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掌握独立生活的智慧:不怨天尤人,自力更生中英文

面书号 2025-01-03 16:46 8


在纷繁复杂的世界中,独立生活如同攀登高峰,不畏天堑,自强不息。今日,让我们共同开启这趟探索自我、挑战极限的旅程。

In a world that is complex and intricate, independent living is like climbing a mountain peak, unafraid of natural barriers, and ceaselessly self-reliant. Today, let us embark together on this journey of exploring ourselves and challenging our limits.

1. 一个人想要过得好,不仅要有通透的智慧,还要有一个无比强大的内心世界,不怨天,不尤人,靠自己,不与命运死磕,不跟别人计较,不对任何人抱有心存幻想的期待和不切实际的妄想,从从容容过好自己想要的日子。

1. To live well, one must not only possess clear wisdom but also have an incredibly strong inner world. One should not complain about fate or blame others, rely on oneself, not confront fate head-on, not be overly concerned with others, and not hold unrealistic expectations or illusions for anyone. Instead, one should live calmly and contentedly the life one truly desires.

2. 当我们一切向内求,在自己的能力范围之内享受生活,努力修炼自己,才能得到真正的安宁和幸福。

2. Only when we seek within, enjoy life within our own capabilities, and strive to cultivate ourselves, can we truly attain peace and happiness.

3. 我们或许无法支配自己的命运,那是可以支配自己对待命运的态度,心平气和接受生命中发生的一切。

3. Perhaps we cannot control our destiny, but we can control our attitude towards it. We should maintain a calm and peaceful mindset and accept everything that happens in life.

4. 有时候,我们已经十分努力,但命运未必会给我们想要的果实;我们与人为善,命运却给予我们一个又一个的噩梦;我们对未来满怀期待,命运却把我们推进生命的低谷。生活本来就是一个不断受锤的过程,在强大的命运面前,我们可能根本就没有反抗之力,与其跟命运死磕,不如以顺其自然的态度,过随遇而安的生活。

4. Sometimes, despite our utmost efforts, fate may not grant us the fruits we desire; we do good to others, but fate gives us one nightmare after another; we look forward to the future with anticipation, but fate pushes us into the depths of life. Life is inherently a process of continuous forging. In the face of powerful fate, we may have no real strength to resist. It's better to adopt a natural attitude and live a life of contentment with whatever comes our way.

5. 命运给你机会,你就乘势而上,“大鹏一日同风起,扶摇直上九万里”。如果命运不给你任何机会,你就安安心心做一个普通人,在最深的红尘烟火里,做一份寻常的工作,谋一份安稳的生活,宠辱不惊,不攀不比,知足常乐。

5. If fate gives you an opportunity, seize the moment and rise with it, "As the great鹏 bird takes flight one day with the wind, it soars straight up nine thousand miles." If fate does not give you any opportunity, then settle down and be an ordinary person. In the deepest hustle and bustle of life, do an ordinary job, strive for a stable life, remain unflustered by fame and fortune, do not compete or compare, and find joy in contentment.

6. 很多人都会经历三个阶段,第一个阶段,自以为是世界中心的时候。第二个阶段,无论如何努力,都感到无能为力的时候。第三个阶段,终于接受了自己的平凡,并且享受平凡的时候。

6. Many people go through three stages: the first stage, when they think they are the center of the world; the second stage, when, no matter how hard they try, they feel helpless; and the third stage, when they finally accept their ordinariness and enjoy it.

7. 一辈子做一个普通人,也未尝不可,与自己的命运和解,是最大的通透。

7. It is not a bad thing to be an ordinary person for a lifetime. Reconciling with one's own destiny is the greatest clarity.

8. 人生的本质就是百年孤独,世界是你一个人的,不要对任何人有任何形式的指望,你只能依靠自己。

8. The essence of life is a century of loneliness; the world is yours alone. Do not have any expectations of anyone in any form; you can only rely on yourself.

9. 别人爱不爱你不重要,甚至你的父母,子女,伴侣,爱不爱你也不重要。你左右不了任何人对你的态度,你只能决定你自己。只要你对别人不指望,不在乎,不计较,就不会受到他人的影响和伤害,就可以不被任何人所消耗,一心一意过好自己的生活。

9. It doesn't matter if others love you or not, even if it's your parents, children, partner, whether they love you or not doesn't matter either. You cannot control anyone's attitude towards you; you can only decide for yourself. As long as you don't expect anything from others, don't care, and don't hold grudges, you won't be influenced or harmed by others, and you won't be consumed by anyone else, allowing you to live your life wholeheartedly and well.

