1. 闭耳可以除烦，闭目可以静思，闭口可以远祸。

1. Closing one's ears can alleviate烦恼 (烦扰), closing one's eyes can lead to 静思 (calm thinking), and closing one's mouth can keep one from 远祸 (avoiding trouble).

2. 有钱不要花到精光；人言不要尽信；说话最好保留三分。

2. Don't spend all your money; don't believe everything people say; it's best to hold back three parts of what you say.

3. 如今我懂得了沉默是什么：沉默它一面是金，一面是毒药，当你正确的使用它时它会让你发光，可不正确使用时它会让你失去很多。至于怎样正确使用，方法是只要你做到问心无愧了，使用它自然会是正确的。

3. Now I understand what silence is: it is both gold and poison. When used correctly, it can make you shine, but when used incorrectly, it can cost you a lot. As for how to use it correctly, the method is: as long as you have no regrets in your heart, using it will naturally be correct.

4. 通过这个事件我也明白了：沉默，不仅仅代表着一言不发，还代表着爆发。

4. Through this event, I also realized: silence does not only represent not speaking, but also represents an outbreak.

5. 有智慧的人，总是把嘴巴放在心里；而愚昧之人反而把心放在嘴巴里。

5. The wise always keep their mouth in their heart; whereas the foolish put their heart in their mouth.

6. 即使你无条件地放低姿势，男人也不会有一丝心痛。他已经放下了过去，你也应该在爱情中做到潇洒。即使两个人分手了，也要留下最后的尊严。平静点，眼前的黑暗终将随风飘散。不要把自己想得太糟糕，你只是还没有遇到命中所爱。

6. Even if you lower yourself without any conditions, men will not feel a slightest pang of pain. He has let go of the past, and you should also be elegant in love. Even if the two of you split up, you should leave the last bit of dignity. Calm down, the darkness before you will eventually be scattered with the wind. Don't think too poorly of yourself; you have just not met the one you are destined to love.

7. 一般人总是自己忙着讲，智慧的人却是忙着听别人讲。

7. The general public is always busy talking, while the wise are busy listening to others.

8. 于是，周国平说：“对于沉溺于眼前锁屑享受的人，不足与言真正的欢乐。对于沉溺于眼前琐屑烦恼的人，不足与言真_正的痛苦。”由此，前者是生活在浅水喧哗之中的庸人，无可与之言。那么，什么样的人是与之言真正的欢乐与痛苦呢我认为，即是沉默如深水般的人。

8. Zhou Guoping then said, "For those who are immersed in trivial pleasures at hand, they are not worthy of discussing true joy. For those who are immersed in trivial troubles at hand, they are not worthy of discussing true suffering." From this, the former are the common folk living in the noisy shallows, with whom one cannot speak. So, what kind of people are worthy of discussing true joy and suffering? I believe, they are those who are as silent as deep waters.

9. 说话时我们只能重复自己所知，倾听时则是学习他人的知识。

9. When speaking, we can only repeat what we know, but when listening, we are learning others' knowledge.

10. 应当谨慎你的言词，因为它发自于你的灵魂深处。

10. Be careful with your words, for they come from the depths of your soul.

11. 发心做事，功德是自己的，如果批评别人，那就是又造口业了。

11. If you start a task with good intentions, the merits are yours. If you criticize others, that is another case of creating evil speech.

12. 只有最烂的车轮才会在行走时发出最大的噪音。

12. Only the worst wheels make the most noise while moving.

13. 沉默是反击一个人最好的态度。

13. Silence is the best attitude to counter a person.

14. 如今我学会了沉默，可沉默不再代表着内向，我仍旧开朗，仍旧能说会道。只是知道了什么时候该沉默，什么时候不该沉默而已。对于一些误解的事，只要自己问心无愧，解释过一次就可以了，不必非得解释的明明白白，或许有时候你认为你解释的够清楚了，可别人却以为你那么拼命的去解释，是为了掩饰什么，到头来还是一场空。倒不如自己无所谓些，那些不懂自己的人，让他们不懂去，而那些真正懂我们的人，真正对我们自己重要的人，什么误解，解释一次就可以了，因为他们会懂。

14. Now I have learned to be silent, but silence no longer represents introversion; I am still outgoing and able to communicate effectively. I just know when to be silent and when not to be. For some misunderstandings, as long as one has no qualms in their heart and has explained once, it is enough. There is no need to explain things clearly all the time. Perhaps sometimes you think you have explained things sufficiently clearly, but others may think that your desperate explanations are to conceal something, and in the end, it is all for nothing. It's better to not care too much about it yourself. Let those who do not understand you remain in their misunderstanding, and those who truly understand us, who are truly important to us, only need one explanation for any misunderstandings, because they will understand.

