在浩瀚的宇宙中，一场“领导气质差异”的较量正在悄然上演。非你即他，这场关于领导力的较量，究竟谁将脱颖而出，引领时代潮流？

In the vast universe, a competition of "differences in leadership temperament" is quietly unfolding. It's either you or him, this contest of leadership - who will stand out and lead the trend of the times?

1. 我要准备双12了，你们快说想要什么！！！双11那次太仓促了。

1. I'm getting ready for Double 12! Quick, tell me what you want!!! The Double 11 sale was too rushed.

2. 人生的价值，庸夫用享乐多少来衡量，英雄用创业多少来计算。思想的差异造就了世界上形形色色的人们。

2. The value of life is measured by the amount of pleasure the common man seeks, and by the amount of entrepreneurship the hero calculates. The differences in thought create the diverse people in the world.

3. “人”，最简单的两笔，却是最难写好的字。做人，应当象”人”字一样，永远向上而又双脚踏地。

3. "Person," the simplest of two strokes, yet the hardest to write well. To be a person, one should be like the character "人," ever reaching upwards while both feet are firmly planted on the ground.

4. 昨天诚可贵，明天价更高，若为今天故，二者都要抛。人生只有三天，做人不能只停留在过去，或寄梦于未来，唯独忘记了最重要的现在！

4. Yesterday is valuable, tomorrow is more so, but if for today's sake, both should be discarded. Life has only three days, and one cannot merely stay in the past or dream about the future, forgetting the most important present!

5. 神秘，有些不可思议，人们无法知道你在想什么或希望什么。象在生辰天宫图中受海王星影响较强的人一样，这一星座的人有点乌托邦的思想倾向。生活上也经常得过且过。在困难或矛盾面前你不喜欢让步，总渴望有奇迹般的解决办法，而当需要你做出决择时，你又常常束手无策。

5. Mysterious, somewhat incredible, people cannot know what you are thinking or hoping for. Like those who are strongly influenced by Neptune in their birth chart, people of this zodiac sign tend to have a bit of an utopian ideological inclination. In life, they often just muddle through. In the face of difficulties or contradictions, you do not like to give in, always longing for miraculous solutions. However, when it comes to making a decision, you often find yourself at a loss.

6. 你不能忍受孤独，本能地受到团体的吸引和影响。周围的一切都会在你的思想中打上烙印，有时是很深的。你的思想有时会飞到虚无缥缈的世界中，有时也会陶醉在音乐、绘画、诗歌和幻想的美好意境中。

6. You cannot endure loneliness and are instinctively drawn to and influenced by groups. Everything around you will leave an imprint on your thoughts, sometimes quite deeply. Your thoughts will sometimes soar into a world of ethereal nothingness, and at other times, you may be lost in the wonderful artistic visions of music, painting, poetry, and fantasy.

7. 而安静不受打扰的睡眠，对他们而言非常重要。由于他们的感官敏感，所以这一天出生的人喜欢按摩或各种形式的感官刺激。此外，他们可以成为很优秀的厨师，因为他们有办法创新菜色，也有办法将旧食谱翻新。不过，必须当心的是，别因胃口太好而大吃特吃。还有，在烹调食物时，要特别注意不要加入太多的油脂；当然，低脂肪的减肥饮食也是值得持续进行的。另外，每天适度而规律的运动，也非常适合2月23日出生的人。

7. And for them, quiet and undisturbed sleep is very important. Due to their sensitive senses, people born on this day enjoy massages or various forms of sensory stimulation. Moreover, they can become excellent chefs because they have the ability to innovate dishes and also to revamp old recipes. However, one must be careful not to overindulge due to a good appetite. Additionally, when cooking, one should pay special attention to not adding too much oil; of course, a low-fat weight loss diet is also worth continuing. Moreover, moderate and regular exercise every day is also very suitable for people born on February 23rd.

8. 种子不贪求地下的温暖、舒适；它冲破泥土，昂首经受大自然的雨露风霜，茁壮成长，扬花结果。

8. The seed does not seek the warmth and comfort of the earth below; it breaks through the soil, proudly endures the rain, frost, and wind of nature, grows robustly, and blooms to bear fruit.

9. 看清了很多人，却不能随意拆穿；讨厌着很多人，却又不能轻易翻脸。有时候，生活就是要逼自己变得逆来顺受，宠辱不惊。

9. I have seen many people clearly, yet I cannot expose them at will; I dislike many people, yet I cannot easily turn against them. Sometimes, life is about forcing oneself to be accommodating to adversities and remain undisturbed by honor or disgrace.

