在纷扰的世界中，寻找内心的宁静，坚守自我，远离烦恼，不迎合他人。

In the tumultuous world, seek inner tranquility, adhere to oneself, distance oneself from troubles, and do not迎合 others.

1. 女人，要学会远离不爱你的人，把你的真心用在对的人身上，去爱一个你爱并且爱你的人，去追寻一份完美的爱情。

1. Women, learn to keep away from those who do not love you, use your sincerity on the right person, to love someone who loves you and is loved by you, and to pursue a perfect love.

2. 真正的内心强大，就是活在自己的世界里，而不是活在别人的眼中和嘴上。人生在世，无非是笑笑别人，然后再让别人笑笑自己。

2. True inner strength lies in living in one's own world, rather than in others' eyes and mouths. In life, it's all about laughing at others first, and then letting others laugh at you.

3. 就比如你们不知道有没有看过月亮与六便士，那里面的主人公查尔斯，刚开始，他是有一个结婚17年的妻子的，而且有儿女，但是后来，他抛弃了他们，去追求他的内心，想要追求的那个梦想，也就是抛弃了他平凡的生活，他当时是一个证券公司的经纪人，生活还算富裕，但是最后让他抛弃他所有的所有的因为他自己内心的那个梦想。

3. For instance, you may or may not have read "The Moon and Sixpence," where the protagonist Charles, initially, has a wife he has been married to for 17 years, and they have children. But later, he abandons them all to pursue his inner desires, the dream he wishes to chase, which is to abandon his ordinary life. At the time, he was a broker at a securities company, living comfortably, but what ultimately led him to abandon everything was his own inner dream.

4. 人最怕的不是冷漠，而是突然的温柔，怕的不是自己吃苦，而是身边的人难过，怕的不是孤独，而是辜负。

4. What people fear most is not indifference, but the sudden display of kindness; not suffering themselves, but seeing those around them in pain; not loneliness, but being let down.

5. 做好自己，懂得拒绝，不抱怨，远离不爱自己的人，便是聪明女人的处世之道和技巧。

5. To do well by oneself, to know how to refuse, to not complain, and to stay away from people who do not love themselves is the way and skill of a wise woman's approach to life.

6. 坐上了证券公司副总裁交椅的琳琳也不例外，“什么场合没经历过？可对我来说，天底下最难说出口的那个字还是‘不’，有时候连我都恨自己过分在意别人的想法，似乎生下来我头顶上就刻了‘傻妞’两字，我倒是蛮欣赏老公的哲学—说自己心里最想的，不理会别人怎么想！听上往是有些不近人情，但你还不得不承认，他的人缘出奇的好。”

6. Linlin, who has sat in the vice president's chair of a securities company, is no exception, "What kind of occasion haven't I experienced? But to me, the hardest word to say is still 'no.' Sometimes, I even hate myself for being too concerned about others' opinions. It seems like since birth, there have been the words 'dumb girl' etched on my head. I quite appreciate my husband's philosophy — to say what's in your heart, regardless of what others think! It sounds a bit unapproachable, but you can't help but admit that he has an unusually good rapport with people."

7. 生命中平淡如水的日子，因为爱而博大，因为感动而温馨，因为信任而厚重。

7. The ordinary days of life, like still water, become vast because of love, warm because of touches of emotion, and profound because of trust.

8. 只要不欠别人的，就没有必要迁就任何人。

8. As long as you don't owe anyone else, there is no need to accommodate anyone.

9. 我们每个人都有自己的故事，有自己的痛苦，对于痛苦，有的人会淡然而过，有的人会困在其中。人生在世，要的只有快乐！一切看淡了，心也就不累了。曾经拥有的不要忘记；已经得到的更加珍惜；属于自己的不要放弃；已经失去的留作回忆。累了记得把心靠岸。

9. Each of us has our own story, our own sorrows, and when it comes to sorrows, some pass them by calmly while others get trapped in them. In life, all we truly seek is happiness! If we let go of everything, our hearts won't feel tired. Don't forget what you once had; cherish even more what you have already gained; never give up what belongs to you; and keep what you have lost as a memory. When you're tired, remember to anchor your heart.

