在纷繁复杂的世界中，我试图握住生活的艺术，定位自我，净化社交圈，感受多彩人生。

In the complex and intricate world, I try to grasp the art of living, locate myself, purify my social circle, and experience a colorful life.

1. 人生海海，我们仍可以通过不懈的努力，邂逅自己期待的美好。

1. Life is vast and boundless, yet through unwavering efforts, we can still encounter the beautiful things we look forward to.

2. 意思是，和正能量的人交往，就像进入兰花芬芳的屋子，自己也会变得香气四溢。和负能量的人来往，就如走进卖咸鱼的铺子，自己也将变得臭不可闻。

2. It means that interacting with positive people is like entering a room filled with the fragrance of orchids, where you too will become fragrant. Conversely, associating with negative people is akin to stepping into a store selling salted fish, where you will also become smelly.

3. 不管身处何种境遇，以积极乐观的心态，做一些闲适而快乐的事情，才能让清淡的岁月，变得活泼生动起来。

3. Regardless of the circumstances one finds oneself in, engaging in leisurely and joyful activities with a positive and optimistic attitude can bring vitality and liveliness to the simple and peaceful years.

4. 老子说：“知人者智，自知者明。”找到自己的位置，才能有正确的生活方向，不至于南辕北辙，缘木求鱼。

4. Laozi said, "To know others is wisdom, to know oneself is enlightenment." Only by finding one's own position can one have the correct direction in life, and not end up going in the opposite direction or trying to catch fish in the trees.

5. 鸟随鸾凤飞腾远，人伴良贤品自高。

5. Birds soar with phoenixes to distant skies, people associate with good and wise ones elevate their character.

6. 每个人都有自己的角色。

6. Everyone has their own role.

7. 杨绛《杂忆与杂写》有言：

7. Yang Jiang, in her book "Miscellaneous Memories and Writings," said:

8. 净化圈子，凝聚正能量，远离负能量，才能让自己活得优秀而自在。

8. To purify your circle, gather positive energy, and distance yourself from negative energy, you can live an outstanding and comfortable life.

9. 圈子塑造人，环境感染人。一个人想要变得优秀，活得轻松，就要净化自己的圈子。

9. The circle shapes a person, and the environment influences people. If one wants to become excellent and live easily, they must purify their own circle.

10. 对于普罗大众而言，生活原本平淡。找乐子，就像给一杯水里加糖，让生活变得有滋有味。

10. For the general public, life is originally plain. Seeking fun is like adding sugar to a glass of water, making life taste better and more enjoyable.

11. 你不懂投资理财，却在股市上孤注一掷，最后大败亏输。

11. You don't understand investment and finance management, yet you throw all your chips into the stock market and end up losing big.

12. 找不清定位，做自己不适合的事，只会让自己在错误的方向上越行越远。

12. Not knowing where you stand and doing things that are not suitable for you will only lead you further away from the right direction.

13. 就是说，占卜所得到的爻，应该阳爻居阳位，阴爻居阴位。

13. That is to say, the lines obtained from divination should have the yang lines in the yang positions and the yin lines in the yin positions.

14. 学会净化自己的圈子，多交益友，屏蔽损友，我们才能变得更好。

14. Learn to purify your circle, make more friends who benefit you, and block those who are harmful, and only then can we become better.

15. 钱钟书说：“洗一个澡，看一朵花，吃一顿饭，假使你觉得快活，并非全因为澡洗得干净，花开得好，或者菜合你口味，主要因为你心上没有挂碍。”

15. Qian Zhongshu said, "Take a bath, appreciate a flower, have a meal. If you feel happy, it is not solely because the bath is clean, the flower is beautiful, or the food suits your taste. The main reason is that there are no burdens on your heart."

16. 心中没有纠结，就能生出欢喜心，找到生活的乐趣。

16. When there is no wrangling in the heart, joy can arise, and one can find the joy in life.

17. 复旦教授陈果说：我们大可以活成我们自己，活得更本色一点，更真实一点，这才是对自己的真诚与善待。”

17. Professor Chen Guo from Fudan University said: "We can certainly live as ourselves, a bit more genuine and more authentic, and that is the truest and kindest way to treat ourselves."

18. 人生如此，认清自己，找到自己的位置，才能活得惬意，抵达成功。

18. Life is like this: only by knowing oneself and finding one's own place can one live comfortably and achieve success.

19. 一位名人说：你当下的价值，就是身边最亲近的五个人的平均值。

19. A celebrity once said: "The value you have right now is the average of the five closest people around you."

20. 人生不如意事十之八九。因此，我们要常想一二，懂得给生活找乐子。

20. Life is filled with more than nine out of ten things that are not as one wishes. Therefore, we should always think of one or two positive aspects, and learn to find joy in life.

21. 比如你有文学的天赋，却去学理工，最后毫无建树。

21. For example, if you have a talent for literature, but choose to study science and engineering, in the end, you achieve nothing.

22. 近朱者赤，近墨者黑。

22. "Those who live near vermilion become red, those who live near ink become black."

23. 正确筛选自己的朋友，净化生活的圈子，才能得到正向的滋养，而不是负性的消耗。

23. It is necessary to carefully select your friends and purify your social circle in order to receive positive nourishment, rather than negative consumption.