10. 生辰星位在处女座的女性是个严谨而能干的好主妇，她能扶佐你的事业，照管好你的财产，主动地承担家庭的责任。

10. A woman with her natal star in Virgo is a strict and capable homemaker, capable of supporting your career, managing your wealth, and actively taking on the responsibilities of the family.

11. 小领导得知后，如遭掌掴，火冒三丈，在众目睽睽之下，对这位女同事兴师问罪，口出恶言。女同事哪里受得了，当场委屈痛哭，回家去了。

11. Upon hearing the news, the junior leader, feeling as if he had been slapped in the face, was incensed and, in the presence of everyone, accused this female colleague of wrongdoing, using foul language. The female colleague could not bear it, burst into tears on the spot, and went home.

12. 我将努力采取行动，因为我确信我所做的事将使情况改观。

12. I will strive to take action, as I am firmly convinced that what I do will improve the situation.

13. 这一生，要为自己好好活毕竟人生是自己的，活给别人看，终究不快乐。人生，有太多身不由己，好好做自己。把不高兴的丢弃，把不喜欢的抛开。

13. In this life, one must live well for oneself, for life is one's own, and living for others' sake will never bring happiness. Life has too many things that are not under one's control, so be true to oneself. Discard what makes you unhappy and shed what you dislike.

14. 你的思想中经常有些模糊不清的概念，最好教你一些逻辑思维的方法，和培养你专心致志的精神和能力，这样可避免你以后误入空想和对事业无所追求的趋向。富于想象和逃避现实的愿望，在这一座的孩子身上表现得尤为突出。要提防你结交坏朋友而吸毒或出走。如果能博得你的好感和信赖，你会出色地做好人们对你期望的一切，要充分发挥你的善良的本性。

14. There are often some unclear concepts in your thoughts, so it would be best to teach you some methods of logical thinking and cultivate your focus and determination. This can help prevent you from falling into daydreams and losing interest in pursuing your career in the future. The desire for imagination and escape from reality is particularly prominent in children growing up in this environment. Be cautious of making bad friends who may lead you to drugs or running away. If you can win their favor and trust, you will excel in doing everything people expect of you, and fully develop your kind nature.

15. 女子12岁称金钗之年，13岁称豆蔻年华，15岁称及笄之年，16岁称碧玉年华，20岁称桃李年华，24岁称花信年华，出嫁女子称梅之年。

15. A girl at 12 is said to be in her "golden hairpin" years, at 13 in her "mung bean sprout" years, at 15 in her "coming-of-age" years, at 16 in her "jade" years, at 20 in her "peach and plum" years, at 24 in her "flower's promise" years, and for a married woman, in her "plum" years.

16. 理解，宽容，忍让，知足，多听看，少说道。责己严，责人宽。做人要本分，有责任感，办事要踏实，有轻重。心中想要什么，自己能做哪些！拿双乔11应应景。

16. Understand, be tolerant, be accommodating, be content, listen and observe more, and talk less. Be strict with yourself and lenient with others. Be honest and responsible in your conduct, and be reliable and sensible in handling matters. Understand what you desire and what you can do yourself! Embrace the spirit of the Double Ninth Festival with a pair of joyous, well-suited companions.

17. 所以，让自己脾气硬起来，做事狠起来，同时把本职工作做好，这样，领导才会敬重你。

17. Therefore, toughen up your temperament, be harsh in your actions, while doing your job well. In this way, the leaders will respect you.

18. 自己做不到，就觉得别人也做不到，其实这是一种很常见的以己度人的思维定势，比如常见的自己穷，就觉得别人在装逼，自己没能力，就觉得别人一定有干爹，自己买不起，就觉得贵东西不值当。然后回到自己的小圈子里，觉得世界唯我独好。

18. When you can't do something, you think that others can't do it either, which is actually a very common mindset of projecting one's own limitations onto others. For example, if you are poor, you might think that others are pretending to be cool; if you lack ability, you might assume that others must have a wealthy benefactor; if you can't afford something, you might think that expensive things are not worth it. Then you retreat to your own little circle and believe that the world is only good for you.

19. 站在人生的十字路口，进退两难，苦笑不得，爱莫能助，身不由己，身体与思想完全不听大脑指挥

19. Standing at the crossroads of life, caught between two choices, unable to laugh in my distress, willing to help but unable to do so, my body and mind are completely unresponsive to the commands of my brain.

