在爱的光辉照耀下，我们拒绝焦虑、排斥纷扰与敏感，拥抱宁静生活。

Under the glow of love, we reject anxiety, reject turmoil and sensitivity, and embrace a tranquil way of life.

1. 有个能陪我聊聊天的人，比看电视吃饭更重要。比如今天天气不错，我就能对他说，天气不错啊。如果天冷了，我就让他添件衣服。可惜这样简单的交流却也无法进行。这个世界上有这么多人，但每个人都是孤独的。

1. Having someone to chat with is more important than watching TV or eating. For instance, if the weather is nice today, I could tell them, "The weather is really nice." If it gets cold, I would suggest they put on an extra layer. Unfortunately, such simple exchanges cannot be made. There are so many people in this world, yet everyone feels lonely.

2. 好久没有联络，并不是距离远了。好久没有消息，并不是关心没了。从成为朋友那刻起你就不曾远离，就注定扎根在我心里。其实朋友就是这样，无需想起，因为从未忘记。

2. It's not because the distance has grown that we haven't been in touch for so long. It's not because the concern has disappeared that I haven't heard from you. Since the moment we became friends, you've never been far away, and it's predestined that you would take root in my heart. In fact, that's how friends are—there's no need to remember, because I've never forgotten.

3. 四月生的人，老成持重，女性宜配狗年男性，男性宜配兔年女性。

3. People born in April are mature and reserved. For women, it is advisable to match with men born in the Dog year, and for men, it is recommended to match with women born in the Rabbit year.

4. 我相信，真正在乎我的人，是不会被别人抢走的。无论是友情，还是爱情。三毛

4. I believe that those who truly care about me cannot be taken away by others. Whether it's friendship or love. Sanmao

5. 我们总在不断地记住忘记我们的人，而被我们忘记的人却也在纪念着我们。

5. We are always constantly remembering those who forget us, while those we forget are also commemorating us.

6. 六月生的人，多愁善感，男性宜配蛇年女性，女性宜配猴年男性。

6. Those born in the sixth month are often melancholic and sensitive. Males should be paired with women born in the Snake year, while females should be paired with men born in the Monkey year.

7. 若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离;若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。

7. If fate is on your side, time and space are not barriers; if not, even if you meet every day, you may still fail to understand each other.

8. 六月生的人，处世圆滑，女性宜配牛年男性，男性宜配鼠年女性。

8. People born in June are skillful in dealing with others. For women, it is advisable to match with men born in the Ox year, while for men, it is better to match with women born in the Rat year.

9. ）字元亮，一说名潜，号 “ 五柳先生 ” ，死谥 “ 靖节 ” ，浔阳柴桑（ 今 江西九江 西南） 人，出身于破落 仕宦 家庭。曾祖父 陶侃 ，是东晋开国元勋，军功显著，官至大司马，都督

9. Zhu Yuanliang, also known as Qian, or "Mr. Wu Liu," died with the posthumous title "Jingjie." He was from Xunyang Chaisang (now southwest of Jiujiang City, Jiangxi Province). He came from a fallen official family. His great-grandfather, Tao Kan, was a founding hero of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, with outstanding military achievements, serving as Grand Marshal and Commander-in-Chief.

10. 淡泊名利，让生活更美好。生活其实很简单，我们只要少些尔虞我诈，多一些真诚相待，少一些追名逐利，多一些淡泊名利，不要过以物质的追求，只要够用就可。

10. Detach from fame and wealth, and make life more beautiful. Life is actually very simple; we just need to have less deceit and more sincerity, less pursuit of fame and wealth, and more detachment from them. Don't overemphasize the pursuit of material things; as long as it is sufficient, that is enough.

11. 世界上最大的骗子就是如果。如果有那么多如果，又哪来那么多是非对错。

11. The biggest liar in the world is "if." If there were so many "ifs," where would all the right and wrong come from?

12. 书虽然不能直接帮你解决问题，却能给你一个更好的角度去思考。

12. Although books cannot help you solve problems directly, they can provide you with a better perspective to think about them.

