在探索人性的极限中，唯有图景，方能窥见亲情、爱情与友情的冷漠程度。

In exploring the limits of human nature, only through the picture can one see the extent of the coldness of kinship, love, and friendship.

1. 一个人又不可能有许多朋友。所谓朋友遍天下，不是一种诗意的夸张，便是一种浅薄的自负。热衷于社交的人往往自诩朋友众多，其实他们心里明白，社交场上的主宰决不是友谊，而是时尚、利益或无聊。真正的友谊是不喧嚣的。—— 周国平

1. It is impossible for a person to have many friends. The saying "friends are everywhere" is not a poetic exaggeration but rather a shallow sense of pride. People who are keen on socializing often boast about having many friends, but deep down they know that the master of the social scene is not friendship, but fashion, interests, or boredom. True friendship is not loud and boisterous. — Zhou Guoping

2. 或许是一阵风雨的洗礼，才使得心与心之间的碰撞更为清脆响亮，更为精彩晶莹绚丽。

2. Perhaps it is the baptism of a storm that makes the collision between hearts sound clearer and louder, more wonderful and resplendent.

3. 友情最可贵的是曾一同走过的岁月，友情最难得的是分别以后依然会时时想起。人的一生有许多回忆，只愿你的追忆有个我，感谢有你，珍贵的朋友，陪我度过欢乐忧伤的日子。

3. The most valuable aspect of friendship is the time spent together, and the most difficult is to still remember each other after parting. A lifetime is filled with memories, and I only wish that there is a piece of me in your recollections. Thank you for having me, precious friend, by my side through the days of joy and sorrow.

4. 用整颗心去维护一段感情的结果，得到的却是受伤和失去。

4. Devoting the whole heart to maintain a relationship only results in injury and loss.

5. 记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

5. Remember what needs to be remembered, forget what needs to be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

6. 真正的友谊，是需要保持一定的距离的。有距离，才会有尊重；有尊重，友谊才会天长地久。

6. True friendship requires maintaining a certain distance. With distance comes respect; with respect, friendship will last forever.

7. 生活就像一望无际的大海，友情则是大海中的浪花，大海有了浪花更美丽，生活有了友情更甜蜜。

7. Life is like an endless sea, and friendship is the foam in the sea. The sea becomes more beautiful with the foam, and life becomes sweeter with friendship.

8. 强大自己，才是唯一的出路。

8. Strengthening oneself is the only way out.

9. 我们一定要千方百计做一个强大的人，努力争取自己的利益，提升自己的阶层定位，拥有更加美好的生活。

9. We must do everything in our power to become a strong person, strive to secure our own interests, elevate our social status, and enjoy a better life.

10. 在你准备骗我之前请做好我可能永远不会原谅你的准备

10. Before you prepare to deceive me, be prepared that I might never forgive you.

11. 朋友带家里的狗狗出去玩儿，它喜欢也很会玩飞盘，但是怕游泳。为了训练它游泳，朋友把飞盘扔进了水里。狗狗先是急得在水边叫，然后开始使劲儿喝水。

11. The friend took the family dog out to play, and the dog enjoys playing with frisbees and is quite good at it, but it is afraid of swimming. To train it to swim, the friend threw the frisbee into the water. At first, the dog called frantically by the water's edge, then it started drinking water with great effort.

12. 友情是纯朴交往之后的积累，友情是长久信任之后的和谐，友情是淡然相处之后的真诚，友情是心领神会的沟通。朋友，不是历时的，却是永恒的。

12. Friendship is the accumulation after simple and sincere interaction, friendship is harmony after long-term trust, friendship is sincerity after casual coexistence, and friendship is communication understood without words. Friends are not temporal, but eternal.

13. 用狡计去害友人的人，自己将陷于危险埋伏之中。

13. The one who uses cunning to harm a friend will himself fall into danger and ambush.

14. 过度的热情会让人产生 "这个人怎么这么好"？当 "疑问 "多了，防范热情的人的 "心 "也会增加。这就造成了热情的人 "做好事 "的结果，要么被怀疑，要么被无辜的人。 使用。即使有的人说 "好"，在热心人的不断 "帮助 "下，也会变得 "理所当然"，习以为常。如果有什么 "不一次"，即使成为 "不高兴 "的 "请责 "对方。

14. Excessive enthusiasm can make people wonder, "How nice this person is?" As "doubts" accumulate, the "guardians" of those who guard against excessive enthusiasm also increase. This leads to the result that when enthusiastic people "do good deeds," they are either suspected or used by the innocent. Even if some say "good," under the continuous "help" of热心 people, it becomes "natural" and customary. If there is any "failure," it may even become a reason for the "unhappy" party to blame the other.

15. 茶淡雅、和美、清净、质朴，正如真正厚重的友情一样，平淡却经得住细水流年，静默却能抵过千言万语。

15. Tea is elegant, harmonious, pure, and simple, just like a truly profound friendship. It may be plain but can stand the test of time flowing quietly, and its silence can outweigh a thousand words.

