在纷繁复杂的现代生活中，掌握生活智慧，如同拥有一把开启幸福之门的钥匙。本书将引领你探索15种生活智慧，助你轻松摆脱焦虑，享受当下，轻松生活。

In the complex and intricate modern life, mastering the wisdom of living is like possessing a key to open the door to happiness. This book will guide you to explore 15 types of life wisdom, helping you effortlessly let go of anxiety, enjoy the present, and live a relaxed life.

1. 失败，是因为欠缺耐心；烦恼，是因为欠缺开心；冷漠，是因为欠缺热心；孤独，是因为欠缺真心；无谓，是因为欠缺关心；逃避，是因为欠缺爱心；沧桑，是因为欠缺童心。多一点耐心、开心、热心、真心、关心、爱心、童心，愿你快乐生活每一天。

1. Failure is due to a lack of patience; worries, a lack of happiness; indifference, a lack of enthusiasm; loneliness, a lack of sincerity; meaninglessness, a lack of concern; evasion, a lack of love; and weariness, a lack of childlike innocence. With a bit more patience, happiness, enthusiasm, sincerity, concern, love, and childlike innocence, may you live a joyful life every day.

2. 对未来，要抱最大希望；对目标，要尽最大努力；对结果，要做最坏打算；对成败，要持最好心态。不急不躁，不骄不馁，祝你把握好每分每秒，让幸福拥抱！

2. Look forward to the future with the greatest hope; strive to the fullest for your goals; prepare for the worst in terms of outcomes; maintain the best attitude towards success and failure. Stay calm and composed, don't be proud or despondent, and may you grasp every moment, allowing happiness to embrace you!

3. 不要总在过去的回忆里缠绵，不要总是想让昨天的阴雨淋湿今天的行装。昨天的太阳，晒不干今天的衣裳。

3. Do not always linger in the memories of the past, and do not always want yesterday's cloudy and rainy days to dampen today's journey. The sun of yesterday cannot dry today's clothes.

4. 能跟你一辈子的人就是：理解你的过去，相信你的未来，并包容你的现在的人。

4. The person who can be with you for a lifetime is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and包容 your present.

5. 无论去谁家，随手带点礼，提点水果总比空手去的好。像邻居这种天天串门的另外说。

5. Whenever visiting someone's house, it's always good to bring a gift. Bringing some fruit is better than going empty-handed. When it comes to neighbors who drop by every day, that's a different story.

6. 你是否有四个模样？一个是在朋友面前疯癫的样子，一个是在恋人面前完美的样子，一个是只身一人时脆弱的样子，还有一个，是在陌生的人群中安安静静的样子。

6. Do you have four different personas? One is the crazy one in front of friends, one is the perfect one in front of a lover, one is the fragile one when you are alone, and the other is the quiet one amidst a crowd of strangers.

7. 烦躁的时候不要说话，不要做决定，自己安静的待一会或练练字转移注意力。

7. When you are烦躁, do not talk or make decisions. Spend some time in quiet solitude or practice calligraphy to shift your attention.

8. 真正的爱是接受，不是忍受；是支持，不是支配；是慰问，不是质问；真正的爱，要道谢也要道歉。要体贴，也要体谅。要认错，也好改错；真正的爱，不是彼此凝视，而是共同沿着同一方向望去。其实，爱不是寻找一个完人。而是，要学会用完美的眼光，欣赏一个并不完美的人。

8. True love is about acceptance, not endurance; it is about support, not domination; it is about comfort, not questioning. True love requires both gratitude and apologies. It is about being considerate and understanding. It is about admitting mistakes and also about correcting them. True love is not about gazing at each other, but about looking together in the same direction. In fact, love is not about seeking a perfect person. Instead, it is about learning to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes.

9. 思念，很无力，那是因为我看不到思念的结果。也许，思念不需结果，它只是证明在心里有个人曾存在过。是不是能给思念一份证书，证明曾经它曾存在过？

9. Yearning feels so powerless, because I cannot see the outcome of the yearning. Perhaps, yearning does not require an outcome; it is just proof that someone once existed in one's heart. Could we provide a certificate for yearning to prove that it once existed?

10. 还有几个月你就要回来了，可我已再不是你走时频频招手的女孩了。两年改变了太多，而我已经做了别人的女人，这不是我的错，怪只怪难耐的寂寞。

10. There are only a few months left until you return, but I am no longer the girl who waved goodbye to you constantly. Two years have changed so much, and I have become someone else's woman. This is not my fault; it's all because of the unbearable loneliness.

