在这个喧嚣的世界里，我们渴望寻找一片宁静的内心天地。修炼心灵，学会不生烦恼、不惧事态、不懈追求的智慧，便是在纷扰中保持本心的秘诀。让我们共同开启一段心灵之旅，探寻那一份内心的平和与力量。

In this noisy world, we yearn to find a tranquil inner realm. Cultivating the mind, learning the wisdom of not being troubled, not fearing situations, and not giving up pursuit, is the secret to maintaining one's true self amidst chaos. Let us embark on a journey of the soul together, seeking that inner peace and strength.

1. 对别人掏心掏肺的下场就是自己打自己巴掌，活该呀！

1. The result of being overly open-hearted with others is to slap yourself in the face, and you deserve it!

2. 情易消，缘易散。有些人，你对他掏心掏肺，也得不来一份真诚，所以，不要高估你和任何人的关系。有些人走着走着就散了，太过天真，只会换来现实的残忍。

2. Emotions are easily fading, and relationships are easily scattered. Some people, even if you pour your heart out to them, you still can't get a dose of sincerity. Therefore, don't overestimate your relationship with anyone. Some people may drift apart as they walk along, and being too naive will only bring the harshness of reality.

3. 我向你保证，我绝对不会离开你，我从来都不知道，原来我也有一天，会心甘情愿被承诺所束缚。

3. I assure you, I will never leave you. I never knew that one day, I would be all too willing to be bound by a promise.

4. 在职业生涯中，如果你将你的同事当做朋友，那你就输了，因为当你对别人掏心掏肺时，也许他正在对你微笑的同时给你最致命的一刀，或是在你不经意之间用刀一点点累积的给你带来最大的创伤。

4. In your career, if you treat your colleagues as friends, you are at a disadvantage, because when you pour your heart out to others, they may be smiling at you while giving you the most deadly stab, or silently accumulating wounds for you without your notice.

5. 我想说，我什么时候对人不真诚，什么时候对你们不好了，为什么要这样说我，说我过分，说我有什么好事藏着掖着不告诉你？凭什么要这样说我。真的不要再对别人掏心掏肺了，高冷点，也少受伤点

5. I want to say, when did I ever not be sincere to people, when did I ever treat you all poorly? Why do you have to say such things about me, say I'm over the top, say I'm holding something good back from you? What gives you the right to say these things about me? I really don't want to pour my heart out to others anymore. Be a bit more aloof, and it will also hurt less.

6. 不要为了男生伤害女生，爱你的男生不会要你做这种龌龊的事。

6. Don't harm girls for the sake of boys; a boy who loves you wouldn't ask you to do such a dirty thing.

7. 生活不会因为你对别人掏心掏肺就换来别人的同等对待。

7. Life will not treat you equally just because you pour your heart out to others.

8. 有些人等之不及，便只能离开;有些东西要之不得，便只能放弃;有些过去关于幸福或伤痛，只能埋于心底;有些冀望关于现在或将来，只能遗忘;有些事无能为力，便只能自我消蚀;有些思念无处可付，说之便不如不说。

8. Some people can't wait to leave; some things can't be obtained, so they must be given up; some past experiences related to happiness or pain can only be buried deep within the heart; some hopes related to the present or future can only be forgotten; some things are beyond one's control, so they can only erode oneself; some yearnings have nowhere to be addressed, and it's better not to speak of them.

9. 让我们成为彼此的太阳，照亮生活中的阴暗。让我们成为彼此的力量，让不济成为过往。生活的现实让实诚黯然神伤，但我相信我们有我们的信仰。

9. Let us be each other's sun, illuminating the dark corners of life. Let us be each other's strength, turning adversity into the past. The reality of life can cast a shadow over honesty, but I believe we have our own beliefs.

