人生通透：拥抱不如意料，坦然接受一切。

Life's Clarity: Embrace what is not as expected, and calmly accept everything.

1. 世事哪能多如意，万事只求半称心。

1. In this world, how can things always be to one's liking? All one can hope for is to have half of what one desires.

2. 人活在世，不如意的事常常发生。丢了工作，是与那份工作的缘分到了头。别难过，下个与你有缘的工作正在等着你;好朋友走了，不再往来。不要为他的离去而过分伤心，缘分到了，留是留不住的;亲人离开了人世，伤心后告诉自己，缘分尽了，该走的都是天意。做到随缘，人就可以在逆境中保持一颗平静的心。

2. In life, it is common for things not to go as planned. Losing a job means the end of the connection with that particular position. Don't be sad; another job that is meant for you is waiting. A good friend has left, and there will be no further contact. Don't overgrieve for their departure; when the connection is meant to end, it cannot be retained. When a loved one leaves this world, after being sad, remind yourself that the connection has run its course, and those who should leave are guided by fate. By embracing destiny, one can maintain a peaceful heart in adversity.

3. 学会和命运和解，不纠结，不计较，不在乎，才能过好余生。

3. Learn to reconcile with fate, not to be entangled, not to calculate, not to care, and only then can one live out the rest of one's life well.

4. 人生难免会遇到坎坷、悲伤、愧疚、迷茫、无奈等等不如意，稍不留神，我们就会被自己亲手建造的心狱囚禁。不要指望别人的救赎，心灵的枷锁是你自己扣上的，也只有你自己才能够把它打开。哪怕一无所有，哪怕孤身一人，哪怕处境艰难，也要从容生活、笑对人生。只要你够坚强，命运又能把你怎么样呢

4. Life is bound to encounter坎坷, sadness, guilt, confusion, helplessness, and other unwelcome things. If we are not careful, we may be imprisoned in the heart's prison we have built ourselves. Don't expect others to redeem you; the shackles of the soul are fastened by yourself, and only you can unlock them. Even if you have nothing, even if you are alone, even if you are in a difficult situation, you should live with composure and face life with a smile. As long as you are strong, what can fate do to you?

5. 人生不如意的时候，是上帝给的长假，这个时候就应该好好享受假期。当突然有一天假期结束，时来运转，人生才真正开始了。

5. When life is not going as expected, it is like God has given you a long vacation. During this time, one should fully enjoy the holiday. Suddenly, one day, when the vacation comes to an end and things turn around, that's when life truly begins.

6. 我们感觉生活不如意，要么抱怨得太甚，要么奢望得太多。抱怨有什么用呢，就算再不公平，也没有人愿意倾听你的诉说。我们的需求是有限的，不要什么都渴望得到，不要让生命的行囊成为一种负重。放手不等于放弃，而是为了更好地前进。你卸下的多，痛苦就少些，就会走得更远些。

6. We feel that life is not satisfactory, either we complain too much or we have too many unrealistic expectations. What good is complaining? Even if it is unfair, no one is willing to listen to your grievances. Our needs are limited; do not desire everything, and do not let the baggage of life become a burden. Letting go does not mean giving up; it is for a better progression. The more you let go, the less pain you will have, and the farther you will go.

7. 人淡如菊，是面对生活的困厄和不如意，坦然迎之，不怨天尤人，不凄凄哀哀。麻衣陋室，粗茶淡饭，神情也是怡然自得。这样的女子，你和她在一起，不管是穷困潦倒，还是天涯飘零，她都会不离不弃，温言婉语，静静相随，慰你失意之悲，流离之苦。

7. A person as gentle as a chrysanthemum faces life's hardships and setbacks with a calm demeanor, without complaining about fate or blaming others, nor does she indulge in sorrow. Living in simple, humble quarters, dressed in coarse robes, and eating simple, unadorned food, her spirit is still content and at ease. Such a woman, when you are with her, whether you are destitute and in despair or wandering aimlessly in the world, she will never abandon you. With her gentle and soothing words, she will quietly accompany you, comforting your sadness and the suffering of being uprooted.