13. 我们正在被追名逐利的价值所感染。我们人生观、价值观受到金钱名利的诱惑。

13. We are infected by the pursuit of fame and wealth. Our outlook on life and values are tempted by money and fame.

14. 三月生的人，很现实，女性宜配鼠年男性，男性宜配猪年女性。

14. People born in March are very realistic. Women are best matched with men born in the Year of the Rat, while men are best matched with women born in the Year of the Pig.

15. 在性方面，双子座完全由心理控制欲望，但巨蟹座讲求当时的气氛，默契还不够哦~

15. In terms of sex, Gemini is completely controlled by psychological desires, but Cancer emphasizes the atmosphere at the moment, and the默契 is not quite there yet.

16. 淡泊名利--作为做人的一种准则和风格，它是对人生的深层领悟，是人生境界的极致。淡是一种醒悟和超脱，坚持“有所不为然后有所为”，特立独行而不趋炎附势，稳重坚韧而不浮华燥动，义无反顾而举重若轻。

16. Detachment from fame and wealth — as a principle and style of living, it is a profound understanding of life and the ultimate level of life's realm. Detachment is an enlightenment and transcendence, adhering to the philosophy of "not doing certain things first, then doing certain things," being unique and independent without joining in the trend of flattery and conformity, stable and tenacious without being showy and restless, and steadfast and unhesitant while handling heavy matters with ease.

17. 不抱怨，生活自有阳光；不纠缠，人生自然顺畅；不敏感，生命自会释然。

17. Complain not, for life itself has its sunshine; entangle not, for life will naturally flow smoothly; be not sensitive, and life will naturally come to peace.

18. 有时候孤独是好事，一个人就自己多长本事，多看世界，多走些路，把时间花在正事上，变成自己打心底喜欢的那种人。

18. Sometimes, being alone is a good thing. One should cultivate their skills, broaden their horizons, take more journeys, spend time on meaningful endeavors, and become the kind of person they deeply like from the bottom of their heart.

19. 因为不知道自己是渺小的，所以总是一脸骄傲，总是不加收敛，总是不知道名缰与利锁迟早会灰飞烟灭，只有自己内心的祥和才是真的，”勿忘心安“。 人呵！我们本该是上帝的仆从，勤劳而且善良；然而那时魔鬼却对我们说了：”人呵，勤劳与诚实不是你们的本性，跟着我来吧。

19. Because he does not know his own insignificance, he always carries an air of pride, he never restrains himself, and he never understands that the chains of fame and wealth will eventually vanish like smoke and dust. Only the inner peace within him is truly genuine, 'Do not forget to be at ease in your heart.' Ah, humans! We should be the servants of God, diligent and kind; however, at that time, the devil spoke to us: 'Humans, diligence and honesty are not your nature. Follow me.'

20. 六月生的人，荣誉感强，女性宜配牛年男性，男性宜配鸡年女性。

20. People born in June are strong in a sense of honor. Women should be matched with men born in the Ox year, while men should be matched with women born in the Rooster year.

21. 道德底线的正确与否，鉴定的标准是是否利己利人——正确的道德底线是为人做事都要奉行利己利人的原则，一生恪守了这样的道德底线，就会活得光明磊落、安稳宁适、无怨无悔；不正确的道德底线是奉行为人做事利己损人的原则，一生恪守了这样的道德底线，就会活得猥猥琐琐、蝇营狗苟、惊悸不安。

21. The correctness of the moral底线 is judged by whether it benefits oneself and others—the correct moral底线 is to adhere to the principle of benefiting oneself and others in all actions and deeds; by strictly adhering to such a moral底线 throughout one's life, one will live with integrity, peace, and satisfaction, without any regrets; the incorrect moral底线 is to follow the principle of benefiting oneself at the expense of others in all actions and deeds; by strictly adhering to such a moral底线 throughout one's life, one will live in a state of shyness, squalor, and constant anxiety.

22. 心中有风景的女人，知道如何被爱，被呵护，人前的大度，人后的娇柔。她们知道如何去爱，包容，理解、忍让，为了爱，她们会义无反顾地去尝试，去改变，去低到尘埃里，去小到缝隙间。

22. A woman with a landscape in her heart knows how to be loved and cherished, to be generous in public and gentle in private. They know how to love, embrace, understand, and accommodate. For love, they would unhesitatingly try, change, humble themselves to the dust, and shrink to the tiniest of crevices.

