在迷雾重重的现实之外，有一扇通往疯狂与治愈的神秘之门。这里，隐藏着无数心灵奇妙的轨迹，那些被命运捉弄的灵魂，在挣扎与觉醒中，探寻着心灵的救赎之道。

Beyond the shrouded reality lies a mysterious door leading to madness and healing. Here, hidden are countless wonderful trails of the soul, where those souls manipulated by fate struggle and awaken, seeking the path of spiritual redemption.

1. 每一分私下的努力,都会有倍增的回收,在公众面前被表扬出来

1. Every bit of private effort will yield multiplied returns and be publicly praised.

2. 在爱情中，许多星座的女生会妥协和改变自己，双子也不例外，但也只有初恋时才会！

2. In love, many girls from certain zodiac signs will compromise and change themselves, and Gemini girls are no exception, but it only happens in their first love!

3. 喜欢只是一种喜欢而已，不一定要到一个很高的境界才算成功，我喜欢一件的事情，做这件事并且觉得很高兴，这就是成功了。

3. Enjoyment is just enjoyment; it doesn't have to reach a very high level to be considered successful. As long as I like doing something and feel happy about it, that's already success.

4. 不要活在别人的成功和优越感里，那只会使你迷失自我，停留在原地 的最终结果只能是一败涂地。心越宽，幸福与成功就越近。

4. Do not live in the shadow of others' success and superiority, as this will only lead you to lose yourself and stay stuck in place, with the ultimate result being a complete failure. The wider your heart, the closer you will be to happiness and success.

5. 一个想要成功的人是应该一直往前看的，但是我却是一个不停回头望的人，我总以为在最初的地方，有一个最原来的我在那里。

5. A person who wants to succeed should always look forward, but I am a person who keeps looking back. I always think that at the original place, there is the most original me there.

6. 单纯的双子们，灵魂深处是有罪恶感的。到手之后，自己也会不安。只是此时的双子女还不能成熟地意识到自己的年少无知，于是在混乱中结束这段感情，又匆匆开始下一场，被恋爱冲昏头脑的她们总觉得每一次都是认真的，但缺乏负责的反省，所以恋情不能长久。

6. The pure twins, deep down, feel guilty. Even after getting what they want, they feel restless. However, at this stage, the female twins haven't matured enough to realize their own innocence, so they end this relationship in confusion and rush into the next one. Those swept away by love always think each time is serious, but lack the reflection of responsibility, so their relationships cannot last long.

7. 同时，双子也是很喜欢自省的，因为双子都很骄傲，都追求完美，总在不断的成长不断的完善自己，所以，双子的爱人如果对双子哪里不满意了，只要是有利于更好相处的，只要不触及到我们的原则，并且不损害到我们的自我，希望能婉转的告诉双子，双子会听取意见的，也会很乐于改正的。因为有的时候双子是真的不知道自己哪里做的不好，需要别人提醒。而双子愿意为对方多做一些妥协，并不是双子没有个性，只是生活都不容易，所以双子希望爱情能轻松和快乐一点，简单一点，双子的爱人们，请你们不要把我们的宽容和迁就当成是理所当然的，两个人相处还是应该互相迁就的，要懂得珍惜，不要觉得别人对你好是应该的，不要觉得自己个性本就如此，并且固执的不做任何改变。感情是需要双方共同经营的。否则有一天双子突变了态度，希望你们不要后悔当初的任性和不懂珍惜。

7. At the same time, the Gemini is also very fond of self-reflection, because both Geminis are proud and strive for perfection, constantly growing and improving themselves. Therefore, if the loved one of the Gemini is not satisfied with any aspect of them, as long as it is beneficial for better coexistence and does not violate our principles, and does not harm our self-esteem, they hope to gently convey this to the Gemini. The Gemini will listen to the advice and be very willing to make corrections. Sometimes, Geminis really don't know where they have done wrong and need others to remind them. Geminis are willing to make more compromises for their partner, not because they lack personality, but because life is not easy for anyone. Therefore, Geminis hope that love can be more relaxed and joyful, simpler. Geminis, please do not take our tolerance and compromise for granted. Mutual tolerance is necessary in relationships, and one should know how to cherish it. Do not think that others treating you well is理所当然, do not think that your personality is naturally such, and stubbornly refuse to make any changes. Relationships require joint efforts from both parties. Otherwise, if one day the Gemini changes their attitude, do not regret your previous任性 and lack of appreciation.

