在浩瀚的人海中，我们如同迷失的星辰，渴望找到那束指引前行的光芒。信任，是那穿越黑暗的灯塔，照亮人性的深邃与温暖。让我们携手，拥抱这人性的光辉，共同追寻心中的那片星空。

Amid the vast sea of people, we are like lost stars, yearning to find that beam of light that guides us forward. Trust is the lighthouse that pierces through the darkness, illuminating the depth and warmth of human nature. Let us join hands, embrace this radiance of human nature, and together pursue the starry sky within our hearts.

1. 29天涯何处无芳草何必单恋一棵草。就算白发三千丈相伴就在不远方。

1. Wherever there is the world, there is fragrant grass. Why should one love just one grass? Even if there are three thousand feet of white hair, companionship is not far away.

2. 你坚持的在别人看来都是笑话，感觉心都累了，我可不可以不在乎那么多，有那么一瞬间想放手，快坚持不了了，窒息的感觉。

2. What you persistently do seems like a joke to others, and it feels like my heart is exhausted. Can I not care about so much? There's a moment when I want to let go, feeling like I can't endure it anymore, as if I'm being suffocated.

3. 刚开始对别人，听他的话，相信他的行为；而现在，不仅要听他所说的话，还要观察他的行为。

3. Initially, towards others, listen to their words and believe in their actions; now, not only listen to what they say, but also observe their behavior.

4. 33受伤了别不断地跟别人唠叨诉苦，他们不喜欢听，每个人都有自己的烦心事。没钱了自己赚去，别老是告诉别人，否则他们会远离你。失败了想想怎么重新开始，别竭心尽力跟别人证明你有多倒霉，否则他们只会觉得你懦弱。别矫情，直面人生的惨淡！努力使自己活得更好是你一个人的事情，没有人可以帮你！

4. 33 If you get injured, don't keep complaining to others all the time; they don't like to listen, and everyone has their own troubles. If you're short of money, make your own way; don't keep telling others, or they will distance themselves from you. If you fail, think about how to restart; don't try so hard to prove to others how unlucky you are, or they will only think you're weak. Don't be melodramatic, face the grim realities of life! Striving to live a better life is your own business, no one can help you!

5. 演尽了所有的悲欢离合后，才发现我只是个木偶。

5. After experiencing all the joys and sorrows, separations and reunions, I finally realize that I am just a puppet.

6. 一个人就算再好，但不愿陪你走下去，那他就是过客。

6. Even if a person is very good, if he is not willing to walk with you, he is just a passerby.

7. 不要过分在意一些人，过分在乎一些事，顺其自然，以最佳的心态面对。每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分，再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，不要埋怨自己。

7. Do not overfocus on some people or things; go with the flow and face them with the best mindset. Every person has certain parts of their character that others may not accept, even the most wonderful ones. Therefore, do not be too strict with others, and do not blame yourself.

8. 抓泥巴抛向别人，自己的手会先被弄脏，而赠人玫瑰，自己能先闻到花香。生活中，很多时候都需要我们换个角度看事物，给别人制造麻烦也会给自己设置障碍，而帮助他人的过程正是成就自己的过程。

8. Throwing mud at others will first dirty your own hands, while giving someone a rose, you can first smell the fragrance of the flowers. In life, many times, we need to view things from a different perspective. Causing trouble for others also sets obstacles for yourself, and the process of helping others is exactly the process of achieving oneself.

9. 27狗不能喂得太饱，人不能对他太好！忍一时得寸进尺，退一步变本加厉。玩笑别太过，要不都是祸。

9. Don't overfeed the dog, and don't be too nice to him! Forbearing for a while leads to being pushed further, and taking a step back results in an even greater overstep. Don't take jokes too far, or it will all turn into trouble.

10. 7最后只留下了忧伤，难过，经历了这一场刻骨铭心的痴恋，心真的累了，流淌在时光的海岸，不能停歇，心，真的痛了，转换在四季，却不能治愈，疲惫不堪的灵魂，静静的游走在时光的深处，彷徨着，伤感着，没有目的，没有方向。

10.7 In the end, only sadness and sorrow remained. After experiencing this heart-wrenching obsession, my heart truly feels exhausted. Floating on the shore of time, it cannot stop, and my heart truly aches. It transitions through the seasons, yet it cannot be healed. A weary soul quietly wanders in the depths of time, lost and sorrowful, without purpose and without direction.

