在这个纷繁复杂的世界里，每个人都在寻找属于自己的生活方式。心灵富足，摆脱束缚，是无数人梦寐以求的境界。本书将为你揭示16个改变命运的秘密，重塑你的人生。让我们一起踏上这场心灵之旅，开启一段全新的生活篇章。

In this complex and intricate world, everyone is searching for their own way of life. Spiritual richness and liberation from constraints are the dreams of countless people. This book will reveal 16 secrets to change your destiny and reshape your life. Let's embark on this spiritual journey together and open a new chapter in our lives.

1. 蔚斗小学 曹敏

1. Weidou Primary School Cao Min

2. 9一般走在路上听见别人说话或者突然想到什么 就有灵感 但还是无法顺利地完成这个灵感。

2.9 Generally, when walking on the road and hearing someone else speak or suddenly thinking of something, I get inspiration, but still cannot smoothly complete this inspiration.

3. 我属于起标题困难的。每次写文章，取三个以上最合适的，让编辑或者朋友投票来选择。

3. I belong to the group that struggles with coming up with catchy titles. Whenever I write an article, I come up with three or more suitable ones, and then let the editor or friends vote to choose the one to use.

4. 也说不上谁是谁非，写文章其实也是在表达自己的思想和价值观，苦于素材的同学，可以留心一下别人在写什么。相近或相反的一个点，也许忽然就为你打开了题材的另一扇门。但要提醒大家的是，不要抄袭别人的文章中心点，更不要洗文抄袭。一个人的文章，其实也是他的人品。

4. It's not easy to determine who is right or wrong. Writing articles is actually an expression of one's own thoughts and values. For those who are struggling to find material, it's advisable to pay attention to what others are writing. A similar or contrasting point might suddenly open another door for you in terms of themes. However, I would like to remind everyone that you should not plagiarize the central points of others' articles, let alone engage in the act of rewriting and plagiarizing. A person's writing is actually a reflection of their character.

5. 记得那时我还在读幼儿园，因为一次偶然的机会，我的画获奖了。当老师将崭新的你送到我手中时，孩提如获珍宝般的激动和幸福真的难以用言语来表达。轻轻地抚摸着你的脸庞，我知道你即将开始走进我的生活。感谢有了你，陪伴我度过童年那段美好的时光。在你的陪伴中，我获益良多。直到现在工作了，我还可以向学生们讲述那一个个动人的故事。我知道，这都要归功于你。

5. Remember, back then I was still in kindergarten, and because of an accidental opportunity, my painting won an award. When the teacher handed over the brand new you to me, the excitement and happiness of a child who finds a treasure were truly indescribable. Gently touching your face, I knew you were about to enter my life. Thank you for being there, accompanying me through those wonderful childhood years. In your company, I have gained so much. Even now that I am working, I can still tell those moving stories to my students. I know, all of this is due to you.

6. 其次，你要知道自己的读者是谁。 写童话的郑渊洁和写爱情的张小娴，文风写法肯定是有很大差异的。因为他们的读者是两个完全不同的群体，一个优秀的作者，必定了解自己那些读者的心理，在写作中有意无意地撩拨读者的心，让他们在阅读中身临其境，带入自我，产生共鸣。

6. Secondly, you need to know who your readers are. Zheng Yuanjie, who writes fairy tales, and Zhang Xiaoxian, who writes about love, definitely have a significant difference in their writing style. This is because their readers are two completely different groups. A great author must understand the psychology of their readers, deliberately or inadvertently stirring their hearts while writing, allowing them to immerse themselves in the reading experience, bring their own perspective into it, and resonate with the content.

7. 这个就不用多解释了，文字优美才能让人想要读下去。文字这种东西，其实也讲究颜值。读起来口口生香回味悠长的文字，自然是胜过行文不通语法不顺的文字许多倍。

7. This one doesn't require much explanation; beautiful words are what make people want to keep reading. In fact, words also emphasize their "face value." Texts that are pleasing to the palate and leave a lingering aftertaste are naturally much superior to those that lack coherent writing and grammatical fluency.