10. 不过为了完成工作，我们可以想办法去说服对方，软磨硬泡都好，但是如果对方坚决不同意，没有任何余地的时候，我们也要尊重他的想法，并且友好地结束此次沟通。

10. However, in order to complete the work, we can try to persuade the other party, whether through gentle persuasion or persistent nagging. But if the other party firmly refuses and shows no room for compromise, we should respect their opinions and politely end this communication.

11. 被特别在乎的人忽略，会很难过，而更难过的是你还要装作你不在乎。

11. It's very painful to be ignored by someone who matters a lot, and even more painful is having to pretend that you don't care.

12. 所有的烦恼都是自寻烦恼，所有的痛苦都是自讨苦吃。

12. All troubles are self-inflicted, and all sufferings are self-inflicted.

13. 来世，都不会再见，今生，若有幸碰面，那就好好相处，做不到掏心掏肺，也别伤人心肺，没办法并肩同行，那就微笑目送。

13. In the next life, we will never see each other again. In this life, if we are fortunate enough to meet, then let's get along well. If we can't pour our hearts out, don't also hurt others' hearts. If we can't walk side by side, then just smile and send them off.

14. 永远也不要对别人掏心掏肺，因为别人永远不会把你的心肺放在心上。

14. Never pour your heart out to others, because they will never care about your heart and lungs.

15. 我忘了哪年哪月的哪一日我在哪面墙上刻下一张脸一张微笑着忧伤着凝望我的脸，我们微笑着说我们停留在时光的原处，其实早已被洪流 无声地卷走。

15. I forgot the year, month, and day, and on which wall I carved a face that smiled and gazed at me with a mix of sadness and longing. We smiled and said we had remained in the original place of time, but in reality, we had long been silently swept away by the flood.

16. 永远不要太善解人意，不要把感情看的太重，不要对别人掏心掏肺，刘雨，请你记住，不然你自己会失落，会伤心，但是别人依旧波澜不惊，你为了啥！？自己的心永远最重要～

16. Don't be too understanding, don't take emotions too seriously, and don't pour your heart out to others, Liu Yu, please remember this. Otherwise, you will feel lost and heartbroken, but others will remain undisturbed. For what reason are you doing this!? Your own heart is the most important thing.

17. 想你没有理由，爱你没有理由，在白天你是太阳，在夜晚你是月亮，下雨了你是我的雨伞，天冷了你是我的衣裳。

17. There's no reason to miss you, no reason to love you; in the day you are the sun, at night you are the moon. When it rains, you are my umbrella, and when it's cold, you are my garment.

18. 掏心掏肺对单人，要么得到一生的知己，要么换来一生的教训。

18. To bare one's heart to a single person can either lead to a lifelong friend, or serve as a lifelong lesson.

19. 在遇到你的那一刻我就对你下了一生的赌注，你怎能狠心让我输。

19. The moment I met you, I placed a lifelong bet on you. How can you cruelly let me lose?

20. 泪水只有自己吞咽。无论怎么掏心掏肺对别人也是没用的，不去太在意别人的想法吧，随他去吧。

20. One has to swallow their own tears. No matter how much one opens up their heart to others, it's still useless. Don't overthink others' opinions; just let it go.

21. 原谅我将你的手机号码告诉了一个陌生的人他是一个叫做邱比特的天使，他说要帮我告诉你，我心有你，我只在乎你，还要告诉你，我真的很爱你。

21. Forgive me for giving your phone number to a stranger. He is an angel named Cupid, who said he wanted to help me tell you that I have you in my heart, I only care about you, and I also want to tell you that I really love you.

22. 对别人在好，总会在你背后说闲言闲语。当下的社会，福利待遇为他们争取的在多又有何意义。人心叵测工作中何必掏心掏肺。

22. Doing good to others will always result in idle talk behind your back. In today's society, what is the significance of welfare benefits they fight for? People's hearts are unpredictable; why should one pour out one's heart in one's work?

23. 当你说离开是为了不让对方受到伤害的时候，你已经给对方造成了最大的伤害。

23. When you say that you are leaving to prevent the other person from being hurt, you have already caused the greatest harm to them.