20. 每个人都有睡不着的时候，不是不想睡，是有太多的纠缠，太多的放不下。 不是不累，而是有太多的苦衷，太多的负累。 心不静，则意乱，意乱则神迷。 清水无忧，皆因随性，落叶无憾，皆因心空。 放下所有，夜来赏月，秋来临风。 人生，就是半梦半醒！ 心有多远，你就能走多远，做一个温暖的人，浅浅笑，轻轻爱。 但是，要去相信，相信美好，相信良善，相信最末的青春还在我们手上。

20. Everyone has nights when they can't sleep, not because they don't want to, but because there are too many entanglements, too much that they can't let go of. It's not that they're not tired, but rather that there are too many regrets, too much burden. The mind is restless, leading to confusion, and confusion to a sense of bewilderment. Clear water is worry-free because it follows its nature, and falling leaves have no regrets because their hearts are empty. Let go of everything, and enjoy the moon at night, the autumn breeze in the coming season. Life is half dream, half awake! The farther your heart reaches, the farther you can go. Be a warm person, smile softly, and love gently. However, believe, believe in beauty, believe in goodness, and believe that the best of youth is still in our hands.

21. 性格特征：内心美好的愿望使得你为人处世真诚、善良，很少为自己着想。你是沟通挚爱和友谊的真正使者。但是你的性格也存在着脆弱的一面：过分的自我牺牲精神或任凭别人得寸进尺。你的精神状态很大程度上取决于你所受到的鼓舞。你的情绪缺乏连贯性，容易趋向飘乎不定。

21. Character Traits: Your inner good wishes make you sincere and kind in your interactions with others, rarely thinking of yourself. You are a true messenger of profound love and friendship. However, your character also has a fragile side: excessive self-sacrifice or allowing others to take advantage. Your mental state largely depends on the encouragement you receive. Your emotions lack consistency and tend to be capricious.

22. 其实爱上一个人没有解药，我的静脉流着爱陪你到老，但是你已缺席。

22. In fact, there's no cure for falling in love with someone. My veins flow with love to accompany you until old age, but you are already absent.

23. 正人先正己说白了你也就是一个唯利是图的伪君子我们最起码还是一股清流

23. The saying "one must first correct oneself before correcting others" boils down to the fact that you are just a mercenary hypocrite. At the very least, we are still a stream of purity.

24. 人生要求真，以真诚对待他人；人生要求美，以美丽装点世界；人生要求知，以知识带动文明；人生要求善，以宽容丰富生命！

24. Life demands sincerity, treating others with honesty; life demands beauty, adorning the world with loveliness; life demands knowledge, propelling civilization with wisdom; life demands kindness, enriching life with tolerance!

25. 生活的质量，不在于经历多少苦难而厚重，生活的意义在于用一种平静的心情去和世界链接。身边的世界，不管是水流花开，还是皓月当空，生活的意义，在于能够品味生活，也许来自最平凡的脸红脖子粗，也许来自空山不见人的哲学高度，生命是一种自觉与观照。

25. The quality of life does not lie in the depth of suffering experienced, but in connecting with the world with a calm heart. Whether it is the flowing water and blooming flowers around us, or the bright moon in the sky, the meaning of life lies in the ability to savor it. It may come from the simplest instances of blushing and redness of the neck, or from the philosophical heights of a mountain where no one can be seen. Life is a state of self-awareness and contemplation.

26. 车能予人方便，水能予人解渴，树能予人乘凉，蜡烛予人光明。物被利用就是宝贝，人不被利用就是废物！

26. Cars can bring convenience to people, water can quench thirst, trees can provide shade, and candles can bring light. Things that are put to good use are treasures, while people who are not utilized are waste!

27. 今天付出一分的努力，可换取明天十分安乐，今天透支一分安乐，可换取明天十分饥寒。人一生中最可怕是无所事事，最可恨是无所追求，最可悲是无所作为。

27. Today's one percent effort can bring ten times the comfort tomorrow, and today's one percent of comfort can bring ten times the hardship tomorrow. The most terrifying thing in a person's life is idleness, the most hateful is the lack of pursuit, and the most tragic is the lack of action.

28. 双鱼座女性的兴趣面比较集中。物质或钱对你吸引力不大，甚至对其缺乏必要的概念。有管理家政和经济方面，你需要有人协助。

28. Pisces women have a relatively focused range of interests. Materialism or money does not hold much attraction for you, and you may even lack a necessary concept of it. In managing household and economic matters, you need someone to assist you.