23. 无论精神多么独立的人，感情却总是在寻找一种依附，寻找一种归宿。路遥

23. No matter how independent a person may be in spirit, emotions always seek a form of attachment, seeking a place of belonging. Lu Yao

24. 七月生的人，性格顽固，男性宜配羊年女性，女性宜配鸡年男性。

24. People born in the seventh month are stubborn in character. For men, it is advisable to match with women born in the year of the Sheep, and for women, it is advisable to match with men born in the year of the Rooster.

25. 八月生的人，守规矩，女性宜配猪年男性，男性宜配虎年女性。

25. People born in the eighth month should adhere to rules and regulations. Women should be matched with men born in the pig year, while men should be matched with women born in the tiger year.

26. 长大后，卡耐基发展，曾经让他担惊受怕的事情，几乎一件都没有发生。

26. As he grew up, Carnegie developed, and almost none of the things that once made him fear had come to pass.

27. 五月生的人，有数学头脑，男性宜配鼠年女性，女性宜配鼠年男性。

27. People born in May are mathematically inclined. Males are recommended to be paired with women born in the Year of the Rat, while females are advised to be paired with men born in the Year of the Rat.

28. 人生的痛苦，源于活得太清楚。眼是审美的，结果纠缠在丑中，最后都审了丑;心是收藏快乐的，结果困于计较中，最后都盛了痛。不是生活有多少，自己就要清楚多少。幸福的能力，其实就是取舍的能力和过滤的能力。

28. The pain in life originates from living too clearly. The eyes, being aesthetic, become entangled in ugliness, and in the end, they are appraising ugliness; the heart, meant for storing joy, gets trapped in calculation, and in the end, it is filled with pain. It's not that life has so much, and you have to be clear about so much. The ability to be happy is actually the ability to choose and discard, and the ability to filter.

29. 读书不是为了雄辩和驳斥，也不是为了轻信和盲从，而是为了思考和权衡。

29. The purpose of reading is not for oratory and argumentation, nor for credulity and blind acceptance, but for reflection and consideration.

30. 十一月生的人，反感陈规，男性宜配羊年女性，女性宜配虎年男性。

30. People born in November are against conventions. Males should be matched with women born in the Year of the Sheep, while females should be matched with men born in the Year of the Tiger.

31. 心中有风景的女人，懂得用知识充实自己、营养自己。合理的地安排生活的时间，总是可以给自己一些自由活动的空隙。用文字记录生活，用文字记录生命，这样的女人有内涵、有底蕴，有气质，是那些外在的妖娆不可以替代的修养，是来自灵魂深处的靓丽。

31. A woman with a landscape in her heart knows how to enrich and nourish herself with knowledge. She合理安排 her time, always finding some room for personal freedom. She records her life and her life with words, such a woman possesses depth, substance, and temperament; it is a cultivation that cannot be replaced by the outer allure, a beauty that comes from the depths of the soul.

32. 这种贫安乐道、甘于寂寞、淡泊自守、不求闻达的精神境界，是一种纯粹高尚的、脱离了低级趣味的、有益于社会和人民的人生态度。两种名利态度，规定和铸造了两种不同品位和格调的人生，毋庸置疑，淡泊名利者受人青睐、尊重和推崇。

32. This spiritual state of being content with poverty and solitude, living a simple and secluded life, and not seeking fame and fortune, is a purely noble attitude, free from low tastes, and beneficial to society and the people. The two attitudes towards fame and fortune determine and shape two different levels and styles of life. There is no doubt that those who are indifferent to fame and fortune are favored, respected, and admired.

33. 它可以使人更加斗志昂扬，充满 。因此，我们每一人都应正确的面对名利，给它一个公正的评价。

33. It can inspire people to be more spirited and full of vitality. Therefore, each of us should face fame and fortune correctly and give it a fair evaluation.

34. 爱一个人就是不管多晚都要等他回来才肯睡去，爱一个人就是听见他咳嗽赶紧伸手摸他的额头，爱一个人就是每天都做他爱吃的菜。爱一个人就会想让自己变得更美丽，希望自己能被所有人瞩目，却只能被他一个人拥有。

34. Loving someone is about waiting for them to come back no matter how late before you can go to sleep, loving someone is about reaching out to touch their forehead as soon as you hear them cough, loving someone is about cooking his favorite dishes every day. When you love someone, you want to make yourself more beautiful, hoping to be noticed by everyone, but can only be owned by him alone.

