懂得低头，家和万事兴：16句家庭和諧協智的箴言

Know when to bow your head, and all will be well at home: 16 proverbs of family harmony and wisdom.

1. 小时候认为自己是天上的一条龙，长大后发觉生命渺小如地上的一条虫，无论是龙是虫，都是独一无二的存在，充满信心，生活依然精彩！

1. As a child, I believed I was a dragon soaring in the heavens, but as I grew up, I realized that life is as tiny as a worm crawling on the ground. Whether as a dragon or a worm, each of us is a unique existence. Filled with confidence, life is still full of wonders!

2. 爱情是一杯烈酒，酒饮千杯不醉人；爱情是一杯烈酒，酒浓香气溢扑鼻；爱情是一杯烈酒，久久相拥最甜蜜。爱情是一杯烈酒，酒不醉人人自醉。

2. Love is a glass of strong liquor, drinking a thousand cups won't make one drunk; love is a glass of strong liquor, its rich aroma is intoxicating; love is a glass of strong liquor, the longest embrace is the sweetest. Love is a glass of strong liquor, it doesn't make others drunk, but they get drunk by themselves.

3. 烦闷时你为我解忧愁，迷茫中你为我指方向，风雨中你为我撑雨伞，黑夜里你为我点亮心灯。亲爱的自己，委屈了，感谢过去时光的相依相伴，未来的日子一无既往，一心一意，风雨同舟，勇往直前。加油！

3. When I'm troubled, you ease my worries; when I'm lost, you point me in the right direction; in the rain and wind, you hold an umbrella over me; and in the dark, you light up the lamp of my heart. Dearest self, you've endured so much. Thank you for the companionship of the past times. In the days to come, let's go forward with undivided loyalty, sailing through storms together, and forging ahead with courage. Keep up the good work!

4. 姐妹儿情谊真，你帮我扶胜过父母恩，姐妹儿情谊纯，不会孤单狂飙泪痕，好姐妹儿，有话无不讲，有事无不帮，吃苦受难在一起，共创姐妹儿新天地！

4. True sisterly affection, you helping me is better than the favor of parents, pure sisterly affection, won't be lonely and shed tears of sorrow. Good sisters, there's nothing to hold back in talking, nothing to refuse in helping, enduring hardships together, creating a new world for sisters!

5. 小时候想拥有机器猫的神奇肚兜，世间万事应有尽有，长大后发现想要的一切，都要自己筹谋，用儿时的理想激励长大后的自己，只要敢于拼搏进取，成功不再遥不可及。愿生活幸福，执着坚毅。

5. As a child, I dreamed of having a magical cat's belly bag. I thought everything in the world was within reach. As I grew up, I realized that everything I wanted required my own planning and effort. I use my childhood ideals to motivate the grown-up me. As long as I dare to struggle and advance, success is no longer out of reach. May life be happy, and may I be persistent and resolute.

6. 人生是一条长河，汹涌澎湃，风平浪静，激情昂扬，一切尽在奋发前进中；人生是一条长河，长途跋涉，跌宕起伏，酸甜苦辣，一切尽在无情回味中。

6. Life is a long river, turbulent and serene, passionate and spirited, everything unfolds in the surge of progress; life is a long river, a long journey, fluctuating and changing, sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy, everything is relished in the relentless nostalgia.

7. 小时候，盼望快快长大，就可以自由的闯荡；长大了，渴望回到过去，继续享受家庭的温暖；每当失去了才知道珍惜，可昨日已不在！希望大家珍惜今天，把握现在！

7. When I was a child, I eagerly awaited growing up so that I could freely roam; as I grew older, I longed to return to the past to continue enjoying the warmth of the family. Only when I lost something did I realize how precious it was, but yesterday is no more! I hope everyone cherishes today and grasps the present!

