笑对人生，少怒多乐：16招让你轻松无病一身轻！

Laugh at life, have less anger and more joy: 16 tips to help you live a carefree and healthy life!

1. “世上谁最智慧是那以人人为师的人。世上谁最富有是对自己所拥有的感到满足的人。世上谁最强大是那善于克制自己的人。”拜人为师，知足常乐，克制自己的欲望，就会使自己终身受益。每天都要提醒自己做到没有

1. "Who is the wisest in the world? It is the one who takes everyone as his teacher. Who is the richest in the world? It is the one who is content with what he possesses. Who is the strongest in the world? It is the one who is good at controlling himself." Taking others as one's teacher, being contented and happy, and controlling one's desires will benefit oneself throughout one's life. Every day, one must remind oneself to do without...

2. 有遗憾是正常的。没有遗憾的人生是糊涂的人生。没有遗憾就无所谓人生的欢乐，没有遗憾也就感觉不到人生的幸福。人的欲望越大，遗憾就越多，人的欲望越小，遗憾就越少。有遗憾说明有追求并有过努力。对遗憾也要作客观的，因贪欲过大而遗憾是可悲的，为一点点小事而抱憾终日是不取的。

2. It is normal to have regrets. A life without regrets is a confused life. Without regrets, there is no joy in life, and without regrets, one cannot feel the happiness of life. The greater a person's desires, the more regrets they will have; the smaller a person's desires, the fewer regrets they will have. Having regrets indicates that one has pursued and made efforts. Regrets should also be viewed objectively; it is tragic to have regrets due to excessive greed, and it is not commendable to harbor regrets over trivial matters for the rest of one's life.

3. 一个成大事的人，不能处处计较别人，消耗自已的时间去和人家争论，不但有损自己的性情，且会失去自己的自制力。在尽可能的情况下，不妨对人谦让一点。与其跟狗一路走，不如让狗先走一步，如果给狗咬一口，你即使把狗打死，也不能治好你的伤口。

3. A person who wants to achieve great things cannot always be calculating and argumentative with others, wasting their own time in disputes. Not only does it harm one's own temperament, but it can also lead to a loss of self-control. In as many situations as possible, it is advisable to be a bit more accommodating towards others. It's better to let the dog go ahead by a step than to follow it; if you get bitten by the dog, even if you kill it, you can't heal your wound.

4. 1曾与你亲密无间的人，连同那些感情和过往，离开、远去。

4.1 The person who was once intimate with you, along with those emotions and past, has left and gone far away.

5. 不要期待别人能抚平自己的伤痛，只有自己把自己说服了，只有自己让自己想通了，才能彻底地根治心病。受挫、失误、不幸、磨难…是对生活的理解更为深入，是对人生的内涵更为认识的必由之路。唯有征服自己的人，才有力量去征服一切。

5. Don't expect others to heal your wounds; only when you convince yourself and let yourself understand, can you truly cure your heartache. Frustration, mistakes, misfortune, hardships... are the necessary path to a deeper understanding of life and a greater insight into the essence of life. Only those who conquer themselves have the power to conquer everything.

6. 真正的浪漫与金钱无关，真正的浪漫是牵着爱人的手，风风雨雨一起走，不管经历怎样的磨难与困苦，都相互守候到白头。愿你幸福！

6. True romance has nothing to do with money; true romance is holding the hand of your loved one, walking through storms and sunshine together, enduring any hardships and adversities, and staying by each other's side until old age. May you be happy!

7. 想你是我唯一可做的事，爱你是我唯一可走的路！

7. Missing you is the only thing I can do, loving you is the only path I can take!

8. 吃亏的事情经常会发生，但要坚信人生总是相对公平的。假如自己处处精明，时时准备去算计别人，总爱占别人的便宜，其实吃亏最大的还是自己。何必分秒计算盈亏，多一点给予，少一点索取。吃亏能够给自己带来美名，而爱占便宜会败坏自己的名誉。

8. Things that involve taking a loss often happen, but one should firmly believe that life is always relatively fair. If one is always cunning, constantly ready to calculate others, and always eager to take advantage of others, in reality, the one who loses the most is oneself. Why should one calculate gains and losses every second? Give a bit more and ask for a bit less. Taking a loss can bring oneself a good reputation, while loving to take advantage of others can tarnish one's own reputation.

