走出真实我：拒绝比较，淡化名利，远离懒惰惰性，在纷繁复杂的世界中，寻找一片宁静的心灵港湾。

Step out of the real me: Refuse to compare, tone down the pursuit of fame and fortune, distance oneself from laziness and inertia, and seek a tranquil haven for the soul amidst the complex and chaotic world.

1. 如果真相是种伤害， 请选择谎言。

1. If the truth is a wound, please choose a lie.

2. 如果一开始，你就不要出现在我的面前 ，

2. If at the very beginning, you had not appeared in front of me,

3. 不要因为寂寞而错爱， 不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。

3. Do not fall in love out of loneliness, and do not live a lifetime of loneliness due to a wrong love.

4. 我们有着不同的假面， 扮演着不同的角色，

4. We have different masks, playing different roles.

5. 谁的情感 无法张扬 ，谁在陌生的房故作勇敢 ，

5. Whose emotions cannot be displayed, who pretends to be brave in a foreign room.

6. 就理该感激涕零的跟王子回宫，然后永远在幸福中诚惶诚恐。

6. She should have wept with gratitude as she returned to the palace with the prince, then live in perpetual happiness with trembling reverence.

7. 世界曾经失去声响， 如今有你们陪我唱歌。

7. The world once lost its sound, but now you are with me to sing.

8. 也许，思念不需结果， 它只是证明在心里有个人曾存在过。

8. Perhaps, longing does not require a result; it is just proof that someone once existed in one's heart.

9. 有人告诉我鱼的记忆只有7秒 ，7秒之后它就不记得过去的事情 ，

9. Someone told me that fish have a memory of only 7 seconds, after which they don't remember past events.

10. 让我错以为，只要抱住你，就可以拥有整个世界。

10. I mistakenly thought that as long as I held you, I could have the entire world.

11. 所以我和其他人在一起，一笑都觉得愧疚， 所以我和别人并肩行走，牵手都觉得沉重 ，

11. So, when I am with others, even a smile makes me feel guilty, and when I walk side by side with others, holding hands feels heavy.

12. 你说你不好的时候 ，我疼 ，疼的不知道该怎么安慰你 ，

12. When you say you're not well, I hurt, hurting so much that I don't know how to comfort you.

13. 可是为什么我会在一大群朋友中突然地就沉默 ，

13. But why would I suddenly go silent among a group of friends?

14. 你以为我刀枪不入， 我以为你百毒不侵。

14. You thought I was impervious to weapons, and I thought you were immune to all poisons.

15. 感情的寂寞，大概在于： 爱和解脱—— 都无法彻底

15. The loneliness of emotions probably lies in: both love and liberation cannot be completely attained.

16. 得不到，就永不会患得患失，不需追索美好的背面，不必顾及爱情泯逝。

16. If you cannot obtain it, you will never worry about losing it, and there is no need to seek the other side of the beautiful, nor to care about the love that has faded.

17. 你见，或者不见我 ，我就在那里 ，不悲不喜 ；

17. Whether you see me or not, I am right here, neither sad nor joyful.

18. 思念不能自已，痛苦不能自理，结果不能自取，幸福不能自予。

18. Love cannot be self-restrained, suffering cannot be self-managed, results cannot be self-chosen, and happiness cannot be self-bestowed.

19. 幸福只属于每个人内心的感受，不属于其他任何人的看法。

19. Happiness belongs only to the inner feelings of each individual, not to the opinions of others.

20. 是不是能给思念一份证书， 证明曾经它曾存在过？

20. Can we issue a certificate for longing, proving that it once existed?

21. 就这样慢慢延伸 一点一点的错开来 ，

21. Thus, it gradually extends, piece by piece, becoming slightly askew.

22. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈;能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。

22. A hurt that can be expressed is not a true hurt; a love that can be taken away is not real love.

23. 孤单是手机里的电话号码越来越多，每天接的电话越来越多，每天发的短信越来越多。

23. Loneliness is the increasing number of phone numbers in your phone, more phone calls received every day, and more text messages sent every day.

24. 谁都以为拥有的感情也是例外 ——在变淡之外。

24. Everyone thought that the emotions they possessed were an exception — beyond fading.

25. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。

25. Time will slowly settle, and some people will gradually fade into obscurity in your heart.

26. 习惯 ，失眠 ，习惯寂静的夜 ，躺在床上望着天花板 ，想你淡蓝的衣衫 。

26. Habit, insomnia, accustomed to the silent night, lying in bed gazing at the ceiling, thinking of your light blue attire.

