1. 知道自己能够做些什么，说明你在不断地成长；知道自己不能够做些什么，说明你在不断地成熟。

1. Knowing what you can do indicates that you are constantly growing; knowing what you cannot do indicates that you are constantly maturing.

2. 不要因为孤独而选择爱情，其实你一个人也能拥有很多美好。

2. Do not choose love because of loneliness; in fact, you can also enjoy many beautiful things on your own.

3. 人生的高度，不是你看清了多少事，而是你看轻了多少事。心灵的宽度，不是你认识了多少人，而是你包容了多少人。

3. The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you see lightly. The width of the soul is not how many people you know, but how many people you embrace.

4. 我从不知道顺其自然有多自然，也不知道是否都可以自然了。但我知道现实有多现实，现实让人看清身边人和事。现实让你顺不了，也自然不来了。

4. I had never known how natural it is to go with the flow, nor did I know if everything could be as natural as that. But I know how real reality is, and how it makes one see the people and things around them. Reality doesn't allow you to go with the flow, and naturalness doesn't come easily either.

5. 人没钱不如鬼，汤没盐不如水，你会慢慢发现，一颗好心，永远比不上一张好嘴！

5. It's better to be a ghost than have no money, and it's better to have water than no salt in the soup. You will gradually find out that a kind heart is never as good as a good tongue!

6. 是岁月改变了每一个人，大家都不再哪么单纯；是生活磨灭了亲情，每一个人都不在热心；这就是现实的社会，才让每一个人都看透了人生，看淡了一切。

6. It is the passage of time that has changed everyone, and we are no longer as innocent; life has worn away the warmth of family ties, and everyone is no longer so enthusiastic; this is the reality of society, which makes everyone see through life and become indifferent to everything.

7. 你失去的，其实微不足道。还有那么多人关心着你，以不同的方式。所以，你并不孤独。正是这样的失去，让你看清现在所拥有的幸福。

7. What you have lost is actually trivial. There are so many people who care about you in different ways. So, you are not alone. It is precisely such losses that allow you to see the happiness you currently possess.

8. 有时候挺讨厌自己的，不会说话，太过善良，没什么心眼，还这么可爱。

8. Sometimes, I really dislike myself. I'm not good at talking, I'm too kind, have no ulterior motives, and yet I'm so adorable.

9. 人活着，其实挺累！残酷的社会，现实的人类，看不透的虚伪，打拼不易，说不出的心累！有过倒头就睡，有过欲哭无泪，有过借酒买醉，有过身心疲惫！

9. Living as a human being is actually quite tiring! The cruel society, the realistic nature of humans, the unseeable hypocrisy, the difficulty of struggling, and the unexpressed heartache! There have been times when I've wanted to sleep soundly without a care, times when I've wanted to cry but had no tears, times when I've drunk myself into a haze, and times when my body and soul were exhausted!

10. 除了你自己，没有人会明白你的故事里有过多少快乐或伤悲，因为那终究只是你一个人的感觉。

10. No one but yourself will understand how much joy or sorrow is in your story, because that ultimately is just your own feeling.

11. 我不怕别人在背后捅我一刀，我怕回头后看到背后捅我的人，是我用心对待的人；我不怕把心里话告诉最好的朋友，我怕回过头他把它当成笑话告诉别人。

11. I'm not afraid of someone stabbing me in the back, but I'm afraid to turn around and see that the person who stabbed me is someone I've treated with all my heart; I'm not afraid to share my deepest thoughts with my best friend, but I'm afraid that when I turn around, he'll treat it as a joke and tell it to others.

12. 非让现实给你一巴掌，你才知道社会有多虚伪；非让所谓的朋友把你伤的什么都不是，你才知道人心可畏。

12. It's not until reality slaps you in the face that you realize how hypocritical society is; it's not until so-called friends wound you to the point of nothingness that you understand how terrifying the human heart can be.

13. 青春是终将腐朽的，时间对谁都公平，谁都只有这几年新鲜，谁都输不起。

13. Youth is bound to decay, time is fair to everyone, everyone only has these few years of freshness, and everyone cannot afford to lose.

14. 没有任何事，任何人需要你过了半夜12点还苦想不睡，任何东西都不能以健康做交换，记住，你只能活一辈子。

14. There is nothing or anyone who needs you to be overthinking and unable to sleep past midnight. Nothing is worth trading for your health. Remember, you only live once.