8. 现实难免难免会有很多的不如意，但有得必有失，事事不可要求圆满，也不能强求完美。即使一切重新来过，我们依然是当初的自己，依然会做出当初的选择。所以，不妨坦然接受现在，努力改善现在。无需为错过的、未曾得到的而悔恨。你手中总有值得呵护和珍惜的，远方也总有值得你去追求和期待的!

8. It is inevitable that there will be many things that are not to our liking in reality, but there is a gain for every loss, and we cannot expect everything to be perfect or demand it. Even if we had a chance to start all over again, we would still be the same person we were at the beginning, and we would still make the same choices. Therefore, why not accept the present with ease and strive to improve it. There is no need to regret for what we have missed or what we have not yet obtained. There is always something in your hands that is worth nurturing and cherishing, and there is always something in the distance that is worth pursuing and looking forward to!

9. 一个人活着，不管碰到什么样的命运沉浮，遭遇什么样的生活环境，都要坦然接受，顺其自然。允许一切发生，接纳发生的一切，学会和解，学会释怀，学会解脱自己。

9. A person should live life, regardless of the ups and downs of destiny, and whatever kind of living environment they encounter, with an unflinching acceptance and a natural顺应. Allow everything to happen, embrace what happens, learn to reconcile, learn to let go, and learn to free oneself.

10. 人生有太多的不如意，我们要学会去努力。耶稣在星期五被钉死在十字架上，那是全世界最绝望的一天。可是三天后就是复活节……所以，人在困境中应学会，至少再等三天!

10. Life is full of dissatisfaction, and we should learn to strive. Jesus was crucified on Friday, which was the most desperate day in the world. However, three days later, it's Easter... So, when people are in困境, they should learn to wait at least three more days!

11. 苏轼的人生很不幸，在生活和事业都已经稳定的中年，命运一记爆锤，把他从人生高峰掀翻在地，坠入低谷。

11. Su Shi had a very不幸 life. In his middle age, when both his personal life and career had stabilized, fate dealt him a heavy blow, knocking him from the peak of his life and sending him crashing into a deep valley.

12. 如果总是和命运死磕，对生活百般挑剔，稍不如意，就怨天尤人，呼天抢地，那他一定是一个失败者，被命运打得遍体鳞伤，而毫无还手之力。

12. If one always confronts fate stubbornly, criticizes life in every way, and, upon slightest dissatisfaction,抱怨天地，悲呼哀号， then he is definitely a loser, beaten to a pulp by fate, with no ability to fight back.

13. 不懂得放弃的人，总将生活中不如意绕在心灵的枝杆上，一生就像北方腊月的浓雾，挥之不去。就这么一味地自怨自哀，自暴自弃，于是青春美丽的容颜与悠悠岁月擦肩而过恰如风过竹面，雁过长空，就像苏东坡的一生人生长叹：“事如春梦了无痕”。

13. Those who do not know how to let go always hold the unpleasantries of life in the branches of their hearts, and their entire life is like the thick fog of the northern winter, stubborn and unwavering. They continue to complain and despair, and thus, the beauty of their youth slips away with the passing years, just like the wind passing over bamboo leaves or a wild goose flying across the sky. It is as if it were Su Dongpo's life, with a long sigh: "Events are like spring dreams, leaving no trace."

14. 朝廷看不下去，又把他贬到更为偏远的惠州。他也不在乎，在那里吃荔枝，学种田，和老农聊农业，同僧道游山水，不亦乐乎！

14. The court could not bear to see him anymore, so they demoted him to an even more remote place, Huizhou. He didn't care at all. In Huizhou, he enjoyed eating lychees, learned to farm, discussed agriculture with the old farmers, and wandered around the mountains and rivers with monks and Taoists. How happy he was!

