探寻舒适生活：保持期许低、情绪小、心态好

Seeking a Comfortable Life: Maintain Low Expectations, Mild Emotions, and a Positive Attitude

1. 人不要太骄傲！你越自大，内心越脆弱。平常心对待!

1. People should not be too proud! The more you are proud, the more vulnerable your inner self becomes. Treat things with a calm mind!

2. “好说话”是个优点，但如果一个人给人的印象只有“好说话”，那这就是个缺点。

2. "Being easy to talk to" is an advantage, but if the only impression a person gives is that of being "easy to talk to," then this is a disadvantage.

3. 人生本来就不长，何必要自寻烦恼。开心是一天，不开心是一天，这一天终将过去，而那些坎也终将会过去。

3. Life is inherently short, why seek out烦恼 (troubles) for oneself? Either way, whether happy or not, a day will pass, and those difficulties will also pass in time.

4. 即使在被世界遗忘的角落，也要顽强的活下去，就算身处地牢，窗外依然也有星星闪烁，何必只顾看着自己脚上的泥土呢？

4. Even in the forgotten corners of the world, one should stubbornly persevere and live on. Even if one is in a dungeon, stars still twinkle outside the window. Why should one only focus on the dirt on one's feet?

5. 它的潜台词可能是没有特点、没有主见、自我意识不强、不用太上心太重视，甚至等同于这个人是可以被欺负、很好欺负的。

5. Its subtext might imply a lack of distinctiveness, independence of opinion, weak self-awareness, and not needing to take it too seriously or pay too much attention to it, even equating to the person being easily bullied and very easy to欺负.

6. 一个人最舒服的活法，就是期待要低，脾气要小，心态要好。

6. The most comfortable way for a person to live is to have low expectations, a mild temperament, and a good mindset.

7. 不要试探人性，因为你会心寒。不要有所期待，因为你会受伤。

7. Do not test human nature, for you will be heartbroken. Do not have any expectations, for you will be hurt.

8. 一个人永远都不要太骄傲，永远都不要太过自信，即使你再出色

8. One should never be too proud, never overconfident, even if you are outstanding.

9. 伸手摘下一个熟透了的柿子，吃在嘴里软软的甜甜的美在心里。每年我都会收藏一片红了的树叶珍藏，时至今日已经十三片了。每每收获果实时，我还得让妈妈留些柿果挂在树上，让它，点缀冬日落叶后树的苍凉，引小鸟来这里觅食鸣唱。

9. Reaching out to pluck a ripe persimmon, it is soft and sweet in the mouth, delightful in the heart. Every year, I collect a red leaf to cherish, and to this day, I have thirteen of them. Whenever I harvest fruit, I also have to ask my mother to leave some persimmons hanging on the tree, so that they can decorate the desolate trees after the fall of winter leaves, and attract little birds to come here for food and singing.

10. 每一次，当你遇到不太好的事情，想要发脾气时，请记住：发脾气第一个受到伤害的往往是我们自己。

10. Every time you encounter something not so good and feel like losing your temper, remember: the first ones to get hurt are often ourselves.

11. 总感觉见过一次你也就够了，不要太贪心，路太远心太近没能去现场，然后今晚一直在追着直播看，你一出场看直播就一直在哭，想不到任何形容词表达内心的感受。只想再见你一面。不管你是Vae还是Oae，不管会不会有一个男朋友陪我去看演唱会，我都在等你。

11. I always feel that one time seeing you is enough, don't be too greedy. The road is too far and my heart is too close, and I couldn't make it to the venue. So I've been watching the live broadcast all night. I kept crying as soon as you appeared on the live broadcast, and I couldn't think of any adjectives to express my inner feelings. I just want to see you one more time. Whether you are Vae or Oae, whether there will be a boyfriend with me to watch the concert, I am waiting for you.

