珍惜自我，独一无二的你，拥有最美好的一面。

Treasure yourself, the unique you, who possesses the most beautiful side.

1. 我不是一个花言巧语的人更不会攻于心计，我对待任何人都做不到表里不一的模样。每个人都不完美，瑕疵终归有修行看个人。小小年纪的我都还没有经历过大风大雨又谈何人生一词，我从一开始的心中有数变成了自己心中朦胧，越来越发现自己变得不认识自己搞不懂自己想要什么或者拥有什么，我拎不清有些人在自己心中得地位如何，分不清事情的对与错。与其说讨厌别人倒不如说我开始讨厌现在的自己，既无能又软弱。渐渐得再也没有曾经的那种单纯而又欢快的傻笑，更失去了原有的初衷初心。

1. I am not a person who uses flowery words or is cunning, and I am unable to act deceitfully towards anyone. No one is perfect, and flaws are inevitable; it's a matter of cultivation and personal growth. At a young age, I have not yet experienced major storms or trials, so how can I talk about life? From the start, I had a clear idea in my heart, but it has become blurred, and I find myself increasingly not recognizing myself. I am confused about what I truly want or possess, and I am unable to discern the status of certain people in my heart or distinguish between right and wrong. Rather than saying I dislike others, I would say I have started to dislike myself now, feeling both incompetent and weak. Gradually, I no longer have that innocent and cheerful foolish laugh of the past, and I have also lost my original intentions and初心.

2. 笑着笑着眼圈就红了这剧真的很棒！每个人都不完美，但心底都是很纯真善良的，看完居然感觉更像是治愈系。

2. Laughter turned to tears, and this drama is really great! Everyone is not perfect, but deep down, they are all innocent and kind-hearted. Surprisingly, after watching it, I felt it was more like a healing series.

3. 玺欢你从未觉累，爱上你从未觉悔，你是我这短暂生命中永远不变的追寻，待鹤强大，护玺为王。我用并不完美的我，去守护我心中那个完美的你，一心一意，易烊千玺

3. You've never felt tired in my affection, nor ever regretted loving you. You are the eternal pursuit in my short life. When I am strong, I will protect you as the king. With my imperfect self, I protect the perfect you in my heart, wholeheartedly, Yi Yangqianxi.

4. 有时想，到后来，我们在感情中的温柔体贴恰到好处，其实都是被另一个人培养出来的，哪里有什么你最特别，独一无二，只是因为我们都爱过。

4. Sometimes I think, by the end, the gentleness and consideration we show in our relationships are actually cultivated by another person. Where is there anything that is uniquely special to you, anything one of a kind? It's all just because we have all loved.

5. 有人说我们的生活是由我们不断的选择所决定的。但并不是这些选择让我们与众不同。而是我们所做的工作。

5. Some say that our lives are determined by the continuous choices we make. However, it is not these choices that set us apart. It is what we do.

6. 有些人，注定走进朝堂，锦衣玉食。有些人，注定竹篱茅舍，粗茶淡饭。这些都不重要，重要的是，用你喜欢的方式度过一生。

6. Some people are destined to enter the palace and live in luxury, dressed in fine clothes and feasting on delicacies. Some are destined to live in bamboo huts and subsist on coarse tea and simple meals. What matters is not this; the important thing is to spend your life in the way you like.

7. 每个人都不完美，每个人都有不足，这一点自己得明白，然后慢慢地放下在意自己的强弱，放下在意别人的强弱，只想怎么能让自己的优势发挥得更好。

7. Everyone is imperfect, everyone has shortcomings. This is something one must realize for oneself, and then gradually let go of the concern over one's own strengths and weaknesses, and over others' strengths and weaknesses, and focus on how to better bring out one's own advantages.

8. 不要去羡慕别人所拥有的幸福。你以为你没有的，可能在来的路上，你以为她拥有的，可能在去的途中。有的人对你好，是因为你对他好。有的人对你好，是因为懂得你的好。

8. Do not envy the happiness that others possess. What you think you don't have might be on its way to you, and what you think they have might be on its way out. Some people are nice to you because you are nice to them. Some people are nice to you because they understand your goodness.

9. 我们来到这个世界，都是独一无二的，没有复制，没有相似，我是我，你是你。

9. We all come into this world as unique individuals, without replicas or similarities; I am me, and you are you.

10. 不要羡慕别人拥有的，你羡慕的也许是别人不屑的，你所拥有的也许正是别人渴望的。我们都有着属于自己的独一无二，一定要珍惜不要轻言放弃。

10. Do not envy what others possess. What you envy may be something others disdain, and what you have may be what others yearn for. We all have something unique that belongs to us. We must cherish it and never speak lightly of giving up.