10. 毕淑敏说，拒绝是一种权利，就像生存是一种权利。

10. Bi Shumin said, "Refusal is a right, just as survival is a right."

11. ​如果发出声音是危险的，那就保持沉默；如果自觉无力发光的，那就蜷缩于墙角；但是，不要习惯了黑暗，就为黑暗辩护；可以卑微如尘土，但不可扭曲如蛆虫。”

11. If making a sound is dangerous, then keep silent; if you feel unable to shine, then curl up in the corner of the wall; but do not get accustomed to the darkness and defend it; you may be humble like dust, but never twisted like a maggot."

12. 内心成熟的人会放下对他人的期待。年轻时候，无论是对自己的伴侣还是孩子，他们都会有内心的期待与要求，希望别人按照自己的想法来。而真正内心成熟的人会知道，每个人都是独立的个体，放下期待就是完全接纳自己伴侣和孩子，不刻意追求他们改变，而是发自内向理解与尊重他们。

12. Mature individuals let go of their expectations for others. In their youth, whether it's for their partners or children, they will have inner expectations and demands, hoping others will conform to their ideas. However, truly mature individuals understand that each person is an independent individual. Letting go of expectations means fully accepting their partners and children, not deliberately seeking changes in them, but rather coming from within to understand and respect them.

13. 我们无法躲避每一个平淡的日子，也无法回避平淡日子里流水帐一样的忙碌。每个人都有自己的活法，只要能够发现自我，并且在身体与心灵中保持自我，并最终超越自我，即使无人喝彩也会有所收获。活出平凡真实的自己。人生在世，笑是一种潇洒，哭也是一种潇洒，只要发自肺腑，定会酣畅淋漓。

13. We cannot avoid every monotonous day nor can we evade the busy routine that flows like a ledger in such days. Everyone has their own way of living, as long as one can discover oneself, maintain oneself in both body and spirit, and ultimately transcend oneself, one will have something to gain even if no one cheers. Live out the plain and real self. In life, laughter is a kind of elegance, and crying is also a kind of elegance, as long as it comes from the heart, it will be full and satisfying.

14. 人生在世、总要做点什么吧但我现在什么都不想做怎么办？

14. Life is short, one must do something, right? But what if I don't want to do anything at all right now?

15. 会拒绝的女人，是聪明的女人，她们懂得分寸与进退，懂得如何保护自己的利益，让自己生活得更轻松和快乐。

15. A woman who knows how to say no is a wise woman. She understands the art of giving and taking, knows how to protect her own interests, and makes her life easier and happier.

16. 生活只需要拥有一份恬淡平和的心情，生命中有许多你不想做却不能不做的事，这就是责任；人生在世，无非是让人笑笑，偶尔也笑笑别人。曾经沧海之后，再去看世情，无非是云淡风清，不过是日升日落般的泰然了。

16. Life only requires a calm and peaceful attitude. There are many things in life that you don't want to do but can't avoid, and that is responsibility. In this world, life is just about making others laugh and sometimes laughing at others as well. After experiencing the vastness of the world, when looking back at human affairs, they are nothing but a serene and peaceful scenery, as calm as the rising and setting of the sun.

17. 情绪都带有个人的标签与偏见，所以内心成熟的人会通过他人的情绪观察背后的动机与需求，从而更深入与人交流。比如夫妻之间的抱怨，不成熟的丈夫会认为妻子无理取闹，而如果是内心成熟的丈夫会看到妻子的不满是看到妻子需要更多的爱，所以他们会在行动上与语言上给予妻子更多的关注与爱护，从而消弭之间的矛盾，他们往往更有效地解决生活中的矛盾。

17. Emotions are all tagged with personal labels and biases, so mature individuals observe the motives and needs behind others' emotions, thereby engaging in more in-depth communication. For example, in the case of complaints between couples, an immature husband might think that his wife is being unreasonable, while a mature husband would see his wife's dissatisfaction as a sign that she needs more love. Therefore, they would give her more attention and affection in their actions and words, thereby resolving the conflicts between them. They often more effectively resolve the conflicts in their lives.

18. 人生太过于短暂，我们要尽力取悦自己，不要委屈自己，任何人都不配你委屈自己。

18. Life is too short; we should try our best to please ourselves and not subject ourselves to hardship. No one is worthy enough to make you endure hardship.

19. 习惯于说“YES”的女性，经常给别人面子，以为那是一种对别人的尊重，可是，你有没有意识到，你自己的基本拒绝权利却没有得到别人的尊重……聪明女性应该学会如何说“No”！

19. Women who are accustomed to saying "YES" often give others face, thinking it is a form of respect for others, but have you realized that your basic right to refuse has not been respected by others... Smart women should learn how to say "NO"!

