自我提升，勿高估他人心中之位。

Self-improvement, do not overestimate the position in others' hearts.

1. 没有永远的敌人，也没有永远的朋友。连接成年人感情关系的是实实在在的利益

1. There are no permanent enemies, nor are there permanent friends. What really connects the emotional relationships between adults is tangible interest.

2. 淡然是跟年龄、阅历成比例增长的，年轻时候看不开、放不下的事情好多，别强求跟自己性格不融通的淡定，会很矛盾和痛苦。

2. Equanimity is proportional to age and experience. There are many things that one cannot see through or let go of in one's youth. Do not force yourself to be calm if it is incompatible with your character, as this will lead to internal conflict and pain.

3. 成功的秘籍其实非常简单，那就是持续做一件事，做到极致，享受时间的红利。

3. The secret to success is actually very simple, that is, to consistently do one thing to the utmost, and enjoy the benefits of time.

4. 不要高估你在任何人心里的位置，对方在你心里是块宝，你在人家眼里可能就是棵草

4. Don't overestimate your position in anyone's heart. What may be a treasure to you in their heart could just be a weed in their eyes.

5. 吃人的嘴短，拿人的手短，如果你欠了别人的，想办法尽快还上。你不主动还，对方让圈子里的人都知道以后，你得不偿失

5. "He who eats by the mouth of another has a short hand, and he who takes from another has a short hand. If you owe someone else, try to pay them back as soon as possible. If you don't take the initiative to repay, and the other party lets everyone in the circle know, it will be a loss for you."

6. 做人要外圆内方，处事要圆滑，说话不要直来直去，那不是真性情。你得罪了别人自己还不知道，国人既不能讨好也不能得罪。一身傲骨要埋藏于心。做人要像能屈能伸的小草，不要像暴风雨下易折断的参天大树

6. A person should be outwardly round and inwardly square, handle affairs smoothly, and avoid being straightforward in speech, as that is not true nature. You might offend others without even realizing it, for the Chinese people cannot please everyone nor offend them. The proud spirit should be buried deep within. One should behave like a small grass that can bend and stretch, rather than like a towering tree that is easily broken in the storm.

7. 不要在深夜冲动做决定，天大的事晚上好好睡一觉。第二天心情平复了再做决定不迟

7. Don't make impulsive decisions in the middle of the night; even if it's a major matter, it's not too late to make a decision after a good night's sleep. Wait until the next day when your mind is calm.

8. 如果过于随和，委曲求全，会被人视为软弱可欺。只有刚柔并济，不卑不亢，方能在纷繁复杂的人际关系中周旋有术，游刃有余。

8. If one is too accommodating and always makes compromises, they may be seen as weak and easily manipulated. Only by combining strength with gentleness, neither being overly humble nor haughty, can one skillfully navigate the complexities of interpersonal relationships and excel at them.

9. 无法解开的心结！释然便是重生。

9. An untangled heart knot! Letting go is the path to rebirth.

10. 检讨任何过失的时候，先从自身或自己人开始反省。

10. When reviewing any mistakes or shortcomings, start by reflecting on oneself or one's own people.

11. 有很多公司徒有虚表，每天干实事的时间很少，尽在哪里瞎喊口号，这种公司还是不要长待，因为你学不到任何实质的东西。

11. There are many companies that are all talk and no action, spending very little time on real work every day, just shouting slogans everywhere. Such companies are not worth spending much time in, because you won't learn anything substantial from them.

12. 在职场上，你一定要知道，没有绝对公平的事，因此如果你觉得同事对你不公平，领导对你不公平，你可以在心中清楚就好，不要表现在脸上，更不能因此带有抱怨的情绪而工作。

12. In the workplace, you must understand that there is no absolute fairness. Therefore, if you feel that your colleagues are being unfair to you, or your leaders are being unfair to you, you should be clear in your mind, but do not show it on your face, and even more so, do not allow yourself to work with a complaining attitude as a result.

