青春的选择：不随波逐流，活出精彩自我！

The Choice of Youth: Not to follow the crowd, but to live an extraordinary life!

1. 他会迫不及待地走到你的身边，如果他年轻，那他一定会像顽劣的孩童霸占着自己的玩具不肯与别人分享般地拥抱你；如果他已经不再年轻，那他一定会像披荆斩棘归来的猎人，在你身边燃起篝火，然后拥抱着你疲惫而放心地睡去。他一定会找到你，你要等。周崇光

1. He will hurry to your side with impatience, and if he is young, he will certainly embrace you as a mischievous child who refuses to share their toys with others; if he is no longer young, he will be like a hunter returning from a victorious quest, kindling a bonfire beside you, and then embracing you in exhaustion and comfort, sleeping soundly. He will definitely find you; you just have to wait. Zhou Chongguang.

2. 我们看人生，不过是雾里看花，水中望月，痴人说梦。谁又能看个清楚，说个明白！因为我们就在其中，所谓当局者迷，旁观者清。谁是旁观者呢，也许就是佛吧。我们看月，月有阴晴圆缺。我们看太阳，太阳不过是个大圆盘。看星星，星星像眼睛。而真的月呢，只圆不缺。真的太阳呢，大得不敢想象。真的星星，更是神奇得不可思议。我们所见的万物无不如是。

2. We view life, it's no more than looking at flowers through fog, or seeing the moon in water, or talking in dreams. Who can see it clearly and speak it out! For we are immersed in it, and it's said that those who are in the game are confused while those who are watching are clear. Who are the observers? Perhaps it's the Buddha. We look at the moon, and the moon has moments of brightness and darkness, fullness and waning. We look at the sun, and the sun is just a large round plate. We look at the stars, and the stars resemble eyes. But the real moon is only full and never waning. The real sun is so vast that it's unimaginable. The real stars are even more神奇 and incredible than we can fathom. All the things we see are like this.

3. 如果有人利用别人的善良和心软，得寸进尺，一次次欺骗和抛弃，这样的人，我们早该远离和忘记。我们选择容忍和宽容，不是为了让别人凌驾于头上。

3. If someone takes advantage of another person's kindness and soft-heartedness, taking more and more, cheating and deserting time and again, such a person, we should have long since distanced ourselves from and forgotten them. Our choice to tolerate and be宽容 is not to allow others to dominate over us.

4. 这世上没有无缘无故的爱，也没有无缘无故的恨，只有无缘无故的胖了。

4. There is no love in this world without a reason, no hate without a reason, but there is obesity without a reason.

5. 如果你想要考研，就必须提前做好阶段的规划，然后在每一个预期的时间节点审视自己的进度，并且依据进度调整自己的计划和节奏；如果你想长途旅行，也需要在旅行结束之后静下心来写写游记，方便自己下次更加充分地准备出行，也可以帮到别人；

5. If you want to pursue postgraduate studies, you must plan your stages in advance, then review your progress at each expected time point, and adjust your plans and rhythm based on your progress; if you want to go on a long journey, you also need to calm down and write travel notes after the trip, which will help you prepare more thoroughly for your next trip and can also help others.

6. 相信就是强大，怀疑只会抑制能力，而信仰就是力量。

6. Belief is strong, doubt only suppresses ability, and faith is power.

7. 你永远都不会知道自己到底有多坚强，直到有一天你除了坚强别无选择。

7. You will never know how strong you are until the day comes when you have no choice but to be strong.

8. 愿你身畔有一人，始终小心护住你的孩子气，爱着你，像深巷传来酒香，闻之即醉。

8. May there be someone by your side who always carefully guards your childlike nature, loving you as the aroma of wine from a deep alley, intoxicating upon a single whiff.

9. 虽然我们这辈子错过了，但爱过了，就是一生一世。

9. Although we missed each other in this lifetime, the love we shared is forever.

10. 陈道明曾经说过，人的最高意境是节制，而不是释放。释放是容易的，物质的释放、精神的释放都很容易，但难得的是节制。

10. Chen Daoming once said that the highest artistic conception of a person is restraint, not release. Release is easy; both the release of matter and the release of spirit are easy, but what is hard to achieve is restraint.