12. 不要太贪心过程就是最美好的享受这一刻我就值啦！世界如此辽阔神圣我只想宁静正直

12. Don't be too greedy; the process itself is the greatest enjoyment. Right now, I am already enough! The world is so vast and sacred, and I just want to be peaceful and upright.

13. 人不要太骄傲，因为没有人知道下一秒将会发生什么

13. People should not be too proud, because no one knows what will happen in the next second.

14. 不要小看别人。不要太贪心，每次想找个人陪的时候、要开开心心做个好人。一定要知道自己是什么样的人！不要忘记自己是修行人：还有的人找不到不要嫉妒别人、就发现有的人不能找。

14. Do not undervalue others. Do not be too greedy, and when you want someone to accompany you, be happy and be a good person. Make sure you know who you are! Do not forget that you are a spiritual practitioner: there are some people you can't find, and there are some people who can't be found.

15. 不要因为寂寞随手抓一个男人，人生也像坐火车一样，不要太贪心，我就站在门口等你。最大的幸福莫过于守住一颗淡定而宁静的心，那也是相互了解和磨合的好时机。

15. Don't just grab a man out of loneliness. Life is like riding a train, don't be too greedy. I'm just standing at the door waiting for you. The greatest happiness is to hold onto a calm and peaceful heart, which is also a good time for mutual understanding and adjustment.

16. 与其每天唉声叹气的过日子，倒不如静下心来快活片刻。有事烦恼着你的时候，何不从另一个方面去将这件事情想开呢？

16. It's better to take a moment to enjoy life than to live in constant complaints every day. When something troubles you, why not try to look at it from another perspective?

17. 春天到了，早起也变得容易了很多，不妨试一试早起两小时，去吃一份营养早餐，喝一杯温水，看看书，练习一下写作等等。

17. Spring has arrived, and it has become much easier to wake up early. Why not give it a try and get up two hours earlier to enjoy a nutritious breakfast, have a glass of warm water, read a book, practice writing, and so on.

18. 不要嫉妒别人不要小看别人，一定要知道自己是什么样的人不要变来变去。不要忘记自己是修行人。要开开心心做个好人：不要太贪心

18. Do not envy others, do not undervalue others, be sure to know who you are and do not change from one thing to another. Do not forget that you are a practitioner. Be happy and be a good person: do not be too greedy.

19. 人不要太贪心不劳而获的思想，要知足。你付出多少就一定能收获，多少不定。但你不付出就一定不能收获。这才是生活。辛苦一辈子不就为了个安稳的家吗。大部分的人都是败在贪心两个字。贪心可以让人上进，也可以让人摔倒。

19. People should not be overly greedy for the thought of obtaining wealth without effort, and they should be content. You will definitely reap what you sow, though the exact amount is not certain. But if you do not sow, you will definitely not reap. This is life. Isn't it all just to have a stable home after a lifetime of hard work? Most people fall into the trap of greed. Greed can motivate people to strive forward, but it can also cause them to fall.

20. 人生苦短，别去想太多，放松自己，生命中的每一天都是唯一的，每一天都值得你全心的对待。诚心面对一切事物，你才能感受到生命的美好。

20. Life is short, don't overthink, relax yourself. Every day of life is unique, and every day deserves your full attention. With sincerity towards all things, you can only feel the beauty of life.

21. 想的太多的人，让自己活得越来越累，陷入无尽的痛苦之中，因为你的倔强让你坠入万丈深渊，而你的自尊又会让自己处于相当尴尬的局面，最终在处理事情的过程上得不偿失。

21. People who think too much make themselves live increasingly tired,陷人 endless suffering, because your stubbornness lets you fall into a bottomless abyss, and your自尊 will also put you in a rather embarrassing situation, ultimately resulting in a loss of gain in the process of dealing with things.