35. 十一月生的人，喜欢活动，女性宜配猪年男性，男性宜配马年女性。

35. Those born in November are fond of activities. Women are recommended to be matched with men born in the year of the Pig, while men are recommended to be matched with women born in the year of the Horse.

36. 美国成功学大师卡耐基童年时，在帮妈妈摘樱桃的过程中，忽然哭了起来。

36. When the American success master Carnegie was a child, while helping his mother pick cherries, he suddenly started crying.

37. 六月生的人，生活实际，女性宜配鸡年男性，男性宜配羊年女性。

37. People born in June are practical in life. Women should be matched with men born in the Year of the Rooster, and men should be matched with women born in the Year of the Sheep.

38. 首先要树立正确的人生观，价值观，要做到信仰至上。人生总要有所追求，如果心中没有远大的志向，必然就会看重眼前的利益。要淡泊名利，需要的是充实思想，为之奉献勇于牺牲的精神，追求名利主要还是为了满足欲望。

38. First and foremost, one must establish a correct outlook on life and values, and always prioritize faith. Life must have goals to pursue; if there are no grand ambitions in one's heart, one will inevitably value immediate gains. To be indifferent to fame and wealth, what is needed is to enrich one's thoughts and to have the spirit of dedication and willingness to sacrifice for them. The pursuit of fame and wealth mainly serves to satisfy desires.

39. 你羡慕别人身材好，却放不下手中的高热量食物;你抱怨总没有机会垂青，却忘了自己的拖延、散漫;你向往别人看过的风景，却抱着手机在家宅过一个又一个周末。身材不好就去锻炼，没钱就努力去赚。别把、窘境迁怒于别人，唯一可以抱怨的，只是不够努力的自己。

39. You envy others for their good figures, yet you can't put down the high-calorie foods in your hands; you complain about never getting a chance, yet you forget about your own procrastination and idleness; you yearn for the scenery others have seen, yet you stay home playing with your phone through weekend after weekend. If you don't have a good figure, exercise; if you don't have money, work hard to earn it. Don't blame others for your own predicament; the only thing you can complain about is your lack of effort.

40. 人不是向外奔走才是旅行，静静坐着思维也是旅行，凡是探索、追寻、触及那不可知的情境，不论是风土的，或是心灵的，都是一种旅行。林清玄

40. It is not only by going outward that one travels; sitting quietly and thinking is also a form of travel. Any exploration, pursuit, or touching of the unknown, whether it be of the land or the soul, is a kind of travel. — Lin Qingxuan

41. 四月生的人，好动外向，男性宜配羊年女性，女性宜配蛇年男性。

41. People born in April are active and extroverted. For men, it is recommended to pair with women born in the Year of the Sheep, and for women, it is recommended to pair with men born in the Year of the Snake.

42. 因此，姜太公懂得善待名利。所以，对于那些懂得名利的人来说，名利不是束缚心灵的网，而是催人奋进的帆：不是泯灭人性的毒酒，而是激发潜能的药引。

42. Therefore, Master Jang understands the importance of treating fame and wealth with kindness. Thus, for those who comprehend the value of fame and wealth, it is not a net that束缚s the soul, but a sail that propels one forward; not a poison that extinguishes human nature, but a medicine that stimulates one's potential.

43. 地球之所以是圆的，是因为上帝想让那些走失或迷路的人重新相遇。

43. The Earth is round because God wants those who are lost or迷路 to meet again.

44. 二月生的人，富推理能力，女性宜配羊年男性，男性宜配鸡年女性。

44. People born in February are highly logical, and for women, it is advisable to match with men born in the Year of the Sheep, while for men, it is recommended to match with women born in the Year of the Rooster.

45. 对你们来讲，Sex不是重要的一件事，只是维持大家关系的小环节，有点例行公事一样。

45. For you, Sex is not an important matter; it's just a small part of maintaining everyone's relationships, like a routine thing.

46. 十一月生的人，老实内向，女性宜配蛇年男性，男性宜配狗年女性。

46. People born in November are honest and introverted. Women should be matched with men born in the Snake year, while men should be matched with women born in the Dog year.

47. 九月生的人，作风大胆，男性宜配中年女性，女性宜配猴年男性。

47. People born in September are bold in character. Men are best matched with middle-aged women, while women are best matched with men born in the Year of the Monkey.

48. 四月生的人，贯彻始终，男性宜配兔年女性，女性宜配鸡年男性。

48. People born in April should persist in their endeavors. For men, it is recommended to be matched with women born in the year of the Rabbit, and for women, it is suggested to be matched with men born in the year of the Rooster.

49. 五月生的人，气质优美，男性宜配蛇年女性，女性宜配牛年男性。

49. Those born in May have a graceful temperament. For men, it is best to be matched with women born in the year of the Snake, while for women, it is best to be matched with men born in the year of the Ox.

50. 别人怎么看你，和你毫无关系。你要怎么活，也和别人毫无关系。

50. What others think of you has nothing to do with you. How you choose to live also has nothing to do with others.

51. 负面情绪就像黑暗无法驱赶，唯一能做的，就是带进光来。喜悦是消融负面情绪最好的光。

51. Negative emotions are like darkness that cannot be driven away; the only thing we can do is to bring in light. Joy is the best light to dissolve negative emotions.

52. 你不能干涉别人的人生，就算是为了对方好。这是他的人生，只有他一个人能决定他的人生。你必须顺应事实，放手成长，你没有必要医治好在成长路上与你擦肩而过的每个人，即使你成为最顶尖的医生，也做不到这样。

52. You cannot interfere in someone else's life, even if it's for their own good. This is their life, and only they can decide their own path. You must accept the facts, let go, and you don't have to heal everyone who passes you by on the path of growth. Even if you become the top doctor, you can't do that.

53. 青春，是一段你可以肆意挥霍的时光，爱了，痛了，哭了，笑了，然后你就真的成熟了，青春也就没有了。

53. Youth is a time when you can squander it with abandon. You fall in love, you hurt, you cry, you laugh, and then you truly mature, and youth fades away.

54. 如果打算爱一个人，你要想清楚，是否愿意为了她，放弃如上帝般自由的心，从此心甘情愿有了羁绊。《了不起的盖茨比》

54. If you intend to love someone, you must think it through clearly. Are you willing to abandon the heart as free as God, and from then on be willing to be bound by it? "The Great Gatsby"

55. 他选择了掩埋记忆，忘掉所谓的功名利禄，忘掉所谓的封官拜爵，他醉心于田园之间，却得到了“悠然见南 山”的宁静和“复得返自然”的恬淡。掩埋了记忆，他得到了内心的宁静。

55. He chose to bury his memories, forget about the so-called success and wealth, forget about the so-called titles and ranks. He was deeply immersed in the countryside, and yet he gained the tranquility of "leisurely seeing the South Mountain" and the serenity of "returning to nature." By burying his memories, he achieved inner peace.

56. 其实，在这个纷繁复杂、充满诱惑的社会，不羡慕别人，不轻贱自己。安然的，过自已喜欢过的日子，就是最好的日子;活自己喜欢的活法，就是最好的活法!

56. Actually, in this complex and tempting society, do not envy others, do not belittle yourself. Living a life that you like comfortably is the best kind of day; living the way you like is the best way to live!

57. 六月生的人，冷热无常，男性宜配羊年女性，女性宜配牛年男性。

57. People born in June are unpredictable in terms of cold and heat. Men should be matched with women born in the Year of the Sheep, and women should be matched with men born in the Year of the Ox.

58. 三月生的人，富同情心，女性宜配兔年男性，男性宜配狗年女性。

58. People born in March are compassionate and empathetic. Women should be matched with men born in the Year of the Rabbit, while men should be matched with women born in the Year of the Dog.