15. 大多数事情，不是你想明白后才觉得无所谓，而是你无所谓之后才突然想明白。

15. Most things are not something you feel indifferent about after you figure them out, but rather something you suddenly figure out after you've become indifferent about them.

16. 说实话，在现实生活中我们都没办法保证可以看透一个人，更何况在网络上。

16. To be honest, in real life, we can't guarantee that we can see through a person, let alone online.

17. 希望我能有一句话能温暖你的心，愿我能陪你每个春夏秋冬。就算终须一别，也请不要辜负你我相遇。

17. I hope there's a word that can warm your heart, and I wish I could accompany you through every season - spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Even if we must eventually part ways, please don't let our meeting be in vain.

18. 钱，真的是个好东西，能探出人性，看透人心。不管是亲情，友情，还是爱情，因为钱，我们能认清身边很多的人。

18. Money, indeed, is a good thing; it can expose human nature and penetrate the hearts of others. Whether it's family ties, friendships, or love, because of money, we can recognize many people around us.

19. 总有一些事情，让你不经意中，就看清了一个人，看透了一颗心。别太高估自己在别人心里的位置。

19. There are always things that, without your realizing it, reveal a person to you and pierce through a heart. Don't overestimate your place in others' hearts.

20. 时间是个好东西，从来不说一句话，却回答了所有问题。

20. Time is a good thing; it never says a word but answers all questions.

21. 因为你太懂事，所以总是受委屈，别把过去抱的太紧，你应该去浪，浪的没牵没挂。

21. Because you are too responsible, you always suffer injustices. Don't hold onto the past too tightly; you should go and have a good time, carefree and without attachments.

22. 失恋了一次，好像突然明白了所有情歌的含义。

22. After experiencing a broken heart, it seems like I suddenly understood the meanings of all love songs.

23. 我不喜欢想过去，因为我觉得怀旧的人，大多是现实中过的不快乐的人。

23. I don't like to think about the past because I feel that most nostalgic people are unhappy in reality.

24. 一辈子，健康着、享受着、珍惜着、开心着，这辈子才没白活！

24. Throughout one's life, staying healthy, enjoying oneself, cherishing every moment, and being happy – that's what makes this life worthwhile!

25. 钱不能衡量一切，但钱会让你看清一切，这就是现实的社会和人生。

25. Money cannot measure everything, but money will reveal everything, and this is the reality of society and life.

26. 没有人可以永远无条件的陪伴着你，要知道，下雨天的时候，连影子都会缺席。

26. No one can accompany you unconditionally forever. Remember, even on rainy days, your shadow may be absent.

27. 当一些努力了很久的事，到头来却并没有得到应该得到的，是不是就会觉得自己很失败，但那就对了，因为你正在看清现实。

27. When you have worked hard on something for a long time but ultimately don't receive what you should have, do you feel like a failure? But that's exactly right, because you are seeing the reality.

28. 一个人吃自助，去拿吃的还要担心桌子被收了，这是孤独。

28. It is loneliness to dine at a buffet, worried about someone taking away the table while you are fetching food.

29. 不要去羡慕别人的表面风光，其实每个人都有自己内心的苦。

29. Don't envy the surface glamour of others, for everyone has their own inner hardships.

30. 低头不是认输，是要看清自己的路，仰头也不是骄傲，是想看看自己的天空。但你一定要知道，世界上有条很长的路叫做梦想，还有堵很高的墙叫做现实。

30. Bowing the head is not about admitting defeat, but about seeing one's own path. Looking up is not about pride, but about looking at one's own sky. But you must know that there is a very long road in the world called dreams, and there is a very high wall called reality.

31. 生活很现实，当你啥都不是时，只能低着头，让别人说了算。而等你强大到一定的程度，你才有机会说了算。

31. Life is realistic. When you are nothing, you can only bow your head and let others decide. But only when you become strong enough, will you have the chance to make decisions.

32. 当你学会拒绝别人，学会以牙还牙时，他们反而会尊重你，甚至敬畏你。经历越多你越相信那句话：无情一点并没有错。

32. When you learn to say no to others and to retaliate, they will instead respect you, and even fear you. The more experiences you have, the more you believe in that saying: being a bit ruthless is not wrong.