15. 沉默是金吗这个问题不止一次次的困扰着我，令我一次次的问自己沉默它是金吗而我也一直在寻找着那个属于我自己的答案。——题记

15. The question of whether silence is gold has troubled me time and time again, causing me to repeatedly ask myself, "Is silence gold?" And I have been searching for that answer that belongs to me own self. — Prologue

16. 女人的舌头，是在她整个身体中最后停止活动的“地方”。

16. A woman's tongue is the last "place" in her entire body to stop moving.

17. 他自吹自擂，你沉默，就代表了反感。

17. He boasts and you remain silent, which represents a sign of disapproval.

18. 有理不在声高，事实胜于雄辩，娓娓道来胜过言词激烈、咄咄逼人。有些事理，说不如不说好，干脆任其火烧牛皮自转弯。 “嘲谑”与“讥讽”，像严冬的冷风，常会刮伤人的脸。

18. Reason does not lie in loudness, facts are more persuasive than eloquence, and a gentle narration is superior to forceful and aggressive speech. Some matters are better left unsaid; it's better to let them twist and turn like a leather strap being burned. "Mockery" and "sarcasm" are like the cold wind of winter, often capable of cutting the face.

19. 宁愿玩游戏也不愿积极主动找你，两个人的感情形同虚设。即使女人无助，男人也不会改变态度。感情走到了尽头，终将迎来曲终人散的结局。要迅速做出决定，并不是每个人都值得等待。在生活中，有么多值得向往的事情，不要把感情看得太重，未来的生活会长久。面对男人的拒绝，女人必须及时做出判断。不要试图挽回这种不可能的关系，有些人注定会越走越远。

19. Rather than actively seeking you out, you prefer to play games, and the two of you have a relationship that is as if it doesn't exist. Even if a woman is in despair, a man will not change his attitude. When love comes to an end, it will eventually lead to the final separation. You need to make a quick decision, not everyone is worth waiting for. In life, there are so many things to look forward to, don't overvalue the feelings, and the future life will be long-lasting. When faced with a man's refusal, a woman must make a timely judgment. Don't try to save this impossible relationship, some people are destined to move further apart.

20. 联想到苦行中的佛陀是隐忍，是包容，是智慧，仿佛一团幽邃而祥和的深水，平静无声;想到用一点小利或小义议论不休的小市民们，是喧闹，是纷争，是庸俗，好似一摊露出水底乱石的浅水，喧哗纷扰。

20. Associating with the Buddha in his asceticism, he is patient,包容, and wise, resembling a profound and serene deep water, calm and silent; whereas thinking of the small-town folk who endlessly debate over trivial benefits or righteousness, they are noisy, contentious, and vulgar, like a shallow water with chaotic stones at the bottom, making a tumultuous commotion.

21. 若彼此之间已经没有任何话题了，你可以分享彼此共有的东西，那就是“沉默”。

21. If there are no more topics between us, you can share what we both have in common, which is "silence."

22. 当你话讲得过多之时，思考的能力已失去大半。

22. When you talk too much, you have lost most of your ability to think.

23. 对一件事唯一知道得最多的，往往是那个不露声色的人。

23. The person who knows the most about something is often the one who keeps a low profile.

24. 恶意盘诘，令他人难堪，图逞一时口业，将来必遭累劫之罪殃。

24. To maliciously interrogate others and make them feel ashamed, just to indulge in a moment of verbal prowess, will surely lead to incurring the misfortune of suffering repeatedly in the future.

25. 要做一个善于辞令的人，只有一个办法，就是学习听人家说话。

25. The only way to become a person who is good at eloquence is to learn to listen to others speak.

26. 沉默是一种修养的体现;沉默是一种实力的见证;沉默更是一种生活的交响。我又一次重新体会了沉默的深刻含义：沉默中爆发是一种壮观;爆发中沉默是一种冷静!