8. 有一种财富叫时间，有一种遗憾叫虚度光阴，有一种竞赛叫与时间赛跑，有一种勇气叫只争朝夕，有一种成长叫与时俱进，有一种感动叫珍惜生命，有一种祝福叫珍惜光阴，掌控生命。

8. There is a wealth called time, a regret called wasted time, a competition called racing against time, a courage called striving for the present, a growth called moving with the times, a touch of sentiment called cherishing life, and a blessing called valuing time and mastering life.

9. 有时候，对自己克制一点，少发一点脾气；对别人宽容一点，退一步海阔天空。身边的世界往往比我们想象的要睿智与宽容。

9. Sometimes, be a bit more self-disciplined, show less temper; be more tolerant towards others, and step back to find that the sky is vast. The world around us is often wiser and more tolerant than we imagine.

10. 小时候，我们一起偷过瓜，一起抓过虾，一起逃过学，一起罚过站。长大后，我们为了各自的梦想离开了家门，如今两三年不见，也不能少了祝愿。祝愿你幸福，快乐，最主要是哥们情意不能忘。

10. In our childhood, we used to steal melons together, catch shrimps together, skip school together, and stand in punishment together. As we grew up, we left our homes to chase our respective dreams. Now, after not seeing each other for a couple of years, we can't forget to offer our blessings. Wishing you happiness, joy, and most importantly, never forget the camaraderie between friends.

11. 哭的时候没人哄，我便自己坚强；怕的时候没人陪，我便自己勇敢；烦的时候没人问，我便自己承受；累的时候没人依靠，我便了学会自立。这么多年苦了自己，今天我要对自己说，对不起，亲爱的自己。

11. When no one comforts me when I cry, I become strong on my own; when I am afraid and no one is there to accompany me, I gather my courage alone; when I am troubled and no one inquires, I bear it on my own; when I am exhausted and no one to rely on, I learn to be self-reliant. After all these years of enduring hardships for myself, today I want to say to myself, sorry, dear self.

12. 一二三，四五六，兄弟并肩齐步走，生活道路坎常有，兄弟齐心过宽沟；四五六，七八九，兄弟前进手牵手，遭遇挫折愁莫有，兄弟齐心震山吼。兄弟，加油！

12. One, two, three, four, five, six, brothers march side by side, life's path often has obstacles, but with united hearts, we can cross the wide ravine; Four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, brothers move forward hand in hand, facing setbacks, we have no worries, with united hearts, we can roar like mountains. Brothers, keep up the effort!

13. 朋友是一支拐杖，在你最潦倒的时刻，给你支持；在你最无力的时候，给你力量！珍惜朋友这根给力的拐杖，你将会做得更好、走到更远、永远充满力量！

13. Friends are a crutch, providing support in your most desperate moments and strength in your weakest hours! Treasure this powerful crutch of friendship, and you will do better, go further, and always be filled with strength!

14. 团结之风很重要，困难见到立刻跑；团结之气很霸道，再大险阻难抵挡；团结讲解策略好，盲目莽撞不能要；真诚相处合作好，未来顺风更顺水。愿逍遥！

14. The spirit of unity is very important, when difficulties are seen, run away immediately; the atmosphere of unity is domineering, even great obstacles cannot resist; the strategy of unity is well-explained, blind recklessness is not to be desired; sincere coexistence and cooperation are good, the future will be even smoother with favorable winds. May you enjoy a carefree life!

15. 心是个口袋，什么都不装叫心灵，装一点叫心眼，装多了叫心计，装更多叫心机，装得太多叫心事。其实放下一点，活得更洒脱，也就更快乐！

15. The heart is a bag. When it contains nothing, it is called the soul. When it contains a little, it is called the heart's eye. When it contains more, it is called cunning. When it contains even more, it is called scheming. When it contains too much, it is called worries. In fact, if you let go of a little, you can live more carefree and be happier!

