爱中我明，随你心意。一缕清风拂过，吹散了岁月的尘埃，只留下那抹淡淡的笑意。

In love, I am enlightened, as you wish. A gentle breeze passes by, blowing away the dust of time, leaving only a faint smile behind.

1. 万物都在变

1. Everything is changing.

2. 结婚戒指品牌都有自己别具一格的品牌文化，品牌特色赋予结婚戒指的是爱的意义，是情感的寄托，所以很多新人比较喜欢注重情感的结婚戒指品牌。

2. Wedding ring brands all have their unique brand culture, and the brand characteristics endow the wedding rings with the meaning of love and serve as a寄托 for emotions. Therefore, many newlyweds prefer wedding ring brands that emphasize emotional significance.

3. 你决定不了

3. You decide not to...

4. 有了误解要早点消除，不要等它变大了无法控制了就会变得更加的困难了。矛盾的产生是正常的，误解别人或者被别人误解都很正常，如果不解除自己痛苦，别人也会痛苦。许多矛盾的产生，并不是有什么真正的深仇大恨或根本的利害冲突，常是你误解了他，或者他误解了你。发生误解时，双方应积极主动地消除误解。如果大家都舍不下面子，不好意思让步，只能使矛盾持续存在和日益加深，加深之后，人和人的误解会进一步的加深，这就是为什么会有人生若只如初见，何事秋风悲画扇，就是这个原因。

4. Misunderstandings should be resolved early on, as waiting for them to grow out of control only makes them more difficult to handle. The emergence of contradictions is normal; misunderstanding others or being misunderstood by others is quite common. If one's own suffering is not alleviated, others will also suffer. Many contradictions arise not from any real deep-seated hatred or fundamental conflicts of interest, but often from misunderstandings where you misunderstood them, or they misunderstood you. When misunderstandings occur, both parties should actively work to resolve them. If everyone is too proud to lower their pride and too embarrassed to make concessions, it can only lead to the persistence and deepening of contradictions. After deepening, the misunderstandings between people will further deepen, which is why it is said, "If life were only as it was at first sight, why would autumn winds cause the painting fan to grieve?" This is the reason.

5. 人要懂得相反衬托，而不是顺势而飞。当人越富的时候就不要去显示自己富了，要显示自己没钱，人越聪明的时候就不要显示自己多么的聪明了，要懂得露拙显愚。人越穷的时候就不要去到处说自己穷了，要懂得显示自己还是富有的，所以地位越低的时候就要显示自己的高明。富足的人要显贫穷些，那是因为容易遭到别人的惦记，易遭贼偷；太精明的人就要显得愚笨一些，那是因为如果一个人太精明则容易遭到别人的防备。当然，反过来，贫贱的人，要昂起头，挺直腰，显富显贵些，否则会更让人瞧不起。本来就愚蠢的人还要去显示自己的愚蠢，那就更加的让人看不上。

5. People should understand the art of contrast rather than going with the flow. When one is wealthy, one should not show off their wealth; instead, one should act as if they are poor. When one is intelligent, one should not display their intelligence; one should know when to show one's ignorance. When one is poor, one should not boast about their poverty; one should learn to appear wealthy. Therefore, when one's status is low, one should display their wisdom. The wealthy should appear somewhat poorer, as they are more likely to be envied and stolen from; overly clever people should appear a bit foolish, as excessive cleverness can invite suspicion. Of course, conversely, the humble should hold their heads high, stand up straight, and show off their wealth and status, otherwise, they will be looked down upon even more. For those who are naturally foolish, to go around showing off their foolishness is even more detestable.