10. 没有期望就没有失望,没有依靠就没有怨恨。任何抱怨的情绪都是弱者的表现,强者从来不会抱怨,因为抱怨改变不了任何事情,只会让自己的内心陷入痛苦之中,无法自拔。

10. Without expectations, there is no disappointment; without reliance, there is no resentment. Any feeling of complaint is a sign of weakness, while the strong never complain, because complaining cannot change anything; it only leads to inner pain that one cannot escape.

11. 牢骚太盛防肠断,风物长宜放眼量。不尤人,停止抱怨,我们才能感受到生活的阳光灿烂和春暖花开。

11. Excessive complaining can harm your health, and a broad perspective is needed to appreciate the beauty of the world. Without fault-finding and ceaseless complaints, we can truly feel the brilliance of the sun and the blooming flowers of spring in life.

12. 有段话,很值得深思:

12. There is a passage that is well worth pondering over:

13. “对牛弹琴,并不是牛笨,而是人蠢,狗仗人势,并不是狗狂,而是主恶,所以,凡事不要只看表面,要看本质。

13. "It's not that the cow is dumb when one talks to it, but rather that the person is foolish. It's not that the dog is fierce when it relies on its owner, but rather that the master is evil. Therefore, one should not only look at the surface but also at the essence of things."

14. 有人揣着私心教你大度,有人站在自己的立场指责你为何不退让,有人一脸慈悲满嘴仁义,背后却谎话连篇落进下石。

14. Some people, with ulterior motives, teach you to be magnanimous; some people, from their own standpoint, blame you for not giving in; some people, with a face full of compassion and a mouth full of righteousness, yet behind their backs, they spread lies and throw stones at you.

15. 不要对任何人抱有精神上的洁癖,这个世界上每个灵魂都是半人半鬼,凑近了,谁都没法看。”

15. Do not hold anyone in spiritual purism, for every soul in this world is half human and half ghost; when you get close, none can be seen as whole.

16. 每个人都是被利益驱动的产物,除了你自己,谁也靠不住。不要和任何人分享喜悦,也不要和任何人倾诉悲伤,人生一世,如鱼饮水,冷暖自知,我们只用在自己的世界里,活出想要的精彩和浪漫。

16. Everyone is a product driven by interests, except for yourself, you can't rely on anyone else. Don't share your joy with anyone, and don't pour out your sorrows to anyone. Life is like a fish drinking water, the warmth and coldness are known to oneself. We should only live out the desired brilliance and romance in our own world.

17. 1每个人都一样,再痛苦再难过,也都会好起来的。

17. 1 Everyone is the same, no matter how painful or sad it is, it will get better in the end.

18. 2人们总以为一个关键时刻的到来会改变一切,从今往后一切都会好,像千禧年,但是不会的。

18. 2 People always think that the arrival of a critical moment will change everything, and from now on everything will be good, like the millennium, but that's not the case.

19. 3见过太多糟糕的事情,反而觉得一切都会好起来的,最坏也不会如此。

19. 3 Having seen too many bad things, one starts to believe that everything will turn out for the better, and even the worst won't be as bad as it seems.

20. 4等熬过去,就是春暖花开的日子,要坚信一切都会好起来的,加油!

20. Endure the fourth level, and it will be the time when spring warms and flowers bloom. Believe that everything will get better, and keep up the good work!

21. 5天晴了,回家了,没有焦虑~经历过风雨,一切都会慢慢好起来。

21. It's been sunny for 5 days, I'm back home, and there's no anxiety. After experiencing the storms, everything will slowly get better.

22. 6每天吃美食,散散步,聊聊天,不要太惬意!这里的气候太宜人,这里的所有都怡人!一切都刚刚好,不想回去了。

22. 6 Enjoy delicious food every day, take leisurely walks, chat and have a good time! The climate here is so pleasant, and everything here is charming! Everything is just perfect, and I don't want to go back.

23. 7别担心,一切都会好的,别害怕,天是不会塌的,别后悔,谁都会做错事,别伤心,生活是美好的。

23. 7 Don't worry, everything will be alright. Don't be afraid, the sky won't fall. Don't regret, everyone makes mistakes. Don't be sad, life is beautiful.