13. 人嘴上说的和心里真正想的，往往是两回事。想知道一个人内心的真实想法很简单，看他怎么做就行了

13. What people say and what they truly think in their hearts are often two different things. To know a person's true thoughts, it's simple: just observe what they do.

14. 良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行，话都会说，但绝大多数人其实不爱听真话。他们需要的是别人的附和，是善意的“谎言”。多赞美对方，时间长了你会有意外惊喜

14. A good medicine tastes bitter but is good for the illness; sincere advice is unpleasant to hear but is good for one's actions. Everyone can speak, but in reality, most people actually don't like to hear the truth. What they need is others' agreement, and kind "lies." Praise the other person more, and you will be surprised after a while.

15. 唐家三少每天更新8000字，更新了10多年，没有一天停笔。 他每天除了吃饭睡觉就是码字，老婆生孩子，他都在产房外面写网文。

15. Tang Jia San Shao updates 8,000 words every day, and has been doing so for over 10 years without a single day of stopping. Every day, he is either eating, sleeping, or typing, and even when his wife is giving birth, he is outside the delivery room writing webnovels.

16. 选择大于能力，有人管这个就叫“命运”。其实是一种长期被忽略的能力：关键时刻快速做出最优选择的能力。

16. Choosing over one's abilities, some people call this "fate." In reality, it is a long-neglected ability: the ability to make the best choice quickly at critical moments.

17. 清洁是最低标准。对于在现代化城市工作生活的职场人来说，清洁的定义就是每天洗澡每天换衣服擦皮鞋。

17. Cleanliness is the minimum standard. For professionals living and working in modern cities, the definition of cleanliness is taking a bath every day, changing clothes every day, and shining leather shoes.

18. 你在别人心目中的位置取决于你的能力，你的价值，如果这两点都不占，那么就不要怪别人对你不好，保护自己最佳的方式，就是永远别高估自己在别人心目中的分量，能够伤害你的，从来都不是别人的无情，而是你自己一直心存幻想。

18. The place you hold in others' minds depends on your abilities and your value. If neither of these is present, don't blame others for treating you poorly. The best way to protect yourself is to never overestimate your importance in others' minds. What can truly hurt you is never the ruthlessness of others, but rather the constant daydreaming in your own heart.

19. 你的好对别人来说就像一颗糖，吃了就没了；反之你的坏对别人来说就像一个疤痕，留下了就永久在，这就是人性。

19. Your goodness to others is like a piece of candy, which is gone once eaten; conversely, your badness is like a scar to others, which remains permanently once left, this is human nature.

20. 日久不一定见人心，因为人心会变，尤其当利益足够大的时候。防人之心不可无

20. Time does not necessarily reveal a person's true nature, as people change, especially when the benefits are sufficiently great. One should always be wary of others.

21. 真正能给你撑腰的，是丰富的知识储备，足够的经济基础，持续的情绪稳定，可控的生活节奏和那个永远打不败的自己。

21. What truly supports you is a rich reserve of knowledge, a solid economic foundation, sustained emotional stability, a manageable pace of life, and that indomitable self within you.

22. 颜值和金钱，在99%的时候，是行走江湖的通行证。

22. At 99% of the time, attractiveness and money are the通行证 (通行证: pass, permit) for getting around in the world.

23. 不管你是给人打工，还是自己创业，都要掌握一些职场技巧和规则。

23. Whether you are working for others or starting your own business, you should master some workplace skills and rules.

24. 对你说话难听的人，不是因为他情商低，而是你在他眼里没有价值，他犯不上巴结你。他就是单纯看不起你，没别的原因。遇到达官显贵有钱人，他一样会说好听话

24. The reason why someone speaks to you harshly is not because of their low emotional intelligence, but because you are not valuable in their eyes; they don't feel the need to flatter you. It's simply that they look down on you without any other reason. When they encounter officials, nobles, or wealthy people, they will still say nice things to them.

