在纷繁复杂的世界中，掌握顶级心智，如同驾驭狂风巨浪，宽容与包容，方能从容应对。

In a world full of complexity, to master the top-level mind is like navigating through fierce winds and towering waves; only with tolerance and inclusiveness can one face it calmly.

1. 布林沃利顿说：“如果大家都公认一个人绝对值得信任，那么这个人的事业一定会成功。”

1. Bollingworth said, "If everyone acknowledges that a person is absolutely trustworthy, then that person's career will surely succeed."

2. 宽容是一份接纳，海纳百川，不计前嫌，以博大的胸怀包容一切，只有能接纳世界的人才能得到世界，那些成功人士之所以成就大业，原因就在于他们懂得宽容。诸葛亮七擒孟获，又使其自制族人，这是大臣对族人头领的宽容。祈黄羊举贤不避仇人，这是君子对能人的宽容。反之，曹孟德受不了杨修识破隐秘的尴尬，不能宽容别人的小聪明，吟遍“月明星稀，乌鹊南飞”才人无枝可栖也属正常。

2. Tolerance is an act of acceptance, embracing the vastness of the oceans, not minding past grievances, and包容一切 with a magnanimous heart. Only those who can accept the world can gain the world. The reason why successful people achieve great undertakings lies in their understanding of tolerance. Zhuge Liang captured Meng Huo seven times and even had him control his own people, which was an act of tolerance from a minister to the head of a tribe. Qi Huangyang recommended talents without avoiding his enemies, which was a gentleman's tolerance towards capable individuals. Conversely, Cao孟德 could not tolerate Yang Xiu's revelation of secrets, and could not tolerate others' cleverness. It was normal for him to recite "The moon is bright, the stars are sparse, and the crows fly south" and have nowhere to rest as a talented person.

3. 也就是说：成大事者光有志向、智慧恐怕还不够，还要有做大事的勇气。一个不敢挑战自我的人，只能是懦弱的活着。而要成大事必须面临人生的考验——如果一个人经受不住，绝对不可能干出一番大事。

3. That is to say: To achieve great things, merely having aspirations and wisdom may not be enough; one also needs the courage to undertake great endeavors. A person who dares not challenge themselves can only live a timid life. To accomplish great things, one must face the trials of life – if a person cannot endure them, it is absolutely impossible to achieve anything significant.

4. 千金唾手得，一勤最难求。自古以来成大事者唯勤是往。头悬梁、锥刺股；凿壁借光；闻鸡起舞……无不体现一勤字。

4. It's easy to acquire wealth, but the pursuit of diligence is the most difficult. Since ancient times, those who have achieved great things have always relied on diligence. Whether it's hanging a beam over one's head, piercing one's thigh with an awl; borrowing light by drilling through the wall; rising to dance at the sound of the cock crowing... All these reflect the importance of diligence.

5. 我们或许无法改变自己的命运，但可以改变自己对待命运的态度，坦荡从容地接纳生命中发生的一切。命运给你逆风翻盘的机会，那就乘风而起，青云直上，命运一辈子不给你翻身的可能，你就接纳生命的平凡，在似水流年的日子里，享受岁月静好。

5. Perhaps we cannot change our destiny, but we can change our attitude towards it, calmly and boldly embracing everything that happens in life. If fate gives you the opportunity to turn the tide, then rise with the wind, soaring high into the blue skies. If fate never gives you a chance to turn the tables, then accept the ordinariness of life, and enjoy the tranquility of the years slipping by.

6. 宽容具有丰富的内涵，宽容是一种非凡的气度，代表了心灵的充盈和思想的成熟。

6. Tolerance has rich connotations; it is a remarkable demeanor that represents the fullness of the mind and the maturity of thought.

7. 知足常乐，遂遇而暗是成大事者的平衡心态。的确，“人生不如意事八九，可与人语二三”。如果一个人随时让自己的情绪“冒”出来，只会造成消极的影响，因为一个人的情绪具有很强的杀伤力。例如浮躁、抑郁、愤怒等，所以成大事者，必须加以控制，把它变成一种经济的力量。

7. Contentment brings constant joy, and this balanced mindset of making the most of what comes one's way is what great achievers possess. Indeed, "In life, there are nine out of ten things that are not as one wishes, but only two or three can be shared with others." If a person allows their emotions to "overflow" at any time, it will only cause negative effects, as a person's emotions have a strong destructive power. For example, impatience, depression, anger, and so on. Therefore, great achievers must control their emotions and transform them into an economic force.