11. 对过去恋恋不舍的人，成就不了未来。这个世界上唯一不会变的，就是这个世界随时都在变。你必须相信时间的力量，所以，请尽快从过去中走出来，释怀过去，总结过去，而不是一天到晚地琢磨着回到过去。过去的种种，对现在的你已经毫无意义，仰一仰你的头，看看前面崎岖的路，好好地接着前进吧。

11. Those who cannot let go of the past will not achieve the future. The only thing that never changes in this world is that everything is always changing. You must believe in the power of time, so please quickly move on from the past, let go of the past, summarize the past, and do not spend your days constantly pondering about returning to the past. All the past has no meaning for the present you; lift your head, look at the rugged path ahead, and continue to move forward well.

12. 在爱情没开始以前，你永远想象不出会那样地爱一个人；在爱情没结束以前，你永远想象不出那样的爱也会消失；在爱情被忘却以前，你永远想象不出那样刻骨铭心的爱也会只留淡淡痕迹；爱，就大声说出来，因为你永远都不会知道，明天和意外，哪个会先来！

12. Before love begins, you can never imagine how deeply you can love someone; before love ends, you can never imagine that such love can also fade away; before love is forgotten, you can never imagine that such a profound love can only leave a faint trace. Love, just say it out loud, because you will never know, which will come first: tomorrow or an unexpected event!

13. 一个人走在黄昏的微雨里，点燃一支香烟，寂寞如许。想着心事，想着最远的你却是我最近的爱。轻风撩拨的思绪，散落成四月的烟火，点点滴滴，细细碎碎，陷落在那场最美的遇见里。

13. A person walks in the twilight drizzle, lights a cigarette, and feels loneliness like this. Thinking of matters, thinking of the farthest you who is the closest love to me. The gentle breeze stirs the thoughts, scattering them like the fireworks of April, drop by drop, finely chopped, lost in the most beautiful encounter.

14. 你不想办法创造出自己想要的生活，最终将不得不花大量时间和精力应付自己不想要的生活。

14. If you don't try to create the life you want, you will eventually have to spend a lot of time and energy dealing with the life you don't want.

15. 谁的指间滑过了千年的时光，谁在反反复复中追问可曾遗忘，我等你用尽了我所有的哀伤，而你眼中却有我所不懂的凄凉。

15. Whose fingers have slipped through a thousand years of time, who keeps on questioning in repetition whether anything has been forgotten, I wait for you to exhaust all my sorrow, but in your eyes, there is a desolation that I do not understand.

16. 你再怎么牛逼，也会被人鄙视，可是你必须要牛逼，否则你会被更多的人鄙视。你再怎么无能，也有人视你如珍宝，可是你不能一直无能，否则你会辜负他们对你的好。你不主动改变，就会被改变。你不主动努力，就会被抛弃。只希望你对得起年轻的生命。反正你努力与否，时光都不会等你。

16. No matter how awesome you are, you will still be looked down upon by others, but you must be awesome, otherwise you will be scorned by even more people. No matter how incompetent you are, there will always be someone who values you like a treasure, but you cannot remain incompetent forever, or else you will let them down for their kindness to you. If you don't take the initiative to change, you will be changed. If you don't take the initiative to strive, you will be abandoned. I only hope that you live up to the young life you have. No matter how hard you try or not, time will not wait for you.

17. 我们可以轻易的躲开一头大象，却总是躲不开苍蝇。使我们不快乐的，也往往是一些芝麻绿豆般的小事。生活中的小细节莫轻视，多用点心把幸福掌握！

17. We can easily avoid an elephant, but it seems we can never escape the buzzing of a fly. Often, it's the tiny, mustard seed-like matters that bring us unhappiness. Don't underestimate the small details in life; pay more attention and take hold of happiness with more effort!

18. 世界没有悲剧和喜剧之分，如果你能从悲剧中走出来，那就是喜剧，如果你沉缅于喜剧之中，那它就是悲剧。如果你只是等待，发生的事情只会是你变老了。人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

18. There is no distinction between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can move on from tragedy, it becomes comedy. If you immerse yourself in comedy, it turns into tragedy. If you only wait, the only thing that will happen is that you will grow old. The meaning of life does not lie in being dealt a good hand of cards, but in playing a bad hand well.

19. 有底线的善良才是真的善良，没有底线的善良，不是给自己添麻烦，就是给别人添麻烦。

19. True kindness has its底线; kindness without a底线 is either trouble for oneself or trouble for others.

20. 衣服之类的，可以适当的减少数量，提高质量，形成自己的风格。可以回想，是不是来来回回穿的都是那几件，其他的基本是偶尔穿一次甚至不穿压箱底的。

20. As for clothes and the like, it is appropriate to reduce the quantity and improve the quality, forming your own style. You might reflect on whether you keep wearing just a few pieces back and forth, while the rest are only worn occasionally, or even kept in storage boxes without being worn.

