在浩瀚的知识海洋中，标题的修改如同灯塔，指引我们避开老实的陷阱，只忠诚于真实的事务。今天，就让我们共同揭开这扇智慧之门，探寻真理的足迹。

Amid the vast ocean of knowledge, the revision of titles is like a lighthouse, guiding us to avoid the pitfalls of naivety and remain faithful to the true matters. Today, let us共同揭开 this door of wisdom and trace the footsteps of truth.

1. 这年头，没人想当笨蛋，也没人想当坏蛋，因而没有人想让人家说自己太老实，也没有人想让人家说自己太精明。聪明人懂得行中庸之道。

1. Nowadays, no one wants to be seen as a fool or a villain, so no one wants others to say they are too honest or too cunning. Wise people understand the way of moderation.

2. 在职场中，有些行为可能会影响到你的职业声誉和人际关系，甚至可能导致职业生涯的挫折。不要参与任何欺诈或不诚信的行为，如虚报开支、伪造数据等。

2. In the workplace, certain behaviors may affect your professional reputation and interpersonal relationships, and even lead to setbacks in your career. Do not participate in any fraudulent or dishonest actions, such as falsely reporting expenses or fabricating data.

3. 自学学习提示，明确要求，确定自己的观点；（

3. Learning hints for self-study: clearly state requirements, determine your own perspective;

4. (作者:陈跃明 09月25日09:

4. (Author: Chen Yueming, September 25, 2009)

5. 我们要创造美丽的人生，拥有令人羡慕的事业，就必须懂得做人的艺术。然而，在现实中，我们不难看到：

， 5. In order to create a beautiful life and have a career that is enviable, we must understand the art of being human. However, in reality, it is not difficult to see:

6. ◎ 命运掌握在自己手中

6. ◎ The fate is in one's own hands.

7. 从现在起10年、20年或30年之后，你会成为这100人当中的哪一种呢？屈指可数的幸运者之一？除非好运降临到你头上，否则总是困难重重。

7. Ten, twenty, or thirty years from now, which one will you be among these 100 people? One of the few fortunate ones? Unless luck comes to you, you will always face numerous difficulties.

8. 自从盘古开天地，有谁见过老实人不吃亏的？人们只能安慰自己：做老实人终究是不吃亏的。可这终究到底是多久，没有人知道。亏着亏着，一辈子也就过去了。

8. Since Pangu opened the heavens and the earth, who has ever seen an honest person not suffer? People can only comfort themselves: In the end, being an honest person does not suffer. But how long is "in the end," no one knows. With each loss, a lifetime passes by.

9. 追求生存的安全和安定，当然是无可非议的，也是我们生存的重要目的。但冒险精神往往是我们摆脱某种困境的力量和达到富有与成功彼岸的钥匙，我们应当学会做生存的勇士。同时，我们应当看到，和谐才是生活的最高境界，我们应当追求更高的生活享受。

9. Pursuing safety and stability for survival is, of course, beyond reproach and is an important purpose of our existence. However, the spirit of adventure often serves as the power to help us overcome certain difficulties and the key to reaching the shore of wealth and success. We should learn to be brave warriors of survival. At the same time, we should recognize that harmony is the highest level of life, and we should strive for a higher level of enjoyment in life.

10. 教学时要注意以下两点：一是由于学生情绪的高涨，辩论会可能会出现无法控制的局面。教师此时要成为辩论会主席，进行调控、指导。如，组织学生讨论，刚才的辩论有什么优点，有什么不足；也可进行评选最佳辩手的活动，使学生在良好的环境中发挥出色的水平。二是引导学生善于倾听、接受别人合理的见解，不断完善对问题的认识。

10. When teaching, two points should be noted: First, due to the high spirits of the students, the debate may become uncontrolled. At this time, the teacher should take on the role of the debate chairperson and conduct regulation and guidance. For example, the teacher can organize students to discuss the merits and shortcomings of the previous debate; or hold an activity to select the best debater, enabling students to excel in a favorable environment. Second, guide students to be good listeners, accept others' reasonable views, and continuously improve their understanding of the issues.