26. Silence is a manifestation of cultivation; silence is a testament to strength; silence is also a symphony of life. I once again deeply realized the profound meaning of silence: to erupt in silence is magnificent; to be silent in the midst of an eruption is calm!

27. 长大后，生活中许多事不再像小时候一样了，许多的事得自己去处理，也有许多的事由不得我。首先是一个人际关系吧，对于自己身边的朋友，不再像小时候那样了，虽然仍旧在一起，可心里却有了一定的隔膜。就像刚开始我还没有自己的房间一样，大家住一起，没什么秘密可以藏的住，可后来我有了一个属于自己的房间，多多少少藏了些秘密，慢慢的我有了一个属于自己的世界，藏下里许多属于自己的秘密，并沉浸在自己的世界里。或许你会说我沉浸在自己的世界里不是会变的很自私自利，可结果却不然，我沉浸在自己的世界里，只是选择沉默一样，不愿意多说些什么。

27. As I grew up, many things in life are no longer the same as when I was a child. Many things now have to be dealt with on my own, and there are also many things that are not up to me. First of all, there's interpersonal relationships. For my friends around me, it's no longer like it was when I was a child. Although we still hang out together, there is a certain level of estrangement in my heart. It's like when I first didn't have my own room; we all lived together, and there was nothing secret we could hide. But later, I got my own room, where I could hide some secrets to some extent. Gradually, I developed my own world, where I kept many secrets of my own, and immersed myself in my own world. Maybe you would say that by immersing myself in my own world, I would become very selfish and self-centered, but the result is not that. I immerse myself in my own world, just like choosing to be silent, not wanting to say much.

28. 如果说话的人，能懂得他说的是什么才敢说，那么地球便寂静得可怕。

28. If the speaker only dares to speak when they understand what they are saying, then the earth would be terrifyingly silent.

29. 既不会机智的谈吐，又不知道适时沉默，是很大的不幸。

29. Not having the knack for witty conversation and not knowing when to be silent is a great misfortune.

30. 女人感到无聊，男人必须立即停止联系。他还是会旁敲侧击地靠近女人，只是为了靠近女人。男人付出了这么多，只想得到女人的真诚回应。女人愿意接受男人的忏悔，男人必须继续坚持下去。不爱的时候无话可说，失去满腔热情就没必要联系。

30. When a woman feels bored, the man must immediately stop contacting her. He might still try to approach the woman indirectly, just to be close to her. The man has put in so much effort, hoping only to receive the woman's sincere response. If the woman is willing to accept the man's repentance, he must continue to persevere. When there is no love, there's nothing to say, and if he has lost all his passion, there's no need to keep in contact.

31. 器量狭小的人，就像那些窄口瓶一样，里面装得愈少，在倒出来时就愈大声。

31. People with narrow-mindedness are like those narrow-necked bottles; the less they contain, the louder they shout when emptied.

32. 作家笛安说:学会一个人生活，不管身边有没有人爱你。做你应该做的事，安全地对待你有没有爱。男人真的不爱你，女人的妥协就没有意义了。两个人注定不能长久，女人一定要体面地离开。是两个人的生活还是一个人的生活，都不会影响你的光彩。不要把希望寄托在任何人身上，靠自己的力量势不可挡。学会独立生活，做好你应该做的工作。你面前的男人不够爱你，爱你的人自然会珍惜你。一个已经忘记了两个人的过去，他的心再也容不下你了。

32. The writer Di'an said: Learn to live alone, no matter whether there is someone around to love you. Do what you should do, and treat your love or not safely. If a man really doesn't love you, the woman's compromise has no meaning. If two people are destined not to last long, the woman must leave with dignity. Whether it's two people's life or one person's life, it won't affect your brilliance. Don't place your hopes on anyone, relying on your own strength is irresistible. Learn to live independently and do the work you should do. The man in front of you doesn't love you enough, and the person who loves you will naturally cherish you. A man who has forgotten the past of the two of you can no longer accommodate you in his heart.

33. 真正有智慧的人不用多说，即能正确传达思想；愚昧之人即使滔滔不绝，也说不出所以然来。

33. A truly wise person needs no more words to convey their thoughts accurately; a foolish person may talk non-stop but still cannot express anything coherent.