59. 其一是柔（弱），其二是淡，其三是远 李白 青莲居士，在梦中的天姥山的石阶上，脚著谢公屐，看海日，闻天鸡，醒来便仰天长啸出门去，不肯摧眉折 腰事权贵，他选择了骑鹿游名山，失去了权势，却得到了开心颜。

59. The first is gentleness, the second is subtlety, and the third is distance. Li Bai, also known as Qinglian Junshi, while dreaming on the stone steps of the Taimu Mountain, wearing Xie Gong's wooden sandals, watched the sunrise over the sea, heard the rooster of heaven, and upon waking, he shouted long and loud to the sky and left the door, unwilling to bow or bend his waist to serve the wealthy and powerful. He chose to ride a deer and tour famous mountains, losing power, yet gaining a joyful expression.

60. 晚年漂泊东南一带，依族 叔 当涂 县令 李阳冰 ，不久即病卒。苏轼 赤壁下，飘荡着苏子的扁舟。

60. In his later years, he wandered around the southeastern region, relying on his uncle, the County Magistrate Li Yangbing of Dangtu County. He soon fell ill and died. Beneath the Red Cliffs, there floated the little boat of Su Zi.

61. 我们当中极少数人能做伟大的事情，但是每个人都可以用崇高的爱去做平凡的事。

61. A very few of us are capable of doing great things, but everyone can do ordinary things with noble love.

62. 要有在迷茫沮丧的时期，不对自己下结论的能力;在苦楚绝望的时期，不对世界下结论的操守。你要相信，一切都是暂时的，我们唯一需要做的，就是静静地好给世界看。

62. The ability to not pass judgment on oneself during periods of confusion and despair; the integrity of not passing judgment on the world during times of suffering and hopelessness. You must believe that everything is temporary, and the only thing we need to do is to calmly show the world.

63. 二月生的人，爱好自由，男性宜配鼠年女性，女性宜配龙年男性。

63. People born in February love freedom, for men, it is advisable to match with women born in the Year of the Rat, and for women, it is advisable to match with men born in the Year of the Dragon.

64. 三月生的人，疑心重，女性宜配蛇年男性，男性宜配兔年女性。

64. People born in March are suspicious by nature. Women should be matched with men born in the year of the Snake, and men should be matched with women born in the year of the Rabbit.

65. 淡泊名利是人生所为的一种态度，是人生的一种哲学。淡泊名利，就是要超脱世俗的诱惑与困扰，实实在在的对待一切事物，豁达客观的看待一切生活。

65. Detachment from fame and profit is an attitude towards life, a philosophy of life. Detachment from fame and profit means to transcend the enticements and troubles of the mundane world, to deal with everything in a tangible and real manner, and to view all aspects of life with magnanimity and objectivity.

66. 只要向日葵坚持着仰望，就一定会找到一抹属于自己的暖阳。

66. As long as the sunflowers persist in looking up, they will surely find a patch of warm sunshine that belongs to them.

67. 以淡泊名利为话题写一篇作文

68. 古人云：要淡泊名利。“淡泊”是一种古老的道家思想，《老子》就曾说“恬淡为上，胜而不美”。后人一直赞赏这种“心神恬适”的意境，如白居易在《问秋光》一诗中，“身心转恬泰，烟景弥淡泊”。

67. Write an essay on the topic of indifference to fame and wealth. 68. The ancients said: one should be indifferent to fame and wealth. "Indifference" is an ancient Taoist thought, as Laozi once said, "Being tranquil is the highest, and being victorious is not beautiful." Later generations have always praised this "mental tranquility" of the scene, as Bai Juyi said in his poem "Inquiring About the Autumn Light", "The body and mind turn tranquil and peaceful, the smoke scenery becomes more indifferent."

69. 李白出生于 盛唐 时期，他的一生，绝大部分却在漫游中度过，游历遍迹了大半个中国。二十岁时只身出川，开始了广泛漫游，南到洞庭 湘江 ，东至吴、越，寓居在 安陆 （今湖北省安陆市）、应山 （今湖北省 广水市 ）。

69. Li Bai was born during the prosperous Tang Dynasty. Throughout his life, the vast majority of it was spent in wandering, traveling through most of China. At the age of twenty, he set out alone from Sichuan and began extensive travels, reaching as far south as Dongting and Xiangjiang, and as far east as Wu and Yue. He took residence in Anlu (now in Anlu City, Hubei Province) and Yingshan (now in Guangshui City, Hubei Province).