21. 原来，爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟。

21. It turns out that the world of love is vast, so vast that it can contain a hundred kinds of grievances; it turns out that the world of love is small, so small that three people can feel suffocated; it turns out that the world of love is vast, filled with happiness yet still leaving room for emptiness; it turns out that the world of love is small, for it can crumble into ruins with a single step.

22. 其实，我很累了。我习惯假装开心、假装难过，假装在意、假装无所谓，习惯了一个人面对所有。我可以在，很痛的时候说没关系。我可以在，难过的时候说无所谓。我可以在，寂寞的时候哈哈大笑。我可以在，绝望的时候说世界依然美好。我只是希望在，我开始抱怨上天的吝啬时，有个人可以对我说，我心疼你。

22. In fact, I'm really tired. I'm used to pretending to be happy, pretending to be sad, pretending to care, pretending not to care, and I'm used to facing everything alone. I can say "It's okay" when it really hurts. I can say "It doesn't matter" when I'm sad. I can laugh heartily when I'm lonely. I can say that the world is still beautiful when I'm desperate. I just hope that when I start to complain about God's stinginess, someone will tell me, "I care about you."

23. 世间上没有一样东西是永远属于你的，包括你最爱的人，养大的孩子，包括你的财富，你的身体，最后也会回归尘土。世间的一切我们只有使用权而非永久拥有权。世间的一切都是借给我们用的。所以，凡事都有缘起缘灭，强求不得。人生如过客，欢欢喜喜的来，高高兴兴的走。最重要的是，把握当下！

23. There is nothing in the world that is forever yours, not even the people you love the most, the children you have raised, nor your wealth, your body, which in the end will also return to the dust. All things in the world are only lent to us for use, not for permanent possession. Everything in the world is borrowed for us. Therefore, everything has its cause and effect, and cannot be强迫. Life is like a traveler, coming with joy and going with joy. What is most important is to seize the present!

24. 成年人的世界都很忙，没有人有过多的时间精力去关注你，紧张、出糗都没必要耿耿于怀，没有谁会记得。

24. The world of adults is always busy; no one has much time and energy to pay attention to you. It's not necessary to dwell on being tense or making a fool of yourself; no one is going to remember it.

25. 爱情，也不是绳索。对方，永远不是你的附属。爱情和婚姻都不是永远的，只有一种永远：自由与平等。你们随时有权决定在一起或不在一起。而且，根本不需要理由。以婚姻或爱情的名义，去独占对方，去限制对方，去管理对方，去教育对方，都是可耻的。也是悲剧的根源。

25. Love is not a rope. The other person is never your appendage. Love and marriage are not forever; the only thing that is forever is freedom and equality. You always have the right to decide whether to be together or not. And, fundamentally, there is no need for a reason. To claim ownership over someone in the name of marriage or love, to restrict them, to manage them, to educate them, is shameful. It is also the root of tragedy.

26. 不要让工作占据你全部的时间精力，除了工作，要留点时间给自己思考、学习、生活、健身。

26. Don't let work consume all of your time and energy. Besides work, set aside some time for yourself to think, learn, live, and exercise.

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27. I have compiled a list of learning resources for personal knowledge enhancement, including the popular short video live streaming e-commerce operations, various channels for attracting traffic, video editing, and audiobooks, among others. Each category is listed in a separate table, and you can switch between them as needed. More excellent learning resources will be gathered continuously for everyone to exchange and share knowledge. If needed, you can save and store them first, and take your time to go through them when you have the chance.

28. 有时候想找人说说话，于是一遍遍翻看手机里的电话簿，却不知道可以给谁发个短信或打个电话，最后还是按下了"清除"其实很想找个人倾诉一下，却又不知从何说起，最终的最终是什么也不说，告诉自己，明天就好了。

28. Sometimes I want to talk to someone, so I keep flipping through the phone book in my phone, but I don't know who to send a text message or make a phone call to. In the end, I press "clear." I really want to confide in someone, but I don't know where to start. Ultimately, I end up saying nothing, telling myself, "It will be okay tomorrow."

29. 年轻不是资本，健康才是。戒掉熬夜，你的精、气、神会比80%的人好，做什么都会比较顺利。

29. Youth is not capital, health is. Quit staying up late, and your vitality, energy, and spirit will be better than 80% of people, and everything you do will be more smooth.

30. 如果有一天，我变得更冷漠了，请记得，我曾经要人陪的时候你都只说忙；如果有一天，我变得目中无人了，请记得，曾经也没有人把我放在心里；如果有一天，我不再在乎你了，请记得，曾经也没人听过我的心事；如果有一天，我不再对你笑，请记得，你曾经也没有问我过的快不快乐。

30. If one day, I become colder, remember that when I needed someone by my side, you always said you were busy; if one day, I become indifferent, remember that no one had me in their heart either; if one day, I stop caring about you, remember that no one had ever listened to my troubles; if one day, I no longer smile at you, remember that you had never asked me how happy or unhappy I was.

