在纷扰尘世中，修行心灵之道，犹如攀登高峰。放下哀愁，保持真诚，不急不躁，方能窥见真我。

In the bustling world, practicing the path of the spiritual soul is like climbing a peak. Let go of sorrow, maintain sincerity, and be neither hurried nor restless, then you can glimpse the true self.

1. 所谓“难得糊涂”，是一种貌似糊涂，实则内心清明的大智若愚。难得糊涂的人，看重的不是结果，而是过程，看得透、想得开、放得下，将智慧埋藏于心中。面对纷繁复杂的世事，简单做人，简单做事，处乱不惊，遇烦不忧，以不变应万变。难得糊涂，随遇而安，才能拥有一片心灵的清静之地，看透不要说透。

1. The so-called "rarely confused" is a wise fool who appears to be confused but is actually clear in mind. People who are rarely confused do not value the result but the process; they see through, let go, and hide their wisdom in their hearts. Facing the complicated and chaotic world, they lead simple lives and do simple things, remain calm in chaos, and are not worried in trouble, responding to changes with steadfastness. Only by being rarely confused and adapting to circumstances can one possess a tranquil place in the heart, seeing through but not saying through.

2. 洞察世间一切人情冷暖，选择最天真的方式去过一辈子，知世故而不世故，才能永葆最纯粹的自己。知世故而不世故，趟年岁风霜，不惧热泪盈眶。少年不惧岁月长，歌声温柔，内心明亮。

2. Perceiving the cold and warmth of human emotions in the world, choose the most innocent way to live your entire life. To know the world but not be worldly, you can forever maintain the most pure version of yourself. To know the world but not be worldly, you can traverse the years and frost, not afraid of tears welling up in your eyes. Youth does not fear the long journey of time, with a gentle song and a bright heart within.

3. 人无完人，金无足赤。水至清则无鱼，凡事留有余地，别太执着得与失。懂得随缘，知足常乐，难得糊涂方为人生智慧。

3. No one is perfect, and no gold is pure. When water is too clear, there are no fish in it. In all things, leave room for the unexpected, and don't be too obsessed with gains and losses. Understand the concept of going with the flow, be content with what you have, and recognize that sometimes being confused is the wisdom of life.

4. 除了生死，人生没有一件是大事。你们不必着急忙慌的去做一件事情，更不要行色匆匆地对待自己的生活，只有静下心来，不疾不徐，从容不迫，不打乱自己的节奏，才能享受到岁月的静好，以及浪漫的诗意。

4. Apart from life and death, there is nothing in life that is a big deal. You do not need to rush into doing things, and even less so should you treat your life in a hurried manner. Only by calming down, not being in a hurry, being composed, and not disrupting your own rhythm can you enjoy the tranquility of the years and the romantic poetry of life.

5. 曾学过直言不讳，也学会了闭嘴，学过认真做事，也会若无其事。

5. I have learned to speak frankly, and I have also learned to shut up. I have learned to be serious about my work, and I can also act as if nothing happened.

6. 真正的成熟，不是变得圆滑，不是越发的世故，而是养成一颗柔软且宽厚的心，知世故而不世故，历圆滑而留天真。

6. True maturity is not about becoming smooth and polished, not about becoming more cunning, but about nurturing a soft and generous heart. It's about being aware of the world's cunning without becoming cunning oneself, and experiencing sophistication while retaining innocence.

7. 做一个花言巧语欺骗着你的烂人，好过一个直言不讳伤害着你的好人。做每一次爱情里笑到最后的那个人。丢了心的人。 ----徐良《烂人》

7. It's better to have a cunningly eloquent scoundrel deceive you than a straightforward good person who wounds you. Be the one who laughs last in every love story. The one who has lost their heart. —— Xu Liang, "Scoundrel"

8. 我想吃饼干时，不会拐弯抹角的跟妈妈说，而是直言不讳的说。

8. When I want to eat cookies, I don't beat around the bush and say it to my mother; I just say it straight out.

9. 在警察掌握证据，犯人不得不直言不讳的说出事实真相。

9. When the police have evidence, the culprit has no choice but to candidly admit the truth.

10. 最好的善良，莫过于看破不说破，在施与善意的同时，顾及他人自尊，不给他人难堪，给人留一份体面。知世故而不世故，是内心有光芒的善良，时时刻刻为他人着想，柔软润泽春风化雨，让人温暖妥帖。

10. The best form of kindness is to see through something but not say it out loud. While extending kindness, one should also consider the other person's dignity, not make them feel embarrassed, and leave them with a sense of dignity. To know the world's ways without being worldly is a kind heart that shines from within. Always thinking of others, it softens and nourishes like spring rain, making people feel warm and comfortable.