24. 8已过了耳听爱情的年纪,只想找一份喧闹中的安静,看淡一点,再努力一点,对自己好一点,过去的都会过去,一切都会变好的,煎和熬都是变美味的方法,加油也是。

24.8 I've passed the age of listening to love, I just want to find a moment of tranquility amidst the hustle and bustle. Take things lightly, work harder, be kind to yourself. The past will pass, and everything will get better. Both frying and boiling are methods to make things taste delicious, and so is striving harder. Keep going!

25. 9我要对自己说声,对不起,这些年辛苦你了,未来的路,有可能不知道怎么走,但不要放弃自己,因为你有孩子,有父母,所以再苦也要坚持下去,相信自己一切都会变好的。

25. 9 I want to say to myself, "I'm sorry, you've worked so hard these years. The road ahead may be unclear, but don't give up on yourself. You have children and parents, so even if it's tough, you must persevere. Believe in yourself and trust that everything will get better."

26. 10真正能陪你到最后的人,不是你强撑着睡意和他聊天到深夜还不敢告诉他我困了的人,而是你随时和他说我困了就可以放你去睡的人。因为你永远不必担心你们过了今晚就会没有明天。

26. The person who can truly accompany you to the end is not the one you struggle to keep chatting with late into the night, afraid to tell them you're tired. It's the one who, at any moment, you can say you're tired and they'll let you go to sleep. Because you never have to worry that there won't be a tomorrow after tonight.

27. 11熬的路上,别害怕,勇敢地去面对一切,人生都是熬出来的,只要你不怕,一切都会迎刃而解。

27. On the path of endurance, don't be afraid, face everything bravely, life is made through enduring, as long as you are not afraid, everything will be solved smoothly.

28. 12我相信明天会更好,而且一切都会变好,寒冷的冬天也会很快过去,春天也会很快来临。

28. 12 I believe that tomorrow will be better, and everything will turn out well. The cold winter will soon pass, and spring will come quickly as well.

29. 14不是得过且过,而是能量积累;熬,不是自甘堕落,而是蓄势待发;熬,不是消极妥协,而是生命的升华。

29. 14 is not about just getting by, but about energy accumulation; to endure is not about giving in to degeneration, but about gathering strength for action; to endure is not about negative compromise, but about the sublimation of life.

30. 15生活就是如此,悲喜交加,有得有失,有苦有甜,便是人生!不管你遭遇了什么,不管你经历过什么,请相信一切都会过去的!请相信一切都会好起来的!

30. Life is like this, a blend of joy and sorrow, gain and loss, bitterness and sweetness, which is what life is all about! No matter what you encounter, no matter what experiences you've had, believe that everything will pass! Believe that everything will turn out well!

31. 16没有不停止的风,也没有走不完的路。只要你昂首向前,慢慢的你会发现,一起去都会好起来的,而且已经在慢慢变好了不是吗?

31. There is no wind that never stops, nor a road that never ends. As long as you lift your head and move forward, you will slowly find that things will get better together, and they are already gradually improving, aren't they?

32. 17看着这粉圈现状让我突然焦虑~~试着说服自己一切都会变好。真情实感就是容易完蛋啊,可是自己又愿意做那个傻子。但愿自己现在做的以后不会后悔

32. 17 Watching the current situation of this fan circle suddenly makes me anxious~~ Trying to persuade myself that everything will get better. True feelings are easy to end up in ruins, but I'm still willing to be that fool. I hope what I'm doing now won't make me regret it in the future.

33. 18幸福不是拥有更多,而是享受更多。生活不是没有问题,而是感激我们没有问题。

33. 18 Happiness is not about having more, but about enjoying more. Life is not about not having problems, but about being grateful that we don't have problems.

34. 19喜欢你时,一切都刚刚好,只要能遇中见,都不算太晚,面对未知的未来,我会拼尽全力喜欢你、守护你!

34. When I like you, everything is just right, as long as we meet, it's not too late. Facing the unknown future, I will give my all to like you and protect you!

35. 20这就是时间留下的礼物,也是生命给予每一个经受住苦难的人的馈赠!

35. 20 This is the gift left by time, and the tribute life offers to every one who endures hardship!

36. 21给自己一个方向,不求地老天荒,给自己一个信仰,不必一路慌张,心安神定,由弱变强。

36. Give yourself a direction, without seeking eternal time and space, give yourself a belief, without being anxious along the way, have peace of mind and a stable spirit, transform from weak to strong.

