探寻最准确的心态：无畏无惧，坦然面对

Seek the most accurate mindset: fearless and unafraid, facing it calmly.

1. 踏出去的脚下总会有路，但能走向怎样的路，那只是你选择的结果。平淡的生活需要更多的刺激，从来没有什么是一成不变，如果不居安思危，下一步你很可能就会被淘汰。有压力才会有动力，青岛之行告诉我，如果再懒下去，偌大的中国，下一步我将找不到落脚之地。

1. There will always be a path beneath your feet when you step forward, but the kind of path you will take is only the result of your choice. A mundane life requires more excitement. Nothing is ever constant. If you don't think about potential dangers in times of peace, you might be eliminated in the next step. Pressure brings motivation. The trip to Qingdao taught me that if I continue to be lazy, in such a vast country as China, I might not find a place to settle in the next step.

2. 王小波：“我来这个世界，不是为了繁衍后代。而是来看花怎么开，水怎么流。太阳怎么升起，夕阳何时落下。

2. Wang Xiaobo: "I came into this world not to reproduce. It is to see how the flowers bloom, how the water flows. How the sun rises, and when the sunset falls."

3. 有人说：越自律越自由。以前不明白，现在总感慨知道得太晚。如果放纵自己的身体，那到头来早晚会是医院的常客，这是我的亲身体验。因为孤独无趣，所以很少再去跑操场跑步；因为不喜清淡，所以顿顿重口味；因为网络世界太魔幻，所以几乎每晚都在熬夜……因为因为因为，有这么多的因为，所以我几近于搞垮了自己的身体，上火、湿气重、体质差、牙疼……我就仿佛一个失修已久的机器，里里外外全都是瑕疵，一顿整修下来花钱又受罪！若早知如此，我又何必当初？

3. Some say: The more self-disciplined, the more free. I didn't understand it before, and now I always feel regretful for knowing it too late. If I indulged my body, I would end up being a frequent visitor to the hospital sooner or later, which is my personal experience. Because of loneliness and boredom, I rarely go to the running track to run; because I dislike light flavors, I eat heavily flavored food every meal; because the online world is too magical, I almost stay up late every night... Because of so many reasons, I almost wore out my body, with symptoms like heat, dampness, poor constitution, and toothache... I feel like a machine that has been out of order for a long time, with flaws inside and out. After a thorough repair, I spent a lot of money and endured a lot of pain! If I had known this in advance, why did I have to do it in the first place?

4. 我出身草根，有时候需要做很多很多的努力才能到达别人的起点。环顾左右，我既骄傲着也自卑着，回顾过去，我既感慨着也后悔着。不管过去和现在怎么样，我都已经无法改变，重要的是带着对自己、对环境的清醒的认知，更好地活在当下，闯出一条光明的前路。

4. I come from a grassroots background, and sometimes I have to put in a lot of effort just to reach the starting point of others. Looking around, I am both proud and self-deprecating. Looking back, I feel a mix of nostalgia and regret. No matter how things were in the past or are now, I can no longer change them. What matters is to have a clear awareness of myself and my environment, to live better in the present, and to forge a bright path ahead.

5. 别人笑我太疯癫，我笑他人看不穿。不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。

5. People laugh at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at them for not seeing through my act. I don't see the tombs of heroic figures from the Wuling region, only fields tilled with no flowers and no wine.

6. 把人生的一切当成是对自己的考验，一切只为了历练自己，就会心甘情愿承受这一切，再苦再难，也会迎风而上，不放弃，就会迎来转机。

6. Treat everything in life as a test of oneself, and everything is only for the sake of self-improvement. With this mindset, one would be willing to endure everything, be it hardships or difficulties, and would brave the winds and never give up. Persistence would bring about a turning point.

7. 周围同学都说我思想过于深刻。想的多，做的就少了，但行动和思考又是相辅相成的，个中平衡只靠自己来把握。有时我在想，我是否刻意追求活得通透，活得明白呢？真相并不总是美丽的，难得糊涂一些又有什么不好。

7. My classmates all say that my thoughts are too profound. I think too much and do less, but action and thought complement each other, and the balance is something I have to grasp on my own. Sometimes I wonder, am I deliberately pursuing a life that is transparent and clear? The truth is not always beautiful, and what's wrong with being a bit confused sometimes?