8. 心态决定命运 好心态成就大事业

8. Attitude determines fate; a positive attitude leads to great achievements.

9. 宋代大文豪苏轼在《道德》中说：“以至诚为道，以致仁为德”看来诚信没有种族与国籍的差别。

9. In his book "Moral," the great Song Dynasty literary giant Su Shi said, "Take utmost sincerity as the path, and take utmost benevolence as virtue." It seems that honesty does not have any differences in race or nationality.

10. “人到中年，事情不能想得太多，想多了心就会乱，无法入睡；人不能看得太清，看清了心会受伤，情不能陷得太深，否则心就会痛了。

10. "As one reaches middle age, one should not overthink things, as too much thinking will confuse the mind and prevent sleep; one should not see too clearly, as seeing too much can hurt the heart; and one should not get too deeply involved in emotions, otherwise the heart will ache."

11. “宰相肚里能撑船，元帅肩上能跑马”说的是一中气量、一中涵养，这种气量与涵养是一种容人之量。

11. "The prime minister's belly can carry a boat, and the marshal's shoulders can run a horse" speaks of a kind of tolerance and a kind of self-restraint. This tolerance and self-restraint are a measure of one's capacity to bear others.

12. 有的人出生就在罗马，有的人出生就是骡马。

12. Some are born in Rome, and some are born as mules and horses.

13. 别人喜欢你，你就喜欢他，别人支持你，你就支持他，别人看不起你，你就忽略他，别人伤害你，你就怒怼他。在别人的世界里顺其自然，在自己的世界里独善其身。

13. If someone likes you, you like them back; if someone supports you, you support them; if someone looks down on you, you ignore them; if someone harms you, you confront them. Go with the flow in others' worlds, but take care of yourself in your own world.

14. 一个人精神内耗，就是指心里的戏太多了。言未出，心中已演千百遍，事未来，心中已过万重山，路未行，想象苦难愁不展，事已毕，柔肠百结心未安。

14. Mental exhaustion refers to having too many internal dramas. Words have not been spoken yet, but the heart has already rehearsed a thousand times. Events have not yet occurred, but the heart has already crossed ten thousand mountains. Paths have not been walked, but the imagination already portrays hardships and worries. Once things are over, the heart is entangled with a hundred knots, yet it remains restless.

15. 现实生活中，有这种自信、这种气魄的人很少，因为这是另一种境界，是一种很难企及的人生境界。但一个人只要有成大事的自信，也同样会有一番境界，也就是说，一个人的自信心有多大，就能成就多大的事业。

15. In real life, there are very few people who possess such confidence and such ambition, because this is another realm, a life境界 that is difficult to attain. However, as long as a person has the confidence to achieve great things, they will also have their own realm. In other words, the extent of a person's self-confidence determines the magnitude of the achievements they can accomplish.

16. “会当水击三千里，自信人生二百年。”是一位伟人的抒怀，这也是一种自信，一种气魄。伟人的自信能改变一段历史，伟人的气魄能吞吐天地。

16. "I shall strike the water with my paddle for three thousand miles, and I am confident in my life for two hundred years." This is an expression of sentiment from a great person, which is also a kind of confidence and a sense of grandeur. The confidence of a great person can change a segment of history, and the grandeur of a great person can engulf the heavens and the earth.

17. 如果你太在意别人的眼光，就会被别人的价值观束缚，一辈子畏手畏脚，寸步难行。

17. If you are too concerned about others' opinions, you will be bound by their values and live your entire life hesitantly, unable to take a step forward.

18. 不必为还没有发生的事情而耿耿于怀，事情远远没有你想的那么糟糕。只要你有一个足够好的心态，事情就会向着利好的方向发展。

18. Do not dwell on things that have not happened yet; they are not as bad as you think. As long as you have a good attitude, things will develop in a favorable direction.

19. 宽容是一种美德，凛然超然于狭隘、自私、固执之上，昂然的姿态让个性有缺陷的人望尘莫及。

19. Patience is a virtue that stands loftily above narrow-mindedness, selfishness, and stubbornness, its upright posture leaving those with flawed personalities far behind.

20. 好心态超然永恒 成大事人人向往

20. A positive mindset transcends eternity; achieving great things is the aspiration of everyone.

21. 法国一位著名作家曾说：“我们不应该为一些自己看似重大的事而心情郁闷，他除了使你意志消沉外，不会给你带来任何帮助。”

21. A famous French writer once said: "We should not be despondent over some things that seem important to us, as they only serve to demoralize you and will not bring you any help."