22. 不是所有的人都能迁就你，今天卖的最差的一天，所以不要太骄傲。

22. Not everyone can accommodate you; today is the worst day for sales, so don't be too proud.

23. 当你脱颖而出时不要太骄傲，因为还有比你牛逼的人，当你受磨难想哭时不要流泪，因为比你见过大风大浪的人多了去，坚持吧，少年，也许你会感谢现在努力的你

23. When you stand out, don't be too proud, because there are people who are even more awesome than you. When you are suffering and want to cry, don't let tears fall, because there are many people who have seen more storms and hardships than you. Hang in there, young man, you might thank the hardworking you of today in the future.

24. 得失是再正常不过的事，不要太贪心，不能什么都占全了。最近的字写的很丑。

24. Gains and losses are a matter of course, don't be too greedy, and you can't have everything all at once. The characters I wrote recently look very ugly.

25. 何必要持续跟自己过去的痛苦折磨呢？人生本来就不长，何必要将自己的精力和脾气发在自己最讨厌的东西身上。

25. Why continue to torment yourself with the pain of the past? Life is already short, why waste your energy and temper on things you dislike the most.

26. 做人不要太贪心，太贪心，就会什么都得不到！可我为什么就是控制不住自己

26. Don't be too greedy, for if you are too greedy, you will get nothing at all! But why can't I control myself?

27. 及时行乐，并不是一种抛弃责任的，放下一切追逐快乐的行为方式。

27. Enjoying life in the moment is not a way of shedding responsibilities and pursuing happiness at the expense of everything else.

28. 一个人如果经历过很多苦难，是会变得比较坚强，但是却很难再快乐起来。

28. If a person has experienced a lot of hardships, they will become stronger, but it is difficult for them to be happy again.

29. 生而为人，不可能没有遗憾。但你可以试着让自己的人生，少一点遗憾，多一点圆满。

29. As a human being, it is impossible to have no regrets. But you can try to make your life have fewer regrets and more fulfillment.

30. 我在书中看到这样一段话：“旅行的意义，是从一个鱼缸游到另一个鱼缸，在不同的水质里呼吸，体验，修复体察事物的能力，最后再回到自己原本的鱼缸的过程。当我们用慢镜头观察世界，放慢思维的脚步，玩味过程与细节的时候，这个包藏着荒芜与残酷的世界会立刻变得有意思起来。”

30. I saw this passage in a book: "The meaning of travel is the process of swimming from one fish tank to another, breathing, experiencing, and repairing the ability to observe things in different water qualities, and finally returning to one's original fish tank. When we observe the world with a slow-motion lens, slow down the pace of our thoughts, and savor the process and details, this world packed with desolation and cruelty will instantly become interesting."

31. 及时行乐所强调的，是放下人过去不开心的一切，放下心中不愉快的事情，别让自己的眼中永远只有痛苦，只能看到悲伤，而看不到快乐。

31. What the concept of "enjoying life in a timely manner" emphasizes is to let go of all the unhappiness from the past, to release the unpleasant things in one's heart, and not to let one's eyes forever be filled only with suffering, able to see only sadness and not joy.

32. 人这一辈子是短暂的，所以要让自己健康着、开心着、幸福着，偶尔要醉一回。

32. Life is short for humans, so one should stay healthy, happy, and contented, and occasionally get drunk once in a while.

33. 这几天有些事，没有时间带大家做t，但是提到和持有的价值股是准备长期滚动操作的，所以不慌。如果你自己有时间可以操作t一下，不要太贪心，最近震幅不大，每天有一个点就差不多。

33. There have been some things to attend to these days, so I haven't had time to lead everyone in trading. However, the value stocks mentioned and held are intended for long-term rolling operations, so there's no need to worry. If you have the time to trade yourself, don't be too greedy. The recent volatility isn't significant, so a point per day should be about right.

34. 无论这个房子是租的还是买的，我们都想让它变成自己喜欢的样子。即便是租房，你的人生也不应该打折，不该委屈和将就。

34. Whether this house is rented or bought, we want to make it into the style we like. Even if it's a rental, your life should not be compromised, and you should not endure discomfort or make compromises.