8. 成功的关键不是努力去拷贝别人的特色方式，而是去学习如何发掘你自己独特的潜质。所以，首先，你必须要认定自己的品种。

8. The key to success is not to try to copy others' unique methods, but to learn how to discover your own unique potential. Therefore, first and foremost, you must identify your own breed.

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10. 第二步骤：设立一年核心目标，三年核心目标，五年、十年、二十年、三十年的核心目标。

10. Second step: Establish core goals for one year, three years, five years, ten years, twenty years, and thirty years.

11. 机遇就像一阵风悄悄经过你身边，你能感觉得到它的存在，你已经抓住了，？你能顺从式的随它吹走，证明你已经很成功了。

11. Opportunities are like a breeze that quietly passes by you, and you can feel its presence. Have you already caught it? If you can submit to its blowing, it proves that you have already been very successful.

12. 鲜为人知的是，其实双子女是很自我的，当她们妥协到一定程度，会理性地明白：两个人在一起最重要的是相容，而不是相爱。

12. What is little known is that Gemini women are actually very self-centered. When they compromise to a certain extent, they will rationally understand that the most important thing between two people is compatibility, not love.

13. 哲理心语我们都渴望成功，但成功总会从我们即将清晰的视野里溜走。也许，它需要我们再坚持一下，关键是我们不能放弃。

13. Philosophical Thoughts We all desire success, but success always slips away from our about-to-be-clear vision. Perhaps, it requires us to persevere a bit more; the key is that we cannot give up.

14. 要抓住双子善变的心，一定要给她足够的安全感。

14. To capture the fickle heart of the Gemini, one must provide her with enough sense of security.

15. 第一个习惯：成功者时常做计划，成功者时常在为未来做规划。

15. The First Habit: Successful people often make plans and are always planning for the future.

16. 成功就是把喜欢的事情重复做，把重复的事情用心做，把用心的事情坚持做。兴趣是最好的老师，只要你发自内心喜欢一件事情，你就可以全力以赴，心甘情愿的去把它做到极致，不在乎眼前是否会产生利润和成效。

16. Success is about repeating the things you enjoy, doing the repetitive things with dedication, and persistently doing the things you are dedicated to. Interest is the best teacher; as long as you truly love a thing from the bottom of your heart, you can give it your all, and be willing to push it to its limit, without caring whether it will generate profits or results in the short term.

17. 很早之前，我们家保姆，我给她1200元，杭州市场价800元。她做得很开心，因为她觉得得到了尊重。而那些高层他们月薪四五万元，即使你给他加一万元丶两万元，他也不会感到什么。但是你对广大员工增加一些，那么士气会大增。

17. Long time ago, our housekeeper, I gave her 1200 yuan, which is 800 yuan in the Hangzhou market. She was very happy because she felt respected. However, those higher-ups earn between 40,000 to 50,000 yuan a month, and even if you give them an extra 10,000 or 20,000 yuan, they wouldn't feel much. But if you increase the salaries of the majority of employees, the morale would greatly improve.