11. 大家都习惯欺负老实人，因为欺负老实人，没有风险，没有成本，没有后果。当有利益争议的时候，最先牺牲老实人的利益，以求得别人之间的均衡。当有最苦最累最危险的事情，都是让老实人先上，因为老实人不会叫苦，不会拒绝，不会埋怨。

11. Everyone is accustomed to bullying honest people because there is no risk, no cost, and no consequences in doing so. When there are disputes over interests, the interests of honest people are the first to be sacrificed in order to achieve a balance among others. When there are the most difficult, most exhausting, and most dangerous tasks, it is always the honest people who are sent first, because they will not complain, refuse, or grumble.

12. 一段非常治愈人心的话：“慌张是你准备不足，急躁是你实力不强，轻浮是你目光短浅，烦乱是你思绪不清，压力是你格局不够，恐惧是你遐想太多，贪婪是你欲求不满，心累是你想法太多，劳累是你方法不对，懒散是你目标不明，在这个自私的世界，自己不强大，什么都是浮云。”

12. A very comforting saying: "Anxiety is a sign of inadequate preparation, impatience is a reflection of insufficient strength, levity is due to short-sightedness, confusion is a result of unclear thoughts, pressure is a lack of perspective, fear is excessive imagination, greed is unmet desires, exhaustion is too many thoughts, fatigue is the wrong approach, laziness is unclear goals, in this selfish world, if you are not strong, everything is just smoke and mirrors."

13. 老师直言不讳的处事作风，受到大家的高度赞扬。

13. The teacher's straightforward approach to dealing with matters has been highly praised by everyone.

14. 每当我考试不好的时候，爸爸妈妈就直言不讳地指出我的缺点。

14. Whenever I do poorly in exams, my parents would openly point out my shortcomings.

15. 唐朝有一个著名的寒山拾得问对录，寒山问拾得：世人骂我，笑我，辱我，欺凌我，看不起我，我该怎样？拾得回答：你只用忍他，离他，敬他，抬举他，冷眼瞧他，再过几年，你且看他。

15. The Tang Dynasty had a famous dialogue between Han Shan and Shi De, where Han Shan asked Shi De: When the world curses me, laughs at me, slanders me, bullies me, and looks down on me, what should I do? Shi De replied: You only need to endure him, distance yourself from him, respect him, elevate him, look at him with cold eyes, and after a few years, just watch him.

16. 每个人脸上都有这种表情，泰勒和我只是表现出来。大家都这么想，泰勒和我则直言不讳。 ----《搏击俱乐部》

16. This expression is on everyone's face, Taylor and I just express it. Everyone thinks this way, but Taylor and I speak our minds openly. ---- "Fight Club"

17. 我们管理班级时，需要直言不讳的作风，更需要灵活运用各种方法解决问题。

17. When managing our class, we need an honest and straightforward style, but even more importantly, we need to be flexible in applying various methods to solve problems.

18. 我们才知道，那不是爱，那只是对自己说谎。你以为不可失去的人，原来并非不可失去。你流干了眼泪，自有另一个人逗你欢笑。你伤心欲绝，然后发现不爱你的人，根本不值得你为之伤心。今天回首，何尝不是一个喜剧？情尽时，自有另一番新境界，所有的悲哀也不过是历史。

18. We realized only then that it was not love; it was just lying to ourselves. The person you thought you couldn't live without, you realize, was never truly irreplaceable. After you've cried all your tears, someone else will bring you joy. When you're heartbroken, you discover that the person who doesn't love you isn't worth the pain. Looking back today, isn't it all a comedy? When love ends, a new horizon opens up, and all the sadness is just part of history.

19. 幸福五大原则：心中无恨、脑中无忧、生活简单、多些付出、少些期待。

19. The Five Principles of Happiness: No grudges in the heart, no worries in the mind, a simple life, more giving, and less expectation.

20. 当他和家属领到的食物不够吃时，克莱姆就直言不讳地对阿奇讲。

20. When the food they received with their family was not enough to eat, Klem spoke frankly to Archie.

21. 爱上你，只用了一瞬间，忘记你却用了一辈子，甚至还不够。

21. Falling in love with you took just a moment, but forgetting you has taken a lifetime, and even that's not enough.

22. ​人性的丑陋，就是在无权、无势、善良的人身上挑毛病，在有权、有势、缺德的人身上找优点。

22. The ugliness of human nature is to find fault with the powerless, the weak, and the kind, and to find virtues in the powerful, the influential, and the morally deficient.