34. 沉默是一种力量的积淀;沉默是一种修养的体现;沉默往往胜于雄辩。

34. Silence is the accumulation of strength; silence is the embodiment of cultivation; silence often surpasses eloquence.

35. 放弃了沉默，就相当于解释，而解释有时候却会被认为是掩饰。因为解释，有许多的朋友不再信任我，老师和家人也如此，他们不信我被他们误解，或说他们不愿承认他们误解了我吧。渐渐的，我回到了沉默，可很多时候沉默不是承认我有错，只是不想再去解释什么了，因为人很累，心也更累。

35. Giving up silence is akin to an explanation, and sometimes explanations are perceived as a cover-up. Because of explanations, many of my friends no longer trust me, and so do my teachers and family. They either don't believe I was misunderstood by them, or perhaps they are unwilling to admit that they misunderstood me. Gradually, I returned to silence, but often, silence is not an admission of my faults; it is simply a reluctance to explain anymore, because life is tiring, and the heart is even more weary.

36. 措词用得确当，是宝贵的工具；随意乱用，则甚为危险。

36. Appropriate wording is a valuable tool; misuse of it is extremely dangerous.

37. 他信口开河，你沉默，就代表了无视。

37. He talks carelessly, and you remain silent, it represents ignoring.

38. 纵使我们知道闲谈并不特别有用，且会使我们受缚于感官欲望……，人们仍然喜欢谈话。很快地，他们开始意见不合，终至诤论、吵闹。

38. Even though we know that idle talk is not particularly useful and can bind us to sensory desires..., people still enjoy conversing. Quickly, they begin to differ in opinions, eventually leading to disputes and arguments.

39. #高考# 导语沉默，有时也是智慧的表现。它并不代表懦弱，而是聪明地寻找解决问题的更好方法。 整理“高考优秀作文范文：以沉默为话题”，以供大家参考，希望可以帮助到大家，感谢大家的阅读与支持！

39. #Gaokao# Introduction: Silence, sometimes, is a manifestation of wisdom. It does not represent weakness, but rather a clever approach to seeking better ways to solve problems. I have compiled a "Gaokao Outstanding Essay Sample: Taking Silence as the Topic" for everyone's reference, hoping it can help you. Thank you for your reading and support!

40. 他夸夸其谈，你沉默，就代表了不屑。

40. If he talks boastfully and you remain silent, it signifies disdain.

41. 一个男人不联系，那只能说明他已经忘记了。冷漠的人自私自利，自始至终都在为自己着想。男人没有直接表达自己的心意，只是以沉默的方式反击女人。两人之间失去了感情的祝福，两人之间再也没有必要联系。

41. If a man stops contacting someone, it can only mean that he has forgotten. A cold person is selfish and self-centered, always thinking of themselves from start to finish. The man did not directly express his feelings but responded to the woman in silence. The couple has lost the blessing of affection, and there is no longer any need for contact between them.

42. 你们的爱不明显，总是保持沉默，可我们却总感到满满的爱。你们不会用语言告诉我们，你们很疼我们，却总是将沉默送给我们。谢谢你们，爸爸妈妈，让我从沉默中走过。

42. Your love is not overt, always keeping silent, yet we always feel so full of love. You don't use words to tell us that you care for us, but you always give us silence instead. Thank you, Mom and Dad, for letting me walk through the silence.

43. 病痛中的史铁生接受着隔三差五的肾透析治疗，这无疑是对本身就残缺的躯体又一次沉重的打击。比起透析前后的痛苦与煎熬，中间这几天是何其宝贵，而史铁生省下了呻 吟哀嚎的时间，还生命一丝短暂的宁静。利用间隙的时光与灵魂对话，思考人生哲理。而《病隙碎笔》就是这份深遂与沉着的诠释。试想，他若单单沉溺于眼前的痛楚，顾影自怜，难免有抱怨，有愤懑。于是，就会产生许多无用的噪音。而此时生命一旦喧嚣闹腾起来，亦就无法感悟生死的意义，体悟人生的真谛，也就无法从容而平静的面对生死，便进入了下一段喧哗的循环。如此，只会让身体更加疲倦，心灵更为彷徨。