15. 悲观的人会把各种不如意，像串糖葫芦一样串成串，越串越多，有意无意就拿出来舔，越舔越苦，越觉得命运对自己不公，越觉得自己那么真善美，却总遇上假恶丑，越觉得自己要求不多，却一无所获。这个世界不太美好，但也不算太糟糕，身边还有亲人、朋友，睁开眼能看见日月、山河……活着应该很快乐。

15. Pessimistic people will string various unpleasant things together, like candy skewers, accumulating more and more. Either consciously or unconsciously, they take them out to舔, and the more they舔, the more bitter it becomes. They feel that fate is unfair to them, that they are truly kind and beautiful, yet they always encounter fake, evil, and ugly things. They feel that they don't ask for much, yet they get nothing at all. This world is not very beautiful, but it's also not too terrible. They have their family and friends around them, and they can see the sun, the moon, the rivers, and the mountains with their eyes wide open... Living should be very happy.

16. 人生总有不如意，人生总有不满足，人生总有不称心。我们可以羡慕他人的功名、财富、地位、爱情，但只用眼睛羡慕就好。如果眼里长出了胳膊，对看到的一切都想伸手去拿，那我们就不仅会变成一个贪得无厌的俗人，而且很可能会变成一个道貌岸然的强盗。

16. Life is always full of dissatisfaction, dissatisfaction, and dissatisfaction. We can envy others' achievements, wealth, status, and love, but we should only羡慕 with our eyes. If our eyes grow arms and we want to reach out and grab everything we see, we will not only become a greedy and common person, but we may very well turn into a hypocritical thief.

17. 我们总在感慨和喟叹，人生不如意十之八九，总有很多梦想终成梦幻，总有很多迎面而来变为擦肩而过。有些人，不是我们不珍惜，有些事，不是我们不努力，只是我们的心界装不下那么多，曾经很多的拥有或者失去都违背了自己的初衷。要知道，生命本身就是一种不完美，或许只因有了裂缝，阳光才能照得进来。

17. We are always filled with regrets and sighs, for life is filled with more than eight out of ten things that don't go as planned. Many dreams end up as mere illusions, and many opportunities that come our way slip through our fingers. Some people, it's not that we don't cherish them, and some things, it's not that we don't try hard enough. It's just that our hearts can't contain so much. Many of our past possessions or losses have gone against our original intentions. We must understand that life itself is imperfect, and perhaps it's only because of the cracks that the sunlight can penetrate.

18. 人生遇到的人和事，本来就是泥沙俱下，良莠不齐。如果内心敏感脆弱，玻璃心，经不起折腾，受不了伤害，只会让自己活成现实生活中的林黛玉，以泪洗面，怨天尤人。

18. The people and things one encounters in life are naturally a mix of the good and the bad, the good and the bad. If one's heart is sensitive and fragile, like a glass that cannot withstand turmoil or injury, one will only live like Lin Daiyu in real life, washing one's face with tears and blaming the heavens and others.

19. 这几天看心理学方面的书，看书中的案例，很是感慨人生的不易和艰难。还是古人看得透，总结的好——人生不如意事十之八九。这是告诉人们，一是顺其自然，二是保持良好的心态，三是不要与自己较真。但是能真正领悟的坦然接受的又有几人呢？尽管每个人来到这个世界的初心都是希望自己是很好的、优秀的、出类拔萃的、成功的，但世事无常，也不总顺着自己的意愿发展。有些人，努力了，付出了，回报却与努力和付出不对等，于是怨天怨地怨父母，一生都活在怨恨之中；有的人注定就是个“倒霉蛋儿”，一出生爹不疼娘不爱，天天还像个风箱里的老鼠一样被当做出气筒，这样的人活在PM25严重爆表的雾霾天里，不能客观公证看待人间也正常；还有的人是身在福中不知福，有事没事的总和别人比，比着比着眼斜了嘴歪了心跑偏了，于是在不平衡中挣扎了一生；……人生百态，酸甜苦辣咸个中滋味都尝遍，喜怒哀俱常常左右着人们的心境和情绪。生活中，一切不合心意的事情或看不惯的行为，都会瞬间引起我们的不良情绪发作，或生气、愤怒、怨恨、沮丧、伤心、痛苦……有些事，或许我们可以“以牙还牙”来舒缓我们的不良情绪，但有些事情，却只能无奈地接受，因为他人的肆无忌惮、明目张胆的行为是知道你奈何不了他——或许接下来的人生你们没有交集的可能，或许他永远都高高在上，又或许你没有“以牙还牙”的资本和能力。人生短暂，与其让生活中不能阻止的不顺心不如意困扰着自己，倒不如敞开心怀接纳它们，然后找个地方，将郁积于心的不痛快不舒服大声地喊出，让堵在心里的污浊之气释放出去。记住人生不完美才完美。