16. 失败的时候埋怨自己，生气的时候伤到自己，受挫的时候痛恨自己，今天，要对自己说声对不起，没有失败怎么有成功的足迹，没有情绪生活如何波澜迭起，没有挫折怎么能成长到最强之际！

16. When things go wrong, blame yourself; when you're angry, hurt yourself; when you're frustrated, hate yourself. Today, you need to say sorry to yourself. Without failure, how can there be a trail of success? Without emotions, how can life be filled with ups and downs? Without setbacks, how can you grow to be the strongest?

17. 小时候碰到异性当他是同类，长大后碰到异性互相吸引，小时候不知何为爱情，长大后发现爱情是不让自己成为剩男剩女的途径，此条短信送给长大的你，愿你早日找到自己的另一半，拥有甜蜜的爱情！

17. When I was little, I treated the opposite gender as my own kind. As I grew up, I was attracted to the opposite gender. As a child, I didn't know what love was, but as I grew older, I found that love is the path to not becoming a leftover man or woman. This text message is sent to the grown-up you, wishing you to find your other half soon and have a sweet love!

18. 一声号令垂范在先，成绩不断接二连三，驷马难追君子之言，五颜六色旌旗招展，七上八下依然坦然，久见人心真不简单，十分敬仰如江水绵绵，短短几字表我心愿，愿我的祝福留你心间。

18. A single command sets the precedent, achievements come one after another. The words of a gentleman are hard to catch up with, flags of various colors fluttering, up and down but still composed, enduring in people's hearts is truly not simple, with great admiration like an endless river, just a few words to express my wish, may my blessings stay in your heart.

19. 浅浅一个笑，甜甜一个吻。与你把手牵，共度一辈子。平淡琐事里，如水人生中。执着来坚守，真心相扶持。快乐每一天，开心每一刻。有人来敲门，他说叫幸福。

19. A slight smile, a sweet kiss. Holding your hand, sharing a lifetime together. In the mundane routines, amidst the flowing life. Devotion to stand firm, with true hearts supporting each other. Happiness every day, joy every moment. When someone knocks at the door, he says it's happiness.

20. 不顺生怨气，烦恼生叹气，困难生火气，抱怨生闷气，笑看人生，看风起云落，昂首阔步，闻花开花落，快乐与忧伤，成功与失败，就在一念间，甩甩头，阳光灿烂，开开心，生活美丽，读读信，友情地久天长！

20. Bitterness arises from misfortune, sighs come from烦恼, anger from difficulties, resentment from complaints, and a light-hearted view of life, watching the wind rise and clouds fall, walking confidently, hearing the blooming and withering of flowers, happiness and sadness, success and failure, all lie within a single thought. Shake off your head, and the sun shines brightly, bringing joy. Life is beautiful, read a letter, and friendship lasts forever!

21. 人生最大的愿望：吃饭不用付费，住宅可以不贵，每晚不用抱着老婆睡。2幸福就是：饭前一盅酒，饭后抽两口，不管钱儿有没有，漂亮妹妹跟咱走。

21. The greatest wish in life: to eat without paying, to have a house that's not expensive, and not having to sleep with my wife every night. 2 Happiness is: a glass of wine before the meal, a couple of cigarettes after the meal, no matter whether there's money or not, a beautiful girl will follow me.

22. 用笔写下人生，那只是一个回忆。用眼眺望人生，那只是一段思情。用脚走完人生，却是一场坚难的旅途，需要自信，毅力，信念，义无反顾。

22. To write life with a pen is just a memory. To gaze at life with eyes is just a period of longing. To walk through life with feet is, however, a difficult journey, requiring confidence, perseverance, belief, and the determination to go forward without hesitation.

23. 小时候总想长大，长大了却想回到小时候。童年的无忧无虑、青春的放肆不羁，都是生命中最灿烂的篇章。愿你脚踏实地、步步为赢、奋发图强、天天向上！

23. As a child, I always wanted to grow up, but as I grew up, I wished to return to my childhood. The carefree days of childhood and the unrestrained youth are the most brilliant chapters of life. May you walk steadily, win step by step, strive for progress, and improve day by day!