11. 人心现实，俄太过包容，才会让你以为俄好欺负。

11. The reality of human nature is that Russia is too accommodating, which is why you think Russia is easy to bully.

12. 24走过的街角，已经失去了往日的繁华，现实的无助，只能让过往的点滴变成回忆，用回忆麻痹自己，让生活左右自己，任凭人生风雨的摆动，而我，却连抵抗的欲望都没有。

12. The street corners passed by have lost their past prosperity. The helplessness of reality can only turn the fleeting moments into memories. With memories, I numb myself, allowing life to dictate my actions, letting the ups and downs of life sway freely, and yet, I don't even have the desire to resist.

13. 你太善良，就会被人坑害;你太老实，就会被人欺负;你太真诚，就会被人利用;你太厚道，就会被人糊弄。这一切，不是你的错，而是人心太险恶;这一切，不是你的傻，而是人心太难测。

13. You are too kind and you will be taken advantage of; you are too honest and you will be bullied; you are too sincere and you will be exploited; you are too honest and you will be deceived. All this is not your fault, but because people's hearts are too cunning; all this is not your foolishness, but because people's hearts are too difficult to read.

14. 38腕上是精致的一款ck简约全钢腕表，显赫的家境，不俗的品味，淋漓尽显。

14. On the wrist, there's a delicate CK simple stainless steel watch, which subtly reveals a distinguished background and an exquisite taste.

15. 19成熟在于你看透了多少东西，而不是你的年龄又增加几岁。

15. Maturity lies in how much you have seen through, not in how many years you have added to your age.

16. 42爱不是恨 可我偏偏对你又爱又恨。

16. Love is not hate, but I strangely both love and hate you.

17. 40我才发现，原来感性的人会多想很多很多。就如我给你发信息，你会偶尔回我，然后干脆不回，渐行渐远。我们都明白，彼此都不会是最后谁的谁。我以为我在你身边多待几秒，你会多想我一点。我以为我拼命地和你说话，你会感觉到我多爱你。我以为我做的，你会明白。但是，我错了。

17. It wasn't until I was 40 that I realized how much more sensitive people can think. Just like when I send you messages, you occasionally reply and then just stop, drifting apart. We both understand that we won't be the last ones for each other. I thought that if I stayed by your side for a few more seconds, you would think of me a bit more. I thought that if I talked to you with all my strength, you would feel how much I love you. I thought that what I did, you would understand. But, I was wrong.

18. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容；我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。

18. We had been so eager for the upheavals of fate, only to find in the end that the most enchanting scenery in life is the tranquility and composure of the heart; we had been so longing for the recognition of the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others.

19. 时间没有让我忘了你，反而让我习惯了你，愿有时光可回首，哪怕无力陪你到白头。

19. Time hasn't made me forget you; instead, it has made me accustomed to you. May there be time to look back, even if I have no strength to accompany you to old age.

20. 最近工作的很不开心，人累心累，不单是每天忙的累，而且心情也郁闷。干的再多也是应该的，人觉得乏了，疲了，心冷了。

20. I've been feeling very unhappy with my recent work, both physically and emotionally exhausted. It's not just that I'm busy every day, but my mood is also low. No matter how much I do, it's what's expected. When people feel tired, weary, and their hearts grow cold.

21. 人是环境的产物，我们的思维，想法，和价值观，都会随着环境的改变而发生变化。在这个阶段，他是一个好人，在下一个阶段，他可能是一个恶魔。对你他可能是一个君子，对别人他可能是一个混蛋。永远不要相信一个人，因为没有任何人的价值观是永恒稳定的。我们要相信人性，人性就是建立在利益基础上的关系共建，是一切冲突和矛盾的根源。

21. Humans are products of their environment, and our thoughts, ideas, and values all change with the changes in the environment. At this stage, he may be a good person, but in the next stage, he might turn into a devil. To you, he may be a gentleman, but to others, he may be a scoundrel. Never believe in a person, because no one's values are eternal and stable. We should believe in human nature, which is based on the co-construction of relationships on the basis of interests and is the root of all conflicts and contradictions.

22. 4爱情这件事，勉强不了，住不进你心里的人就放他走，你走不进的世界提前先掉头。

22. 4 Love is something that cannot be forced. Let go of those who cannot live in your heart, and turn back before you get lost in a world you cannot enter.

