在执念的交织间，人生输赢如梦。一念之间，命运转折。

In the entanglement of obsession, life's wins and losses are like a dream. In a flash of thought, fate takes a turn.

1. 暧昧永远都没有爱情重要，请记得，如果一个人真正的爱你，是不会和你去暧昧的。如果你也爱一个人，请不要去和别人暧昧。暧昧只能填补内心一时的空虚，长久不了，有百害而无一利。一份美好的爱情，容不下一丁点的欺骗和虚伪，更容不下的是暧昧。拥有了爱情，就别去碰暧昧。

1.暧昧 is never as important as love, please remember that if someone truly loves you, they would not engage in ambiguity with you. If you also love someone, do not indulge in ambiguity with others. Ambiguity can only temporarily fill the void in the heart, and it cannot last long; it has a hundred disadvantages and no benefits. A beautiful love can accommodate no deceit or hypocrisy, let alone ambiguity. Once you have love, do not touch ambiguity.

2. 有一位老同学，在大学读书的时候爱上同班的一个女生，他苦苦追求，可对方明确表达并不喜欢他。

2. There was an old classmate who fell in love with a girl in the same class during his university days. He pursued her desperately, but she clearly expressed that she did not like him.

3. 静静的沉默，融化了以往的执着，你可知道没有你的我就已经不再是我

3. A silent silence melts away the previous persistence, do you know that without you, I am no longer me.

4. 放下与人攀比的执念，以顺其自然的态度，过随遇而安的生活，那么你就会活得自在快乐，无拘无束，悠然惬意。

4. Let go of the obsession with comparing yourself to others, live life with a natural attitude, and be content with what comes your way. Then you will live a carefree and happy life, unbound and at ease.

5. 你有什么不会的吗我不会放弃你，你呢我不会喜欢你

5. What are you not good at? I won't give up on you, and what about you? Will you like me?

6. 也许多年以后，我会忘记自己为你的奋不顾身。

6. Perhaps many years from now, I will forget the selfless dedication I made for you.

7. 有些人我们明知道是爱的 也要去放弃因为没结果

7. Some people we know we love, but we still have to let go because there is no outcome.

8. 善与恶有多远？一念之间； 生与死有多远？转瞬之间； 爱与恨有多远？转身之间； 成与败有多远？起步之间； 古与今有多远？谈笑之间； 人与人有多远？天地之间； 心与佛有多远？迷悟之间。

8. How far apart are good and evil? A thought away; how far apart are life and death? In a moment's time; how far apart are love and hate? With a turn of the body; how far apart are success and failure? At the start; how far apart are the ancient and the modern? In the midst of conversation; how far apart are people from each other? Between heaven and earth; how far apart is the heart from the Buddha? Between confusion and enlightenment.

9. 我们都是旅人，既然要去的终站是不一样的，只好在这里分手。

9. We are all travelers, since our final destinations are different, we can only part here.

10. 就算拥有着另一个他也会想起曾经那个让你忘不掉又爱又恨的人

10. Even if he has another one, he will still remember that person who once made you forgettable, yet both love and hate.

11. 也许多年以后，我会忘记曾经经历的所有细节。

11. Perhaps many years later, I will forget all the details of what I once experienced.

12. 他不是很高，但肩膀宽厚足以让你安心依赖。他不是很帅，但眼神坚定让人钟情此生。他不是很富，但却愿为你倾尽所有。他不算浪漫，却用男人一生仅一枚的Darry Ring（DR真爱戒指）告诉你，一生只爱你一人。这个世界上没有多美完美的人，但是能够被你宠爱一辈子，就是此生最大的幸福。

12. He is not very tall, but his broad and sturdy shoulders are enough to make you feel secure and reliant on him. He is not very handsome, but his determined gaze captivates you for a lifetime. He is not very wealthy, but he is willing to give everything he has for you. He is not very romantic, but he uses the Darry Ring (DR True Love Ring), the one ring a man wears in a lifetime, to tell you that he will love only you for a lifetime. There are not many perfect people in this world, but to be cherished by you for a lifetime is the greatest happiness in this life.