8. 上船不思岸上人，下船不提船上事，让往事随风飘散，不要成为自己的负担，也不要为未来感到焦虑，生活本就是一个见招拆招的过程。不喜欢的人就把他请出自己的生活，不喜欢的事就主动屏蔽，最重要的是保持一份好心情，无忧无虑，笑傲江湖。

8. When boarding a ship, do not think of the people on land; when disembarking, do not mention the matters on the ship. Let the past events drift away with the wind, do not let them become a burden on yourself, nor worry about the future. Life is essentially a process of dealing with things as they come. If there are people you dislike, ask them to leave your life; if there are things you dislike, actively block them out. The most important thing is to maintain a good mood, carefree, and be a hero of the martial world.

9. 要明白天无绝人之路，绝望的时候不放弃，转角就会遇见新的生机，生命就是如此的神奇，只要你有勇气去面对，定会给你满意的答案，而你的人生充满了精彩。

9. Understand that there is always a way for man, do not give up in moments of despair, for at the corner, you will encounter new vitality. Life is just that神奇, as long as you have the courage to face it, it will definitely give you a satisfactory answer, and your life is filled with wonders.

10. 当你努力过，坚持过，才能够体会山重水复疑无路，柳暗花明又一村的喜悦和惊奇，凭借着自己的努力，通过人生一关又一关的考验，才能够品尝到香甜的果实，才懂得珍惜。

10. Only after you have strived and persevered can you truly appreciate the joy and surprise of 'mountains and rivers seem endless, and then a village appears in the distance.' By relying on your own efforts and passing through one challenge after another in life, you can then taste the sweet fruits and learn to cherish them.

11. 说起户外活动，两年多以来参加的不算多，但相较于身边的同学来说也着实不少，不得不说这些在大多数人眼里花钱受罪又毫无意义的活动，确确实实带给了我很多很多。我尤为感谢第九届环泰山T60大徒步，我感谢那个一步一步走完全程的自己，它使以后的我无论是面对挫折、困难还是沮丧，都从天而降般赋予我足够的力量去迎面而上。如果那时的我提前得知脚踝会因此损伤半年之久，要顶住太多太多人的不屑与不解，我是否还会依旧义无反顾？未必。不过抛开这些负面影响不谈，T60带给我的成长是更加妙不可言的，固然旁人无法理解，我需要做的便是将这份小确幸暗暗铭记于心。

11. When it comes to outdoor activities, I haven't participated in many over the past two and a half years, but compared to my classmates, it's actually quite a lot. It must be said that these activities, which are considered by most people to be a waste of money and suffering without any meaning, have indeed brought me a lot. I am especially grateful for the 9th Ring Tai Mountain T60 Great Hike. I thank the version of myself who walked the entire course step by step, as it has given me enough strength to face setbacks, difficulties, or despondency in the future, as if it were bestowed upon me from heaven. If I had known in advance that my ankle would be injured for half a year as a result, and had to withstand the disdain and misunderstanding of so many people, would I still have gone ahead without hesitation? Perhaps not. However, setting aside these negative impacts, the growth that T60 has brought me is even more wonderful and indescribable. Although others may not understand, what I need to do is to silently cherish this small happiness in my heart.

12. 人生就是这样起起落落，坦然接受这种变化，处在高处的时候，不骄傲自满，处在低处的时候，不卑不亢，砥砺前行。

12. Life is like this, with ups and downs. Embrace these changes calmly. When in a high position, do not be proud and complacent; when in a low position, do not be subservient or haughty. March forward with perseverance.