20. 诚然，已经形成心理定式的习惯不是一夜之间就能彻底改变过来的，这需要很大的勇气和信心。想想看，那么多年来，让你“YES”得舒舒服服的人，对“榨缺你毫无怨言的“奉献”已经习以为常，冷不丁一个“NO”字冒出来，不兴奋和愤愤然是肯定会有的。

20. Indeed, habits formed by psychological patterns cannot be completely changed overnight; this requires great courage and confidence. Think about it, for so many years, those who have made you say "YES" comfortably have become accustomed to the "sacrifice" that does not begrudge you anything. Suddenly, a "NO" comes out, and it is definitely inevitable to not feel excited or resentful.

21. 疯子或许不疯，只是不想清醒。傻子或许不傻，只是不想聪明。人生在世，为疯较好。

21. Maybe the crazy ones aren't crazy, they just don't want to be清醒. Maybe the傻 ones aren't傻, they just don't want to be clever. In life, it's better to be crazy.

22. 有时候，你需要的不过是一双可以依靠的臂膀，一个能读懂自己沉默的人。

22. Sometimes, all you need is a pair of arms to lean on, and someone who can understand your silence.

23. 在婚姻里，如果你凡事都听男人的，对男人有求必应，你在男人心中将会毫无地位。

23. In marriage, if you always listen to what the man says and comply with his every request, you will have no status in the man's heart.

24. 我觉得如果你想清楚自己是什么样的人，若不是因为逃避而独处，不如频繁的去感受一下孤独，去经历一段，只有你自己的日子。相信这会给你带来更大的身心愉悦，让你感受到更多的放松，人活一世，为何不用自己最喜欢的方式去生活？

24. I think if you want to be clear about who you are, it's better to experience solitude frequently rather than retreating by yourself, not because of avoidance but to go through a period of time where it's just you. Believe that this will bring you greater mental and physical well-being, and make you feel more relaxed. In a lifetime, why not live in the way that you like the most?

25. 人生在世为什么？答案是吃 ----韩嘉雨《韩嘉雨》

25. Why do we live on this earth? The answer is to eat --- Han Jiayu, "Han Jiayu"

26. 如果你处于一个什么样的境遇，都会有各种各样不如意的事情，以及和自己格格不入的人。如果你什么都计较，牢骚满腹，抱怨不迭，就是把自己泡在了苦水里，永远饱尝着痛苦的滋味。

26. No matter what kind of situation you are in, there will be various unpleasant things and people who are not compatible with you. If you count everything and are full of complaints and complaints, you are basically immersing yourself in a sea of bitterness, forever tasting the bitterness of pain.

27. 像我这样的人，就该学会一个人独处。一个人时，寂寞不会寂寞，孤独不再孤独。人生在世，没有谁是你永远的陪伴；总有一段路，是要你独自前行的。

27. People like me should learn to be alone. When alone, loneliness is no longer lonely, and solitude is no longer lonely. In life, no one is your permanent companion; there is always a journey that you must travel alone.

28. 偶然为取悦别人刻意为之也就罢了，可是一旦形成心理定式，难免就有“邀宠”之嫌，很难改掉。不少女性顾虑重重，总担心自己“不悦人”就会变成孤家寡人—没有朋友，没有家庭，没有正常的生活。这种思维方式多半会后院起火：不顾及自身需求地一味给予和奉献恰恰轻易被他人利用，自己活得太累，一点儿不开心。

28. It's one thing to do things accidentally to please others, but once a psychological pattern is formed, it's hard to shake off the suspicion of seeking favor. It's difficult to change. Many women are full of concerns, always worrying that if they are not pleasing to others, they will become an outcast—without friends, without a family, and without a normal life. This kind of thinking often leads to trouble at home: giving and dedicating oneself without considering one's own needs is easily exploited by others, and one lives too tiredly, with no joy at all.

29. 风雨过后总会有彩虹出现的，人生在世，不计较太多，别想太多，身边的不能信的太多，盼着你好的是亲人，落井下石的是仇人，这就是现实。相反，要感谢你的仇人，因为有他们你才会努力过得更好。加油吧！

29. After the storm, there will always be a rainbow. In life, don't worry too much, and don't overthink. There are too many people around you who can't be trusted. Those who wish you well are your family, and those who would trip you up are your enemies, this is the reality. On the contrary, you should be grateful to your enemies, because it is through them that you strive to live a better life. Keep up the good work!