22. 我们总是期待创造逆天改命的故事，但这毕竟只属于极少数人。绝大多数人努力一生，只能勉强维持温饱，养家糊口而已。

22. We always look forward to creating stories of reversing one's fate, but after all, this only belongs to a very few. The majority of people work hard throughout their lives, only barely managing to maintain a modest living and support their families.

23. 人生短短几十年，最后都是骨灰盒里的一捧灰土，永远虚无，不复存在，生命不过一场体验而已，没有任何事情值得患得患失，闷闷不乐。

23. Life is but a short span of a few decades, ending up in a box of ashes, forever void and no longer existing. Life is just an experience, and nothing is worth being anxious or depressed about.

24. 宽容是淡化矛盾，解决问题的良策，忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天高。胯下之辱依然宽宏待人，使韩信成为一代名将。

24. Patience and tolerance are effective strategies for mitigating conflicts and solving problems. Enduring a moment of tranquility and stepping back can lead to a broader horizon and higher skies. Even enduring the humiliation of being dismounted can be magnanimous, which is why Han Xin became a renowned general of a generation.

25. 容，即包容，宽恕。伟人能容，涵天盖地；军事家能容，赢得士为知己者死；商贾能容，可赢得丰厚的利润。

25. Rong, which means tolerance and forgiveness. Great men can tolerate, covering the sky and the earth; military strategists can tolerate, winning the loyalty of soldiers who would die for a知己; merchants can tolerate, and can win substantial profits.

26. 宽容不是针尖对麦芒，而是心平气和围坐桌子，微笑握手。宽让别人是人处世上的难得糊涂，睁一眼闭一眼，太平安然，不斤斤计较细节、私仇，大踏步跨过情感的沟沟坎坎，无所畏惧。宽容是以慈悲的心怀悲天悯人，以爱人爱世界的大度赢

26. Tolerance is not a tit-for-tat exchange, but sitting around the table with a calm and peaceful heart, smiling and shaking hands. Giving others宽容 is a rare kind of wisdom in dealing with people, turning a blind eye to some things, leading a peaceful and secure life, not being overly concerned with details or personal grudges, taking bold steps over the emotional obstacles, and being fearless. Tolerance is a compassionate heart that feels compassion for the world, and a magnanimous attitude that loves people and the world.

27. 智者是宽容的，越是有智慧的人，胸怀越宽广，因为他明白：“宽一分是福，让一步为高。”这种态度不仅能让他人释怀，同时也是善待自己。宽容是一种生活艺术、生存智慧，当一个人看透了社会人生之后，必定会获得那份从容和超然。

27. The wise are tolerant. The more wise a person is, the broader their mind, for they understand: "A little tolerance is a blessing, and giving way is a sign of greatness." This attitude not only allows others to let go but also treats oneself kindly. Tolerance is an art of living, a wisdom for survival. After a person has seen through the complexities of society and life, they are bound to gain that composedness and transcendence.

28. 一个人的心态，决定了运程状态。不争不执，宠辱不惊，心情就很好，运气也很好。人生就是在失败中纠错，在修行中提高。

28. A person's mindset determines the state of their destiny. Not striving for conflict or being fixated, not being startled by honor or disgrace, the mood is good, and luck is also good. Life is about correcting mistakes in failure and improving oneself through cultivation.

29. 一个人最顶级的心态，就是无所谓，不至于，没关系。

29. The highest level of mindset for a person is to be indifferent, not to matter, and it doesn't matter.

30. 立大事者，不惟有超世之才，亦必有挑战之心态。

30. Those who accomplish great things not only possess extraordinary talent but also must have a challenging mindset.

31. 对于想成大事者来说，头等大事就是工作，因为工作本身需要热情，需要全身心的投入，根本没有时间徘徊叹息，即使工作本身枯燥乏味、令人烦恼，只要心态乐观，乐此不疲，继续快乐生活，这又何愁做不出一番事业呢？

31. For those who aspire to achieve great things, the most important thing is work, because work itself requires passion and wholehearted dedication. There is no time for wandering and sighing. Even if the work itself is dull and frustrating, as long as one maintains an optimistic attitude and enjoys it endlessly, continuing to live a joyful life, what is there to worry about not accomplishing great achievements?

32. 成大事者的管理模式是统合综效。这种管理模式的观念源自一种自然现象：全体大于部分的综合。两块木头所能承受的力量大于个别承受力的总合，两种药物并用的疗效也可能大于任何一种药物的功效。因此，我们可以得到1+1大于2的功效。

32. The management style of successful people is synergetic integration. The concept of this management style originates from a natural phenomenon: the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. The force that two pieces of wood can withstand is greater than the total bearing capacity of each piece individually, and the therapeutic effect of combining two drugs may also be greater than that of any single drug. Therefore, we can achieve a synergy where 1+1 is greater than 2.