24. 屋顶说：高屋建瓴，高瞻远瞩；钟表说：成功得争分夺秒；镜子说：得认清自己；窗户说：要放眼世界；日历说：千里之行，始于当前！

24. The roof says: To build high, to look far and wide; the clock says: Success is about seizing every moment; the mirror says: Know yourself; the window says: Look to the world beyond; the calendar says: A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step today!

25. 越来越多的车，我们堵了；越来越多的楼，我们矮了；越来越多的钱，我们穷了：繁华落尽，始见内心；简单是纯，快乐是真。

25. As there are more and more cars, we are stuck in traffic; as there are more and more buildings, we become shorter; as there are more and more money, we become poorer: with the end of prosperity, we begin to see our inner selves; simplicity is purity, and happiness is truth.

26. 情绪低落时，要学会转移注意力；既成的事实，要尝试去接受。你不能改变世界，但你可以适应世界。不要去和别人攀比，活出你自己的精彩，就是成功人生！

26. When you are feeling down, learn to shift your focus; for facts that have already occurred, try to accept them. You cannot change the world, but you can adapt to it. Do not compare yourself to others; live your own extraordinary life, which is the essence of a successful life!

27. 幸福是一家三口，两膝之下有孩童，三餐都能齐享用，四邻相安和气生，五福临门何愁有？幸福如此简单，你值得拥有。

27. Happiness is a family of three, with children under their knees, enjoying meals together, neighbors living in harmony, and peace prevailing. With the five blessings at the door, what could there be to worry about? Happiness is so simple, and you deserve to have it.

28. 俗话说：“你笑，全世界都跟着你笑；你哭，全世界只有你一个人哭。”不是环境决定着心情，而是心情决定着环境，学会乐观，笑容才会永远不停！

28. As the saying goes, "When you laugh, the whole world laughs with you; when you cry, it's only you who cry." It's not the environment that determines your mood, but your mood that determines the environment. Learn to be optimistic, and your smile will never stop!

29. 幸福是什么？父母康健无病苦，夫妻恩爱不烦恼，子女自立不啃老，幸福就在身边，何必东奔西跑，家和万事兴，家即幸福。

29. What is happiness? It is when parents are healthy and free from illness, when husband and wife love each other without worry, and when children are self-reliant and do not rely on their elders. Happiness is right there, so why run around in search of it? A harmonious home brings prosperity to all, for home is where happiness resides.

30. 小时候想变成超人拯救地球，可是长大之后才发现超人不是相当就能当好的，内裤反穿也是需要极大的勇气。希望天下心中有梦想的人能变成自己心目中拯救地球的超人。

30. When I was little, I wanted to be Superman to save the Earth, but as I grew up, I realized that being a superhero is not as easy as it seems, and wearing your underwear inside out also requires a great deal of courage. I hope that all those who have dreams in their hearts can become the Supermen they envision as saviors of the Earth.

31. 幸福是你家养的小狗，你走它就跟；幸福是你种的菜园，你种它生根；幸福是你常讲的笑话，说来喜煞人；幸福是你现在的期待，想它就来信。短信来了告诉你：幸福就这么简单。

31. Happiness is the little dog you raise, following you wherever you go; happiness is the vegetable garden you plant, taking root as you nurture it; happiness is the jokes you often tell, that bring joy to everyone's face; happiness is the anticipation you have now, arriving with a letter when you think of it. The SMS comes to tell you: Happiness is this simple.