30. 想做的事就去做吧，别管结果后悔不后悔，至少在你去做的过程中你是开心的不是吗？人生在世只有一次不要让自己留下遗憾。

30. Go ahead and do what you want to do. Don't worry about the outcome or whether you'll regret it later; at least, you'll be happy in the process, won't you? There's only one life to live, and don't let yourself have any regrets.

31. 做自己喜欢的事是自由。喜欢自己做的事是幸福。

31. Doing what one likes is freedom. Enjoying what one does is happiness.

32. 人生在世，其实有许多事情无法言说，有时走的太远，往往忘记了回路；有时候看的太清，往往惹来不必要的烦恼和困惑；有时候想的太多，往往失去了自我。生活，如一面镜子，心中有，便有；心中无，便静；心中空，便悟。学会微笑，学会面对，学会放下，让一切随心，随意，随缘。

32. In life, there are actually many things that cannot be expressed in words. Sometimes, we walk too far and forget the way back; sometimes, we see too clearly and bring unnecessary worries and confusion upon ourselves; sometimes, we think too much and lose ourselves. Life is like a mirror: what is in your heart is reflected; if there is nothing in your heart, it remains calm; if your heart is empty, you will attain enlightenment. Learn to smile, learn to face things, learn to let go, and let everything be as it is, as you wish, and as fate decrees.

33. 人生在世，幼时认为什么都不懂，大学时认为什么都懂，毕业后才知道什么都不懂，中年又认为什么都懂，到晚年才觉悟一切都不懂。林语堂

33. In life, when young, one thinks one knows nothing; in college, one thinks one knows everything; after graduation, one realizes one knows nothing; in middle age, one again thinks one knows everything; and in old age, one finally comes to the realization that one knows nothing. — Lin Yutang

34. 人生在世，无非是把想不通的事想通，把必须要迈的坎迈过，把实在解决不了的问题放下。世态炎凉，无需迎合；人情冷暖，勿去在意。身在万物中，心在万物外。

34. In life, it's all about figuring out the things that don't make sense, overcoming the hurdles that must be crossed, and letting go of the problems that truly can't be solved. The world's changing seasons are cold and indifferent; there's no need to迎合. The coldness and warmth of human emotions, don't bother to care about. While being in the midst of all things, the mind is outside of them all.

35. 日有白昼黑夜，月有阴晴圆缺，天有雨雪雷电，地有风霜水火，物（生物）有阴阳生灭，人有悲欢离合。人生在世要快活，寿命长短在自我。

35. The sun has day and night, the moon has its waxes and wanes, the sky has rain, snow, thunder, and lightning, the earth has wind, frost, water, and fire, objects (living beings) have yin and yang, birth and death, and humans have joy and sorrow, parting and reunion. To live in the world is to be happy, and the length of one's life is in one's own hands.

36. 聪明的女人，要懂得如何去爱，不仅要懂得如何去爱一个男人，更要懂得怎样去爱自己。

36. A wise woman should know how to love, not only how to love a man, but also how to love herself.

37. 不要在一件别扭的事上纠缠太久。人生在世，很多事情，只有放下，才能重新开始。

37. Don't linger too long on an awkward matter. In life, many things can only be started anew when they are let go of.

38. 心情就像衣服，脏了就拿去洗洗，晒晒，阳光自然就会蔓延开来。

38. Mood is like clothes, when they get dirty, just wash and dry them, and the sunshine will naturally spread out.

39. 学着相信自己，了解自己的能力极限，并真诚地表达出来，让身边人了解你的苦衷。万一对方不开心，我们仍有理由和信心持续自己以为正确的生活方式。实在，在骨子深处，我们都知道不可能时时势事取悦所有人，所以说呢，偶然让别人失看一下亦是情有可原的，不必过分在意别人的想法。

39. Learn to believe in yourself, understand the limits of your abilities, and sincerely express them, so that those around you can understand your troubles. If the other person is not happy, we still have the reason and confidence to continue with the lifestyle we believe is right. Frankly, deep down, we all know that it's impossible to please everyone all the time, so it's understandable to occasionally let others see us in a less favorable light, and we shouldn't overthink others' opinions.