24. 信誓旦旦的想了那么多，计划了那么多，希冀了那么多，不能因为没人陪就不敢去吧。

24. Having thought so much and planned so much, and hoped so much, one cannot dare not to go just because there's no one to accompany them.

25. 我们把过去和从前折叠过来，是不是就可以重来。

25. If we fold the past and the past into the past, can we start over?

26. 有的时候真的很烦自己，烦自己太实在不够圆滑，烦自己对别人掏心掏肺，烦自己太敏感，烦烦烦徒增烦恼！以后能不能改正？别总让人觉得你是个傻子

26. Sometimes I really get tired of myself, tired of being too straightforward and not smooth enough, tired of being too open-hearted with others, tired of being too sensitive. The more I worry, the more烦恼 (troubles) I create! Can I make changes in the future? Don't make people always think you're a fool.

27. 你以为你掏心掏肺对别人，别人也会掏心掏肺对你，省省吧，所以别把自己看那么重要，没有你这个世界根本不会有变化。

27. You think that if you pour your heart out to others, they will do the same for you. Save it, so don't take yourself so seriously; without you, this world would not change at all.

28. 不要笑的太大声会吵醒隔壁的悲伤，不要觉得一切理所应当会发生很多意外，不要轻易对别人掏心掏肺自己会受到伤害，不要觉得自己拥有一切其实啥也没有。拍拍胖嘟嘟傻乎乎的自己。

28. Don't laugh too loudly, as it might wake up the neighboring sadness. Don't think that everything should happen as it is, for there will be many surprises. Don't easily open your heart to others, as you might get hurt. Don't think you possess everything when in reality you have nothing. Give a pat to your chubby, silly self.

29. 难受、何时能有个男人来主动追求我。一直以来都是我主动待人好、掏心掏肺的、连让我开心的都没有、我现在只觉得待人很累。

29. I'm suffering, when will there be a man who will actively pursue me? I have always been the one who takes the initiative to be nice and pour my heart out, and there hasn't been anyone to make me happy. Now, I only feel exhausted in dealing with others.

30. 遇到不想回答的问题，直视对方的眼睛，微笑沉默。

30. When encountering questions you don't want to answer, look directly into the other person's eyes and smile in silence.

31. 我们的事可以自己解决，厌倦了第三者插足的剧情。

31. Our issues can be resolved on our own, tired of the plot where a third party gets involved.

32. 我只想能跟你在一起安安静静地说话，听你掏心掏肺，也跟你袒露一切。那才是最好的生活。

32. I just want to be able to talk to you quietly and listen to you open up your heart, as well as share everything with you. That is the best kind of life.

33. 俗话说得好:谈钱伤感情。在我们现在这个物欲横流的社会中，人与人之间大部分交易都是金钱往来。但是，在生活中，我们要谨记一点:别借钱给亲戚，不论对方有多困难。我们知道，亲戚之间可能会因为是亲戚关系而不在意这些细节，但是当你借钱给你的亲戚时，等到你缺钱的时候，你又不好意思向对方要，虽说欠债还钱天经地义，但是向亲戚催债会让对方觉得你很吝啬，这不仅会影响亲戚关系，还会被人诟病。

33. As the saying goes: talking about money can hurt feelings. In our society today, most transactions between people are money-related. However, in life, we should keep in mind one thing: don't lend money to relatives, no matter how difficult they may be. We know that relatives may not pay attention to these details due to their familial ties, but when you lend money to your relatives, when you yourself are in need of money, you may feel embarrassed to ask them for it back. Although it is only natural to pay back a debt, pressing relatives for repayment can make them feel that you are very stingy. This not only affects the relationship between relatives but can also be criticized by others.

34. 最怕的是满心欢喜的跟你说了心里话，你回复的却是简单的一个字：哦。

34. The worst part is when you excitedly share your innermost thoughts with someone, and their response is just a simple one-word reply: Oh.