23. 你对一个人好10次坏1次，结论你是坏的;你对一个人坏10次好1次，TA就会觉得你是好人。 人心不足蛇吞象， 这就是人性。 时间是个好东西，验证了人心，见证了人性，懂得了真的，明白了假的，没有过不去的经历，只有走不出的自己! 我总是担心身边会失去谁，可我却忘了问，又有谁会害怕失去我

23. If you are good to someone 10 times and bad 1 time, the conclusion is that you are bad; if you are bad to someone 10 times and good 1 time, they will think you are a good person. People's desires are insatiable, and this is human nature. Time is a good thing, it verifies people's hearts, witnesses human nature, understands the true, and understands the false. There are no experiences that can't be overcome, only a self that can't be escaped! I always worry about losing someone around me, but I forgot to ask, who would be afraid of losing me?

24. 世上有两样东西不可直视，一是太阳，二是人心。

24. There are two things in the world that should not be directly looked upon: the sun and the human heart.

25. 永远不要相信人，要相信人性。

25. Never trust people, trust human nature.

26. 真诚并不意味着要指责别人的缺点，但意味着一定不恭维别人的缺点。

26. Sincerity does not mean to point out others' flaws, but it does mean to never flatter others' shortcomings.

27. 你的态度决定我的态度，你若对我沉默，对不起，我只好对你冷漠。

27. Your attitude determines mine. If you remain silent to me, I apologize, but I can only be cold to you.

28. 6也许我不是个很好的演员，总是掩藏不住自己的情绪，轻易的看透我的情绪。

28. 6 Perhaps I'm not a very good actor, as I can never conceal my emotions and my feelings are easily seen through.

29. 50人生瞬息万变让人难以捉摸，也许在你光辉耀眼之时，生活却给你突如其来的打击；也许在你沾沾自喜时，命运给你泼一盆冷水；也许在你举足无措时，却生机忽现，柳暗花明。这便是人生，人生的绚丽就在于此。它充满变化，它丰富多彩，用语言难以形容，用肢体难以表达。

29. The life of 50 years is ever-changing and elusive. Perhaps when you are shining and dazzling, life may give you an unexpected blow; perhaps when you are proud and self-satisfied, destiny may pour a bucket of cold water on you; perhaps when you are at a loss, new vitality may suddenly appear, bringing a turn of fortune. This is life, and its brilliance lies in this very aspect. It is full of changes, rich and colorful,难以用言语形容，难以用肢体表达.

30. 41你是你的敌人，只有你才能打倒你；你是你的上帝，只有你才能拯救你。

30. 41 You are your own enemy, and only you can defeat yourself; you are your own God, and only you can save yourself.

31. 陈世美是一个落魄书生，秦香莲是他的糠糟之妻，两人相濡以沫，感情温笃。后来，陈世美进京赶考，高中状元，皇帝有意让他做驸马，他就隐瞒了已经拥有秦香莲的事实，假扮单身和公主未婚。秦香莲到京城告状，他竟然心怀蛇蝎谋杀妻子。

31. Chen Shimei was a down-on-his-luck scholar, and Qin Xianglian was his destitute wife. They supported each other through thick and thin, with a warm and steadfast relationship. Later, when Chen Shimei went to the capital to take the imperial examination, he passed with flying colors and the emperor intended to make him a royal son-in-law. He concealed the fact that he already had Qin Xianglian and pretended to be single and engaged to the princess. When Qin Xianglian went to the capital to file a lawsuit, he even harbored the thought of killing his wife, as cunning and treacherous as a serpent.

32. 8人生三大真理：暴力真的可以解决一切，帅真的可以当饭吃，有钱真的可以为所欲为。

32. The three great truths of life: violence can really solve everything, looking handsome can really be a meal ticket, and having money can really do whatever one wants.

33. 当初我借钱给你，不是因为我钱多，而是因为在你遇难时想拉你一把，我吃饭抢着买单，不是因为我钱多，而是把友情看的比钱更重要!我帮你，不是因为欠你什么，而是把你当朋友!真诚的人，走着走着就走进了心里，虚伪的人，走着走着就淡出了视线。

33. When I borrowed money for you at first, it wasn't because I had a lot of money, but because I wanted to lend you a hand when you were in trouble. I rushed to pay the bill when we ate together, not because I had a lot of money, but because I value friendship more than money! I help you not because I owe you anything, but because I consider you a friend! Sincere people will eventually find their way into your heart, while insincere people will fade from your sight.