9. 11牵挂是一种忧伤的幸福，当你牵挂一个人时，你就会想他是不是也在牵挂你。因为喜欢才牵挂，因为牵挂而忧伤，用心去感受对方的牵挂。牵挂是一份烂漫，一份深沉，一份纯美，一份质朴。

9.11 The concern is a bittersweet sadness; when you care about someone, you wonder if they are also thinking about you. It's because of the liking that you care, and because of the concern that you feel sorrow. Use your heart to feel the concern of the other person. Concern is a romanticism, depth, purity, and simplicity.

10. 在大雪纷飞的季节里，在萧萧寒风的黑夜里，你可知道，我仍是最思念你的人。

10. In the season of heavy snowfall, amidst the nights with howling winds, do you know, I am still the one who misses you the most.

11. 爱你不问世俗，只问情真，想你不问晨昏，只问永恒，感谢生命让我遇到你，分分秒秒思念你，时时刻刻爱恋你，希望你的每一刻都开心无比！

11. I love you without regard for worldly matters, only for the sincerity of your feelings; I miss you without concerning the time of day, only for the eternity of my longing. I am grateful to life for allowing me to meet you, cherishing you in every second, loving you in every moment. I hope every moment of your life is filled with boundless joy!

12. 看懂一个人，一定是你在意过；看清一个人，一定是你落魄过；看破一个人，一定是你较量过；看透一个人，一定是你付出过；看穿一个人，一定是你受骗过；看淡一个人，一定是你珍惜过；看明一个人，一定是你放弃过。

12. Understanding a person must mean you have cared about them; seeing through a person must mean you have been in a state of despair; seeing beyond a person must mean you have had a rivalry with them; seeing through a person must mean you have invested in them; seeing through a person must mean you have been deceived; seeing a person with indifference must mean you have cherished them; seeing a person clearly must mean you have given up on them.

13. 只想用不打扰你的方式轻轻地告诉你，我在惦记你。只希望你看到这个短信的时候，嘴角泛起灿烂的一笑！让身边的人知道你是幸福的，看短信的，我在问候你啊。

13. Just want to gently tell you in a way that doesn't disturb you that I'm thinking of you. I just hope that when you see this text message, your lips curve up into a radiant smile! Let those around you know that you are happy, and to the one reading the message, I'm sending you my greetings.

14. 租来的婚纱借来的车，把俺娶进一穷窝，不嫌没好爹，不说手不阔，知道他上进会疼人，跟着他勤恳把钱赚，建起一暖窝，改善碗中饭，俺地个他哎，下辈子可得再娶俺。

14. Borrowed wedding dress, rented car, brought me into a poor nest, not complaining about not having a good father-in-law, not saying my hands are not generous, knowing he is ambitious and kind, following him to diligently earn money, build a warm nest, improve the food in the bowl, I love him so much, in the next life, he must marry me again.

15. 我们常常无法去改变别人的看法，能改变的恰恰只有我们自己。坏的生活不在于别人的罪恶，而在于我们的心情变得恶劣。让生活变好的金钥匙不在别人手里，放弃我们的怨恨和叹息，美好生活就垂手可得。我们主观上本想好好生活，可是客观上却没有好的生活，其原因是总想等待别人来改善生活。

15. We often cannot change others' opinions, the only thing we can change is ourselves. A bad life does not lie in others' faults, but in our own sour mood. The key to making life better is not in others' hands; by giving up our grievances and sighs, a good life is easily attainable. Subjectively, we may all wish to live well, but objectively, we do not have a good life. The reason is that we always want others to improve our lives.

