

10. Not to expect anything will prevent any hurt. Rely on yourself, bite the bullet and press forward, and you will always have your own piece of sky and land.

11. 每个人都有自己的生活方式，行为方式和处事风格，不要站在自己的立场和角度，对别人指手画脚，评头论足，说三道四。

11. Everyone has their own way of life, behavior patterns, and style of dealing with things. Do not stand in your own position and perspective, pointing fingers and making comments about others, talking behind their backs.

12. 不管别人怎么说，怎么做，怎么表现，都和你无关。他情商低也好，不会为人处世也好，或者当舔狗也好，攀附权贵也好，那是他个人的选择。

12. No matter what others say, do, or behave, it has nothing to do with you. Whether he has a low emotional intelligence, lacks social skills, or behaves like a sycophant, or flatters the powerful, that is his personal choice.

13. 一个人的言行，只要不触犯法律和基本的伦理道德底线，就应该被尊重，被允许。

13. A person's words and actions should be respected and permitted as long as they do not violate the law and the basic底线 of ethics and morality.

14. 尤其是我们未必真正了解一个人，仅仅凭着只鳞片爪的信息，就妄加评论，只会扭曲真相，给当事人造成不可逆转的伤害，当今社会的网暴就是例子。

14. Especially since we may not truly understand a person, and based on mere scraps of information, we make arbitrary comments, which only distort the truth and cause irreversible harm to the parties involved. The online violence in today's society is a case in point.

15. 不要用自己的无知和偏见指点别人，不评价，是一种自知之明。

15. Do not point fingers at others with your ignorance and biases; not to judge is a form of self-awareness.

16. 余生，不攀比，不期待，不评价，不侵犯别人的生活，也不被别人所影响，做好自己，独处守心。

16. For the rest of my life, I will not compare, anticipate, judge, intrude on others' lives, nor be influenced by others. I will do my own thing, stay true to myself in solitude.

17. 1用自己的判断和智慧去认识较高等的世界，你就会越来越熟悉高等的生活、高等的想法和高等的力量，你会一天比一天伟大，任何心中所想，内在力量都会帮你达成。

17. 1 Use your own judgment and wisdom to understand the higher world, and you will become increasingly familiar with the higher life, higher thoughts, and higher power. You will become greater day by day, and any thoughts you have in your heart, the inner power will help you achieve.

18. 2独处是我的氧气，没有独处，我就迷失在这生活的菜市场中。

18. 2 Solitude is my oxygen; without solitude, I would be lost in the marketplace of life.

19. 3领悟主动的精神，决定出手的最佳时机，要果断，用自我已被开发的智慧。

19. 3 Understand the proactive spirit, determine the best time to act, be decisive, and use the self-developed wisdom.

20. 4无论人生上到哪一层台阶，阶下有人在仰望你，阶上亦有人在俯视你。你抬头自卑，低头自得，唯有平视，才能看见真正的自己。

20. 4 No matter which level of the ladder of life you reach, there will be people looking up at you from below, and there will also be people looking down on you from above. You may feel humble when you look up and self-satisfied when you look down, but only by looking straight ahead can you truly see yourself.

21. 5命运在自己手中，你可以创造自己的命运，只要下定决心。

21. 5 Fate is in your own hands; you can create your own destiny as long as you are determined.

22. 7更高级的哲人独处着，这并不是因为他想孤独，而是因为在他的周围找不到他的同类。

22. 7 More advanced philosophers are alone, not because they want to be lonely, but because they cannot find their kindred spirits around them.

23. 8张开大嘴四处嚷嚷只是人的本能，静心是减压的好方法。水静下来才能映出云影，呵呵，夫学须静也，意定则慧生，风静下来才能安眠树梢。

23. Shouting loudly with wide-open mouth is just a human instinct, while staying calm is a good method to reduce stress. Water must settle down to reflect the shadows of clouds, hahaha. Just as learning requires calmness, when the mind is steady, wisdom is born, and only when the wind settles down can the trees sleep peacefully.