27. 独自行走独自唱歌独自逛街独自看着一整个世界狂欢。

27. Walk alone, sing alone, stroll alone, and watch the whole world celebrate alone.

28. 今时今日我已经没有那样再爱一个人的能力了。

28. Now, I no longer have the ability to love someone as intensely as I used to.

29. 不去说从前，只是寒暄 ，

29. Not to speak of the past, just to exchange polite greetings.

30. 再美好也经不住遗忘 ，再悲伤也抵不过时间

30. No matter how beautiful, it cannot withstand forgetfulness; no matter how sad, it cannot resist time.

31. 我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记，

31. I thought that one day, I would completely forget about love, forget about you.

32. 我们永远无法预计未来，年轻的时候我们太坦诚，

32. We can never predict the future; when we are young, we are too candid.

33. ps: 你走吧，我总要习惯一个人。

33. PS: You go, I'll have to get used to being alone.

34. “你跑的快，23岁有个家，身边全是赞叹。你跑得慢，30多岁还在路上追求梦想。有的人为了车子房子拼了一辈子，有的人买辆摩托车就能走遍大好河山，你想成为怎样的人，过怎样的生活，只要你不后悔就行。

34. "You run fast, have a family at 23, surrounded by admiration. You run slow, still chasing dreams in your 30s. Some people have spent their entire lives striving for cars and houses, while others can traverse the beautiful landscapes with just a motorcycle. What kind of person do you want to be, and what kind of life do you want to live? As long as you don't regret it, that's all that matters."

35. 然而，这个女人。 就是得不到她一直盼望着的好。

35. However, this woman could not attain the good she had been longing for.

36. 不和别人吵架。不翘课。 不说脏话。

36. Do not argue with others. Do not skip classes. Do not use foul language.

37. 世上有很多东西是可以挽回的，譬如良知，譬如体重，

37. There are many things in the world that can be recovered, such as conscience, and weight.

38. 看着看着， 就累了， 星光也暗了；

38. As I watched, I grew weary, and the starlight grew dim.

39. 那时的我们是否相遇？ 是相遇还是错过？

39. Did we meet back then? Was it a meeting or a missed encounter?

40. 而女人说谎呢 是要让对方好过 ，

40. And when women lie, it's to make the other person feel better.

41. 一个人的世界 ，很安静 ，安静的可以听到自己的呼吸声和心跳声 。

41. One's own world is very quiet, quiet enough to hear one's own breathing and heartbeat.

42. 世界就是这样， 从来没有公平可言。

42. The world is like this, and there has never been any fairness to speak of.

43. 孤单是你想约朋友逛街，结果发现朋友已经约了别的朋友，于是他对你说抱歉。

43. Solitude is when you want to invite friends to go shopping, only to find out that your friends have already made other plans, and they apologize to you.

44. 没有问过灰姑娘愿不愿意，也没有人问过她爱不爱王子，好像只要她的脚合适的穿上了水晶鞋，

44. Without asking Cinderella if she wanted to, nor did anyone ask her if she loved the prince, as if just as long as her feet fitted into the glass slipper,

45. 他说爱你的时候 ，是无心之过 ，别轻易感动。

45. When he says he loves you, it's a slip of the tongue; don't be easily moved.

46. 不能再在原地徘徊, 不能再固执的守着不会回来的,

46. Cannot linger in place any longer, cannot stubbornly cling to what will never return.

47. 挽起一面轻纱，看清天边月牙 。

47. Raise a light curtain to see the crescent moon in the sky.

48. 走着走着， 就散了， 回忆都淡了；

48. As we walked along, we gradually dispersed; memories grew faint.

49. 现在，我开始怀念， 那个撕碎你信和照片的雨夜 。

49. Now, I start to miss, that rain night when you shredded my letters and photos.

50. 可是当你突然看到一片曾经在梦里反复出现的葵花花田，你兴奋地拍

50. But when you suddenly see a sunflower field that has appeared repeatedly in your dreams, you excitedly clap...

51. 转而 ，移情别恋 ，却太难 ，只顾心疼 ，我忘记了离开 ，

51. Turning away and falling for someone else is too difficult; I'm only concerned with my heartache, and I forget about leaving.

