在探寻顶级社交风范的旅程中，自信、温暖与包容并存，构成了人际交往的和谐之音。本文将揭开这扇窗，带你领略自信与温暖的魅力，感受包容的力量。

In the journey of seeking the top social elegance, confidence, warmth, and inclusiveness coexist, forming the harmonious melody of interpersonal interactions. This article will open this window, leading you to appreciate the charm of confidence and warmth, and feel the power of inclusiveness.

1. 每年到了选课的时候，你会发现同学和室友都非常繁忙，忙着到处打听哪位老师的课好，怎么安排自己的课表。到了正式选课，那更是网速的比拼。当然即使你没有选到心仪的课程，你也仍然可以提前打听好教室去蹭课，老师们通常是十分欢迎的。

1. Every year when it's time to choose courses, you'll find that classmates and roommates are very busy, searching everywhere for information about which teachers' classes are good and how to arrange their schedules. By the time the official course selection begins, it's a race against internet speed. Of course, even if you don't get your preferred courses, you can still find out in advance where the classes are held and attend them without enrolling, as teachers are usually very welcoming.

2. 对于和自己合得来的人，要礼尚往来，来而不往非礼也。别人给你好处，你也要学会反馈。互相走动，彼此珍惜，一段关系才可以行稳致远。

2. For those who get along well with you, reciprocation is essential; not responding to a favor is ungracious. When others do you a favor, you should also learn to give something back. By interacting and valuing each other, a relationship can be stable and lasting.

3. 如果保持谦卑谨慎，会让那些垃圾人毫无忌惮，从而伤害到自己。如果保持强势的态度，又会让那些真心对我们好的人受到伤害。

3. If one remains humble and cautious, it may embolden those troublemakers to act without restraint, thereby causing harm to oneself. On the other hand, maintaining a domineering attitude might hurt those who truly care for us.

4. 但是如何与人相处呢？我们发现，林子大了，什么鸟都有，世界大了，什么人都有。我们会遇见一些善良而真诚的人，也会遇见一些鸟人，烂人，垃圾人。

4. But how to get along with others? We find that in a big forest, there are all kinds of birds, and in a big world, there are all kinds of people. We will meet some kind and sincere people, as well as some birds, scoundrels, and trash.

5. 郭晶晶这次罕见的换发型，短发烫卷特别的时髦，最重要的是搭配的这条网纱裙更显得气质高雅，更体现出了贵妇风范。

5. Guo Jingjing's rare change in hairstyle this time features short curls that are particularly stylish. Most importantly, the tulle skirt she paired with it adds to her elegant demeanor, further showcasing her noble womanly charm.

6. 那哪些课是必须去蹭的呢？就法学专业来说，我比较

7. 周凌老师真的很有魅力惹，上课十分生动有趣，会用他可爱的女儿打比方。平常看了很多犯罪心理的影视作品，上课之前可能会认为这门学科就是看到别人的面部表情就能猜透对方在想什么的学问。如果你也这样想的话，那你必须选修一下周凌老师的课了，他会带着你从科学的角度分析犯罪心理。当然课业负担可能有点重，会让你根据学习内容自己分析案例，期末考试也要打印很多资料，不过能够学习到干货，感受犯罪心理学的魅力，还是非常值得的。

6. Which courses should one definitely attend? As for the major in law, I find Professor Zhou Ling to be quite charming. His teaching is lively and interesting, and he often uses his adorable daughter as an example. Normally, after watching many TV and film works about criminal psychology, one might think that the discipline is all about being able to read someone's facial expressions to guess what they are thinking. If you think that way, you should definitely take Professor Zhou Ling's course. He will guide you in analyzing criminal psychology from a scientific perspective. Of course, the workload might be a bit heavy, as it requires you to analyze cases based on the learning content, and the final exam also requires printing a lot of materials. However, it is very worthwhile as you can learn some solid knowledge and experience the charm of criminal psychology.

8. 没有人是一座孤岛，我们总是不可避免的要和别人发生一些链接。

8. No one is an island; we are inevitably bound to have some connections with others.

9. 最顶级的社交模式就是镜子模式，照见什么就呈现什么，别人怎么对待你，你就怎么对待他。不卑不亢，从容不迫。

9. The highest-level social pattern is the mirror pattern, reflecting what it sees and presenting it as is. Treat others as they treat you. Maintain modesty and composure, without either humility or arrogance.