8. 有人鄙视鸡汤，可我觉得，有真材实料熬出的美味营养的鸡汤值得被提倡，文字的意义之一，就是抚慰心灵，让负重者前行。但是鉴于目前大家对鸡汤的诟病，建议写作时不时加个“勺子”，提供一些具体的方法论。

8. Some people disdain chicken soup, but I think that delicious and nutritious chicken soup made with real ingredients is worthy of promotion. One of the meanings of words is to comfort the soul and allow the burdened to move forward. However, considering the current criticism of chicken soup, I suggest adding a "spoon" occasionally in writing to provide some specific methodologies.

9. 不是全职写作，本职是做企业宣传。如果把爱好当做工作的话，生活就会有很多压力和乏味。

9. Not a full-time writer; my main job is corporate publicity. If you treat your hobby as work, life will be filled with a lot of pressure and boredom.

10. 第三类素材，我给它取了个名字叫“以小见大”。

10. The third type of material, I have named it "Small Things Reveal Greatness."

11. 数字化阅读讲究的是篇幅小、可读性强、便于理解吸收。所以许多作者都倾向于先用一个故事将读者引入。但这个故事与小说里的跌宕起伏还不一样，作者们选取的一般都是普通人身边最普通的那些矛盾、纠结和挣扎，比如辞职、离婚、吵架等等，为了便是让读者快速产生共鸣，激发他们读下去的动力。但是公号文的篇幅较短，所以这个故事你得讲得利落而动人，这是吸引读者的第一要素。

11. Digital reading emphasizes brevity, strong readability, and ease of understanding and absorption. That's why many authors tend to first draw readers in with a story. However, this story is different from the ups and downs in a novel; what authors generally choose are the most ordinary contradictions, dilemmas, and struggles from ordinary people's lives, such as quitting a job, getting a divorce, arguing, and so on. The purpose is to allow readers to quickly resonate with the content, igniting their desire to continue reading. But since the length of official account articles is shorter, you need to tell this story succinctly and emotionally movingly, which is the first element to attract readers.

12. 美国著名的女作家、教育家海伦·凯勒在一岁多的时候，因为发高烧，脑部受到伤害，从此以后，她的眼睛看不到，耳朵听不到，后来连话也说不出来了。这对一般人来说是不可想象的，但海伦并没有悲观，更没有向命运低头。在她的家庭教师沙利文的帮助下，用手触摸学会手语，摸点字卡学会了读书，后来用手摸别人的嘴唇，终于学会了说话，并且学会了五种文字。24岁时，她以优异的成绩毕业于世界著名的哈佛女子学院，此后她将毕生的经历和心血都投身于慈善事业。一个盲聋人居然会有这么大的成就，难道不让人惊讶吗？如果海伦屈服于不幸的命运，不用知识和学习改变命运，那么她就会成为一个可怜而又愚昧无知的寄生者！但她却与不幸的命运做斗争，她以惊人的毅力和顽强的精神，不断学习，用知识充实自己，为人类做出了巨大的贡献。

12. Helen Keller, the famous American female writer and educator, was injured in the brain due to a high fever when she was over a year old. Since then, she has been unable to see, hear, and later, even speak. This is unimaginable for most people, but Helen did not become pessimistic nor did she surrender to destiny. With the help of her teacher, Sullivan, she learned sign language by touching and reading by touching Braille cards. Later, by touching the lips of others, she finally learned to speak and mastered five languages. At the age of 24, she graduated with distinction from the world-renowned Harvard Women's College. After that, she dedicated her entire life and efforts to charitable causes. How astonishing it is for a blind and deaf person to achieve such great success! If Helen had yielded to her unfortunate destiny and not changed her fate with knowledge and learning, she would have become a可怜 and ignorant parasite! However, she fought against her misfortune, demonstrating incredible perseverance and indomitable spirit. She continuously learned, enriched herself with knowledge, and made significant contributions to humanity.