18. 微话人生我成功的秘诀有三个：第一是，决不放弃；第二是，决不，决不放弃；第三是，决不，决不，决不放弃。（丘吉尔）

18. The three secrets to my success in life are: First, never give up; second, never, never give up; third, never, never, never give up. (Winston Churchill)

19. 成功者每一分每一秒都在做最有生产力的事情，其他的事情全部授权出去。

19. Successful people spend every minute and second doing the most productive things, delegating all other tasks.

20. 付出才会杰出;为别人创造价值，别人才愿意和你交往。

20. Only through dedication can one excel; by creating value for others, they are more willing to interact with you.

21. 放心吧，双子女生的确有魅力，但一旦名花有主，却不会四处放电。或许你依然怪她们和异性朋友的距离太近，但你却不知道她私底下为了你拒绝了多少男孩的爱意。只要你细心，总会发现她降落在你身上的目光。她会时而在宴会的间隙，给你一个安心的眼神。是的，她知道你会吃醋，她在心里偷笑，觉得你吃醋的样子真可爱，这种默契的交会，你若没有体验过，只能说明你太粗心。

21. Rest assured, Gemini girls are indeed charming, but once they are taken, they won't be throwing their魅力 around everywhere. Maybe you still complain that they are too close to their male friends, but you don't know how many boys' affection she has rejected for you in private. As long as you pay attention, you will always find her gaze landing on you. She will occasionally give you a reassuring look during the breaks of a party. Yes, she knows you might be jealous, and she secretly chuckles, thinking you look adorable when you are jealous. This kind of默契 encounter, if you have never experienced it, it only proves that you are too careless.

22. 陈安之成功学看完了，有没有学到成功这门技术呢不管怎样，还是希望大家能从其中获得正能量吧!

22. I've finished reading Chen Anzhi's Successology. Have you learned the technique of success from it? Regardless, I still hope that everyone can gain positive energy from it!

23. 成与败的问题，其核心是怎样才能成功。只要目的，而没有目标。不计方式，不计后果的成功，最后会发现，却只是在做功。

23. The issue of success and failure revolves around how to achieve success. There is only a purpose, not a goal. Success without considering methods or consequences ultimately leads to the realization that one is merely working hard.

24. 如果要找求我成功的理由，也许就是这一点。亦即，也许我的才能不足，但是，我有一条单纯而坚强的追求人间正道的指针。

24. If one were to seek the reason for my success, perhaps it lies in this: that even though my talents may be lacking, I possess a simple yet firm compass for pursuing the right path in life.

25. 从一个中游导演到名导演，像打仗一样，不能停下来，要有斗心。像运动员一样，跑了第一，还要跑第一，成功不是靠运气。

25. From a mid-level director to a famous director, it's like fighting a war – one cannot stop and must have the fighting spirit. Just like athletes, once you run first, you have to keep running first. Success does not come from luck.

26. 她们的心就像沙砾，敏感而没有安全感，她害怕她不能一辈子演好你要的样子，最终还是会被你抛弃。在每个双子女生的内心，都渴望一个可以真正包容她任何缺点的男子，而不是用完美演技换来的温柔犒赏。

26. Their hearts are like sand grains, sensitive and without security. She fears that she cannot play the role you want for a lifetime and will eventually be abandoned by you. Deep in the hearts of every Gemini girl, there is a desire for a man who can truly embrace all her flaws, rather than winning his gentle reward with perfect acting skills.

27. 你觉得双子爱说话就没有秘密，那么你又错了，这就是她们的障眼法。

27. You think Gemini loves to talk and thus has no secrets, but you're wrong, that's just their decoy.

28. 只要有梦，我就会不松懈的奋斗下去；只要有点滴进步，我就会更加的努力；只要我永不放弃，成功的希望就会一直陪伴着我。

28. As long as I have dreams, I will never slacken in my struggle; as long as I make the tiniest of progress, I will work even harder; as long as I never give up, the hope of success will always accompany me.

29. 世界上的任何人都无法单枪匹马的获得成功，这些成功的人背后都有许多的人在帮助他，你成功以后一定要记得去感谢他们。

29. No one in the world can achieve success single-handedly. Behind every successful person are many people who have helped them. After you achieve success, you must remember to thank them.