10. 郭晶晶也曾以多种不同的发型出席过一些活动，郭晶晶整体来说给人的感觉就是非常的端庄大气。不管穿什么样的衣服，只要发型选对都能体现出端庄高大贵典雅一面。发型对整体的造型起到非常大的作用，只要有发型的优雅作为铺垫，服装上选择对，就能够提高个人的气质以及魅力。

10. Guo Jingjing has also appeared at various events with different hairstyles. Overall, Guo Jingjing gives off a very dignified and elegant vibe. No matter what type of clothing she wears, as long as the hairstyle is chosen correctly, it can highlight her dignified, tall, noble, and elegant side. Hair styles play a very significant role in the overall look, and as long as there is the elegance of the hairstyle as a foundation, and the right clothing choice is made, it can enhance an individual's temperament and charm.

11. 对于欺负自己，伤害自己，看不起自己的人，我们也就选择无视他，毕竟不值得浪费自己的时间和一只苍蝇纠结。

11. For those who bully themselves, hurt themselves, and look down upon themselves, we also choose to ignore them, after all, it's not worth wasting our time and getting entangled with a fly.

12. 遵循镜子模式，别人怎么看待你，你就怎么看待别人。

12. Follow the mirror pattern: see others as they see you.

13. 不到逼不得已的时候，不要轻易去反击一个得罪你的人。他都得罪你了，你都不出手，这不是软弱吗？告诉你，这不是软弱，这是对对方的一种轻蔑。因为他虽然让你非常恶心，充其量不过是一只蹦蹦哒哒的苍蝇，你走开就可以了，不值得浪费大量的时间和精力去与他周旋，赢了不光荣，徒然消耗了自己。

13. Do not easily retaliate against someone who has offended you unless you are absolutely forced to. If he has offended you, and you do not take action, is that not weakness? Let me tell you, that is not weakness; it is a form of scorn towards the other person. Because although he makes you extremely disgusted, at most he is just a buzzing fly. You can just walk away; it is not worth wasting a lot of time and energy to engage with him. Winning is not glorious; it is just a waste of your own energy.

14. 满目山河空念远，落花风雨更伤春。不如怜取眼前人。这个世界上每天有无数人和我们擦肩而过，也有很多人和我们交流，有一部分人和我们有交集，但发自内心对我们好的人，寥寥无几，或者根本就没有。

14. The sight of mountains and rivers fills me with distant thoughts, while falling flowers and wind and rain add to the sorrow of spring. It's better to cherish the people in front of me. Every day in this world, countless people pass us by, and many communicate with us. Some have intersections with us, but there are very few, or even none, who genuinely care for us from the bottom of their hearts.

15. 俗话说，人靠衣装，马靠鞍，女人认真打扮起来其实会给人格外的惊艳，服装、发型、配饰都是非常重要的，改变一个发型，改变个人的穿着方式，都能完全的体现出一个不同的自己。

15. As the saying goes, "a person relies on clothes, and a horse relies on its saddle." In fact, when a woman takes her time to dress up, it can be quite astonishing. Clothing, hairstyle, and accessories are all very important. Changing a hairstyle or altering one's way of dressing can completely bring out a different version of oneself.

16. 对于人际关系，老祖宗总结的已经非常到位。

16. For interpersonal relationships, the ancestors have summarized it to a very profound extent.

17. 郭晶晶此次罕见的短发配上微卷造型，显得特别的时髦，她的这一罕见造型，让大家看到了另一个不同形象的她，短发烫微卷搭配纱裙，确实比平时她普通的发型看起来更加有贵妇气质，更体现出她富太太的形象。

17. Guo Jingjing's rare short hairstyle with a slight curl looks particularly stylish. This rare look has shown another different side of her. Short hair with slight curls paired with a tulle skirt indeed looks more like a noblewoman compared to her usual发型, and it better reflects her image as a wealthy wife.

18. 如果有人主动对我们表示出某种善意，一定要好好珍惜。在这个凉薄的人世间，到处都是被利益驱动的动物，遇到一个真心待你的人，实属难得。

18. If someone extends to us a certain goodwill proactively, we must cherish it. In this indifferent world, everywhere are animals driven by interests, and encountering someone who sincerely treats you is indeed rare.