43. Shi Tiesheng, enduring pain, received kidney dialysis treatments at irregular intervals, which undoubtedly was another heavy blow to his already defective body. Compared to the suffering and torment before and after dialysis, those few days in between were invaluable. Shi Tiesheng saved the time for moaning and wailing, and brought a momentary tranquility to his life. He used these intervals to converse with his soul, pondering the philosophy of life. "Chronicles of Illness" is an interpretation of this profound and composed state of mind. Imagine if he had simply immersed himself in the pain of the moment, wallowing in self-pity, it would have been inevitable for him to complain and feel resentful. As a result, there would have been many useless noises. When life becomes noisy and tumultuous at this point, one cannot感悟 the meaning of life and death, comprehend the truth of life, nor can one face life and death with composure and calmness, thus entering into another cycle of noise. In this way, it would only make the body more exhausted and the soul more lost.

44. 言语就像树叶般，愈是茂密的树叶，愈是难找到丰美的智慧果子。

44. Speech is like leaves; the denser the leaves, the harder it is to find the fruitful fruits of wisdom.

45. 如果你能记着，除非你是律师或医生，使听你话的人，必须付费，否则人们并不会听你的规劝，那么你可以省却许多不必要的谈话了。 唯一越常用便越锐利的工具，便是利舌。

45. If you can remember that unless you are a lawyer or a doctor, the people who listen to you must be paid, otherwise people will not heed your advice, then you can save yourself many unnecessary conversations. The only tool that becomes sharper with more frequent use is the tongue.

46. 士君子一言当百，不可多言取厌，虚言取薄，轻言取侮。

46. A gentleman's word is worth a hundred, and he should not speak too much to avoid being disliked. He should not speak hollow words to be belittled, nor light words to be insulted.

47. 高能量的人敬人，低能量的人才会欺负人。对于低能量的人，冲突和对抗是低智行为，沉默才是最好的反击。

47. People with high energy respect others, while those with low energy tend to bully. For those with low energy, conflict and confrontation are acts of low intelligence, and silence is the best form of retaliation.

48. 年轻同事阿华一次因事迟到，小领导当众大骂。阿华忍不可忍，飙出更凌厉的语言和他对吼，小领导气瘪，灰溜溜撤退了。

48. Young colleague Ah Hua was late for a meeting once due to an incident, and the junior leader scolded him in public. Ah Hua couldn't bear it any longer and unleashed a more severe torrent of words, shouting back at him. The junior leader was flustered and retreated in a hurry.

49. 人们过于依赖语言的功能，却忘了沉默的力量。

49. People over-rely on the functions of language, but forget the power of silence.

50. 从来没有人，因为吞下尚未出口的恶语，而伤了自己的肠胃。

50. No one has ever hurt their own stomach by swallowing words of malice that have not yet been uttered.

51. 狗的一直沉默终于换来了主人的清醒，它让主人真正的理解了狗的忠诚。

51. The dog's constant silence finally brought the owner to clarity, allowing the owner to truly understand the dog's loyalty.

52. 只有狗在门口沉默地蹲着，忠于职守地看家护院。猪越来越胖，贼就惦记起了它。有一天就来偷猪了，狗看见了奋不顾身地去咬贼也受伤了。后来主人知道了自己被愚弄的这件事，每逢过年就将猪杀了，也把猫赶走了……从此，猫也落得个“一世臣”的骂名!

52. Only the dog sat silently at the gate, faithfully guarding the house. The pig kept getting fatter, and the thief started to covet it. One day, the thief came to steal the pig, and the dog, seeing this, rushed to bite the thief at the expense of its own injury. Later, the owner found out about this deception and, every New Year, he would kill the pig and also drive away the cat... From then on, the cat also earned the infamous title of "a lifelong servant"!

53. 稠人广众之中，不可极口议论，非惟惹祸，亦且伤人。

53. In a crowded place with many people, one should not speak excessively about others, as not only will it bring trouble, but it may also hurt people.

54. 人一口，则为合。也许当年造字的老袓宗早就暗示我们，人生一世，少开尊口方是“合”理。 沉默之成为巨大的力量，一如黑色聚集所有的光线。

54. When one person speaks, it is harmony. Perhaps the ancient ancestors who created the characters already hinted to us that in a lifetime, keeping one's mouth shut is the essence of "harmony." Silence becomes a great force, just as darkness gathers all the light.

