探寻顶级生活：坐观星辰，揭秘非凡体验

Explore the Ultimate Lifestyle: Observe the Stars, Unveil Extraordinary Experiences

1. 以前总想着给自己找一座靠山，后来发现山上不是狼虫虎豹，就是坎坷荆棘，只有自己才是可以依靠的那座山。

1. In the past, I always thought of finding a mountain to rely on, but later I found that the mountain was either filled with wolves, insects, tigers, and leopards, or with rugged thorns and brambles. Only myself is the mountain that can be relied upon.

2. 活到后来才发现，人生哪需要那么多的眼界和格局，就在自己的世界里孤独而满足的活着，是一种莫大的幸福。

2. Only later in life did I realize that one doesn't need so many horizons and dimensions in life. To live alone and content in one's own world is a great happiness.

3. 不抱怨，积极的面对生活，乐观的过好每一天，才能过得越来越好。

3. Without complaints, facing life positively, and living each day optimistically, one can lead an ever-improving life.

4. 做人就要堂堂正正，坦坦荡荡，有人看得起自己，固然高兴。有人看不起自己，也不必介意，我们活着，不是为了让谁看得起的。

4. As human beings, we should live with dignity and openness. While it is pleasant when others respect us, it is also not necessary to be concerned if someone looks down upon us. We live not to please anyone's opinion of us.

5. 凡事都要有翻篇的能力，不在任何事情上纠结，不让任何已经发生的事情消耗自己的精力和时间。

5. Always have the ability to turn the page, not be entangled in anything, and not let any past events consume one's energy and time.

6. 庸俗的人用热闹填补空虚，厉害的人用独处成就自己。

6. Mediocre people fill their emptiness with excitement, while formidable people achieve themselves through solitude.

7. 人与人之间没有永远的朋友，也没有永远的敌人，只有永远的利益。当你拥有足够的价值，大家都会对你很热情。当你没有什么价值，狗都不理你。

7. There are no permanent friends or enemies between people, only permanent interests. When you possess enough value, everyone will be very enthusiastic towards you. When you have nothing of value, not even a dog would care about you.

8. 弘一法师曾说：“人要有翻篇的能力，不依不饶就是画地为牢，困不住别人，却困得住自己。这个世界上没有真正快乐的人，只有想得开的人。要永远相信，所有的山穷水尽都藏着峰回路转，善恶悲喜，一念之间，一念执着，万般皆苦，一念放下，便是重生。”

8. Master Hongyi once said, "A person must have the ability to turn the page. Holding onto things stubbornly is like enclosing oneself in a prison. It may not trap others, but it will trap oneself. In this world, there are no truly happy people, only those who can let go. Always believe that all dead ends are hiding turns in the road. Goodness, evil, sadness, and joy are all in a single thought. If one clings to something, it is all suffering; if one lets go, it is rebirth."

9. 坐井观天，本自具足，生命自得圆满。

9. Looking at the sky from a well, one is inherently sufficient; life naturally attains completeness.

10. 宁愿一个人喝茶，一个人散步，一个人阅读，也不想应付虚伪的人情世故，说言不由衷的话。

10. I would rather drink tea, take a walk, and read alone than endure the artificial social interactions and say words that do not come from the heart.

11. 我们曾如此期待外界的认可，后来才发现世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。活到了一定年纪，悟透了生命的本质其实就是一个人活着，不必在乎别人怎么看待你。

11. We had so eagerly anticipated recognition from the outside world, only to later find out that the world is actually our own, having nothing to do with others. As we age, we come to understand that the essence of life is simply to live as an individual, without concerning ourselves with how others perceive us.

12. 在自己的世界里，坐井观天，超然物外，才是生命的最高境界。

12. In one's own world, looking at the sky from a well, being aloof from the material world, is the highest境界 of life.

13. 美国作家梭罗说：我宁可一个人坐在一只南瓜上，也不愿意和一群人挤在天鹅绒的坐垫上。

13. The American writer Thoreau once said: "I would rather sit alone on a pumpkin than be crammed into a group of天鹅绒 cushions."

14. 人群聚集的地方，一般都在做三件事：拐弯抹角的炫耀自己，添油加醋的贬低别人，互相窥探的搬弄是非。

14. In places where crowds gather, people generally engage in three things: they subtly show off, they exaggerate to belittle others, and they gossip about each other.

15. 任何已经发生的事情，都要心平气和的对待，如果不能改变，那就坦然接受，千万不要抱怨，更不要在精神内耗中折磨自己。

15. Any event that has already occurred should be treated with a calm mind. If it cannot be changed, then accept it with ease. Never complain, and definitely do not torture yourself through mental耗竭.

16. 人到中年最好的活法，莫过于不抽烟，不喝酒，不嫖娼，不赌博，不讨好任何人，也不在乎别人的鄙视和冷漠，平时努力赚钱，有空就锻炼身体，读书写字。

16. The best way to live in middle age is to not smoke, not drink, not engage in prostitution, not gamble, not please anyone, and not care about others' scorn and indifference. Work hard to make money in daily life, and exercise, read, and write when free.

17. 杨绛先生说：

17. Mr. Yang Jiang said:

18. 不要去讨好任何人，所有关系的本质都是价值交换，如果你没有对应的价值和别人交易，百般讨好，伏低做小，只会让人看扁你。

18. Don't try to please anyone. The essence of all relationships is value exchange. If you don't have corresponding value to trade with others, all your efforts to please and humble yourself will only make people look down on you.

19. “我已经没兴趣给每个人留下好印象，好与坏我都不反驳，我不想解释，更懒得解释，你能懂我几分，就是几分，你觉得我是什么样的人，你就配怎样的我。”

19. "I'm no longer interested in making a good impression on everyone. Whether it's good or bad, I don't argue, I don't want to explain, let alone be lazy to explain. How much you understand me is how much, and what kind of person you think I am, that's the kind of me you deserve."

20. 生命的本质就是百年孤独，一个人活着也没什么不好。

20. The essence of life is a century of solitude, and there's nothing wrong with living as an individual.

21. 坐井观天，本来是一个贬义词，指一个人生活在自己的狭窄天地里，没有眼界和格局。

21. Viewing the sky from a well is originally a derogatory term, referring to a person living in their own narrow world without a broad perspective or vision.