13. 大学生活进入第三年，周围的同学都即将安心进入备考状态，我也不例外，但另一方面，本应安定下来的心却跳动得比以往更加猛烈了些，我时刻想逃脱现在，追寻刺激与挑战。我竟不知这样的想法在大三准备考研这个阶段来说是否合理。

13. As I enter my third year of college life, the students around me are all about to settle down and focus on preparing for their exams, and I am no exception. However, on the other hand, the heart that should be settled feels even more vigorous than before, and I am constantly thinking of escaping the present and seeking excitement and challenges. I am actually unsure whether such thoughts are reasonable at this stage of preparing for postgraduate entrance exams during the third year of college.

14. 我去过的地方不多，却始终保有一份对未知的向往，陌生的城市，不认识的人，新鲜的事物，听着别人的故事，一点一滴都足够有吸引力并震撼人心。凭着积极的思想和对梦想的追求，除了家乡和学校所在地，我去过了青岛，去过了北京，未来，我真的真的还想去更多的地方，体验更多好玩的事物，见到更多有趣的灵魂。

14. I haven't been to many places, but I have always maintained a yearning for the unknown: unfamiliar cities, unknown people, new things, listening to others' stories, each and every one of which is enough to be attractive and震撼人心. Driven by positive thinking and the pursuit of dreams, apart from my hometown and the place where I went to school, I have been to Qingdao and Beijing. In the future, I really, really want to go to even more places, experience more fun things, and meet more interesting souls.

15. 放弃和开口抱怨是一件很容易的事情，可是艰难的时候，闭嘴努力才更让人钦佩，无论在何时，都不要放弃希望，要相信自己会到达幸福的彼岸，并且坚持付诸于行动，一切皆会迎刃而解。

15. It is easy to give up and complain, but it is more admirable to keep silent and strive during difficult times. At any time, do not give up hope and believe in your ability to reach the shore of happiness. And persist in taking action; everything will be resolved smoothly.

16. 光明敞亮的未来谁不想要？可如若没有一副健康的体魄和健全的人格，你又拿什么去奋斗打拼呢。曾几何时，我正被一堆琐事消耗得几乎要倒下，浑身看不到一丝朝气与活力，基本的认知与理智也偶有丢失，现在想起来只会觉得，那时的自己真可笑啊，不过我也仍然暗暗佩服那个在黑暗中努力寻找出口与光亮的我。我知道我从来都不是一个正常的孩子，但并不代表我心理有缺陷或者是通俗的“有病”，只是各方面比较薄弱吧，因此有时我会刻意要求自己活得通透一些，坦然一些，尽量把事情看明白，把问题想清楚，不要老是放不过自己。

16. Who wouldn't want a bright and open future? But without a healthy body and a sound personality, what do you have to struggle and fight for? At one time, I was almost brought to my knees by a multitude of trivial matters, devoid of any vitality or vigor, and I occasionally lost my basic cognition and reason. Looking back now, I can only think that I was truly可笑 back then. However, I still secretly admire that person who was struggling in the darkness, searching for an exit and a ray of light. I know I have never been an ordinary child, but that doesn't mean I have psychological defects or the common "sick" label. It's just that I am somewhat weak in all aspects. Therefore, sometimes I刻意 require myself to live more transparently and calmly, to try and understand things more clearly, to think through problems, and not to be overly harsh on myself.

17. 生命总是充满着残缺和遗憾，如果我们总是盯着这些遗憾，每一天都苦不堪言。人生不如意事十常八九，接受所有的意难平和心不甘，允许一切发生，相信一切都是最好的安排。

17. Life is always filled with defects and regrets. If we always focus on these regrets, every day will be unbearably bitter. Life is full of things not going as planned, nine out of ten times. Accept all misfortunes and discontents, allow everything to happen, and believe that everything is the best arrangement.