11. 形容世界上的人都是独一无二人的名言。人的性格各异，就像世界上没有相同的叶子一样，每个人也是不一样的，都有自己的风采，现在看看形容世界上的人都是独一无二人的名言。

11. A famous saying that describes people in the world as being unique and one-of-a-kind. People have diverse personalities, just like there are no two identical leaves in the world, each person is different, with their own charm. Now, let's take a look at the famous saying that describes people in the world as being unique and one-of-a-kind.

12. 每个人都是独一无二的，你也是，你的真诚深深打动了我，在寂寞的岁月里，我不害怕，因为我知道，你都在。

12. Everyone is unique, and so are you. Your sincerity deeply moved me, and in the lonely years, I am not afraid because I know that you are always there.

13. 我们都认为自己的经历是独一无二的，但我们没有意识到的是，大多数发生在我们身上的事情，或早或晚，我们都会以不同的方式经历。只有很少的事情让我们与众不同。

13. We all believe that our experiences are unique, but what we fail to realize is that most of the things that happen to us, sooner or later, we will experience in different ways. Only a few things truly set us apart.

14. 一种友情，浅遇深藏；一种对望，静守碎念。那是朵枯萎了也不肯丢的花；那是把雨停了也不肯收的伞。

14. A friendship, superficial encounters deeply hidden; a gaze, silently guarding fleeting thoughts. It's a flower that refuses to be discarded even when withered; it's an umbrella that refuses to be folded even when the rain has stopped.

15. 现实世界中每个人在某一方面都是无能的，而在另一方面却是独一无二的天才，接受自己，相信自己。

15. In the real world, everyone is incompetent in some aspects and a unique genius in others. Accept yourself and believe in yourself.

16. 人真正的魅力，不是你给对方留下了美好的第一印象;而是对方认识你多年后，仍喜欢和你在一起。也不是你瞬间吸引了对方的目光;而是对方熟悉你以后，依然欣赏你。更不是初次见面后，就有相见恨晚的感觉;而是历尽沧桑后，能由衷地说，能认识你真好。

16. The true charm of a person is not the beautiful first impression you leave on someone; rather, it is the fact that after years of knowing you, they still enjoy being around you. It's not that you instantly capture someone's attention; it is after getting to know you that they continue to appreciate you. And it's not that you feel regret for not meeting each other sooner after the first encounter; rather, it is only after going through many trials and tribulations that you can sincerely say, it's really nice to have met you.

17. 写这篇文章的因缘，是被《明朝那些事儿》里的一段话所触动，感想万千，所以付之笔端。

17. The reason for writing this article is that a passage from "Ming Dynasty: The Stories" touched me deeply, evoking a myriad of thoughts, so I decided to put them down in writing.

18. 不论顺利也好，坎坷也罢，生活中所有的遭遇我们都要淡然接受，永远做生活的强者，不做生活的逃兵。

18. Whether it goes smoothly or encounters obstacles, we should calmly accept all the experiences in life. We should always be the strong ones in life, never the ones who run away from it.

19. 这个世界太大了。无论你觉得自己多优秀，多独特，多有个性，或者多变态，多阴暗，多没良心——你永远不会孤独。因为世界上没有独一无二这回事。

19. The world is too big. No matter how great, unique, individual, or abnormal, or how dark, unscrupulous, or heartless you may feel, you will never be alone. Because there is no such thing as being uniquely one-of-a-kind in the world.

20. 所有的人都是独一无二的，有些人之所以独一无二，是因为他们知道这一点。

20. All people are unique, and some are unique because they know this.

21. 虽然这个世界并不完美，但有了你谁还需要完美。谢谢你，一个爱上天津煎饼果子的你，一个把小鸭认成小鸡的你，一个天天被我气的你，一个半夜异地跑回来给我过生日的你，一个为了给我买好吃的而努力的你一个很爱我的你。

21. Though this world is not perfect, with you, who needs perfection? Thank you, the one who falls in love with Tianjin crepe, the one who mistakes a duck for a chick, the one who gets upset with me every day, the one who runs back from a distant place in the middle of the night to celebrate my birthday with me, the one who works hard to buy delicious food for me, and the one who loves me very much.

22. 神烦。莫名的烦，每天看着那些琐琐碎碎的，感觉没有什么意思。不是天气的原因，我感觉我现在在一个临界点，可能会爆发，也可能会压下去。每个人都不完美，但是能控制自己，能调节自己，才厉害。我这人很直白，我也很坦诚。我不喜欢这种很压抑的感觉，也不喜欢冷嘲热讽的对话。我喜欢平平淡淡，稳稳定定的。调整自己，继续努力，自己的潜力还没挖掘出来。

22. I'm really annoyed. Annoyed for no apparent reason, I feel that looking at all these trivial things every day is meaningless. It's not because of the weather; I feel like I'm at a breaking point, I might burst out or I might suppress it. No one is perfect, but being able to control and regulate oneself is what's impressive. I'm very straightforward and honest. I don't like this feeling of being suppressed, nor do I like sarcastic and mocking conversations. I prefer a simple and stable life. Adjust myself, keep striving, and my potential is yet to be fully tapped.