40. 你今天做了别人不愿做的事，到明天，你才可以拥有别人不能拥有的东西。

40. Today, you do what others are unwilling to do, and by tomorrow, you can have what others cannot possess.

41. 生活是一块画板，上面能展现哪种色彩和风景，全看你手中的那支笔。

41. Life is a canvas, and the colors and landscapes it can display depend entirely on the pen in your hand.

42. 泰戈尔说，如果你因为错过太阳而哭泣，那么你也将错过星星。

42. Tagore said, "If you weep because you missed the sun, then you will also miss the stars."

43. 人生在世很多事情是我们避无可避的累，是我们难以逃避的痛，所以不要太苛刻自己，表达情绪根本没有什么丢人的，每一个自己都该被接受。是优秀的一面还是懦弱的一面，是难过的心情还是欢愉的情绪，都是并存的。想隐藏的时候隐藏，不想隐藏就释放，没有人规定洒脱才坦荡，我们爱得坦荡，难过也坦荡。

43. Many things in life are burdens that we cannot avoid, pains that we find difficult to escape. Therefore, don't be too harsh on yourself. Expressing emotions is not something to be ashamed of. Every version of yourself deserves to be accepted. Whether it's the good side or the weak side, whether it's a sad mood or a joyful emotion, they coexist. Hide when you want to, and let go when you don't. No one has stipulated that being carefree is the only way to be open. We love openly, and we grieve openly as well.

44. 与其抱怨，不如去思考如何改善自己的生活，只要你不抱怨、很坚强、有阳光，生活肯定会无比美好。

44. Rather than complain, it's better to think about how to improve your own life. As long as you don't complain, are strong, and have a positive outlook, life will definitely be incredibly wonderful.

45. 人生在世，吃穿二字，所以，人们大多逐利而行，追求财富；衣食丰盈，生活安定，自然享受人生，所以大多还想活个大的岁数。但是，富贵与天年，不是所有人都能兼全。不少的人，或者富贵而年夭；或者虽寿而贫穷。

45. In this life, there are only two things to worry about: food and clothing. Therefore, most people pursue wealth and follow the path of profit. When one has plenty of food and clothing and a stable life, they naturally enjoy life, and thus most people also want to live a long life. However, not everyone can have both wealth and longevity. Many people may be wealthy but die young; or they may live a long life but be poor.

46. 我们一生，可以遇见那么多人。不论爱与不爱，都可以在一起度过一生中的，一天，一月，一年。到了该离开的时候，好聚好散。然后，又和下一个人一起度过，又一天，又一月，又一年。无论是谁，挥别时，也请带着珍重。

46. Throughout our lives, we can meet so many people. Whether we love them or not, we can spend every day, every month, every year of our lives together. When it's time to part ways, let's part on good terms. Then, we move on to spend another day, another month, another year with the next person. Whomever we say goodbye to, please also carry the sentiment of cherishing them.

47. 不少女性都碰到过类似的麻烦，为取悦别人委曲责备。这是一种非常希奇的心理，希看别人喜欢自己的强烈欲看远远超过了自己的需要和欲求。一口应下的事情万一做得不够圆满，预期的效果达不到，对方可能怒气冲冲，不管三七二十一，统统怪罪于你。

47. Many women have encountered similar troubles, being guilty and blaming themselves to please others. This is a very strange psychological phenomenon, where the intense desire for others to like oneself far exceeds one's own needs and desires. If one accepts a task and fails to fulfill it perfectly, or if the expected results are not achieved, the other person may become extremely angry and, regardless of the circumstances, lay the blame entirely on you.

48. 人生在世，免不了要遭受苦难 ----周国平《直面苦难》

48. In life, it is inevitable to suffer hardships ---- Zhou Guoping, "Face the Suffering"

49. 比你强的人是不会嘲笑你的，那都是比你弱的人才会干的事！目的是把你变得跟他们一样弱张开大嘴四处嚷嚷只是人的本能，闭上嘴巴用心思考才需要人的智慧。

49. People who are stronger than you will not mock you; that's something only those who are weaker than you would do! The purpose is to make you as weak as them. Opening your mouth widely and shouting all around is just an instinct of humans, while closing your mouth and thinking carefully requires human wisdom.

50. 你是我爱过疼过挣扎过放弃过 还义无反顾想爱的人

50. You are the one I have loved, cherished, struggled with, given up on, and yet I still want to love unconditionally.

51. 爱上一个不爱你的人，就像在机场等一艘船，在错误的地点，哪怕你付出再多的时间和心思，也等不到你想要的结果。

51. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is like waiting for a ship at an airport, in the wrong place. No matter how much time and effort you put in, you will never get the result you desire.

