在探寻生活的真谛中，学会放手，拥抱无法触及的远方，是每个人成长旅途中不可或缺的体验。

In the pursuit of the essence of life, learning to let go and embrace the distant unattainable is an indispensable experience in everyone's journey of growth.

1. 人生兜兜转转一场空，金也空，银也空，名也空，利也空，权也空，势也空。来时一丝不挂，去时一缕青烟。

1. Life is a whirlwind of emptiness, where gold is empty, silver is empty, fame is empty, profit is empty, power is empty, and status is empty. When coming, one arrives naked; when going, one leaves like a wisp of smoke.

2. 我们可以去追求，但如果求而不得，那就听凭上天的安排吧。最可怕的事实是，你求而不得，仍然放不下，总是耿耿于怀，忧愁苦闷，甚至愤世嫉俗，戾气深重，就是非常危险的事了。

2. We can pursue it, but if we cannot achieve what we seek, then let it be as heaven decides. The most terrifying fact is that if you cannot achieve what you seek, you still cannot let it go, you always harbor it in your heart, feeling melancholic and distressed, and even becoming cynical and having a strong sense of resentment, which can be very dangerous.

3. 如果李白在努力尝试过后，求而不得，就应该及时放下，更换自己的人生赛道。解开心结，放下期待，潇潇洒洒的去游山玩水，写诗饮酒，不也是人间值得吗？

3. If Li Bai, after making an effort and trying, still fails to obtain what he seeks, he should timely let go and change the track of his life. Unburden himself from the knots of worry, release his expectations, and go gallivanting around mountains and rivers, writing poetry and drinking wine. Isn't that also worth living in the world?

4. 人生最清醒的活法就是，求而不得，那就彻底放下吧！

4. The most sober way to live in life is to let go completely if you strive for something and cannot attain it!

5. 求不得，但又放不下，李白一直在借酒浇愁，直到生命结束。

5. Unable to attain what he desired, yet unable to let it go, Li Bai kept pouring his sorrows into wine until the end of his life.

6. 被人民日报中的一段话治愈了许久：“人生啊！哪有什么两全之策，短短百年，不过是教人取舍罢了。手持烟火以谋生，且行且忘且随风，且行且看且从容。生活一半烟火，一半清欢，人生一半清醒，一半释然。一苦一甜是生活，一朝一夕是日子。”

6. A passage from the People's Daily cured me for a long time: "Oh, life! Where is there such a thing as a perfect solution? In the brief span of a hundred years, life is merely about making choices. Holding smoke and fire to make a living, walking, forgetting, following the wind, watching, and being composed. Half of life is smoke and fire, and half is serene joy. Half of life is clear-headed, and half is released. Suffering and sweetness are life, and one day and one night are days."

7. 我在一篇文章中盛赞了徐霞客的人生态度。但一位网友评论：你应该去了解徐霞客，看看他早年是如何挖空心思谋取仕途的，只是挤不进去了才改换赛道，学会放下的。

7. I praised Xu Xiake's attitude towards life in an article. However, a netizen commented: "You should learn more about Xu Xiake and see how he meticulously sought a career in government during his early years, and only changed his track and learned to let go after being unable to make it in."

8. 官场不属于徐霞客，他就放下，去寻找山水。朝廷不属于李白，他放不下，一辈子都在与愁为伴。

8. The officialdom does not belong to Xu Xiake, so he lets it go and seeks the mountains and rivers. The court does not belong to Li Bai, so he cannot let it go, and he spends his entire life accompanied by sorrow.

9. 你渴望名利，渴望世俗意义上的成功和光鲜亮丽，没有错，但如果反复折腾都够不到，说明这些东西本就不该属于你，你应该去寻找属于自己的东西。

9. You yearn for fame and fortune, for世俗 sense of success and brilliance, and there is nothing wrong with that. But if you keep struggling and can't reach it, it indicates that these things were never meant to belong to you. You should go in search of what truly belongs to you.

10. 当年明月说：我为什么要写徐霞客，是为了告诉你，所谓功名利禄，和一件事情相比，实在是微不足道，那就是以自己喜欢的方式度过一生。

10. The Bright Moon of That Year said: "The reason I wrote about Xu Xiake is to tell you that, compared to a thing, so-called fame and fortune are truly trivial. That thing is to live a life in the way you like."

11. 我们都懂得这个道理，但根本就无法降服内心蠢蠢欲动的欲望，放下何其难哉！

11. We all understand this principle, but it is fundamentally impossible to subdue the restless desires within us, and it is indeed very difficult to let go!

12. 是啊，每个人都是世俗中人，谁也不能真正摆脱世俗的罗网，包括决意出家的释迦牟尼，也会惦记自己的老父亲，妻子和孩子。徐霞客当然不能免俗，我们每一个人亦是如此。对于功名利禄、金钱、性爱，都是刻在基因里的欲望，没有人不喜欢。

12. Indeed, everyone is caught in the mundane world, and no one can truly escape the snares of the secular world, not even the Buddha Shakyamuni, who had decided to renounce the world, would forget about his aging father, his wife, and his children. Xu Xiake, of course, could not avoid the mundane customs, and we are all the same. Desires for fame, fortune, wealth, and sexual love are ingrained in our genes, and no one dislikes them.

13. 最典型的例子是李白。他非常渴望做官，辅佐君王治国平天下，一展抱负，快意平生。然而，跌跌撞撞大半生，依然一事无成，一筹莫展，受尽冷眼和凄楚。如果认真的反思自己，就会发现，其实自己根本不适合做官，也没有做官的情商，资源和才干。

13. The most typical example is Li Bai. He was very eager to hold office, to assist the ruler in governing the country and pacifying the world, to give full play to his ambitions, and to live a carefree life. However, after a bumpy journey for most of his life, he still had nothing to show for his efforts, was at a loss for what to do, and endured cold glances and melancholy. If he seriously reflected on himself, he would find out that, in fact, he was not suited for office work, nor did he have the emotional intelligence, resources, or abilities required for a government position.

14. 当年明月在《明朝那些事》的末尾，浓墨重彩写下徐霞客的事迹，不喜欢功名利禄，蝇营狗苟，而是选择竹杖芒鞋，浪迹天涯，寄情山水，笑傲江湖。

14. In the end of that year, Mingyue wrote vividly about Xu Xiake's deeds in "Ming Dynasty: Those Matters." He disliked fame and wealth, and the sordid pursuit of power, but instead chose to travel the world with a bamboo staff and straw sandals, wandering wherever the wind took him, immersing himself in the scenery of mountains and rivers, and taking pride in his indifference to the world.

15. 我立即查找史书，发现徐霞客果然也想科举仕进，只是因种种原因，求官无望，才去终身旅行的。

15. I immediately searched through historical books and found that Xu Xiake indeed also wanted to pursue a career in the civil service through the imperial examination, but due to various reasons, he was unable to obtain a government post, so he chose to travel for the rest of his life.

16. 当李白始终都不放弃，总觉得会有一个赏识他的明君忽然出现，像请诸葛亮一样三顾茅庐，对他委以重任。因此，他一辈子都在期望和失望之间来回跌宕，命途多舛。

16. When Li Bai never gave up, always feeling that there would suddenly appear an enlightened ruler who would recognize him, just like inviting Zhuge Liang and paying him great importance by visiting the thatched cottage three times. Therefore, his entire life was filled with fluctuations between hope and disappointment, and his destiny was fraught with misfortunes.