35. 最近两年，看明白了很多事，不是你对人好，人就一定会对你好，利益，钱，才是最重要的。不得不学会换种方式和人打交道，不要别人对你一点好，你就掏心掏肺的，学会慢慢的，慢慢的，对别人关闭自己的心，不在敞开。

35. In the past two years, I have realized a lot of things. It's not that if you are good to people, they will necessarily be good to you. Interests and money are the most important. I have had to learn to communicate with people in a different way. Don't let others show you a little kindness and you open up your heart. Learn to close your heart to others gradually, and not to be open anymore.

36. 或许，总有那么一天，望着别人想起你，借着别人忘掉你。

36. Perhaps, there will always be a day when, by looking at others, I think of you, and by means of others, I forget you.

37. 生若死、死亦生，生生死死天有命。前世有缘了今生，来生相守三生幸。人生如盏灯，不求人间永长明。愿照黄泉路，冥乡鬼神惊。一切魔障随云散，月明风清。

37. Life is like death, and death is like life; the cycle of life and death is predetermined by heaven. Having a connection in a past life, this life is lucky. To be together in the next life, three lives of happiness. Life is like a lamp, not seeking eternal brightness in the human world. May it illuminate the path to the afterlife, startling the spirits and gods of the netherworld. All obstacles scatter like clouds, with the moon shining and the wind clear.

38. 孤独，不是做一些事没有人陪伴，而是做一些事没有人理解。

38. Solitude is not about doing things without anyone to accompany you, but about doing things without anyone to understand you.

39. 做了善事未必有好报，吃亏的往往是老实人。但好处是，无愧于心。

39. Doing good deeds does not necessarily bring good rewards, and often the ones who suffer are the honest and decent people. However, the good thing about it is that you can rest assured in your own conscience.

40. 那你就去超越他啊。你不是想改变吗那就去变个彻底啊。我的血液循环早在八百年前就变好了，而且引力会将我紧紧粘着，不会离开你的，你不用担心尽管狂奔吧。

40. Then go ahead and surpass him. If you want to change, then change thoroughly. My blood circulation has been improved since eight hundred years ago, and gravity will tightly cling to me, so I won't leave you. Don't worry, just run as fast as you can.

41. 大概确实再也碰不到一个人，像你对我这样好，可你不知道的是，我现在害怕别人对我掏心掏肺，我也不敢对别人全身心，两个人应该保有一段安全距离，在自己承受范围内，有各自的生活，无需干涉彼此，我每天认真工作，认真吃饭，认真睡觉，有短期愿望，有长期目标，生活稳定而踏实，这给我的安全感就足够了，我要的就是这样。

41. Perhaps it is indeed impossible to meet another person who is as good to me as you are, but what you don't know is that I am now afraid of people revealing their hearts to me, and I am also not daring to give my all to others. The two of us should maintain a safe distance, live within our own limits, have our own lives, and not interfere with each other. I work diligently every day, eat seriously, and sleep seriously. I have short-term wishes and long-term goals, a stable and solid life, which gives me enough security. That's exactly what I want.

42. 我的眼睛深情地注视着你的眼睛，就像大海般蔚蓝，纯净得揉不进一粒小小的细沙。

42. My eyes deeply gaze into yours, like the azure sea, pure and unblemished, where not even a tiny grain of sand can find its way in.

43. 对别人掏心掏肺掏钱包，倒不如给自己的泡面加个鸡腿香肠荷包蛋鸭头豆干牛肉片。

43. It's better to add a chicken leg, sausages, a fried egg, duck head, bean curd strips, and beef slices to your instant noodles than to pour your heart and wallet out for others.

44. 有些人，就真的不适合掏心掏肺的，你觉得你毫无保留了，可对方压力很大呢。

44. Some people are just not suited for baring their souls. You might feel like you've given everything, but the other person is under a lot of pressure.