23. 虽然人们对于自身，以及关于人生各种问题的意见，无法理解，也无法清楚说明，却还是抱持自己坚守的行动法则而活着。

23. Despite the fact that people cannot understand or clearly articulate their opinions about themselves and various life issues, they still live by their own steadfast principles of action.

24. 我之所以写徐霞客，是想告诉你：所谓百年功名、千秋霸业、万古流芳，与一件事情相比，其实算不了什么。这件事情就是——用你喜欢的方式度过一生。”

24. The reason I wrote about Xu Xiake is to tell you that in comparison to a single thing, so-called century-long achievements, millennium-old empires, and eternal fame actually mean very little. That one thing is—spending your entire life in the way you like.

25. 所有的怪物都是人的影子。谁不是世界上独一无二的怪物。

25. All monsters are shadows of humans. Who is not a unique monster in the world?

26. 希望以后你可以活得很开心，做你喜欢做的事累的时候喝喝酒吹吹风，买你想要拥有的，过你想要的生活。

26. I hope you can live happily in the future, doing the things you like. When you're tired, have a drink and enjoy the breeze, buy what you want to own, and live the life you want.

27. 人生在世，要看他起高楼，要看他宴宾客，眼看他楼塌了。不要去羡慕别人，也不要嘲笑别人，各有各的频率，各有各的归宿。

27. In the course of life, one should witness his construction of a tall building, his entertaining of guests, and watch as his building collapses. Do not envy others, nor mock others, for each has their own frequency and their own destination.

28. 岳不群最后很成功。他打败了嵩山派左冷禅，立于五岳之巅，号令武林。可看看他的一生，为了获得林家《辟邪剑谱》处心积虑，为了麻痹武林同道戴了一辈子虚伪面具。挥刀自宫，妻离子散，师徒反目，真不知道他所为何来？

28. Yue Buqun was finally very successful. He defeated Zuo Lengchan of the Songshan sect, standing at the peak of the five mountains, commanding the martial arts world. But looking at his life, he was meticulously plotting to obtain the Lin family's "Deflecting Sword Manual," wearing a mask of hypocrisy for his whole life to deceive his martial arts companions. He amputated his own genitals with a sword, his family scattered, his master and apprentice turned against each other. One truly doesn't know what he was seeking in life?

29. 从来都只有好聚，哪有好散。最后喜欢变成了不甘，深爱变成了心酸，思念变成了心烦，主动变成了纠缠。

29. There's always a good start, but never a good end. Eventually, liking turns into resentment, deep love into heartache, longing into irritation, and taking the initiative into entanglement.

30. 不要干涉别人的课题，也不让别人干涉自己的课题。

30. Do not interfere with others' projects, nor allow others to interfere with your own projects.

31. 我认为所有人想要的幸福就是在他们眼里，这个世界上只有两种人，别人，你。

31. I believe that what everyone wants is happiness, where in their eyes, this world only has two kinds of people: others, and you.

32. 任何关系都不能要求完美，一方的完美是对另一方的施暴。60分就好，在关系中间每个人都承受一些不完美，压力就不会在一个人身上，大家就会是舒适的愉快的。

32. No relationship can be expected to be perfect; one side's perfection is a form of violence against the other. A score of 60 is good enough; everyone in a relationship has to endure some imperfections, so the pressure won't be on one person alone, and everyone will be comfortable and happy.

33. 孩子会不断测试，从中找到成功的方法，甚至长大成人后还会反复使用，这就形成了孩子的生活型态。感觉说的很对，小时候就是，感觉每天笑一笑，大人就会很开心，于是我也会很开心，于是养成了我喜欢天天笑的性格。如果我每天都在生气，可能我以后会养成天天生气的坏脾气。

33. Children will continuously test and find successful methods from them, even after they grow up, they will repeatedly use them, which forms their lifestyle. It feels very true, it was like that when I was young, I felt that if I smiled every day, the adults would be very happy, and then I would also be very happy, and thus I developed a character that loves to laugh every day. If I were to be angry every day, I might develop a bad habit of being angry every day in the future.

34. 我没有备份的习惯，给你的，都是独一无二的。

34. I'm not in the habit of making backups, so what I give to you is all unique.

35. 只有自己能打造一路走来的人生，也只有自己能创造今后的人生。

35. Only one can forge the life journey that has been walked, and only one can create the life to come.

36. 每个人物都不完美但因此而饱满从庄园中看到的是整个历史的发展时代的更迭和庄园里每个人的成长。

36. Each character is not perfect, but it is this imperfection that makes them full of life. From the manor, one can see the entire development of history, the change of eras, and the growth of each individual within the manor.