19. In these days, I have been reading books on psychology and reflecting on the cases in them, which deeply touches my heart about the difficulties and challenges of life. The ancients were indeed perceptive and had good insights – most things in life are not as one wishes. This is a reminder to people that one should: 1) follow the natural course of things, 2) maintain a positive mindset, and 3) not take everything personally. However, how many people can truly understand and accept this with composure? Although everyone comes into this world with the hope of being good, outstanding, exceptional, and successful, life is unpredictable and does not always unfold according to one's wishes. Some people work hard and make sacrifices, but their rewards are not proportional to their efforts and sacrifices, and thus they complain about fate, heaven, and their parents, living their entire lives in resentment; some are destined to be "unlucky," born with neither the love of their parents, and treated as venting objects day in and day out; such individuals, living in a day with a PM2.5 reading off the charts, is not surprising in their inability to objectively view the world. There are also those who are unaware of their blessings, constantly comparing themselves to others, and end up with skewed eyes, twisted mouths, and hearts veering off course, struggling their entire lives in a state of imbalance;... Life is full of various experiences, sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty, and one tastes them all. Joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness often sway people's mood and emotions. In life, anything that does not meet our expectations or any behavior we cannot stand can instantly trigger our negative emotions, ranging from anger, fury, resentment, depression, sadness, to pain... There are some things we might "pay back in kind" to alleviate our negative emotions, but there are also things we can only accept helplessly because the thoughtless and brazen actions of others are aware that we cannot stop them – perhaps there is no possibility of intersecting paths in the future, perhaps they will always be superior, or perhaps we do not have the capital or ability to "pay back in kind." Life is short, and it is better to open our hearts and embrace the unpleasantness and unhappiness that life throws at us, then find a place to loudly express the discomfort and unhappiness accumulated in our hearts, releasing the polluted air that is blocked inside. Remember, it is the imperfections in life that make it perfect.

20. “最好的心态就是：看淡起落跌宕，接纳反复无常，上天给你什么，你就享受什么；上天拿走什么，你就接受什么；上天懒得理你，你也别去理他。”

20. "The best attitude is: take a light-hearted view of ups and downs, embrace the capriciousness, enjoy whatever the heavens give you; accept whatever the heavens takes away from you; and if the heavens chooses to ignore you, don't bother to pay attention to it either."

21. 我们或许无法改变自己的命运，但是可以改变支配命运的态度，心平气和地接受生命中发生的一切。

21. We may not be able to change our fate, but we can change the attitude that dominates our fate, calmly accepting everything that happens in life.

22. 生活顺利时，要知道福乐并非永恒﹔生活不如意时，视困境为过眼云烟。不要把这些体验看得太过认真，要知道苦与乐来来去去，一直变幻不定。在看透这一点时，就可以做个自在的旁观者。

22. When life is going smoothly, one should know that happiness is not eternal; when life is not as one wishes, one should view adversity as a fleeting cloud. Do not take these experiences too seriously, for one should realize that both suffering and joy come and go, always changing. When one sees through this, one can be a contented onlooker.