6. 秋天便成了风景

6. The sky conveniently turned into a scenery.

7. 做人要理智，不要过于感情用事。做人的理智就是：不要感情用事，不要冲动，要用自己的意志力控制自己的激动和躁动。因为，人在冲动时，会脑筋一热忘记一切，从而说出不该说的话，做出不该做的事，从而给自己带来很大的损失，常常追悔莫及，悔恨不已。如果遇到了让自己激动的事，能够冷静一会，静坐个三分钟，让自己平静下来，再去思考事情的前后，最后平静的做出决定，肯定会少去不少的麻烦。

7. In life, one should be rational and not act impulsively due to emotions. The rationality in being a person is: do not act impulsively, do not be impulsive, and use your willpower to control your excitement and restlessness. Because, when people act impulsively, they get so heated that they forget everything and may say things they shouldn't or do things they shouldn't, which can bring about significant losses and often lead to endless regret and remorse. If you encounter something that excites you, it's beneficial to take a moment to calm down, sit quietly for three minutes, and let yourself settle down before reflecting on the situation. Finally, make a calm decision, which will definitely reduce a lot of trouble.

8. 大概是

8. It is approximately

9. 也随之远去

9. Also, as it goes further along.

10. 所以

10. Therefore

11. 看了好久

11. Looked for a long time

12. 给自己留条后路

12. Leave a will after yourself.

13. 多看他人的好。一片白墙难敌一滩污渍，百次好难抵一次孬。人的心理就是如何，你对人的千般好，很容易就被忘记，而你的一次的不好，他就会记你一辈子。这就要求我们尽量一贯地对人好，要是有特殊的情况要事先解释清楚。同时人也告诉我们，要理解做人的难处，不要因为人家的一两次没做到位，就把人家以前的一切好都一笔勾销。

13. Focus on the good in others. A blank wall cannot compete with a patch of dirt, and a hundred acts of kindness cannot outweigh one bad deed. Human psychology is like this: all the good you do for others can easily be forgotten, but one bad act on your part can be remembered for a lifetime. This requires us to be as consistent as possible in showing kindness to others, and if there are special circumstances, they should be explained in advance. At the same time, people also tell us to understand the difficulties of being a person, and not to write off all the good they have done just because they have failed to meet expectations once or twice.

14. 谁的出现

14. The appearance of the "Who"

15. 我还会

15. I will still...

16. 要光明正大的做人。背后说人坏话，是小人所为。常说人好自己也好，常说人坏自己也坏。常在背地里说别人坏话，其实就是自己说自己的坏话。若一个人老是爱这样，听者就会产生这样的想法，你能在我面前说别人的坏话就很有可能在别人面前也说我的坏话。况且，今天的朋友，可能就是明天的敌人，今天不好的言语，明天就可能是别人的弹药。到那时，你说别人的坏话，不知会被放大多少倍，会产生多大的危害性，最后伤害的还是自己。

16. Live a dignified life. Backbiting others is the behavior of a small-minded person. If you often speak ill of others, you will also become ill yourself. If you often talk about others' shortcomings behind their backs, it's essentially you speaking about your own flaws. If a person consistently behaves in this manner, the listener might think, "If you can speak ill of others in front of me, there's a high likelihood that you also speak ill of me in front of others." Moreover, today's friends might become tomorrow's enemies. What may seem like an unpleasant word today could be the ammunition for someone else tomorrow. By then, the harm caused by your ill-speaking about others could be magnified many times over, and it could bring about great damage. In the end, the one who gets hurt the most is yourself.

17. 突然有人给我打伞

17. Suddenly, someone gave me a slap on the cheek.

18. 要有自己的立场，是非要分明。不要总想着做老好人，想去讨人好。想讨人人之好，人人都说你不好，想让人人都信你，人人都会对你不信。所以，百分之百的老好人是当不成的，甚至适得其反。因此，还是要是非分明，坚持正义，这也是做人的基本要求，该挺身而出的时候，就不要畏缩，该成人之美的时候，就不要吝啬。

18. You should have your own stance and be clear about right and wrong. Don't always think about being a pushover and trying to please everyone. If you try to please everyone, everyone will say you're not good. If you want everyone to believe in you, everyone will doubt you. Therefore, it is impossible to be a 100% pushover, and it may even backfire. So, it's better to be clear about right and wrong, uphold justice, which is also a basic requirement of being a person. When it's time to stand up, don't shrink back; when it's time to do something good, don't be stingy.