52. 总体而言，成熟的人，无论是在独处还是社交都能有较好的生活体验。他们能够找到自己和他人交往的边界，这让他们有能力关怀其他人，并且不会受到伤害，这样一种平衡的状态是健康而舒适的。

52. Generally speaking, mature individuals can have a good quality of life, whether they are alone or in social settings. They are able to find the boundaries in their interactions with others, which empowers them to care for others without getting hurt themselves. This balanced state is both healthy and comfortable.

53. 自己开心才是重要的事，其他人其他事，都不要想那么多，有那个时间去想那些事，还不如做点让自己高兴的事。

53. The most important thing is to be happy oneself. Don't worry too much about others or other things. If you have that time to think about those things, it's better to do something that makes you happy instead.

54. 幸福的生活，美满的婚姻，不会从天而降，它需要你的努力，也需要一些智慧和技巧。

54. A happy life and a harmonious marriage do not descend from the heavens; they require your efforts, as well as some wisdom and skill.

55. 你要为自己而活，为真正爱你的人而活，这才是最好的生活态度。

55. You should live for yourself and for those who truly love you, and that is the best attitude towards life.

56. 你呢，哑巴吃黄连，惶恐不安，抱歉自责，难过得要命。心理学家曾经做过一项核查，发现从自身的角度考虑而做出某种决定的人，对生活的满足度比那些仅仅为取悦别人而做出决定者高出3倍。心里说“NO”，嘴上却“YES，YES”，对自己的心理健康极为不利。

56. And what about you, you silent sufferer, full of anxiety, sorry and self-reproach, feeling incredibly sad. Psychologists have conducted a study and found that people who make decisions considering their own perspective are three times more satisfied with life than those who make decisions solely to please others. Saying "NO" in your heart but saying "YES, YES" with your mouth is extremely harmful to your mental health.

57. 人生在世,每个人都应该拥有一个梦想，拥有一个实现的目标，拥有一个前进的方向。人生就是一个拥有梦想，追求梦想，实现梦想的过程。大家早安！

57. In life, everyone should have a dream, a goal to achieve, and a direction to move forward. Life itself is a process of having dreams, pursuing dreams, and realizing dreams. Good morning everyone!

58. 梦想是用来实现的吗？我觉得不是。人生在世，谁没有立过几个不知死活的flag呢？别纠结了，其实大多数梦想都不是被实现的、是被忘掉的。但是，有梦想的时候，你会活得比较开心。

58. Are dreams meant to be realized? I think not. In life, who hasn't set a few flagrantly unrealistic goals? Don't worry about it; in fact, most dreams are not realized, but forgotten. However, when you have dreams, you tend to live a happier life.

59. 当然喜欢独处的人不是少数，因为和周围的人接触之后，你会发现，他们所追求的并不是自己所想要的，所以他渐渐的有这种意识去远离人群，然后自己去追求自己所想要的那种生活。

59. Of course, there are not a few people who enjoy solitude, because after interacting with people around them, they find that what they pursue is not what they truly desire. So, they gradually develop the awareness of distancing themselves from the crowd and go after the kind of life they truly want.

60. 我们必须拥有一个无比强大的内心世界，才能在这一个变化莫测的世界上，游刃有余，从容不迫。

60. We must possess an incredibly strong inner world in order to navigate this ever-changing world with ease and composure.

61. 人的一生，岂能尽如人意，但求无愧我心，人生苦短，好不好都不必遗憾，乐不乐都不要失望，过得好是精彩，过不好是经历。人生在世，一辈子不长，只要你尽过心，也就不必遗憾，更不必悔恨。

61. In a person's life, how can everything always turn out as one wishes? But one should at least not feel guilty in one's own heart. Life is short, and it doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, there should be no regrets. Whether one is happy or not, one should not feel disappointed. Living well is wonderful, and not living well is an experience. Life on earth is not long, and as long as you have given your all, there should be no regrets, and certainly no regrets.

62. 余生，不迁就别人，不委屈自己，不抱怨世界，依靠自己的力量，积极豁达的活在这个世界上，把自己活成一棵大树，葳蕤茁壮，生机勃勃，始终以不屈的精神向上生长。

62. In the remaining years of my life, I will not compromise with others, not suffer myself, not complain about the world. Relying on my own strength, I will live actively and broadly in this world, shaping myself into a towering tree that thrives, full of vitality, always growing upwards with an indomitable spirit.