52. 你跟，或者不跟我 ，我的手就在你手里 ，不舍不弃

52. Whether you follow me or not, my hand is in your hand, not letting go and not forsaking.

53. 最好的时光里，我依然独自一个人走在那条浮华炫丽却不属于我的街。

53. In the best of times, I still walked alone down that flamboyant and dazzling street that did not belong to me.

54. 如果只是幻觉， 那为何情节如此清晰？

54. If it's just a hallucination, why is the plot so clear?

55. 共饮一杯清茶，同研一碗青砂 。

55. Share a cup of clear tea, grind a bowl of green sand together.

56. 聪明的人，喜欢猜心 ，也许猜对了别人的心 ，却也失去了自己的 。

56. Wise people, fond of guessing the hearts of others, may guess the hearts of others correctly, yet lose their own in the process.

57. 别揣测该说什么，用透明的眼神看我 ；

57. Don't guess what to say, look at me with transparent eyes.

58. 夕阳西下, 是我最想念的时候,

58. The setting sun in the west is the moment I miss the most.

59. 十年后才发现，当初最不完美的那个人，其实是自己。

59. It was only ten years later that I realized that the one who was most imperfect back then was actually myself.

60. 笑我们这麼傻， 我们总在重复著一些伤害，没有一个可以躲藏不被痛找到。

60. Laughing at how foolish we are, we keep repeating some hurtful things, with none of us able to hide from the pain that finds us.

61. 或许可以爱很多个人， 但只有一个人会让你笑的最灿烂， 哭的最伤心。

61. Perhaps you can love many people, but only one person will make you laugh the brightest and cry the saddest.

62. PS: ··· 一生 再也不敢那么勇敢，为你 ···

62. PS: ... I'll never be that brave again in my life for you ...

63. 让女人念念不忘的是感情， 让男人念念不忘的是感觉 。

63. What women can't forget is affection, while what men can't forget is sensation.

64. 对着你在的那个城市, 说了一声:我想你, 不知道, 你是否听得到

你是否听到了，我在那个城市说了一句：我想你。

65. 终其是不同的物种 ，

65. In the end, they are different species.

66. 但却在等待中错过了， 那些可以幸福的幸福。

66. However, in the waiting, I missed the happiness that could have been.

67. 你是我小心维护的梦，我疲倦地享受着，这个无法靠近的光芒。

67. You are the dream that I carefully nurture, a light that I enjoy exhaustedly, unreachable.

68. 其实什麼都没有，什麼都不是 突然发现自己很傻，傻的不行。

68. In fact, there's nothing, it's nothing. Suddenly realized that I'm so foolish, foolishly so.

69. …… 你何其残忍，

69. …… How cruel you are, ……

70. 爱情, 生活， 不是林黛玉, 不会因为忧伤而风情万种 。

70. Love and life, unlike Lin Daiyu, are not so delicate that they become charming because of melancholy.

71. 为什么在人群中看到相似的背影就难过 ，

71. Why does seeing similar backs in a crowd make one sad?

72. 26记忆是相会的一种形式 ，忘记是自由的一种形式

72. Memory is a form of reunion, forgetting is a form of freedom.

73. 11点之前睡觉 其实这些， 我做不到。

73. Sleeping before 11 o'clock... Actually, I can't do that.

74. 你让我花掉一整幅青春， 用来寻你。

74. You made me squander an entire youth, searching for you.

75. 甚么时候，我们才肯为自己拥有的一切满怀感激？

75. When will we be willing to be filled with gratitude for all we possess?

76. 是啊 ，我总是一个人 ，你从来不曾来过 ，

76. Yeah, I've always been alone, you never came.

77. 人生所有的烦恼都是因为在乎。

77. All the troubles in life are because of caring too much.

78. 邂逅的瞬间，我站在你的面前，只是个陌生人。

78. In the moment of encounter, I stood before you, just a stranger.

79. 你知道男人和女人 ， 说谎的最大差别在哪里吗 。

79. Do you know where the biggest difference lies between men and women in lying?

80. 得到， 不一定能长久。

80. Gaining something does not necessarily mean it will last long.

81. 习惯 ，观天 ，习惯一个人坐在爱情的井里 ，念着关于你的诗篇 。

81. Habit, gaze at the heavens, habit of sitting alone in the well of love, reciting poems about you.

82. 我遇到了所有的不平凡，却一直遇不到平凡的你。

82. I've encountered all the extraordinary things, yet I've never met the ordinary you.

83. 还是， 没有结局的邂逅？

83. Or is it, a meeting without an end?

84. 你念，或者不念我 ，情就在那里 ，不来不去 ；

84. Whether you read it or not, the emotion is there, it does not come or go.