30. 人生舞台的大幕随时都可能拉开，关键是你愿意表演，还是选择躲避。能把在面前行走的机会抓住的人，十有八九都会成功。

30. The curtain of the stage of life may open at any moment, the key is whether you are willing to perform or choose to avoid. The person who can seize the opportunities in front of them is likely to succeed nine times out of ten.

31. 不要反复逼问她不想说的事情，一定要信任她。

31. Do not repeatedly pressure her to talk about things she does not want to discuss; always trust her.

32. 一切从头一开始，这是人生成功的诀窍：成功时从头一开始将使你产生危机感而继续努力；挫折时从头一开始将使你重新奋起。

32. Starting everything from scratch is the secret to success in life: starting over when successful will make you feel a sense of crisis and continue to strive; starting over when faced with setbacks will enable you to rise again.

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34. 成功者就是燃烧自己，照亮别人，善待自己最好的方式就是把自己全部燃烧。成功者边干边完善，有什么条件用什么条件起步。

34. A successful person is one who burns themselves to illuminate others. The best way to be kind to oneself is to burn oneself completely. A successful person improves while working and starts with whatever conditions they have.

35. 这里将揭示一个成熟的双子女必经的成熟过程，所有追求和暗恋双双的人不可错过~！

35. Here, we will reveal the mature process that a mature Gemini must go through, which cannot be missed by all those who pursue and have a secret crush on Gemini!~

36. 有本事是一回事，能否成功是另一回事，得看你选择什么环境，跟哪些人在一起，能否应对周围的冲突，如何赢得足够的支持。

36. Having the ability is one thing, whether one can succeed is another, it depends on the environment you choose, the people you associate with, your ability to handle surrounding conflicts, and how to win sufficient support.

37. 疯话之人生语录少年人最忌轻浮躁妄。老年人最忌暮气颓唐。一则无事呆成，一则无步可进。所以中年人办事，多易成功。

37. A saying from the life of a madman: The youth should avoid light-mindedness, impetuosity, and recklessness. The elderly should avoid melancholy and despondency. One is prone to become idle without anything to do, while the other has no further steps to take. Therefore, middle-aged people are more likely to succeed in their endeavors.

38. 世界上充满了这些人：自私、乐于掳取，所以少数不存私心为别人提供帮助的人，能够大获成功，他们几乎遇不到竞争对手。

38. The world is full of these people: selfish and greedy, so those who are not motivated by self-interest and provide help to others can achieve great success, as they almost never encounter competitors.

39. 成功者,做别人不愿意做的事情,别人不敢做的事情,做不到的事情

39. Successful people do the things that others are unwilling to do, the things that others dare not do, and the things that others cannot do.

40. 她的心是专注的，她静观情海生波，千帆过尽，小小的港湾却只能容纳一人的帆影。那是潘多拉的盒子，祸害、灾难、瘟疫终将消散，只剩下希望。

40. Her heart is focused, she calmly observes the waves in the sea of emotions, with thousands of sails passing by, only a tiny harbor can accommodate the silhouette of a single sail. That is Pandora's box, where misfortune, disaster, and plague will eventually dissipate, leaving only hope.

41. 爱上自己青春容颜的人很多，只有一个人会挚爱着自己的灵魂。爱自己并不完美的性格，爱自己日渐苍老的残躯。

41. Many people fall in love with their youthful appearance, but only one person will deeply cherish their own soul. Love your imperfect personality and love your increasingly aged body.

42. 因为已经了解到对方的态度了，所以双子也会开始变得现实起来。以前的双子很天真，如果爱一个人，心里是很认定的，也是容不下别人的，以前也觉得只要真心的对一个人，会得到好好的对待的。以前还觉得感情应该是简简单单没有伤

42. Because they have already understood the other person's attitude, the twins will also start to become realistic. The previous twins were naive, and if they loved someone, they were very firm in their hearts and could not tolerate others. They also thought that as long as they were sincere to someone, they would be treated well. They also thought that emotions should be simple and without wounds.