13. 好书，就好比是推开一扇望想美好的窗。让我们的思想更宽阔，思路更明朗。在无意之间我曾翻阅了《与幼儿教师的对话》这本书，这是凯兹教授所著的一本关于幼儿教师专业成长的一本书。起先翻阅书籍的我只是被里面一些小的标题所吸引，后来仔细一看，意料不到的是在这里竟然隐藏着那么深奥的教育理念，使我隐藏在心灵深处对教育的热情一再激发起来。书中的一系列反问情景与我教学当中遇到的困惑很快的联系在一起。从中也不由得佩服凯兹教授能在幼儿教育这个专业研究上做的那么细致，观察那么入微。她所提出的问题的分析，是那么的到为，对现实幼儿教育出现的问题那么一针见血。从中接间给幼儿教师指明了在从事幼教工作中一定要有反思的头脑和那科处处为孩子着想那颗对事物热忱的心。

13. A good book is like pushing open a window to a beautiful view. It broadens our thoughts and clarifies our thinking. By chance, I came across the book "Dialogues with Preschool Teachers," written by Professor Katz, which is a book about the professional development of preschool teachers. Initially, I was attracted by some of the small titles within the book. Later, upon closer inspection, I was surprised to find such profound educational concepts hidden within, which rekindled the hidden passion I have for education deep within my heart. The series of questions and scenarios in the book quickly connected with the dilemmas I encountered in my teaching. I can't help but admire Professor Katz's meticulousness and keen observation in the professional field of early childhood education. The analysis of the issues she raises is so precise and directly addresses the problems in the current state of early childhood education. From this, she clearly points out that preschool teachers must have a reflective mind and a passionate heart that always considers the well-being of the children in their work.

14. 第一遍看，不一定要看懂啊。就像小时候看《红楼梦》一样，第一遍看不懂，多看几篇就懂了。

14. It's not necessary to understand it on the first read. Just like when you were young and reading "Dream of the Red Chamber," if you didn't understand it on the first read, you'd understand it after reading a few more passages.

15. 5老师我想知道你写文章是一气呵成还是要修改几遍才能完成？

15.5 Teacher, I want to know if you write articles in one go or if you need to revise them several times to complete them?

16. 其实没有这么刻意，感觉有的东西忽然就涌上心头了，主要还是多看多写多想。

16. Actually, it's not that deliberate. Sometimes, things just suddenly come to mind. Mainly, it's about seeing more, writing more, and thinking more.

17. 11十点读书的签约作者怎么申请啊？都有什么条件？

17. How can I apply to become a signed author at 11 Points Reading? What are the conditions?

18. 上小学之后，我对你的爱有增无减。感谢有了你，我可以在学校的演讲比赛中脱颖而出，成为一匹黑马；感谢有了你，我可以在同学羡慕的眼光中将一个个童话故事娓娓道来；感谢有了你，我可以在老师的赞许中捧着报纸朗读自己的文章；感谢有了你，我可以在家人的满意中加入了校第一批记者团；感谢有了你，我收获了太多太多……

18. After starting elementary school, my love for you has only grown. Thank you for being there, allowing me to stand out in school speech contests and become a dark horse; thank you for being there, enabling me to recount one fairy tale after another with admiration in my classmates' eyes; thank you for being there, as I read my own articles aloud to the applause of my teachers; thank you for being there, as I joined the school's first journalism team to the satisfaction of my family; thank you for being there, as I have gained so much, so much more...

19. 时间飞逝，我已经参加工作一个月了，而我又重新回到了与你初次相逢的地方。每每翻阅着和工作有关的书籍，我似乎看见你在对我微笑，听见你在告诉我该如何和小朋友们相处，教会他们本领。

19. Time flies, and I have been working for a month now. And I have returned to the place where we first met. Every time I leaf through books related to work, I seem to see you smiling at me, and hear you telling me how to get along with children, teaching them skills.

20. 写公号文千万不要伤春悲秋无病呻吟，因为这个时代太匆忙太焦虑，许多人玩手机为的是消遣，手机阅读，需要释放的正是那点压抑和苦闷。作为一个自媒体作者，你最好去抚慰这些徘徊的灵魂，而不是把阴暗面赤裸裸地撕开给人看。深层次的思考，更适合纸质媒体。

20. When writing articles for public accounts, never indulge in melancholic musings about spring and autumn without any real reason. This era is too hurried and anxious; many people use their phones for entertainment, and the reading on mobile devices is meant to release the suppressed and melancholic feelings. As an author of self-media, it's better for you to comfort these wandering souls rather than bare their dark sides for everyone to see. Deep thinking is more suitable for print media.