35. 多心的人注定活得辛苦，因为太容易被别人的情绪所左右。

35. People who are overly suspicious are doomed to live a hard life, as they are too easily influenced by others' emotions.

36. 你总是在生活中抱怨，抱怨着事态的不公，抱怨着环境的复杂混乱，抱怨着自己怀才不遇。

36. You always complain in life, complaining about the injustice of affairs, complaining about the complexity and chaos of the environment, and complaining about not finding your talent.

37. 我喜欢人与人之间淡淡地相处，不会太累，也没有那么多顾及，淡淡的友情就像淡淡的茶香令人沉醉。

37. I enjoy a light and easy interaction between people, not too tiring and with fewer concerns. Light friendships are like the subtle aroma of tea, which is deeply intoxicating.

38. 与其纠结于当下那些无足轻重的小事，何不放下内心的坚持，人生苦短，别想太多，及时行乐。

38. Why not let go of the trivial matters that trouble you now, and instead release your inner stubbornness? Life is short, don't overthink things, and enjoy yourself in the moment.

39. 脾气大的人，动不动就会大为光火，怒不可遏，就像一颗不定时的炸弹，不知道什么时候会伤害到你。这样的人，人人敬而远之。

39. People with a short temper are prone to get extremely angry at the slightest provocation, bursting with rage that is hard to control, like a time bomb that never knows when it will explode and harm you. Such individuals are usually shunned by everyone.

40. 当一个人发自内心地爱自己，尊重自己的感受的时候，阴郁的种子就失去了作妖的土壤。

40. When a person loves themselves from the bottom of their heart and respects their own feelings, the seeds of melancholy lose their fertile ground to thrive.

41. 鲁迅曾写过这样一段话：“楼下一个男人病得要死，那隔壁的一家唱着留声机；对面是弄孩子。楼上有两人狂笑；还有打牌声。河中的船上有女人哭着她死去的母亲。人类的悲欢并不相通，我只觉得他们吵闹。”

41. Lu Xun once wrote: "A man downstairs is dying of illness, and the family next door is playing a gramophone; across the way, children are playing. Two people upstairs are laughing loudly; there's also the sound of playing cards. On the river, a woman is crying over her deceased mother. The joys and sorrows of humans are not interconnected; I only feel that they are making a lot of noise."

42. 脾气越大，幸福感越低。

42. The greater the temperament, the lower the happiness.

43. 不要觉得你了不起，也不要太骄傲，麻烦你学会尊重别人，也是尊重你自己，说别人的时候想想自己是怎样的人。谢谢你今天的教育，以后必定报答你。

43. Don't think you're so great or be too proud. Please learn to respect others, which is also respecting yourself. When speaking about others, think about who you are yourself. Thank you for the education today, and I will definitely repay you in the future.

44. 心太软的人快乐是不容易的，别人伤害她或她伤害别人都让她在心里病一场。

44. People with a soft heart find it hard to be happy; whether they are hurt by others or they hurt others, it brings them psychological distress.

45. 说真的，刘总那件事儿就看出，有些粉，就是把自己当总教练了。一边说博儿不要太骄傲，还没有站稳第五人，一边说博儿就应该把其他四个以外的压着打，怎么什么话都让您说了呢？真是一副无赖嘴脸啊，怪膈应人的。

45. To be honest, that incident with Manager Liu shows that some fans actually consider themselves as the head coach. One moment they say Bo shouldn't be too proud, that he hasn't yet solidified his position as the fifth member, and the next moment they say Bo should dominate the other four. How is it that all the words are being spoken by you? It's truly a face of cunning, it's quite irritating.