31. 人是一种很奇怪的动物，可以为了自己的身形控制自己不吃东西；可以为了自己的肺控制不抽烟；可以为了自己的酷控制自己不言语；可以为了自己的尊严控制自己不屈服；可是却控制不了自己的心。当你一次次的告诉自己不要再想他时，你的心却告诉你这是没有用的。

31. Humans are a very strange animal. They can control themselves from eating for the sake of their physical shape; they can control themselves from smoking for the sake of their lungs; they can control themselves from speaking for the sake of their coolness; they can control themselves from yielding for the sake of their dignity. However, they cannot control their hearts. When you keep telling yourself not to think about him anymore, your heart keeps telling you that this is futile.

32. 思想的碰撞才更容易增长认知、见识。可以多跟人交流，多认识不同的人，多看些书，总没坏处。

32. The collision of ideas is more conducive to the growth of cognition and insight. It's always good to communicate more with people, get to know a variety of individuals, and read more books.

33. 欲望是无穷的，别过；人生是平淡的，别倦；身体是自己的，别糟；幸福是有限的，别贪；美色是他人的，别恋；爱人是自己的，别厌；钞票是消费的，别攒；生活是丰富的，别烦；假期是休闲的，别忙；人格是高贵的，别贱；感情是纯洁的，别污；朋友是永远的，别淡；权力是暂时的，别专。

33. Desires are infinite, don't overindulge; life is plain, don't grow weary; your body is yours, don't mistreat it; happiness is limited, don't be greedy; beauty is someone else's, don't be infatuated; your loved one is your own, don't be disgusted; money is for spending, don't hoard; life is rich, don't be bothered; holidays are for relaxation, don't be busy; character is noble, don't degrade; emotions are pure, don't defile; friends are forever, don't be indifferent; power is temporary, don't be obsessed.

34. 比如跟喜欢的人表白，脸皮薄，不敢跟喜欢的人表白，那就看着TA成为别人的人吧。

34. For example, if you like someone but are too shy to confess your feelings, then just watch as they become someone else's person.

35. 恋爱像是地震，不可预测，有点吓人，可一旦他们安全度过，又会觉得，自己是那么的幸运。

35. Love is like an earthquake, unpredictable and a bit daunting, but once they get through it safely, they feel so lucky.

36. 一辈子在于碰：碰对了方向，光彩一辈子；碰对了时运，顺当一辈子；碰对了爱好，充实一辈子；碰对了爱人，幸福一辈子；碰对了师长，收获一辈子；碰对了领导，宽松一辈子；碰对了朋友，乐呵一辈子；碰上了好股，赚它一阵子；碰对了行情，做它一阵子；碰对了牛市，赢它一阵子。

36. A lifetime depends on encounters: Encounter the right direction and shine for a lifetime; encounter the right luck and have smooth sailing for a lifetime; encounter the right hobby and enrich your life for a lifetime; encounter the right partner and be happy for a lifetime; encounter the right mentor and reap a lifetime; encounter the right leader and enjoy a lifetime of relaxation; encounter the right friends and be cheerful for a lifetime; encounter a good stock and make a profit for a while; encounter the right market trend and participate for a while; encounter the bull market and win for a while.

37. 爱就是让对方住进你心里，理解就是在心里和对方生活在一起。

37. Love is about letting someone live in your heart, and understanding is about living with the other person in your heart.

38. 长知足，心安然；甘淡泊，乐无边；广交友，德为先；和邻里，解人难；烦恼事，抛云端；莫争吵，忍为先；无贪欲，心胸宽；家和睦，万事圆

38. Long for contentment, the heart remains peaceful; prefer simplicity, joy is boundless; cultivate wide friendships, morality comes first; harmonize with neighbors, relieve others' difficulties; let troubles float away like clouds; do not argue, patience comes first; have no greed, the heart is broad; a harmonious home, all things are fulfilled.

39. 书读得越多而不加思索，你就会觉得你知道得很多；而当你读书而思考得越多的时候，你就会越清楚地看到，你知道得还很少。

39. The more books you read without reflection, the more you'll think you know; but the more you read and think, the clearer you'll see that you still know very little.

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41. 不要拿自己的短处跟别人的长处比，那是自取灭亡。

41. Do not compare your shortcomings with others' strengths; that is self-destruction.

42. 开始，他说，她说。后来，他们一起说。再后来，她说，他不说。最后，她也不说了。--沉默是一个女孩最大的哭声，可你却不懂。

42. Initially, he said, she said. Later, they spoke together. Then, she said, he didn't. Finally, she stopped talking too. --Silence is a girl's greatest cry, yet you don't understand.