16. 对于人际关系，我逐渐总结出了一个最合乎我的性情的原则，就是尊重他人，亲疏随缘。我相信，一切好的友谊都是自然而然形成的，不是刻意求得的。我还认为，再好的朋友也应该有距离，太热闹的友谊往往是空洞无物的。—— 周国平

16. For interpersonal relationships, I have gradually summed up a principle that is most in line with my temperament, which is to respect others and to be close or distant according to circumstances. I believe that all good friendships are naturally formed, not刻意 sought. I also think that even the best friends should maintain a distance; overly lively friendships are often hollow. - Zhou Guoping

17. 爱可以简简单单，但不能随随便便。虽然我的微笑可以给任何人，但我的心只能给一个人。

17. Love can be simple, but it cannot be casual. Although my smile can be given to anyone, my heart can only be given to one person.

18. 真挚的友谊，不会因时间的阻隔而冲淡。昔日的承诺，也不会因漫长的岁月而改变。

18. True friendship is not diminished by the passage of time. Promises made in the past will not be altered by the long years.

19. 朋友是人生路上最美丽的景色，友谊是彼此相连的心弦，让我们用心灵的笔墨，点缀著人生路上的风景。用真诚的付出，收获人世间最感人的真情，祝亲爱的朋友开心快乐，永远幸福。

19. Friends are the most beautiful scenery on the journey of life, and friendship is the heartstrings that bind us together. Let us use the ink of our hearts to adorn the scenery on our life's path. With sincere dedication, we reap the most touching sincerity in the world. Wishing my dear friend happiness and joy, and eternal bliss.

20. 你的难过我来分担，你的快乐我来分享，好朋友永远在你身边友情的延续来自心灵。

20. I will share your sadness, and I will share your joy; a good friend is always by your side. The continuation of friendship comes from the heart.

21. 朋友是一生的缘分，在偶然间相逢，在一生中永存。寒冬又到，天气渐凉，气温骤降，唯有祝福如常。愿你保重身体，一生幸福安康。

21. Friends are a lifetime's destiny, encountered by chance and existing throughout one's life. As the cold winter returns, the weather grows cooler, and temperatures plummet, only my blessings remain unchanged. May you take good care of your health and enjoy happiness and well-being throughout your life.

22. 任何事，任何人，都会成为过去，是你的终究是你的……

22. Everything and everyone will become the past; what is ultimately yours will be yours...

23. 朋友不因远而疏，流水不因石而阻，急水急冲桥下影，高山难隔友谊情，朋友总是心连心，真正朋友值千金，哪怕山高路程远，隔山隔海难隔心。

23. Friends are not distant, rivers do not stop at stones, swift waters rush past the shadow beneath the bridge, high mountains cannot separate the bond of friendship, friends always have hearts connected, true friends are worth their weight in gold, even if mountains are high and the journey is long, the hearts are not separated by mountains or seas.

24. 学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则。

24. While learning to compromise, also hold fast to your most basic principles.

25. 不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都善的一面，恶的一面。

25. Don't be too dependent on friends; the basic nature of humans includes both the good side and the evil side.

26. 你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；在生命的尽头，你笑着，而周围的人在哭着。

26. When you were born, you cried and everyone around you smiled; at the end of life, you smile, and those around you cry.

27. 朋友是缘，我会永远的珍惜，朋友是金，永远是光辉灿烂，朋友是琴，演奏一生的美好，朋友是茶，品味一生的清香，朋友是笔，写岀一生的幸福，朋友是歌，唱岀一辈子温暖，祝福朋友天天有美好的心情。

27. Friends are fate, and I will cherish them forever. Friends are gold, always shining brightly. Friends are a piano, playing the beauty of a lifetime. Friends are tea, savoring the fragrance of a lifetime. Friends are a pen, writing happiness for a lifetime. Friends are a song, singing warmth for a lifetime. May my friends always have beautiful moods every day.

28. 我会珍惜每一个真诚的朋友，每个人的空间都是一个美丽的世界，在这个世界里我看到了真诚和友爱，感觉到了生活中感觉不到的情感，祝福我的朋友永远幸福快乐！

28. I will cherish every sincere friend. Each person's space is a beautiful world, in which I see sincerity and friendship, and feel emotions that are not felt in life. I wish my friends eternal happiness and joy!

29. 爱情总是会有一些挫折，跌跌撞撞，撕心裂肺，放不开，却无法拥有。

29. Love is always accompanied by some setbacks, stumbling, heart-wrenching, difficult to let go of, yet impossible to possess.

30. 相识是最珍贵的缘分；思念是最美丽的心情；牵挂是最真挚的心动；问候是最动听的语言。漫长人生中我送你最美丽的祝福、永远快乐！

30. Meeting is the most precious destiny; longing is the most beautiful sentiment; concern is the most sincere touch; greetings are the most melodious language. Throughout the long journey of life, I send you the most beautiful wishes, forever happy!