11. 请对方辩手注意，我们今天我辩题是善意的谎言是否有碍诚信，而不是讨论不诚信的人是否还有善意。请搞清楚因果逻辑。对方辩友说既是谎言何来善意，是否对善意的谎言的存在表示怀疑，既然不存在善意的谎言我们今天的讨论还有意义吗？ (作者:于露 09月25日10:03)

11. Please pay attention, the topic of our debate today is whether white lies hinder honesty, not whether dishonest people still have goodwill. Please clarify the logic of cause and effect. The opponent argues that if it is a lie, where does the goodwill come from? Does this show a doubt in the existence of white lies? If there are no white lies, does today's discussion still have meaning? (Author: Yu Lu, September 25, 10:03)

12. 现在进入提问阶段。首先请正方一辩发贴提问； (作者:张璇 09月25日09:

12. Now we enter the question phase. Please allow the first speaker of the affirmative team to ask a question first; (Author: Zhang Xuan, September 25, 2009)

13. 结果是，有些人名利双收，既被人尊敬，又招人喜爱；而老实人钱财没捞到多少，名望也不高，既被人欺负，又少有朋友。

13. As a result, some people have gained both fame and fortune, being both respected and beloved; while honest people have not made much money, their reputation is not high, and they are often bullied, with few friends.

14. 有人岗位普通，疏懒懈怠，丢掉饭碗。

14. Some individuals in positions are ordinary, lazy, and indolent, and they have lost their jobs.

15. 是的，我平凡，但却不需以你的深刻轻视我，即使我聆听什么，要听的也不是你空洞的大话，而是林涛的喧响，海洋的呼喊；

15. Yes, I am ordinary, but you don't need to look down on me because of your depth. Even if I listen to something, what I want to listen to is not your hollow boasts, but the roar of Lin Tao, the shout of the ocean.

16. 随着年岁的增长，阅历的加深，我却对这个坚持了多年的信条产生了怀疑，不知是灵魂的觉醒抑或迷惘，更不知是幸还是不幸。

16. As I grow older and gain deeper experience, I have begun to doubt the belief that I have adhered to for many years. I am unsure whether it is a awakening of the soul or confusion, let alone whether it is a blessing or a misfortune.

17. 美国总统林肯所说：“你可以欺骗所有的人一段时间；你也可以欺骗某些人所有时间；但你不可能欺骗所有的人所有时间。”

17. Abraham Lincoln, the President of the United States, once said: "You can fool some of the people all the time; you can fool all of the people some of the time; but you cannot fool all of the people all the time."

18. 讲求诚信，古已崇尚。历史回溯到公元前359年，秦朝商鞅立法欲以诚信富国强兵。“南门立木”的典故就此上演。商鞅法行十年，“秦民大悦，道不拾遗，山无盗贼，家给人足”。时至我国加入WT0和市场经济日益发展的今天，倘若让假冒横行，信誉丧失，则将对经济生活造成巨大的危害，给社会生活带来灾难性的后果，失信浊流必将像瘟疫一样侵蚀人与人之间的信任，阻碍社会主义市场经济的步伐。回眸切肤之痛，切实倡导诚信、惩治背信，健全信用道德规范和信用法律体系，已是刻不容缓，时不我待

18. The pursuit of integrity has been esteemed since ancient times. If we trace back to 359 BC, during the Qin Dynasty, Shang Yang, the minister, legislated to enrich the country and strengthen the military through integrity. The legend of "the wooden pole at the South Gate" originated from this. After ten years of implementation of Shang Yang's laws, "the people of Qin were overjoyed, there was no捡拾遗失之物，山上没有盗贼，家家户户富足”。Today, as our country joins the WTO and the market economy continues to develop, if counterfeit products were to run rampant and trust were to be lost, it would cause tremendous harm to economic life and bring catastrophic consequences to social life. The erosion of trust caused by dishonesty would spread like a plague, undermining the trust between people and hindering the development of a socialist market economy. Looking back at the pain that touches us deeply, it is imperative to actively promote integrity, punish betrayal, and establish a sound system of credit ethics and credit laws without delay; time waits for no one.

19. “你可不要说隔壁大妈戴的帽子难看，听见没有？”

19. "Don't say that the hat the neighbor's aunt wears is ugly, did you hear that?"

20. 第二，“诚信”并不意味着不作具体分析的100％真实，特定情况下，善意的隐瞒是并不可少的。

20. Secondly, "honesty" does not mean 100% truth without specific analysis. In certain situations, the act of concealing out of good faith is indispensable.