23. 董宇辉说：“这个世界并不会一直善待你，你的脆弱有时候会成为致命的缺点。我们要做的，就是在漫漫人生中，不断强化自己，将玻璃心换成钢的。没有过不去的事情，只有逃不开的心情。做人，最核心的能力是心力。”

23. Dong Yuhui said: "This world will not always be kind to you, and sometimes your fragility can become a fatal weakness. What we need to do is to continuously strengthen ourselves in the long journey of life, replacing our glass hearts with steel. There are no insurmountable things, only unescapable feelings. The most core ability of being a person is the power of the heart."

24. 俞敏洪在一次节目中说：

24. Yu Minhong said in a program:

25. 世界有自己的发展规律，不会以任何人的主观意志为转移。有时候，哪怕我们竭尽全力，也会有无能为力的时候。哪怕我们费尽心神，也有可望不可及的时候。

25. The world has its own laws of development and will not be swayed by anyone's subjective will. Sometimes, even with all our efforts, there are times when we feel helpless. And even with all our efforts, there are things that seem unattainable.

26. 当你遭遇到不如意事的时候，尽可把它看做一幕戏或一段小说，而你不过临时做了其中主角而已。那样你将会反而觉得有所收获而感欣慰。

26. When you encounter things that are not to your liking, you may consider them as a play or a novel, and you are just a temporary protagonist in it. In that way, you will instead feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

27. “我有两个大学男同学已经死了，都是家庭条件很好，成长阶段一路顺风，快乐健康的，但俩人没有抵抗挫折和不幸的能力，一个抑郁癌症死亡，一个精神失常跳楼。

27. "I have two university male classmates who have passed away. Both came from well-to-do families, had smooth sailing during their growth stages, and lived happy and healthy lives. However, neither of them had the ability to withstand setbacks and misfortune; one died of depression and cancer, and the other went crazy and jumped off a building.

28. 轮回的路上，并非都是鲜花坦途，常常会有不如意的事发生，令我们纠结于心，叹息不已。逆境是成长必经的过程，不要把境况看得那么坏，要勇于接受逆境，当困难克服了，困境过去了，才会尝到人生的真味，生命也会因此而日渐灿烂。

28. On the path of reincarnation, it is not always a flower-strewn road. There are often things that do not go as expected, causing us to be entangled in worry and sighs. Adversity is an indispensable process of growth. Do not view the situation as too bad. Be brave in facing adversity. When the difficulties are overcome and the tough times pass, one will truly taste the essence of life, and the life will thereby become increasingly radiant.

29. 很多人的人生都是十有八九不如意的，那么具体该怎么形容呢学会从容面对，自我克制、自我调适、自我解脱，保持内心坦然、泰然。大千世界，色彩缤纷，名利、地位、美色等使人心动神摇，面对种种诱惑，要心静如水，不为权力所争，不为名利所诱，不为金钱所累，不为灯红酒绿所引。坚守一片宁静的心灵天地。

29. Many people's lives are mostly unsatisfactory, so how should we specifically describe it? Learn to face it calmly, self-restrained, self-regulated, and self-relieved, maintaining an inner peace and composure. In the vast world, full of colorful things, desires for fame and fortune, status, beauty, etc., can shake the mind. Facing various temptations, one should keep a tranquil heart like water, not striving for power, not being lured by fame and fortune, not burdened by money, not led by the allure of bright lights and red wine. Hold fast to a tranquil spiritual realm.

30. 朝廷剥夺了他的荣华富贵，官职俸禄，把他流放到广袤偏僻的黄州。他不介意，在那里泛舟游玩，吟诗作赋，煮酒烹肉，好不自在！

30. The court stripped him of his wealth and honors, his official position and salary, and exiled him to the vast and remote Huangzhou. He didn't mind at all. There, he enjoyed boating and sightseeing, composing poems and verses, cooking wine and roasting meat, feeling incredibly free and at ease!