43. 哪怕你是两个人，也应该保持一个人，别放弃一个人时的爱好，坚持一个人时的思考，留有一个人时的独立，喜欢就呆一起，不喜欢也能潇洒地转身。

43. Even if you are two people, you should still maintain the essence of being one. Don't give up the hobbies you have when you're alone, persist in the thoughts you have when you're by yourself, and retain the independence you possess when you're alone. If you like being together, stay together; if not, you can also turn around gracefully.

44. 做人不需要很复杂，你做的再好，也会有人对你指手画脚。只要我们做人做事问心无愧，就不必执着于他人的评判。无需看别人的眼神，一味的讨好他别人，那会使自己活的很累。

44. Being a person doesn't have to be complicated. No matter how well you do, there will always be people who point fingers at you. As long as we do things with a clear conscience, there's no need to be overly fixated on others' opinions. There's no need to constantly cater to others' eyes, as doing so will only make your life very tiring.

45. 当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。

45. When tears flow down, one realizes that separation is also a form of understanding.

46. 别人感情的事，能不参与就不要参与，别人都不介意，你介意个啥。

46. Don't get involved in other people's emotional matters if you can avoid it. If others don't mind, what's there for you to be concerned about?

47. “女人能给予男人最温暖的两个字是“我懂”，男人能给予女人最温暖的两个字是“我在”。感情中，男人渴望理解女人需要陪伴。男人最需要的理想爱情，是“失意时”有“我懂你”。女人能想象的最好未来，是每一天都“在一起”。”久了就知道，最宝贵的不是在你身上花钱的人，而是肯在你身上花时间的人

47. "The two warmest words a woman can give a man are 'I understand,' and the two warmest words a man can give a woman are 'I am here.' In a relationship, men long to understand that women need companionship. The ideal love that men most need is 'I understand you' when they are down. The best future a woman can imagine is 'being together' every day. After some time, you will know that the most valuable is not the person who spends money on you, but the one who is willing to spend time with you."

48. 比如问问题，问同学，问老师，问前辈，不耻下问才能更快找到解决问题的办法。

48. For example, ask questions to classmates, teachers, and seniors; not being ashamed to ask those below you will help you find solutions to problems more quickly.

49. 遇到问题，首先要想的是解决办法而不是推卸责任或者抱怨。

49. When faced with problems, the first thought should be to find solutions rather than shirk responsibilities or complain.

50. 走正确的路，放无心的手，结有道之朋，断无义之友，饮清净之差，戒色花之酒，开方便之门，闭是非之口。

50. Walk the right path, let your hands be carefree, make friends with those of virtue, sever ties with the unworthy, drink pure drinks, avoid the wine of sensuality, open the door to convenience, and close the mouth of gossip.

51. 哪怕再渺小，也要勇敢面对这个世界，让所有人为自己欢呼。

51. No matter how small, one must courageously face this world and let everyone cheer for oneself.

52. 聊天就聊别人在意的事情，大家都懂的事情，不然就成了你单方面的吐槽。

52. Chat about things that matter to others, things that everyone understands. Otherwise, it would just become your one-sided complaint.

53. 谁能说一世情长，谁能说两心不忘；谁能说三生相伴，谁能说地老天荒；谁能说为爱永远，谁能说为情久长。谁为谁一言难尽，谁为谁两地悲伤；谁为谁三生相恋，谁为谁寸断肝肠；谁为谁心在仿徨，谁为谁痴痴守望。

53. Who can say that love lasts a lifetime, who can say that two hearts never forget each other; who can say that they will be together for three lives, who can say that the world will end and the sky will turn old; who can say that love will last forever, who can say that affection will endure for a long time. Who can express their feelings with just one word for someone, who feels sadness in two places for someone; who loves someone for three lives, who has their heart broken for someone; whose heart is lost in confusion for someone, who watches tirelessly for someone in a daze.

54. 刷知乎看到好的回答，反手一个赞，知乎会给你推送更多好的回答哦。

54. When you see a good answer on Zhihu, give it a like with a flip of your hand, and Zhihu will push more good answers to you.

55. 有没有这样一个人，他肯在人群中，蹲下为你，系上鞋带。

55. Is there such a person who would squat down among the crowd for you, to tie your shoelaces?

56. 不管从什么时候开始，重要的是开始以后不要停止；不管在什么时候结束，重要的是结束以后不要后悔。

56. No matter when you start, what's important is not to stop after you begin; no matter when you end, what's important is not to regret after you finish.