33. 雨后的城市寂寞又狼狈，路边的座位空着在等谁。

33. The city is lonely and disheveled after the rain, with the seats by the roadside empty, waiting for someone.

34. 谈个恋爱就想过一辈子，交个朋友就想来往一生，难怪你的怨气那么重悲伤那么多，这都是天真的代价。

34. Falling in love and thinking of spending a lifetime, making a friend and wanting to keep in touch for a lifetime. No wonder you are so full of grievances and so much sadness; all this is the cost of innocence.

35. 不再为情所困可以随遇而安，愿意为新的人生而努力。终于认清现实懂得了自己的需要。只是时间太漫长。

35. Free from the entanglements of emotion, one can be content with whatever comes along and is willing to strive for a new life. Finally, having recognized reality, one understands one's own needs. Only that the time is too long.

36. 我们战战兢兢的说话，是因为好多真话没人爱听，而失言就是一不小心说了实话。

36. We speak with trepidation because many truths are not welcome, and a slip of the tongue is simply an unintended revelation of the truth.

37. 吃不腻的都带腥，忘不掉的都来劲。得不到的总是挂念，共朝夕的总是厌倦。

37. Foods that can't be eaten enough all have a fishy taste, and things that can't be forgotten are always exciting. Things that can't be obtained are always on one's mind, and those shared day and night are always tedious.

38. 女人用友情来拒绝爱情，男人用友情来换取爱情。

38. Women use friendship to reject love, while men use friendship to gain love.

39. 在现实的世界里，总有一些近乎荒谬的事情发生，当一个人以为可以还清悔疚，无愧地生活的时候，偏偏已到了结局，如此不堪的不只是爱情，而是人生。

39. In the real world, there are always some nearly absurd things happening. When a person thinks they can settle their regrets and live without any guilt, they just happen to be at the end. It's not just love that is so unbearable, but life itself.

40. 我们都隔着朋友圈相互羡慕，其实没有谁活的很容易。

40. We all envy each other through our social media circles, but in reality, no one is living an easy life.

41. 不合适就是穷，没感觉就是丑，一见钟情就是好看，深思熟虑就是有钱，这就是现实。

41. Unsuitability equals poverty, lack of feeling equals ugliness, instant love at first sight equals beauty, careful consideration equals wealth. This is the reality.

42. 世事浮沉，变幻莫测，纵有年轻时的百般慷慨，百般激昂，现实总会叫你磨平棱角，然后负重前行。

42. The world is ever-changing and unpredictable. Even with all the generosity and passion in one's youth, reality will always wear down your sharp edges, and then you will carry your burdens forward.

43. 往前走吧，只有往前走，我们才能看清梦想，才能缩短梦想与现实的距离。

43. Keep moving forward, for only by moving forward can we see our dreams clearly and bridge the gap between dreams and reality.

44. 日久见人心，患难见真情，只有在落难时才能认清谁是真正的朋友。一生交往靠人品，时光教会你看清每一张脸。

44. Time reveals the heart, adversity reveals true feelings; only in times of trouble can one truly discern who is a true friend. A lifetime of relationships depends on character, and time teaches you to see through every face.

45. 喜欢一个人，就算他根本不做任何事，只要他出现在你眼前，就已取悦你千百回。

45. To like someone, even if they don't do anything at all, just their presence in front of you can please you a thousand times over.

46. 很多事情过去了，心境却不被遗忘，这大概就是回忆的价值。

46. Many things have passed, but the mood is not forgotten, which is perhaps the value of memories.

47. 看这万家灯火，却没一盏为我。人啊，只有走到绝路，才能看清现实。

47. Look at the myriad of lights, yet not one is for me. Humans can only see the reality when they have reached a dead end.

48. 忙碌的时候感觉特别好，觉得没辜负早上化的妆，中午吃的两碗饭，晚上牺牲的睡眠。

48. There's a great feeling when busy, thinking that I haven't wasted the makeup applied in the morning, the two bowls of rice eaten at noon, or the sleep sacrificed at night.

49. 人生就八个字，喜怒哀乐忧愁烦恼，八个字里头喜和乐只占两个，看透就好了。

49. Life consists of eight characters: joy, anger, sadness, joy, worry, and烦恼. In these eight characters, joy and happiness only occupy two, once you see through it, it's all clear.