32. 小时候，没忧愁，没烦恼，无忧无虑快乐自己找。长大后，赚钱忙，工作狂，不辞辛劳发家致富奔小康。望你发扬小时候的优良传统，不要每天疯狂赚钱而不顾自己，祝你身体健康，快乐自己，幸福一生。

32. In childhood, no worries, no troubles, carefree and happy, I find joy on my own. As an adult, busy earning a living, workaholic, I toil tirelessly to become wealthy and pursue a comfortable life. I hope you carry forward the fine traditions of your childhood, and don't go wild for money every day at the expense of your own well-being. May you enjoy good health, find joy on your own, and live a happy life.

33. 风雨无阻三人行，良师益友传心灵，支持帮助不难行，同甘共苦一路行，无论亲情还是友情，和你的“战友”互相体谅，互相打气吧·

33. Walk through storms and rains, the trio steadfast, good mentors and helpful friends transmit the soul, support and help are not hard to give, sharing joy and suffering on the journey, whether it's family ties or friendship, understand and encourage each other with your "battle comrade"·

34. 不管成功失败，经历了就得珍惜；不管拥有多少，是你的就得珍惜；不管生活好坏，眼下的就得珍惜；不管亲朋远近，爱你的就得珍惜，学会珍惜，把握精彩人生，祝你天天开心，万事顺心。

34. Whether you succeed or fail, cherish the experience; whether you possess a lot or a little, cherish what is yours; whether life is good or bad, cherish what you have now; whether your relatives and friends are near or far, cherish those who love you. Learn to cherish, grasp the wonderful life, and wish you happiness every day and success in all things.

35. 一根筷子，轻轻被折断；两手相牵，威力成倍翻；三人成伙，团队力量显；朋友一帮，覆地又翻天。朋友，你是我力量的源泉！

35. A single chopstick, easily snapped; when hands are clasped, the power multiplies twofold; with three people together, team strength is revealed; with a group of friends, we can overturn the earth and turn the heavens. Friends, you are the source of my strength!

36. 时间如钱财，用了就不在；时间如流水，永远不停留；时间如云烟，散去难聚返；人生的时间，短暂如瞬间；愿你珍惜瞬间，把握当前，努力挥洒青春激情，让短暂的生命光芒四现！

36. Time is like money, once used, it is no more; time is like a flowing river, it never stops; time is like mist and smoke, it is difficult to disperse and return; the time in life is as fleeting as a moment. May you cherish every moment, grasp the present, strive to pour out the passion of youth, and let the short life shine with brilliance!

37. 儿时的我们曾对大人的世界充满好奇与期待，如今的我们又对曾经的天真快乐念念不忘，让我们把昨天的美留在心中，保持着每天对明天的期待，一起加油吧！

37. We used to be curious and eager about the world of adults when we were children, and now we long for the innocent joy of our past. Let's keep the beauty of yesterday in our hearts, maintain our daily anticipation for tomorrow, and let's work hard together!

38. 小时候，想吃就吃，想睡就睡，不称心就撒娇蹬腿，长大了，饿了再吃，困了再睡，不如意就喝酒解闷，朋友，别把自己搞得太累，每天早起早睡，朋友时常联系，啥事别一个人背，乐观洒脱向前看！

38. In childhood, eat when I want, sleep when I want, and pout and kick my legs when things are not to my liking. As I grew up, I eat when I'm hungry and sleep when I'm tired. If things are not going well, I drink to ease my boredom. Friend, don't overburden yourself. Rise early and go to bed early every day. Keep in touch with friends often. Don't bear things alone, and face the future with optimism and ease!

39. 遇到烦恼，你微笑微笑了，勇气当棉被，斗志做盔甲；越到失意，你无视无视了，平心来做事，静气去为人，那个抱怨，你丢掉丢掉啦，成功精彩人生中怎能与它为伍。

39. When faced with troubles, you smile and smile, using courage as a comforter and determination as armor; the more you encounter setbacks, the more you disregard them, approaching tasks with a tranquil mind and conducting yourself with composure. That complaining, you let it go, for how can it be a companion in a successful and wonderful life?