29. 很想多陪陪你，无奈身不由己。请谅解，我爱你。

29. I really want to spend more time with you, but unfortunately, I'm not in control of my own body. Please forgive me, I love you.

30. 当你感觉不是因为自己的存在而活着的时候，当你觉得不得不为某些事情而尽力费心的时候，当你觉得必须去做一些并不是自己喜欢做的事情的时候，明你已经成熟了！

30. When you feel that you are not living because of your own existence, when you feel that you have to put in extra effort and worry for certain things, when you feel that you have to do things that you do not like, then you have already matured!

31. 双11你们想要什么时候开始？中午、下午还是晚上？

31. When would you like to start the Double 11 event? At noon, in the afternoon, or in the evening?

32. 一直讨厌做一个迎合的人，却总总会身不由己。在错综复杂微妙的关系中只会感觉到无聊没意义

32. I have always disliked being someone who caters to others, yet I often find myself unable to help it. In the intricate and delicate relationships, I can only feel boredom and meaninglessness.

33. 人生之晨是工作，人生之午是评议，人生之夜是祈祷。人生只要知道负责任的苦处，生活就会体验尽责任的乐处。

33. The morning of life is work, the noon is criticism, and the night is prayer. As long as one knows the bitterness of responsibility in life, one will experience the joy of fulfilling responsibilities.

34. 人生第一要务，就在于发展自己的能力，贮藏自己的精力，维护自己的健康，使自己在做任何事的时候都能使出全力！

34. The primary task in life is to develop one's abilities, conserve one's energy, and maintain one's health, so that one can give one's all in everything one does!

35. 事后，小领导在单位大会上，当众给这位女同事鞠躬道歉。

35. Subsequently, the junior leader bowed and apologized publicly to this female colleague at a unit meeting.

36. 人的一生都有两本存折：一是有形的，钱、财、物；二是无形的，关爱、责任、爱心、谦卑。修身立业是古今做人的行为宗旨。

36. A person's life has two savings books: one is tangible, containing money, wealth, and material goods; the other is intangible, including love, responsibility, compassion, and humility. Cultivating oneself and establishing a career is the principle behavior of being a person throughout history.

37. 世界上最恶心的事情，就是你看见了一个人虚伪的一面，可是其他人没看见，他们以为他就是表面上的那么美好。

37. The most despicable thing in the world is when you see a person's insincere side, but others don't see it; they think he is as beautiful on the surface as he appears to be.

38. 生理发展在成年之前影响最大，心理发展在中年阶段显现明显，精神发展在生命最后尤为突出。风度和皱纹结合的人生极其可爱，聪慧的暮年总会迸发耀眼的光芒。

38. Physiological development has the greatest impact before adulthood, psychological development becomes apparent in middle age, and spiritual development is especially prominent in the final stages of life. The combination of elegance and wrinkles is incredibly charming, and the wise twilight years always burst into radiant brilliance.

39. 人们的行为，受习惯支配，而习惯的形成，源于人生态度和价值观。一个对别的事满不在乎，只在意喜欢的、"重要"的工作的人，可见还没有养成凡事认真的习惯，根源在于没有养成积极的人生态度和良好的价值观。只有端正态度，改善价值观，才能真正事业有成。

39. People's behavior is dominated by habits, and the formation of habits originates from life attitudes and values. A person who is indifferent to other things and only cares about their favorite, "important" work can be seen as not having developed the habit of taking everything seriously, the root of which lies in not having developed a positive life attitude and good values. Only by correcting one's attitude and improving values can one truly achieve success in their career.

40. 其实，爱情和性欲是两回事。当然，当性欲和爱情都强烈时，性的体验最佳。

40. In fact, love and sexual desire are two different things. Of course, when both love and sexual desire are strong, the sexual experience is at its best.

41. 这世间总有一些张扬张狂煽风点火张牙舞爪的无聊之人，巴不得，制造点烽烟，以为很得意就能看一出好戏，却不知，到头来真正暴露的，是一个人内心的真实品性，不过是一场自导自演的鼠目寸光闹剧。

41. There are always some restless and overbearing people in this world, who can't wait to stir up trouble, thinking that by creating some smoke and fire, they can enjoy a good show. Yet they don't realize that what is truly exposed in the end is the true nature of a person's inner character, which is merely a narrow-minded farce directed and performed by themselves.