23. 我发现家长身上也有很多缺点，家长能接受我们直言不讳的批评与建议吗？

23. I've found that parents also have many shortcomings. Can parents accept our straightforward criticism and suggestions?

24. 如果大家都能直言不讳说出自己的想法，我想很多事情都会简单起来的。

24. If everyone could freely express their thoughts without reservation, I believe many things would become simpler.

25. 最痛苦的莫过于徘徊在放与不放之间的那一段。真正下决心放弃了，反而，会有一种释然的感觉。从此，痛和爱都深深埋进心里。人生就是这样，难免有痛，难免有伤，无论我是否曾经抓住，那些东西都已离我而去，有些事不能回首，有些回忆不能梳理，有些人只能永远埋藏。

25. The most painful is that period of hesitation between letting go and holding on. When one finally decides to let go, there is a sense of relief instead. From then on, the pain and love are deeply buried in the heart. Life is like that, inevitably filled with pain and injury, no matter whether I have ever held on to them or not, those things have already left me. Some things cannot be looked back on, some memories cannot be sorted out, and some people can only be forever buried.

26. 有些人，有些事情，看透了，千万不要说透；有些风景，有些事情，留一点空间，千万不要什么都看得清楚；有时候选择换个环境，不如学会换一个自己。过去的就过去了吧，未来的还没来到，唯有珍惜眼前人与事。用感恩惜福的心面对当下的一切。

26. Some people, some things, once you see through them, never say them through; some landscapes, some things, leave some space, never see everything so clearly; sometimes, it's better to change your environment than to learn to change yourself. Let the past be past, and the future hasn't arrived yet; only cherish the people and things in front of you. Face everything in the present with a heart of gratitude and appreciation.

27. 了解一个人别太清，太清会失望，看一件事别太透，太透会伤情。要明白这世间只有相对，没有绝对，只有合适，没有完美。理想的境界如雾里看花，即便看透也不要说透。

27. Know a person not too clearly, as clarity may lead to disappointment; view a thing not too deeply, as depth may hurt your feelings. Understand that in this world, there are only relativities, not absolutes; there are only suitability, not perfection. The ideal state is like seeing flowers in the mist, even if you see through them, do not say through them.

28. 我们想抓住的东西总是太多，抓住了就舍不得放下。你能拥有的毕竟是有限的，你放不下这样，就必定要舍弃那样。放弃，并不代表你软弱，它是一种智慧，让你洞察人生万相，有足够放下的勇气。我们提升生命的质量，不在于你活了多久，抓住了多少，而是你把握了多少精彩瞬间，放弃了多少不属于你的东西。

28. The things we want to grasp are always too many, and once we have them, we are reluctant to let go. What you can possess is ultimately limited; if you can't let go of one thing, you must inevitably give up another. Giving up does not mean you are weak; it is a kind of wisdom that allows you to perceive all aspects of life and have the courage to let go. We enhance the quality of life not by how long you have lived or how much you have grasped, but by how many wonderful moments you have captured and how much of what does not belong to you you have abandoned.

29. 他能直言不讳，说明没把我当外人，因此我感到欣慰。

29. He spoke frankly, which indicates that he doesn't consider me an outsider, and therefore, I feel relieved.

30. 人活在世上，为人处事在于真诚；最好的处世之道，就是看破而不说破；世事洞明皆学问。为人之道正是如此玄妙，即便看破了也不去说破。善意的谎言有时也是美好的，是对别人的一种尊重，这是一种胸襟，也是一种修养，更是为人的一种智慧。

30. To live in this world, the way to deal with people is to be sincere; the best way to deal with people is to see through but not to point out; understanding the world is all about knowledge. The way to deal with people is exactly so mysterious, even if you see through it, you don't point it out. Sometimes, a well-intentioned lie can also be beautiful, showing respect for others. This is a breadth of mind, a kind of cultivation, and also a kind of wisdom in dealing with people.