43. 无论之前她有什么样的感情经历，你都要清醒地认识到：她选择的人，是你。你已经赢了，不要让你的不信任成为感情新的裂痕，双子会很伤心。花心的罪名在外她无所谓，但如果连你也这么误会她，她会认为你并不了解她，纵使再伤心，也会决然离开。

43. Regardless of her past emotional experiences, you must be清醒ly aware that the person she has chosen is you. You have already won; do not let your distrust become a new rift in your relationship. Geminis will be very hurt. They may not care about the charge of being fickle outside, but if you also misjudge her like that, she will think you don't understand her. Even though she may be very hurt, she will resolutely leave.

44. 成功者永远跟成功者学习，跟世界最尖的人士学习。

44. Successful people always learn from successful people, from the most cutting-edge individuals in the world.

45. 相比在她衣着光鲜、神采奕奕的时候让你惊艳，然后一见钟情，她宁可在自己最狼狈最不堪的时候被你爱上，才会相信你是真的爱她。

45. Rather than being captivated by her when she's dressed up and radiant, and falling in love at first sight, she would rather be loved by you in her most disheveled and least impressive moments, before she believes you truly love her.

46. 假设作为被追求那一方，从双子的角度，我来说说双子此时的心理历程。（谨代表个人观点，如有出入，请不要较真。）

46. Assuming the perspective of the pursued, from the Gemini's point of view, let me describe the psychological journey of the Gemini at this moment. (This is solely my personal opinion, please do not take it too seriously if there are discrepancies.)

47. 双子对待自己真正爱过的人，很难做到彻底一刀两断，除非你做了什么事让双子对你们彻底失望和绝望。如果只是因为个性和相处方面的诸多问题消磨掉了双子的耐性，让双子做出放弃的决定的话，双子是最容易藕断丝连的了。尽管心底里已经认定了你们不适合我们，但是毕竟对你们双子还是有爱的，还是存在某种幻想的（有一天能真正融洽相处的奇迹），所以如果是双子提出分手，也许双子不会再主动找你们了（这一点双子绝对有自信做到，双子的自制力和自控力是极其强势的，在这方面比耐性，绝对没有人能拼得过我们），但是双子不能阻止你们来找我们，如果你们找我们，也许双子还是会用原来的态度和你们相处，大概会让你们产生错觉，大家还有和好的可能。其实不是的，双子只是无法拒绝心中真正的感觉而已。

47. Geminis find it hard to completely cut off from someone they have truly loved, unless you have done something that causes Geminis to completely lose hope and faith in you. If it's just due to many personality and相处 issues that have worn out Geminis' patience, leading them to make the decision to give up, Geminis are the most likely to maintain a tenuous connection. Even though they may have internally determined that you are not suitable for them, Geminis still have love for you and hold onto some illusions (the miracle of truly getting along one day), so if it's Geminis who initiates the breakup, they may not主动 reach out to you again (Geminis are absolutely confident in this, as their self-discipline and self-control are extremely strong, and no one can compete with us in this aspect). However, Geminis cannot prevent you from reaching out to them. If you do reach out, Geminis may still interact with you in the same way as before, which might give you the illusion that there is still a possibility of reconciliation. In reality, it's not the case. Geminis just can't resist their true feelings.

48. 我们讲过一个例子，你现在在跑马拉松，路边有很多牛奶、汽水。你是边喝边跑，喝饱再跑，还是喝一口，只要能跑下去就跑下去？

48. We mentioned an example before: If you are running a marathon and there are many bottles of milk and soda on the roadside, would you drink while running, drink to the point of being full and then run, or take a sip and just keep running as long as you can?

49. 过去不等于未来;没有失败，只有暂时停止成功;采取更大量的行动。

49. The past is not equal to the future; there is no failure, only a temporary halt in success; take more extensive action.

50. 机会，是每个人通向成功的一把金钥匙，只有把握好现在的每一次机会，才能在其中锻炼自己，将自己置身于竞争的行列当中。

50. Opportunity is the golden key to success for everyone. Only by grasping each opportunity in the present can one train oneself and place oneself in the ranks of competition.