19. 诚信做人。不燃的煤球没人买，不诚的朋友没人交。树无根必倒，人无信必败。没人愿过危险的桥，没人愿坐危险的船，没人愿交不诚的友。除非是想溺水身亡，或是十足的傻子。就是十足的傻子，受骗多了也是不会再上当的。诚信是人行走于 社会 的必备的砝码。

19. Be honest in your dealings. No one buys a coal ball that won't burn, and no one wants to make friends with an untrustworthy person. Trees without roots will fall, and people without trust will fail. No one wants to cross a dangerous bridge, no one wants to ride a dangerous boat, and no one wants to befriend an untrustworthy person. Unless one wants to drown or is a complete fool. Even a complete fool, after being deceived many times, will no longer fall for the trick. Honesty is a necessary weight in a person's journey through society.

20. 人难不帮人，自难有人帮，平时不帮人，遇事无人帮。别人有困难的时候，你不伸手帮一下，那你自己有难处的时候，就不会有人帮你，如果平时不去帮助别人，那么当自己有紧急的事的时候，自然也不会有人主动来帮自己。不要怨人今天不来，只怨自己昨天不往。你不去别人怎么来？任何事都是有因有果的，人和人的影响也是相互的，人和人的联系是双方的。有舍了才会有得，有支出才会有收入，有付出才会有回报。如果不懂得付出，不懂得给予，不懂得奉献，就不要为别人的冷漠和无视而伤感。

20. It is hard to help others, and in turn, you may find yourself without help. If you don't help others in times of need, you won't receive help when you're in trouble yourself. If you never offer help, there won't be anyone to come to your aid when you're in an emergency. Don't complain that others are not here today; instead, blame yourself for not reaching out yesterday. How can others come if you don't go? Everything has its causes and consequences; the influence between people is reciprocal, and their connection is mutual. One must give to receive, spend to gain, and contribute to be repaid. If you don't understand the value of giving, of giving, of dedicating yourself, then don't feel sad for others' indifference and disregard.

21. 却忘了

21. Forgotten

22. 如果想让别人不知道，除非自己不要说。人对信息有强烈的追逐感和传播欲，尤其是身边的人，守口如瓶让人不传，是不可能的，有些话憋在心里不说又真的很难受，所以总是想一说为快，给人说时又千叮咛万嘱咐，谁都不给说，只给你说，你千万不要再给别人说。不过请一定放心，过了一段时间，这话肯定会尘埃满天飞。怨谁呢？不怨别人，只能怨自己的嘴松，把不住。记住，不能给人说起的，一定要守口如瓶，烂在肚子里。

22. If you want others not to know, unless you don't say it yourself. People have a strong desire to chase and spread information, especially about those around them. To keep one's mouth shut and prevent others from spreading it is impossible, as it is really uncomfortable to hold some words in one's heart without saying them. Therefore, people always want to express themselves as soon as possible and, when talking to others, they would repeatedly remind them to keep it a secret, not to tell anyone else but just you. However, please be assured that after some time, this secret will definitely fly around like dust in the air. Blame whom? Don't blame others, but only blame yourself for your loose lips, unable to keep a secret. Remember, if there are things that you should not tell others, you must keep your mouth shut and let them rot in your stomach.

23. 人要善良，但也不要过于的无底线的善良。 社会 只靠道德不行，还要有法律，人只靠善良不行，还要有原则。精，无人骗，强，无人欺。不少人都认为，人心都是肉长的，只要你对别人好，他就一定会对你好，这话有一定道理，但不是一定，而是可能。虽然这个世界上还是好人多，懂得知恩图报的人多。但要知道，有些人的心就不是肉长的，有些人就是喂不熟的，因为这样的人是披着人皮的狼，所以，当一个人喂不熟，总把你的善良当作你的软弱而更加的欺凌你的时候，就要想着改变方式了。