31. 爱她，就不要给她乱想的机会。因为你永远不会知道，为你乱想的人是多么的爱你。

31. Love her, don't give her a chance to overthink. Because you'll never know how much she loves you when she overthinks about you.

32. 友谊，多么温暖的两个字，却有那么多的真真假假，让人防不胜防。

32. Friendship, such warm words, yet there are so many true and false ones, making it hard to guard against them.

33. 我这样去谈这个话题，并不是指责热心人，而是老老实实地提醒我们，在生活中拥有这些 "长处 "的好人，有时要 "实事求是"，这样社会上其他人的 "现实势利眼 "才不会改变。要成为自己的被别人利用，不要因为太过热情而变得不自在和拘谨。我就是最好的例子。

33. My approach to discussing this topic is not to accuse the enthusiastic individuals, but to honestly remind us that good people who possess these "strengths" in life should sometimes be "frank and realistic." This way, the "practical materialism" of other people in society will not change. We should not let ourselves become others' tools, and should not feel uncomfortable or shy due to excessive enthusiasm. I am the best example of this.

34. 友谊不是别的，而是一种以善意和爱心去连接世上一切神俗事物的和谐。

34. Friendship is not something else, but a harmony that connects all worldly divine and secular things with goodwill and love.

35. 有时候在生活中，你会找到一个特别的朋友；他只是你生活中的一部分内容，却能改变你整个的生活。他会把你逗得开怀大笑；他会让你相信人间有真情。他会让你确信，真的有一扇不加锁的门，在等待着你去开启。这就是永远的友谊。

35. Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; they are just a part of your life, yet they can change your entire life. They can make you laugh heartily; they can make you believe in the sincerity of the world. They can convince you that there really is an unlocked door, waiting for you to open it. This is what eternal friendship is all about.

36. 人与人之间没有永远的朋友，也没有永远的敌人，只有永远的利益。甚至亲人与亲人之间也没有天长地久的感情，当你不能给对方提供想要的需求，亲情将不复存在。爱人与爱人之间也没有海枯石烂的爱情，当你不能给对方提供持续的情绪降，他就会毫不客气的翻脸。

36. There are no permanent friends or enemies between people, only permanent interests. Even among relatives, there is no eternal affection; if you cannot provide the desired needs for the other person, kinship will no longer exist. There is no love that lasts forever between lovers; if you cannot provide the continuous emotional support they need, they will turn their backs without a moment's hesitation.

37. 我，爱你的时候明白了，这世上最性感的关系是：男女之间的友情。我也想拥你入怀，但不能因为那点卑微的肉欲将最性感的友情磨灭掉，所以忍住了！

37. When I loved you, I realized that the most sensual relationship in this world is the friendship between men and women. I also want to embrace you, but I cannot let that trivial fleshly desire diminish the most sensual friendship, so I held back!

38. 不要因为几次失败，就放弃心中的梦想。失败挫折其实就是迈向成功所应缴的学费。任何的限制，都是从自己的内心开始的。

38. Do not give up on your dreams because of a few failures. Failures and setbacks are actually the tuition fees you need to pay on your way to success. Any limitation actually starts from within your own heart.

39. 不论联系有多少，只要内心留有彼此的一片天空，那么偶尔一声问侯就会带来会心的一笑。

39. No matter how many connections there are, as long as there is a piece of sky for each other in the heart, an occasional greeting will bring a heartwarming smile.

40. 友情是一种广度，它是可以随时安然栖息的理解堤岸。

40. Friendship is a breadth; it is a shore where one can rest safely at any time.

41. 如果爱情是长跑，我们要一起出发，一起到达。

41. If love is a long-distance race, we should start together and reach the destination together.

42. 朋友，我正站在你门外，上蹿下跳，抓耳挠腮。我知道是我心急我不好，但我实在是忍不住憋不了，才给你发这条短信：你到底完了没有？该轮我上厕所了吧！

42. Friend, I am standing outside your door, jumping up and down, scratching my ears and cheeks. I know it's impatience that's not good for me, but I really can't hold it in any longer, so I'm sending you this text message: Are you done yet? It's my turn to use the bathroom, right?

43. 与时间相比，输了正因为输了所以，散了吧！人生的赌注越大，失落就越大。希望相互都不会忘记，还能相约今生、相遇今世，此生足已！

43. Compared to time, I lost because I lost. So, let's part ways! The bigger the bet in life, the greater the loss. I hope we won't forget each other and can still meet in this life, this is enough for this life!

44. 回首往昔，痛心疾首。我的堕落是因为年轻气盛、一念之差导致的，而脱逃更使我的整个人生变成了灰色，在犯罪的泥潭里越滑越深，不能自拔。

44. Looking back on the past, I am filled with deep regret. My downfall was caused by youthful impulsiveness and a moment of weakness, and the act of escape turned my entire life into a gray existence, sliding ever deeper into the quagmire of crime, unable to extricate myself.