16. 因为有花，世界所以芬芳；因为有水，自然所以清凉；因为有爱，生活所以阳光；因为有你，幸福所以徜徉。今生有你，感谢上苍，今生有你，希望飘扬！

16. Because of the flowers, the world is fragrant; because of the water, nature is cool; because of love, life is sunny; because of you, happiness is languid. To have you in this life, I am grateful to the heavens; to have you in this life, I hope for the wind to soar!

17. 莫为一时之得所迷惑，谁笑得最晚，谁笑得最开心。

17. Do not be confused by temporary gains; it is those who laugh last who laugh the best.

18. 心里一滴思念雨，每天都在想念你。熟悉身影难忘记，几时能与你相聚。我很挂念不骗你，就像禾苗等着雨，风不停来雨不息，别忘给我发信息。

18. In my heart, a drop of longing rain, I miss you every single day. The familiar figure is hard to forget, when can we meet again? I truly miss you, I'm not lying, just like the seedlings waiting for the rain, the wind doesn't stop and the rain doesn't cease. Don't forget to send me a message.

19. 一味讨好别人就会失去自我，充实自己很重要。

19. Constantly trying to please others will lead to losing oneself, and it is important to cultivate oneself.

20. 7我们不妨学会沉淀生命，沉淀经验，沉淀心情，沉淀自己!让生命在运动中得以沉静，让心灵在浮躁中得以片刻宁静。把那些烦心的事当作每天必落的灰尘，慢慢地、静静地让它们沉淀下来，用宽广的胸怀容纳它们，我们的灵魂兴许会变得更加纯净，我们的心胸会变得更加豁达，我们的人生会更加快乐。

20. 7 Let's learn to settle our lives, settle our experiences, settle our emotions, and settle ourselves! Let life find its tranquility in motion, and let the soul find a moment of peace amidst restlessness. Treat those troublesome matters as the dust that falls daily, allowing them to settle slowly and quietly, embracing them with a broad heart. Perhaps our souls will become purer, our minds broader, and our lives happier.

21. 人生得意须尽欢，莫使金樽空对月。天生我材必有用，千金散尽还复来。

21. Enjoy the joys of life while they are here, do not let the golden cups face the moon in vain. The talents I was born with are surely useful, for if a thousand ounces are spent, they will come back again.

22. 14永远不要后悔。我们无法选择回去的路程。但是要清晰地面对已经造成的挑战。努力去调整，并相信自己会成功。无论你深处绝境，还是罹患重疾，你对过去无能为力，但在当下，你的未来并不那么渺茫，只要你努力，坚信自己，人生往往柳暗花明。

22. 14. Never regret. We cannot choose the path we have taken back. But we should clearly face the challenges that have already been caused. Strive to adjust, and believe in your own success. Whether you are in the depths of despair or suffering from a serious illness, you have no power over the past, but in the present, your future is not as dim as it may seem. As long as you work hard and have faith in yourself, life often turns around with a twist of fate.

23. 有一天，当我年老，有人问我，人生的哪一段时光最快乐，也许，我会毫不犹豫地说，是十多岁的时候。那个时候，爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。

23. One day, when I am old, someone may ask me, which period in life was the happiest. Perhaps, without hesitation, I would say it was during my teenage years. Back then, love had not yet arrived, and life was carefree; the most painful thing was merely the tests and exams. I felt a great deal of pressure at the time, but looking back now, it seems so trivial.

24. 眼泪，有时候是一种无法言说的幸福。微笑，有时候是一种没有说出口的伤痛。

24. Tears, sometimes, are an unutterable happiness. Smiles, sometimes, are an unspoken pain.

25. 孤独往往是忽视的产物。忽视别人，也易被别人忽视。切莫有骄傲心态，目空一切，为所欲为，必将令人厌恶。性格孤傲的人同样易被别人抛弃。不要故意回避别人，也不要刻意接近别人，一切顺其自然。

25. Solitude is often a product of neglect. Neglecting others can also make oneself prone to being neglected. Do not have a proud attitude, looking down on everything and doing as one wishes, as this will inevitably be disliked. People with proud and aloof personalities are also easily abandoned by others. Do not deliberately avoid others, nor刻意 seek them out; let everything proceed naturally.