21. 很多老实人都对自己的境遇不满，他们无法找到获取力量的源泉。其实，左右境遇的力量就在每一个人的体内。在每个老实人身体之中都沉睡着一个巨人等着召唤，它就是自信力。对它来说没有不可能的事情。老实人唯一要做的便是唤醒它，而它会除去老实人身上那些无形的锁链，并告诉老实人如何使梦想成真。一旦老实人知晓了这个秘密，一切有关向上、成功和健康的愿望都会成为现实。

21. Many honest people are dissatisfied with their circumstances, unable to find the source of their strength. In fact, the power to shape one's circumstances lies within each person. Within each honest person, there sleeps a giant waiting to be awakened, and that is self-confidence. For it, there is no such thing as the impossible. The only thing honest people need to do is to awaken it, and it will remove the invisible chains from the honest person's shoulders, and show them how to make their dreams come true. Once the honest person knows this secret, all desires for upward mobility, success, and health will become reality.

22. 我们无法改变自己的境况，但却可以改变自己的心态。

22. We cannot change our own circumstances, but we can change our own mindset.

23. 善意的谎言是人人尽知其意的，并不是一个新的概念，何须再下定义呢？

23. The concept of "honest lies," which everyone is familiar with, is not a new idea. Why do we need to define it again?

24. 面对误解和仇恨，平常心是一种坦然、宽容，然后保持本色，这是一种达观；

24. In the face of misunderstandings and hatred, a calm and tolerant attitude is to maintain one's true nature, which is a form of optimism.

25. 举一个例子，假设你周末接到一个不太亲密的朋友的生日邀请，你并不想去，但拒绝了又怕对方生气，答应得模棱两可。时间过得很快，眼看快到朋友的生日了，你还是不想去，现找了个理由告诉对方你不能去了。你想一想，这时对方会怎么看你？对方肯定看得出来你不情愿去，一定会很生气。

25. To give an example, suppose you receive a birthday invitation from a not-so-close friend over the weekend, and you don't want to go. However, you're worried about making them angry if you reject it, so you agree in a vague manner. Time flies by quickly, and now the friend's birthday is approaching, but you still don't want to go. You finally find an excuse to tell them that you can't make it. Think about it, how would the other person view you at this point? They will definitely see that you're not willing to go, and they will definitely be very angry.

26. 不敢做老实人，是因为做老实人的机会成本太大，压力太沉重。说老实话就必然会得罪人，做老实事又难免损害他人的利益。别人会说你别有用心，爱出风头，没有人会相信你完全出于公心。有时表面上似乎风光，遇到有提拔、升迁的机会，又有谁会让一个“刺儿头”呆在自己的身边，那可是看着心惊，碰着刺疼的家伙，还是保持距离的好。

26. The reason one dares not be an honest person is that the opportunity cost of being honest is too high and the pressure is too heavy. Telling the truth will inevitably offend people, and doing honest things will inevitably harm others' interests. People will say that you have ulterior motives, love to show off, and no one will believe that you are completely motivated by public interest. Sometimes it may seem that you are doing well on the surface, and when there are opportunities for promotion or advancement, who would let a "thorn" stay by their side? That's a person who is terrifying to look at and painful to touch, so it's better to keep a distance.

27. 对方一辨论述中，指出当一个人面对两种义务时，当彼此矛盾时，要缓解另一方义务。但正方一辩并没有论述善意的谎言与诚信是矛盾的啊。怎么能直接下结论，善意的谎言一定会缓解诚信义务呢？

27. In the opposing team's argument, it was pointed out that when a person faces two obligations and they are in conflict, the obligation of the other party should be mitigated. However, the first speaker for the affirmative team did not argue that the act of telling a "white lie" for the sake of kindness is contradictory to honesty. How can it be concluded directly that a "white lie" will necessarily mitigate the obligation of honesty?

28. 决定成败的不是尺寸的大小，而在于你如何做人，做最好的自己。你的人生掌握在自己手中，你的人生轨迹由自己创造。

28. The size of the decision is not what determines success or failure, but how you conduct yourself and become the best version of yourself. Your life is in your own hands, and the path of your life is created by yourself.

29. 其实阿龙从未抱怨过，能力和业绩也是单位一流水准。只是领导不敢对其他人发难，只好利用阿龙这个老实人敲山震虎。可怜阿龙平白无故受了一肚子窝囊气。

29. In fact, A Long never complained, and his abilities and achievements were also at the top level of the unit. However, the leader dared not challenge others, so he had to use A Long, this honest person, to send a shockwave. Poor A Long suffered from a bellyful of resentment for no reason.