46. 每天晚上疲劳的睡在床上时，才感觉真真切切地过了一天。人生最重要的不仅是努力，还有方向。压力不是有人比你努力，而是比你牛叉几倍的人依然比你努力。即使看不到未来，即使看不到希望，也依然相信，自己错不了，自己选的人生错不了。

46. Only when I'm tired and lying in bed every night do I truly feel that I've lived through a day. The most important thing in life is not just effort, but also direction. Pressure is not that someone is working harder than you, but that someone who is several times more capable than you is still working harder. Even if I can't see the future, even if I can't see hope, I still believe that I can't be wrong, and the life I have chosen can't be wrong.

47. 人不要太骄傲，不要以为你很了不起，就不把别人当人看，随便的使唤人，比你了不起的人多了去，迟早有一天你也会如此的不堪

47. People should not be too proud. Don't think you are outstanding and了不起 and not treat others as human beings, arbitrarily commanding people. There are many people more outstanding than you, and sooner or later you will also be as不堪一击.

48. 友情和爱情一样，也是有保鲜期的，想一想，有多少已经不联系的朋友，默默地存在于你的通讯录中。 不是不想联系，实在是人生残酷，时空变幻，你我再无交集，与其相见，不如怀念，与其攀缘，不如随缘。人生不过是一场旅行，你路过我，我路过你，然后，各自修行，各自向前。

48. Just like love, friendship also has an expiration date. Think about it, how many friends have you not been in touch with, quietly existing in your contact list. It's not that I don't want to contact them, but life is cruel, and time and space change. There is no intersection between us anymore. It's better to cherish the memories than to meet, better to follow destiny than to strive for it. Life is just a journey; you pass by me, and I pass by you. Then, we practice our own paths and move forward on our own.

49. 有些时候你想的越多，反而会让结局更加的复杂。你想得到的越多，反而会让自己的内心越来越偏离本性。

49. Sometimes, the more you think about something, the more complex the outcome becomes. The more you desire, the more your inner self may drift away from its true nature.

50. 一个内心丰富的人既不害怕独处，也不害怕人群，因为他们可以在独处时心中绽开大千世界，也可以在人群中保持一份恬淡清寂。

50. A person with a rich inner world is neither afraid of solitude nor of crowds, for they can unfold the vast universe in their hearts when alone, and maintain a serene and tranquil composure amidst the throngs.

51. 学会与自己和解，坦然面对得意和失望，用平静的方式面对不安的人生。

51. Learn to reconcile with oneself, calmly face success and disappointment, and deal with the uncertainties of life in a peaceful manner.

52. 当你偶尔发现语言变得无力时，不妨安静下来，让沉默替你发声。

52. When you occasionally find language becoming weak, why not calm down and let silence speak for you.

53. 或许，这座城，原本就是这般残旧，湮没多少烟雨楼台，俯看几多儿女愁肠，只是住在这城里的人做了岁月的奴，匆匆跟在这流年的身后细数那走过的足迹，终究，白了少年头，所有熟悉的东西恍若隔世，以为这座城老了。

53. Perhaps, this city was originally so dilapidated, buried under so many layers of mist and rain, gazing down upon the distress of countless young hearts, but the people living in this city have become slaves to the passage of time, hurrying after the fleeting years, meticulously counting the footsteps they have taken. In the end, their youthful heads turn white, all that is familiar seems like a world apart, and they believe that the city has aged.

54. 期待要低，就不会有失落的痛苦。

54. Lower expectations lead to less pain of disappointment.

55. 生活没那么好，也没那么糟，我们要降低对他人的期待，学会对自己的生活负责，坦然接纳自己的伤心与失败。

55. Life isn't as good as it seems, nor as bad as it seems. We should lower our expectations of others, learn to take responsibility for our own lives, and calmly accept our own sorrows and failures.

56. 我们都需要为自己造一个像防空洞一样的小星球，需要一个独立的空间，让思维放松、灵魂舒展，排毒解忧，帮助你排遣负面情绪。

56. We all need to create a small planet like an air-raid shelter for ourselves, a space that is independent, allowing our minds to relax and our souls to expand, detoxifying and alleviating worries, helping us to dispel negative emotions.

