在每一段情感的终结中，寻找成长，成就自我。

Seek growth and achievement in every end of an emotional experience.

1. “无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命中该出现的人，绝非偶然，他一定会教会你一些什么。”

1. "No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, not by chance. He will definitely teach you something."

2. 一段关系尽力之后还是走到了尽头，无论是出自什么原因，那就放手吧，手中的沙子攥的越紧，流失就会越多，因为他本来就不属于你，人和人之间讲究的是缘分，有的人在你生命中注定只能陪伴你一程，不能陪伴你一生，不管怎样，还是谢谢他曾经来过你的世界里，曾经温暖过你一段时间，在他的陪伴下，你也曾快乐过，你也成长了不少，我们应该感恩，没必要撕破脸！

2. After making every effort in a relationship, it has still come to an end, regardless of the reasons. Then let go. The tighter you hold the sand in your hand, the more it will slip away, because it never belonged to you. What matters between people is fate. Some people in your life are destined to accompany you for a while, not for a lifetime. No matter what, thank them for coming into your world and warming your heart for a period of time. With their company, you have also been happy and grown a lot. We should be grateful and there is no need to tear each other apart!

3. 我很喜欢杨绛的一段话：无论什么关系，情分被消耗殆尽缘分便走到了终点，没有谁对谁错，最后所有的错都应该归咎在自己身上，然后礼貌地退场。把自己还给自己，把别人还给别人，山水一程，再不相逢，愿来生，不见，不欠，不念。

3. I really like a quote by Yang Jiang: In any relationship, when the emotional bond is exhausted, the缘分 reaches its end. There is no right or wrong between anyone, and in the end, all mistakes should be attributed to oneself. Then, leave with politeness. Return to yourself, and let others be with others. With a journey of mountains and rivers, never to meet again. May we not see each other in our next life, not owe each other, and not miss each other.

4. 2学会宽容。两个人在一起久了，就像牙齿和舌头，不可避免会碰到一起，是火星撞地球，还是各自拖让一步呢，当这段感情告一段落的时候，我们会发现，宽容是给自己最好的礼物。

4.2 Learn to be tolerant. When two people have been together for a long time, it's inevitable that they will clash, like Mars crashing into Earth, or each one stepping back a little. When this stage of the relationship comes to an end, we will find that tolerance is the best gift we can give ourselves.

5. 不要执着于过去的回忆，学会放下，让自己的心归于平静。世界向来如此，没有谁会一直陪着你走下去！抓不住的东西，连伸手都是多余的，放下过去，走出来，未来前行的路上还有更好的等着我们，何必因为现在的一点小事耿耿于怀呢？我们值得更好的！

5. Do not cling to the memories of the past. Learn to let go and let your heart return to peace. The world has always been this way; no one will walk with you all the way! Things that can't be grasped are unnecessary to reach for. Let go of the past, step forward, and on the path of the future, there are better things waiting for us. Why worry about a trivial matter now? We deserve better!

6. 这是我学到的，希望能够帮到你，喜欢的话点个赞吧！

6. This is what I have learned, and I hope it can help you. If you like it, please give it a like!

7. 经历过后，你会沉稳很多，成熟很多，会明白没有什么不可放下，只有强大自己才是最重要的，当你真正走出来，就不会因为谁的到来而狂喜，也不会因为谁的离去而悲伤，因为生活是我们自己的，在自己的世界里独善其身，会得到更好的成长！

7. After going through it, you will become much more composed and mature. You will realize that there is nothing that cannot be let go of, and that the most important thing is to strengthen yourself. When you truly come out of it, you will not be overjoyed at the arrival of anyone, nor will you be sad at anyone's departure, because life is our own. By taking care of oneself in one's own world, you will grow better!

8. “缘分本来就稀薄寡淡，相伴一程已是万分感激，没有什么东西是一成不变的，世事无常，没有谁能一直陪着谁，只要同行的时候是快乐的，就是好的相遇，至于怎么走散的，并不重要。”

8. "Fate is inherently thin and faint, and to accompany each other on a journey is already a great gratitude. Nothing remains unchanged, and the world is ever-changing. No one can always accompany another. As long as the time spent together is joyful, it is a good meeting. As for how it ends, it's not important."

9. 人生中，我们总会遭遇失去与得到，痛苦与快乐，感情也是，无论亲情，友情，爱情都是如此，弘一法师用他的智慧告诉我们：“不要害怕失去，你所失去的，本来就不属于你。”

9. In life, we will always encounter loss and gain, pain and joy, and this applies to emotions as well, whether it be family ties, friendship, or love. Master Hongyi, with his wisdom, teaches us: "Do not fear loss; what you lose was never yours to begin with."

10. 在一起的时候，就好好珍惜和把握，不得已分开以后，就坦然接受和面对。

10. Cherish and grasp the moments when we are together, and calmly accept and face the separation when it is inevitable.

11. 人与人之间的关系，缘起则聚，缘尽则散，随缘而至，缘起，我在人群中看见了你！缘灭，我看见了你在人群中！人和人之间讲究的还是缘分！

11. The relationships between people come together due to causes and disperse when the causes are exhausted. They come and go with the causes. Seeing you among the crowd, I see you due to causes; seeing you among the crowd, I see the end of the causes. What matters between people is still the cause of meeting!

12. 人生就像一趟列车，有一起上车的，也有中途下车的，每一站有每一站的风景，珍惜我们同行的时光，也看淡别人的先行一步离开，没有谁会一直陪着谁，到了必须要离开的时候，互道一声安好，从此让花成花，树成树，在各自的世界里，绽放新的光彩！

12. Life is like a train journey, with some boarding and others getting off at various stops. Each station has its own scenery. Cherish the time we travel together, and let go of others who leave a step ahead. No one will accompany another forever. When it's time to part, say to each other "be well," and from then on, let the flowers bloom as flowers, and the trees as trees, shining with new radiance in their own worlds!

13. 1学会珍惜。珍惜青春梦一场，珍惜年少的时光。时光就像白驹过隙，转瞬即逝，而我们有时却丝毫不觉，甚至傻傻地以为有大把的时光可以挥霍。

13. 1 Learn to cherish. Cherish the youthful dreams and the time of youth. Time flies by like a swift horse, slipping away in a flash, yet sometimes we are completely unaware of it, even naively thinking that we have plenty of time to squander.

14. 3学会尊重。人与人之间，无论是恋人还是朋友，还是家人，都不能越过底线，每个人都有一道隐藏的红线，那就是尊重，互相尊重是爱的起点，也是维系感情的法宝。

14. 3 Learn to respect. Among people, whether they are lovers, friends, or family members, one should not cross the line. Each person has an invisible red line, which is respect. Mutual respect is the starting point of love and also the magic key to maintaining relationships.

15. 总有一天你会明白，人生就是一场孤独的旅行，有人闯入你的生活里，只是为了陪伴你一程，再不舍也要放手，失去了就忘记，再难过也要忘，因为人必须朝前看，才能拥有更多的尊严和幸福，没有那么多的多愁善感，没有那么多的想不开，随着岁月的流逝，世间万物都在治愈你，到最后时间都会替你轻描淡写！

15. One day you will understand that life is a solitary journey. Some people may enter your life just to accompany you for a while, and even though it's hard to let go, you must let go. If you lose something, forget it; if you feel sad, try to forget it too. Because people must look forward, in order to have more dignity and happiness. There are not so many melancholic thoughts, not so many things you can't let go of. As time passes, everything in the world is healing you. In the end, time will make everything seem trivial!