31. 我们的杜老师总是直言不讳地指出学生的缺点，让我们及时改正。

31. Our teacher Du always speaks frankly about the shortcomings of the students, allowing us to correct them in time.

32. 我请求他们原谅，也直言不讳地说出了自己最真实的想法：以后的路程还很长，还有很多磨难等着我，我不能太享受，感受一下就可以了。另外，我不想让朋友为我话费那么多钱。 ----雷殿生《十年徒步中国》

32. I asked for their forgiveness and candidly expressed my most sincere thoughts: The road ahead is still long, with many hardships waiting for me, and I cannot indulge too much; just a taste is enough. Moreover, I don't want my friends to spend so much money on me. -- Lei Diansheng, "Ten Years of Walking Across China"

33. 妈妈做事和说话都是直言不讳，从不拐弯抹角。

33. Mother always speaks and acts straightforwardly, never beating around the bush.

34. Never explain yourself to any one Because the person who likes you doesn't need it，and the person who dislikes you won't believe it．永远不要向任何人解释你自己。因为喜欢你的人不需要，而不喜欢你的人不会相信。

34. Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it, and the person who dislikes you won't believe it. Translation: 34. Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the one who likes you doesn't need it, and the one who dislikes you won't believe it.

35. 路虽远，行则必至。事虽难，做则必成。兔子很有天赋，却败下阵来。乌龟步履缓慢，但可以一步一个脚印抵达期待的终点。

35. The road may be far, but if you keep walking, you will surely reach your destination. A task may be difficult, but if you persist, it will surely be accomplished. The rabbit has great talent, but was defeated. The turtle moves slowly, but can step by step reach the desired destination.

36. 世界上最广阔的是海洋，比海洋更加广阔的是天空，比天空更加广阔的是人的胸怀。

36. The most vast on earth is the ocean, vaster than the ocean is the sky, and vaster than the sky is the human heart.

37. 你直言不讳，几乎就像我的一个臣民。我很高兴自己没有立刻杀死你。

37. You speak your mind so freely, almost as if you were one of my subjects. I'm glad I didn't kill you on the spot.

38. 幸福的人：像孩子一样，真诚。像夕阳一样，温暖。像天空一样，宁静。

38. Happy people: sincere as children, warm as the setting sun, tranquil as the sky.

39. 《目录或标签》 作者：爱谁谁

39. "Catalog or Label" Author: Who Cares

40. 看到自己犯错误，同学们直言不讳，帮助我改正。

40. Seeing myself make mistakes, my classmates spoke frankly and helped me correct them.

41. 周围人总是善意地说我是个不错的人，只有你直言不讳地说我坏透了。

41. People around me always say kindly that I'm a decent person, but only you dared to say I'm thoroughly bad.

42. 那位朋友看到的节目中，我采访的官员批评上级政府财政决策失误，说了四十五分钟，很坦率。

42. In the program that the friend saw, the official I interviewed criticized the financial decision-making mistakes of the higher government, spoke for forty-five minutes, and was very candid.

43. 一个快乐的人，必须有一个明确的、可以带来生命意义和快乐目标的生活与追求。一个真正快乐的人，即便一贫如洗，也能自得其乐，享受简单生活的点点滴滴。

43. A happy person must have a clear and meaningful life with pursuits that bring joy and a sense of purpose. A truly happy person can find contentment even in poverty, enjoying the small pleasures of simple living.

44. 所谓“出言有尺，戏谑有度”。真话未必都能实说，好话也不一定都能直说，而讽刺、嘲笑、挖苦、羞辱的话，任何时候都不该加在你不想伤害的人身上。有时候你以为的直言不讳，其实是在用利刃伤人，是对感情不负责任、不计后果的摧毁。

44. As the saying goes, "There should be a measure in speaking and a degree in jest." Not all truths can be spoken in full, nor can all good words be expressed straightforwardly. And words of satire,嘲笑, sarcasm, and humiliation should never be directed at someone you do not wish to harm. Sometimes what you think is speaking your mind is actually using a sharp blade to wound others, showing a lack of responsibility and disregard for the consequences of your actions.

45. 如果我们带着怨恨生活，就像把一条毒蛇放在内心深处，它不断啃咬着自己的生命，消耗着自己的能量，让我们活得暗无天日，苦不堪言。不怨恨，不是为了放过别人，而是为了解脱自己。

45. If we live with resentment, it's like placing a venomous snake deep within our hearts, constantly gnawing at our own life, draining our energy, and allowing us to live in darkness and endure untold suffering. Not to harbor resentment is not to forgive others, but to free ourselves.