40. 我们时常会感觉到心累，只是自己想得太多。我们总说生活繁琐，其实是自己不懂得品味。我们也总是争强好胜，其实是自己虚荣心太强。其实，人生就那么简单。做个单纯的人，走一段幸福的路。

40. We often feel mentally exhausted, but it's just because we think too much. We always say that life is繁琐, but it's actually because we don't know how to appreciate it. We are also always competitive and ambitious, but it's really because of our strong sense of vanity. In fact, life is so simple. Be a simple person, and walk on a happy path.

41. 疼你的，要学会珍惜，你会更幸福；爱你的，要学会珍惜，你会更甜蜜；帮你的，要学会珍惜，你会更容易成功；给你发短信的，要学会珍惜，你每天会更快乐。愿你学会珍惜，珍惜所有，幸福一生！

41. Learn to cherish those who hurt you, for you will be happier; learn to cherish those who love you, for you will be sweeter; learn to cherish those who help you, for you will be more likely to succeed; learn to cherish those who send you text messages, for you will be happier every day. May you learn to cherish all, and enjoy a happy life!

42. 乞丐的幸福是一顿饱餐，富人的幸福是还有东西可以稀罕，流浪的人儿有个茅屋就是幸福，富豪的幸福是虽有豪宅无数能有一个安睡的小屋，其实知足是福，知足的人儿最幸福！

42. The happiness of a beggar is a full meal, the happiness of the rich is to still have something to cherish, the happiness of a wanderer is to have a thatched cottage, and the happiness of the wealthy is to have countless mansions yet still find joy in a small, peaceful room. In reality, contentment is true happiness, and the contented are the most fortunate!

43. 一根重木三人扛，二脚步伐齐为上，三力同使力量强，四处坎坷心不慌，五尺身躯精神扬，六只眼睛看前方，七平八稳身平衡，八方风雨同担当，九九归一迎磨难，十全十美创辉煌！

43. Three people carry a heavy log together, walking in unison to excel; three forces united are strong. Facing all sorts of difficulties without worry, a five-foot body brims with spirit, six eyes looking forward, steady and balanced, facing all eight directions of wind and rain, uniting in bearing the burden. After nine goes back to one, we welcome hardship, aiming for perfection to create brilliance!

44. 一秒一秒，一分才60秒；一分一分，一小时才60分，一小时一小时，一天才24小时；一天一天，一年才365天；一年一年，一生才几十年；人生路匆匆忙忙，请珍惜时间，及时把握幸福！

44. Second by second, there are only 60 seconds in a minute; minute by minute, there are only 60 minutes in an hour; hour by hour, there are only 24 hours in a day; day by day, there are only 365 days in a year; year by year, there are only a few decades in a lifetime. Life is fleeting, please cherish time and grasp happiness in a timely manner!

45. 朋友是一支拐杖，当我们拐的时候，会成为咱的支撑；朋友是一支擀杖，当我们饿的时候，会帮我们擀出最香的面；朋友是一顶蚊帐，当我们被欺负放血的时候，会帮我们阻挡敌人。

45. A friend is a crutch, providing support when we need to lean on it; a friend is a rolling pin, helping us roll out the most delicious dough when we're hungry; a friend is a mosquito net, protecting us from enemies when we're bullied and bleeding.

46. 无论什么东西你如何掩藏它都是存在的，就像过去无论你如何遗忘它都是发生过的。

46. No matter what you hide, it still exists, just as no matter how you forget it, it still happened in the past.

47. 都说三个和尚没水喝，那是因为他们不懂得协作，不懂的互相帮助。互相帮助，三个和尚天天有水喝。生活中多和身边的人互相帮助，一定能少去不少麻烦，合作起来吧！

47. It's often said that three monks have no water to drink, which is because they don't understand cooperation and don't know how to help each other. With mutual help, the three monks can have water to drink every day. In life, if you often help the people around you, you can definitely avoid a lot of trouble. Let's cooperate!