21. 我觉得需要读经典的文学作品比如红楼梦，优美的诗词歌赋，以及一些哲学书籍。每天读一本书，然而快不了，积累是过程。我现在在看中国哲学史 苏菲的世界

21. I feel that it is necessary to read classic literary works such as "Dream of the Red Chamber," beautiful poems and songs, as well as some philosophical books. Reading a book every day, however, is not fast enough; accumulation is a process. Currently, I am reading "A History of Chinese Philosophy" and "Sophie's World."

22. 不好意思，我现在都不算一个合格的标题党，我属于起标题困难的。

22. Sorry, I'm not even qualified as a good clickbait writer now; I belong to the category of those who find it difficult to come up with catchy titles.

23. 当今社会最注重人才，因为人才是促进社会发展的动力。然而，只有掌握了足够的知识才能称得上是人才，才能成为对社会有用的人，反之，我们就很难被社会认可，最终将会被社会所淘汰。一个有知识的人能改变自己的命运，一群有知识的人能改变国家的命运。

23. In today's society, talent is the most valued, as talent is the driving force for social development. However, only those who have acquired sufficient knowledge can be called talents and become people who are useful to society. Conversely, it is difficult for us to gain social recognition, and ultimately, we will be eliminated by society. A person with knowledge can change their own destiny, and a group of people with knowledge can change the destiny of a nation.

24. 书使我理解对生活的定义、成功的理解、人生的感悟，使我在这个世界上活的更精彩。与书为伴，我排除杂念而感到自身的存在，是一种满足和宁静、一种豁然开朗的感觉！与书为伴，我享受到生活中每一个过程的美妙与精彩！

24. Books have enabled me to understand the definition of life, the concept of success, and the insights of human existence, making my life more vibrant in this world. Accompanied by books, I feel the presence of my own being, free from distractions, which is a sense of fulfillment and tranquility, a feeling of sudden clarity! Accompanied by books, I enjoy the wonderful and exciting aspects of every process in life!

25. 所以， 能够吸引读者的文章，一定是写到了他们的内心深处，触摸到了最敏感温柔的那个角落。 你要让读者觉得，呀，这不就是我吗？他得到了共鸣，找到了问题的解决途径或是情绪宣泄口，就会对作者产生认同感，便会自然而然地为作者进行二次传播。

25. Therefore, an article that can attract readers must have touched their innermost depths, reaching the most sensitive and tender corner. You want the readers to feel, "Wow, this is me!" When they find resonance, find a solution to the problem, or find an outlet for their emotions, they will naturally develop a sense of identification with the author and will naturally promote the author's work further.

26. 很多人都会问这样的问题：到底是什么主宰着我们的命运？我们能否改变命运？要怎么样才能改变自己的命运呢？著名导演张艺谋就回答了这个问题：“无论是名扬全球的科学家，艺术家，或是一个普通百姓，都是知识改变了他们一生的命运。”

26. Many people often ask such questions: What is it that determines our destiny? Can we change our destiny? How can we change our own destiny? The famous director Zhang Yimou answered this question: "Whether it is a globally renowned scientist, artist, or an ordinary citizen, it is knowledge that has changed their destiny throughout their lives."

27. 让读者读了你的文章后恍然大悟，生活和世界都在瞬间不一样，那是写作者的大功一件。但纯粹的讲道理是无法做到这一点的，你需要提供清晰明了的观念或具体做法，读者才可能买你的账。

27. It is a great achievement for a writer when readers, after reading their article, suddenly see life and the world in a completely different light. However, mere reasoning is not enough to achieve this; you need to provide clear and understandable ideas or specific practices for readers to accept your perspective.

28. （北仑区新蕾幼儿园 胡娜）

28. (Beilun New Ray Kindergarten, Hu Na)

29. 看写什么方面的内容了，写公号有框架，写散文跟着感觉走。

29. It depends on what kind of content you're writing. When writing a public account, you should follow a framework, but when writing prose, you should go with your feelings.

30. 总结一下，我的写作素材选择大概就是这么五点：

30. In summary, my choice of writing materials is roughly about these five points:

31. 其实我的第一篇真正意义上的爆文《那个嫁了穷人的女同学》就是这么来的，不知道大家有没有看过呢？那时，公众文里铺天盖地的都是不和穷人谈恋爱。有一天我无意中看到一篇《穷人真的不配有爱情吗》，里面列举了一两个共同努力的贫穷男女。

31. In fact, my first truly viral article, "That Girl Who Maried a Poor Man," came about this way. I don't know if anyone has read it. At that time, public articles were full of advice against dating poor people. One day, by chance, I came across an article titled "Do Poor People Not Deserve Love?" In it, they listed a couple of poor men and women who were striving together.