26. 爱空空情空空自己流浪在街中。人空空钱空空单身苦命在打工。事空空业空空想来想去就发疯。生活所迫不轻松。这也空那也空，唯有想你最轻松！

26. Love is empty, emotions are empty, and I wander alone on the streets. People are empty, money is empty, and as a single person, I toil in hardship. Life is empty, and work is empty, and thinking about it drives me mad. Life is forced and not easy. This is empty, that is empty, but thinking of you is the most relaxed!

27. 人们总叹息“飞蛾扑火”，人们总讥讽“鱼儿上钩”，人们总是笑话“自陷泥潭”。但是如果自己仔细想一想，在我们生活的周围，这种欲望的悲剧还少吗人心不足蛇吞象。放纵自已灵魂的人，最终会失去真正的!必须时刻警惕不良欲望。

27. People always sigh over the "moth drawn to the flame," always mock the "fish taking the bait," and always laugh at those who "fall into a quagmire of their own making." But if one thinks about it carefully, aren't there many tragedies of desire around us in our lives? There is never enough for the greedy heart; it swallows an elephant. Those who indulge their souls will eventually lose the true one! It is necessary to be vigilant at all times against bad desires.

28. 人吃五谷杂粮，哪有不生病之理。不能自己吓自己，千万别对入座。

28. People eat a variety of grains and cereals; how can one not get sick? Don't scare yourself, please don't overreact.

29. 一年前你是谁，甚至昨天你是谁，都不重要，重要的是，今天你是谁，以及明天你将成为谁。

29. It doesn't matter who you were a year ago, or even who you were yesterday. What matters is who you are today, and who you will become tomorrow.

30. 不与别人盲目攀比，自己就会悠然自得;不把人生目标定得太高，自己就会欢乐常在;不刻意追求完美，自己就会远离痛苦;不是时时苛求自己，自己就会活在自在;不每每吹毛求疵，自己就会轻轻松松。

30. Not to blindly compare oneself with others will bring one peace and contentment; not to set life goals too high will ensure constant joy; not to strive for perfection will keep one away from suffering; not to be overly critical of oneself will allow one to live in ease; not to nitpick constantly will make life carefree.

31. 为什么不能心平气和地生活关键是没有及时驱赶心中的恶魔。因为心存邪恶的念头，就不会理智地克制自己，经常会做出悔恨的蠢事。因为没有及时清扫心灵的灰尘，意志薄弱者就会不时掉进深潭。因为时常鬼迷心窍，就会让愚蠢蒙蔽双眼，进入错误的岔道还不知道。

31. The key reason why one cannot live in peace and tranquility is that the demons within the heart are not expelled in time. Because of the presence of evil thoughts, one fails to exercise rational self-control and often commits foolish deeds that one regrets. Because the dust in the soul is not cleaned in time, the weak-willed will frequently fall into deep pools. Because the mind is often deceived, it will let folly blind the eyes, and one will not even realize that they have strayed onto the wrong path.

32. 说话必须留有余地，不要把话说“死”。凡事把话说绝了，就没有了回旋余地。一旦陷入语言的“绝境”，其被动、尴尬之情可想而知。说话的艺术在于让人进退有余。人在气头上切莫说过头话，愤怒的话语实际上是一派胡言，平息心火之后会产生许多懊悔。

32. When speaking, one must leave room for flexibility and not say things in a way that leaves no room for retreat. Once things are said to the extreme, there is no room for maneuver. It is imaginable how passive and embarrassed one would feel once trapped in a linguistic "dead end." The art of speaking lies in giving others room to move. Do not say excessive things when you are angry, as angry words are actually nonsensical. After calming down, one will have many regrets.

