岁月沉淀，智慧闪耀；精神永存，风华不褪。

Years accumulate, wisdom shines; spirit endures, splendor does not fade.

1. 挫折在所难免，委屈在所难免，伤害在所难免，流言蜚语，明枪暗箭在所难免，但我们不能退缩，不能畏惧，不能迟疑，不能放弃，撸起袖子加油干，硬着头皮往前闯，才能邂逅期待的浪漫风景。

1. Setbacks, grievances, and injuries are inevitable, as well as rumors and slurs, and both open and concealed attacks are bound to happen. However, we cannot retreat, be afraid, hesitate, or give up. We must roll up our sleeves, give it our all, and boldly press forward. Only then can we encounter the anticipated romantic scenery.

2. 等你有了一定的社会阅历，见识了形形色色的人之后，会发现一个事实，人与人之间的关系，归根到底是利益关系。如果你对别人没有利用价值，谁也不会搭理你，不会在你身上浪费任何时间和精力。

2. Once you have gained some social experience and have encountered various types of people, you will discover a fact: the relationships between people are fundamentally based on interests. If you have no value to others, no one will bother with you, and no one will waste any time or energy on you.

3. 活到了一定的年纪，心智变得成熟，情绪变得稳定，不和重要的人计较不重要的事，也不和不重要的人，计较不重要的事。从从容容做好自己，默默的过自己的小日子，心有山海，静而不争。

3. At a certain age, the mind becomes mature and emotions become stable. You don't get worked up over unimportant things with important people, nor do you argue with unimportant people about unimportant matters. Do things calmly and in a relaxed manner, take care of yourself quietly, and live out your simple life. With a heart as vast as the mountains and seas, you remain peaceful and do not compete.

4. 稻盛和夫说：“告诉你一个残忍的真相，你跟别人的关系，并不取决于你对它有多好，而是取决于你的能力强大和手上筹码有多少。

4.稻盛和夫说：“I'll tell you a cruel truth: your relationship with others doesn't depend on how good you are to them, but on how powerful your abilities are and how many chips you have in hand.”

5. 杨绛先生说：“人至中年，最好的状态就是，历经沧桑，不诉沧桑；低调行事，不露锋芒；精神不怠，锐气不减。

5. Mr. Yang Jiang said, "When one reaches middle age, the best state is to have experienced the vicissitudes of life but not complain about them; to act modestly and not show off; and to maintain spiritual vitality and not lose one's sharpness."

6. 水总是往低处走，把自己放在很低的位置，所以江河湖海都往低处聚集，因此成就了自己的汪洋恣肆。一个人如果能够放低自己的姿态，谨言慎行，谦卑处事，既能够躲避别人的明枪暗箭，也容易博得青睐和好感，赢得更多的发展机会。

6. Water always flows towards the low places, placing itself in a very low position, which is why rivers, lakes, and seas all gather in the lowlands, thereby achieving their vast and unrestrained expanse. If a person can lower their own posture, speak and act cautiously, and treat matters with humility, they can not only avoid others' open and hidden attacks but also easily win favor and good will, and secure more opportunities for development.

7. ​现在是一个商业社会，商业的本质是交换，而人和人的关系说到底也是一种交换，如果你身上没有别人想要的价值或可以交换的东西，你注定活在社会底层，甚至成为孤家寡人。”

7. Now we live in a commercial society, and the essence of commerce is exchange. In the end, the relationship between people is also a form of exchange. If you don't possess any value that others desire or any item that can be exchanged, you are doomed to live at the bottom of society, or even become a solitary figure.

8. 我们想要变得更加强大，拥有更加美好的生活，就必须到路遥马急的人世间，全力以赴，一往无前。

8. In order to become stronger and enjoy a better life, we must venture into the world where roads are distant and horses are swift, giving our all and moving forward without hesitation.

9. 我不去想未来是平坦还是泥泞，既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程。我不去想能否赢得爱情，既然钟情于玫瑰，就勇敢地吐露真诚。我不去想身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨，既然目标是地平线，留给世界的只能是背影。

9. I do not ponder whether the future will be smooth or muddy; having chosen the distant path, I only care to trudge through rain and wind. I do not worry about whether I can win love; having fallen for the rose, I dare to express my sincerity. I do not ponder whether cold wind and rain will come from behind; having set my sights on the horizon, the only thing I can leave behind for the world is my silhouette.

10. 相信默默无闻的努力，相信日复一日的坚持，那个向上生长的你，终不会被命运辜负。

10. Believe in the默默 efforts, believe in the persistence day after day, the you who grows upwards will never be disappointed by destiny.

11. 当你身价普通，一筹莫展，就一定要清楚自己的定位，管好自己的嘴，不要夸夸其谈，不要刷存在感，更不要向别人抱怨自己的委屈和不甘。人们不愿意听有道理的话，只愿意听有分量的人说的话。

11. When you are of ordinary value and at a loss, you must be clear about your own position, control your own mouth, do not boast, do not seek to be noticed, and definitely do not complain to others about your grievances and discontent. People are not willing to listen to reasonable words, but only to the words of those with substance.

12. ​依然拥有一颗敢于和岁月周旋的心，以内心的光去照亮生活的路，纵使万水千山，终有抵达之日。”

12. Still holding a heart that dares to compete with the years, using the light within to illuminate the path of life. Even through myriad rivers and mountains, there will always be a day when we arrive.

13. 历经沧桑，不诉沧桑。默默提升自己，沉淀自己的价值，才是最重要的事情。

13. Having experienced the vicissitudes of life, do not complain about them. It is most important to silently improve oneself and accumulate one's own value.

14. 没有谁的人生是容易的。

14. No one's life is easy.

15. 水低成海，人低为王。

15. Water flows low and becomes the sea; a person flows low and becomes a king.

16. 如果你处于什么样的境遇，低调行事永远是为人处事的王牌，因为没有人会喜欢一个高调和张扬的人。如果实力不够，要懂得人微言轻的道理，多听少说，沉默寡言，不引起别人的反感。如果你很厉害，别人都知道你的本事和实力，你表现得谦虚低调，不露锋芒，别人越会欣赏你，信任你，尊重你。

16. No matter what situation you are in, being low-key is always the王牌 in dealing with people, because no one likes a flamboyant and ostentatious person. If you are not powerful enough, you should understand the principle that a person of little power has little influence. Listen more and speak less, be silent and reserved, and don't provoke others' aversion. If you are very capable, and others know about your skills and strength, showing modesty and humility, not showing off, others will appreciate you more, trust you more, and respect you more.