31. 人生走过一段路，风景毕竟不相同。人越年长，便会逐渐对身边的人和事越来越淡然。人生不存在十全十美，有遗憾才显出生活本色。人生不如意事常八九，想得开便自我解脱，想不开必然自寻烦恼，甚至到老仍耿耿于怀，真是何苦来!

31. As life progresses and one travels a certain distance, the scenery inevitably changes. As people grow older, they tend to become increasingly indifferent towards the people and things around them. Life is not perfect; it is the imperfections that reveal the true essence of life. Life is often filled with setbacks, and it is only when one can let go that they can find relief from themselves. If one cannot let go, they will inevitably seek trouble for themselves, and even in old age, they may still harbor lingering regrets, which truly is unnecessary suffering!

32. 昆明梁艳分享305天。网络中级五期。20180321

32. Kunming Liang Yan shares for 305 days. Internet Intermediate Level 5, Period 20180321.

33. 我们每个人在生活中总会有些不如意，也可能会遇上些无法逆转的事。明知不能摆脱，心里总会耿耿于怀。假如，我们的心里总是装满着糖，那么人生太过单调乏味了。让我们善待生活中的缺点吧，用宽容之心，豁达之心去面对生活。

33. We all have our share of dissatisfaction in life, and we may also encounter things that cannot be reversed. Knowing that we cannot shake them off, we always hold them in our hearts with a sense of grudge. Suppose our hearts are always filled with sweetness; then life would be too monotonous and boring. Let us treat the shortcomings in life with kindness, facing life with a宽容 and open-hearted attitude.

34. 再幸福的生活，都有不如意的事情。世界总是优劣并存，注意力在哪里，你的心就在哪里。以清净心看世界，红尘的喧嚣就无法动摇你的心;用欢喜心过生活，生活中的不如意就影响不了你的心情。天堂与地狱，只在一念之间。人生有所求，求而得之，我之所喜;求而不得，我亦无忧。

34. No matter how happy a life may be, there will always be things that are not as desired. The world always has its good and bad aspects; where your attention lies, your heart follows. With a pure mind to see the world, the hustle and bustle of the secular world cannot shake your heart; living with a joyful heart, the unpleasantness in life cannot affect your mood. Heaven and hell are just a thought apart. In life, there are things to seek, and when sought, I am content; if not, I am also at ease.

35. 在强大的命运面前，每个人都是渺小的。所谓：“寄蜉蝣于天地，渺沧海之一粟。”人生如此短暂，忽聚忽散，忽生忽死，我们就不要再跟命运死磕，和自己和解，把每一个当下的日子经营得活色生香，翩翩起舞。

35. In the face of the mighty destiny, everyone is insignificant. As the saying goes: "We place a mayfly in the universe, a grain of sand in the boundless sea." Life is so fleeting, constantly gathering and dispersing, constantly born and dying. So let's not argue with destiny, reconcile with ourselves, and make every day we have alive and vibrant, dancing gracefully.

36. 许多事情并非想象中那样顺利，人生不如意十之八九，每个人都可能遇到难以解决的难题，也可能在最困难的时候峰回路转。每个人都有难以释怀，和无法忘记的事情。如果真的在意，应该放下。没必要为无法改变的事实去苦恼，历史不会重演，时光不会倒流。无论多么风光或糟糕的事情，一天之后，便会成为过去。

36. Many things are not as smooth as one imagines, and in life, more than 90% of the time, things don't go as planned. Everyone may encounter insurmountable difficulties, and it's possible to turn a corner even in the most challenging times. Everyone has things that they cannot let go of and cannot forget. If one truly cares, one should let go. There's no need to worry about facts that cannot be changed; history does not repeat itself, and time cannot flow backward. No matter how glorious or terrible an event may be, a day after it will become the past.