33. 9如果真爱一个人，就会心甘情愿为他而改变。一个人在你面前我行素，置你不喜欢的行为而不顾，那么他就是不爱你。所以如果你不够关心他或是他不够关心你，那么你就不爱他或他不爱你，而不要以为是自己本来就很粗心或相信他是一个粗心的人。遇见自己真爱的人，懦夫也会变勇敢，同理，粗心鬼也会变得细心。

33. If you truly love someone, you will be willing to change for them. If someone acts as they please in front of you, ignoring behaviors you dislike, then they do not love you. Therefore, if you are not concerned enough about them or they are not concerned enough about you, then you do not love them or they do not love you, and do not think that it's because you are naturally careless or believe that they are a careless person. When you meet the person you truly love, cowards will become brave, and similarly, the absent-minded will become attentive.

34. 12曾说过的话，不要觉得很难实现，你若一开始觉得自己无法实现，那是因为你还未成熟，更别说去承担一些责任。

34. 12 Do not think that what has been said before is hard to achieve. If you feel from the beginning that you cannot achieve it, it is because you are not yet mature, let alone take on some responsibilities.

35. 当黑夜覆盖了我回家的路，你是我头顶的星光。是你给了我希望和温暖，我的天使！我永远的爱！

35. When darkness covers my path home, you are the starlight above my head. It is you who have given me hope and warmth, my angel! My eternal love!

36. 如果你想任性，那就先学会承受，能承受后果才可以任性。如果你想独立，那就先学会坚强，才可以独立。如果你想放肆的爱，那就先学会遗忘，只有能忘掉失恋痛楚，才可以大胆爱。你可以去做一切事情，但前提是不会为结果伤悲。一个人真正的强大，并非看他能做什么，而是看他能承担什么。

36. If you want to be任性, first learn to bear it, and only then can you be任性 when you can bear the consequences. If you want to be independent, first learn to be strong, and then you can be independent. If you want to love wildly, first learn to forget, and only then can you love boldly when you can forget the pain of a broken heart. You can do anything, but the premise is not to be saddened by the result. A person's true strength is not what they can do, but what they can bear.

37. 大部分的东西都有期限。而所谓无限，也只能到某种程度。为一个人受苦，只能受苦到某种程度。然后，你会醒悟，不再蹉跎岁月。思念一个人，只能思念到某种程度。当思念长久地落空，你早晚会绝望。无论多么爱一个人，也只能爱到某种程度。

37. Most things have a deadline. What is considered infinite can only go so far. One can endure suffering for another only to a certain degree. Then, you will realize and stop wasting time. You can only miss someone to a certain extent. When the longing remains unfulfilled for a long time, you will eventually despair. No matter how much you love someone, you can only love them to a certain degree.

38. 处处爱占便宜，结果却是自己吃亏，败坏自己名誉的人多失败。

38. Those who always try to get a bargain end up being at a loss themselves and tarnish their own reputation, and many of them fail as a result.

39. 晚上别熬夜，早起要吃饭，衣服要穿暖，锻炼别偷懒。只要身体好，胖点没所谓，我正练举重，再重也抱得动。天冷了，可一定要为我保重身体哦。

39. Don't stay up late at night, make sure to eat breakfast when you wake up early, wear warm clothes, and don't be lazy about exercising. As long as you are healthy, a little bit overweight is no big deal, I am currently training for weightlifting, and I can lift even heavier weights. It's getting cold, so please take good care of your health for me.

40. 水至清则无鱼，人至察则无友。处处不能容别人的缺点，那么人人都变成“坏人”，也就无法和平相处。以“恶”的眼光看世界，世界无处不是破残的;以“善”眼光看世界，世界总有可爱处。自己多看别人的长处，就会越瞧越可爱。

40. If the water is too clear, there are no fish; if a person is too observant, there are no friends. If one cannot tolerate others' shortcomings everywhere, then everyone becomes a "bad person," and it becomes impossible to coexist in peace. Viewing the world with an "evil" eye, the world seems to be full of ruins; viewing the world with a "good" eye, the world always has its lovable aspects. The more one focuses on others' strengths, the more they become adorable.