24. 然而，杜甫没有沉溺于低谷自怨自艾，而是一边欣赏屋外美景，一边与妻儿找乐子：

24. However, Du Fu did not indulge in self-pity in the low point of his life. Instead, he enjoyed the beautiful scenery outside while finding joy with his wife and children.

25. “自去自来堂上燕，相亲相近水中鸥。老妻画纸为棋局，稚子敲针作钓钩。”

25. "The swallows come and go on the hall, the cormorants gather and scatter in the water. The old wife paints a chessboard on paper, the young son敲针 makes a fishing hook."

26. 找点乐子，让平凡的日子生动，让无趣的生活有趣，给生命涂上快乐的底色。

26. Seek for some fun to make ordinary days lively, to make boring life interesting, and to paint a background of happiness onto life.

27. 内心快乐，生活简单，生命惬意，才是一个人最好的样子。

27. Inner happiness, a simple life, and a pleasant life are the best appearance of a person.

28. 你有什么样的圈子，经常接触什么样的人，就会有什么样的人生。

28. The kind of circle you have and the kind of people you often interact with will determine the kind of life you will have.

29. 找到位子，让自己不再盲目。走正确的路，才能抵达想去的终点。

29. Find a direction, so that you no longer wander aimlessly. Only by taking the right path can you reach the destination you wish to arrive at.

30. 意思是，滋养你的人，是正直的，宽容的，渊博的。而消耗你的人，巧言令色，虚情假意，阿谀奉承。

30. It means that the people who nourish you are upright, tolerant, and learned. While the people who drain you are eloquent and cunning, insincere and flattering.

31. 人生一世，如白驹过隙。不必违背本心委屈自己，也不要随波逐流失去自我。最好的活法，就是明确自己的定位，净化社交的圈子，寻找生活的乐子。

31. In a lifetime, time flies like a white horse through the gap. Do not betray your true feelings and suffer yourself, nor should you follow the crowd and lose your identity. The best way to live is to be clear about your own position, purify your social circle, and seek the joys of life.

32. 演绎角色，需要我们对自己有清醒的认知和定位。不把位子当能力，不把平台当本事，不把圈子当人脉。

32. To play a role well, we need to have a clear understanding and positioning of ourselves. We should not treat a position as ability, a platform as expertise, or a circle as connections.

33. 孔子说：“与善人交，如入芝兰之室，久而不闻其香。与不善人交，如入鲍鱼之肆，久而不闻其臭。”

33. Confucius said, "To associate with the good is like entering a room filled with orchids; after a long time, one no longer notices the fragrance. To associate with the wicked is like entering a shop of stinky fish; after a long time, one no longer notices the odor."

34. 风禾尽起，芳华待灼。以最好的活法，得偿所愿，不负平生。

34. The wind and the grain rise together, the flowers await to bloom. Live the best way, fulfill your desires, and do not let your life go to waste.

35. 我们要发挥好自己的主观能动性，经营好自己的人生。

35. We should give full play to our subjective initiative and manage our own lives well.

36. 你不善人际关系，却执着从政，最后一筹莫展。

36. You are not good at interpersonal relationships, but you are obsessed with politics, and in the end, you are at a loss.

37. 我们的使命，是演绎好自己的角色，活出自己应有的样子。

37. Our mission is to play our roles well and live up to the image we should be.

38. 杜甫曾漂泊西南，生活拮据，靠着朋友的接济才能勉强度日。

38. Du Fu once wandered in the southwest, leading a frugal life. He could only manage to get by with the assistance of his friends.

39. 孔子说：有益者三友，即友直，友谅，友多闻。也有损者三友，即友便辟，友善柔，友便佞。

39. Confucius said: There are three types of friends that are beneficial, namely, friends who are straightforward, friends who are forgiving, and friends who are well-informed. There are also three types of friends that are detrimental, namely, friends who are cunning, friends who are soft-spoken, and friends who are sycophantic.

40. 给圈子剔除负能量，注入正能量。

40. Remove negative energy from the circle and infuse positive energy.

41. 找不到自己位置的人，一辈子忙忙碌碌，呕心沥血，却一事无成。

41. A person who cannot find their place in life will be busy and toil away their entire life, pouring their heart and soul into it, yet achieve nothing.

42. 《易经》卜卦，得位则吉，失位则凶。

42. Divination by the Book of Changes (I Ching): being in the right position is auspicious, while being out of position is inauspicious.

43. 新盖草堂就有燕子往来穿梭，水中双鸥结伴出游。老妻画纸为棋局便有对弈之乐，小孩子们叮叮当当地把针敲作鱼钩充满了童趣。

43. The newly constructed Gai Hall is bustling with swallows flying back and forth, and pairs of cormorants swimming together for pleasure. My old wife drawing chessboards on paper brings the joy of playing chess, and the little children happily敲打针线做成鱼钩, brimming with childlike fun.

44. “人虽然渺小，人生虽然短促，但是人能学，人能修身，人能自我完善，人的可贵在人自身。”

44. "Although human beings are small and life is short, humans can learn, can cultivate themselves, and can perfect themselves. The value of humans lies within themselves."