37. 22想要成功,既要学狼的野心,又要学它的耐心;既要学鹰的魄力,又要学它的毅力。

37. To succeed, one must learn the ambition of the wolf and its patience; one must also learn the courage of the eagle and its perseverance.

38. 23如果我曾经没有放弃那份热爱该多好,也许那一切就会好起来,又或许一切都不一般,是命运的安排吗?

38. 23 What if I had never given up on that passion? Maybe everything would have turned out better, or perhaps everything would have been different, was it fate's arrangement?

39. 25与其一辈子都去贬低别人,不如去鼓舞别人,让别人的生活变得更好,让某人微笑。

39. It's better to inspire others for a lifetime than to constantly belittle them, to make someone's life better, and to bring a smile to someone's face.

40. 27生命中的许多东西都是可遇不可求,刻意强求得不到的,而不曾被期待的往往火不期而至。

40. 27 Many things in life are either to be encountered or not to be sought, and those that are pursued with determination are often unattainable. The unexpected often arrives without any anticipation.

41. 28不淡漠不热烈不阴沉不闪烁,不衰老不年幼不疯狂不放弃,一切都刚刚好。

41. 28 is neither indifferent nor fervent, neither gloomy nor glittering, neither aged nor young, neither frantic nor giving up. Everything is just right.

42. 30日子总要继续过下去,活着就有希望。哪怕苟且偷生,也要活着。哪有放弃的道理,蝼蚁善且偷生,更何况是堂堂正正的人。

42. The 30th day must continue to pass, and as long as we are alive, there is hope. Even if we have to eke out a living, we must live on. There is no reason to give up. Ants, after all, can still steal a living, and how much more so for a dignified person.

43. 31美好的生活,不是天上掉下来的,而是熬出来的。如果你现在过得很舒服,要么有人替你负重前行,要么你熬过了最苦的日子。

43. A good life is not something that falls from the sky, but something that is endured. If you are living comfortably now, it's either because someone is carrying your burdens for you, or because you have endured the worst days.

44. 33明天爸爸妈妈回家了,感谢最近的陪伴,希望一切都会变好。

44. 33 Tomorrow, Mom and Dad will be back home. Thank you for the company recently, and I hope everything will get better.

45. 36或许有一个不好的开头,终究一切都会变好!

45. 36 may have a bad beginning, but everything will turn out for the better in the end!

46. 37一切都会慢慢好起来的,朋友们。如果没有,一定是时间未到。努力熬过黑暗,才能迎来黎明。

46. 37 Everything will get better slowly, my friends. If not, it must not be time yet. Only by enduring the darkness can we welcome the dawn.

47. 38人生是一盘棋,子已落定就不能反悔。你若能坚持一颗平常心,按本色做人,按主角办事,按特色定位,不以失为忧,不以得为喜,人生就可时时安乐。安守一颗平常心,人生才能笑看风云。

47. Life is like a game of chess, where the pieces have already been set and cannot be changed. If you can maintain a composed mind, live according to your true nature, act as the protagonist in your own life, and position yourself uniquely, not worrying about losses and not being overjoyed by gains, you can enjoy peace and comfort in life at all times. By staying composed, one can laugh at the changing clouds and winds in life.

48. 39最后的最后我还是失去你了,你说总会过去的,可是你却没告诉我我该怎么熬过去,对不起,到最后我也没能让你喜欢我。

48. In the end, I still lost you. You said it would pass, but you never told me how to get through it. Sorry, in the end, I couldn't make you like me either.

49. 40一切都会变好的,如果不会,那就由自己来变好一切。

49. 40 Everything will get better, if not, then it's up to oneself to make things better.

50. 42与坏人交往就会有好的冤家,与聪明人交往就会有聪明的冤家,与混混交往就会有混混的冤家,这个道理很复杂。

50. If you associate with evil people, you will have good enemies; if you associate with clever people, you will have clever enemies; if you associate with ruffians, you will have ruffian enemies. This principle is quite complex.

51. 44生活毁灭人是无声无息的,就象滴水在不经意之间慢慢穿过石头一样。同样,生活成就人也是无声无臭的,只有关注生活的细节和进程,只有成为生活的主人,才能被生活所成就。

51. The destruction of a person by life is silent and invisible, just like the dripping of water that slowly passes through a stone without notice. Similarly, the achievement of a person by life is also unobtrusive; only by paying attention to the details and process of life, and only by becoming the master of life, can one be achieved by life.