51. 对方为什么会将这种沟通当成一种逼迫？双子又会开始不理解对方的想法。然后就是从表面现象深究到问题本质的过程了。最终的结论是，这个问题对对方来说确实难回答，因为对方不肯定双子是不是他要找的人，但是对方对双子是有感觉的，不想现在放弃，所以选择继续观望。如果有一天遇到更合适的人，对方一定会放弃双子的。面对这样的结论，双子会开始自省，自己存在哪些缺点，让别人不肯定自己，那么双子就一定要让自己变得更完善更出色，而这样的想法已经不是为了这个人（当然，还是会有一些是为了想向对方证明自己其实可以变得很出色，也会觉得是因为对方始终不告诉双子符合他想象的人是什么样子的，否则双子有这个自信绝对能成为符合对方想象的人。因为不知道，所以双子觉得还是做自己最好）也算是本身对自我完善的追求了。

51. Why would the other person consider this kind of communication as a form of coercion? The Gemini would then start to not understand the other person's thoughts. This leads to a process of delving from surface phenomena to the essence of the problem. The ultimate conclusion is that this question is indeed difficult for the other person to answer, as they are not sure if the Gemini is the person they are looking for. However, the other person has feelings for the Gemini and does not want to give up now, so they choose to continue observing. If one day they meet someone more suitable, the other person will definitely give up on the Gemini. Faced with this conclusion, the Gemini would begin to introspect, identifying their own shortcomings and why others are uncertain of themselves. The Gemini then must strive to become more perfect and outstanding, which is no longer just for this person (of course, there will still be some who want to prove to the other person that they can be very outstanding, and they may also feel that it is because the other person never tells the Gemini what kind of person they are imagining, otherwise the Gemini would have the confidence to become the person that meets the other person's imagination. Because of the uncertainty, the Gemini feels that being oneself is still the best). This can also be seen as a pursuit of self-improvement inherent in the Gemini.

52. 你若没有“执子之手，与子偕老”的决心，你终将成为双子绚丽人生的一页旧历。

52. If you do not have the determination to "hold your hand and grow old together," you will eventually become an old page in the colorful life of the Gemini.

53. 第一步骤：要明确你的梦想和你理想的生活方式。

Step 53: Clearly define your dreams and the ideal lifestyle you aspire to.

54. 活到一定的年纪就会发现，没有任何一段关系是非常重要的。

54. At a certain age, you'll realize that no relationship is ever that important.

55. 面对激烈的竞争，想成功的男人必须找找新的突破口，独辟蹊径，才能在诸多竞争对手中脱颖而出，找到真正属于自己的世界。

55. In the face of fierce competition, a man who wants to succeed must find new breakthroughs and blaze a new trail, so as to stand out among many competitors and find the truly world that belongs to him.

56. 成功者掌握资讯，每一份资讯他都要立刻获取。

56. Successful people master information, and they immediately acquire every piece of information they come across.

57. 在你成功的时候，并不是所有人看你的眼光都是善意的。他们仅仅是想看你何时出丑而已，并且已经做好了落井下石的准备。

57. When you succeed, not everyone will look at you with a friendly eye. They are just waiting to see when you make a fool of yourself, and they are ready to kick you while you're down.

58. 欢欢喜喜迎新年，万事如意平安年，扬眉吐气顺心年，事业辉煌成功年，招财进宝发财年，合家欢乐幸福年，身体健康万万年。

58. Joyfully welcoming the New Year, a year of all wishes fulfilled and peace, a year of pride and ease, a year of brilliance and success in career, a year of attracting wealth and prosperity, a year of family happiness and fortune, and a year of health and longevity for ever.