42. 每个人或多或少，都会有那么一点恋物的情结。它不一定是物品，也许是某种香味、或对某种触感的眷恋，或者……某个抽象的东西。这就像是某部份心理的投射，是一种情怀。它可以是很复杂的心理因素，也可以是很简单的欲望满足。

42. To some extent, everyone has a bit of an object-oriented complex. It doesn't necessarily have to be an object; it could be a certain scent, a fondness for a certain texture, or perhaps... something abstract. It's like a projection of a part of the psyche, a kind of sentiment. It can be a complex psychological factor, or it can be a simple fulfillment of desire.

43. 双鱼座的人有可能终生都充满着幻想，你最好选择需要幻想或想象的职业，音乐、艺术创作、**、电视、戏剧、尤其是舞蹈。海洋环境或与水有关的职业对你也是十分有利的。双鱼座的人的经济条件常常处于不稳定状态，有时生活很宽裕有时候经济拮据，这处不稳定常常给你带来烦恼。每当这个时候，你总想用回避和逃脱来自慰。双鱼座的人的财产观念相当淡漠。你很能适应环境，并认为利用别人的财产和把自己的财产拱手送给有求于自己的人一样，是理所当然的事。何况海王星又在这一座人的天宫图中有决定性的影响。

43. Pisces individuals may be filled with fantasy throughout their lives, so it's best to choose careers that require imagination or fantasy, such as music, artistic creation, **(this seems like a placeholder for a missing word or term), television, drama, especially dance. Careers related to the ocean or water are also highly favorable for them. The economic conditions of Pisces people are often unstable, sometimes living in luxury and at other times in financial strain, and this instability often brings you distress. Whenever this happens, you tend to comfort yourself with avoidance and escape. Pisces people have a rather indifferent attitude towards wealth. You are very adaptable to your environment and believe that using others' property and offering your own to those who seek your help is a matter of course. Moreover, Neptune has a decisive influence on the horoscope of people born under this sign.

44. 没有任何正式级别，充其量也只是一个小头。然而，在部门里却飞扬跋扈，肆无忌惮。员工随便放个小错误，他就破口大骂，并用上侮辱性极强的词语，态度十分嚣张。大部分员工本着多一事不如少一事的原则，敢怒不敢言。

44. There is no formal position, at most just a small head. However, he acts with an air of arrogance and recklessness within the department. If an employee makes a minor mistake, he will start shouting and use extremely insulting words, with a very aggressive attitude. Most employees, following the principle of 'better less trouble than more,' dare not express their anger.

45. 只有正直、忠诚、宽容和拥有仁爱之心的人才能够达到真正意义上的成功。不具备这些品质的人，就无法体会到成功的滋味，因为成功和幸福一样，不在于外在的富有，而在于内心的感受。

45. Only those who are upright, loyal, tolerant, and possess a heart full of compassion can achieve true success. People without these qualities cannot taste the essence of success, because success, like happiness, does not lie in external wealth, but in the inner feelings.

46. 上班的羡慕上学的，上学的又想上班。 拥有了从不珍惜，失去了追悔莫及。 曾经以为，伤心是会流很多眼泪的；原来真正的伤心，是流不出一滴眼泪。 冲出内心看世界，有一种淡定叫波澜不惊，心的平静便是一种高贵和尊严。 这个社会，是赢家通吃，输者一无所有，社会，永远都是只以成败论英雄。

46. Those who work envy those who study, and those who study wish they were working. We take for granted what we possess and regret what we lose. Once I thought that sadness was about shedding many tears; but in reality, true sadness is about not being able to shed even a single tear. To burst out of one's own heart and look at the world, there is a calmness called "unruffled," and the tranquility of the heart is a sign of nobility and dignity. In this society, the winners take all, and the losers have nothing. The society always judges heroes based on success or failure.

47. 居住条件：室内的陈设要有助于舒展心情并引起幻想。有许多神秘的和稀奇古怪的小玩意儿。意境幽雅而迷奇，有大的鱼缸，内有水生植物。

47. Living Conditions: The interior decorations should be conducive to relaxing the mood and evoke imagination. There are many mysterious and peculiar trinkets. The atmosphere is elegant and mysterious, with a large fish tank containing aquatic plants.