30. 所以，我坚持认为：善意的谎言不仅无碍于诚信，而且还会极大地增进人与人之间的友谊和感情，对社会稳定亦有不可磨灭的作用。建议大家：善意的谎言该用则用，跟诚信与否没有太大的厉害冲突。

30. Therefore, I firmly believe that: a well-intentioned lie does not hinder honesty but can greatly enhance the friendship and affection between people, and also has an indelible role in social stability. I suggest that: a well-intentioned lie should be used when necessary, and it does not have a significant conflict with honesty.

31. 有些人充满自信，依靠自己，冷静面对问题，坚持自己的主张；老实人则是自卑自怨，遇事没有主见，情绪激动，只会依赖他人。

31. Some people are full of confidence, rely on themselves, calmly face problems, and persist in their own views; honest people, on the other hand, are self-effacing and self-reproachful, lack initiative in dealing with issues, get emotionally excited, and can only depend on others.

32. 然而，做事必须老实，因为成绩不会眷顾任何一个偷奸耍滑的人。你的每一滴汗水，每一份智慧，每一点坚持，都会成为灌溉成功果实的养分，被别人看在眼里。

32. However, honesty is necessary in all endeavors, because no one who cheats or shirks will be rewarded for their efforts. Every drop of sweat, every bit of wisdom, every ounce of perseverance you put in will serve as nourishment to water the fruits of success, and it will be noticed by others.

33. 当初你没有拒绝，结果还是让朋友生气了。假如接到邀请时就表明态度会是什么样呢？

33. You didn't refuse it at first, but it still made your friend angry. What would the outcome have been if you had stated your position when you received the invitation?

34. 非常感谢您对我们的信任和支持！我们一定不辜负全体师生的期望． (作者:姜文红 09月25日10:

34. We are very grateful for your trust and support in us! We will definitely not let all the teachers and students down. (Author: Jiang Wenhong, September 25)

35. 但是，在我们的现实生活中，有多少的“老实人”，说着鬼话，办着鬼事，却一路春风得意。而真正说人话，做人事的，又有几人善始善终。就因为，喜欢听真话的大多是百姓，百姓喜欢听真话的理由，是有人说出了他们想说而不敢说的话。不喜欢听真话的是权贵，权贵不喜欢听真话的原因，是因为真话往往会带出真相。

35. However, in our real life, how many so-called "honest people" speak in lies, do鬼 things, yet enjoy success and popularity. Meanwhile, how many of those who truly speak human language and do human deeds can reach a successful conclusion? This is because, the majority who prefer to hear the truth are the common people, and the reason why the common people like to hear the truth is that someone has expressed what they want to say but dare not. On the other hand, those who dislike hearing the truth are the privileged, and the reason they don't like the truth is that the truth often reveals the truth.

36. 俗话说，你的善良，必须自带锋芒。如果做人太老实，对上级唯唯诺诺，对同事一味讨好，对客户卑躬屈膝，凡事任劳任怨，处处与世无争，只会变成被欺负的对象。

36. As the saying goes, your kindness must come with a sharp edge. If you are too honest and deferential to your superiors, excessively ingratiating to your colleagues, and obsequious to your clients, always willing to bear the burden and never contesting with others, you will only become a target for bullying.

37. 我们从相反的角度看这个问题好吗？某个人戴了一顶很难看的帽子，我们可以实事求是地告诉人家确实不太好。这是因为，总说善意的谎言也会给你带来麻烦。因此，要学会何时说真话，何时说善意的谎言，要不就会导致无法辨别真假的结果。

37. Would you like to view this issue from the opposite angle? If someone is wearing a very ugly hat, we can honestly tell them that it indeed doesn't look good. This is because, constantly telling white lies can also bring trouble to you. Therefore, one should learn when to tell the truth and when to tell a white lie, otherwise, it may lead to the inability to distinguish between truth and lies.

38. 诚信：信，中国文化中“信”与“义”构成“信义”，是一种人文精神，做人的准则。“信”与“诚”相连，形成“诚信”这一道德规范，是泊来品，近代西方法学先贤提出“契约社会”的概念，人与人各种的关系都是契约关系，在这样的社会中，诚信是社会道德的最底线，我国建立市场经济后，要建立规范的有序的市场，诚信也就成了最重要的准则。所以，现代意义的“诚信”是市场运行的道德准则。

38. Integrity: "Trust" in Chinese culture, when combined with "righteousness," forms the concept of "trust and righteousness," which is a humanistic spirit and a principle for being a person. "Trust" is closely linked with "sincerity," creating the moral norm of "integrity." This concept is borrowed from Western philosophy, where modern Western legal thinkers proposed the concept of a "contract society." In such a society, all relationships between people are contractual. In this kind of society, integrity is the bottom line of social morality. After China established a market economy, to establish a standardized and orderly market, integrity has become the most important principle. Therefore, in the modern sense, "integrity" is the moral norm for market operations.