37. 生活中不如意的事情很多，有些命中注定的事情是我们无法撑控的。如果我们一直背负着这些枷锁，只能让自己生活在痛苦之中。只有保持心态的平和，我们才能远离痛苦，还自己一份快乐。

37. There are many unpleasant things in life, and some things that are destined to happen are beyond our control. If we keep carrying these burdens, we can only live in pain. Only by maintaining a peaceful mindset can we distance ourselves from pain and give ourselves a share of happiness.

38. 最后，朝廷干脆把他贬到全国最偏僻最落后的儋州，他也不悲伤，一心一意办学校，传文化，吃椰子，悠然惬意。

38. Finally, the court simply demoted him to Danzhou, the most remote and backward place in the country. He did not feel sad at all, but focused entirely on establishing schools, spreading culture, eating coconuts, and living a leisurely and contented life.

39. 而像我这样的，从黑暗中走出来，看得见星星和月亮，能享受那份满足幸福，也忍得了在黑暗里。”

39. And for someone like me, who has emerged from the darkness, I can see the stars and the moon, and I can enjoy that sense of fulfillment and happiness, and I can also endure being in the dark."

40. 其实人生不如意事十之八九，与其以一幅落魄脸示人，不如换以清新、明朗的形象，反倒更让人信任，更能得到成长的机会。

40. In fact, most things in life are not as one wishes, and it's better to present a fresh and bright image to others rather than a desolate one. This approach is not only more trustworthy but also offers more opportunities for growth.

41. 人的一生，无论是谁，都会面临很多的挫折。可是在困难面前，我们不能退缩，只有学会微笑，坦然面对一切，生活才能继续。面对人生的不如意，能够微笑面对的人，一定是聪明豁达的人。人生不如意事常有八九，我们何必把这烦恼无尽的扩大，而放弃这快乐的一二呢！回望生命的历程，有太多的伤痕，太多的无奈。可是谁的人生都不可能一帆风顺，面对这太多的挫折，我们只有抬头微笑，把一切看淡。无畏无惧坦然面对每一天。如果一味地活在痛苦中，人生就会看不到希望；一味地纠结于自己的痛苦，人生就会错失眼前的快乐。其实不管怎样的人，生命都只是一个过程，每个人都有太多的不如意，谁也无法摆脱尘世间的烦恼。喧嚣尘世，岁月可以约束我们的生命，可无法约束我们的心情。卢森堡说过：“不管怎样的事情，都请安静地愉快吧！这是人生，我们要依样地接受人生，勇敢地，大胆地，永远地微笑着"。我们要学寒梅，在天寒地冻中依然怒放着生命！微笑是人生睿智的姿态，人生，没有永远的伤痛，没有过不去的坎。我们何不微笑着让所有的日子徜徉呢？感动于生命的刹那，感念与生命的精彩，感谢于生活的多姿。让所有的日子永远停留在最为美丽的微笑里。微笑是岁月的使然，是生命的必然，在微笑里让自己的每一天前行，在微笑里怒放着自己的生命，我愿永远微笑着坦然面对自己的生命历程，无所畏惧，毅然前行！

41. In the course of a person's life, whoever it may be, everyone will face many setbacks. However, in the face of difficulties, we cannot retreat; only by learning to smile and calmly face everything, can life continue. Those who can smile in the face of life's disappointments are undoubtedly intelligent and open-minded individuals. Life is often filled with more than eight or nine things that are not as expected. Why should we endlessly amplify this烦恼 and give up the joy of a few things? Looking back on the journey of life, there are too many scars and too much helplessness. But no one's life can be smooth sailing without any hiccups. In the face of so many setbacks, we can only lift our heads and smile, taking everything lightly. With courage and fearlessness, we can calmly face each day. If we continue to live in pain, we will not see hope in life; if we are overly fixated on our own pain, we will miss the joy that is in front of us. In fact, regardless of who we are, life is just a process, and everyone has too many things that are not as expected, and no one can escape the troubles of the world. In the noisy world, time can约束 our lives, but it cannot约束 our mood. Luxembourg once said, "In any case, please be quiet and cheerful! This is life, we should accept life as it is, bravely, boldly, and forever smiling." We should learn from the plum blossoms that still bloom in the cold and frozen days! A smile is the wise posture of life. Life has no permanent pain, no insurmountable obstacles. Why not smile and let every day wander freely? Be moved by the fleeting moments of life, cherish the wonders of life, and be grateful for the diversity of life. Let every day forever stay in the most beautiful smile. A smile is the result of time, the necessity of life. In the smile, let every day of our lives move forward, let our lives bloom with smiles, and I wish to forever smile and calmly face the journey of my life, fearless and determined to move forward!