32. 我记得十多年前，安妮宝贝和郭敬明盛行那会儿，大部分作者写的都是45度仰望天空，明媚的忧伤什么的，为赋新词强说愁。转眼十年过去了，社会巨变沧海桑田，快节奏的生活和巨大的压力，使得新兴的自媒体成为了人们寻找慰藉和认同感的一个重要渠道。

32. I remember that a decade ago, when Anni Baobei and Guo Jingming were popular, most authors wrote about looking up at the sky at a 45-degree angle, about bright sadness, etc., forcing themselves to express sorrow for new words. Time flies, and ten years have passed. With tremendous social changes and the vicissitudes of life, the fast-paced life and the immense pressure have made emerging self-media an important channel for people to seek solace and a sense of belonging.

33. 10你的文章，能写多长时间，灵感来了，很快就完了吗？

33. How long can you write your article, and will it be done quickly once you get the inspiration?

34. 前几天最火的新闻是山东的于欢刺死辱母者案，许多自媒体大咖各显神通刷屏朋友圈。对一个自媒体公号写作者来说，热点事件的爆发就是一次争分夺秒的写作大战，抢占头条和流量，是每一个立志做自媒体作者的必备素质之一。

34. The hottest news recently was the case of Yu Huan from Shandong, who killed the man who humiliated his mother. Many self-media bigwigs showed their skills by flooding WeChat Moments. For a self-media account writer, the outbreak of hot events is a race against time in writing, fighting to grab the top headlines and traffic. This is one of the essential qualities for every aspiring self-media writer.

35. 13有很多故事自己都被感动流泪，可是写出来就索然无味？

35. 13 There are many stories that even moved me to tears, but when I write them down, they seem to lack any charm?

36. 最近很火的词汇，富养、原生家庭、阶层固化……其实任何一个都有写不完的素材，前提是，你要真的学会思考，思考这些词汇，词汇的社会背景以及它们代表着的那些的复杂情绪。

36. The recently popular terms like "fattening up," "original family," and "class solidification"… actually, there is an endless amount of material to write about each of them. The premise is, you really need to learn to think, to think about these terms, their social context, and the complex emotions they represent.

37. 空闲之余知道自己是童年缺少儿童文学阅读的成年人，因此为了修补这个缺陷。最近刚读了一本的儿童文学《夏洛的网》使我落泪，使我感动。在这里作者用拟人化夸张的手段描绘出了人性的特点。蜘蛛夏洛用她的爱网挽救了小猪威尔博的一系列动人过程。故事结束了虽然，美丽的夏洛美丽的死去，但是故事中夏洛和威尔博之间的爱和友谊并没有结束。面对夏洛世俗所谓的尊严和高贵都败的一塌糊涂；面对故事中的夏洛使我更深一层的增加对爱的理解和感受，使我有点混浊的心，又有了干净和透明。一本好的书可以纯净自己的心灵，在这经济加快、互相争先求得个人利益的时代，让人们的心灵更纯真一些吧。

37. In my leisure time, as an adult who realized that I lacked children's literature during my childhood, I decided to fill this gap. Recently, I read a children's book called "Charlotte's Web," which moved me to tears and touched my heart. Here, the author uses anthropomorphic exaggeration to depict the characteristics of human nature. The spider, Charlotte, saves the pig, Wilbur, through a series of moving processes with her love web. Although the story ended, with the beautiful Charlotte dying beautifully, the love and friendship between Charlotte and Wilbur in the story did not end. In the face of what is considered dignity and nobility in the world, the story's Charlotte has a deeper impact on my understanding and feeling of love, making my somewhat cloudy heart clear and transparent again. A good book can purify one's soul. In this era of accelerated economy and competition for personal gain, let us make people's hearts purer.

38. 开始的时候还真没有，后来中得多了和编辑熟了就会好一点点，但也只是一点点。

38. At first, there really wasn't any. But as I won more and became more familiar with the editors, it would get a bit better, but only a bit.