41. 小时候，我以为裙子只能夏天穿，冬天就必须把自己裹的像个粽子，我也以为只要自己善良，对待一个人的时候全心全意去对待，就会被对方同样对待。可是后来长大了才明白，原来冬天也能穿裙子，善良的人也会被丢弃。

41. When I was a child, I thought that skirts could only be worn in summer, and in winter, one had to wrap oneself up like a dumpling. I also believed that if one was kind and treated others wholeheartedly, one would be treated in the same manner. However, as I grew up, I realized that skirts can also be worn in winter, and kind people can also be discarded.

42. 你可知道，你能够走出我的视野却永远走不出我对你的殷殷思念；你能够远离我的身影却永远不能远离我对你的浓浓眷恋。

42. Do you know that you can step out of my field of vision yet forever escape not my deep longing for you; you can distance yourself from my shadow yet never escape my profound attachment to you.

43. 我愿成为春季的花朵为你奉献美丽；我希望变成炎日下的树荫为你创造阴凉；我梦想成为秋天里的枫叶为你增添美景；我渴望成为寒冬里的棉袄为你带来温暖。

43. I wish to be the flower of spring, offering my beauty to you; I hope to become the shade of a tree under the scorching sun, creating coolness for you; I dream of being the maple leaves of autumn, adding beauty to your sight; I long to be the down jacket of the harsh winter, bringing warmth to you.

44. 一只老鼠误入花店，被一只猫追赶老鼠发现无路可逃，就顺手拿起一朵玫瑰花准备抵抗猫看到立马低下了头，羞涩的说：死鬼太突然了。

44. A mouse accidentally wandered into a flower shop and was chased by a cat. The mouse, realizing there was no escape, picked up a rose to prepare for resistance. The cat, seeing this, immediately dropped its head, shyly saying: "You startled me so suddenly."

45. 这个世界没有谁可以给谁明天，明天的路要自己走，风高也奉陪猛风中碰杯。

45. No one in this world can give anyone tomorrow; the path of tomorrow must be walked alone. Even in the strong winds, I will accompany you and raise a toast in the midst of the fierce gale.

46. 你做的对，有人嫉妒你。你做的错，有人嘲笑你。你做的少，有人鄙视你。你做的多，有人责难你。你高高在上，有人说不接地气。你和蔼可亲，有人说智商不够。你活着，他们说赶紧死。你死了，他们还要在墓碑上踹一脚。“负能量人”无处不在。对付他们最好的办法，就是：走好自己的路，让别人说去！

46. You did the right thing, and someone is jealous of you. You did something wrong, and someone is laughing at you. You did too little, and someone looks down on you. You did too much, and someone criticizes you. You are high and mighty, and someone says you're out of touch with the common people. You are friendly and approachable, and someone says you lack intelligence. You're alive, and they say you should hurry up and die. You're dead, and they still kick your gravestone. "Negative energy people" are everywhere. The best way to deal with them is: walk your own path, and let others talk!

47. 当自己在工作中极不顺心，处处感觉都是围墙时，是否有必要换个环境当自己在婚姻中极不开心，时时感觉都是冰窖，是否有勇气冲破围城当自己已习惯逆来顺受，是否会挺起胸膛说“不”有自信、能自强的人，善于调整自己的生活状态。摘自大全网

47. When one is extremely unhappy at work, feeling that everywhere is a barrier, is it necessary to change the environment? When one is extremely unhappy in marriage, feeling that everywhere is a cold storage, does one have the courage to break through the walls? When one has become accustomed to submitting to adversity, is there the ability to stand up and say "no"? Confident and self-reliant individuals are good at adjusting their state of life. Extracted from Dazhongwang.

48. 春天有个习惯叫做温暖，风筝有个习惯叫做远方，小草有个习惯叫做成长，我有个习惯叫做想念，想念心里的你，想念眼里的你，想念每时每刻的你。

48. Spring has a habit called warmth, kites have a habit called the distant, grass has a habit called growth, and I have a habit called longing. I long for the you in my heart, the you in my eyes, and the you at every moment.