13. 女人，你总是那么容易付出，明知是痛苦，却还那么执着；

13. Woman, you always give so readily, knowing it's painful yet you are still so persistent.

14. 人生于世，我们遇见的人千千万万，但有些注定只是擦肩。没有缘分，你强求不来。缘分到了，你也逃不掉。

14. In this life, we meet countless people, but some are destined to be just a fleeting encounter. If there is no connection, you cannot force it. When the connection is there, you also cannot escape it.

15. 就算现在的他对你再好 都比不过曾经那个伤你最深的人也是如今最熟悉的陌生人

15. Even if he is good to you now, he can't compare to the person who hurt you the most in the past, who is now the most familiar stranger.

16. 我再也不想对谁说 能不能在我哭泣的时候借我肩膀

16. I no longer want to ask anyone, "Can I borrow your shoulder when I cry?"

17. 爱情问友情 世上有我了 为什么还要有你的存在？

17. Love asks of friendship: In a world where I exist, why do I still need your presence?

18. With his saying sorry for being difficult for herself

18. With his saying sorry for being difficult for herself

19. 也许多年以后，我会忘记现在深爱的你的模样。

19. Perhaps many years later, I will forget the appearance of the one I deeply love now.

20. 我们经常忽略那些疼爱我们的人，却疼爱着那些忽略我们的人

20. We often ignore those who love us, but love those who ignore us.

21. 所有关于我们的记忆，都敌不过将来我们的忘记。

21. All memories about us cannot withstand our future forgetfulness.

22. 这个时候，眼泪会聚集眼眶，在转身的一瞬间，碎裂成行。他走了，她走了，他们都走了，你还有你自己，你不孤独。

22. At this moment, tears gather in the eye sockets, shattering into streams in a blink of an eye. He left, she left, they all left; you still have yourself, you are not alone.

23. 信任是你给我一张附属卡，我不会去猜测额度有多高。

23. Trust is that you give me an附属卡 (附属卡), and I won't guess how high the limit is.

24. 后来再遇到喜欢的人，我都会想做朋友就好了。

24. Later on, whenever I meet someone I like, I always wish I could just be friends with them.

25. 对于芸芸众生，工作是饭碗。

25. For the common people, work is their livelihood.

26. 说太多 不如沉默 想太多 我会难过

26. Saying too much is better than silence; thinking too much makes me sad.

27. 喜欢一个人是一种感觉，不喜欢一个人却是事实。事实容易解释，感觉却难以言喻。

27. Liking someone is a feeling, while not liking someone is a fact. Facts are easy to explain, but feelings are hard to put into words.

28. 于是 便用沉默来防患未然

28. Therefore, silence was used as a precaution to prevent any potential problems.

29. 身边的人，都有各自的生活，我们再也回不到从前形影不离的温暖。

29. The people around us all have their own lives, and we can no longer return to the warmth of being inseparable from each other as we were before.

30. 一辈子，真短，别为一些无关事伤感，幸福不是看你拥有多少，而是看你在乎多少，不属于自己的不去强求，握在手里的好好珍惜。在快乐的心境中做自己喜欢的事，用阳光般的笑容走好每一段路。

30. Life is truly short, so don't be sad over trivial matters. Happiness does not lie in how much you possess, but in how much you care. Do not strive for things that do not belong to you, and cherish what you hold in your hands. Do what you like in a joyful state of mind, and walk every step with a smile as bright as the sun.

31. 或许也是因为太爱，所以太敏感，所以斤斤计较，所以岌岌可危。

31. Perhaps it is because of too much love that there is too much sensitivity, and therefore too much nitpicking, and thus the situation is precarious.

32. 生命于我们，只是沧海一粟，然而，却承载了太多的情非得已。聚散离合，痛苦欢笑，呐喊寻觅……———因为没有人知道那个最终的谜底。所以，我们唯一的选择，必须是：向前，笑看风，笑对雨。

32. To us, life is just a drop in the ocean, yet it carries too much that is inevitable. Gatherings and separations, pain and joy, shouting and seeking... —- because no one knows the ultimate answer. Therefore, our only choice must be: to move forward, smiling at the wind, smiling in the rain.