23. People should be kind, but not overly indiscriminate in their kindness. Society cannot rely solely on morality; it also needs laws. People cannot depend only on kindness; they also need principles. To be refined, one cannot be deceived; to be strong, one cannot be bullied. Many people believe that people's hearts are made of flesh and that as long as you are kind to others, they will definitely be kind to you. This has some truth to it, but it's not a certainty; rather, it's a possibility. Although there are still many good people in the world and many people who know how to repay kindness, we must also realize that not everyone's heart is made of flesh. Some people are as unyielding as stones, because such people are wolves in human disguise. Therefore, when someone is unyielding and always takes your kindness as your weakness, thus bullying you even more, it is time to think about changing your approach.

24. 不好的朋友，要及早的断绝。不安全的东西越早扔掉越好，不好的朋友越早绝交越好。我们要看的不是怕自己得罪别人，而是要看别人是否害怕得罪自己。该得罪的人，得罪得越早越好，因为迟早都要得罪，早得罪可以早不受坑害。例如借钱，那些品德不好的人，他借了你的钱就忘到了脑后，或根本就不想还。你不要便罢，一要人家就给你翻脸，这时钱没了，人情也没了，鸡飞了蛋也打了，留给自己的只有悔恨。要是早点得罪了他，不仅能保住自己的钱，也会少去不少的烦心事甚至是祸患。

24. Bad friends should be cut off early. The sooner unsafe things are discarded, the better; the sooner bad friends are abandoned, the better. What we should look at is not whether we fear offending others, but whether others fear offending us. The sooner we offend those who should be offended, the better, because we will eventually have to offend them, and doing so early can prevent early harm. For example, when lending money, those with bad character will forget about the money as soon as they receive it, or they may not even intend to repay. If you don't lend it, fine, but if they demand it, they will turn on you, at which point the money is gone, and so is the goodwill. The only thing left to you is regret. If you had offended them earlier, you would not only have protected your money but also would have saved yourself a lot of trouble and even potential disasters.

25. 谁的离开

25. The departure of the #person.

26. 看见照着我的月亮

26. Saw the moon shining at me

27. 从此不看月亮

27. Henceforth, no longer look back.

28. 不要只在诚实、老实、厚道、吃苦耐劳上下功夫去做人。我们会听到人们会赞扬老黄牛的精神，但是人们还是会用民皮鞭狠狠地去抽打他。不要傻傻地只在别人的诚实、实在、厚道、老实、文雅的赞扬声中做人，人最重要的还是在聪明、坚强、有能力、有智慧的需求下做人。赞扬你的人，不一定就是尊敬你的人，很有可能就是藐视你的人。老实的人常出力不讨好，奸猾的人常讨好不出力。但并不是说我们不要诚实、厚道，而是说我们要做聪明的诚实、厚道之人，不要因为我们的厚道而被小人、奸人所利用，还要笑着为别人数钱自己还蒙在鼓里。

28. Do not focus solely on being honest, sincere, upright, and hardworking in your character. We may hear people praising the spirit of the old ox, but people will still harshly whip him with the people's whip. Do not foolishly live your life based solely on others' praise for your honesty, sincerity, uprightness, straightforwardness, and elegance. What is most important for a person is to live based on the needs for intelligence, strength, ability, and wisdom. The people who praise you may not necessarily respect you; they could very well be looking down on you. Honest people often work hard without being appreciated, while cunning people often seek favor without contributing. But this does not mean we should not be honest and upright; rather, we should be intelligent, honest, and upright people. Do not let our goodness be exploited by scoundrels and cunning individuals, and yet remain blissfully unaware while others count the money while we are in the dark.