49. 比等待更难受的是，你连自己在等什么都不知道。

49. What is even more difficult than waiting is not knowing what you are waiting for.

50. 有了短信之后，思念便变得伸手可及起来，至少此刻的你，知道我正在想你，知道有一份因相思而起的痛，在我心里。

50. With the advent of SMS, longing has become within reach, at least at this moment, you know that I am thinking of you, and know that there is a pain in my heart that arises from this longing.

51. 人越烦恼，烦恼就越多，人越快乐，快乐就越多。如果光为烦恼而忧虑，那么烦恼还是客观存在的，丝毫没有减少的迹象，相反，因为烦恼的连锁反应，心情越加沉重，越发苦恼。要是自己不断化苦为乐，改变“做一行、怨一行”的心态，就能获取自身的快乐。

51. The more troubled a person is, the more troubles they will have; the more joyful a person is, the more joy they will experience. If one only worries about their troubles, then the troubles still exist objectively, showing no signs of reduction. On the contrary, due to the chain reaction of troubles, one's mood becomes increasingly heavy, and their distress grows. If one constantly turns bitterness into joy and changes their mindset from 'complaining about the job they do' to finding joy in it, they can achieve their own happiness.

52. 2不想看你不开心，却又嫉妒你和别人太开心。

52. 2 don't want to see you unhappy, but I'm also jealous of you being too happy with others.

53. 有一支心曲，是我们所共有的，它用欢乐作曲，用理解作词，用真诚和弦，用记忆尘封，时常用友谊打开共奏，朋友，你的友谊是我今生的幸福！

53. There is a melody in the heart that we share, composed of joy, lyrics of understanding, chords of sincerity, sealed with memory, often opened by friendship to play together. Friend, your friendship is the happiness of my life!

54. 不管发生什么，都不要放弃，坚持走下去，肯定会有意想不到的风景。也许不是你本来想走的路，也不是你本来想登临的山顶，可另一条路有另一条路的风景，不同的山顶也一样会有美丽的日出，不要念念不忘原来的路。

54. No matter what happens, don't give up. Keep moving forward, and you will definitely encounter unexpected scenery. It may not be the path you originally intended to take or the mountain peak you wanted to reach, but each path has its own scenery, and different mountain tops will also have beautiful sunrises. Don't keep holding on to the original path.

55. 提一个要求，尽力而为;提二个要求，勉强答应;提三个要求，心中不快;提四个要求，勃然变脸;提五个要求，恶语相加;提六个要求，身心伤害。提太多要求，只能让人生厌。少提不合理的要求。请扪心自问:要求别人多多，自己又为对方干了些什么呢

55. Make one request, try your best; make two requests, reluctantly agree; make three requests, feel unhappy; make four requests, lose your temper; make five requests, use harsh words; make six requests, cause harm to both body and mind. Too many requests can only make people讨厌. Reduce unreasonable requests. Ask yourself: If you ask others to do a lot, what have you done for them in return?

56. 我爱你，不是一天两天，也不是一年两年，更不是一生，而是永远！爱是我们一生最美的时光！

56. I love you, not for just one or two days, not for one or two years, nor for a lifetime, but forever! Love is the most beautiful time in our lives!

57. 18留住的叫幸福，流逝的叫遗憾：幸福的滋味是甜甜的，偶尔酸酸的;遗憾的感觉是苦苦的，偶尔辣辣的。好好对待你身边的人，能在一起就是幸福。如果爱上，就不要轻易放弃。怯懦，可能使你一辈子后悔。没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华

57. What is retained is called happiness, what is lost is called regret: the taste of happiness is sweet, occasionally sour; the feeling of regret is bitter, occasionally spicy. Treat the people around you well, being together is happiness. If you fall in love, don't easily give up. Cowardice may make you regret for a lifetime. A life without love is incomplete, and love without pain is not profound. Love enriches life, and pain elevates love.