18. 现在是寒假，各方面的原因使得我没有像以往一样外出打工或实习，在家的这段时间总是各种懒惰，我既享受毫无压力的舒适，又怀念出门在外的那份果敢，是有点矛盾的吧。过去的三个假期我都很少回家，原来不知不觉中我竟已奔波了这么久？！你问我有收获吗？不敢说赚得盆满盈钵，也收获了几份坦然与从容；你问我有遗憾吗？只恨自己起点太晚，对见识与格局的重视来得太慢。打算的是这个寒假在家养好身体与认真学习，不曾想一波未平一波又起，湿气尚未排净，牙疼随后而来，赖床何时不再？

18. It's winter vacation now, and for various reasons, I haven't gone out to work or intern as I did in the past. This time at home, I've been feeling lazy all the time. I enjoy the comfort of having no pressure, yet I miss the boldness of being out and about. Isn't that a bit contradictory? In the past three holidays, I haven't gone home much, and now I realize that I've been running around for so long without even noticing it! When you ask me if I've gained anything, I dare not say I've made a fortune, but I have gained some calmness and composure. When you ask me if I have any regrets, I only regret that I started too late and that I didn't place enough emphasis on gaining knowledge and broadening my horizons. I had planned to take this winter vacation to rest and study hard at home, but unexpectedly, one problem after another has arisen. The dampness has not yet been expelled, and toothache has followed suit. When will I stop staying in bed?

19. 事实上没有人的一生是一帆风顺的，遭遇挫折和低谷，是人生的必经之路，只是你看到的永远都是他人光鲜的一面罢了。

19. In fact, no one's life is smooth sailing. Facing setbacks and troughs is an inevitable part of life, but what you always see is only the bright side of others.

20. 别人都笑话我太癫狂，我却笑别人看不明白。看不见往昔五陵那些豪杰的坟墓，没有花也没有酒，却都已被锄头开垦成了农田。

20. Everyone laughs at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at others for not understanding. I can't see the graves of those heroes from the Wulin of the past, without flowers nor wine, yet all have been turned into farmland by the plow.

21. 未来，我想要跑马拉松，再多参加几次徒步等户外活动，因为我发现，在这类不被大多数人理解的活动里，我好像真的活出了自我。这大概就是适合自己的一种活法吧。

21. In the future, I want to run a marathon and participate in more outdoor activities like hiking, because I've found that in these activities that are not understood by most people, I truly live out myself. This might be the way of life that suits me.

22. 别人要离开你，就由他去。命运想刁难你，也不在乎。不管是命运的狂风暴雨，或者别人的冷言冷语，都不要当回事，心无所谓，他们也就无所为了。

22. If someone wants to leave you, let them go. If fate wants to trouble you, it doesn't matter. Whether it's the stormy rain of fate or the cold words of others, don't take them to heart. With a indifferent heart, they will have nothing to do.

23. 做一个生命的强者吧，当遭遇挫折的时候，不妨咬紧牙关，努力坚持一把，说不定就会出现转机，而你的人生走向也会就此改变。

23. Be a strong person in life. When faced with setbacks, don't be afraid to bite the bullet and strive to persevere. Maybe a turning point will emerge, and your life path may change as a result.

24. 人生就是一场未知的旅行，我们不知道前方是什么样的风景，我们只能一路前行，这一路上有惊喜，有挫折，喜忧参半，构成了我们人生的主旋律。

24. Life is a journey of the unknown, and we do not know what kind of scenery lies ahead. We can only move forward along the way, where there are surprises and setbacks, a mix of joy and sorrow, which constitutes the main theme of our lives.

25. 最怕的就是你自己不相信自己，被眼前的困难击垮了，认为自己的人生就这样了，向挫折投降，那你的人生往后会更加的艰难。

25. The worst thing is to not believe in yourself, to be defeated by the difficulties in front of you, to think that your life is over like this, to surrender to setbacks. If so, your life will become even more difficult in the future.

26. 年少的时候，无知无畏，就算是头破血流，也会坚持自己认为对的事情，可是随着年龄的增长，我们仿佛更加的懦弱，因为害怕受伤，害怕失去，我们选择了逃避，把头埋进沙子里，假装一切都是风平浪静。

26. In our youth, we were naive and fearless, and even if we bled from head to toe, we would persist in what we believed to be right. However, as we grow older, it seems we become more cowardly, for fear of getting hurt or losing something, we choose to evade, bury our heads in the sand, and pretend that everything is calm and peaceful.