33. 有的人拥有显赫的家世，挥之不尽的富贵，享之不尽的资源，不管如何造孽，都是人上人。有的人家境一贫如洗，生活捉襟见肘，身边人凶狠猥琐，无论如何努力，都难以撼动命运分毫。

33. Some people come from distinguished families, with an endless wealth and resources, no matter how much misdeeds they commit, they are always the elite. Some people come from poverty-stricken backgrounds, struggling with their daily lives, surrounded by cruel and cunning people. No matter how hard they try, they find it difficult to shake their destiny even a bit.

34. 我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，生活只属于自己内心的感受，不属于其他任何人的看法。

34. We had so eagerly awaited others' recognition, only to find out later that life only belongs to the feelings within oneself, not to the opinions of anyone else.

35. 宽容是一束鲜花，抛弃前仇旧恨，化解血雨腥风，一笑泯恩仇。历史上曾有国共合作，团结一致抗战对敌。

35. Tolerance is a bunch of flowers, shedding past grievances and old hatreds, resolving the stormy weather of bloodshed, and with a smile, erasing all enmities. In history, there was a Sino-Soviet cooperation, unity in resistance against the enemy.

36. 宽容是一缕东风，真诚宽容别人的过错，无需用折磨自己来惩罚别人。坦然应对生命小舟中的每一个险滩，就会融化别人冷漠的冰雪，迎来两人生机盎然的春天。

36. Tolerance is a gentle east wind; sincerely forgiving others' mistakes requires no self-torture to punish others. To calmly face every hazard in the boat of life will melt the cold ice of others' indifference, welcoming a vibrant spring in both of your lives.

37. 不要预想最坏的结果，不必提前焦虑，生活本来就是一个见招拆招的过程。

37. Do not anticipate the worst outcomes, do not worry prematurely; life itself is a process of dealing with things as they come.

38. ​人之所以烦恼，都是源于痛苦太多，少想一点，日子也会舒心一些，少计较一点，人生才会舒坦。”

38. The source of people's distress is all due to too much pain. If one thinks a little less, life will be more comfortable. If one cares less, life will be more pleasant.

39. 立志向上是成大事者的人生主题，这种价值取向会影响一个人一生的成就。我们常说：取法乎上，仅得其中，取法居中，仅得其下。也就是说目标不妨定的高远些，否则就会动力不足，鼓不起劲。

39. The theme of aspiring to improve oneself is the life's pursuit of those who aim to achieve great things, and this value orientation will affect a person's accomplishments throughout their life. We often say: If one aims for the highest, they may only achieve the middle level; if one aims for the middle, they may only achieve the lowest. This means that one should set their goals a little higher; otherwise, they may lack motivation and fail to gather momentum.

40. 一个人的能力总是有限的，不会与人合作难以把事业做大。成大事者善于合作，以求借势发挥，成就自己的事业

40. A person's abilities are always limited, and it is difficult to expand one's career without collaborating with others. Those who achieve great things are good at cooperation, seeking to leverage their advantages and accomplish their own careers.

41. 全球最治愈人心的一段话：“莫叹人生几度秋，往事如烟似水流。世态炎凉皆看透，只言温暖不言愁。人生难得几回闲，清茶一壶煮流年。忘却人间三千事，心宽何处不桃源。”

41. The most heart-warming sentence in the world: "Do not sigh for the few autumns in life, past events flow like smoke and water. I have seen through the vicissitudes of the world, and only speak of warmth, not of sorrow. It is rare to have a few leisurely moments in life, boiling years with a pot of clear tea. Forget about the 3,000 things in the world, and wherever your heart is wide, it is a paradise."

42. 车到山前必有路，船到桥头自然直。

42. When the car reaches the foot of the mountain, there must be a road. When the boat reaches the bridge, it will naturally be straight.

43. 活到了一定的年纪，就会发现，别人怎么看待你并不重要。别人说你是牛，你不会真的变成牛，别人说你是狗，你不会真的变成狗，只有自己稳住情绪，独立思考，你仍然是你，谁也不能改变。

43. As you grow older, you will realize that it's not important how others perceive you. Whether they say you are a cow or a dog, you won't actually become one. It's only when you maintain your composure, think independently, that you remain yourself. No one can change that.

44. 一段非常通透的话：

44. A very transparent statement: