人生无常，心态最关键。在这纷繁复杂的世界里，唯有保持一颗平和的心态，方能从容应对生活的种种挑战。

Life is unpredictable, and a positive mindset is the key. In this complicated world, only by maintaining a peaceful mind can one calmly face the various challenges of life.

1. 懦弱并不可耻，逃兵也不可怕，可悲的是一辈子将真实的情感封印于心，不曾表露、也不曾被看见，无爱无恨。爱人在身边，只是一种习惯的麻木，却又无处可逃、无人可诉。人生很难啊，我们终将与自己和解，对自己诚实，说服自己去接纳、去遗忘，去掩盖青春的味道和期待，然后活成千篇一律的样子。是的，无所谓对错，在每一个夜深人静之际，只有自己能听见心底的哭泣声、欢愉声，或者无声之声。情感的流动是奢侈的，是需要心力的维系与呵护，于是最偷懒的行迹莫过于互不打扰，流于形式。夫妻尽管日日相见，可是还剩多少的浪漫与激情呢？怕只怕也会是心已有别，情爱终不再相遇。

1. It is not disgraceful to be weak, nor is it terrifying to be a deserter. What is regrettable is spending a lifetime locking true emotions in one's heart, never expressing or revealing them, with no love and no hate. Having a loved one by one's side is merely a numb habit, yet there is nowhere to escape to or anyone to turn to. Life is really tough; we will eventually make peace with ourselves, be honest with ourselves, persuade ourselves to accept and forget, to mask the taste of youth and expectations, and then live out a life that is all too common. Indeed, it does not matter whether it is right or wrong; at every moment when the night is deep and quiet, only one can hear the sound of one's own heart's weeping, joy, or the silent voice. The flow of emotions is luxurious, requiring the nurturing and maintenance of one's heart, so the laziest action is to not disturb each other, to stay on the surface. Despite seeing each other every day, how much romance and passion remain between a husband and wife? It is feared that their hearts have already drifted apart, and love and passion will no longer meet.

2. 3注意这里说的前有do后无to的前面的do要是实意动词do,不能是助动词do

2. 3 Note that the "do" mentioned here, which precedes the subject and has no "to" after it, must be a real verb "do" and cannot be a helping verb "do".

3. “戏剧新生活”浸没式戏剧“邂逅·似水”，又一次被感动的故事，俗套而窥见内心的阴埋。这封在故事中的信，来自于某一位佚名人士，曾写下的心情留在了似水酒吧。时间已追忆无数个日日夜夜，写下故事的他或者她，是否已然放下了感情的伤蚀，开启了新的生活和人生呢？是否遇见另一个爱情故事？是否也会偶尔听到这封信呢？感怀年少时光的自己，掩映出成熟、稳重的气质，于曾经邂逅在乌镇的两颗心，刻下专属于彼此的故事与秘密，是一种美好的寄托与回忆，没有在一起的遗憾，用另一种方式来缅怀。但愿依然相信爱情，依然会遇见爱情。

3. "New Life in Drama" immersive drama "Encounter · Like Water", once again a story that moves us, mundane yet revealing the hidden darkness within. This letter within the story comes from an anonymous person, whose feelings were left at the Like Water bar. Time has passed countless days and nights, and the one who wrote the story, has he or she already let go of the pain of love and started a new life and a new journey? Have they encountered another love story? Might they also occasionally hear this letter? Reflecting on the younger self, a mature and stable demeanor emerges, and for the two hearts that once encountered each other in Wuzhen, etching stories and secrets exclusive to each other is a beautiful寄托 and memory, without the regret of not being together, commemorating in another way. May we still believe in love, and may we still encounter love.

4. 年龄，只是我们走过岁月的一种痕迹，别将自己的生活寄托在年龄线上，要学会淡忘自己的年纪，才能以一种更好的心态，去看人世间的来来往往和纷纷扰扰。

4. Age is just a trace of the years we have lived through. Don't depend on the age line for your life. Learn to forget your age, and you can view the comings and goings and the hustle and bustle of the world with a better mindset.

5. 2但是最关键的是在美国英语中有3个短语can't but do: can't help but do: can't choose but do已经是惯用法了，不能按第一条规律遵守。

5.2 But the most critical point is that in American English, there are three phrases that follow the construction "can't but do": "can't help but do" and "can't choose but do" have already become conventional usage and cannot be adhered to according to the first rule.

6. 不定式前有助动词do，to 后面的do需要省略。

6. When there is an auxiliary verb "do" before the infinitive, the "do" after "to" should be omitted.

7. 人生没有最好的年龄，只有最好的心态。一岁年龄一岁人，一岁年龄一岁心，无论到了什么年纪，都无需抱怨，请相信一切都是最好的安排。

7. There is no best age in life, only the best attitude. A year of age is a year of a person, a year of age is a year of heart. No matter what age you reach, do not complain. Believe that everything is the best arrangement.

8. 2用is连接，不定式作表语时前面主语有do时后面表语to do的to省略，如： What I want to do is stay at home What I want is to stay with you

8.2 When using "is" to connect, and the infinitive is used as the complement, the "to" before the subject is omitted if there is a "do" before the subject. For example: What I want to do is stay at home. What I want is to stay with you.

9. 养成积极阅读的学习习惯。内容可以是教材、中学生英语周报、21世纪中学生英语报，英语简易读物、奇速英语24个故事串记高中3500词汇、新概念英语等，同时作好读书笔记。

9. Develop a positive habit of reading for learning. The content can include textbooks, weekly English newspapers for middle school students, 21st Century English newspaper for middle school students, simplified English reading materials, Quicksilver English's 24 stories to memorize 3500 high school vocabulary words, New Concept English, and so on. At the same time, keep a good reading notebook.

10. 连词连接两不定式前面的有do后面的to do的to省略，如： I have nothing to do but watch TV all day long Tom have no choice but to give it up

10. When a conjunction connects two infinitives, the "to" before the second infinitive is often omitted, as in: "I have nothing to do but watch TV all day long," "Tom have no choice but to give it up."

11. 我们终将都要远行，最终都要跟稚嫩的自己告别，也期待遇见不必再说“再见”的人，在每一个清晨、每一个夜晚有你、我的续写，划过最美的天际，刻下最美的专属爱情故事，不再哭泣，不再有眼泪……

11. We will all eventually have to embark on our long journeys, ultimately to bid farewell to our naive selves, and we also look forward to meeting people with whom we no longer need to say "goodbye." With you, my beloved, in every morning and every evening, we continue to write, across the most beautiful skies, the most beautiful love story dedicated to us, no longer crying, no longer with tears...

12. 相信只要我们用心去生活，用心去爱，我们的人生必将充满着无尽的美好与幸福。

12. Believe that as long as we live with heart and love with heart, our lives will be filled with endless beauty and happiness.

13. 杨绛说：人生没有最好的年龄，只有最好的心态，我们争不过岁月，也跑不过时间，唯有以自己喜欢的方式，过好每一个日出日落，才是最重要的。

13. Yang Jiang said: There is no best age in life, only the best attitude. We cannot compete with time nor outpace it; the most important thing is to live each sunrise and sunset in the way that suits us best.

14. 人到中年，经历多了，就会发现，没有一个人的人生是一帆风顺，一路走来，每个人的行囊里都装满了故事，每个故事总会教会你些什么，有的教会了你成长，有的教会了你感恩，无论好的坏的，都要平静的接受，不焦虑，不抱怨，以最好的心态过好当下的生活！

14. As one reaches middle age, having experienced more, they will find that no one's life is smooth sailing. As we journey along, each of us carries a backpack filled with stories. Every story will teach you something; some will teach you growth, some will teach you gratitude. Whether good or bad, accept them calmly, without anxiety or complaint, and live the present with the best attitude!

15. 人生短暂，莫要辜负了这一路的风景和岁月。按照自己的节奏和方式，活出属于自己的精彩。在自己的世界里绽放光芒，在别人的世界里留下温暖与善意。

15. Life is short, do not waste the scenery and years along the way. Live out your own brilliance according to your own rhythm and manner. Shine in your own world, and leave warmth and kindness in others' worlds.

16. 能折磨你的，从来不是任何人的情绪，而是你心存幻想的期待，世间万物都在治愈你，唯独你不肯放过自己。无论何时都要学会调整好心态，做最好的自己，热爱生活，珍惜当下，过去的就让它过去吧，要以积极乐观的心态继续前行，成长总是有代价的！

16. What torments you is never anyone's emotions, but your unrealistic expectations; everything in the world is healing you, yet you refuse to let go of yourself. At all times, you must learn to adjust your mindset, be the best version of yourself, love life, cherish the present, let the past be past, and continue on with a positive and optimistic attitude! Growth always comes with a price!

17. “邂逅·似水”，矫情吗？并不尽然。往往是女性在结婚前临阵退缩，而此次是以男性视角的退缩，即使是一场误会，又有多少人会渴望着如此的误会呢？因如此的误会滋长了勇气，改变了人生轨迹。尽管匆匆邂逅终不得意，但有个人惦念或是被惦念，同样的美好。我们总是在遗憾、过错中一步步走来，然后学会如何去爱、去面对，曾经哭的像个孩子，也是面对了自己的真实，铭记了这份情感的故事，写下、折叠收藏后，开启下一段的美好。人生有着种种的变数、不定式，很难一言以蔽之怎样的所获与希冀，未来有些什么，也无从知晓，遵从自己的心却又是那么的艰难！每一个心都在渴望爱，只是忘了爱、忘了悸动的心。勇气是一路随行的武器，无论是外因的诱使，还是内心的力量，都渴望活出真的自己与爱的模样，期待下一个的邂逅，然后紧握不放，为自己、为似水的年华，至少无怨无悔。

17. "Encounter·As Water," is it melodramatic? Not entirely. Often, it's women who retreat at the last moment before marriage, but this time, it's a retreat from a male perspective. Even if it's a misunderstanding, how many people would yearn for such a misunderstanding? Such misunderstandings have nurtured courage and changed the course of life. Although the brief encounter ends without satisfaction, having someone who cares or being cared for is equally beautiful. We always move forward step by step, filled with regrets and mistakes, and then learn how to love and face life. We once cried like a child, but also faced our true selves, remembered the story of this emotion, wrote it down, folded it away, and opened up the beauty of the next chapter. Life is full of various variables and indeterminacies, making it hard to summarize what we gain and hope for in one word. What the future holds is unknown, and it's difficult to follow one's heart. Every heart desires love, but has forgotten the heart that yearns for it and the heart that is moved. Courage is the weapon that travels with us, whether driven by external factors or the power within, we all desire to live out the true self and the true form of love, looking forward to the next encounter, holding on tightly, for ourselves and for the fleeting years of water, at least without any regrets.

18. 生活里没有怨气的女人特别值得尊敬，一个对往事绝口不提的女人自带贵气。做一个眉宇间写满风调雨顺的女子，安静于暖，安然于心，不急不躁，清淡欢颜。

18. A woman without grievances in life is especially worthy of respect, and a woman who never speaks of the past exudes an air of nobility. Be a woman whose brow is etched with the ease of the seasons, serene in warmth, at peace within, calm and unflustered, with a light and cheerful demeanor.

19. 好心态，它不受年龄的限制，无论是年幼的孩童还是年迈的老人，有了好心态才能都能拥有属于自己的快乐。

19. A good attitude, it is not restricted by age. Whether it is a young child or an elderly person, one can only have their own happiness with a good attitude.

20. 高中的英语需要大量的单词量，才能轻松的阅读小短文。才能轻松应对英语听力。虽然现在的高考听力和笔答部分是分开考的，但是利用这个漫长的暑假，多背背单词，以防止高一升学之后课程太紧张，生活太忙碌，无暇顾及额外单词的背诵。

20. In high school, a large vocabulary is needed in English to easily read short articles. It is also necessary to easily handle English listening skills. Although the listening and written sections of the college entrance examination are tested separately now, it is advisable to review more vocabulary during this long summer vacation to prevent the curriculum from becoming too tight and life too busy after entering high school, leaving no time to study additional vocabulary.

21. 自我检测的习惯。可以提前翻阅一些简单的高中练习题，对高中试题题型有所了解，做好初高中知识的衔接与过渡。

21. Habit of self-assessment. It is recommended to preview some simple high school practice questions in advance to get familiar with the types of high school test questions, and to prepare for the connection and transition between junior high and high school knowledge.

22. 生活，不是这样就是那样，总之不是你想的那样，所以一切顺其自然就好；不要羡慕任何人的生活，其实谁家的锅底都有灰；人生没有幸福不幸福，只有知足不知足，只要心里充满阳光，脚踏实地走好每段人生路，一地鸡毛的日子就会快乐很多，你要时刻明白生活是自己的，不要过给别人看；不要羡慕别人的生活，知足常乐，笑着面对，才是你最应该做的！

22. Life is not just like this or like that, but in any case, it's not what you imagine it to be. Therefore, just go with the flow; don't envy anyone's life, because everyone's pot bottom has its soot. In life, there is no such thing as happiness or unhappiness, only contentment or discontent. As long as your heart is filled with sunshine and you walk firmly on each step of life's journey, the days filled with trivial matters will be much happier. Always remember that life is your own, don't live it for others; don't envy others' lives, be content and happy, and face it with a smile, which is what you should do most!

23. 杨绛说：“人生一站有一站的风景，一岁有一岁的味道，无论别人如何待你，都要好好珍惜自己，对的起内心的那一抹骄傲，在自己的世界里独善其身，在别人的世界里顺其自然。”

23. Yang Jiang said, "Life has its own scenery at each stop, and each year has its own taste. No matter how others treat you, you should cherish yourself well, live up to that bit of pride within you. Be good to yourself in your own world, and go with the flow in others' worlds."

24. 故事发生在乌村似水酒吧，一群好朋友在送行A男，最后一夜的单身派对，喝完这顿酒A男就要奔赴北京，隔天迎娶他的新娘薇朵儿。只是他并不如是的开心，因为薇朵儿并非他所爱，只是世俗的凑合，因自己的懦弱而迁就了这份即将的婚姻，也总是会被未婚妻称之为“窝囊废”。于是借酒浇愁，愁更愁，惆怅满腹，更易醉了心。相喝甚欢时，船票莫名被其中一位好友怀揣于身，醉眼朦胧的一众人，阴差阳错送别了不该走的人，留下了应成为新郎的A男。

24. The story takes place at the Wucun Si Shui Bar, where a group of good friends are bidding farewell to Man A. It's the last night of his bachelor party before he sets off to Beijing the next day to marry his bride, Weidouer. However, he is not as happy as he seems, because Weidouer is not the one he loves; it's a marriage of convenience due to his own weakness. He always gets called a "wimp" by his未婚妻. So he drinks to drown his sorrows, but the more he drinks, the sadder he becomes, and his heart becomes even more醉. When they were drinking and having a good time, one of their friends unknowingly kept the boat ticket, and in a twist of fate, the group mistakenly sent off the wrong person, leaving Man A, who should have been the groom, behind.

25. 春有百花秋有月，夏有凉风冬有雪。年龄增长，带不走生活的光彩和滋味，驱不散心中的热情和勇气。忘记年龄，活得豁达洒脱，每一年都是黄金时代，每一刻都能精彩纷呈。

25. In spring there are blooming flowers, in autumn there is the moon, in summer there is a cool breeze, and in winter there is snow. As age increases, it cannot take away the brilliance and taste of life, nor drive away the passion and courage in one's heart. Forget about age, live with magnanimity and ease, every year is the golden age, and every moment can be full of wonders.

26. “浮沉的杂质，浮沉的感情，累了就停下来。你、我、故事，都埋在这里，我最爱的你，千千万万就停在这里。秋水带走落叶，冬阳照进春泥，你我一别，终不会再见。”

26. "The floating impurities, the floating emotions, stop when you're tired. You, me, and the story, all buried here. My most beloved, you, countless, stop here. The autumn water carries away the fallen leaves, the winter sun shines into the spring mud. With our parting, we will never meet again."

27. 随时用英语的习惯和用英语思考的习惯，如：坚持写英语日记、用英语与朋友交谈等。

27. The habit of using English at any time, such as: persisting in writing English diaries, conversing with friends in English, etc.

28. 珍惜每一个当下，用心去感受生活的美好。无论遇到怎样的困难和挑战，都始终坚守自己的内心，保持那份对自我的珍视。

28. Cherish every moment and feel the beauty of life with your heart. Regardless of the difficulties and challenges you may encounter, always hold fast to your inner self and maintain that appreciation for yourself.

29. 高三艺术生在从暑假开始进入专业课备考期间，通常的做法是将文化课全部放下，在长达半年之久的专业课学习期间，完全不学习文化课是造成艺术生文化课差的主要原因。特别是美术生，在参加集训之前，最好找一个开设文化课的画室，这样做的目的不是让你文化课能有多大的提高，而是能够保持不退步即可。如果画室确因条件所限，没有文化课程，建议艺术生购买一套艺术生文化课复习教材—艺考生文化课百日学案，在每天能够抽出一部分时间学习文化课。艺术生考完专业课，回到学校开始复习文化课的时候是高三下学期，也就是从3月份到高考这段时间是艺术生复习文化课的黄金时期。这段时间除了在4月份还有一个艺术类合格证的查询和发放，其他时间考生可以安心复习文化课，并且，关于艺术类合格证的查询可以交给家长去查询。考生本人不要把太多的精力放在合格证上，不要认为合格证不下来就没有心思学习文化课，如果等合格证全部下来，基本上整个4月份就快过去了，学习文化课的时间了了无几。所以，艺术生在考完专业回来后，就应该马上投入文化课复习，不要被其他杂念所影响，考生家长在这段时间应主动帮助艺术生承担起查询艺术专业合格情况，减小考生压力。艺术生在短短3个月的文化课复习时间里，一定要遵循6字复习方针：重基础、抓考点。艺术生基础差，在这么短的时间里要把高中3年的课程全部复习一遍不可能实现，这就需要艺术生有选择性的复习，首先从基础知识学期，循序渐进，从易到难。然后分类归纳高考的必考点、频考点，着重针对这些考点做题进行强化训练。可能有些艺术生不知道哪些是基础知识，哪些是考点，那么艺术生在最后3个月里，使用《艺考生文化课百日学案》复习文化课，该书是艺术生文化课专用的复习教材，特别注重对基础知识的掌握，对高考必考点的梳理也非常独到。艺术生短时间内没有时间归纳这些知识点，就可以使用该书复习。人们普遍认为艺术生升学容易，但是随着艺考热的升温，艺术生升学竞争力越来越大，对文化素质的要求也越来越高，艺术生升学捷径的优势正在逐渐减小。文化课好的艺术生在未来几年的艺术高考中整体上会更占优势。

29. High school art students often put all cultural studies aside when starting their professional course preparation period from the summer vacation. The complete discontinuation of cultural studies during the lengthy half-year period of professional course learning is a major reason for the poor performance of art students in cultural studies. Especially for art students specializing in fine arts, it is best to find a studio that offers cultural studies courses before attending the intensive training. The purpose of this is not to significantly improve cultural studies but to maintain a level of proficiency. If the studio indeed lacks cultural courses due to limitations, it is recommended that art students purchase a set of cultural studies review materials for art students - "Art Exam Cultural Studies One Hundred-Day Study Plan," and allocate some time each day to study cultural studies. Art students return to school and start reviewing cultural studies in the second semester of their senior year, which is from March to the college entrance examination, a golden period for art students to review cultural studies. During this time, except for the art qualification certificate search and distribution in April, candidates can focus on reviewing cultural studies. Moreover, the search for art qualification certificates can be entrusted to parents. Candidates should not focus too much energy on the qualification certificates and should not think that there is no motivation to study cultural studies if the certificates do not arrive in time. If all certificates are delayed, it is likely that most of April will have passed, leaving very little time for studying cultural studies. Therefore, art students should immediately engage in cultural studies review after completing the professional exam, avoiding distractions, and parents should actively assist their children in checking their art professional qualification status during this time to alleviate the candidate's stress. Art students must adhere to the 6-character review principle of "emphasizing the basics and grasping key points" in the short three-month cultural studies review period. It is impossible to review the entire three years of high school courses in such a short time for art students with poor foundations, so selective review is necessary. They should start with basic knowledge, progressing gradually from easy to difficult. Then, categorize and summarize the key points and frequently tested topics for the college entrance examination, focusing on strengthening training for these key points. Some art students may not know which are basic knowledge points and which are key points, so in the final three months, they can use "Art Exam Cultural Studies One Hundred-Day Study Plan" to review cultural studies. This book is a dedicated review material for art students and focuses on the mastery of basic knowledge and uniquely arranges the review of key points for the college entrance examination. Art students can use this book to review cultural studies without the time to summarize these knowledge points. The general belief is that it is easy for art students to advance to higher education, but with the increasing popularity of art exams, the competitiveness of art students in higher education is increasing, and the requirement for cultural quality is also rising. The advantage of shortcuts for art students is gradually diminishing. Art students with strong cultural studies performance will have an overall advantage in the art college entrance examination in the coming years.

30. 故事只是如此，日夜相随的人也许并没有爱情，而一眼邂逅也许刻下了爱情的印痕。也正因如此，“廊桥遗梦”才会成为经典，让人爱着、怨着、非议着，无论掺杂何种的情感，对于男女主的爱情都有着莫名期待和共鸣，只是很希望在对的时间遇见那份纯然的爱恋，现实不尽其然啊，谁又知道结局在哪呢？与谁邂逅呢？“邂逅·似水”，有错过、有释怀，更多的是遗憾与无奈。又一次被吴彼打动了，他所饰演的A男，懦弱而动情，当他一次次端起酒杯灌下的浇愁，当他在酒吧外跌跌撞撞的呕吐和彷徨，当他酒醒后的紧张以及释然，他在离别女生时的欲言又止和泛起的泪光，还有走出酒吧后的落寞和踌躇背影，内心波澜起伏的纠葛，都好为之动容。

30. The story is just like that, the person who follows you day and night may not have love, while a casual encounter may leave the mark of love. That's why "The Bridges of Madison County" has become a classic, loved, cursed, and criticized. No matter what kind of emotion is involved, there is an inexplicable expectation and resonance for the love of the main characters. Everyone just hopes to meet that pure love at the right time, but reality is not always as expected. Who knows where the ending will be? With whom will you meet? "Encounter·As Water" has missed opportunities, release, but more is regret and helplessness. Once again, Wu Bi touched me deeply. The male character he played was weak but emotional. When he raises the glass and drinks to drown his sorrows, when he stumbles and vomits outside the bar, when he is anxious and relieved after waking up, when he hesitates to speak and the tears well up when he parts with the girl, and the melancholy and hesitating silhouette he leaves after leaving the bar, all of these inner turmoil and emotions are so moving that they can't help but touch one's heart.

31. 早起朗读的习惯。出声并大声地朗读，自我欣赏，自我陶醉。

31. The habit of early morning reading. Read aloud and loudly, revel in it, indulge in it.

32. 人生永远没有太晚的开始，真正高级的活法，就是忘记年龄，始终怀有对生活的热情。

32. There is never a too late start in life. The truly sophisticated way to live is to forget about age and always maintain passion for life.

33. 利用这个漫长的暑假，提前做好语文的文言文背诵工作，也是一个非常不错的选择。毕竟高中文言文的选文是非常晦涩难懂的。高中的学生单纯地依靠背诵课后习题和课文，要取得高分是很难的事情。但是课内的知识课外考，课本的学习也是非常重要的事情。

33. Making good use of this long summer vacation to prepare in advance for the memorization of classical Chinese texts in Chinese literature is also an excellent choice. After all, the classical Chinese texts selected in high school are very obscure and hard to understand. For high school students, simply relying on memorizing exercises and textbooks after class is a challenging task to achieve high scores. However, it is also very important to study textbooks outside of class and to apply classroom knowledge to extra-curricular exams.

34. 走进围城的人们都一致觉得：婚姻就是那么回事，谈爱情奢侈。感情在鸡毛蒜皮、菜米油盐中慢慢被消磨殆尽，必然的是抚养孩子、赡养老人，夫妻关系排在最后，甚至忘却了惊喜。但这是最牢固的合作伙伴关系，只要守住身体，中国的小家庭一般很难被拆解，爱与不爱不重要，给孩子一个完整的家才是最关键的，尽管有嫌隙，但终会一起慢慢变老，相扶相携，活成了外人羡慕的“白头偕老”，这也许是最自然的婚姻模样。扪心自问，我也渴望拥有如此相得益彰的人生轨迹，无怨无悔。但在这流于世俗的情感中，仍期待有一些小奢望，出门牵个手、回家一个拥抱、偶尔烛光晚餐、两人的旅行等等，不求爱无限，只愿可闻其心！

34. Those who have stepped into the "city of marriage" all have a consensus: Marriage is just that, talking about love is luxurious. Feelings are gradually worn down in the trivialities of life, such as trivial matters, daily necessities, and cooking oil. The inevitable tasks include raising children and supporting the elderly, with the relationship between husband and wife placed last, even forgetting the surprise. But this is the most solid partnership, as long as one maintains physical integrity, the Chinese nuclear family is generally difficult to break up. Whether there is love or not is not important; providing a complete home for the children is the most crucial. Despite some differences, they will eventually grow old together, supporting each other, becoming the enviable "silver-haired couple" that others admire, which may be the most natural form of marriage. Reflecting on my own heart, I also long for such a complementary life轨迹, without any regret. But amidst this secular emotion, I still have some small ambitions: holding hands when going out, giving a hug when coming home, an occasional candlelit dinner, a couple's trip, and so on. I do not seek infinite love, but wish to hear their hearts!

35. 1but/except前有实义动词（有些老师也叫行为动词）do的各种形式，but/except后面要用“不带to的不定式（即动词原形），反之需要加to"

35. 1 When the word "but" or "except" is preceded by a real verb (some teachers also call it a behavioral verb) in any of its forms, the "but" or "except" should be followed by "an infinitive without 'to' (i.e., the base form of the verb), otherwise 'to' is needed."

36. 专题总结的习惯。对初中知识以专题的形式总结复习，温故而知新。确保初中2182个单词的熟练掌握。

36. The habit of thematic summary. Summarize and review middle school knowledge in thematic forms, to learn the new through the old. Ensure the proficient mastery of 2182 words in middle school.

37. 孑然一身地仍在似水的酒吧中，被叫醒后的惊慌失措，理清思路后的长舒一口气，是潜意错过、还是身心全部抗拒的使然？亦或是命运的捉弄啊。于是邂逅了朦胧之意的女生，这段表演狂野而激烈，这份邂逅也导致了女生和男友感情瞬间的分崩离析，只因男友的不信任，少了信任的感情又是多么的不堪一击啊。两个感情失落的人相互慰藉、互有爱慕，只是现实并不如此，各自需要奔赴自己的轨迹，灵魂交集却无法言喻，这一场邂逅相逢，也许是前世五百年的回眸换得，然后就此别过，有缘梦中再续，终不会再见。“如果这爱是误会，今生别的事我不想再了解，年华似水匆匆一瞥。”

37. Alone in the bar that resembles flowing water, I was startled awake, then took a deep breath after clearing my thoughts, wondering whether it was due to subconscious avoidance or a total resistance from body and mind, or perhaps the trickery of fate. Thus, I encountered a girl with a vague meaning. This performance was wild and intense, and this encounter also led to the sudden collapse of the girl's relationship with her boyfriend, solely because of his lack of trust. How fragile is love without trust? Two hearts that have lost love comfort each other, mutually admiring, but reality is not like this. Each needs to pursue their own path, and the intersection of souls is indescribable. This encounter may have been the result of a glance of 500 years in a past life, and then we part ways. With a chance to meet again in dreams, we will never see each other again. "If this love is a misunderstanding, I don't want to understand anything else in this life, as the years flow by in a fleeting glance."

38. 好心态，一种对生活的积极态度。无论我们处于人生的哪个阶段，都应该学会发现和创造快乐。

38. A good attitude, a positive outlook on life. No matter which stage of life we are in, we should learn to discover and create happiness.