63. 人生的本质就是百年孤独。活到一定的年纪就会发现，生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。哪怕你陷入低谷，面对黑暗，一身泥泞，能救赎自己的人，只有自己。

63. The essence of life is a century of loneliness. As one reaches a certain age, they will realize that life is a solitary river, and only oneself is the ferryman of life. Even when you are at your lowest, facing darkness and covered in mud, the only one who can redeem yourself is yourself.

64. 有些人，有些事，该放手就要放手，该不在乎就不在乎。人生在世，很多事情，只有放下，才能重新开始。我和你的过往所有一切今天终于全部放下。明天从新开始，晚安！

64. Some people, some things, when it's time to let go, you should let go; when it's time not to care, you shouldn't care. In life, many things can only be started anew by letting go. Today, I have finally let go of all the past between us and you. Tomorrow, we start anew. Good night!

65. “谁让你逞强，应下一大堆事儿？”专家反问她。“没办法呀，既然别人开了口，我怎么好意思拒尽呢？”

65. "Who made you so proud, taking on so many things?" the expert asked her. "I couldn't help it, since they asked, how could I dare to refuse?"

66. 你是怎样的人，你自己懂就好了；你过怎样的日子，你自己享受或者承担就好了。苦日子苦过，好日子享受，没必要令所有人都懂得和了解。

66. Who you are, you understand yourself best; how you live your life, you enjoy or bear it yourself. Endure the hard days with hardship, savor the good days, and there's no need for everyone to understand and comprehend.

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68. 爱情不是唯一，不要在不爱你的人面前委曲求全，迷失了自己。

68. Love is not the only thing, do not compromise and lose yourself in front of someone who does not love you.

69. 人生在世，钱都是身外之物，健康才是最重要的，可是没钱怎么看病

69. In life, money is all external things, and health is the most important. But how can you see a doctor without money?

70. 爱是相互的，爱情是让人欢愉的，和一个不爱自己的人在一起，不管是生活，还是婚姻，都会让你痛苦。

70. Love is mutual, romance brings joy, and being with someone who doesn't love themselves will bring you pain, whether it's in life or in marriage.

71. 人生在世，以一颗云水禅心淡然处之，以一份潇洒自在悠然生活，无论是青春年华，还是几度夕阳，只要无损人格和尊严，我们都不要怒目动气。世事纷纷之中，风花雪月漫天舞，纸醉金迷遍地春，只要我们静心守望流年，笑对人生，生命一定会气势如虹。守望流年，就是要恬淡平和的伸展生命，用一种怡然自得的态度上演一个鲜活而又真实的生命流程，展现一种生灭流转的人生风景。

71. In life, with a serene Zen-like heart, let us live carefree and at ease. Whether in the prime of youth or in the twilight of years, as long as it does not harm our character and dignity, we should not let our anger or resentment rise. Amidst the myriad complexities of the world, where the wind, flowers, snow, and moon dance in the sky, and where the intoxication of gold and silver is everywhere, as long as we keep a calm and vigilant watch over the passage of time, and face life with a smile, our life will surely surge with a grandeur like a rainbow. To watch the passage of time is to extend our life in tranquility and harmony, to live out a vivid and authentic life process with an attitude of ease and contentment, and to present a landscape of life with its cycles of birth and death.

72. 不要对任何人抱有任何形式的期待和指望，只有靠自己的肩膀，才能挑起生活的重担，砥砺前行。

72. Do not hold any form of expectation or reliance on anyone; only by relying on one's own shoulders can one bear the heavy burdens of life and forge ahead.

73. 生命很残酷，用悲伤让你了解什么叫幸福，用噪音教会你如何欣赏寂静，用弯路提醒你前方还有坦途。

73. Life is cruel; it uses sorrow to teach you what happiness is, noise to instruct you how to appreciate silence, and detours to remind you that there are still smooth roads ahead.

74. 人生在世走一遭，不干点事情，怎对得起此刻努力的你。

75. 黑夜聚拢着这片天地，地上灯火如星，天上彩云追月。世间有无数的人，和无数的事，正如这天上地下，人们即使穷极一生去追寻，也无法一一看见，一一知道。但人生在世，不停地追寻，追寻云的光彩，灯的摇曳；追寻生的欣喜，死的超脱；追寻自我的恶意，他人的善良。这本身，就是最大的意义。 ----《木槿山庄》