46. 给自己的忠告：木已成舟便要顺其自然；不必一味讨好别人；喜欢自己才会拥抱生活；多用善眼看世界；物质贫乏心理不潦倒；福中有祸，祸中有福；谁笑得最晚，谁笑得最开心；重要的是活得充实；人生应该欢喜有度；换一种活法也许更快乐；不妨暂时丢开烦心事；感觉幸福就是幸福。

46. Advice to oneself: Once the wood is formed, let it go with the flow; don't always try to please others; like yourself and you will embrace life; look at the world with a kind eye; being poor in material doesn't mean being poor in spirit; good fortune contains misfortune, and misfortune contains good fortune; whoever laughs last laughs best; what matters is to live a fulfilling life; life should be joyful in moderation; perhaps trying a different way of living may bring more happiness; it's okay to temporarily put aside烦恼 matters; feeling happy is happiness.

47. 一个最重要的过客，之所以是过客，因为你未曾会为我停留。曾经在我人生中撒下欢乐的种子，之所以只是种子而不开花，因为你未曾为它浇水施肥。曾经划下我人生中的一根伤痕，之所以有伤痕，因为你未曾温柔地怜悯过。曾经给我一线的光明而瞬间带来全部的黑暗，之所以灰暗，因为你未曾想过为我照亮。

47. The most important stranger, for the reason that you never stayed for me. You once sowed seeds of joy in my life, but they never blossomed because you never watered or fertilized them. You once left a scar on my life, and there was a scar because you never showed tender compassion. You once gave me a ray of light that instantly brought complete darkness, and it was dark because you never thought of lighting it for me.

48. 有人问我怎样才能不浪费时间，我说忘掉时间才是真正的不浪费时间。如果做一件事情专注到忘掉时间，就意味着全心投入。只要这件事情本身是有意义的，就一定会有所成就。凡是我们每天赶时间的事情，大部分是没有意义浪费时间的事情。 俞敏洪

48. Someone asked me how to not waste time, and I said that forgetting about time is truly not wasting time. If you are so focused on doing something that you forget about time, it means you are fully immersed in it. As long as the task itself is meaningful, there will certainly be achievements. Most of the things we rush to do every day are things that are not meaningful and waste time. Yu Minhong

49. 人生中的两件大事若能把控，就可以在职场和其他生活圈子中，游刃有余，始终摆正自己的位置。一是说话的艺术，二是做人的学问。祸从口出，不同场合说话要谨慎。从古至今，许多人都因说话不慎而身败名裂，甚至惹祸上身。俗话说“害人之心不可有入， 防人之心不可无”。做人低调忌奢华，做事要周到，不随意责怪别人。

49. If one can master two significant aspects of life, one can navigate the workplace and other social circles with ease and always maintain a proper position for oneself. The first is the art of speaking, and the second is the scholarship of being a person. Misfortune often comes from the mouth, so one must be cautious in what one says in different situations. From ancient times to the present, many people have been ruined or caused trouble by their thoughtless words. As the saying goes, "One should not harbor any harmful intent towards others, but one should always be cautious and not let one's guard down." In terms of demeanor, one should be modest and avoid extravagance; in terms of actions, one should be thorough and not readily blame others.

50. 最顶级的修心，是不怨恨，不老实，不着急，不要内耗，静如止水。

50. The highest level of cultivating the mind is to be without resentment, without deceit, without haste, without internal consumption, and serene as still water.

51. ​明明自己揣着私心，却苛求别人大度。”

51. While harboring personal desires, they demand that others be magnanimous.

52. 时间只是过往，它会让你成长。与人交往时，要谨言慎行，遭到误解时，要淡定从容，对虚伪的人，看透不说透，对算计的人，看穿不说穿。因为总有一天，时间会证明一切。

52. Time is just the past, and it will help you grow. When interacting with others, be cautious in your words and actions. When misunderstood, remain calm and composed. To those who are insincere, see through but don't reveal it; to those who plot, see through but don't say it. Because one day, time will prove everything.

53. 多年周旋在政治旋涡之中，王莽已深谙政治的玄机。他的理想主义丝毫没有动摇，但是他实现理想的方式却已经悄悄发生了变化。刚入仕途，他只知一味刚强，做事恪守原则，说话直言不讳，这种性格使他在宦海沉浮的前几年吃尽了苦头。而现在，他在刚强中已经糅入了一丝阴柔，做事更讲究方式方法，他知道了进退，知道了等待，知道了利用他人的弱点。 ----张宏杰《中国皇帝的五种命运》