45. 只要自己放下不该有的欲望，精简自己的生活，不生气，不生事，不生仇，就可以无忧无虑的过着，自由自在的活着。心有山海，静而不争。

45. As long as one lets go of unwarranted desires, simplifies one's life, does not get angry, does not create trouble, and does not harbor resentment, one can live without worries, freely and at ease. With a heart as boundless as the mountains and seas, one remains calm and does not strive for contention.

46. 太怕欠别人，太注重别人对自己的看法，太希望成为一个好人，连带希望身边的人也是这样。吃饭总是请客的那个，吃了别人的用了别人的总想几倍还给别人，别人对自己没有坏心思就能掏心掏肺对别人好，这是不是病。

46. Too afraid to owe others, too concerned about others' opinions of themselves, and too eager to be a good person, hoping that those around them are the same. Always paying for meals, always returning the favor many times over what was borrowed or used, being willing to pour one's heart out and be kind to others as long as they don't have any bad intentions towards oneself — is this a disease?

47. 一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就这么忘记了。

47. One must always walk on unfamiliar paths, see unfamiliar scenery, and listen to unfamiliar songs. Then, at some unforeseen moment, you will find that the things you have been tirelessly trying to forget have truly been forgotten.

48. 该来的都会来，该走的全会走，别抗拒，别挽留，别贪恋，别不舍，别担心。

48. What's meant to happen will happen, and what's meant to leave will leave. Don't resist, don't try to hold on, don't be greedy, don't be reluctant, don't worry.

49. 爱情就像乘法，其中一项为零，其结果永远为零……

49. Love is like multiplication; if one of the factors is zero, the result will always be zero...

50. 愿你作一滴晶亮的水，投射到浩瀚的大海；作一朵鲜美的花，组成百花满园；作一丝闪光的纤维，绣织出鲜红的战旗；作一颗小小的螺丝钉，一辈子坚守自己的岗位……

50. May you be a sparkling drop of water, casting your light upon the boundless sea; a delicious flower, making up a garden full of blooming blossoms; a gleaming fiber, weaving a bright red battle flag; and a tiny screw, steadfast in your post for a lifetime...

51. 有人千方百计要离开自己的家，有的人想回去，有的人连落脚的地方都没有。

51. Some people go to great lengths to leave their own homes, while others want to return, and some don't even have a place to settle.

52. 每次考试的时候，老师说把与考试无关的东西拿到讲台上时，我多想把自己放上去啊、、、

52. Every time the teacher says to put unrelated items on the podium during exams, I so wish I could put myself up there...

53. 或许每个人都要经历掏心掏肺付出，然后换来撕心裂肺的结果，从此以后就会发现没心没肺的好处。

53. Perhaps everyone has to go through the experience of giving one's heart and soul, only to receive a heart-wrenching outcome, after which one will realize the benefits of being indifferent and unemotional.

54. 掏心掏肺的对一个人，有可能会换来一生的知己，也有可能会换来一生的教训。

54. Devoting your heart and soul to someone may possibly earn you a lifelong friend, or it may also bring you a lifelong lesson.

55. 不要害怕改变，尽管你可能会因此失去一些好的东西，但你也可能会得到一些更好的东西。

55. Do not be afraid of change, for although you may lose some good things in the process, you may also gain something even better.

56. 我们最大的错，就是相遇的那一刻、没有擦肩而过。

56. Our biggest mistake is that at the moment of our encounter, we did not just pass by each other.

57. 没有十全十美的东西，没有十全十美的人，关键是清楚到底想要什么。得到想要的，肯定会失去另外一部分。如果什么都想要，只会什么都得不到。

57. There is nothing that is perfect, neither things nor people. The key is to be clear about what you truly want. Receiving what you desire will undoubtedly mean losing some other part. If you want everything, you will end up getting nothing at all.