57. 喜欢偶像很好，为他们做事也很好。请态度不要太骄傲，一副高高在上的感觉让人不舒服。或许不会的东西比你们多，前线资料比你们少。但，喜欢的心并不会输。不是懂了什麼就可以高姿态对人。谢谢付出的很多每个团队。

， 57. It's great to like idols and to do things for them. Please don't be too proud or have an air of superiority, as it makes people uncomfortable. There might be things you don't know that are more than what you do know, and less front-line information than you have. But, the heart that likes won't lose. Not understanding something doesn't give you the right to be condescending to others. Thank you to all the teams for all the efforts you have put in.

58. 你考了600多分，当然不会难过了呀，你知道我的感受吗，一路上在哪里说，你脑子是好，我承认，你所有的都听的懂，但是那不代表我，不要太骄傲了好吗，很了不起吗，像你怎么难相处的人我真的不知道该怎么去和你相处在一起，我觉得很累。每天附和着你，我真的很累

58. You scored over 600 points, of course you wouldn't be upset, do you know how I feel? I've been saying it all along, wherever I go. You have a good brain, I admit it, you understand everything, but that doesn't mean anything about me. Don't be too proud, okay? Is it really amazing? Like you, someone who is so difficult to get along with, I really don't know how to be around you. I feel exhausted. Every day, echoing your words, I'm really tired.

59. 沙哈尔在《幸福的方法》一书中说：

59. In his book "The How of Happiness," Sahar says:

60. 心态要好，就不会有烂事的折磨。

60. Maintain a positive mindset, and you won't be troubled by bad things.

61. 其实我觉得不管什么感情都是那样的，好也好不好也好。聊的来人肯定是会聊的很开。然后其它人其实你也没必要去顾及太多。今天顾及了。明天顾及了，总有一天顾及不到，不要怕不合群，何必呢。自己喜欢的东西喜欢的人，就不要在意别人的看法了。好好的做自己多好。不要太贪心。其实这样就很好了。哪里有谁会离开了谁就活不下去了呀。

61. Actually, I think that's true for any kind of emotion, good or bad. If you get along well with someone, you'll definitely chat openly. As for the others, there's no need to worry too much about them. You can't keep up with everyone's concerns all the time. Don't be afraid of not fitting in; why worry about it? Just do what you like and what you enjoy. Don't be too greedy. In reality, that's already quite good. Who couldn't live without someone?

62. 再好的人生，也会有狼狈不堪的一面。再坏的人生，也会有花团锦簇的一角。学会发现生活的亮色，少去纠结浮动的暗影，那么，我们就不会在泥泞里沉沦，而是以豁达乐观的态度，笑傲人生风雨，面对坎坷荆棘，一直抵达幸福的彼岸。

62. No matter how good a life may be, there will always be moments of distress. And no matter how bad a life may seem, there will always be a patch of splendor. Learn to discover the bright hues of life and avoid getting entangled in the fleeting shadows, and then we will not sink into the mire but will face life's storms and trials with an open and optimistic attitude, laughing at the vicissitudes of life, and eventually reach the shore of happiness.

63. 面对生活，一切随缘。别去多加干涉，也别太过于执着，放下过往的一切好好生活。

63. Face life with everything going with the flow. Don't interfere too much, nor be overly attached. Let go of the past and live well.

64. “人生最持久的追求，多是为了过得舒服。”

64. "The longest-lasting pursuit in life is often for comfort."

65. 一个人的成就，与一个人的本事，没多大关系。而与一个人的福报有关。我骨子里非常认同他说法，所以我时刻提醒自己，一个人，有点成就不要太骄傲，这是上天给的。有不堪也不要太气馁，老天给予你什么命运你就接受什么命运。世间不幸的人太多了，他们不还是无条件去接纳它？

65. A person's achievements have little to do with their abilities, but more to do with their blessings. Deep down, I strongly agree with this view, so I constantly remind myself that if someone has achieved a bit, they shouldn't be too proud, as it is a gift from heaven. If they face difficulties, they shouldn't be too discouraged either; whatever destiny heaven grants you, accept it. There are so many unfortunate people in the world; don't they still accept it unconditionally?