54. 当时年纪不到四十岁就被看作了不起的人物，如今过了二十五岁就会让人觉得滑稽可笑了。我想在过去的日子里我们都羞于使自己的感情外露，因为怕人嘲笑，所以都约束着自己不给人以傲慢自大的印象。我并不认为当时风雅放浪的诗人作家执身如何端肃，但我却不记得那时候文艺界有今天这么多风流韵事。我们对自己的一些荒诞不经的行为遮上一层保持体面的缄默，并不认为这是虚伪。我们讲话讲究含蓄，并不总是口无遮拦，说什么都直言不讳。 ----毛姆《月亮和六便士》

53. Having been entangled in the political whirlpool for many years, Wang Mang had deeply understood the mysteries of politics. His idealism had not wavered at all, but the way he pursued his ideals had quietly changed. In the early stages of his career, he was known for his unwavering strength, strictly adhering to principles in his work, and speaking without hesitation. This character led him to endure much hardship in the political world in his early years. Now, however, he had infused a touch of gentleness into his strength, becoming more methodical in his actions. He had learned to retreat, to wait, and to exploit others' weaknesses. ---- Zhang Hongjie, "The Five Fates of Chinese Emperors" 54. At the age of less than forty, he was already considered an extraordinary figure. Now, reaching the age of twenty-five would seem ridiculous and laughable. I think that in the past, we were all ashamed to show our emotions, fearing mockery, so we约束 ourselves to avoid giving the impression of arrogance. I do not believe that the poets and writers of elegance and extravagance were particularly dignified at that time, but I do not remember the literary world having as many amorous escapades as it does today. We covered up some of our absurd behaviors with a silence to maintain our dignity, and did not consider this to be insincere. We were讲究含蓄 in our speech, not always speaking our minds without reservation. ---- W. Somerset Maugham, "The Moon and Sixpence"

55. 我直言不讳地说吧，我觉得你对我房子的粉刷做的很烂。

55. To be blunt, I think the painting job you did on my house is really terrible.

56. 一段直击人心的话：

56. A profound and heart-rending statement:

57. 这种对生命的尊重，更是一份有人情味、有温度的品德。真正的成熟不是世故，是享受人生而不沉默、历经苍凉而不消极，以积极的心态面对生活的好与坏。

57. This respect for life is even more a virtue with a touch of humanity and warmth. True maturity is not sophistication, but to enjoy life without silence, to endure the bleakness without negativity, and to face the good and bad of life with a positive attitude.

58. 我直言不讳的跟妈妈说语文考差了。妈妈没说我，叫我下次努力就好了。

58. I boldly told my mother that I did poorly on the Chinese exam. My mother didn't scold me; she just told me to work harder next time.

59. 现实经不起折腾，人心经不住考验。看淡但不要看透，看透不要说透。心若友善，何必争执，不适合就不必交往。心怀叵测者有之，看透不要说透，何必剥其至精髓。

59. Reality cannot withstand chaos, and the human heart cannot endure constant testing. Take things lightly but don't see through them; if you see through them, don't say them. If your heart is friendly, why argue? If something is not suitable, there is no need to interact. There are those with hidden intentions, and although you see through them, there is no need to strip them down to their essence.

60. 在这个领导班子任期中，赶于直言不讳的同志也少得可怜。

60. During this leadership term, there are also a sorry few who dare to speak their minds openly.

61. 太美太纯的事情，对人都是一种伤害，且又太残酷。太美太纯给人施压，让人不敢接近。太美太纯，经不了风，受不了雨，只能在春光里生长，可春光又太短暂，美和纯就很快凋零。在爱情上追求美和纯，这往往是悲剧，它不能向前发展，而仅能止于爱情，实质就是人生的悲剧。

61. Things that are too beautiful and too pure are a form of harm to people, and they are also too cruel. Too beautiful and too pure put pressure on people, making them dare not approach. Too beautiful and too pure cannot withstand the wind and rain, and can only grow in the springtime, but the springtime is too fleeting, and beauty and purity quickly wither. Pursuing beauty and purity in love often leads to tragedy, as it cannot progress forward and can only end with love, which is essentially a tragedy in life.

62. 每个人都会受到伤害，都有一段放不下的往事，都有纠结不安的痛苦，如果不放下，不释然，不清空，一辈子都会被往事折磨，不得安宁。

62. Everyone will be hurt, everyone has a past that they cannot let go of, everyone has the pain of confusion and unease. If they do not let go, do not find peace, and do not clear their minds, they will be tormented by the past their whole life, never finding tranquility.

63. 人生最大的痛苦就是精神内耗。

63. The greatest pain in life is spiritual耗损.