27. 你要相信一帆风顺的人生，是没有任何滋味的，经历过风和雨，才会懂得珍惜，才会越挫越勇，练就强大的内心，而雨后的彩虹，才是最绚烂的。

27. You must believe that a life that goes smoothly has no taste to it. Only after experiencing winds and rains can you learn to cherish, only then can you become braver after every setback, cultivate a strong inner self, and the rainbow after the rain is the most resplendent.

28. 人生就是一场不断闯关的过程，关关难过关关过，当你处在低谷期的时候，不要忘记希望，不要忘记使命，勇敢一步一步往上爬，就是超越了自我，就是在走上坡路。

28. Life is a continuous process of overcoming challenges, where each难关 is difficult but once passed. When you are in a low period, do not forget hope, do not forget your mission, and bravely climb step by step upwards. That is to transcend yourself, and that is to be on the way to ascending.

29. 要知道福兮祸所伏，祸兮福所倚，世上没有绝对的事情，任何的事情都有两面性，当你处于低谷的时候，其实已经没什么更糟糕的事情了，所以你所走的每一步都是向上爬，黑暗已经来临了，光明还会远吗。

29. You should know that blessings often hide misfortunes, and misfortunes often accompany blessings. There are no absolute things in the world, and everything has two sides. When you are at your lowest point, actually, there is nothing worse that can happen. So every step you take is an upward climb. If darkness has come, how can brightness be far behind?

30. 生活本来就是有高有低，起起伏伏的，这是人生的常态，所以当处于低谷期，不要左顾右盼，也不要暗自神伤，能够拯救你的只有你自己，只有你自己才能够将自己从低谷中拉出来。

30. Life itself is up and down, with ups and downs, which is the norm of life. Therefore, when you are in a low period, do not look around in all directions or sorrow in secret. The only one who can save you is yourself, and only you can pull yourself out of the low point.

31. 每个人的结局都是死亡，死亡意味着一切的终结，我们拥有的一切，纠结的一切，在乎的一切，最后，统统不存在。既然如此，不如按照自己喜欢的方式体验生活，感受生命，尽情一游吧。

31. Everyone's end is death, and death signifies the end of everything. The things we possess, the things we struggle with, the things we care about—all eventually cease to exist. So why not live life in the way that we like, feel the essence of life, and enjoy the journey to the fullest?

32. 消极悲观，对于改变现状毫无意义，只有坦然接纳，做自己该做的事情，一点一滴从低谷爬起来，你才会感受到生命的张力，活得更加的有底气，要相信一切都是最好的安排，战胜了生命的考验，才能够迎来大海上的春天，感受到那里的鲜花和掌声。

32. Negative pessimism has no meaning in changing the current situation. Only by calmly accepting it and doing what you should do, bit by bit climbing out of the low point, will you feel the tension of life and live with more confidence. Believe that everything is the best arrangement, and only after overcoming the考验 of life can you welcome the spring on the sea and feel the flowers and applause there.

33. 多说无益，多想无益，接下来的路就且行且珍惜吧。

33. More talking is of no use, more thinking is of no use. Just cherish the path ahead as we walk it.

34. 人生就是一场体验，一个梦境，一次游戏，什么事情都不必当真，只要你无所谓，什么人和事都伤害不到你，你将一往无前，所向披靡，势如破竹。

34. Life is an experience, a dream, a game. There is nothing that needs to be taken seriously. As long as you don't care, no person or thing can hurt you. You will go forward unyieldingly, unstoppable, and triumph over all obstacles.

35. 我活在世上，无非想要明白些道理，遇见些有趣的事。生命是一场偶然，我在其中寻找因果。”

35. I live on this earth, merely wanting to understand some truths and encounter some interesting things. Life is a matter of chance, and I seek causality within it.

36. 遭遇挫折的时候，整个人陷入低谷，世界都是灰色的一片，感觉他人的人生永远都是明媚的春天，感叹命运的不公，更加的惭愧，一直低着头。

36. When encountering setbacks, the entire person sinks into a低谷, and the world seems gray all around. It feels like others' lives are always bright as spring, and one sighs at the unfairness of fate, feeling more ashamed and constantly lowering one's head.