66. 有一个舒适的环境能够让我们保持愉快的心情。舒适的环境不一定非要是奢华的别墅，而是干净、整洁和温馨。

66. A comfortable environment can help us maintain a cheerful mood. A comfortable environment does not necessarily have to be a luxurious villa, but it should be clean, tidy, and cozy.

67. 而脾气小的人，性情温和，面色和善，温文尔雅。与之相处，如沐春风，如饮佳酿，让人感觉十分惬意。

67. People with a gentle temperament are amiable, having a gentle and kind-looking expression, and are refined and courteous. Interacting with them is like basking in the spring breeze or sipping fine wine, making one feel extremely comfortable and content.

68. 时时刻刻都要擦亮眼睛看清楚身边谁是人谁是鬼，人性的黑暗面并不是那么容易看透的。尤其是职场中，不要太骄傲得意忘形，偶尔某些人糖衣炮弹足以让你粉身碎骨，可要时刻小心哦！

68. At all times, keep your eyes sharp and distinguish between who is human and who is a ghost among you. The dark side of human nature is not so easy to see through. Especially in the workplace, don't be too proud and lose yourself. Occasionally, some people's sugarcoated bombs can be enough to shatter you to pieces, so be careful at all times!

69. 做人不要太贪心。你不能既单身，又想看上去胖若两人

69. Don't be too greedy in life. You can't be single and look as if you are carrying two people.

70. 分手了，就做回自己。爱情是两个人的事，错过了大家都有责任。一个人总要有个新的开始，别让过去把你栓在悲哀的殿堂。别说你最爱的是谁，人生还很长，谁也无法预知明天。好聚好散，每个人都有自己的无奈。活着不是为了怀念昨天，而是要等待希望。哭完就把一切都留在昨天，永远不要去触及。

70. If you've broken up, go back to being yourself. Love is a matter between two people, and everyone is responsible for missing it. One always needs a new beginning, don't let the past tie you to the hall of sorrow. Don't say who you love the most, life is long, and no one can predict tomorrow. Make a good end, and everyone has their own helplessness. Living is not for reminiscing about yesterday, but for waiting for hope. After crying, leave everything behind in yesterday, and never touch it again.

71. 失去多少不要太在意，或许它根本就不属于你。得到的，也不要太骄傲，因为兴奋会让人忘我。

71. Don't be too concerned about how much you've lost, as it may not have belonged to you in the first place. Don't be too proud about what you've gained either, because excitement can make one lose themselves.

72. 在这个网络发达的时代，我们总能在网上看到别人闪闪发光的人生，羡慕他们意气风发的青春和不可复制的成功。

72. In this era of advanced networking, we always see others' shining lives on the internet, envying their energetic youth and the irreplaceable success they have achieved.

73. 有些事和人可能在这一刻取得胜利，可是不要太骄傲有无数双眼睛在盯着你

73. Some things and people may achieve victory at this moment, but don't be too proud, as there are countless eyes watching you.

74. 靠山山会倒，靠人人会跑。靠自己，风雨中给自己撑伞，黑夜里提灯前行，跋涉时披荆斩棘，靠自己的人不会被辜负。

74. Rely on a mountain and the mountain may collapse; rely on a person and the person may run away. Rely on oneself, and in the storms, one holds an umbrella over oneself; in the darkness, one carries a lantern to proceed; when making a journey, one braves through thorns and thistles. Those who rely on themselves will not be disappointed.

75. 渐渐的，这个面具却像长在了自己的脸上一样，你也很久没有发现，自己能够真心的笑出来了。

75. Gradually, the mask seemed to have grown on its own face, and for a long time, you didn't realize that you could truly laugh out loud again.