11. 长得漂亮不一定就是福气，这意味着这个人在成长的过程中会收到远超过普通人的诱惑和选择。一旦没有成熟的心智、智慧的头脑，就很容易走上岔路，人生停滞不前。学生时期，长相漂亮的女孩子容易被追求，如果意志不坚定发生早恋，很可能学业被耽搁，后半生都会因此发生变化。年轻的姑娘们，很容易被一些心怀不轨的上司或者中年男子盯上，一旦经受不住名和利的诱惑，就很容易走向钱色交易的黑洞。

11. Being pretty doesn't necessarily mean good fortune; this means that this person will receive far more temptations and choices than the average person during their growth process. Without a mature mind and a wise brain, it's easy to go astray and get stuck in life. During the student years, pretty girls are often pursued, and if they are not firm in their will and fall into an early romance, it's likely that their studies will be interrupted, and their later life will be greatly affected by this. Young women are easily targeted by some unscrupulous supervisors or middle-aged men. Once they cannot withstand the temptation of fame and wealth, they are likely to fall into the black hole of money and sex transactions.

12. 人生之路，倍感艰辛，确实需要风雨之后的铮骨柔情，磨砺之后的化蛹成蝶!

12. The path of life is fraught with hardship, indeed it requires the strength and tenderness after the storms, and the transformation into a butterfly after being tempered!

13. 乔布斯说：“自由从自信而来，自信从自律而来。”自由不是别人给你的，而是自己给自己的。

13. Jobs said, "Freedom comes from confidence, and confidence comes from self-discipline." Freedom is not given to you by others, but given to yourself.

14. 我们每个人都有欲望。人活着就是欲望，一个人为什么活着，就是因为他想活。就连寺庙里的和尚，他们想要清心寡欲，也也是一种欲望。有欲望才是正常的，一个人如果没有任何欲望，他就不存在了。这是史铁生说的。我们每人都要有点欲望，有欲望也是好的，表明你对人生还有希望，还有眷恋，我们应该为自己感到开心，但是人的欲望不能太多，人一定不能贪心，人一贪婪，各种坏事就会奔向你而来，历史上那么多贪官，还有好色的皇帝，就是教训。

14. We all have desires. To be alive is to have desires; the reason why a person lives is because they want to live. Even the monks in temples, who seek to cultivate a pure and desireless heart, also have a form of desire. Desires are normal; if a person has no desires, they do not exist. This is what Shi Tiesheng said. Each of us should have some desires; having desires is good, as it indicates that you still have hope and attachment to life. We should be happy for ourselves, but a person's desires should not be too many. One must not be greedy, for once a person becomes greedy, all sorts of bad things will come towards them. The history is full of greedy officials, and there are also emperors who were fond of women, all of which serve as lessons.

15. 很棒的一段话：时间久了，你会发现男人的相貌并不重要，重要的是脑子里有智慧，心中有担当！男人的甜言并不重要，重要的是能否兑现承诺！男人的金钱多少不重要，重要的是花不花在你身上！男人的人在哪里不重要，重要的是心里是否牵挂你。

15. A wonderful saying: After a while, you'll find that a man's appearance is not important; what matters is that he has wisdom in his mind and responsibility in his heart! Sweet words from a man are not important; what matters is whether he can keep his promises! How much money a man has is not important; what matters is whether he spends it on you! Where a man is is not important; what matters is whether he cares for you in his heart.

16. 三是没有自信心和安全感。当自信心不足时，物质便成了你的唯一依靠。

16. The third is a lack of self-confidence and security. When self-confidence is insufficient, material things become your only reliance.

17. 虽然我知道你喜欢的是我，但我就是看不惯你和别的女人混在一起，即便是社会需要。

17. Although I know that you like me, I just can't stand seeing you mix with other women, even if it's needed by society.

18. 想要比平凡的大多数人有更多收获和成就，就必须做到常人做不到的事情。从细微处入手，日复一日，积少成多，由量变默默积攒。几年之后再回头看，你会发现整个人已经产生了质的变化，优秀已经潜移默化地成为你的品质，成为一种自发的、无意识的行为，让你受益终生。

18. To gain more harvest and achievements than the ordinary majority, one must do things that ordinary people cannot. Start from the trivial details, day after day, accumulating a little at a time, and silently accumulating from quantitative changes. Years later, when you look back, you will find that the whole person has undergone qualitative changes, and excellence has subtly become your quality, turning into a spontaneous, unconscious behavior that benefits you throughout your life.

19. 跟在你后面那么多年，当然能认出你的脚步声，就算现在闭上眼睛，我也能在很多人中分辨出你的脚步声。

19. Having followed you for so many years, of course, I can recognize your footsteps. Even if I close my eyes now, I can distinguish your footsteps from those of many people.