33. 9我对悲观的人说过，与其整日痛不欲生，不如当年胎死腹中。当我身陷其境，我发现，一切已回不去了。

33.9 I have told the pessimists that it's better to have been aborted in the womb than to live in constant suffering. When I found myself in that situation, I realized that everything had gone back and couldn't be undone.

34. 最好不相见，如此便可不相恋。最好不相知，如此便可不相思。

34. It's better never to meet, then we won't fall in love. It's better never to know, then we won't miss each other.

35. 8我骄傲地说，我可以站在人潮开怀大笑，我也可以躲在被窝痛哭一场。

35.8 I proudly say, I can laugh heartily amidst the throng of people, and I can also hide in my blankets and cry my heart out.

36. 强势的人未必就是强者。一个真正聪明的人，是懂得如何让自己委屈中求全。刚者易折，柔则长存。曾有人说：“任性是事业最大的敌人。”伴随着年龄增长，我们应该学会完善自己的个性，控制自己的情绪，莫过度任性而为。虽然这有点痛苦，但如果想要成功，就要记住：成熟的人做该做的事，而非只做喜欢的事。

36. Not necessarily the strong are the powerful. A truly intelligent person knows how to seek perfection even in adversity. The rigid may break easily, while the flexible endures. As someone once said, "Impulsiveness is the greatest enemy of success." With the passage of time, we should learn to refine our personality, control our emotions, and avoid acting impulsively. Although this may be a bit painful, if we want to succeed, we must remember: mature people do what needs to be done, not just what they like to do.

37. 想起我们的在一起 竟然是这样的顺理成章

37. Remembering our time together, it's actually quite natural and inevitable.

38. 没有惊鸿的相遇也没有动人的过程 一切就像冥冥之中注定的一样

38. Without a spectacular encounter or an moving process, everything seemed to be predetermined as if by fate.

39. 最好不相误，如此便可不相负。最好不相依，如此便可不相偎。

39. It's best not to misunderstand each other, then there will be no betrayal. It's best not to rely on each other, then there will be no clinging.

40. 心累的时候，换个角度看世界。人生，总有许多沟坎需要我们跨越。人人总有很多纠结无奈：有些事，明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人，明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局；有时候，明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。

40. When your heart is tired, change your perspective on the world. In life, there are always many hurdles that we need to overcome. Everyone always has many纠结 and helplessness: some things, even though we know they are wrong, we still have to persist because we are not willing to give up; some people, even though we know they are loved, we still have to let go because there is no ending; sometimes, even though we know there is no way, we still continue to move forward because we are accustomed to it.

41. 有时候沉默真好 可以假装什么都不知道

41. Sometimes silence is truly great, you can pretend to know nothing at all.

42. 一个是自私的我 一个是想报复她的我 都是我

42. One is the selfish me, and the other is the me that wants to seek revenge on her; both are me.

43. 打从某天起，好像跟你没那么好了，见面少了，电话也少了；

43. Since some day, it seems like we're not as close as before, we meet less often, and there are fewer phone calls.

44. 13我爱上了你，这不是我的错。错的是你从未爱过我。我放弃了你，这不是我的错。错的是你先提出了分手。

44. 13 I fell in love with you, this is not my fault. The fault is that you never loved me. I let you go, this is not my fault. The fault is that you were the one who initiated the breakup.

45. 如果你不值得，我会把你抖落，当作从来没有认识你，你是我年少无知所犯下的最愚蠢的错误。

45. If you're not worthy, I would shake you off, as if I had never known you. You are the most foolish mistake I made in my youth of ignorance.

46. 15你曾抛弃的那个我，已经死了。你已陌生的那个我，为别人活着。

46. The 'me' that you once abandoned is now dead. The 'me' that has become alien to you now lives for others.

47. 因为我的兵荒马乱 我的恋恋不忘 终究与你无关

47. Because of the chaos and turmoil of my soldiers, my persistent love and remembrance, in the end, have nothing to do with you.