39. 可见，读一本好书，就好似上了一堂生动的人生课，让我们的知识面更加宽广，也由此改变了我们的命运。著名导演张艺谋说：“无论是名扬全球的科学家，艺术家，或是一个普通百姓，都是知识改变了他们一生的命运。”北京奥运会开幕式，在那么短短的时间里，张艺谋将中华民族的5000年文化淋漓尽致地表现了出来。试想下，如果他没有读过中国的历史，没有深厚的文化底蕴，又会带给人类怎样的视觉冲击。

39. It is evident that reading a good book is akin to attending a vivid life lesson, broadening our scope of knowledge and thereby altering our destiny. The famous director Zhang Yimou once said, "Whether it is a globally renowned scientist, artist, or an ordinary citizen, knowledge has changed the destiny of their entire lives." During the opening ceremony of the Beijing Olympics, in that brief span of time, Zhang Yimou showcased the 5,000-year-old culture of the Chinese nation in all its glory. Imagine, if he had not read China's history or had not possessed a profound cultural background, what kind of visual impact would he have brought to humanity.

40. 《戴尔卡耐基智慧全书》这本书聚集了这是戴尔卡耐基最畅销书籍的精华。书中的作者戴尔卡耐基是美国现代承认教育之父，人性教父、人际关系学鼻祖。 美国著名的心理学家和人际关系学家 ，是20 世纪最伟大的成功学大师。卡耐基之所以能取得那么的成就，离不开的他对知识渴求，他很珍惜自己的读书机会，除了每天帮父母完成家里工作以外，他还每天晚上在煤灯下刻苦读书。他不肯向现实屈服，不断相信知识能改变命运，之因为有他的这种信念和煤灯下苦读的这种精神，将他所学到的知识运用到实践当中，将他在实践中得到的认识与成功秘诀传授给他人，也完成用知识改变自己的命运，也改变了别人的命运，使自己走向了成功的人生。认真研读过他这几本书的人，有的成了成功的商业家，有成了成功的演说家。因此还被称为；“除了自由女神像，他就是美国的象征。”的最高荣誉的称号。他书从中的人性的几个弱点与优点中，使我在与同事之间相处能更融洽，与家长之间的交流能更顺利。在语言的突破上，通过不断地实践及总结经验，感觉自己也是一个成功的发言者。

40. "The Encyclopedia of Dale Carnegie" is a book that gathers the essence of Dale Carnegie's most popular works. The author, Dale Carnegie, is recognized as the father of modern self-help education, the godfather of human nature, and the founder of interpersonal relations studies in the United States. He is a renowned American psychologist and interpersonal relations expert, and is considered one of the greatest success experts of the 20th century. Carnegie's achievements are in no small part due to his insatiable thirst for knowledge. He values his opportunities to read, studying diligently under coal lamps every night in addition to helping his parents with household chores. He refused to yield to reality, always believing that knowledge could change one's destiny. It was because of his belief and the spirit of hard work under coal lamps that he applied the knowledge he learned in practice, passed on his insights and secrets of success to others, changed his own destiny, and also changed the destinies of others, leading himself to a successful life. Those who have seriously studied his books have become successful entrepreneurs and orators. Therefore, he has been honored with the highest title, "besides the Statue of Liberty, he is the symbol of America." In his books, he addresses several human weaknesses and strengths, which have helped me to better get along with my colleagues and have smoother communication with my parents. In terms of language, through continuous practice and experience, I feel that I have also become a successful speaker.

41. 对为人际交际烦忧的现代人来说，这类文章其实就是一场及时雨，也是切中读者需求的一个重要途径。佛说，一花一世界，一叶一轮回，从小芝麻里看出大天地，就是写作者的毕生修行。其实，这也是散文写作的基本手法。

41. For modern people who are troubled by interpersonal communication, such articles are actually a timely rain and an important way to meet the readers' needs. As Buddha said, "a flower is a world, a leaf is a cycle," and seeing the vast universe in a small sesame seed is the lifelong practice of a writer. In fact, this is also a basic technique of prose writing.

42. 我想在我生命的未来，我将永远畅游在你——书海的浩瀚中，用无比愉悦的心情和那一群群同样的爱书人共同续写中华的辉煌！

42. I wish in the future of my life, I will forever sail in the vast ocean of books—your boundless sea, with an unmeasurable joy in my heart and together with a group of fellow booklovers, continue to write the glory of China!