34. 在饥饿的时候逛超市，在失落的时候找爱情，其实都找不到自己真正需要的东西。在落魄的时候去求人，只会让自己丢人，在发达的时候回老家，只会让别人消耗和嫉妒。

34. Strolling through the supermarket when hungry, or seeking love when feeling lost, actually neither can find the things you truly need. Seeking help when in a rut will only make you feel ashamed, and returning to your hometown when successful will only make others envious and consume their energy.

35. 当你连尝试的勇气都没有，你就不配拥有幸福，也永远不会得到幸福，伤过，痛过，才知道有多深刻。

35. When you don't even have the courage to try, you are not worthy of happiness, and you will never attain happiness. Only after being hurt and suffering can you understand how profound it is.

36. ​不贪财的人不一定不好色，不好色的人不一定不恋权，不恋权的人不一定不争名，贪财好色之人可能重情重义，恶贯满盈之人可能一诺千金。”

36. One who is not greedy for wealth may not necessarily be averse to desire, and one who is averse to desire may not necessarily be disinterested in power. One who is disinterested in power may not necessarily be indifferent to fame. Those who are greedy for wealth and desire may value emotions and principles greatly, while those who are full of malice may keep their promises as valuable as a thousand pieces of gold.

37. 46假装对别人很宽容，其实就是自己无能，因为不敢伤害别人，就懦弱而苍白地解释成原谅

37. Pretending to be very lenient towards others is actually a sign of one's own incompetence, because being afraid to harm others, they weakly and palely explain it away as forgiveness.

38. 4日久不必须生情，但必定见人心。别为，不该为的人。伤了，不该伤的心。

38. Long periods of time can lead to affection, but they are bound to reveal the true nature of people. Don't be involved with people you shouldn't be, and don't hurt hearts that you shouldn't hurt.

39. 30人生的修行，就是用智慧看透世间黑白，并用一颗善良的心成就一切美好，用一颗宽容的心，坦然地接纳无法改变的不好。

39. The cultivation of life's journey is to use wisdom to see through the black and white of the world, and to achieve all that is beautiful with a kind heart, and to calmly accept the unchangeable unpleasantness with a宽容 heart.

40. 36时间真的是好东西，可以看透人心，知道谁真谁假，有时候自己太过于天真也是遭罪呀！

40. 36 Time is truly a good thing, it can see through people's hearts, know who is real and who is false. Sometimes, being too innocent also brings suffering!

41. 突然有点想放手不论是感情还是事业心太累了根本没有人能够读懂我或许能者多劳是对我最大的安慰了。

41. Suddenly, I feel like letting go. Whether it's about emotions or career, I'm too exhausted for anyone to truly understand me. Maybe "the more able, the more labor" is the greatest comfort I can have.

42. 人性就是自私，人性都是围绕着自身的利益发展对外关系。环境发生了变化，利益诉求发生了变化，与之有关的关系也就会发生变化。

42. Human nature is inherently selfish, and human relationships are developed around self-interest. When the environment changes and the demands for benefits change, the related relationships will also change accordingly.

43. 9岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。世间有许多完美的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

43. At the age of nine, time is like a river, the left bank is the unforgettable memories, the right bank is the youth years worth grasping, and the swiftly flowing in the middle is the subtle sadness of youth. There are many perfect things in the world, but not many truly belong to oneself. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, indifferent to honor and disgrace, observing the clouds roll up and unfold in the sky, with no intention of coming or going. In this entangled secular world, being able to learn to treat everything around with a calm heart is also a kind of realm.

44. 其实我一直在等着你的一个回头，只是你连最后的这个机会都不肯给我。

44. In fact, I have been waiting for a turn back from you all the time, but you wouldn't even give me this last chance.

45. 人总是这样，对亲近的人太苛求，对陌生人显得过于宽容。

45. People always tend to be too demanding with those close to them and overly lenient with strangers.

46. 心总是在最痛的时候复苏，爱总是在最深的时候落幕。

46. The heart always revives at the most painful moment, and love always ends at the deepest point.

47. 48成熟的人不需要辩解，仅仅一个微笑就足够了。一辈子，要的就是随性。为人不过六个字：看懂，看透，看破。

47. 48. Maturity does not require justification; a single smile is enough. A lifetime is about being spontaneous. In terms of being a person, it can be summed up in six words: understand, see through, and break through.

48. 没有人可以信任，人心隔肚皮，你永远不知道他们心里真正的想法。

48. No one can be trusted; people's hearts are hidden behind their stomachs, and you can never know what they truly think in their hearts.