39. 如果你不能成为大道，那你就当一条最通畅的小路;如果你不能成为太阳，那你就当一颗最闪亮的星星。

39. If you cannot be the great path, be the most open of all the little roads; if you cannot be the sun, be the brightest of all the stars.

40. 当一位身患绝症的病人，被医生判了死刑时，他的父母、爱人、子女以及所有的亲人，都不会直接地告诉他：“生命已无法挽救”，“最多还能在这个世界上活多久”之类的话。虽然这些都是实话，但是谁会那样残忍地如同法官宣判犯人死刑一样，向已经在病痛中的亲人以实情相告呢。这时，大家就会形成一个统一的战线，闭口不谈实情，而以善意的谎言来使病人对治疗充满希望，让病人在一个平和的心态中度过那残年余日。难道这会有碍于诚信吗！

什么意思？ 40. When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, their parents, spouse, children, and all their relatives will not directly tell them things like, "Life cannot be saved," or "How much longer can you live on this earth?" Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as to announce the truth to a loved one who is already suffering from illness, just like a judge pronouncing a death sentence on a criminal? At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use kind lies to fill the patient with hope for treatment, allowing the patient to spend their remaining days in a peaceful state of mind. Would this hinder honesty?

41. (作者:徐劲艳 09月25日09:

41. (Author: Xu Jinyan, September 25, 09:

42. 是的，我平凡，但却无需以你的深沉俯视我，即便我仰视什么，要看的也不是你尊贵的容颜，而是山的雄奇，天的高远；

42. Yes, I am ordinary, but I do not need you to look down on me with your profound gaze. Even if I look up, it is not your noble countenance that I wish to see, but the majestic grandeur of the mountains and the vastness of the sky.

43. 上天对每个老实人都是公平的，每个人每一天都是二十四个小时，每个人的所有时间都是一生；同时上天对每个老实人又是不公平的，给每一个人的时间不都是二十四个小时，给每一个人的所有时间不都是一生。这之间的区别就在于有无远大目标。

43. Heaven is fair to every honest person, as everyone has twenty-four hours each day, and all their time constitutes a lifetime. At the same time, heaven is also unfair to every honest person, because not everyone is given twenty-four hours of time, and not everyone's time spans an entire lifetime. The difference between the two lies in whether or not one has a grand vision.

44. (作者:姜文兵 09月25日11:01)

44. (Author: Jiang Wenbing, 11:01, September 25)

45. 虽然我们不能如阳光般灿烂，却可以像月光般皎洁；即使我们不能像星星一样闪烁，也依然可以像火柴一样，燃烧自己，去点亮生命中的那一盏烛光，虽然微弱，已足够明亮。

45. Though we cannot shine as brightly as the sun, we can be as bright as the moon; even if we cannot twinkle like stars, we can still burn ourselves like a match, to light up that candlelight in life, albeit faint, yet bright enough.

46. 正如胡锦涛总书记在讲话中说的：“我们所要建设的社会主义和谐社会，应该是民主法治、公平正义、诚信友爱、充满活力、安定有序、人与自然和谐相处的社会。”

46. As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech, "The socialist harmonious society we are to build should be a society characterized by democracy and rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendliness, vitality, stability and order, and a harmonious coexistence between humans and nature."

47. 请正方三辩发贴； (作者:张璇 09月25日09:

47. Please have the third speaker for the affirmative side post a comment; (Author: Zhang Xuan, September 25, 09:

48. 然而大多数借口都有破坏性。不自觉地使用借口，即使不会愚弄别人，也会愚弄自己。所以我请对方认识到，多点诚信，少点借口！同时我想问对方，如果大家都有这种观点，如何打造诚信社会，如何使我们的国家在诚信上有更大发展？

48. However, most excuses are destructive. Unconsciously using excuses can fool oneself even if it doesn't fool others. Therefore, I ask the other party to realize that we need more honesty and fewer excuses! At the same time, I want to ask the other party, if everyone shares this view, how can we build a society of honesty, and how can we make our country achieve greater development in terms of honesty?

49. “善意的谎言更多的是借口” ！

49. "So-called 'honest lies' are more often just excuses!"