74. In this life, to not accomplish anything is how one can never repay the efforts of the you of this moment. 75. The night gathers this land and sky, with lights on the ground like stars and colorful clouds chasing the moon in the sky. There are countless people and countless things in the world, just as there are both above and below, and even if people spend their entire lives searching, they can't see or know them all. But in life, to keep searching, to pursue the brilliance of the clouds, the flickering of the lights; to seek the joy of living, the transcendence of death; to chase one's own maliciousness, and the kindness of others. This itself is the greatest meaning. ---- "The Mallow Mountain Villa"

76. 但是，尽管所有的人都不理解他，他还是依旧坚持他自己的，也就是他最后能够成为一名著名的画家的原因，因为它能够接受自己的，一个人孤独的生活。

76. However, despite the fact that no one understood him, he still persisted in his own path, which was the reason he eventually became a renowned painter, because it allowed him to accept his own, solitary way of living.

77. 年复一年你看破了多少，日复一日你放下了多少，千方百计你得到了多少，精打细算你失去了多少，求而不得你烦恼了多少，斤斤计较你结怨了多少，贪心不灭你造恶了多少，人生在世你享受了多少，临命终时你带走了多少。

77. Year after year, how much have you seen through? Day after day, how much have you let go? How much have you gained through all your efforts? How much have you lost by meticulous planning? How much trouble have you caused by your pursuit without success? How much ill will have you accumulated by being overly concerned with details? How much evil have you done by not being able to put aside greed? How much have you enjoyed in life? And how much have you taken with you at the end of your life?

78. 人生如戏，每个人演着不同的角色，人生在世一定要扮演好那出戏，绝不要留下遗憾，做最坚强的人，做最有理想的自己！

78. Life is like a play, where each person plays a different role. In this world, one must perform well in this play, never leaving any regrets, and be the strongest person, the most ideal version of oneself!

79. 相遇，心绪如白云飘飘；拥有，心花如雨露纷纷；错过，心灵如流沙肆虐。回首，幽情如蓝静夜清。其实，人生在世，何必那样心累身疲，是小溪就潺潺流淌，是大海就波澜壮阔。并不是人人都是元帅，个个都有将才，随心如愿，做好自己，平淡自如，自由自在，也是一种美好。

79. Meeting, the heart feels like floating white clouds; possessing, the heart blossoms like scattered dew; missing, the soul is like raging sand. Looking back, the melancholy is like a tranquil night under the blue sky. In fact, in this life, why should one be so exhausted in heart and body? A small stream should gently flow, and a great sea should be vast and grand. Not everyone is a marshal, and not everyone has the talent of a general. To follow one's heart, to fulfill one's wishes, to do what one does well, to be simple and natural, free and easy, is also a kind of beauty.

80. 比如邻居因周末外出请你替她照顾女儿，你本来早就安排得满满的，顶不情愿，可是一想到儿童节她带你儿子往游乐园玩得很开心，就委曲自己答应下来。结果，你留给自己的是一个烂摊子，把计划好的事儿弄得一塌糊涂，与其如此，倒不如坦诚相告，想必对方也会谅解的。

80. For example, if a neighbor asks you to look after her daughter because she will be out during the weekend, and you already have a packed schedule and are not willing to do so, but when you think back to Children's Day when she took your son to the amusement park and he had a great time, you end up compromising and agreeing. The result is that you leave yourself a mess, turning the well-planned things into a complete disaster. In such a case, it would be better to be honest and forthright, as I am sure the other party would also understand.

81. 人生在世，不可能一帆风顺，种种失败、无奈都需要我们勇敢地面对、旷达地处理。当挫折、失败来临时，是一味地埋怨生活，从此变得消沉、萎靡不振，还是对生活满怀感恩，跌倒了再爬起来

81. In life, it is impossible to sail smoothly all the time. All sorts of failures and helplessness require us to bravely face them and deal with them with magnanimity. When setbacks and failures come, do we just complain about life, become despondent, and lose our spirit, or do we cherish gratitude for life and get back up when we fall?

82. 实在，你并不想以哄别人兴奋为生。只是，当别人请求你的帮忙时，你总是不由自主地让“yes”脱口而出。为了取悦你的朋友、上司、邻居……你不惜牺牲自己的时间、精力甚至金钱。习惯了向任何人都说“行”的你，怎样才能开口说“不”呢？

82. Frankly, you don't want to make a living by cheering others up. However, when others ask for your help, you always find yourself involuntarily saying "yes." To please your friends, supervisors, neighbors, and so on, you are willing to sacrifice your own time, energy, even money. How can you say "no" to anyone, when you are accustomed to saying "yes" to everyone?