52. 45我这里现在出太阳了,都过去了,一切都会过去的,其他地方也会慢慢好起来的,小蜗牛都爬出来了。

52. 45 The sun is out here now; it has all passed, everything will pass, and things will gradually get better elsewhere as well, even the little snails have come out.

53. 46做人,别自以为是,高估自己的能力;做人,也别妄自菲薄,低估自己的实力。

53. Be a person, don't be self-righteous and overestimate your abilities; be a person, also don't undervalue yourself and underestimate your strength.

54. 47一个人最大的破产是自己打垮了自己,病会好起来,一切都会好的。

54. The greatest bankruptcy for a person is to defeat oneself. Illness will heal, and everything will be fine.

55. 48冬天就应该吃甜甜的烤地瓜,和一个一切都刚刚好的他在一起。

55. In winter, you should eat sweet roasted sweet potatoes and be with someone who is just perfect in every way.

56. 50是生命最好的磨石。在我们身边,有一些人,沉得下心,耐得住寂寞,也不肯轻言放弃。

56. 50 is the best grindstone for life. Around us, there are some people who can sink their hearts, endure loneliness, and are not willing to give up easily.

57. 1当额外的工作分配到你头上时,不妨视之为一种机遇。

57. 1 When additional work is assigned to you, why not consider it as an opportunity.

58. 3是生命最好的磨石。在我们身边,有一些人,沉得下心,耐得住寂寞,也不肯轻言放弃。

58. 3 is the best grindstone for life. Around us, there are some people who can settle down, endure solitude, and are not willing to easily give up.

59. 4一切都会变好的,如果不会,那就由自己来变好一切。

59. 4 Everything will be alright, if not, then it's up to oneself to make everything better.

60. 5越来越喜欢慢慢这个词,一分一秒,慢慢走路,赏风景,慢慢做很多事。好像慢慢的,就能活很久,慢慢的,一切都会好起来。

60. 5 am increasingly fond of the word "slowly." One minute, one second, walking slowly, appreciating the scenery, doing many things slowly. It seems that if we live slowly, we can live a long time; if we live slowly, everything will get better.

61. 6人生,是一场马拉松,很多时候需要熬。熬,看似很苦逼、很窘迫,实际上是在充电、是在进取。

61. Life is a marathon for six people, and often requires perseverance. Perseverance, while it may seem very difficult and constrained, is actually about charging up and advancing.

62. 7总有一些遇见,隔着茫茫人海,带着温柔向你奔来。

62. 7 There are always some encounters, crossing the boundless sea of people, that come towards you with tenderness.

63. 8这一年,忙碌着每一天,充实也美好,做了很多没做过的事,自己还挺喜欢,挺上劲,始终相信只要努力,就会有收获,突破了自己,也有了新的认知,一切都刚刚好!明年继续记录生活。

63.8 This year, busy every day, it's both fulfilling and beautiful. I've done many things I haven't done before, and I quite like it, quite motivated. I always believe that as long as you work hard, there will be rewards, I've broken through myself, and I also have new insights. Everything is just right! Next year, let's continue to record our lives.

64. 9无论怎样,一个人不要在任何境遇中把自己的利益建立在牺牲别人的基础上,否则那就是自掘坟墓。人和人之间其乐融融,和睦相处,永远不存在利用与被利用的关系。社会发展至今,固然有许多弊端,但我们只能在自己的能力范围里去化解或诠释,妄想一味左右,那恐怕就很难了。

64. 9 In any case, one should never place one's own interests on the foundation of sacrificing others, otherwise it is like digging one's own grave. People should live in harmony and peace, and there should never be a relationship of exploitation and exploitation. Although there are many drawbacks in social development up to now, we can only resolve or interpret them within the scope of our own abilities. To imagine that we can always control the situation is probably quite difficult.

65. 10只要心里还存着不甘心,那就还不到放下的时候。只要心中有棵向日葵,太阳总会为你升起。

65. As long as there is still a feeling of reluctance in your heart, it's not yet time to let go. As long as there is a sunflower in your heart, the sun will always rise for you.

66. 11人的潜力是无限的,安于享受,就会被生活淘汰,逼自己一把,就会战胜生活,不要跟自己说不行,要跟自己说一定行。

66. The potential of a group of 11 people is limitless. If you are content to enjoy the present, you will be eliminated by life. If you push yourself, you will conquer life. Don't tell yourself "it's not possible," tell yourself "it's definitely possible."