37. 人生最正确的心态，就是有无所谓的态度，面对人世间的所有风雨和恶意，以无所畏的精神，过自己喜欢的生活。

37. The most correct attitude in life is to have no attitude about anything. Facing all the storms and malice in the world, live with an fearless spirit and enjoy the life you like.

38. 他完全不在乎，在苏州城外，一个叫桃花坞的地方，盖了一座简单的房子，取名桃花庵，那是一片十里桃花盛开的地方，无边无际的鲜嫩粉红，落英缤纷。唐伯虎就住在这里享受一个人的浪漫。

38. He paid no attention at all. He built a simple house in a place outside Suzhou called Taohuawu, naming it Taohua An. This was a place where ten miles of peach blossoms were in full bloom, with boundless fresh and pink blossoms and petals fluttering in the air. Tang Bohu lived here, enjoying the romance of being alone.

39. 最怕的就是你早就习惯了安逸，没有一丝的应变能力，一点点的风雨就让你内心崩溃，从此一蹶不振，那你就生活的逃兵，很难获得真正的历练。

39. The most可怕 is that you have long been accustomed to comfort, with no trace of adaptability. A little wind and rain can make your inner self collapse, and from then on, you are a deserter in life, finding it hard to gain true experience and training.

40. 我们的任何经验都是习得而来的，当你遇见挫折，一次次放弃的时候，就很难再有面对的勇气，而当你遭遇挫折和不幸的时候，昂起头勇敢面对的时候，我们会发现也不过如此，那种超越自己的感觉，让我们非常的满足。

40. All our experiences are acquired. When you encounter setbacks and keep giving up one after another, it becomes hard to find the courage to face them again. However, when you meet with setbacks and misfortunes and dare to face them head-on, we discover that it's not so bad after all. That feeling of surpassing oneself fills us with a great sense of satisfaction.

41. 当你处于顺境的时候，不要骄傲，要具有危机意识，而当你处于逆境的时候，不要慌张，不要气馁，绝望的时候不放弃，必然会迎来转机。

41. When you are in a prosperous situation, do not be proud; be aware of potential crises. And when you are in a difficult situation, do not panic or be discouraged. Do not give up in moments of despair; there will certainly be a turning point.

42. 唐伯虎因为涉嫌科举舞弊案，被终身罢免考试资格，永不录用。他失魂落魄的回到家乡苏州城，日子穷困潦倒，别人冷眼相待，甚至经常有人贬损他，戏耍他，嘲笑他。

42. Tang Buhu was permanently disqualified from taking the imperial examinations due to suspicions of cheating in the imperial examination. He returned to his hometown of Suzhou in a distraught state, living in poverty and being treated with cold eyes by others. He was frequently belittled, mocked, and teased.

43. 一切都是流动的，低谷也只是暂时的状态，做一个生命的强者，无惧艰难和险阻，逆流而上，才会实现人生的翻盘。所以低谷期，不要慌张，不要气馁，必有转机，只要你不放弃。

43. Everything is fluid, and the valley is just a temporary state. To be a strong person in life, fearlessly facing difficulties and obstacles, and moving against the current, is the way to turn one's life around. Therefore, during the valley period, do not panic, do not lose heart; there will definitely be a turn for the better, as long as you do not give up.

44. 我从来不相信我的人生就定格于此，我努力寻找各种出口，我相信唯有见过了世界，找到了差距，才会摆脱此刻迷茫的自己，才会明白人生有无限可能性。你的同龄人真的在过着你想要的生活，那些本应在报纸上、在电视上出现的“别人家的孩子”其实就在你身边。

44. I never believed that my life would be fixed at this point. I have been striving to find various outlets, and I believe that only by seeing the world and finding the gaps, can I break free from the confused version of myself at this moment, and only then will I understand that life has infinite possibilities. Your peers are really living the life you want, and those "other people's children" that should appear in newspapers and on television are actually right beside you.