58. 离别时，留下一串艰难的足迹；相逢时，欢愉一对欣喜的身影没有离别的痛苦，也就没有相逢的欢愉。

58. When parting, leave behind a trail of arduous footsteps; when meeting, joyous are the figures of two happy souls. Without the pain of parting, there would be no joy in meeting.

59. 我们可以设想无数个开始，却只能接受一种结局；我们可以装饰起点，却无法改变终点。终究要以伤感与不舍谢幕。

59. We can imagine countless beginnings, yet we can only accept one ending; we can adorn the starting point, but we cannot alter the endpoint. In the end, we must bow out with sadness and reluctance.

60. 十二点了，已经是新的一天了，可昨天发生的事情让我不知所措，也让我好累啊，以后，我可能会越来越冷漠吧，也不想认识新朋友了，对别人也别太掏心掏肺了，一次错误就注定满盘皆输，工作学习也好，人际交往也罢，让自己再有能力一些，受到的牵制少一些，也让自己能够自强自立自由一些。毛不易的歌这会儿好应景啊，像我这样的人，本该灿烂过一生，可是怎么到头来，还在人海里浮沉现在，我为什么会越来越悲伤，越来越孤独呢？这二十几年，到底自己做了些什么？经历了这些事，也让我开始讨厌自己，也越来越害怕与别人交心。对不起自己，对不起世界。

60. It's twelve o'clock, and it's already a new day, but the things that happened yesterday have left me at a loss and exhausted. In the future, I might become more and more indifferent, and I don't want to make new friends either. Don't be too open-hearted with others either. One mistake means total loss. Whether it's work or study, or social interactions, let myself be more capable, have less restriction, and be more self-reliant and free. Mao Yibing's song is so fitting right now. People like me should have lived a brilliant life, but why at the end, I'm still floating in the sea of people. Why am I getting more and more sad and lonely now? What have I done in these twenty years? Experiencing these things has also made me start to dislike myself and become more afraid of sharing my heart with others. I'm sorry to myself and to the world.

61. 不能相守，就决然相忘，怎样的深爱才有这样的勇气。

61. If we cannot stay together, we will resolutely forget each other. What kind of deep love possesses such courage.

62. 绝大多数人都会经历以下三个阶段：每个阶段以为自己就是世界中心的时候，第二个阶段，无论自己如何努力，都感到无能为力的时候。第三个阶段，终于接受了自己的平凡，并且悦纳平凡的时候。学会和自己和解，不要对命运抱有不切实际的期待和幻想，坦然过好当下的日子，相信一切都是最好的安排。

62. The vast majority of people go through the following three stages: in the first stage, they believe they are the center of the world; in the second stage, no matter how hard they try, they feel helpless; in the third stage, they finally accept their ordinariness and embrace it with joy. Learn to reconcile with oneself, do not hold unrealistic expectations and illusions about fate, live calmly in the present, and believe that everything is the best arrangement.

63. 每当我看天的时候我就不喜欢再说话每当我说话的时候我却不敢再看天。

63. Whenever I look at the sky, I don't feel like talking anymore. And whenever I speak, I dare not look at the sky again.

64. 我天天练习，练习着不想你。可我的心，却总是偷懒。我试着学会，学会像爱上你那样忘掉你。可我还是，学不会。怪我没有天分，没有爱情的天分你才要走。

64. I practice every day, practicing not to think of you. But my heart, it always slacks off. I try to learn, to learn to forget you like I fell in love with you. But still, I can't seem to do it. Blame it on my lack of talent, the lack of a talent for love that's why you had to leave.

65. 不要太高估自己在集体中的力量，因为当你选择离开时，就会发现即使没有你，太阳照常升起！

65. Don't overestimate your strength in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that even without you, the sun still rises every day!

66. 不要总是去挑剔别人，既然你当初决定要爱那样的他，就不要等在一起之后不断去挑剔，在要求别人进步之前，要让自己先进步。

66. Do not always be picky about others. Since you initially decided to love him that way, do not keep finding fault with him after you are together. Before demanding progress from others, you should first make yourself improve.