70. 早安心语：去改变，去低到尘埃里，去小到缝隙间

70. Morning words of comfort: Go and change, go down to the dust, go small to the crevices.

71. 成长的很大一部分，是接受。接受分道扬镳，接受世事无常，接受孤独挫折，接受突如其来的无力感，接受自己的缺点。然后发自内心地去改变，找到一个平衡点。跟世界相处，首先是和自己相处。天黑开盏灯，落雨带把伞，难过先难过，但也不作死。卢思浩

71. A significant part of growth is about acceptance. Accepting the parting of ways, accepting the impermanence of life, accepting loneliness and挫折, accepting the sudden sense of helplessness, and accepting one's own flaws. Then, change from the heart and find a balance point. To coexist with the world, it starts with coexisting with oneself. When it gets dark, turn on a light; when it rains, carry an umbrella; when you feel sad, be sad first, but don't be fatalistic. Lu Shihao

72. 共同组织一个家庭的时间，也是你们感情的另一次考验，虽然巨蟹座很有持家之道，但比起处女座那种分毫必计的小家态度还有一点距离，要小心你们往往容易小题大做，把一些小事化大，“湿湿碎碎”的小争吵，其实很易破坏你们的感情，要小心。

72. Organizing a family time together is also another test of your relationship, although the Crab is quite adept at managing the household, there is still a bit of a gap compared to the Virgo's meticulous attention to detail. Be cautious, as you are prone to blowing things out of proportion, turning minor issues into major ones, and those trivial disputes can easily damage your relationship. Be careful.

73. 现在看来，能在旅途中留下记录，是一件多么好的事情。照片，文字，书，还有感情。这些都是时光曾经存在的印。我们的生命，亦是一段看不到终点也无法有归途的长路。

73. Now it seems like such a wonderful thing to be able to leave a record of one's travels. Photographs, words, books, and emotions. All these are imprints of time that once existed. Our lives are also a long journey that has no end in sight and no return path.

74. 四月生的人，过份自信，男性宜配牛年女性，女性宜配猴年男性。

74. People born in April are overly confident. Men should be matched with women born in the Ox year, and women should be matched with men born in the Monkey year.

75. 我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有它不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走下去的路，都有它不得不那样选择的方向。席慕蓉

75. Finally, I believe that every path taken has its own reasons for why it had to be traversed that way. Every path that one is about to walk has its own direction that it has to choose that way. Xi Muerong

76. 同样是水象星座，天蝎及巨蟹的感情可谓尽在不言中啦，大家都是讲感觉的人，有一种惺惺相惜的默契，虽然开始谈情时，未必是缠绵热恋，但时间越久，热情的态度日渐升级，绝对是好情侣。

76. Both Scorpions and Crab are water signs, and their emotions are conveyed without words. They are all people who value feelings, sharing a sense of understanding and affection for each other. Although they may not necessarily be in a passionate love affair at the beginning, as time goes by, their enthusiasm grows and intensifies, making them undoubtedly a great couple.

77. 有些人看起来整天面带笑容，并不是因为他们事事顺利，只是他们比你敢于面对问题、善于遗忘不幸、勇于拥抱欣喜。

77. Some people seem to smile all day long, not because everything goes smoothly for them, but because they are braver in facing problems, better at forgetting misfortunes, and more courageous in embracing joy.

78. 及时抽身，过好自己的生活，才是对自己最好的救赎。

78. It's the best redemption for oneself to step away in time and live one's own life well.

79. 即便沾上了，也不要纠缠，及时止损，走为上策。

79. Even if you get involved, don't linger; cut your losses promptly, and retreat is the best course of action.

80. 十二月生的人，坦诚宽容，女性宜配牛年男性，男性宜配猴年女性。

80. People born in December are honest and tolerant. Women should be matched with men born in the Ox year, and men should be matched with women born in the Monkey year.

81. 求淡泊名利的小作文

82. 今天，在这个以经济为发展主流，充满物质诱惑的社会中，要保持一颗淡泊名利，“宁静而致远”的简单心境是非常不容易的。

81. A short essay on seeking detachment from fame and wealth. 82. Today, in this society where economic development is the mainstream and filled with material temptations, maintaining a simple mindset of detachment from fame and wealth, "quietude leads to great achievements," is extremely difficult.