29. 一个转身

29. A change of status

30. 让我变得怕雨

30. Let me change into an umbrella.

31. 给他人所要，而不是自作多情的去做。要好的人就他好，不要好的人就不要给他好了。要脸的人就给他脸，不要脸的人就不要给他脸了。不要好的人还给他好，非要和狼心狗肺的人玩耍，那就是找虐型的。不要脸的人你还给他脸，就是自找苦吃；要好的人你给他好，他会加倍的对你好。如果是要孬非要给他好，那么只能自己更孬。任何事都是有条件的，任何事也都是要看人的，诚要给予讲诚信的人，礼要给予知礼数的人，尊要给予有自尊的人，爱要给予有爱心的人，信要给予有信用的人，情要给予有情的人，义要给予讲义的人，心要给予有心的人，善要给予善良的人。

31. Seek to give to others what they desire, rather than acting with excessive sentimentality. Be good to those who are good, and do not be good to those who are not. Give face to those who deserve it, and do not give face to those who do not. If you give good to those who are not good and insist on playing with people who have the hearts of wolves and the minds of dogs, that is seeking self-inflicted pain. If you give face to someone who does not deserve it, you are only making your own life difficult; and if you show goodness to someone who is good, they will repay you with twice as much goodness. If you give good to someone who deserves bad, then only you become worse. Everything has its conditions, and everything also depends on the person. Be honest with those who are honest, show respect to those who know respect, be loving to those who have love, be trustworthy to those who are trustworthy, be affectionate to those who are affectionate, be just to those who are just, be sincere to those who are sincere, be kind to those who are kind.

32. 不要苛求什么，要用平常的心面对这个世界。自己不足的时候要承认自己的不足，但不要过于自责；别人不行的时候要要承认他人的不足，也不要过于责人。人的手指有长有短，人的个子有高有低，人的性格有优有劣，人的能力有大有小。因此，我们无论对自己还是对他人都不要过于的苛求。要多看自优而自尊，多看人优而尊人。宽容别人也是宽容自己，苛求别人也是苛求自己，善待别人也是善待自己，看人长处，而不是盯着别人的那点瑕疵不放。

32. Do not be overly demanding, but face the world with a calm heart. When you are lacking, admit your shortcomings but do not overly blame yourself; when others are not performing well, acknowledge their shortcomings without overly blaming them. People have different finger lengths, heights, personalities, and abilities. Therefore, we should not be overly demanding of ourselves or others. We should focus on our own strengths and dignity, and also respect others' strengths. Being tolerant of others is also being tolerant of oneself, demanding too much of others is also demanding too much of oneself, treating others kindly is also treating oneself kindly. We should focus on others' strengths rather than fixating on their minor flaws.

33. 我就知道

33. I know that.

34. 再爱一次

34. Love once more

35. 那些美好的回忆

35. Those good American memories

36. 风太大了吧

36. Is it too big, then?

37. 你很久都没回我信息

37. You've been very long without returning my message.

38. 在结婚戒指的选择上每个人都有自己的喜好，但是大多数的人还是比较喜欢款式独特的结婚戒指品牌，大众款式的结婚戒指给人的感觉比较普通，没有代表性，而款式独特的结婚戒指，更有心意，而且有些品牌的结婚戒指的款式还可以定制，设计风格可以加入自己独特的创意，让爱情的表达更有唯一性。

38. Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to choosing wedding rings, but most people tend to prefer unique designs from wedding ring brands. Mass-produced wedding rings tend to give off a more common feeling, lacking in representation, while unique designs convey more sentimentality. Moreover, some brands even offer customizable wedding ring styles, allowing for the incorporation of one's own unique creativity, thus making the expression of love more unique and exclusive.

39. 人要多多少少的会学会隐藏，不要过于直接的把情绪摆在脸上。那些聪明的人都是把情绪埋藏在心里。普通的人说自己想说的，聪明的人说别人想听的。直直的路风太大，易使人着凉；直直的心嘴太快，易把人击伤，所以人不能说心地善良，有一颗好心就一定能如何，还要嘴上有德，想人所想，说人想听，做人所需。

39. To some extent, people will learn to hide their emotions; don't express your feelings too directly on your face. The clever ones are those who keep their emotions buried in their hearts.Ordinary people say what they want to say, while the clever ones say what others want to hear. A straight path is windy and prone to make people catch a cold; a straight mind and tongue are too quick and easily wound others. Therefore, one cannot say that having a kind heart guarantees that they will definitely do something; one must also have moral words, think of others' thoughts, say what others want to hear, and act in accordance with what is needed by others.