25. 所有的烦躁，都是因为没钱。所有的痛苦，都是因为赚不到钱。

25. All the irritations are because of lack of money. All the sufferings are because of not earning money.

26. 对待竞争对手，证据是牵制的最好方法。无论你走到哪里，都会有竞争对手。有好的竞争对手，是一件好事，大家可以正面竞争，提升自己。但是有的竞争对手，却只会耍一些阴谋的手段，在人背后使绊子。

26. Dealing with competitors, evidence is the best way to tie them down. No matter where you go, there will always be competitors. Having good competitors is a good thing, as everyone can engage in healthy competition and improve themselves. However, there are some competitors who only resort to cunning tactics, tripping others behind their backs.

27. 社会 上常常会有突如其来的侮辱，那是必须忍受的。

27. There are often sudden insults in society that must be endured.

28. 他们既然不迷信 你让他们晚上 到坟地里走一圈去。

28. Since they are not superstitious, let them walk around the graveyard at night.

29. 《玫瑰的故事》告诉我们：不要在任何一段关系里自我感动，更不要心有不甘的去质问别人为什么！在这个世界上不是你对谁越好，谁就会更加珍惜你，现实往往相反，更不要高估了你在任何人心目中的位置，到最后你可能什么都不是……

29. The story of "The Rose" teaches us: Do not get emotionally moved in any relationship, and even more so, do not begrudge asking others why! In this world, it is not the better you are to someone, the more they will cherish you. The reality is often the opposite. And do not overestimate your position in anyone's heart, for by the end, you might mean nothing at all...

30. 帝王以忍得天下，将相以忍得长久，商贾以忍得富贵，常人以忍得知己。然而，忍，并非是人人都能做得到的。

30. Emperors gain the world through patience, ministers gain longevity through patience, merchants gain wealth and status through patience, and ordinary people gain friends through patience. However, patience is not something that everyone can achieve.

31. 过程比结果更关键。“数字说话，结果导向，内向思维”被众多企业视为治理企业的三大黄金准则，然“结果导向”与“过程导向”有何差异企业是否该倡导结果导向，如何才能达到满意的效果

31. The process is more critical than the result. "Numbers speak, results-oriented, and introspective thinking" are regarded as the three golden rules for corporate governance by many companies. However, what is the difference between "results-oriented" and "process-oriented"? Should companies advocate for a results-oriented approach, and how can they achieve satisfactory results?

32. 对习以为常的做事方法，要有改进或优化的建议。

32. Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the commonly used methods of doing things.

33. 你想拉近和同事的关系，除了发红包之外，还可以在对方生日的时候送个小礼物，价格不贵但是精美的那种，同事一看到就会想起你

33. If you want to build a closer relationship with your colleagues, besides sending red envelopes, you can also give them a small gift on their birthday. It doesn't need to be expensive, just something exquisite that will make your colleagues think of you as soon as they see it.

34. 多给别人正向的肯定，也是在给自己积累善缘。

34. Giving others positive affirmations is also accumulating good karma for yourself.

35. 女人决定了上一代人的幸福，这一代人的快乐，下一代人的未来。所以说一个男人决定女人一生的命运，而一个女人决定了一个男人三代的命运！

35. A woman determines the happiness of the previous generation, the joy of this generation, and the future of the next generation. Therefore, a man decides the fate of a woman for a lifetime, and a woman decides the fate of three generations of a man!

36. 鸡汤并非没有道理，只是鸡汤把道理进行了高度浓缩和简化，没有告诉你道理之外的种种意外之事，也不会告诉你那些见不得光的一面。

36. The chicken soup is not without reason, but the chicken soup highly condenses and simplifies the reasons, without telling you about all the unexpected events beyond the reasons, nor will it reveal the unseemly aspects that are not meant to be seen.

37. 职场上，一旦出现异常情况，一转眼很多人都知道了。因此，说话做事要正，对同事要给予正面的评价为主。

37. In the workplace, once an abnormal situation occurs, it is known to many people in a blink of an eye. Therefore, it is important to speak and act in a proper manner, and to give positive evaluations to colleagues mainly.