24. 10有的人就是这样，厌恶孤独，却又享受孤独，喜欢热闹，却又想远离喧闹。

24. 10 Some people are like that, disliking loneliness yet enjoying it, loving excitement yet wanting to stay away from the hustle and bustle.

25. 11试着做个个性坚强的人，只要相信是好的，就坚持下去，不要让别人动摇我们。既然这世界罕有好的典范，就让我们成为好的典范吧！

25. 11 Try to be a person of strong character, as long as you believe it is good, stick to it, and don't let others shake us. Since this world rarely has good role models, let us become good role models ourselves!

26. 12其实一个人并不寂寞，是你的想法让自己觉得寂寞，换个想法享受自己的时光吧。

26. 12 In fact, a person is not lonely; it's your thoughts that make you feel lonely. Change your thoughts and enjoy your time instead.

27. 13偶尔独处，偶尔一人食，安静的给自己的生活清零，扔掉不再穿的衣服，扔掉不喜欢却又一直都在习惯，忘掉伤害过你的人。

27. 13 Occasionally be alone, occasionally dine alone, quietly reset your life, discard clothes you no longer wear, discard habits you don't like yet have been accustomed to, and forget those who have hurt you.

28. 14趁你现在还有时间，尽你自己最大的努力。努力做成你最想做的那件事，成为你最想成为的那种人，过着你最想过的那种生活。

28. 14 Seize the time you have now and do your utmost. Strive to accomplish the thing you most want to do, become the kind of person you most wish to be, and lead the kind of life you most desire.

29. 15做一个快乐的人，要敢于跟一切苦难说拜拜，要保持理智，不能盲目，不顾忌他人的评论，不羡慕他人的幸福，善于发现生活中自己的小快乐。真正的快乐都在于你自己，心静了，世界也就宽了。

29. To be a happy person, one must dare to bid farewell to all hardships, maintain reason, not be blind, not care about others' comments, not envy others' happiness, and be good at finding one's own small joys in life. True happiness lies within yourself. When your heart is calm, the world also becomes broader.

30. 17习惯晨醒，破晓时分的那层光亮，如点金棒，城市逐渐苏醒，享受晨醒自处的时光。

30. 17 am waking habits, that layer of light at dawn, like a magic wand, as the city gradually awakens, enjoying the peaceful moments of morning alertness.

31. 18心放松，精神不这么争名夺利，我们的聪明才智会自然跑出来，我们越轻松工作越好。

31. When the mind is at ease and not so caught up in striving for fame and gain, our intelligence and wisdom will naturally emerge. The more relaxed we work, the better the results.

32. 20再回首恍然如梦，再回首我心依旧，可我不会再回首。

32. Looking back, it feels like a dream, looking back, my heart remains the same, but I will no longer look back.

33. 21孤独对于庸人来说简直就是一块墓地，对于智者来说却是一个世外桃源。常人忍受孤独，智者享受单独。

33. For the common folk, solitude is a graveyard, but for the wise, it is an idyllic paradise. The common folk endure solitude, while the wise enjoy being alone.

34. 22浮躁心烦的时候，每个，前者人生起始。心无所存，会心当处即，独处，非澹泊无以明志，静以修身。喜欢安静。

34. 22 When restless and irritable, each one is at the beginning of their life. The mind should be without attachments, finding peace in solitude, for only through tranquility can one clarify one's aspirations and cultivate oneself. I like the quiet.

35. 23在那个寂寞黑暗的夜晚，我独自思念着一个人，不知不觉中流下眼泪。

35. On that lonely, dark night, I found myself missing someone, and tears flowed uncontrollably.

36. 24就想安静的地方自己享受独处的时光，哔哩吧啦的在耳边说话吵死了。

36. 24 just wants a quiet place to enjoy some alone time, and the blabbering in my ears is driving me crazy.

37. 25才能可以在独处中培养，品格最好还是在世界上的汹涌波涛中形成。作者：歌德。

37. Talent can be cultivated in solitude, but character is best formed in the tumultuous waves of the world. Author: Goethe.