48. 理想旅居国：小亚细亚地区、撒哈拉沙漠、印度尼西亚、安的列斯群岛、乌拉圭。

48. Ideal countries for long-term residence: Asia Minor region, Sahara Desert, Indonesia, Antilles Islands, Uruguay.

49. 外倾性格的人容易得到很多朋友，但真朋友总是很少的。内倾者孤独，一旦获得朋友，往往是真的。

49. People with an extroverted personality are prone to have many friends, but true friends are always few. Introverts may feel lonely, but once they have friends, they are usually genuine.

50. "不只是道理，是自己亲身体验而来的真实感"成为了我以后理解真实的座右铭。

50. "Not just by reasoning, but by the authentic sense of experience" has become my motto for understanding truth from now on.

51. 世上有很多事情身不由己，比如我好想你，却有太多理由不可以。

51. There are many things in the world that we cannot control, like how much I miss you, but there are too many reasons why I can't.

52. 小人物大气，是手低眼高；大人物小气，是手高眼低。

52. A small person with a grand demeanor is one who has low hands and high eyes; a great person with a stingy demeanor is one who has high hands and low eyes.

53. 基本上，他是个讨厌跟金钱、物质有扯不清关系的人。如果本日生的人是个有钱人的话，那么他一定是个成功的艺术家，再不然就是他的伴侣是个有钱人，或者是他继承到庞大的遗产。只要别人有困难，即使对方是个陌生人，他也会把钱包中的最后一块钱送给他。这天生的人几乎没有一个是投资家，但是却乐于拿钱救助朋友。

53. Essentially, he is a person who dislikes having an entangled relationship with money and material things. If someone born on this day is wealthy, then he must be a successful artist, or else his partner is wealthy, or he has inherited a large fortune. As long as someone is in need, he will even give the last piece of money in his wallet to a stranger. People born on this day are almost never investors, but they are willing to use money to help their friends.

54. 人生须未雨绸缪，在顺境中要为逆境做准备，保自己的情绪永远不被别人主宰。如果没有深谋远虑，你将终身随波逐流。

54. Life requires being prepared for the rainy days, to prepare for adversity in times of prosperity, and to ensure that one's emotions are never controlled by others. Without deep foresight, you will drift with the current for your entire life.

55. 本日出生的人其特征是非常慷慨。对金钱和权力不关心，有也好、没有也无所谓。

55. People born on this day are characterized by extreme generosity. They are indifferent to money and power; it doesn't matter to them whether they have them or not.

56. 天啊双11要来了这意味着立刻想要什么都没法在两三天内收到了

56. Oh my God, Double 11 is coming! This means that whatever you want won't be received in two or three days.

57. 谗言狡滑虚浮；倭青悦耳动听；忠言坦白率直；信言少而精警。

57. Malicious rumors are cunning and insubstantial; Japanese blue (a musical instrument) sounds pleasing and melodious; loyal advice is straightforward and honest; sincere words are fewer but more alerting.

58. 昨天才买了挂烫机，今天我们领导在群里问大家想要什么东西的时候大家都不约而同的说想要挂烫机或者电饼铛，我就是贱，上次618买了电饼铛，这次双11买挂烫机，现在我不知道要什么啦！！！不能直接发红包给我吗？？？

58. I just bought an ironing board yesterday, and today when our leader asked everyone in the group what they wanted, everyone spontaneously said they wanted an ironing board or an electric pancake maker. I'm just too greedy. I bought an electric pancake maker during the 618 sale last time, and this time I bought an ironing board during the Double 11 sale. Now, I don't know what I want anymore!!! Can't you just send me a red packet directly???

59. 不必去冒充过得很好，其拭魅真的基础没几多人在乎。

59. There's no need to pretend you're doing well; very few people really care about your charm.

60. 很快我们最初的心就要被岁月蹉跎，很快我们就可以体会到身不由己的无可奈何。

60. Soon, the innocent hearts we once had will be eroded by the passage of time, and soon we will experience the powerlessness of being out of control.

61. 假如你是一名将领在战场上出现了一个比你要小上很多的敌方将领，而你用年事来评估对方的实力那么我可以准确的告知你你老的能够退休了。

61. If you are a general on the battlefield and encounter an enemy general who is much younger than you, and you use age to assess the strength of the opponent, then I can accurately inform you that you are too old to retire.

62. 我想你，身不由己，每个念头有新的梦境，我会永远保护你，不管风雨的打击，全心全意。

62. I miss you, helplessly, each thought brings a new dream. I will always protect you, through storms and all, with all my heart and soul.