55. 沉默永远不会出卖你，所以保持沉默便是保护自己的安全。

55. Silence will never betray you, so keeping silent is the way to protect your own safety.

56. 我是个双子座，拥有着双子典型的性格——双重性格。有时候我喜欢一个人静静的思索，思索着某些事，某些人，还有自己的人生，甚至思索这个世界。可有时候我却会耐不住那安静的氛围，非得闹出一些热闹的事来，喜欢和身边的人斗嘴，喜欢反驳别人对我的批评，就算他们批评的是对的，我嘴上也不会那么轻易的承认，但心里却早就接受了他们正确的批评。或许就是因为这种性格，导致小时候的我总会遭受别人不同的看法，那些大人说我内向，胆子小。而在玩伴的心中却是个截然不同的我，在他们眼中我是个很会说的人，也很会做些令人不敢想象的事，可在他们心中我都有个共同的特点，那就是脾气好，不会那么容易生气。

56. I am a Gemini, and I possess the typical Gemini personality—dual nature. Sometimes, I enjoy being alone to ponder over certain things, certain people, and even my own life, and even ponder over this world. However, at other times, I can't bear the quiet atmosphere and have to stir up some lively events. I enjoy arguing with those around me and defending myself against others' criticisms, even if they are right. I wouldn't easily admit it with my mouth, but I have already accepted their correct criticisms in my heart. Perhaps it is because of this personality that, when I was little, I always suffered from different opinions from others. Those adults said I was introverted and lacked courage. But in the hearts of my playmates, I was a completely different person. In their eyes, I was someone who could talk a lot and also do some unimaginable things. However, they all had a common characteristic in their hearts, that is, I had a good temper and wasn't easily angered.

57. 小领导尤其喜欢拿捏新进的年轻人，稍不顺心就污言秽语狂轰滥炸。

57. The junior leaders particularly like to play with the new young people, bombarding them with profanity and curses at the slightest provocation.

58. 那些习惯纠正别人的人，是最惹人厌也最没有人缘的。

58. Those who are accustomed to correcting others are the most disliked and the least popular.

59. 不会叫的狗会咬死人，无浪的水面则能淹死人。

59. A dog that won't bark can kill a person, and a calm surface of water can drown a person.

60. 沉默不语是一种严格的自制工作，能控制说话的欲望。

60. Remaining silent is a strict exercise of self-control, which can control the desire to speak.

61. 低能量的人，不值得你消耗时间和精力与之周旋。

61. People with low energy are not worth your time and effort to deal with.

62. 小领导人前败阵，人后想方设法找回面子，逢人就大骂阿华，还四处造谣，把阿华说得一无是处。

62. The small leader was defeated in front, but tried to regain face afterwards. He cursed Ahua at every opportunity and spread rumors everywhere, painting Ahua in a completely negative light.

63. 他还没有想好表达的方式，只能一言不发地拒绝你。不爱的时候无动于衷，女人的一切都与男人无关。女人试图在朋友圈里展示自己现在的生活，男人却假装看不见。女人仍然高兴地期待着男人的问候，但男人已经开始了下一项工作。

63. He hasn't decided on a way to express it yet, so he can only refuse you without saying a word. When he doesn't love you, he is indifferent, and everything about a woman has nothing to do with a man. A woman tries to show her current life in her circle of friends, but a man pretends not to see. The woman still happily looks forward to the man's greetings, but the man has already started on his next task.

64. 未事不多言语，临事不动声色，既事不伐功能。

64. Not many words before the event, not showing emotion when faced with the event, and not boasting about one's abilities after the event.

65. 当人家不发一言而只是点头时，就是你该停止说话的时候了。

65. When people do not say a word but just nod, it is time for you to stop talking.

66. 单位有一个小领导，有非常突出的性格缺陷，心智严重不成熟，经常无缘无故对别人破口大骂，脏话连篇无下限。还公开给自己和亲信谋利益，吃相很难看。

66. The unit has a small leader who has very prominent personality defects, is seriously immature in mind, and often curses others for no apparent reason, with a stream of profanity without limits. Additionally, they openly seek benefits for themselves and their trusted followers, with a very unattractive demeanor.