48. 风雨能够磨练你的性情，霜雪会让你变得从容坦然；

48. Storms can temper your character, and frost and snow will make you composed and tranquil.

49. 当你觉得幸福的时候，不管你看到什么样的风景，

49. When you feel happy, no matter what kind of scenery you see,

50. 青春是一条弯弯曲曲的河，我们沿河奔跑，踩在会留下脚印子的河堤上，留下一深一浅的脚印，或是美好也或是落寞。我们一边奔跑，一边向往，一边回忆。我们哭着，笑着，痛着，在踩过数不清的脚印后终于明白很多事注定会泪流，而我们，也注定会长大。—— 晏小婷《辩手》

50. Youth is a winding river, along which we run, our feet leaving footprints on the riverbank. We leave prints that are deep and shallow, some filled with joy and others with loneliness. As we run, we aspire, we recall. We cry, we laugh, we hurt, and after stepping over countless footprints, we finally understand that many things are destined to bring tears, and that we, too, are destined to grow up. — Yan Xiaoting, "Debater"

51. 学会放弃，让彼此都能有个更轻松的开始，遍体鳞伤的爱并不一定就刻骨铭心。

51. Learn to let go, allowing for a lighter start for both of you. Love that leaves you wounded all over does not necessarily leave a deep, unforgettable scar.

52. 大千世界，所有的人和事都有自己的轨道，接受它们存在的任何样子，不牵动自己的情绪，不消耗自己的心情，不执着于自己期待的样子。

52. In this vast world, everyone and everything has their own path. Accept them as they are, without stirring up your own emotions, without consuming your mood, and without clinging to the appearance you expect.

53. 4你给的伤害，渗透了整个发潮的世界。我的眼泪，无处可藏。

53. The harm you gave has permeated the entire world of the rising tide. My tears have nowhere to hide.

54. 女人，你总是那么害怕离别，却总是假装坚强；

54. Woman, you are always so afraid of parting, yet you always pretend to be strong.

55. 这样 你便会忘记我曾经带给你的快乐忧伤与绝望

55. In this way, you will forget the happiness, sadness, and despair I once brought you.

56. 禁锢你的城市 你终是厌倦了 却没有一片海让你肆无忌惮的呐喊

56. The city that confines you, you have grown tired of it, yet there is no sea where you can scream freely without constraint.

57. 但更知道不能把这种反感说出来 神情中更不能流露出来

57. But even more, I know that I cannot express this aversion out loud, nor can I let it show in my expression.

58. 7爱情对我说，越幸福越接近孤单。爱情对我说，越错爱越懂得沧桑。爱情对我说，徒留了我，要学会坚强。

58. Love tells me that the happier I am, the closer I am to loneliness. Love tells me that the more wrong I love, the more I understand the vicissitudes of life. Love tells me that left all alone, I have to learn to be strong.

59. 如果一段感情，没有把你变成更好的人，那么很遗憾你跟错了人。

59. If a relationship doesn't make you a better person, then unfortunately, you've been with the wrong person.

60. 当你执着于一段感情，或者一个人，而他并不愿意呼应你，你会变得沮丧失落，一蹶不振，在生活的阴霾中沉迷不起。

60. When you are attached to a relationship or a person, and they are unwilling to respond to you, you may become despondent and demoralized, and sink into gloom without the will to rise out of the shadows of life.

61. 其实，生活并不需要这么些无谓的执着，没有什么就真的不能割舍。

61. In fact, life does not require so much unnecessary attachment; there is nothing that truly cannot be let go of.

62. 14我看着身边来来往往的幸福，心里总会很难过。因为我曾是那般的幸福，可惜没有和某人牵手到最后。

62. 14 I always feel very sad when I look at the happiness around me, coming and going. Because I used to be so happy, but unfortunately, I didn't hold someone's hand until the end.