63. 少年时代，要有礼赞生命的感恩；青年时代，要有自觉信念的价值；壮年时代，要有活水源头的精进；老年时代，要有愉悦生活的平静。

63. In one's youth, one should have gratitude for life's blessings; in one's youth, one should value the worth of conscious beliefs; in middle age, one should strive with the vigor of a spring of living water; and in old age, one should find peace in the joy of living.

64. 嫌路不够宽时，是因为心中无路，所以眼中才不会有路。

64. The reason why one feels that the road is not wide enough is because there is no road in one's heart, which is why there is no road in one's eyes.

65. 人生自我设计是必要的，没有自我设计，人生将是盲目的，自我设计是自我实现的基础，自我实现是自我设计的结果！

65. It is necessary to have a self-designed life plan. Without self-design, life will be aimless. Self-design is the foundation of self-realization, and self-realization is the result of self-design!

66. 我幻想活在春秋战国时代，战火漫天百家争鸣，乱世中的身不由己。

66. I dream of living in the Warring States period, with war flames engulfing the heavens and a hundred schools of thought contending, feeling at the mercy of the chaotic times.

67. 对待爱人最残忍的方式，不是爱恨交织，不是欺骗背叛，而是在极致的疼爱之后，逐渐淡漠的爱。

67. The most cruel way to treat a loved one is not to be entangled in love and hate, not to deceive and betray, but to have a love that gradually fades after the ultimate affection.

68. 人到中年身不由己。真亦假假亦真。无解也是解。

68. At middle age, one's body is not under one's own control. The true is false, and the false is true. No solution is also a solution.

69. 当下把握不住，过了今天，你愿或不愿，皆是往事；眼前若不珍惜，转身即逝，你认或不认，俱成流年。一眨眼，我们相遇；一瞬间，又要别离。开始也许简单，遗忘如此艰难，那些昔日人事，烙成记忆的痕印，逼迫我们在神伤中铭心。无论如何，请于时光的缝隙里，给精神留一块轻松的休憩之地。

69. If you can't grasp the present, from today on, whether you want to or not, it will all be the past; if you don't cherish what is before your eyes, it will slip away in a moment, whether you acknowledge it or not, it will become part of the flowing years. In a blink of an eye, we meet; in a moment, we must part again. The beginning may be simple, but forgetting is so difficult. Those past people and events, imprinted in our memories, force us to engrave them in our hearts in sorrow. Whatever the case, please leave a place for your spirit to rest in the gaps of time.

70. 双鱼座孩子的教育问题是不容忽视的。因为这一座的孩子适应能力相当强，你的成长和发展几乎完全取决于你周围人的影响。

70. The educational issues of Pisces children are not to be overlooked. Because the children of this sign have a strong adaptability, your growth and development are almost completely dependent on the influence of those around you.

71. 相爱并非最难，相处才是最大的挑战。爱一个人时候，你无须太计较，觉得甘愿就妥帖付出，真正的感情交付若存在问题，也只有先后的问题。有若花期错落，你开在暮春，他盛于夏初，你们相爱，一切就都是对你们的祝福。

71. Loving someone is not the hardest part; coexisting is the greatest challenge. When you love someone, you don't have to be too calculative. If you feel willing, it's fine to give freely. In true love, if there are issues, they are only about the timing. It's like the blooming of flowers, where you may bloom in late spring, and he may flourish in early summer. As long as you love each other, everything is a blessing for you both.

72. 人的一生，心情取决于心态，好心情需要好心态的滋养。

72. Throughout one's life, mood depends on mindset; a good mood requires the nurturing of a positive mindset.

73. 本命要喜滋滋地过，每天猛涨十斤肉。不管是爱是舍不得是无可奈何还是身不由己，都不是无动于衷。爱人本来就该被虚度，但手机壳不能，坚决不能。

73. Life should be lived joyfully, gaining ten pounds every day. Whether it's love, reluctance, helplessness, or being unable to control oneself, it's not indifferent. Love should be wasted, but not the phone case; absolutely not.