50. 十几岁的年纪哪有什么故事，无非就是醉过几场酒，爱过一个人。

50. At the age of a teenager, what stories can there be? It's just about having had a few drinks and loved one person.

51. 人还是要有比自己好，比自己层次高的朋友，她们能让我看清这个社会的现实，否则真的是太蠢了。

51. People should still have friends who are better and higher in status than themselves. They can help me see the reality of this society; otherwise, it would truly be too foolish.

52. 今天再大的事，到了明天就是小事；今年再大的事，到了明年就是故事，时常有个好心态，凡事要顺其自然。

52. Whatever is a big deal today will be a small matter tomorrow; whatever is a big deal this year will be a story next year. Always maintain a good mindset and let things take their natural course.

53. 社会太现实，人心太冷漠。你风光时，有无数人绕你周围，但真心为你高兴的没有几个，你落魄时，伴你左右的屈指可数，背后看热闹的却不计其数。

53. Society is too realistic and people's hearts are too cold. When you are in the spotlight, countless people surround you, but few truly celebrate with you. When you are down on your luck, the number of people by your side is few and far between, while those who watch the spectacle from behind are numerous.

54. 想要活得开心，就不要与傻瓜论长短，不跟傻逼讲道理，不和三观不同的人争论是非。

54. To live happily, don't argue with idiots, don't try to reason with morons, and don't debate right and wrong with people who have different worldviews.

55. 人在落魄的时候，不要去打扰任何人，因为你会看到一个真实的社会和一群现实的人。

55. When a person is in a low state, do not disturb anyone, because you will see a true society and a group of realistic people.

56. 不要活在别人的嘴里，不要活在别人的眼里，而是把命运握在自己手里。

56. Don't live in the mouth of others, don't live in the eyes of others, but hold your destiny in your own hands.

57. 时间能让人看透人心，看清自私，看清一切原本就错误的决定。

57. Time can reveal people's hearts, expose selfishness, and make clear all decisions that were originally wrong.

58. 所有的胜利与征服自己比起来，都是微不足道的。

58. All victories and conquests pale in comparison to victory over oneself.

59. 不要再为别人眼光伤自己的心，从今天起认清现实为自己而活，开心过每一天才是最最最重要的，要用努力和汗水撑起野心跟梦想。

59. Don't let others' opinions hurt your heart anymore. From today, face reality and live for yourself. Being happy every day is the most, most important. Use hard work and sweat to support your ambition and dreams.

60. 人总是要错过了才懂得认清现实。人总是要错过了才说出后悔的话。

60. People only come to understand the reality after they have missed it. They only express regret after they have missed it.

61. 其实没有任何一句话，能够让你大彻大悟，醍醐灌顶。真正让你如梦初醒，看透人性的，只能是一段刻，骨铭心的经历。

61. In fact, there is no single sentence that can bring you to a moment of sudden enlightenment and revelation. What truly wakes you up from a dream and allows you to see through human nature is only an unforgettable, deeply engraved experience.

62. 现实的社会，让人身心疲惫，复杂的人心，让人小心谨慎，猜不透的心思，看不穿的笑容，稍不留意，就会遍体鳞伤。

62. In the real world, it can be exhausting for both the body and the mind. The complexity of human hearts requires one to be cautious, and the unreadable thoughts and unpenetrable smiles can leave you wounded if you are not careful.

63. 你会发现，你有钱的时候，身边的人都喜欢你，都会奉承你，你没钱的时候，甚至连一句话都不想搭理你。现实总是那么让人心寒。

63. You will find that when you have money, everyone around you likes you and flatters you; but when you're broke, even a single word from you is unwelcome. Reality is always so chilling.

64. 什么都经不住时间的摧残，不管是容貌或身材，还是感情。大概这就是成长，看清了现实的残酷，和人心的冷漠，然后接受。

64. Nothing can withstand the ravages of time, whether it be appearance or figure, or even emotions. Perhaps this is growth – seeing the harshness of reality and the coldness of human hearts, and then accepting it.

65. 只有年轻人还在为爱哭泣，而我们成年人只会穷落泪。

65. Only the young people are crying for love, while we adults are only poor and weeping.