38. 我来买单吧=我只是随便说说，意思一下而已。 我来买单=我是认真的！

38. Let me pay the bill = I'm just making a casual comment, just for show. Let me pay the bill = I am serious!

39. 计算一下产品或服务的诚信代价，那就是品牌成本。

39. Calculate the integrity cost of the product or service, which is the brand cost.

40. 重视简单从思考能力的角度讲，成熟的标志就是对“简单”有了新的认识和理解，不再把简单看作简单，或者说，不再轻视简单。真理就是简单的，而这简单的真理就是在平常的朴素的日常生活当中。能够从简单处寻找和发现真理，你就得到了最深刻的真理。无知的人总是认为自己无所不知，什么都不瞧在眼里。无知的人以及少年最常说的话就是：我懂、我知道、这太简单了，如此等等。在一个有思想和有探求精神的人那里，没有什么是简单的，尽管他们能够举重若轻。一个苹果的落地，科学家能够思考到天体运行的规律，一粒简单的沙子，哲学家可以通过它发现一个新的世界。成熟都是相对的，只有比较成熟，没有完全成熟 惊天地专属

40. From the perspective of thinking ability, the sign of maturity is a new understanding and recognition of "simply," no longer viewing simplicity as simple, or in other words, no longer undervaluing simplicity. Truth is simple, and this simple truth is found in ordinary, plain everyday life. If you can seek and discover truth in simplicity, you have gained the deepest truth. The ignorant always believe they know everything and look down on everything. The most common things said by the ignorant and teenagers are: I understand, I know, this is too simple, and so on. To a person of thought and inquisitiveness, nothing is simple, even though they can handle heavy matters with ease. The falling of an apple can lead scientists to think about the laws of celestial movement, and a simple grain of sand can be used by philosophers to discover a new world. Maturity is relative; there is no such thing as complete maturity, only relatively mature.

41. 着手一个计划，先将权责界定清楚，而且分配得当。

41. Initiate a plan by first clearly defining the responsibilities and authorities, and distributing them appropriately.

42. 学会宽容宽容不仅象征成熟，宽容更是一种境界。幼稚的心从来不会宽容，他们偏激、暴怒、盲目行动、“疾恶如仇”，而且自己却屡犯不可“宽容”的错误，他们追求完美，却并不明白自身所存在的缺憾。另外，暴君和强权也从不宽容，他们心胸狭隘、噬血如命、杀人无数，最后，愚蠢只能导致他们的覆灭。宽容不是容忍，因为容忍仍是一种消极的反抗，这种并不明智的情绪其实是暗暗跟自己过不去。生活的阅历、生命的体悟，构成了宽容的前提与基础。宽容别人，也是宽容自己，这体现了对人性缺陷的包容和理解，因此，宽容不仅是一种成熟，也是智慧。

42. To learn tolerance. Tolerance not only symbolizes maturity, but it is also a level of achievement. Immature hearts never tolerate; they are extreme, prone to anger, act blindly, "hate evil as if it were their enemy," and yet they repeatedly commit mistakes that are considered "unforgivable." They strive for perfection but do not understand their own shortcomings. Moreover, tyrants and those in power never tolerate; they are narrow-minded, bloodthirsty, and have killed countless people. Finally, foolishness can only lead to their downfall. Tolerance is not tolerance, because tolerance is still a negative resistance; this unwise emotion is actually a conflict with oneself. Life's experiences and insights form the premise and foundation of tolerance. Tolerating others is also tolerating oneself, which reflects an包容 and understanding of human flaws. Therefore, tolerance is not only maturity but also wisdom.

43. 发怒，通常被认为是缺少修养的表现，是为人处世的大忌。其实，怒也是人的情绪的一种流露，只不过是有些怒可发，有些怒则不应该发。

43. Anger is often considered a sign of a lack of修养 and a major taboo in interpersonal relationships. In fact, anger is also an expression of human emotions, but some anger is justified while some anger is not appropriate to express.

44. 任何让你感到不舒服不安全的人、事、关系，第一时间远离，及时止损对我们每个人都很重要

44. Anyone or anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, distance yourself from them immediately, and timely damage control is very important for each of us.