74. 紧紧抓住旧伤痛不放，你就只是给那些伤害你的人力量，让他们控制你。 可是当你原谅他们，你就切断了跟这些人的联结，他们就再也不能打击你。 千万不要以为宽恕他们是放他们一马，你这样做不为别的，是为了你自己。 ——力克·胡哲《人生不设限》

74. Holding onto old wounds tightly is just giving power to the people who have hurt you, allowing them to control you. But when you forgive them, you cut the connection with these people, and they can no longer hurt you. Never think that forgiving them is letting them off the hook; you do this for no other reason than for yourself. — Rick Hoogeveen, "Life Without Limits"

75. 2月23日出生的人是个实际的生活家，他们会面对现实，并将心力放在自己做得到的事情上。然而不幸的是，他们性格上却有悲观的一面，到了中老年比较容易有歇斯底里的倾向，这是这天出生的人不容否认的黑暗面。为防忧郁终老，他们必须力求精神各方面的平衡，以免老年因过份沮丧而走上自杀一途。

75. People born on February 23 are practical realists who confront reality and focus their efforts on what they can achieve. Unfortunately, they also have a pessimistic side to their character, and they are more prone to hysteria in middle and old age, which is an undeniable dark side of those born on this day. To avoid ending their lives in depression, they must strive for balance in all aspects of their spirit, to prevent themselves from resorting to suicide due to excessive melancholy in their old age.

76. 人生八不为：风不可追；钱不可贪；文不可抄；师不可骂；友不可卖；官不可买；上不可媚；下不可慢！

76. The eight things not to do in life: Do not chase the wind; do not be greedy for money; do not copy others' writing; do not curse your teacher; do not sell your friends; do not buy a government position; do not flatter those above you; do not be slow to those below you!

77. 到底为什麼双11就要买东西，完全没一个必要性，想要什麼该买的时候就买了啊，不需要什麼不用买就是不用买啊

77. Why does everyone have to buy things on Double 11? There's absolutely no necessity. If you want something, buy it when you want to, and if you don't need something, then don't buy it at all.

78. 每个人都遇到过像魔鬼一样的情人，明明知道不合适，但突然就爱上了，面不改色地说谎，口不对心地欢笑，不知道自己究竟想要什么。青春的故事里没有几个不是鲜血淋漓的，谁也怨恨不得。

78. Everyone has encountered a lover like the devil. Even though they know it's not suitable, they suddenly fall in love, lie without a blush, laugh insincerely, and don't know what they really want. Most stories of youth are dripping with blood, and no one can blame or resent anyone.

79. 不要以为披上了神圣的袈裟，就是一个正经的和尚。

79. Don't think that by wearing the sacred robe, you are a serious monk.

80. 人的一生，既不是人们想象的那么好，也不是人们想象的那么坏。人生最大的快乐不在于占有什么，而在于追求的过程。

80. Life is neither as good as people imagine, nor as bad as they imagine. The greatest joy of life does not lie in possessing, but in the pursuit itself.

81. 要知道，一个有修养，有素质、讲政策的领导，一定是善待群众的。欺负人的领导，一定是制度的败类，人人得而诛之。

81. To know, a leader with cultivation, quality, and a sense of policy must necessarily treat the masses kindly. A leader who bullies people is definitely a scoundrel of the system, and everyone should have the right to punish him.

82. 对比多了，欲壑会扩张；攀比多了，心态常失衡。任何人心中，都有些自己才能理解的东西，莫用他人的繁华，模糊了心灵的追逐，效仿最好的别人，不如演绎最真的自己。做自己，就要找到自己的原点，顺着自己选择的路径，无怨悔走自己的路，全身心看自己的景，泪不轻弹，苦不言弃，直至终点。

82. The more we compare, the more our desires expand; the more we engage in keeping up with others, our mindset often becomes unbalanced. Anyone has something in their heart that only they can understand, so don't let others' prosperity blur the pursuit of your own soul. It's better to embody the truest version of yourself rather than imitating the best in others. To be yourself, you need to find your own starting point, follow the path you have chosen, walk your own road without regret or complaints, immerse yourself fully in your own scenery, do not shed tears lightly, and do not give up in the face of hardship, until you reach the end.

83. 20xx，在疲惫不堪中度过，在心力交瘁中度过，在悔恨交加中度过，在孤独无助中度过，在身不由己中度过，在委屈求全中度过，在碌碌无为中度过

83. In the year 20xx, spent in exhaustion, in the weariness of the heart, in the midst of regret, in loneliness and helplessness, in helplessness, in compromise, and in the drudgery of aimlessness.

84. 青春仅仅是一个短暂的美梦，当你醒来时，它早已消失无踪。人生最要紧的，不是你站在什么地方，而是你要朝什么方向走。

84. Youth is merely a fleeting beautiful dream, when you wake up, it has already vanished without a trace. What is most important in life is not where you stand, but in which direction you are walking.