37. 所谓生活型态(性格)是指生活癖好、惯有的行为模式等，也就是一般情况下所说的个性、人格。但性格给人无法改变的印象过于强烈，所以阿德勒大胆使用生活型态一词来取代。他认为生活型态不是因果律主张的天生的东西，而是可以依自己的意愿决定的东西，所以随时都有改变的可能性。

37. The so-called lifestyle (personality) refers to hobbies, habitual behavior patterns, etc., which is what is generally referred to as personality or character. However, the impression that character gives, that it is unchangeable, is too strong, so Adler boldly uses the term "lifestyle" to replace it. He believes that lifestyle is not something predetermined by causal laws and is something that can be decided according to one's own will, so there is always the possibility of change.

38. 也许，我可以给你，我爱你的理由是：我爱你，爱是可以让我成为这样一个独一无二的我这样一个独一无二的你。

38. Perhaps, I can give you the reasons why I love you: I love you because love allows me to become this unique and one-of-a-kind me, and this unique and one-of-a-kind you.

39. 人生或许就是这样，只有走过最灰暗无光的日子，生活才会慢慢地好转，世界才会更加温暖地靠近自己。

39. Life may just be like that, only after walking through the darkest and most desolate days, will life gradually improve, and the world will come closer to oneself in a warmer manner.

40. 好的坏的就照单全收吧，不要任何事情都跟别人讲出来，毕竟这世上真的没有感同身受，只能冷暖自知。

40. Accept the good and the bad as they come, and don't share everything with others. After all, there is truly no way to empathize with others in this world; you can only feel the warmth or coldness within yourself.

41. 成长也许就是越来越沉默，就是将哭声调成静音的过程，把情绪收到别人看不到的地方，一个人学会坚强。

41. Growth may be the process of becoming increasingly silent, the process of turning the crying into silence, of keeping emotions in a place where others cannot see them, and of learning to be strong on one's own.

42. 每个人都很脆弱，所以脆弱并不丢人。允许自己脆弱，允许自己休息，允许自己哭泣如果还不行，记得去寻求帮助。每个人都不完美，不要太苛求自己。

42. Everyone is fragile, so being fragile is not a shame. Allow yourself to be fragile, allow yourself to rest, allow yourself to cry. If that's not enough, remember to seek help. No one is perfect, don't be too hard on yourself.

43. 除了受害者和罪人之外，上帝是唯一的和唯一的力量，他宽恕所有的罪，接受所有的遗憾。

43. Besides the victims and the sinners, God is the only and the only power, who forgives all sins and accepts all regrets.

44. 一个人可以被摧毁，但绝不能自毁，永远不要急着去否定自己，很多时候，你远比自己想象中的更加优秀。

44. A person can be destroyed, but never self-destruct. Never rush to negate yourself. Often, you are far more outstanding than you imagine.

45. 每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分，再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，也不要埋怨自己。

45. In everyone's personality, there are certain parts that are unacceptable to others, even in the most wonderful people. Therefore, do not be too demanding of others, nor complain about yourself.

46. 爱被验证为当一方遇见另一方时，生命出现了不可抵抗乃至摧毁性的变化……它必须以生命的形式独一无二地奉献给一个特定的人。爱是各自一生的独白。

46. Love has been proven to be a life-altering, even destructive change when one meets another... It must be uniquely dedicated to a specific person in the form of life. Love is each person's monologue of a lifetime.

47. 唯有靠理性说服对方，才是成熟大人达成目标的方法。只有彼此理性地沟通，才能得到双赢的结果。理性才能最终解决问题，一切以感性开头的，不管是哭闹，大吵大闹其实都解决不了问题。要静下心来，两方坐下来，理性看到问题才能找到原因。

47. The only mature way to achieve one's goals is to persuade others through reason. Only through rational communication can a win-win outcome be achieved. It is reason that can ultimately solve problems; everything that starts with emotion, whether it be crying, raging, or loud disturbances, cannot solve the problem. One must calm down, sit down with both parties, and only by looking at the problem rationally can the cause be found.

48. 最重要的问题，不是从何处来，而是要往何处去。

48. The most important question is not where we come from, but where we are going.

49. 魑魅魍魉，莫不都是人们自己的影子。谁不是这世界独一无二的怪兽。

49. Demons, ghosts, and monsters, they are all the shadows of people's own selves. Who isn't a unique monster in this world?

50. 如果你可以独一无二，为什么要和别人一样；如果你可以被广泛的观察，为什么要隐藏光芒。

50. If you can be unique, why be like others; if you can be widely observed, why hide your brilliance.