67. 越是熟的朋友，对话就越粗鲁；越是熟的朋友，行为就越猥琐。

67. The more intimate the friendship, the rougher the conversation; the more intimate the friendship, the more grotesque the behavior.

68. 占卜你有时候是不是觉得自己傻，对别人这么好，掏心掏肺的，到头来那个人对你却是没心没肺。

68. Do you sometimes feel foolish, thinking that you have been so kind and open-hearted to others, only to find that that person is heartless towards you in the end.

69. 如果将来的某一天，你说你要离开我，我不会留你，我知道你有你的理由!如果将来的某一天，你说其实你还爱着我，我会告诉你，其实我还在等你!

69. If some day in the future you say you want to leave me, I will not hold you back, I know you have your reasons! If some day in the future you say that you still love me, I will tell you that I am still waiting for you!

70. 后来才发现我是有多傻，从来都是掏心掏肺对别人好还以为别人也会这么对我，还坚定认为别人应该对我好，事实却不是

70. Later on, I realized just how foolish I've been. I've always given my heart and soul to others, thinking that they would do the same for me, and I've firmly believed that others should treat me well. However, the reality has been different.

71. 亲爱的，你总是说我爱吹牛，那么请听我说：为了你，我可上九天揽月，可下五洋捉鳖!因为：那月是你，那鳖也是你!

71. Darling, you always say I like to boast, so please listen to me: for you, I can reach the sky to pluck the moon, and dive into the five oceans to catch the turtle! Because: that moon is you, and that turtle is also you!

72. 生活坏到一定程度就会好起来，因为它无法更坏。

72. Life will get better once it has reached a certain degree of badness, because it cannot get worse.

73. 有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。

73. Some people are etched into memory forever, even if you forget their voice, their smile, and their face. But the feeling you get whenever you think of them will never change.

74. 编后语：对于生命中每一个这样的人，那是一千一万个感激。被忽略，被以往，死党变得疏远直至陌生，那都是没有办法的，我能把握的，只有我自己。我们总不能老是去指望，在失恋的时候身边也就有个王小贱，生活是如此的不靠谱。

74. Afterword: For every such person in life, it is a million and one thanks. Being ignored, forgotten, the bosom friend becoming distant and then a stranger, all of these are unavoidable. The only thing I can control is myself. We can't always expect to have an XiaoWangJian by our side when we are heartbroken, life is so unreliable.

75. 如果你准备接受一份爱，那么请你一定抬头看一看前面的路，想一想自己是否做好了归于平淡、忍受寂寞的准备；如果你想要放弃一段情，那么请你一定回头看一看来时的路，想一想牵手走过的每一个日子、一起经过的每一次风雨。

75. If you are ready to accept love, please take a moment to look ahead and consider if you are prepared to settle into a peaceful life and endure solitude; if you wish to give up on a relationship, please take a moment to look back at the path you've taken, and reflect on each day you've walked hand in hand, each storm you've weathered together.

76. 其次，尽量别和亲戚合作生意，和亲戚合作生意和给亲戚借钱的性质类似。都是涉及到钱财的问题。不同的是，合作生意会涉及到利益分配问题，稍有不慎，不仅会影响亲戚关系，严重的甚至会变成仇人，最终闹到打官司的地步。我们在新闻上也看到过类似的案例，大部分的结果都是闹得不可开交，最后生意没做成，关系闹掰了。

76. Secondly, it is best to avoid doing business with relatives. The nature of doing business with relatives is similar to lending money to them, as both involve financial matters. The difference lies in the fact that doing business together involves issues of profit distribution. If not handled carefully, it can not only affect the relationship with relatives but can even turn them into enemies, eventually leading to court disputes. We have also seen similar cases in the news, where most of the outcomes have been chaotic, with the business failing and relationships being strained.