19. 郭晶晶不管是从身材和气质来看都非常不错的，只是她平时不怎么爱打扮而已。女人只要发型、服装选对，才更能提升自己的气质和魅力，给人非常惊艳的一面。郭晶晶也曾以中长发的大波浪出现在大众脸面前，当时她搭配的一条粉红色的长裙，整体效果显得十分的优雅，一条修长的连衣裙也更能体是对曲线美的诠释。

19. Guo Jingjing is very impressive both in terms of her figure and temperament, but she doesn't usually pay much attention to her appearance. A woman's hairstyle and clothing choices can significantly enhance her elegance and charm, leaving a very striking impression. Guo Jingjing has also appeared in public with medium-length wavy hair, and at that time, she wore a pink long dress, which looked extremely elegant. A long, slender dress also serves as a better interpretation of the beauty of curves.

20. 莫言曾说：“当你得不到尊重的时候，不要去沟通，不要去交流，更不要愤怒和难过，你只需要无视和远离。这个世界上，不是所有的人都配得上你的善良和格局，那些只会对你指手画脚，只会落井下石的人，你的善良和不计较，只会让他们得寸进尺，瞪鼻子上脸。”

20. Mo Yan once said: "When you do not receive respect, do not try to communicate or exchange, and definitely do not become angry or sad. All you need to do is to ignore and distance yourself. In this world, not everyone deserves your kindness and generosity. Those who only point fingers at you and throw stones at you when you're down, your kindness and not holding grudges will only make them become more greedy and shameless."

21. 遇上了，是人生最大的幸事，也是上天对你的恩赐。如果你的眼睛被灰尘蒙蔽了，辜负了别人的真心，那就是自作孽了。

21. Encountering it is the greatest happiness in life, and a divine blessing to you. If your eyes are clouded by dust and you fail to appreciate the sincerity of others, then that is self-inflicted misfortune.

22. 大学时期对于屈老师上的中国法律思想史有着很深刻的印象。屈老师是一个学识非常渊博的老师，思维也很跳跃，听着他的课，总能自觉地跟着他的思路走，听他品鉴中国法律思想史，纵横古今中外，总能发出老师懂得真多的感慨哈哈。总之是一个很有魅力的老师，能让你对中国法律思想史有较为深入的了解，也许会产生深入研究的兴趣哦。（PS：上次在九孔桥旁边看到屈老师拿着单反在拍荷花，我也get 了同款嘻嘻）

22. During my university years, I had a very deep impression of Professor Qu's course on the History of Chinese Legal Thought. Professor Qu is a teacher with an extremely vast knowledge, and his thinking is very jumping. Listening to his lectures, I could always follow his train of thought consciously, and listening to him appreciate the History of Chinese Legal Thought, covering ancient and modern, near and far, I would always feel amazed at how much the teacher knows. In short, he is a very charming teacher who can give you a relatively deep understanding of the History of Chinese Legal Thought, and perhaps even spark an interest in in-depth research. (PS: The last time I saw Professor Qu taking photos of lotus flowers with a DSLR camera next to the Jiukong Bridge, I also got the same style, hahaha)

23. 郭晶晶罕见换发型，短发烫微卷搭配纱裙，气质看上去有多高级？

24. 郭晶晶给人留下的一直是一种朴实的形象，郭晶晶是体育出身，曾是中国跳水界是跳水皇后，拿过四枚奥运奖牌。郭晶晶虽然嫁入豪门，但是，郭晶晶一直都非常的低调，她并不像其她富太太一样喜欢打扮，近日，有媒体爆料，郭晶晶终于换发型了，这次的发型是一款短发烫卷，特别的时髦，让大家看到了她另一种不同的形象。

23. Guo Jingjing rarely changes her hairstyle, with short hair slightly curled and paired with a chiffon skirt, how sophisticated does her气质 look? 24. Guo Jingjing has always left an impression of simplicity. She comes from a sports background and was once the queen of diving in China, winning four Olympic medals. Although Guo Jingjing has married into a wealthy family, she has always been very modest. She does not like to dress up like other wealthy wives. Recently, media reports have revealed that Guo Jingjing has finally changed her hairstyle. This time, it's a short curly hairstyle, very stylish, showing everyone another different side of her image.