67. 12希望真的有始料不及的运气和突如其来的惊喜,希望一切都在慢慢变好。

67. 12 I really hope there's unexpected luck and sudden surprises, and that everything is gradually getting better.

68. 13一切都会好起来的,人生的路无需苛求。只要你迈步,路就在你的脚下延伸。

68. 13 Everything will be fine, and there is no need to be overly demanding of life's path. As long as you take a step, the road will extend beneath your feet.

69. 14强者,不是从不哭泣,而是含泪奔跑。总有一天,苦难会变作甘露,坚持会得到回报。糟糕的日子熬过去,剩下的就是好运气,熬过去,一切就好了!

69. The strong do not never cry; they run with tears. Someday, hardship will turn into nectar, and perseverance will be rewarded. Endure the bad days, and the remaining days will be lucky. Endure, and everything will be fine!

70. 16人生在世,没有谁能一直陪着谁,没有人可以永远依靠。有些路,总得一个人走完,有些事,总得自己去经历,有些时光,总得独自挺过去。

70. In the span of 16 years of life, no one can accompany another person forever, and no one can rely on someone else indefinitely. Some paths must be walked alone, some experiences must be faced by oneself, and some moments must be endured alone.

71. 17虽然我们的过去已经再也回不去,但是未来还在远处向我们招手,珍惜可以拥有的未来,一切还会好起来!

71. 17 Although our past cannot be returned, the future is still beckoning to us from afar. Cherish the future you can possess, and everything will get better!

72. 18最后的最后我还是失去你了,你说总会过去的,可是你却没告诉我我该怎么熬过去,对不起,到最后我也没能让你喜欢我。

72. In the end, I still lost you. You said it would pass, but you never told me how to get through it. Sorry, in the end, I also couldn't make you like me.

73. 19不要尝试去弄清每件事,因为有时候一些事情不是用来理解的,而是要懂得接受它们。

73. 19 Do not try to understand everything, because sometimes some things are not meant to be understood, but to be accepted.

74. 20如果你的眼睛没有闭起来,天总会亮的!好好的生活,好好的变老!一切都会好起来的,起码你要这样认为,才会慢慢的好起来的!

74. 20 If your eyes are not closed, the sky will always brighten up! Live well, age well! Everything will get better, at least you should believe so, and then it will gradually get better!

75. 21生活毁灭人是无声无息的,就象滴水在不经意之间慢慢穿过石头一样。同样,生活成就人也是无声无臭的,只有关注生活的细节和进程,只有成为生活的主人,才能被生活所成就。

75. The destruction of a person by life is silent and imperceptible, just like drops of water slowly seeping through a stone unnoticed. Similarly, the accomplishment of a person by life is also odorless and silent; only by paying attention to the details and process of life, and only by becoming the master of life, can one be accomplished by life.

76. 22大家一定不要出门!不要出门!不要出门!今年很难,但一切都会好起来的。

76. Please, everyone, do NOT go out! Do NOT go out! Do NOT go out! This year is hard, but everything will be fine.

77. 23看见了越来越多的人得到救援报平安所有的努力都得到了回报一切都会慢慢好起来的。

77. 23 saw an increasing number of people getting rescued and reporting safely. All the efforts have paid off, and everything will gradually get better.

78. 24我这里现在出太阳了,都过去了,一切都会过去的,其他地方也会慢慢好起来的,小蜗牛都爬出来了。

78. 24 The sun is shining here now, and everything is over. Everything will pass, and other places will gradually get better as well, the little snails have all come out.

79. 25世界上最好的安慰并不是告诉对方“一切都会好起来的”,而是苦着脸说“哭个屁,你看,我比你还惨”。

79. 25 The best comfort in the world is not to tell the other person "Everything will be fine," but to frown and say "What's there to cry about, look, I'm worse off than you."

80. 26面对生活层层考验,火来水淹,水来土挡,逢水搭桥,逢山劈路,别把生活过急躁,别把日子过焦虑。

80. Facing the successive tests of life, when fire comes, quench it with water; when water comes, stop it with soil; when encountering water, build a bridge; when encountering mountains, cut a path. Do not live life in a hurry, and do not live your days in anxiety.

81. 27孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说,即使多打几个电话也是很好的。

81. 27 Honor your parents. It's not just about saying it with words; even making a few more phone calls is a good thing.