20. 有些事自己知道就好，没必要去追问，因为答案未必能接受；有些人自己认清就好，不值得去难过，因为感情不能去强求。

20. Some things are best left unsaid, as there's no need to追问 them, for the answers may not be acceptable; some people are best understood by oneself, and it's not worth feeling sad, because love cannot be强迫.

21. 当你终于学会爱惜自己的身体，不再做那些明知对自己有害的事情，不再用负面的情绪折磨自己时，你就会发现，你的人生进入了新的纪元。每一次蜕变，都意味着你摒弃了一个差的自己，朝着更好的方向又迈进了一步。唯有自爱，才能将人从一切黑暗中拯救出来，自爱的人，才能保持自律的心。自律的人，才能拥有更多可能性，更幸运的人生。

21. When you finally learn to cherish your body, stop doing those things that you know are harmful to yourself, and no longer torture yourself with negative emotions, you will find that your life has entered a new era. Every transformation means that you have discarded a worse version of yourself and taken a step forward in a better direction. Only by loving oneself can a person be saved from all darkness, and only those who love themselves can maintain a disciplined heart. People with discipline can have more possibilities and a luckier life.

22. 计划本身不应该成为一个人的心理负担，不该使一个人过分焦虑，它只是一种让你成为更好的自己的途径和方法；方法是以人为根本的，只要你努力做好眼前事，一切都会自然而然地到来，比如金钱。

22. The plan itself should not become a psychological burden on a person, nor should it cause excessive anxiety. It is merely a way and method for you to become a better version of yourself; the method is centered around the human being. As long as you strive to do well what is in front of you, everything will naturally come to you, such as money.

23. 我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有它不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走下去的路，都有它不得不那样选择的方向。

23. I finally believe that every path taken has its own reasons for the arduous journey it has to undertake. Every path to be followed has its own direction that it has to choose for a reason.

24. 自律的过程可能是有些难熬的，但是最终能带给我们很多改变，它让我们变得更加平和，不再成为情绪的奴隶；它让我们更加专注，懂得如何提高工作的效率；它让我们变得更加幸运，让我们明白付出的时间终会有所回赠。我们在这个过程中，一定要相信自己。既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程。对自己负责。

24. The process of self-discipline may be somewhat difficult to endure, but it ultimately brings us many changes. It makes us more peaceful, no longer slaves to our emotions; it makes us more focused, knowing how to improve work efficiency; it makes us luckier, and it teaches us that the time we invest will always be repaid. In this process, we must believe in ourselves. Since we have chosen a distant destination, let us forge ahead, irrespective of the wind and rain. Take responsibility for ourselves.

25. 如果你是一个理想主义者，那你做自己不喜欢的事情，哪怕待遇再好，公司氛围再和谐，你也不可能甘心留在那里。与其把时间耗在去与留的纠结里，不如早日解脱出去，追求自己真正痴迷的事业。一个喜欢折腾的人很难在养老院式的企业里长久待下去，而一个渴求稳定的人也不适合在奉行“狼文化”的公司待下去。

25. If you are an idealist, you will never be content with doing things you don't like, no matter how good the compensation is or how harmonious the company's atmosphere is. It's better to free yourself from the dilemma of staying or leaving as soon as possible and pursue what you are truly passionate about. A person who enjoys being active will find it hard to stay long in a corporate environment reminiscent of a retirement home, and a person who craves stability is not suited to work in a company that adheres to the "wolf culture."

26. 有时候，等一个人，等得太久了，会忘记他的模样，甚至名姓。（）有时候，等一朵莲开，等得太久，会让分明的四季，变得模糊不清。可是莲荷，在每年夏季终究要应约而来，但有些人，任你耗费一生的时光，也等不到。

26. Sometimes, waiting for someone for too long can make you forget their appearance, even their name and surname. Sometimes, waiting for a lotus to bloom for too long can blur the distinct seasons. However, lotus flowers will eventually arrive as scheduled every summer, but for some people, no matter how much time you spend in your lifetime, you may never wait for them.

27. 一些看似符合情理的事情，却被莫名其妙的潜规则。无知就像潜伏在体内的病灶，看不见，摸不透，只能眼睁睁的看着它发作，自己却束手无策。最大的悲哀莫过于，遍体鳞伤却找不到伤口在哪里。

27. Some things that seem reasonable are, however, governed by mysterious unwritten rules. Ignorance is like a hidden disease within the body, invisible and indecipherable, and one can only watch helplessly as it erupts, feeling powerless to do anything about it. The greatest sorrow is to be all torn up but unable to find where the wounds are.