57. 等待是一种痛。忘掉也是一种痛。但不知道该怎么办，是一种更折磨人的痛。

57. Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful too. But not knowing what to do is a more tormenting kind of pain.

58. 一个男人值不值得嫁，不要只看他追求你时的点滴，更要看你们发生矛盾时，他是怎么对待你和解决矛盾的。

58. Whether a man is worth marrying, don't just look at the small details when he is pursuing you, but also look at how he treats you and resolves conflicts when you have disagreements.

59. 我藏不住秘密，也藏不住忧伤，正如我藏不住爱你的喜悦，藏不住分离时的彷徨。

59. I can't hide my secrets, nor can I conceal my sorrow, just as I can't hide my joy of loving you, nor can I hide my confusion at parting.

60. 事业无需惊天动地，有成就行；情意无需甜言蜜语，真诚就行；金钱无需取之不尽，够用就行；身体无需长命百岁，健康就行；朋友无需以数而论，知己就行！

60. One's career doesn't need to be earth-shattering, having achievements is enough; affection doesn't need sweet nothings, sincerity is enough; money doesn't need to be endless, being sufficient is enough; one's body doesn't need to live to be a hundred, being healthy is enough; friends don't need to be counted, having a confidant is enough!

61. 你要记得：在你的人生舞台上，你是自己的主角，不需要去做谁的配角。别在难过的时候接受男子的爱，那对他不公平，你也不会幸福，要分清楚，是喜欢是同情或是怜悯。相信，你终会遇到喜欢你而你又喜欢的人。所以，别放纵爱，别吝啬爱。

61. Remember: On the stage of your life, you are the protagonist, not a supporting character in someone else's play. Don't accept a man's love when you are feeling down, as it is unfair to him and you won't be happy either. Distinguish between liking, sympathy, or compassion. Believe that you will eventually meet someone who likes you and whom you also like. So, don't indulge in love and don't be stingy with love.

62. 最经典最给力最搞笑的求职广告：可以为好打听的老板做探子；可以为智商低的老板想点子；可以为想登天的老板架梯子；可以为搞出口的老板骗鬼子；可以为逃债务的老板兜圈子；可以为追债务的老板操刀子；可以为慕虚荣的老板挣面子；可以为喜滋事的老板生乱子。

62. The most classic, most powerful, and funniest job advertisement: Can be a spy for a nosy boss; can come up with ideas for a dumb boss; can build ladders for a boss who wants to soar; can deceive the Japanese for a boss who wants to export; can circle around for a boss who wants to evade debts; can wield a knife for a boss who chases debts; can earn face for a boss who craves for虚荣; can create chaos for a boss who enjoys turmoil.

63. 有一些人用他们的方式来到了我们的生活中，恰巧又在我们无法挽留的时候离开了，我没有办法去释怀，所以只能用自己的方式来纪念。想一个离自己远去的人，鼻子会酸，眼眶会红，甚至有时候就连心跳都好像停止了，不论是友情，还是爱情。

63. Some people come into our lives in their own way, and conveniently leave when we can't hold them back. I can't let go of it, so I can only commemorate it in my own way. Thinking of someone who is moving away from me makes my nose run, my eyes well up with tears, and sometimes even my heartbeat seems to stop. Whether it's friendship or love.

64. 分手了，要忘掉，尤其是深爱的人。唯有时间会改变一切，不用强迫自己去忘。忘不掉时，就想一想，哭一哭，也没什么。迷茫在爱里的人，大有人在，不多一个还要做的就是删掉****，丢掉让自己伤心回忆的东西。心里忘不了，必须理智的让自己不纠缠在里面。慢慢来，不知不觉的就振作起来了。

64. Break up and let go, especially of someone you deeply loved. Only time can change everything; don't force yourself to forget. If you can't forget, just think about it, cry a little, and it's fine. There are plenty of people lost in love, and deleting **** and throwing away things that bring you伤心 memories is what you need to do. If you can't forget in your heart, you must rationally keep yourself from being entangled in it. Take it slow, and you'll unknowingly pick yourself up.

65. 有些机会，因瞬间犹豫，擦肩而过；有些缘分，因一时任性，指间滑落；有些感情，因一时冲动，遗憾终生；凡事好好珍惜莫轻易言弃，愿体味幸福完美人生。

65. Some opportunities slip away due to a moment of hesitation; some relationships slip through the fingers due to a moment of impulsiveness; some feelings leave a lifetime of regret due to a fleeting impulse. Cherish everything well and never give up easily. May you savor a happy and perfect life.

66. 不要开口就问，先回想一下自己之前有没有做过类似的，如果每一步都问，没有人有那么多时间应付你，别人也有自己的事要做；

66. Don't open your mouth and ask right away; first think about whether you have done something similar before. If you ask for every step, no one has so much time to deal with you, and others also have their own things to do.