42. 人生途中，不如意十有八九，成功总是寥若晨星，平凡却似暗夜繁星。我们生命中%的精彩，是用%的平淡做铺垫的。尽管生活差强人意，尽管处境波澜不惊，都不要去计较什么，去抱怨什么，那样只能暴露你的无知、无能。要知道，黑夜再长，总会天明;守得云开，终见日出。只要不停下脚步，前面就有风光。

42. In the journey of life, it is often the case that nine out of ten things do not go as planned, and success is as rare as stars in the morning sky. The% of the wonders in our lives are paved with% of the plainness. Despite life not being entirely satisfactory and despite the situation being calm, do not worry about or complain about anything, as that can only expose your ignorance and inability. Remember, no matter how long the night is, it will eventually dawn; and if you persevere, you will eventually see the sun rise. As long as you do not stop stepping forward, there will be scenery ahead.

43. 不必挑剔生活的不如意，美好的人生，一定不要错过旅途中的各种风景。你痛苦过，幸福过，哭过，笑过，这才是人生本真的魅力。生命中的各种体验犹如不同的风景，它们会给人生带来各样的感受。无论缺少哪一种都是一种遗憾。哭着哭着就笑了，那笑容才更甜;痛着痛着就好了，人生活的是经历，幸福总是在路上。

43. Don't be picky about the shortcomings of life. A beautiful life should never miss the various landscapes along the journey. You have experienced pain, happiness, crying, and laughing; this is the true charm of life. The various experiences in life are like different landscapes, bringing all sorts of feelings to life. Any lack of them is a kind of regret. Crying and then laughing, the smile is sweeter; suffering and then recovering, life is about experiences, and happiness is always on the road.

44. 我们要学会接受所有的事与愿违，哪怕命运多么残酷无情，除了坦然接受，其实别无选择。

44. We need to learn to accept all that does not go according to our wishes, even if fate is cruel and ruthless. In reality, there is no other choice but to accept it calmly.

45. 不管命运怎么刁难他，他都能顺其自然，快快乐乐，积极经营好眼前的日子。

45. No matter how life challenges him, he can go with the flow, live happily, and actively manage the days at hand.

46. 既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如净心。既然不能如愿，不如释怀。

46. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be joyful. Since there is no pure land, it is better to purify one's mind. Since it is impossible to meet one's desires, it is better to let go and not be attached.

47. 我们每一个人的一生中都难免有缺憾和不如意，也许我们无力改变这个事实，而我们可以改变的是看待这些事情的态度。用平和的态度来对待生活中的缺憾和苦难。

47. It is inevitable for each of us to experience shortcomings and dissatisfaction in our lives, perhaps we have no power to change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful attitude.

48. 再美的花园，都有不洁净的东西;再幸福的生活，都有不如意的事情。世界总是优劣并存，注意力在哪里，你的心就在哪里。以清净心看世界，红尘的喧嚣就无法动摇你的心;用欢喜心过生活，生活中的不如意就影响不了你的心情。

48. No matter how beautiful a garden, there will always be unclean things; no matter how happy a life, there will always be things that are not as expected. The world always has both good and bad, and where your attention lies, that is where your heart resides. With a pure heart to view the world, the hustle and bustle of the secular world cannot shake your heart; living with a joyful heart, the unpleasantness in life cannot affect your mood.