45. 前几天去青岛参加一个活动，是挑战中国青岛站。20多个人的小团体，我们尝试了团建活动、文化探索、百里夜行、零元生存等等，总的来说不算太累，但沉闷已久的身体确也有一些吃不消。再加上其他的挑战者都是来自很好的大学，有形无形中给自己造成了一些压力，所以那几天虽然脸上总是在笑着，心情却少不了地沉重。不过这次活动也给自己带来了新的视野和开阔的眼界，是有一定收获的。

45. A few days ago, I went to Qingdao to participate in an event, which was the Qingdao Challenge in China. It was a small group of over 20 people, and we tried various activities such as team-building, cultural exploration, a 100-mile night walk, and zero-cost survival, among others. Overall, it wasn't too tiring, but the body that had been dormant for a long time did feel some strain. Moreover, the other challengers were all from excellent universities, which put some pressure on me both consciously and subconsciously. So, although I always smiled on the surface those days, my mood was rather heavy. However, this event also brought me new perspectives and broadened my horizons, which was a certain gain.

46. 弘一法师：“上船不思岸上人，下船不提船上事，旧人无需知近况，新人不必问过往。前世相欠，今生才会相见，遇见，是因为有债要还，离开，就是债还清了。缘起缘灭缘自在，情深情浅不由人，世人皆各有各的渡口，各有各的归舟，山水一程，人各有命。”

46. Master Hongyi: "When boarding a ship, do not think of those on the shore; when disembarking, do not bring up the matters on the ship. Old friends do not need to know your current situation, and new acquaintances need not inquire about your past. This life's encounter is due to past debts; meeting is to settle the debt, and parting is when the debt is fully paid. Causes and effects arise and cease, all at the will of fate. Depth of affection is not dictated by human choice. Everyone has their own port of departure and their own vessel of return. The journey through mountains and rivers, and each person's fate, are all different."

47. 二十出头的年纪真的是很奇妙的一段时光，我们可以美好得如童话里的人物，也可能转身会一不小心陷进泥潭中不能自拔。每次刷空间、刷微博时看到好的内容都会随手转发收藏，可扪心自问，又有几回会回过头认真再读一遍呢？我无比渴望美好奔放的日子和闪闪发光的自己，可现实的我却一直纠缠在懒惰与放纵中丝毫不明觉厉。

47. Being in one's early 20s is truly a wonderful yet bewildering time. We can be as beautiful as characters in fairy tales, but we might also find ourselves inadvertently sinking into a quagmire from which we can't pull ourselves out. Every time I scroll through my space or microblog and come across good content, I casually retweet and save it. But when I honestly ask myself, how many times do I go back and read it carefully again? I am incredibly eager for those beautiful and carefree days and the radiant version of myself. However, the reality is that I am constantly entangled in laziness and indulgence, not realizing the severity of the situation at all.

48. 人生就是一步一步往上爬的过程，想要到达山顶，就要从现在开始出发，这一路上无论遇见什么艰难险阻，都要想办法克服，当你到达山顶的时候，才会留下惊叹，人生不拼一把，岂不是亏待自己。

48. Life is a process of climbing step by step. If you want to reach the summit, you must start from now. No matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter on this journey, you must find a way to overcome them. Only when you reach the summit will you leave behind a sense of awe. If you don't give it your all in life, isn't that a waste of yourself?

49. 巴顿将军曾经说过：衡量一个人成功的标志，不是看他达到顶峰的高度，而是看他跌落谷底时的反弹力。

底 49. General Patton once said: The measure of a person's success is not in the height they reach at the top, but in the strength they show when they bounce back from the depths.

50. 不必在乎任何人对你的任何态度，不要让世俗的准则框定你的人生，见自己想见的人，做自己喜欢的事，看自己喜欢的风景，对于可以把握的，就努力做好。对于无法把握的，就顺其自然，坦然接受一切命运的结果。

50. Do not care about anyone's attitude towards you, and do not let the norms of the world bind your life. Meet the people you want to see, do the things you like, and enjoy the scenery you love. For what you can grasp, strive to do it well. For what you cannot control, go with the flow and calmly accept all the results of destiny.