67. 能够看到这里的小伙伴都是有耐心的，给自己点鼓励，点赞收藏，收获小心心，生活会更加美好哦~

67. Friends who have made it this far are all patient. Give yourself a pat on the back, like, and collect, and you'll harvest little hearts, making life even more beautiful~

68. 爱情开始时，会把天涯变成了咫尺；爱情结束时，又把咫尺变成了天涯。

68. When love begins, it turns the distant into the near; when love ends, it turns the near into the distant.

69. 虽然爱情会让人疯狂，迷失方向。可是没有爱情的人生是白纸式的人生。即使它清洁却也显平淡无味，让人有种枉走一生的哀叹。所以人们不曾拒绝爱情在自己的身上投宿。即使是傻妞式的卑微爱情，人们也愿意去尝试，不为别的。就为潇洒的爱一回，痛一次。醉一场人生的爱情戏。

69. Although love can drive people crazy and lose their way, a life without love is like a blank page. Even though it's clean, it also appears plain and tasteless, evoking a sense of regret for a wasted life. Therefore, people never refuse for love to take residence within them. Even for the humble love in the style of a silly girl, people are willing to give it a try, not for any other reason. Just for the sake of experiencing a carefree love, suffering once, and indulging in a love play in life.

70. 我想，我还会架一支鱼竿，独钓岁月那一边的故事。

70. I think I will still set up a fishing rod, alone fishing for the stories on the other side of the years.

71. 你不必逞强，不必说谎，懂你的人自然会知道你原本的模样。

71. You don't have to try to be strong, and you don't have to lie. The people who understand you will know your true self.

72. 曾以为，爱情是人生的全部；然而有一天发现，那只是我一时糊涂。曾以为，爱上了，就不会寂寞；然而有一天发现，寂寞还是爱上了我。曾经以为，爱上了你，我可以全身而退；然而有一天发现，我退得满身伤痕。

72. Once, I thought love was everything in life; however, one day I realized it was just a moment of confusion. Once, I thought, if I loved, I would never feel lonely; however, one day I found out that loneliness still loved me. Once, I thought, if I loved you, I could retreat without any harm; however, one day I discovered that my retreat was filled with scars.

73. 去见你想见的人吧。 趁阳光正好。趁微风不噪。 趁繁花还未开至荼蘼。 趁现在还年轻，还可以走很长很长的路，还能诉说很深很深的思念。 趁世界还不那么拥挤。 趁飞机现在还没有起飞。 趁现在时光还没有吞噬你们的留念。趁现在自己的双手还能拥抱彼此。 趁我们还有呼吸！

73. Go and see the people you want to see. While the sun is shining brightly. While the breeze is not too noisy. While the flowers have not yet bloomed to their fullest. While you are still young, and can walk long and long roads, and can express deep and deep yearning. While the world is not yet too crowded. While the planes have not yet taken off. While the present time has not yet swallowed your memories. While your own hands can still embrace each other. While we still have breath!

74. 遇到困难，越坚强的女人越有一股让人尊敬与心疼的魅力。坚强不是倔强更不是强悍，它是情感的理性依托。它让受伤的女人把目光投向远方，给自己一个信步生活的理由。坚强的女人会打一把钥匙解开心锁；借一方晴空，拥抱阳光。她还会找一个肩膀让泪水尽情流淌。爱过痛过，哭过笑过。然后继续坚强。

74. When faced with difficulties, the stronger a woman is, the more she possesses a respect-inspiring and heart-tugging charm. Strength is not stubbornness nor is it ferocity; it is the rational support of emotion. It allows the woman who has been wounded to turn her gaze towards the horizon and gives herself a reason to casually live life. A strong woman will use a key to unlock the heart's lock; borrow a patch of clear sky, and embrace the sunshine. She will also find a shoulder for her tears to flow freely. She has loved, suffered, cried, and laughed. Then she continues to be strong.

75. 每个人心中都有一条河，岁月如水，成长为岸：左岸是童真，右岸是成熟；左岸是柔软，右岸是恬淡；左岸是简单，右岸是丰满；左岸是快乐，右岸是生活；左岸住着七彩的梦，右岸住着不尽的欲望；左岸充满祈盼，右岸铺满挣扎。对你的祝福，在左岸，愿你的幸福，在右岸。

75. Everyone has a river in their hearts, as the years flow, they grow into a shore: the left bank is innocence, the right bank is maturity; the left bank is softness, the right bank is tranquility; the left bank is simplicity, the right bank is richness; the left bank is happiness, the right bank is life; the left bank houses colorful dreams, the right bank houses unending desires; the left bank is filled with aspirations, the right bank is covered with struggles. My blessings to you are on the left bank, and may your happiness be on the right bank.