28. 人生总有那么一些日子，发生的看似都是一些微不足道的小事，却已在你的记忆深处留下了波澜。而在那些孤独的时刻，你将会久久地、永远地回味。

28. There are always some days in life when what seems to happen are trivial little things, yet they leave ripples deep in your memory. And in those moments of solitude, you will savor them for a long time, forever.

29. 大自然把人们困在黑暗之中，迫使人们永远向往光明。

29. Nature confines people in darkness, compelling them to forever yearn for light.

30. 生命，就像一场永无休止的苦役，不要惧怕和拒绝困苦，超越困苦，就是生活的强者。激励人的一段话。任何经历都是一种累积，累积的越多，人就越成熟;经历的越多，生命就越有厚度。

30. Life, like an endless labor of toil, should not be feared or rejected. Overcoming hardship is the hallmark of a strong life. An inspiring statement. Any experience is a form of accumulation; the more accumulated, the more mature a person becomes; the more experiences, the richer the depth of one's life.

31. 如果我用你待我的方式来待你，恐怕你早已离去。所以说，不管亲情，友情，还是爱情，凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度！

31. If I treated you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you would have left long ago. So, whether it's family ties, friendship, or love, in all matters, change your perspective. If you were me, you might not be as generous as I am!

32. 不积跬步，无以至千里;不积小流，无以成江海。骐骥一跃，不能十步;驽马十驾，功在不舍。锲而舍之，朽木不折;锲而不舍，金石可镂。

32. Not to accumulate small steps, one cannot reach a thousand miles; not to accumulate tiny streams, one cannot form a river or sea. A noble horse can leap only ten steps at a time; a slow horse can cover ten spans with perseverance. If one carves and gives up, even rotten wood cannot be broken; if one carves without giving up, gold and jade can be carved.

33. 有些事，你把它藏到心里，也许会更好，等时间长了，也就变成了故事。人的一生，总是难免有浮沉。生活是一磁带包罗万有的歌，每天唱不完的是喜怒哀乐，不停流淌着的旋律是命运的起起落落。若想谱写出一首首优美动听的歌谣，学会放下该忘记的，记住该记住的。

33. There are some things that are perhaps better kept hidden in your heart, for over time, they may turn into stories. In one's life, it is inevitable to have ups and downs. Life is a tapestry of songs that encompass everything, with endless melodies of joy, anger, sadness, and sorrow flowing each day. To compose beautiful and melodious songs, learn to let go of what should be forgotten and remember what should be cherished.

34. 第二个小习惯是把琐碎任务分轻重缓急列出来。

34. The second habit is to prioritize trivial tasks based on their urgency and importance.

35. 我不是天生富二代的命，人生的路上我一直在打拼，告诉自己不能泄气，因为爱拼才会赢；我没有百毒不侵的身心，无助了会不安，难过了会伤心，但我会好好爱自己，因为你不爱自己没人会更爱你！

35. I'm not destined to be a born-rich second-generation heir. Throughout my life, I have been struggling, reminding myself not to lose heart because only those who fight hard can win. I don't have an invulnerable body and mind; when I'm helpless, I feel restless, and when I'm sad, I feel heartbroken. But I will love myself well, because if you don't love yourself, no one else will love you more!

36. 亲爱的自己，永远不要为难自己，比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。亲爱的自己，要快乐、要开朗、要坚韧、要温暖，这和性格无关！亲爱的自己，要自信甚至要自恋一点，时刻提醒自己我拥有最好的一切！

36. Dear yourself, never subject yourself to hardships, such as not eating, crying, shutting yourself off, or feeling depressed – these are things that only fools do. Dear yourself, be happy, be cheerful, be resilient, be warm, and this has nothing to do with your character! Dear yourself, be confident and even a bit narcissistic, always reminding yourself that I have the best of everything!

37. 我们总有千万个借口去远方，远方救得了你吗。这个时代，旅行的意义被过于夸大。跟心上人有摩擦了，跟上司有矛盾了，最后大家都背起背包汇入旅途。在生活一团糟的情况下，旅行是为了缓一缓，回去重新处理烂摊子。

37. We always find a million and one excuses to travel afar, but can the distant places save you? In this era, the significance of traveling is overemphasized. When there are frictions with a loved one or conflicts with a supervisor, everyone ends up packing their backpacks and joining the journey. In the midst of a chaotic life, traveling is meant to take a breather, to return and deal with the mess anew.