40. 不要乱抛自己的心，心要给知己，愿意听你，愿意懂你的人。沙漠里最难找的是泉水，人世间最难找的是知己。你要知道，物以稀为贵，若遍地都是金砖，金砖就是土坯，若到处都是知己，人就不会高喊理解万岁，女人也不会说要找一个懂她的人了。悄悄的亲热话只能说给恋人，交心的肝肠话只能说给知己。如果你把知心的话倾诉给一般的人，随随便便的就给人倾诉，那么往往就会被偷心，最终的结果是使自己更加伤心。

40. Do not throw your heart around recklessly; your heart should be given to someone who is willing to listen to you and understand you. The most difficult thing to find in the desert is spring water, and in the world, the most difficult thing to find is a true friend. You should know that things are valued for their rarity; if gold bricks were everywhere, they would be as common as bricks, and if everyone were a friend, people wouldn't be shouting for understanding to be revered, and women wouldn't say they want to find someone who understands them. Affectionate words whispered softly can only be shared with lovers, and heartfelt conversations can only be told to true friends. If you pour your confidences to just anyone, casually sharing them with others, you are likely to have your heart stolen, and the ultimate result will be even more heartache for yourself.

41. 善于理解这个世界的一切。理解就是懂得，就是明白，就是尊重，就是关心，就是支持，就是内心的接纳，就是把别人当作自己。知己知彼方能百战百胜，想人想己方能做事易成。要知道，这个世界是多样的，自己的观念并不就是唯一的，自己所喜欢的并不是别人就一定会喜欢，自己所讨厌的也不一定别人就一定讨厌，自己所爱的也不一定就是好，自己所恨的也不一定就坏。理解自己的朋友，可以增进双方的友谊，理解自己讨厌的人，可以让自己免除烦恼和愤怒，理解这个世界，可以让自己更加的适应和融入。

41. Skilled in understanding everything about this world. Understanding means knowing, being aware, respecting, caring, supporting, accepting inwardly, and treating others as oneself. Knowing oneself and others is the key to winning a hundred battles; thinking about both others and oneself makes things easier to accomplish. Remember, this world is diverse, and one's own views are not necessarily the only ones. What one likes is not necessarily what others will like, and what one dislikes is not necessarily what others will dislike. What one loves is not necessarily good, and what one hates is not necessarily bad. Understanding one's friends can enhance both parties' friendship; understanding one's disliked people can free oneself from烦恼 and anger; understanding this world can make one better adapt and integrate into it.

42. 祝学习进步，生活愉快。 2020612

42. Wishing you continued progress in your studies and a happy life. 2020612

43. 要有敬畏之心。对待别人如此，让别人对待自己也是如此。天黑使人畏惧，人威使人敬畏。人只有神秘，才能莫测。如果一股脑的把一切都掏给了别人，留给自己的只有空虚，做人就像打牌，如果自己的牌直接明牌了，打赢的机率必然会少了不少。物不重人不抬，人不重人不举，如果做人没有份量，就不会获得别人的支持。

43. Have a heart of reverence. Treat others with such reverence, and let others treat you the same way. The darkness makes people afraid, and people's authority inspires awe. One can only be inscrutable through mystery. If you pour out everything to others all at once, all that's left for yourself is emptiness. Living one's life is like playing cards; if your cards are shown directly, the chances of winning will necessarily be reduced. Things are not heavy unless people lift them, and people will not raise someone unless they value them. If a person does not have substance, they will not receive support from others.

44. 也照着别人

44. Also imitating others

45. 你不会变

45. You will not change.

46. 你不是他的偏爱

46. You are not his favorite.

47. 将我推回到雨中

47. Push me back into the rain