76. 对喜欢的人，再无足轻重的小事，也可以讲得眉飞色舞；对不喜欢的人，在重要的事情也可以一笔带过。所以，请珍惜总是对你废话连篇的人吧。

76. To those one likes, even the most trivial matters can be described with great enthusiasm; to those one dislikes, even important matters can be brushed aside with a single sentence. Therefore, please cherish those who always talk nonsense to you.

77. 经验往往被人们当成愚蠢与悲伤的同义语。其实大可不必。假如我愿意井确实从经验中学习，那么今天的教训就会为明天的美好生活打下基础。

77. Experience is often considered a synonym for foolishness and sorrow. In fact, it is by no means necessary to see it that way. If I am willing and indeed learn from experience, then today's lessons will lay the foundation for a better life tomorrow.

78. 解决无非是两种。纠缠与不纠缠。是的，我理解，我清楚，我明白。眼睁睁的看着全心全意付出的感情，那个爱着的人离开，是多么残忍，是多么绝望的事。可是残忍和绝望不是纠缠对方的理由。是的，我理解，纠缠是想挽回对方的心，留住对方的情。希望重新开始，将感情继续下去，给彼此一个新的机会。

78. The solution boils down to two options: entanglement and non-entanglement. Yes, I understand, I am clear, I get it. To watch helplessly as the heartfelt affection one has poured into a relationship leaves, that is a cruel and desperate thing. However, cruelty and desperation are not reasons to entangle the other person. Yes, I understand, entanglement is an attempt to win back the other person's heart, to retain their affection. It's a hope to restart, to continue the relationship, to give each other a new chance.

79. 接纳自己的不完美，认清自己，才能更好的生活。

79. Accepting one's imperfections and knowing oneself is the key to living a better life.

80. 世俗是大多数人要走的路，责任是你必须要履行的义务。如果说我们每一个人都可以把自己分内的责任做好，那我们这个社会自然就和谐了。责任就意味着牺牲，不辛苦就没有轻松，不痛苦就没有欢乐，幸福和不幸是对比出来的。

80. The secular world is the path that most people take, and responsibility is the obligation you must fulfill. If each of us can do our own part well, then our society will naturally be harmonious. Responsibility means sacrifice; there is no ease without effort, no joy without pain. Happiness and misfortune are contrasted to each other.

81. 如果想走出阴影，那就让你的脸面向阳光；如果你想告别懦弱，那就让心在历练中慢慢坚强；如果你想摆脱平凡的生活，那就努力让自己高傲的飞翔。多心的人注定活得辛苦，因为太容易被别人的情绪所左右。多心的人总胡思乱想，结果是困在一团乱麻般的思绪中，动弹不得。有时候，与其多心不如少根筋。

81. If you want to step out of the shadow, let your face face the sunlight; if you want to bid farewell to timidity, let your heart gradually become strong through trials; if you want to break free from a mundane life, strive to fly proudly. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to live a hard life, as they are too easily swayed by others' emotions. Overly sensitive people always overthink, ending up trapped in a tangle of chaotic thoughts, unable to move. Sometimes, it's better to have fewer concerns than to overthink.

82. 终有一天你会意识到，你所拥有的唯一本钱其实是青春。趁我们年轻，多走在路上，多翻山越岭，多沐浴阳光。

82. Someday you will realize that the only capital you actually possess is your youth. While we are young, let's walk more, climb more mountains, and bathe in more sunlight.

83. 现在很多人的状态是“间接性踌躇满志，持续性混吃等死”。重症性拖延症，执行力不行，认知力也不够。

83. Many people's current state is "indirectly ambitious but persistently living aimlessly." They suffer from severe procrastination, lack of execution, and insufficient cognitive ability.

84. 当梦想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。而你要么被痛苦击倒，要么把痛苦踩在脚下。

84. When dreams face reality, it is always painful. You either get knocked down by the pain or you trample it underfoot.

85. 不要总是跟别人抱怨你的艰辛和困难，成年人的世界里，谁又能摆脱这几个词呢？有些事情自己知道就好，说出来说不定只是个笑话，因为在有些人眼里，那些都是不值一提的。

85. Don't always complain to others about your hardships and difficulties. In the world of adults, who can really escape these words? Some things are better left known to oneself, as speaking them might just turn into a joke. Because in the eyes of some people, those are not worth mentioning.

86. 我设计了一万种方式遇见你，却没设计一种方法留住你，最后成为你的风景。

86. I designed ten thousand ways to meet you, but didn't plan a single method to keep you, and ultimately became the scenery in your life.