38. 那我们该如何爱自己呢？首先，要让自己有一个好身体，身体是革命的本钱，留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。每天要吃好、睡好、运动好、心情好，作息时间要规律，不要熬夜不要吃诱人的垃圾食品，说实话，这一点有点难，但是你如果对自己负责，爱自己，那就应该做到。不要等到身体出现毛病，才知道汲取教训。当然，我深知有时候时时刻刻保持自律很难，也可以过段时间放松一下自己，但是只是偶尔一次，大多数时刻，还是要自律，严格要求自己。

38. So how should we love ourselves? Firstly, we need to maintain a healthy body, as it is the capital for revolution. As long as we have the green mountains, we have no fear of running out of firewood. We should eat well, sleep well, exercise well, and keep a good mood every day. Our schedule should be regular, and we should not stay up late or eat tempting junk food. To be honest, this is a bit difficult, but if you are responsible to yourself and love yourself, you should be able to do it. Don't wait until your body has problems to learn from your mistakes. Of course, I know that it is difficult to maintain self-discipline every moment, and you can relax yourself for a while after a period of time, but it should only be occasionally. Most of the time, you still need to be self-disciplined and strictly demand yourself.

39. 当我们懂得了爱的真谛，学会了珍惜，在人生的旅途中，我们遗失的就会少很多。不管迎面来的是什么，我们都能坦然面对。且不管前路如何，今天有阳光，那么我们就拥抱温暖;当风雨来临的时候，我们已经储备了迎接寒冷的能量。等待生命的即便是命运的魔咒，至少我们享受了现在，珍惜了拥有!当生命的繁华落幕之时，我们应会少了几许惶恐，而多了一份坦然。

39. When we understand the true essence of love and learn to cherish, we will lose much less on our journey through life. No matter what comes our way, we can face it calmly. And regardless of what lies ahead, if today there is sunshine, we embrace the warmth; when the storms come, we have already stored up energy to face the cold. Waiting for life, even if it is a curse of fate, at least we enjoy the present and cherish what we have! When the splendor of life comes to an end, we should be a little less anxious and a little more serene.

40. 人没有受过伤的时候，会惧怕伤口的疼痛;人没有见过血的时候，会恐慌血液的鲜红;但一个遍体鳞伤的人，决不会忧虑再多一个伤口再多一滩血迹!伤了痛了，也是一种经历;别样的经历，更能让人生异彩纷呈。风雨之中方显铮骨柔情，磨砺之后才见英雄本色!

40. When a person has not been injured, they fear the pain of the wound; when a person has not seen blood, they are panicked by the bright redness of it. But a person who is covered in wounds would never worry about having one more wound or one more patch of blood! Getting hurt and experiencing pain is also a kind of experience; unique experiences make life more colorful. It is in the midst of storms and rains that one's strength and tenderness are revealed, and it is after being tempered that the true nature of a hero can be seen!

41. 誓言用来拴骚动的心，终就拴住了虚空。山林不向四季起誓，荣枯随缘。海洋不需对沙岸承诺，遇合尽兴。连语言都应该舍弃，你我之间，只有干干净净的缄默，与存在。《海誓》

41. Vows are used to tether restless hearts, but in the end, they tether emptiness. The mountains do not swear allegiance to the four seasons, their prosperity and decline are dependent on destiny. The sea does not need to make promises to the sandy shore, encountering what happens with full enthusiasm. Even language should be forsaken; between you and me, there is only a clean silence, and existence. - "Oath of the Sea"

42. 如果我们选择自律，那么这就是对自己负责，对工作负责，对恋人和家人负责。

42. If we choose self-discipline, then this is taking responsibility for ourselves, for our work, for our loved ones and family.

43. 在成功时戒骄戒躁，在失败时不自我否定，任他成败得失，谦谦君子，当温润如玉，淡泊明志。以足够的耐心，足够的隐忍，去成就一番理想中的事业。古往今来，凡能成大事者，无不经历过大风大浪，无不能喜怒不形于色。

43. When successful, do not let pride and arrogance take hold; when failing, do not denigrate yourself. Let all successes and failures be as they may, be a modest and humble gentleman, gentle as jade, and have a clear mind with a serene demeanor. With enough patience and enough tolerance, strive to achieve a career that is ideal. Throughout history, those who have been able to accomplish great things have all gone through storms and waves, and none could express their joy or anger on their faces.

44. 任何关系，你想陌生，我根本不会再多看你一眼。

44. Any relationship, if you want to be陌生, I won't even cast another glance at you.