59. 成功者不是自己非常优秀，而是在某一个方面很优秀，在自己喜欢的领域，熟悉的领域，擅长的领域很优秀。我们之所以普通，是我们会做很多事情，却无法把任何一件事情做到极致。似乎什么都会做，但什么都做不好。

59. A successful person is not necessarily outstanding in all aspects, but is excellent in one particular area, excelling in the field they are passionate about, in the field they are familiar with, and in the field they are skilled in. It is because we are ordinary that we can do many things but fail to perfect any of them. It seems as if we can do everything, yet we are not good at anything.

60. 一个人的执行力和行动力，决定一个人的成就，要成功就要忍受眼前付出的辛苦和各种与目标无关的诱惑。决心，毅力，勇气。

60. A person's execution and action power determine one's achievements. To succeed, one must endure the hard work in the present and resist various distractions that are unrelated to the goals. Determination, perseverance, and courage.

61. 一个好的东西往往是说不清楚的，说得清楚的往往不是好东西。

61. A good thing is often hard to describe, and what can be easily described is often not a good thing.

62. 被苹果炒鱿鱼，是我人生最好的际遇。从必须成功之重，转变成东山再起之轻。我重获解脱，并得以走进一生中最富创意的阶段。

62. Being fired by Apple was the best turn of events in my life. It shifted the burden from the necessity of success to the lightness of rebirth. I was set free and was able to enter the most creative phase of my life.

63. 所谓人生四大喜事：久旱逢甘露，他乡遇故知，洞房花烛夜，金榜题名时。咱们恭喜XX成功地迈出了人生的重要一步。

63. The so-called four great joys of life: encountering sweet dew after a long drought, meeting an old friend in a foreign land, the wedding night with flowers and candles, and achieving success on the golden list. Congratulations to XX for successfully taking a significant step in life.

64. 幸福语录没有彻骨寒，何来梅花香？人生没有苦难，便会脆弱不堪。因为苦难，成功更显美丽；因为灾患，幸福更是甘甜

64. If there were no bone-chilling cold, how could plum blossoms smell sweet? If there were no hardships in life, one would be too fragile. Because of hardships, success becomes even more beautiful; because of calamities, happiness is all the sweeter.

65. 说永远比做容易，但要去的成功，就必须去做。任何事情你努力去做了，不一定能去的成功，但如果只说不做就永远不会成功。

65. It's easier to say than to do, but in order to achieve success, one must take action. No matter how hard you try, success is not guaranteed, but if you only talk and don't act, you will never succeed.

66. 双子是很有良心的。哈哈，这下她肯定会抱着你浓情蜜意一会了，兄弟，你有福了~

66. The twins are very kind-hearted. Haha, now she will definitely hold you in her arms with deep affection for a while, brother, you're lucky~

67. 你要知道，打倒你的不是挫折，而是你面对挫折时所持的心态，训练自己在每一次不如意中都能发现与挫折等值的成功一面。

67. You must understand that what brings you down is not the setback itself, but the attitude you hold towards setbacks. Train yourself to find an equivalent success in every adversity.

68. 当你无法从一楼蹦到三楼时，不要遗忘走楼梯。要记住无穷的成功一般不是一蹴即至的，有必要学会分解你的政策，逐步实施。

68. When you cannot leap from the first floor to the third floor, do not forget to use the stairs. Remember that infinite success is generally not achieved overnight, and it is necessary to learn to break down your policies and implement them step by step.

69. 科学家正在证明自力更生的迷思并非颠扑不破的真理，主张个人成功是社会的产物，特定文化能培育成功人士，基因影响技能。

69. Scientists are proving that the myth of self-reliance is not an unbreakable truth, advocating that personal success is a product of society, and that specific cultures can nurture successful individuals, with genetics influencing skills.