45. 在职场，一定要有缺点，一个太完美的人，会遭人嫉恨。如果连上司都对你有看法，那职场之路就有“危险”了。所以聪明人会故意的暴露些缺点。

45. In the workplace, it is essential to have flaws; a person who is too perfect will be resented. If even your superiors have reservations about you, then your career path is in "danger." Therefore, wise people will deliberately expose some of their flaws.

46. 不必对不属于自己的东西耿耿于怀。在这睁眼就需要钱的社会，钱是成年人的底气，成年人的尊严和底气都是金钱给的。

46. Don't hold on to things that do not belong to you. In a society where you need money to open your eyes, money is the confidence of adults, and both the dignity and confidence of adults come from money.

47. 还有佛教密宗的 即身成佛 。佛教和道教修炼的最终目的就是 得到永久的生命 ，一听到 佛教 ，基本都是没有这方面的 知识 。 那些什么不信的 ， 成精老鼠 ，还有 佛教净土的 阿弥陀佛 来接引， 他们肯定不敢 ，不过 不是顿悟，黄鼠狼 蛇了 还知道 拜 日月 呢 ，黄鼠狼 蛇 什么的。

47. There is also the esoteric practice of "attaining enlightenment in this very body" in Buddhism. The ultimate goal of the cultivation in both Buddhism and Taoism is to achieve eternal life, and most people who hear about Buddhism basically don't have knowledge about this aspect. What about those who don't believe, becoming spirit rats, and the Amida Buddha from the Pure Land of Buddhism to guide them - they definitely wouldn't dare. However, it's not an instant enlightenment; even foxes and snakes know to worship the sun and the moon, and such creatures.

48. 恩，很不错。我们的大V面膜也可以做到这一点的哦。只要1片。。。。。

48. Well, that's quite good. Our big V mask can also achieve this. Just one sheet......

49. 三人行必有我师，不懂就问没什么丢人的。不懂装懂被戳破了才丢人。遇到肯教自己的人，事后别忘了表示一下。不要用人朝前，不用人朝后

49. If there are three people walking together, there must be someone I can learn from. It's not embarrassing to ask questions when you don't know something. It's only embarrassing when you pretend to know and get caught. If you meet someone who is willing to teach you, don't forget to express your gratitude afterward. Don't flatter people when they are useful and neglect them when they are not.

50. 在人际交往的纷繁复杂中，每个人都渴望得到他人的认可与尊重。然而，有时我们可能会过于自信，高估自己在他人心中的地位与份量，从而陷入一种自我陶醉的误区。这种心态不仅可能导致我们对他人产生错误的判断，还可能影响我们的人际关系，甚至影响我们的自我认知。

50. Amid the complexities of interpersonal interactions, everyone yearns for recognition and respect from others. However, sometimes we may be overly confident, overestimating our status and importance in the eyes of others, thus falling into a delusion of self-admiration. Such a mindset not only may lead to erroneous judgments about others but also may affect our interpersonal relationships, even impacting our self-perception.

51. 年轻的时候一定要想办法多挣钱，钱多钱少无所谓有路子就行，多开发副业。以后年纪大了，挣钱会变得越来越难。学习能力，知识更新的速度和体力精力都跟不上

51. When young, you must find ways to make more money, it doesn't matter whether it's a lot or a little, as long as there is a way. Develop more side businesses. As you get older, making money will become increasingly difficult. The ability to learn, the speed of knowledge updating, and physical and mental energy will all be unable to keep up.

52. 忍耐，不是妥协、无能的表现。容忍是一种很高的境界，是一种大智慧，也可以说是一种韬光养晦，是一个人处于劣势或不得志时，为了将来的发展而采取的策略。

52. Patience is not a manifestation of compromise or inability. Tolerance is a very high level, a form of great wisdom, and can also be said to be a strategy of hiding one's light under a bushel. It is a strategy adopted by a person when they are in a disadvantageous position or are not achieving their aspirations, in order to foster future development.