67. 情人节里，情人手中娇艳欲滴的玫瑰,浪漫温馨的烛光晚餐,山盟海誓会彼此守候一生……如此这般就拥有了至死不渝的爱情吗爱，不是说出来的，伟大圣洁的爱情在相濡以沫几十年的夫妻心里。

67. On Valentine's Day, the lovers hold in their hands the bright and juicy roses, enjoy the romantic and warm candlelit dinner, and solemnly promise to cherish each other for a lifetime... Does such a scenario truly guarantee an eternal love? Love is not just a word; the great and sacred love is found in the hearts of couples who have been together and supported each other through decades.

68. 子女们很担心老人，怕他想不开，但姥爷慈祥地笑着，指着心窝说:“孩子，你的妈妈她没走，她在我这里。姥爷一直健康地生活着。

68. The children were very worried about the elderly, fearing he might not be thinking straight, but Grandpa smiled kindly, pointing to his chest and saying, "Child, your mother hasn't left; she's here with me. Grandpa has been living a healthy life."

69. 姥姥对姥爷瞒着自己的病情，姥爷以为姥姥不知道自己的病情，他们什么也没说。姥姥吃不下饭，姥爷天天为姥姥端出蛋汤，姥姥艰难地下咽，却仍对姥爷微笑着。

69. Grandma kept her illness from Grandpa, and Grandpa thought Grandma was unaware of her condition, so they said nothing. Grandma couldn't eat, and Grandpa made her egg soup every day. Grandma struggled to swallow it, yet she still smiled at Grandpa.

70. 关于寡言，就是只说必要的。并不是说应该完全禁语，而是应该只说有用和必要的话。

70. Regarding the quality of being laconic, it means to speak only what is necessary. It does not mean to completely refrain from speaking, but rather to only say words that are useful and necessary.

71. 选择了沉默，就相当于内向。因为沉默，我慢慢的发现我新的朋友很少很少，就算有也不是那种特要好的，只是见了会互相微笑的那种;因为沉默，新的老师很难理解我，不适应我的教学方式频繁发生在我身上;因为沉默，学习下降，家人总是误解我;因为沉默，我错过了很多人很多机会。后来，我摆脱了沉默，开始了双子另一个的性格，我变的开朗，变的能说会道，朋友多了，老师找到了适合这个时候的我的教学方式，家人不再一味的误解我，因为我解释过了。本以为我找到了一个正确的处事待人的方法，但慢慢的，我又出了一个新问题。

71. Choosing silence is akin to being introverted. Because of silence, I gradually realized that I have very few, if any, close new friends; if there are any, they are just the kind who smile at each other when they meet; because of silence, new teachers find it hard to understand me, and it frequently happens that my teaching style is not adapted to them; because of silence, my studies decline, and my family always misunderstands me; because of silence, I missed many people and many opportunities. Later, I overcame my silence and started to exhibit the other side of the Gemini's character. I became outgoing and eloquent, gained more friends, and teachers found a teaching style suitable for me at that time. My family no longer misunderstood me unilaterally, because I had explained it. I thought I had found a correct method for dealing with people and situations, but slowly, I encountered a new problem.

72. 弘一法师：“总有一些行为让你寒了心，总有一些语言让你突然酸了心；总有一些态度让你突然伤了心；也许沉默就是你最好的回应。”

72. Master Hongyi: "There are always some actions that chill your heart, some words that suddenly make your heart sour; some attitudes that suddenly hurt your heart. Perhaps silence is your best response."

73. 猪也像猫一眼耍起了心眼也不干活了，只有在主人回来的时候，才装模作样的连嘴都用来拱地……主人一看，太辛苦了，于是就给猪好多吃的。所以现在大家都会看到，猪吃食的样子……

73. The pigs, like cats, started playing tricks and stopped working as well. They only pretend to be busy, even using their mouths to dig the ground, when the owner returns... Upon seeing this, the owner felt too tired and decided to give the pigs a lot of food. That's why now everyone can see the way pigs eat...

74. 不必说而说，这是多说，多说要招怨；不当说而说，这是瞎说，瞎说要惹祸。

74. To speak when there's no need to is to speak too much, and too much talking will attract resentment; to speak when it's not appropriate is to speak without sense, and senseless talking will bring trouble.