70. 成功的起始点乃自我分析，成功的秘诀则是自我反剩

70. The starting point of success is self-analysis, and the secret of success is self-reflection.

71. 补充一下，如果双子非常严肃的和你们讨论一个问题时，必定是这个问题在他们看来很重要，所以希望双子的爱人能用同样认真的态度回答，不要给双子模棱两可或顾左右而言他的回答，双子需要肯定的回答，因为双子自己是不肯定的。而如果对方的回答让双子觉得不符合自己的期望，或你们根本没有认真给双子一个答案，那么对不起，从此以后，双子再也不会在你们面前提到这个问题了，也不会再和你们讨论相关的问题。因为你们的不肯定让双子对你们不肯定了。双子的爱人要注意啊！

71. Additionally, if the Gemini takes a very serious approach to discussing a problem with you, it must be because they consider this issue to be very important. Therefore, Gemini's lover should respond with the same level of seriousness, avoiding ambiguous or evasive answers. Gemini needs a definitive response, as they themselves are uncertain. And if the other person's answer does not meet Gemini's expectations or if you haven't given Gemini a serious answer at all, then sorry, from now on, Gemini will never bring up this issue in front of you again, nor will they discuss related issues. Because of your uncertainty, Gemini has become uncertain about you. Gemini's lover should take note!

72. 有一种等待叫，自欺欺人的坐以待毙爱情，成功，奇迹不是无法追求或挽留而是一丝侥幸心理让他们心安理得的坐以待毙。

72. There is a kind of waiting called a deceptive and desperate love, where success and miracles are not unattainable or uncatchable, but rather a sliver of hope allows them to feel justified in sitting and waiting for death.

73. 总结第三阶段，双子是非常缺乏安全感的，所以非常需要爱的人的肯定和认定。告戒爱上双子的男男女女，如果你们心里真的很爱双子，一定要告诉他们，也许他们当时不会说什么，但是其实他们全都听进心里了，会很高兴，会更加的希望能让你们幸福和快乐。并且会非常童心和激情的用我们丰富的想象力去做些能让你们幸福快乐的事。给你们惊喜。而双子要的仅仅也许是爱人的肯定和认定而已。

73. In summary of the third stage, the Gemini is very lacking in security, so they greatly need the affirmation and recognition from the loved ones. I caution all men and women who love Gemini, if you truly love them, make sure to tell them. They may not say anything at the moment, but actually, they listen to everything in their hearts. They will be very happy and will hope even more to make you happy and joyful. They will also very childlike and passionate use our rich imagination to do things that can make you happy and joyful, surprise you. And what Gemini really needs may simply be the affirmation and recognition from their loved one.

74. 总结第一阶段，双子自我调试能力真的很强，即使心里再难过，再喜欢一个人，有时会偷偷关注这个人的一举一动，但是能让人表面一点也看不出来，因为双子真的很骄傲，把自尊看得比什么都重要，纠缠装可怜乞求这样的事，绝对不屑于做，就算难过死心痛死也不会做的。尤其是在对方主动追求和招惹的情况下。同时双子为了不使自己的情绪陷入怪圈，会给自己安排很多活动，以前很多感兴趣，想去却因为懒没有付诸行动的事情，也会极有效率的付诸行动。和朋友的关系也会空前热络。绝对不会呆在家里，一定要找事情分散注意力，有时要感谢双子的好奇心和好的天性，可以拯救双子的情绪，让双子能够依然乐观的生活。

74. Summing up the first phase, the Gemini's self-adjustment ability is truly strong. Even if they feel deeply hurt or strongly attracted to someone, they might sometimes secretly keep an eye on this person's every move, but they are able to hide it from the outside world, because Geminis are very proud, valuing their self-esteem above all else. They would never resort to纠缠 or pretending to be可怜 to beg for attention. Even if they are heartbroken and in pain, they would never do such things. Especially when the other person is actively pursuing them. At the same time, to avoid falling into an emotional whirlpool, Geminis will arrange many activities for themselves, including many things they were once interested in and wanted to do but never followed through due to laziness. They will carry out these tasks with extraordinary efficiency. Their relationships with friends will also become unprecedentedly warm. They would never stay at home, always finding something to distract their attention. Sometimes one has to thank Gemini's curiosity and good nature, which can save their mood and allow them to continue living optimistically.